Issue 2, Winter 2005
E-ZINE
Official Publication of the Association for Thought Field Therapy Issue 2, Winter 2005 Suzanne Connolly
Thought Field Therapy in the Middle East Front: Intisar Al-Haddad, Manal Al-Musallam (sponsor), Kkhayal Al-Bader by Middle: Muneera Al-Ghanim, Suzanne Connolly (trainer), Omyma Al-Baddah, Sushila Suzanne Connolly, TFT-Dx Taylor, Nadia Amin Back: Farah Talal Al-Musallam, Dr. Sahar Shaqeidef, Aisha Al-Badar, Buthatna Al-Howly, Altaf Al- Sabah The ship, owned by the Hotel (SAS Much has happened in Kuwait since Radisson), is where Kuwait’s first Sadam Hussein sent his ill-fated army Thought Field Therapy training took In This Issue of Iraqi Soldiers into Kuwait. The Ku- place. The large ship contained several wait Towers have been rebuilt and are TFT in Kuwait...... 1 meeting rooms and grand ballrooms and once again a popular tourist attraction. is a far cry in size and splendor to those Homes and hotels that were destroyed President’s Message 2 original fishing vessels. While I was have risen once again like Phoenix’s presenting the Algorithm Training, an from the ashes. It is a bustling metrop- elaborate Kuwaiti wedding ceremony TFT with Animals..... 3 olis with crowds of white robed men (the bride’s part which I was invited to and colorfully robed women. And, the peek in on) took place in an adjoining Roger on P.R...... 4 Thought Field Therapy Training that ballroom and in the main foyer an Em- had been planned two years ago by my bassy Dinner was being held. Despite Kuwaiti sponsor but cancelled due to Case Study...... 6 it’s grandeur, the wooden meeting the U.S. led invasion of Iraq has finally room/ ship was built true to the style of taken place. the original fishing boats complete with Quantifying Toxins.. 9 A group of 14 women, mostly wooden nails and it has a permanent Kuwaiti’s assembled in a large ship doc in the beautiful Arabian Gulf. Marketing Tips...... 12 modeled after the fishing boats used by Kuwaiti’s refer to the body of water we the original occupants of the territory in the West now call the Persian Gulf as that is now Kuwait. A Good Day’s Work.. 14 the Arabian Gulf. Kuwaiti’s point out - Continued on Page 2 - Carolyn Sakai...... 16 ATFT UPdate TFT in Kuwait (Continued from Page 1) that they are the decedents of Arabs not Persians. The Training took place over three evenings and the group of women expressed delight that the group, by accident not design, turned out to be composed exclusively of women which led to a more casual and less restrictive atmosphere. The attendees were warm PRESIDENT’S Mary Cowley, Ph.D. and friendly and kisses on both checks ATFT President were exchanged frequently. These women had attended many trainings MESSAGE I am also pleased to report that Dr. arranged by my sponsor but they Caroline Sakai has joined Dr. Roger repeatedly expressed that the Dear ATFT Members, Callahan as co-chair of the Scientific information they were receiving during Archives committee, which is currently the TFT Training was the most helpful. I am pleased to welcome you to the collecting materials that will help All problems presented for treatment second issue of the “ATFT Update”. facilitate the understanding of Thought were quickly resolved with the simple Our TFT community has been greatly Field Therapy, and which will be posted TFT Algorithms. On the last evening expanding, and with it, the need and on the ATFT web site, www.atft.org, one young woman who had been opportunities to share news, ideas, and for member access. These will include treated by me in front of the group as a practical tips and tools related to the scientific articles and studies related to demonstration said to me “I promise practice and growth of Thought Field TFT; references (and links, if possible) that I will think of you every day for Therapy. I invite you to enjoy this e- to articles on Heart Rate Variability the rest of my life for what you have zine issue, where you will find an from the medical literature and relevant done for me.” It is a warm and abundance of articles on TFT, practice to TFT; references to published wonderful thought that this young tips, and other information. scientific studies related to toxins; woman from another culture on the As announced in the inaugural issue, books that have been influential in the other side of the world might be the ATFT Board of Directors declared development of, and/or have some thinking of me. this the “Year of Growth”, and indeed it relevance to, TFT theory; and Suzanne Connolly is a Licensed Clinical is proving to be such. Our membership opportunities for grants and funding to Social Worker, Marriage and Family do future scientific research on TFT. Therapist, Independent Substance Abuse is continually increasing. Through the Counselor, and TFT Trainer leadership of David Hanson we are The growth of TFT in areas of the adding to the practical tools and tips we world that suffer from disasters or can offer members, to help them epidemic disease is a main goal of the increase their success with TFT and ATFT Foundation, and I invite you all grow their practices. to read the encouraging article about the Many of us can benefit greatly from Foundation’s efforts by Ms. Joanne help with marketing what we do, and Callahan, Foundation President. we are very fortunate to have David’s Regarding TFT help for trauma victims, expertise and willingness to share it. if you know any victims of a disaster or I have used TFT with several The number of approved algorithm anyone who has access to them, you can “ trauma patients (RTA victims, trainers is also growing, along with the now refer them to the ATFT web site, traumatic losses, assault Board of Director’s focus on this vital where Roger and Joanne Callahan have victims) with some amazing area. I’m pleased to announce that Dr. been generous enough to allow us to results. Intrusive images and Jennifer Edwards recently accepted the post Chapter 3 of “Stop the Nightmares of Trauma”, enabling anyone in the nightmares were totally gone chairmanship of the Algorithm Training
world to learn the simple steps to after one session. Thank you committee, and will be looking at ways
to improve training materials, protocol trauma relief quickly and at no cost. for developing“ such a brilliant Warm regards to you all, and may I treatment, which is so easy to and standards, as well as expand the invite you to please let us know if there use. types of TFT-related workshops trainers can offer. is something in particular you’d like to - Psychotherapist - Denmark see in the next issue of the “ATFT Update”. We love your input. Issue 2, Winter 2005 offered to introduce me to the manager. After some convincing – and resolving of ‘test’ cases – I soon became a regu- lar visitor and used TFT successfully with a number of dogs in their care. It was here that I met Tazzy three years ago. One day when I went into the center I was told that a traumatized dog had been brought in and I was asked if I would do some TFT with her. Tazzy was a one year old German Shepherd crossbreed whom I first saw cowering in a corner of her kennel. If anyone talked to her as they walked past, and especially if they went into her kennel, she tried to retreat even further into the wall. She was to be featured in a television program about rescued ani- mals and the producers planned to film Picture above: Tazzy, the author’s dog, cowering in her kennel, before the TFT treatment. the TFT as part of her story. It was clear that it would not be fair to the dog, nor necessarily safe, for me I am writing this article with Tazzy, and a jaw large enough to sink his teeth to go straight into the kennel with the a happy, confident dog, asleep next to into my elbow while I was combing TV crew and attempt to do TFT – which me. She is the dog who was a star at the him. After tapping for anxiety, anger is what the producer had envisioned. recent London Step B training where and rage he lay on my knee and seemed I was told that I could have as much she was happy to be ‘tapped’ in front of quite relaxed while I combed out the time as I needed and so I sat outside her a group of more than seventy people. tangles. Ben, our rescue cat, who had run and put my attention on her while This may not sound especially impres- probably been trampled in his former tapping myself. She began to look at me sive but few people who knew her his- life, used to turn into a spitting, hissing and stopped pressing herself against the tory would have expected her to be so ball of teeth and claws when his feet wall. We were soon able to open the relaxed. were touched. He calmed down and door and I went into the run, sat on the Tazzy provides a constant demon- started to tolerate being handled. floor in the corner, and continued tap- stration of the transformations that can A friend’s horse, Dignity, had a pho- ping myself. happen with TFT, as well as offering bia of anything that looked like a whip; She began to move towards me and I many timely reminders that we still she changed within minutes and let us was able to shuffle towards her. Soon I have much to learn. Whilst TFT can be wave a whip around her back and her was able to touch her and tap some of demonstrated to be highly effective with head. (For the record, Dignity’s owner the meridian points for trauma, fear and animals, the process of working with did not want to use a whip – she wanted anxiety. She responded and just a few them is more complex than with hu- to resolve Dignity’s fears which could minutes later she was trying to lick the mans (primarily because we do not have sometimes have dangerous consequenc- camera lens and to eat the fur cover two way verbal communication with es.) from the microphone. This was a quan- them) and has often led me to try ap- Charlie, a friend’s horse who would tum leap from the cowering dog that we proaches that I would not have needed not have his mane hogged (clipped) had had seen earlier that day. if I worked only with human clients. previously been labeled ‘too dangerous’ I continued to visit Tazzy and to do I first heard that TFT could be used by three professionals who had at- more TFT with her and the filming of with animals more than five years ago tempted it and said that they would not her story was completed over the next during my TFT Diagnostic training. want to try again. He settled down few days. When the program was even- Since then I have used TFT with ani- within two TFT sessions and since then tually shown on national television mals whenever the opportunity has pre- has let his owner hog his mane on her there was no mention of TFT and no sented itself, including the following own. pictures of TFT being used with Tazzy, examples. Around that time I had a client but there was ample evidence of the ma- My first candidate was one of my (human) whose phobia was easily dealt jor change that had taken place. So cats, Buster, a large Maine Coon with a with using TFT. He was connected much so that the handler said on camera coat that often needed to be detangled with a local animal rescue center and “She’s just amazing. She’s come round
TFT with Animals - Continued on Page 5 - ATFT UPdate Dr. Roger Callahan on ... Psychological Reversal
As most of you know, psychological pr is corrected (usually in seconds) the reversal (PR) was the first (1979) dis- same treatment, which did nothing the covery in TFT . For a number of moment before, suddenly works. months, I knew when PR was present, I When I named this phenomenon knew that it was not good because it about 25 years ago, I used the term was predominant among my most recal- "reversal" as a metaphor. Later, I found citrant clients It was quite thrilling, sev- reasons to believe that there is much eral months later, to finally be able to more than a metaphor going on and I discover the treatments that corrected now believe there is a literal reversal of a sensitive voltmeter placing the elec- PR. The therapy for PR is one of the polarity in parts of the body associated trodes on different parts of the body. key factors contributing to the extraor- with PR. First, a little dinary high success rate of TFT. I con- background. The results were as follows: jecture that if it were not known how to Soon after I first discovered PR, I treat PR, then our success rate would found that each client (in a general psy- No malignant condition likely be about 40% to 60% less than it chotherapy practice) who happened to Positive polarity 74 is. have cancer also had a PR. (Most of Negative polarity 4 PR prevents or blocks otherwise those who have a PR, however, do not 95% of the normal group showed the successful treatments from working. have cancer.) Another psychologist who measured polarity to be positive. For a good example of this interesting took my training, Dr Lee Shulman, who phenomenon see the video called Intro- specialized in treating cancer patients Those with malignancy duction to TFT. Find the part where I found all his patients showed PR. Positive polarity 5 treat Tom Snyder for his fear of I had heard of Harold Saxton Burr Negative polarity 118 going up a ladder. Observe how my who was a biologist at Yale. He be- 96% of this group showed polarity to be treatment has no effect on his fear. lieved and established, using a sensitive negative. Then, after correcting the PR, I re- voltmeter, that all living things had po- peat the very same treatment which a larity (see his book Blueprint for Im- Cancer group: 96% negative polarity moment earlier had no effect on Tom. mortality). One of his students, Louis His fear is immediately gone and he Langman, went on to become a gyne- Non cancer (normal group): 5% nega- climbs the ladder with ease. cologist and then a professor of gyne- tive polarity cology at New York University. Following is a small portion of what Langman believed that cancer was basi- The cancer group has a striking pre- I wrote on PR in the Glossary of “Stop cally a problem with field forces in the ponderance of women showing a rever- the Nightmares of Trauma” by Callahan body and he measured his patients with sal of normal polarity. This finding and Callahan: the same voltmeter that Burr used. To correlates with what Dr. Shulman and I check his idea he examined cellular di- found re identifying psychological re- PSYCHOLOGICAL REVERSAL (PR) agnosed cases of cancer under blind versal with a muscle test. A state or condition which blocks natu- conditions; that is, the pathologist and Dr. Langman then studied an addi- ral healing and prevents otherwise ef- Dr. Langman did not know who was tional 737 patients who had a benign fective treatments from working. who. He compared these cases (in mea- gynecological condition. He found that Evidence, surements of body polarity by Burr's in this group 611 showed a positive apart from the PR test for the state of pr method) to normal individuals. The polarity and 126 were negative; i.e., is revealed when an otherwise effective measurement of polarity was done with 83% positive and 17% negative. treatment does nothing - then after the
Psychological Reversal (Continued on next page) Issue 2, Winter 2005 (Continued from Page 4) TFT with Animals easily as a dog actually being aggres- A further strong confirmation of - Continued from Page 3 - sive. All of us who have dogs need to Langman's relationship between polar- be aware of this (even a member of the so well in just a short space of time. ity and cancer received strong support British Royal Family found herself in You wouldn’t think that this is the same from the fact that when cancerous tu- court recently). It is not difficult to dog that was cowering in the back of mors were surgically removed the po- imagine that if a dog had TFT one day the kennel just a few days ago.” It was larity changed from negative to positive and bit someone the next, or was even a pity that TFT didn’t get the recogni- (Langman, in Burr 1972, p 144). over-exuberant, an anxious owner tion it deserved. Werner Loewenstein is one the might say that ‘he wouldn’t have done Not long afterwards, Tazzy came world's experts on intercellular that if he hadn’t been tapped’. This home with me and she has now been communication. In his book (1999) he would not be helpful for either the TFT with us for three years As well as the states: "Let us check briefly on the per- practitioner or for the public image of pleasure of having her, I have had the formance of [these units of information] TFT. opportunity to use TFT with Tazzy over reception and transmission] to see how I am convinced from my experi- a long period. I have been able to no- ences that TFT can be used very effec- well they measure up to that promise. tice what has worked and what hasn’t, tively to help animals although working First, their directionality. To get a as well as identifying some of the is- with them is not as straightforward as message through a communication sues involved in rehoming a trauma- working with humans. I cannot, as I channel, the information flowing tized dog of which I would otherwise would with a human, ask an animal through it must have a direction. In the have been unaware. about its problems, nor ask them how channels of our technology, the direc- Despite major changes she has badly they feel on a 1-10 scale, nor use tion is given by irreversible (one-way) made, Tazzy’s rehabilitation has some- language to identify the thought fields transmission stations. This is also true times seemed a slow process. However, that may be involved. for the intercellular channels, though I have met other people who have re- It has been the practice to say that there may be an occasional reversible homed rescue dogs and many of them when working with animals we may be demon too along the line. But it's the have said to me that their dogs have dealing with perceptual fields rather irreversible ones who bring home the never regained their confidence or that than thought fields, in the belief that it bacon - they are the ones who get the at best the process has taken many is more likely that animals react only in message through (pp 194-195). years. Tazzy has certainly demonstrated the presence of a stressor. Whilst I al- What does all this mean? Well, I that this does not always have to be the ways teach an owner a tapping se- think it means that when you correct a case. quence so that they can use it with their PR you are actually changing the polar- So what have I learned about using animal when it is stressed I am not per- ity in a system which was blocked by TFT with animals? The first thing to sonally convinced by this argument. It an error in polarity. You are unblocking mention is that in the UK anyone who seems to me that a key issue is not this system and this allows the healing wants to use TFT with animals must whether or not animals have thought energy to flow freely; the treatment you take account of the law and it is advis- fields, but of how they can be accessed, do after the PR correction now can able that any TFT practitioner wanting especially when the animal is not in the work. The healing message can get to use TFT checks the legal situation in stressful situation. through. their own locality. In the UK the Veter- There is undoubtedly more to be inary Act states that it is against the law discovered and much of it is likely to References: for anyone other than a veterinary sur- help to understand more about other Burr, H.S. and Northrup, F.S.C The geon to diagnose and treat an animal. It applications of TFT. As one of the par- electrodynamic theory of life. 1935, is therefore important to make it clear ticipants in London said to me, “I Quarterly Review of Biology. p322-333 that we are working with behavioral wasn’t looking forward to hearing problems and not health issues, and about working with animals as I’m not Burr, H (1972) Blueprint for Immortali- even then the application of the law is interested in doing that – but I learned ty: The electric patterns of life: uncertain. Those of us who are not vet- so much from the presentation with London: Neville Spearman. erinarians are, however, able to work Tazzy about how to use TFT with hu- with animals under the supervision of a mans, too”! Callahan, R and Callahan, J (2002) Stop veterinary practitioner and to use TFT the Nightmares of Trauma. Chapel with our own animals. Hill, Professional Press We also have the Dangerous Dogs Jo Cooper is a Diagnostically trained CT-TFT Act which can be applied to any dog practitioner who resides in the UK. She not only Loewenstein, W. (1999) The Touch- whose behavior can be perceived by works with humans, but with animals as well. stone of Life: Molecular information, anyone as dangerous. This could apply Visit her internet website at: cell communication, and the founda- to a dog bouncing up to a child, just as www.thoughtfieldtherapy.co.uk/animals.html tions of life. NY: Oxford University Press. ATFT UPdate was an artist, reported that he had al- rience of “touching for his or her own ways been attracted to Nancy’s curves. pleasure.” The reason Bill felt like he was distanc- Toward the end of our therapy ses- ing himself from Nancy had nothing to sion, Bill mentioned that he reacted with do with Nancy’s body. Bill perceived intense anxiety when Nancy expressed Nancy as controlling and he reported any disappointment in him. Bill stated that Nancy frequently demeaned him. that he reacted to Nancy’s frequent ex- Nancy had frequently been critical of pressions of disappointment by emo- Bill’s sexual performance and Bill felt tionally and physically withdrawing. intimidated by Nancy. He felt that Eventually Bill’s anxiety would build to Nancy put the responsibility for their a point where he would experience an- sexual difficulties solely on him and he ger and resentment and rather, than act- needed Nancy to acknowledge that she, ing out, Bill would react by retreating too, was a part of the problem. Addi- even further within. This resulted in Bill tionally, Bill felt that Nancy did not al- being distant and emotionally unavail- low him any space for his feelings and able, and I suggested that we try using opinions. Thought Field Therapy with the thought In doing a brief family of origin his- that reducing Bill’s anxiety around tory, Bill reported that his mother had Nancy’s expressions of disappointment been chronically ill. He described his might help him stay more present to mother as someone who controlled by work on the relationship. In our session, using her illness. Due to his mother’s Bill had no problem working up an anx- neediness and dependence on him, there iety with a SUD of about nine just had been no room in his childhood for thinking about the possibility of Nancy Bill’s feelings. expressing disappointment in him. Us- Bill stated that he very much wanted his relationship with Nancy to include sexual intimacy, but Nancy, he said, was difficult to please and Bill never Prepared and submitted by felt adequate. To make matters worse, Nancy frequently compared Bill to past Suzanne Connolly, TFT-Dx lovers. Bill and Nancy had been married for Despite his willingness to address six years and had not had sexual inter- the issue of sexual intimacy, Bill ex- course for the past three. They ex- pressed a great feeling of relief when he plained to me that they were each learned that their therapy would initially experiencing such severe emotional pain begin with a no-sex contract, as he and ing the simple Thought Field Therapy that they would either reach their goal Nancy began the traditional Master’s anxiety algorithm, Bill soon reported an of becoming sexually intimate or they and Johnson Sensate Focus, or touching absence of anxiety or fear when think- would divorce, and continue on with exercises. ing about Nancy expressing disappoint- their lives separately. Nancy felt that In the first Sensate Focus exercise, ment. Bill had lost interest in her. She felt re- partners meet at an agreed upon time. The next day I saw Nancy for her jected by him and suspected and feared In most cases they wear no clothing. individual appointment. Nancy stated that he had lost interest due to the fact One partner, (the toucher), explores the that her marriage had felt like six years that she had gained weight. other partner’s (the touchee’s) body of continual rejection. She added that After their initial interview, I met with the goal of experiencing how it sex with Bill, from her perspective, had with Nancy and Bill individually one feels to touch as opposed to the goal of never been satisfying. Nancy empha- time each to take their sexual histories pleasuring the partner. This begins as a sized her point by relating that she expe- in the tradition of my training in classic non sexual exercise with breasts and rienced anxiety and feelings of rejection Masters and Johnson-style sex therapy. genitals off limits. The toucher touches whenever she was in their bedroom. In Bill’s individual session, he re- for as long as he or she wants (unless Nancy agreed to try Thought Field ported that he had once been physically the touchee is uncomfortable). When the Therapy in an attempt to reduce her cur- attracted to Nancy. In spite of the fact toucher is finished, the partners switch rent anxiety around her relationship that Nancy was quite large, Bill, who places and the toucher becomes the with Bill as represented by that room. touchee and the partner begins the expe- Nancy reported a SUD level of eight when just thinking about their bedroom. Issue 2, Winter 2005 We used the TFT algorithm for trauma/ she had been comfortable during the They related the following story: anxiety and Nancy’s anxiety around two conversations she had with her fa- Shortly before they were married their shared bedroom and the feelings ther during the previous week and she Bill had shared with Nancy a commit- of rejection that their bedroom had had not been triggered by his lack of ment he had made to himself earlier in come to symbolize for her were reduced “getting who I am.” his life. Bill had felt a need for a spiri- to a one. She was no longer personaliz- While Nancy was initially experi- tual retreat and had decided to spend ing the current lack of sex in the rela- encing a great deal of difficulty with some time in solitude in the desert. Bill tionship and the bedroom was, once and resistance to the no-sex contract, had been trying to find the time to make again, at least a neutral zone. Bill was enjoying the non-sexual touch- this retreat for several years. Fearing During this session, Nancy also re- ing for his own pleasure (the first part that the constraints of marriage would ported that her relationship with her of the prescribed exercises). Bill was make this journey even more difficult to parents had been, and still was, ex- undertake, Bill asked Nancy for her tremely difficult. Nancy’s mother was blessings and asked to take this retreat ineffectual and not there for her. She before their marriage. Nancy replied, experienced the most disappointment, "If you go, don't expect me to be here however, in her relationship with her when you get back!” father. Nancy lamented that her father Bill was torn. He wanted to marry could never “get who I am.” Nancy but also wanted to take this As Nancy began to relate specific longed-for respite. He decided against incidences having to do with her rela- making the retreat and Bill and Nancy tionship with her father, his personality soon married. Bill ended up going traits emerged, such as his need to be through with the wedding with mixed right, his constant criticism of her and feelings. Bill and Nancy reported that his rage when anyone dared to infer that even the wedding pictures revealed he was less than perfect. I shared with Bill's unhappiness. Bill stated in this Nancy that her father was likely a Nar- session that he had felt that Nancy cissistic Personality Disordered person would always have things her way and or at least a person who was severely that his needs and his feelings would narcissistically impaired. Unfortunately used to doing things for others and the never be important. Bill admitted that for her, he was quite unlikely to change. concept of touching for his own plea- he still to this present day harbored re- I explained to Nancy that this was sure had never before occurred to him. sentment about this incident. about her father's limitations and not When she understood that the exer- Resentments over events from the about her, but Nancy did not experience cises could be helpful to their ultimate past frequently linger and cause un- my statement as good news. Just think- goal of being sexual, Nancy reluctantly speakable pain and damage to an other- ing about her painful relationship with agreed to continue with them. I pro- wise good relationship. Such a situation her father combined with my prediction ceeded to give Nancy and Bill their sec- is an excellent opportunity to use that he was unlikely to change brought ond Sensate Focus Exercise and we Thought Field Therapy to heal these tears to Nancy’s eyes. Nancy was soon agreed to meet the following week. resentments, hurts and angers. In Bill sobbing uncontrollably and when asked, The second Sensate-Focus exercise and Nancy’s case, Bill agreed that he reported a distress level of ten. is precisely like the first, except that this would like to put this episode behind We did the Thought Field Therapy time, touching breasts and genitals is him. With Nancy present in the session, grief algorithm and soon Nancy re- allowed. The couple is reminded that Bill was able to work up an anger level ported peace and acceptance (a SUD of this continues to be a non sexual exer- of seven by just thinking about this one) around the fact that her father cise. It continues to be touching for emotionally laden experience. Using the would likely never be who she wanted “your own pleasure” and the touching is TFT simple trauma algorithm combined and thought she needed him to be. not to be thought of as foreplay or as an with the anger algorithm, Bill was able A week later I met with both Nancy attempt to pleasure the partner. to alleviate his feelings of anger around and Bill. Bill reported that he was no At the beginning of their next ses- this memory. With his anger out of the longer reacting with anxiety, which in sion Nancy and Bill excitedly reported a way, Bill was able to empathize with the past had quickly turned to anger and major insight they had immediately fol- Nancy's past feelings of fear of aban- distancing, when Nancy expressed dis- lowing their most recent sensate focus donment. Most important, it now felt to appointment in him. Nancy acknowl- exercise. Bill like something that had occurred in edged that Bill had been more present the past, which no longer had any bear- in the relationship since his individual ing on the present. session. Nancy happily reported that Case Study - Continued on Page 8 - ATFT UPdate
Case Study - Continued from Page 7 - Thanks to Bill and Nancy’s insight we Reduced Fees were able to use Thought Field Therapy to remove this enormous obstacle from Bill and Nancy's path to a closer relationship. By the seventh session, Nancy and for Bill reported that they had recently begun TFT Practitioners having sexual intercourse (a little ahead of their sensate focus exercise schedule). However, Nancy, still difficult to please, complained that her orgasms weren't al- ways as powerful and dramatic as she would like them to be. With a little help, Nancy was able to The Center for see that in her dissatisfaction with any- thing less than perfect she was a little like her father. If things weren't perfect she was disappointed. Uncomfortable as the Extraordinary analogy to her father was, Nancy let the comparison sink in and this became an “Aha” experience for Nancy. Living With a little probing, Nancy acknowl- edged that she felt anxiety when things were not perfect. In this session, Nancy was able to tune into her anxiety around lack of perfection and using the Thought Field Therapy anxiety algorithm her anxi- ety around a lack of perfection in her life and in the world was reduced to a one. Bill and Nancy moved to another area not long after their last session. When they were settled they gave me a call and Removing blocks to let me know that they were enjoying each other as sexual partners and as friends. In Nancy’s words, “Things are much better, Self-awareness &