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September ommentator13, 2019 Vol. 57, No. 16 2019 LPA GENERAL EXCELLENCE AWARD RECIPIENT thecatholiccommentator.org C CHAPEL WITH A HEART Sacred Heart celebrates centennial

By Debbie Shelley The Catholic Commentator

Tiny in stature, the Sacred Heart Chapel in Liv- ingston is rich in history, officially reaching back 100 years but actually dating to the mid-1800s when Aca- dians first settled along the Amite River. Known as “La Cote Francaise,” the settlers, strong in their Catholic faith, began their new lives near what is known as French Settlement and Port Vincent, ac- cording to Roger Baudier, author of “History of The Catholic Church in Louisiana.” The first chapel in the area was dedicated on Aug. The Mission of the Sacred Heart was filled with people of various ages and walks of life during its 100th anniver- 20, 1839 along the banks of the Amite River near Port sary Mass Aug. 25. Photo by Debbie Shelley | The Catholic Commentator Vincent. But it would not be until 80 years later when the Sacred Heart chapel would be completed and ded- “Sacred Heart is a warm, welcoming community,” tion Church in Denham Springs and a historian in his icated. said Father Frank Uter, pastor of Immaculate Concep- own right, added. “You see the history alive in 2019 as On Aug. 25, the mission of the Sacred Heart Chapel tion and Sacred Heart. “If anyone is a newcomer, they they continue on the same traditions, same prayers, in Livingston celebrated it 100th anniversary of being feel right at home.” same faith.” part of that area’s faith community and family during “It’s a history that’s alive … it’s something ongo- Although a small congregation, many families a special Mass. ing,” Father Uter, also pastor at Immaculate Concep- SEE CHAPEL PAGE 19 Seminarians get peek into future By Richard Meek Turner spent his six-week summer in- The Catholic Commentator ternship at St. Mary of False River Church under the tutelage of pastor Father Pat Spending six weeks along the soothing Broussard and said it was rewarding in waters of the False River in New Roads was many ways. more of a homecoming than a summer as- “It was a great experience,” Turner said. signment for seminarian Tres Turner. While many college students spend their New Roads will always have a special place summers unwinding and dipping their toes reserved in Turner’s heart, as his family’s in the surf, seminarians in the diocese are af- roots run deep through the scenic area that forded an up close and personal peak at their offers year-round spectacular views. Turner’s future. Most of the seminarians will spend BEYOND THE DIOCESE – Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Ba- mom was raised in the area and the fourth- six weeks each summer serving in a church ton Rouge disaster relief specialists C.J. Roy, left, and Lisa Lee, year seminarian was baptized at Immaculate parish, living in the rectory and assisting the right, visit with a victim of flooding in Tulsa, Oklahoma. For the Conception Church in nearby Lakeland by pastor in a number of ways, including minis- complete story, please turn to page 3. Photo provided by C.J. Roy | CCDBR Father Matthew Lorrain, currently the voca- tering to the sick or something as simple as tions director. SEE VOCATIONS PAGE 15 2 The Catholic Commentator September 13, 2019 | DID YOU KNOW All eyes on God By Dina Dow around us, that is in the work, in the flesh, in Have you ever been walking and taken your our neighbor and in the devil is like a weight eyes off the path because of some distraction, hindering our movement, reducing our agility obstacle or detour? The 20th and 21st Sunday and being something to shed.” Mass readings in Ordinary Time (Cycle C) call We are to “run with perseverance” (Heb to mind the importance of focus- 12:1) the long race, which ing our gaze on God in the midst calls for endurance and of persecution, obstacles and tri- Life-Giving ability to cope with pain als. As a result, we experience a FAI H and fatigue caused by sin. Just sense of peace and endurance, as we as in a race, we need to shed strive for holiness each day. everything that cramps our Sank into the mud (Jer 38:6) movements, same as in struggles of life. If we A major prophet of the Hebrew Scriptures want to run towards God, we need to shed all with eyes fixed on God, Jeremiah experi- useless weight. The weight is the sin we have enced tremendous hardship as he persisted committed that pulls us downward and in- in proclaiming messages from God to the clines us to sin again. St. Josemaria Escriva reigning king and princes of Judah. Rather says, “Anything that does not lead to God is a than respond to his warning of the impend- hindrance. Root it out and throw it far from ing conquer of Judah by the Babylonians, the you.” princes of that time had Jeremiah imprisoned We fix our gaze on Jesus, in the same way and subsequently placed in the cistern below a runner, once the race has begun, letting ground. NOTHING distract us from reaching the fi- There, he literally sank in the mud. Imagine nal destination. St. Thomas Aquinas says, “If trying to warn people of life-threatening dan- you want to be saved look at the face of your Members of the Knights of Peter Claver at the 50th anniversary of St. Cather- ger, only to be thrown in the mud pit? When Christ.” Jesus runs ahead of us preaching, and ine of Sienna Church in Donaldsonville in Aug., 1974. The church parish was have you warned another about impending performing miracles. By grace, he impresses established Aug. 6, 1924. Photo provided by Archives Department of the Diocese of Baton Rouge danger only to be pushed away? Did you per- upon our heart to perfect our faith. St. Thom- sist or give up? Jeremiah, fixed on God’s truth, as Aquinas continues, “Jesus is the pioneer/ endured, as the king finally lifted him out of cause/initiator of our faith, as he marked out the mud hole and secretly listened. You are in- the path, took the lead, opened the way, and vited to read the Book of the Prophet Jeremi- set the pace. Everything Christ did in his life St. Peter Claver ah in its entirety. There you will learn the rest is a perfect example for us to follow, most of the story, which is a powerful inspiration of particularly in his passion: he gave up joy; Long before Martin Luther King the homes of the rich” (“Voices of the faith in God. he suffered, endured the cross and merited Jr. became the face and voice of the Saints”). Eyes fixed on Jesus (Heb 12:2) salvation. How will we respond? What is my civil rights movement, and long be- When slave ships were not ar- The author of the Book of Hebrews uses the gaze fixed upon and how it is informing my fore he won the Nobel Peace Prize in riving at the port, St. Peter Claver analogy of a race, popular in early Christian thoughts, actions and decisions? When do I 1964 for combating racial inequality would visit the plantations to minis- times, to encourage perseverance among be- make the time to fix my gaze upon Jesus in through nonviolent activism, there ter to the slaves. His efforts over the lievers. This is only possible if we fix our eyes adoration? was St. Peter Claver. years slowly helped to improve the on Jesus. The author refers to a cloud of wit- The fire of his love Born in 1580 in Verdù, Spain, he situation for slaves. nesses (Heb 12:1), a huge number filling the The Gospel readings from St. Luke turn was educated at He also min- sky as clouds, near the sun, which signifies a our gaze on the fire of God’s love. Jesus illumi- the University of istered to other closeness to God. They are active spectators, nates this fire for us with the fervor of his love Barcelona before members of soci- applauding, shouting, cheering for our endur- for humanity. He greatly desires us to know joining the Jesuits ety as well as trad- ance to remain steadfast during the trials of and receive his love, enough so that it “sets at age 20, accord- ers, visitors, con- life. Who are the cloud of witnesses? the earth ablaze.” This fiery love may cause ing to aleteia.org. demned criminals Noted is the foremost obstacle, which division, as Jesus’ teachings still do today. He volunteered and the sick. weighs us down: “sin that clings so closely” The contradictions are, in fact, an invitation to minister in the St. Peter Claver (Heb 12:2). The enemy prowls, like a wild to know and grow in trust of the truth that is Spanish colonies died on Sept. 8, animal waiting to pounce. Sin surrounds from God alone. As disciples, we are to com- and in 1610 was 1654 and was can- us, taking a foothold. St. Thomas Aquinas mit to the serious work of missionary activ- sent to Cartagena, onized in 1888 by writes, “The occasion of sin that is present all SEE GOSPEL PAGE 15 Columbia. At the Pope Leo XIII. In time, Cartagena 1896, Pope Leo de- was the center of clared him the pa- the slave trade in South America, tron of all missionary work among with thousands arriving annually blacks. from West Africa under harsh condi- Many organizations, missions, thecatholiccommentator.org | Facebook.com/TheCatholicCommentator tions. Many died during the months- parishes, schools and hospitals are long crossing of the Atlantic Ocean. named in honor of St. Peter Claver. Bishop Michael G. Duca Publisher Wanda L. Koch Advertising Manager According to “Voices of the The Knights of Peter Claver, Inc., is Father Tom Ranzino Associate Publisher Bonny Van Staff Writer Saints,” St. Peter Claver was “deeply the largest African American Cath- Richard Meek Editor Lisa Disney Secretary/Circulation moved by their unimaginable mis- olic fraternal organization in the Debbie Shelley Assistant Editor Nicole Latiolais Graphic Designer ery” and vowed to be “the slave of the United States. It is currently head- enslaved Africans forever.” For the quartered in New Orleans and the The Catholic Commentator (ISSN 07460511; USPS 093-680) Published bi-weekly (every other week) by the Catholic Diocese of Baton Rouge,1800 South Acadian Thruway, next 40 years, he served the slaves, organization is active in the Diocese Baton Rouge, LA 70808; 225-387-0983 or 225-387-0561. Periodical Postage Paid at Baton Rouge, LA. 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September 13, 2019 The Catholic Commentator 3 CCDBR on call for disaster relief By Richard Meek we are trying to get an idea of The Catholic Commentator what their needs are so that we can help the local agency find re- Catholic Charities of the Dio- sources for folks that have been cese of Baton Rouge is heralded affected,” Roy said. for assisting thousands of needy “We (also) look to see if there families throughout the diocese is any activity going on,” Lee with its myriad of social service said. “If there is nothing being programs but the agency is also done, no one out there working gaining a national reputation for on anything, that is an indica- its expertise in disaster relief op- tion of an area that might need erations. a little bit more help than some In the past two years, CCD- other areas where people are BR employees have been de- working.” Flooding and tornadoes swept through the Oklahoma area earlier this year, causing widespread damage. ployed to such places as Ha- Perhaps the team’s most valu- During the first two weeks in July, Catholic Charities of the Diocese Baton Rouge disaster relief specialists waii and North Carolina when able contribution is the ability to C.J. Roy and Lisa Lee spent two weeks assisting Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Tulsa, Oklahoma person- floods, hurricanes or tornadoes assist the local agency as well as al and victims. Photo provided by C.J. Roy | CCDBR have wrecked communities. victims navigate the myriad of Most recently, two members red tape of federal help, such as to help guide the recovery pro- of creative ways to engage volun- will engage volunteers not only of the CCDBR disaster relief FEMA and other programs. Roy cess that include asking the right teers in similar ways as Catholic in disaster preparedness but in team spent the first two weeks admitted CCDBR has had plen- questions, to ask survivors what Charities of Tulsa. A new pro- other areas as well, including of July in Oklahoma helping in ty of experience, including the they have received so far so that gram is in the design phase that training throughout the year. relief efforts following historic aftermath of several hurricanes they may be eligible for other flooding, the same flooding that and the flood of 2016. benefits that they could pursue,” threatened south Louisiana. He said Catholic Charities in Lee said. “It was the first time Oklaho- Tulsa had taken applications for Roy and Lee agree that each ma had experienced a statewide 450-460 households that had deployment provides an op- FEMA declaration,” said C.J. gone through Multi Agency Re- portunity to learn what other Roy, disaster operations coordi- covery Centers (MARCS) for as- agencies are doing and perhaps nator for CCDBR. “Even though sistance. He said those victims bring ideas to CCDBR. The they get tornadoes all of the had received assistance in the Oklahoma deployment was no time, it was the first time they forms of gift cards and various different, as upon returning ever had an event of this size.” groups, including the Knights the Baton Rouge, CCDBR im- Roy, who teamed with CCD- of Columbus and Red Cross had mediately had several hundred BR communications director been dispatched to help those fliers that could be hung on and disaster specialist Carol people with mucking out their doors that include important Spruell after floods inundated homes. information, including phone parts of Hawaii in 2018, and Lisa Statewide, there were nearly numbers on available resourc- Lee were deployed to the Sooner 4,800 FEMA declared registra- es following a natural disaster. state to help Catholic Charities of tions. “When people are working on the Diocese of Tulsa in relief ef- “From what they told us, their houses they might not have forts. Catholic Charities of Tulsa (CCDBR’s assistance) was ex- time to get to a MARC and by the had contacted Catholic Charities tremely helpful for them because time they get there the resources USA for assistance which in turn it was something they had never might be gone,” Lee said. “This called CCDBR. been through on a large scale,” is a good way to reach people Roy said roles vary in each Lee said. “And so what we did where they are and get the word disaster relief effort but basically was a little bit of everything but out what is going on.” consist of answering the needs of the main thing was to help them Additionally, Lee said watch- the receiving agency. develop their disaster program. ing how Catholic Charities of He said the jobs may consist So we helped structure their Tulsa use their large cache of from setting up a point of dis- program in a way that fits within volunteers during a disaster re- Joe Skibinski, Agent tribution site, distributing water (the agency’s) staffing and orga- sponse has CCDBR thinking how and cleaning kits to infrastruc- nizational structure.” a similar model can be employed ture support, such as helping out Although Oklahoma is only in the diocese. in the office, gathering informa- about four percent Catholic, Lee She added the Tulsa agen- tion from survivors, outreach to said she was astounded to learn cy was receiving backpacks of victims and field assessments. that Catholic Charities in Tulsa small toys, coloring books and Often, Lee said, the CCDBR has a core of nearly 4,000 vol- crayons. The backpacks were do- relief team will drive through unteers. Part of structuring the nated to needed families along neighborhoods looking for dam- agency’s disaster relief program with a note of encouragement aged homes and putting flyers was figuring out a way to tap into from children not affected by the on doors to inform residents of the volunteers to do the recovery disaster. available resources. work, Lee said. “I don’t think we’ve ever done “If there is a damaged home, “(The training) includes call- that here before,” Lee said. “The debris, mucked out and left by ing survivors and providing in- children need something to do.” the streets, folks cleaning up, formation, providing resources She said CCDBR is thinking 4 The Catholic Commentator September 13, 2019 40 Days founder praises state’s pro-life stance

By Debbie Shelley town, Bryan-College Station, Texas. Car- The Catholic Commentator ney helped lead the first local 40 Days of Life Campaign. He said the grassroots Prayer is not a passive activity but an movement “spread like wildfire.” urgently needed action that can change 40 Days for Life involves a 40 days the hearts and minds of women con- of fasting and prayer in shifts outside of templating ending the life of their child abortion facilities. through abortion, according to Shawn According to Carney, since 2004, 22 Shawn Carney, center, founder and CEO of 40 Days for Life, met with leaders of local Cath- Carney, founder and CEO of 40 Days for campaigns have been held in 816 cities in olic churches and pro-life ministries at Roux 61 on Aug. 29. Photo by Debbie Shelley | The Catholic Life. 56 countries. He said there have been a to- Commentator Carney, a native of Tyler, Texas, met tal of 6,020 individual prayer vigils involv- leaders in various Catholic and pro-life ing about 750,000 individuals who prayed praying at the facility, turned around and He said the nation has become too ministries at a luncheon at Roux 61 in Ba- peacefully outside local abortion facilities. decided not to abort her child. comfortable with the concept of abortion ton Rouge on Aug. 29. Where 40 Days for Life prayer vigils She had never told anyone about what and readily accepts excuses that “ignore Carney said he came to Louisiana be- have taken place, a combined 12,256 un- she had almost done, but she later met the science” about a life beginning at con- cause of his high regard for the state’s born babies’ lives have been saved, 186 Carney and said, “I want you to meet my ception. strong pro-life stance and the work of abortion workers have left their jobs and teenage son,” who was standing in front of Abortion essentially destroys the fam- Louisiana Right to Life. After visiting 99 abortion facilities, and many more him and alive because of prayer. ily, according to Carney, and he urged Baton Rouge he went to New Orleans for abortion referral centers, have closed. Carney said this points to the impor- Catholics to restore and defend the beau- the launch of their 40 Days for Life Cam- A father of seven, Carney talked about tance of vigilant prayer in addressing on- ty of the family because “without it our paign. an unforgettable experience resulting going issues. country does not have a future.” “I really love Louisiana, Cajuns and from the campaign. He met a mother who Carney referred to abortion as the Carney is portrayed by the actor Jar- Cajun food,” smiled Carney. had driven to the Bryan Planned Parent- “genocides of genocides” and “the moral ed Lotz in the movie “Unplanned,” the He launched 40 Days for Life in 2004 hood in the fall of 2004 during that first issue of our times.” story about Abby Johnson, now a moth- while still in college by praying with three 40 Days for Life prayer vigil that Carney “It’s never been on this scale so sys- er of eight, who was one of the youngest others for an end of abortion in their had organized. The mother saw people tematically,” Carney said. SEE CARNEY PAGE 20 Subscribe Today! Receive The Catholic Commentator in your mailbox every other week—all year long.

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Jerry Williams, a parishioner of St. Benedict the Moor Church in Napoleon- ville, will never forget the first time she was called upon to teach the word of God. She was in sixth grade at St. Benedict the Moor School when the principal asked Williams and her fellow students to work with the students in first grade. “It was instinctive,” recalled Williams. “I always wanted to teach after that. So technically I became a catechist at 12 years old.” Fifty years later, Williams still finds joy teaching others. After retiring from a 34-year career in education, Williams is the director of religious education at St. Benedict. She was among more than 200 religious educators gathered at the Catho- lic Life Center in Baton Rouge for the an- nual Convocation Celebrating Catechists David Dawson Jr. speaks to catechists at the annual Convocation Celebrating Catechists on Aug. 29 at the Catholic Life Center. The event on Aug. 29. wrapped up with a commissioning ceremony by Bishop Michael Duca. Photo by Bonny Van | The Catholic Commentator “(This event) is about fortifying our catechists on their faith journey, on their According to the bishop, the disciples for other catechists in the Diocese of Ba- they’re also going through the same joys prayer life, on their confidence in being needed Jesus to give them that insight ton Rouge to network and connect. and we’re here because we love it,” said catechists,” said Dina Dow, director of the and to renew their faith and they wanted “It’s always good to see other peo- Williams of the convocation. Office of Evangelization and Catechesis to learn more so they said, “Stay with us! ple who are doing the same thing, going The event ended with a commissioning for the Diocese of Baton Rouge. “It’s also Stay with us!” through the same struggles I had but ceremony by Bishop Duca. about us understanding more about our “When they sat down to dine, they lives and our witnessing and how we tes- recognized Jesus in the breaking of the tify to the truth in Jesus Christ. It’s also a bread, which is kind of a complete cat- celebration because a lot of catechists are echetical moment,” said Bishop Duca. “He volunteers. was there in the breaking of the bread and “We’re celebrating the fact that they are that sign would become the core of gath- stepping up after hard long days during erings of Christian people, the new cove- D o you have a family member the week to come and be a catechist and nant of the body and blood of Christ.” to form those people that God places be- The message resonated with Janice buried in St. Joseph Catholic fore them.” Pintado, director of Christian Formation During his message on the theme of at St. Joseph the Worker Church in Pierre Cemetery? “Stay with Us,” Bishop Michael G. Duca Part for 50 years. said the phrase comes from the scriptural “I think the most important thing story of the two disciples on the road to about being a catechist is how much on The Cemetery Fund Board wants to hear Emmaus when they encounter Jesus but fire are we, and if we’re on fire and we’re thought he was a stranger. He noted the serving as a catechist then we’re an exam- from you. We’re working to update and story was not only a eucharistic story but ple to others,” said Pintado. complete our records on who is buried in also a catechetical journey, “and hopeful- Luke LaVergne, a retired district judge ly give us some encouragement when it of the Family Court of East Baton Rouge the Cemetery, and you can help. seems like some are walking away from Civil Parish, is passionate about his du- the church.” ties as a catechist for St. Paul the Apostle The bishop said the disciples were in Church in Baton Rouge. deep discussion of the events of Jesus’ “I want to convey and pass on to the If you’d like to learn more about the death and “in their sadness, they explain young people the meaning of being a good to the stranger what has happened.” Catholic and our faith in Catholicism and Cemetery, check out our current “They were lost,” Bishop Duca said. the history of the Catholic Church,” La- newsletter on Facebook. “They were confused. ‘What do we do Vergne said with enthusiasm. “It’s really now?’ And, Jesus begins to catechize a joy to teach the history of the Catholic them. He begins to teach them, unveil- Church from the beginning, its formation ing the Scriptures in light of not just Je- and its authority from the Bible.” sus’ teachings but his death on the cross, The convocation included guest speak- pointing them to his resurrection.” ers David Dawson Jr., director of the Of- CONTACT US AT: The bishop explained that the disci- fice of Marriage and Family Life in the (225) 387-5928 ples previously looked at the Scriptures Archdiocese of New Orleans; author and in “light of old constructs” but Jesus “is theologian Judy Klein; Deacon Alfred Ad- 412 North Street, opening it up into a bigger text,” including ams, director of the Office of Black Cath- Baton Rouge, LA 70802 the story of his death and resurrection. olics; and, Danielle Van Haute, associate Bishop Duca noted the importance of the director for the Office of Respect Life. [email protected] disciples learning this “in ways that they Besides providing inspiration, the could not, on their own, understand.” gathering also provided an opportunity 6 The Catholic Commentator September 13, 2019 Explaining original sin/ Receiving Communion in mortal sin

How do I explain original sin to Further, the cat- into a world surrounded I am a lady who is almost 81 a fallen-away Catholic? (He won’t echism explains, by sin and selfishness, years old. All my life I have been Qaccept anything from the Cate- “original sin does not which makes it more Qa very strict Catholic. I raised chism of the Catholic Church.) He asked have the character of a difficult for us to be seven children and took them to Mass me, “Why are people born thousands of personal fault in any of good. every Sunday and holy day. I always years after the fall held accountable for Adam’s descendants. It If my grandfather thought that, as I got older, I would be- something they didn’t do?” (Arlington, is a deprivation of origi- squandered away a come even closer to the church – but the Virginia) nal holiness and justice, fortune that would opposite has happened because of the Your friend is not the first one but human nature has otherwise have been way the church has changed. to misunderstand the concept not been totally cor- passed down to me, I In my town, we used to have three Aof original sin. In 2018, Rodrigo rupted. … would have lost out even Catholic churches and three priests; but Duterte, the president of the Philip- “Baptism, by impart- though I had not been now we have one church and one priest. pines, created a furor when he called ing the life of Christ’s personally responsible. This has caused Sundays and holy days God “stupid” because of original sin for grace, erases original sin That, in my simple way to be so crowded and the parking situa- allowing others, he said, to be stained and turns a man back Question Corner of looking at things, is tion so bad that it is very scary for an old by something in which they were not toward God, but the Father Kenneth Doyle like original sin. woman to attend. involved. consequences for nature, So I decided a couple of years ago to The key, of course, is that we are not weakened and inclined to evil, persist Our pastor has told us that if a start going to church during the week really “stained” by the sin of our first in man and summon him to spiritual person receives Communion in instead. Now, every Tuesday, I get up at parents; instead we are simply deprived battle” (No. 405). Qthe state of mortal sin, the host 5:30 a.m. and go to the 6:45 Mass. It’s of what would otherwise have been ours I don’t pretend that original sin is an ceases to be the body of Christ and is peaceful, easy to park and I feel holy namely, the absence of suffering and easy doctrine to comprehend, and in just ordinary bread. But if that is the when I’m there. death. fact the catechism itself acknowledges case, why would it be a sin? (east central As much as I would like to, I don’t go Actually, the Catechism of the Catholic that “the transmission of original sin is Ohio) on Easter or Christmas anymore because Church, which unfortunately your friend a mystery that we cannot fully under- If that, in fact, is what your it’s a madhouse. Yesterday, I had a dis- chooses to reject, explains it well. It says stand” (No. 404). pastor told you, he was incorrect. agreement with a close friend about not that “original sin is called ‘sin’ only in an The way that makes sense to me AOnce consecrated by the priest, going to Mass on Sundays and holy days. analogical sense: it is a sin ‘contracted’ (which I have used in instructing the host becomes the body of Christ and Am I committing a serious sin by not go- and not ‘committed,’ a state and not an converts) is that, because of the failure remains so, even when someone receives ing? (North Hampton, New Hampshire) act” (No. 404). of our first parents, we have been born it unworthily. That is exactly why it is Sunday has always been set aside wrong to take the Eucharist when in for Christians to gather and a state of serious sin – because of the Aworship the Lord at Eucharist; Look for sacredness of the sacrament. the choice comes, of course, because The CaThoLiC CommenTaTor Speaking at a papal audience in that was the day on which Jesus rose March 2018, Pope Francis reminded from the dead and this is the center of aT your LoCaL ouTLeTs inCLuding: Catholics of the need to obtain absolu- our faith. tion for grave sins before receiving the Interestingly, the Catechism of the ✔ Affinity Nursing Home, Baton Rouge ✔ Oak Wood Nursing Home, Zachary Eucharist. “We know,” said the pope, Catholic Church reflects on some of the ✔ Anthony's Deli, Baton Rouge ✔ Old Jefferson Community Care, “that one who has committed a serious other ways by which we should make ✔ Alexander’s Highland Market, Baton Rouge sin should not approach holy Com- Sundays special: Baton Rouge ✔ Our Lady of the Lake Regional munion without having first obtained “Sunday is traditionally consecrated ✔ Ascension Books & Gifts, Gonzales Medical Center, Baton Rouge and absolution in the sacrament of reconcil- by Christian piety to good works and ✔ Baton Rouge General Hospital, Walker iation.” humble service of the sick, the infirm and Baton Rouge ✔ Our Lady of the Lake Physician Related to your question, a some- the elderly. 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So that you will feel comfortable, Son of Man and drink his blood, you do though, why not discuss your situation not have life within you”? Some of the with a local priest? as well as your local church parish disciples said, “This saying is hard; who can accept it?” and some of them walked FATHER DOYLE is a retired priest in the away. Diocese of Albany, New York. Ques- What did Jesus do? Did he say, “Wait tions may be sent to Father Kenneth a second. Don’t get nervous. I’m only Doyle at [email protected] talking symbols here?” He did not; he let and 30 Columbia Circle Dr., Albany, them walk away, because he meant it. NY 12203. September 13, 2019 faith journey The Catholic Commentator 7

said. Two months after his healing, A month after his physical he received a spiritual healing at healing, Loar said he went from the regular Tuesday night Char- being an introvert to an extro- ismatic Renewal prayer meeting vert and now talks to “anybody at Our Lady of Mercy Church in about anything, for an hour at a Baton Rouge. time.” see LOAR page 20

Mr. D’s Tree Service ovEr 40 yEars ExpErIEncE Don Decell, owner carl BaBin, owner • Economical • Fully Insured • Quality Work Praise and worship was a big part of a Day of Healing, sponsored by the Office of Charismatic Renewal of CALL TODAY! the Diocese of Baton Rouge, on Aug. 10 at Our Lady of Mercy Church in Baton Rouge. Photo by Debbie Shelley | The Catholic Commentator 225-292-6756 Healing through the Holy Spirit

By Debbie Shelley on throughout my trauma with The Loars, who have been The Catholic Commentator Parkinson’s disease, and I did married for 48 years, prayed indeed struggle with depression hard for dealing with “Parky.” First in a series of two articles in the early part of the four years “And finally it came to ‘Okay I had Parkinson’s. Lord, you are not healing me Tears spilled and hands and “We never gave up in despair, now, but thy will be done.’ We voices were lifted in praise and but came to a necessary accep- came to accept it, but not really. gratitude as people heard two tance of what the future would We always held onto the theolog- powerful testimonies of the Holy hold: a slow, decline, both physi- ical virtue of hope,” Loar said. Spirit’s ability to renew mind, cally and mentally.” Loar took a class at the YMCA Join body and spirit at a Day of Heal- Fatigue would set in without called “Rock Steady,” a non-con- ing on Aug. 10 at Our Lady of warning, and it would last from tact class for Parkinson’s pa- Mercy Church in Baton Rouge. four hours to days. Loar might be tients which pushes them phys- Pearson’s Travel World Danny Loar spoke about the fine for a week and then it would ically and mentally. different levels of healing he ex- return with an unpredictable “I strongly recommend and perienced from Parkinson’s dis- pattern of “on” and “off” days. the course to anyone who has ease. “Additionally, depending on ‘Parky.’ It made me feel a little Loar, who retired as executive the day, I would get different better,” said Loar stretching out Princess Cruise Lines director of Louisiana Confer- combinations of cognitive prob- the word little. for ence of Catholic Bishops several lems, such as fuzzy brain, not Then “boom,” said Loar, years ago after serving there for being able to think clearly, along punctually and loudly. “Then out FREE* 13 years, returned to his early with memory loss, sharp stom- of the blue, on July 2, 2018 what 3 career life as a Catholic educator ach pains, hand tremors and I now call my Independence and taught at St. Theresa of Avi- nausea. Day of my Parkinson’s Disease, • Free Gratuities la School in Gonzales. Despite “While sleeping I would symptoms completely, totally • Onboard Spending up to $800 per cabin being physically fit, he abruptly sometimes flail and kick in my and absolutely left me, and have • Free Room Location Upgrade quit because he was fatigued. sleep, not waking up, not know- never returned, not even for a Two months later he had fall- ing I did it upon awakening,” moment. Praise God, I felt like en and was laying on the kitchen Loar said. Jesus had given me the uppercut floor until his wife, Dotty, came A person does not die directly that completely knocked me out. Alaska 2020 home about two hours later. from Parkinson’s, rather they die “When I went to Dr. Gawron- Mediterranean • British Isles Alarmed, they quickly got an from the complications it causes, ski he was very happy for me, Scandinavia & Russia • Caribbean • Japan appointment with a neurologist, according to Loar. Muscle con- but had no explanation how this who diagnosed him with Parkin- strictions can result in aspiration happened. He even sent me to son’s disease. pneumonia, a life threatening another specialist at the Neuro- Special group departures “Dr. (Dariusz) Gawronski, infection of the lungs. Brain cells medical Center (in Baton Rouge) for Alaska 2020 who had his medical degrees that produce dopamine, which is to double-check me. She too from the University of Warsaw important in controlling muscle could not explain it.” For more information in Poland, said that I could still movement, die off. “So I am officially Parkinson’s have 20 years of life left in me, He took medication but knew free. Hallelujah,” said Loar, as call Tootie. just like St. Pope John Paul II did it was a way to alleviate some of applause reverberated around *Must be booked and deposited Tootie Bonacorso after he got the disease,” Loar the symptoms, some of the time. the room. said. “However, that is a life of “Frankly, it’s an awful way to But that was only the physical by October 31, 2019. Some restrictions apply. slow, but sure, decline in qual- live … Dotty and I came to call it part of Loar’s healing. ity of life, comfort and peace of ‘Parky’ in order to delegitimize it “What I am saying is that I mind, not only for yourself, but in our minds, to mock it, not let have not only been healed phys- Pearson’s Travel World for your loves ones, especially the disease completely take over ically, but healed emotionally, 7949 Jefferson Hwy., Baton Rouge • 225-926-3752 your wife. Dotty was a champi- our lives emotionally,” Loar said. intellectually and spiritually,” he 8 The Catholic Commentator September 13, 2019

And this is the job of a catechist: constantly to go forth to others out of love, to bear witness to Jesus and to talk about Jesus, to proclaim Jesus. – Pope Francis

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We recognize with gratitude all Catechists in the Diocese of Baton Rouge this Catechetical Sunday. Below is a list of Catechists whose names were submitted to our Office as having served in Catechetical Ministry for their parish. Carmel Acosta Bob Bewice Jessica Clouatre Laurie Fernandez Rhenda Hodnett Diana Lusk Darlene Pollard Kevin Spansel Randal Aldridge Julie Bewick Charlene Jed Filostrat Crystal Holdridge Amanda Maciasz Betty Poma Missy Spansel Britt Alexander Lori Black Coppenbarger Paige Fitzgerald Pam Hollins Drew Maciasz Becky Porche Jade Spears Sara Alford Alice Blair Tommie Coppola Kathy Fontenot Theresa Hollins Gaylynne Mack Jean Porche Jennifer Spillman Donald Alleman Kitty Blanchard Norma Cosey Philomena Fontenot Lisa Honore Sue Maginnis Earl Posey Cindy St. Pierre Erin Allison Lynn Blanchard Beth Creel Lisa Francis Mary Hoover Mary C. Marshall Jenny Prather Nicole Stanley Kurt Andry Julia Boatner Eric Cretini Lesley Frazier Evangeline Hughes Theresa Martin Alena Prejean Ashley Starkey Sandy Andry Katie Bocking Jean Crites Heidi Frederic Jason Jacob Lisa McAlister Lana Prejean Kristian Steib Tasha Anthony Ashley Boudreaux Kaci Crittenden Tonia Galatas Sr. John Janet, MC Jody McCall Dennis Pudlewski Emily Stein Mandi Arceneaux Ashliegh Boudreaux Mercedes Curry Sandy Gantt Harold Jarreau Evie McCurley Kim Reggio Jessica Stein Mindy Arceneaux Lisa Boudreaux Ernestine Daggs Linda Gaudet Posie Jarreau Zegory McGalliard Lynzie Regira Kelley Stein Karen Arnold Charlene Bouregois Doug Daunis Angelique Gaudin Jayne Jason Lovell McGalliard Morgan Regira Cynthia Stewart Stephenie Aubert Beth Bourgeois Bobette David Macie Gaudin Ann Johnson Carrie McKinney Cindy Richard Bobbie Stiglets Barbara Aucoin Joanne Bourgeois Martha Davis Emily Gautreau Fr. Joshua Johnson Harriet Melancon Gwen Richard Brandy Stock Stephanie Aucoin Teresa Bourgeois Tonia Davis Sydnee Gautreau JamiLyn Johnson Ramona Melancon Halle Richard Crystal Stutes Alyssa Babin Jessica Bourgoyne Britni Dawson Jared Gautreaux Janice Johnson Christine Mendizabal Kathryn Richard Mary Talbot Cameron Babin Toni Bouvier Greg DeBose Karen Gautreaux Lindsey Johnson Sharon Miano Rachelle Richard Allen Taylor Jo Babin Iris Brayden Hermeain DeGruy Paula Gebhart Sybil Johnson Julie Millard Ruby Richard Mary Jo Taylor Tim Babin Candice Breaux Ralph Delatte, Jr. Jennifer Gibson Glynette Jones Dana Millet Dan Richey Celeste Templet Paige Bacile Jessica Brignac Jody Delaune Greg Gish Edmonia Joseph Jayme Millet Kriste Rigby Shannon Templet Trudy Badeaux Stacey Brignac Michelle DeSoto Pam Glover Mary Jurey Bobby Mills Lynn Riles Elsie Thompson Donna Badon Cassie Brimmer Kade Despino Bonnie Gomez Jessica Kehn Stacie Miranda Stephanie Rizzo Myra Tircuit Nancy Ball Gilda Brooks Shea Despino Kandis Gonzales Lauren Keller Layne Mire Julie Roberts Toni Tolar Stacy Ball Rickey Brouillette Karen Devall Joey Goscha Karissa Kelly Rita Mire Brandi Roberts Lori Tomecek Kristy Bankovic Sydney Brown DeShay Devillier Sherri Gregoire Fish Kershaw Patty Miremont Brandy Robertson Debbie Torres Leila Banner Marlene Bruce Vicki DiCarlo Debbie Gremillion Janna Kershaw Laura Mitchell Kim Robertson Melissa Toups Marcus Bardwell Stephen Brunet Elizabeth Dickinson Charlette Gros Brandi Klibert Christie Monroe Tasha Robichaux Linda Toussaint Sande Bardwell Patsy Burgess Roxanne Dizor Taylor Gros Lori Kyle Sherri Montagnino Christen Robinson Angela Tovar Gwen Barker Dr. Fred Cardwell Wendy Domingue Nell Guedry Lorie Labry Katherine Moreau Alison Rogers Patience Travasos Ansleigh Barras Eileen Carroll Flora Donald Sherry Gueho Kim Lacinak Paisley Morgan Mittie Rohner Joy Traylor Bethanie Barrilleaux Ryan Carruth Alford Dora Cindy Guidroz Angie Lacoste Reginald Morrison Fred Romero Liz Truex Robert Barrilleaux Lucy Cason Barbara Dorgan Kathy Guidry Darby Lambert Sarah Neau Nicole Roper Lynette Tucker Donna Bass Ashley Casteel Allison Dreher Melanie Guillory Jamie Lambert B.J. Nepveux Molly Rose Iva Tullier David Bazzelle Amy Cavalier Julie Dronet Frank Guillot Kathleen Lambert- Sarah Nepveux Karen Rossi Dina Tunstall Nick Beard Cheryl Cavaliere Yvonne Dubret Mary Lou Guillot Oswald Janice Newton Darie Russo Anna Vanhaverbeke Keith Beaucoudray Ann Cazes Josie Duke Cathy Haase Bebe Landry Elizabeth Norwood Jaci Sadden Michelle Venable Duane Becnel Kenny Cazes Karen Duncan Theresa Hagan Emilys Landry Kayla Oliphant Patricia Sanchez Erin Vignes Bonnie Begue Jarod Chabarria Duke Duplessis Lucie Hanewinkel Nikki Landry Monice Oliphant Michael Sanders Kerry Villnuve Angela Bell Lisa Champagne Carolyn Dupuy Danielle Hardee Rene Landry Andrea Oubre Deshay Savoy Mary Vince Valerie Belleu Peggy Champagne Jill Durbin Michele Hardin Edna Mae Lathers Missy Oubre Renae Schexnaydre Mike Vince Christian Benoit Christie Chapman Erica Durlacher Patsy Harding Luke Lavergne Michalyn Ourso Troy Schexnaydre Dave Visner Mary Benoit Patricia Chedville Wendy Enloe Melissa Harshbarger Luke LaVergne Robin Overhultz Kris Scioneaux Kati Wallace Evelyn Bergeron Pat Chidester Wendy Enloe Susan Haydel L. J. LeBlanc Sarah Overhultz Stephanie Scott Heather Wegmann Glynn Bergeron Rachel Christ Brian Falcon Barbara Haynes Sandy LeBlanc Rebecca Parks Vickie Seal Chavon White Kevin Bergeron Diane Christy Derek Falguost Erika Heath Valerie LeBoeuf Wendy Parrish Krystal Sellers Angela Williams Lisa Bergeron Ta'Rhonda Chube Trudy Falguost Dr. Jimmy Hebert Dorothy LeDoux Virginia Patecek Jeffry Sheets Jerilyn Williams Ann Bertsch Ursanie Clayton Karen Fawley June Hebert Jules Lefeaux Cecilia Patin Tonia Sheets Amber Willis Amy Besselman Shnoa Clements Rachel Felix Kathy Hebert Angie Leger- Margaret Patin Ned Sheets Janice Windham Lara Bettencourtt Jaime Clouatre Emily Fellows Ouida Hedden Foreman Erica Paul Sally Short John Windham Eleanor Henley Tim Lessard Suzanne Payne Kevin Shows Mari Ellen Wintz Deacon Al Levy Melissa Pellechino Rachel Shows Christie Wood Trish Little Nicole Pelloat Gary Sibille Marie Wraight Office of Penny Litty Nell Pepitone Raynell Siener Betty Wright Mikie Long Amy Pereira Miriam Simms Eddie Wright Evangelization & Catechists, Erica Looney Nikki Perez Rachel Smiley Linette Wylie Suzanne Lopez Andrea Perry Lindsey Smith Shayna Yates Youth & Young Adult Ministry Cory Lormand Crystal Picou Sheri Smith Asa J. Young Dina Dow, Director • Barry Schoedel Hollie Louque Janice Pintado Summer Smith John Young Lana Louque Sophia Pipsair Stacy Snellgrove Linda Young Shannon Baldridge • Michele Johnson Sheri Louque Agnes Pizzolato Gretchen Soniat Deborah Zeringue West Giffin • Nicole Jones Denise Louviere Anne Platte Edith Soulier Jerry Zimmerman September 13, 2019 The Catholic Commentator 9 Climbers exist inside the church, too, pope says

VATICAN CITY (CNS) ­– People who take the last place because “everyone new cardinals from around the world ation, an observance begun by the Ortho- race to get top positions often feel supe- who exalts himself will be humbled, but Oct. 5, including Canadian Jesuit Father dox Church and now celebrated by many rior to others, an attitude that destroys the one who humbles himself will be ex- Michael Czerny, undersecretary of the Christians. the possibility for fellowship and commu- alted.” Section for Migrants and Refugees at the The ecumenical day of prayer, he nion, Pope Francis said. The pope said that the desire to rise to Dicastery for Promoting Integral Human said, “is a favorable time to praise God “We all know these people: climbers, the top in both “civil and ecclesial” circles Development. for all his creatures and the assumption always trying to climb up, up. They hurt happens even today “and not just when Pope Francis also commemorated the of responsibility in front of the cry of the brotherhood, they damage brotherhood,” someone is invited to lunch.” World Day of Prayer for the Care of Cre- earth.” the pope said Sept. 1 during his Sunday Instead of seeking to be first, the pope Angelus address. added, Christians are called to follow Thousands of pilgrims waited outside Christ who “always shows us the way of St. Peter’s Square to listen to and pray humility” because it is “the most authen- with the pope. However, the pope was tic one that also allows us to have authen- late, which is unusual for his Angelus ap- tic relationships.” pointment. In the Gospel reading, Jesus also en- Excusing himself for the delay, the courages his host to invite the poor, the pope explained that he was stuck in an lame and the blind to his banquet so that elevator for almost a half-hour. he may receive “a divine reward that is “Thank God the firefighters came I much greater” than giving and receiving thank them very much and after 25 min- favors from others, which “usually dis- utes of work they were able to get (the el- torts relationships and commercializes evator) working. An applause to the fire- them,” the pope said. fighters,” he said. “Humble generosity is Christian,” Pope In his address, the pope focused on the Francis said. “Jesus invites us to selfless Sunday Gospel reading in which Jesus generosity, to open the way for a much recounts two parables while dining at the greater joy, the joy of being part of the house of a leading Pharisee. very love of God that awaits us, all of us, TIP OF THE HAT – Pope Francis tries on a hat presented by a journalist aboard his flight Noticing how many guests rushed in the heavenly banquet.” from Rome to Maputo, Mozambique, Sept. 4. During his flight, the pope asked journal- to take the place of honor at the table, After praying the Angelus prayer, the ists to pray for victims of Hurricane Dorian, especially in the Bahamas. CNS photo Jesus exhorted them to be humble and pope announced that he will create 13

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With a color guard proving a dramatic entrance at Our Lady of Mercy Church in Baton Rouge, hundreds There were four recipients of the Catho- of scouts and scout leaders made their way down the aisle to the front pews on Sunday, Aug. 25, for the lic Adult Awards, two for the Bronze Peli- Catholic Committee on Scouting (CCOS) Religious Award Ceremony. The event began with the procession can and two for the St. George medals. of the color guard, Knights of Columbus and Bishop Michael G. Duca, who was accompanied by Father Mat- The Bronze Pelican is awarded to indi- thew Graham, pastor of St. Jules Church in Belle Rose and St. Elizabeth in Paincourtville, and Father Chris viduals in recognition of their efforts to Decker, pastor of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Maringouin, St. Francis Xavier Cabrini Church in contribute to the spiritual nourishment of Livonia and St. Joseph Church in Grosse Tete. Catholic boys and girls in scouting. Following the Pledge of Allegiance and the entrance hymn of “America the Beautiful,” Bishop Duca The two Bronze Pelican Award winners blessed the medals that would be distributed to 115 scouts. were Elizabeth Matherne and Gina Arrigo “Heavenly Father, we ask you to bless these medals before us,” the bishop said. “They Wilson. represent hard work of these young men and women who recognize your presence in Matherne, from Girl Scout Troop 1437 their scouting experience. To be a good a citizen is also to be a good man or woman of from Immaculate Conception Church in faith. We ask you to bless these medals as a sign of their hard work. We ask that you Denham Springs, has been instrumental continue to bless them in their success. May they see these medals not only as a sign in encouraging 17 scouts to earn their re- of their accomplishment but as a sign of their faith in you, our Lord Jesus Christ, and ligious emblems and has also planned ad- in their church.” ditional religious events centering on the Religious awards were given to both leaders and youth in 10 categories. Blessed Mother. Bronze Pelican Award recipients were Gina Wilson and Elizabeth Matherne. Wilson has worn many hats at St. George St. George Emblem recipients were Deacon Richard Grant and Ron Usie. Fa- Church, including den leader for Cub Scout ther Graham is the new chaplain of the CCOS, taking over duties from for- Pack 136, leader to Girl Scout Troop 10591 mer scout chaplain Deacon Grant. and religious emblem counselor. She has “I am excited to be once again part of the Catholic Committee on Scout- been instrumental in encouraging 22 ing for the Diocese as I was the chairman in 2009 when I discerned to Scouts to earn their religious emblems. enter the seminary and study for the priesthood” said Father Gra- The St. George medal is presented to in- ham. “So it has been exactly 10 years since I left and I’m happy to dividuals who have made significant and return. My time in the Boy Scouts as a youth and a leader helped outstanding contributions to the spiritual me to discern my vocation. My duties are to be a spiritual guide development of Catholic youth through for the committee, answer questions that come up in regards to scouting. the Church teaching, and to help coordinate with the diocese on The recipients of the St. George Award some of our functions such as the religious emblems ceremony were Deacon Richard Grant and Ron Usie. and a yearly Mass and luncheon with the bishop.” Deacon Grant has served more than 10 Other religious awards distributed included God is Love; years as the Catholic Scout chaplain. He Family of God; Our Lady’s Award; I Live My Faith; Mary, has been a strong advocate for Catholic the First Disciple; Light of Christ; Parvuli Dei; and, Ad scouting and the American Heritage Girls Altare Dei. After medals were awarded, the bishop spoke not only in his home parish of Our Lady of about the importance of having future leaders who are Mercy Church in Baton Rouge but the en- strong in their faith. tire diocese. “More and more today, we need leaders in the future who He has helped host award ceremonies, are going to be young men and women who can be leaders trainings, rosary and saints programs and where their faith shows through their actions, their moral has been a strong leader to the Catholic conduct, their strength of character and this is one step in the Committee on Scouting for Baton Rouge. development of those goals in life,” said Bishop Duca. Usie has served as scoutmaster to Troop The closing hymn for the ceremony was “God Bless America.” 472 at St. John the Baptist Church in Zach- Accompanied by the Knights of Columbus , the scouts and ary. He served for many years on the Cath- their families processed across the road to Mercy’s Parish Activ- olic Committee on Scouting and worked ity Center for a reception and photos with the bishop. diligently as the webmaster to keep us all Members of the Knights of Columbus who attended the event informed. were Don Ducote, Jim LaBauve, Vernon Ducote, Barry Miles, He also served as Religious Emblem Van Keller, Herb Holkamp, David Caruso and Randy Millet. counselor for his troop. He wears many hats in his home parish including RCIA instructor, eucharistic minister and lector. Photos by Bonny Van | The Catholic Commentator 12 The Catholic Commentator September 13, 2019 RHS alumni pitch in to help St. Gerard

By Bonny Van The Catholic Commentator

A group of Redemptorist High School alumni, who continue to remain loyal to their school, have rallied to express sup- port for their alma mater’s elementary school, Redemptorist St. Gerard School in Baton Rouge. “We wanted to do something for this school and to make it a place where chil- dren want to go to school,” said Mary Miller, a Redemptorist High graduate and Redemptorist St. Gerard volunteer. Not long after principal Cheryl Dom- ino stepped into her new job on July 1, Ashley Pizzolato, the school’s bookkeep- er and another Redemptorist graduate, asked if Domino would like to meet with a group of willing volunteers, all of whom share fond memories of their North Baton Rouge alma mater which closed several years ago. “Miss Mary was the chairperson and The grounds of Redemptorist St. Gerard School in Baton Rouge were spruced up during a two-day cleanup effort just before school asked, ‘How can we help with this school?’ started Aug. 7. A new sign, donated by Mary and Jeff Miller, was also put up. Photos by Bonny Van | The Catholic Commentator

The cafeteria was repainted along with And, I said, ‘Walk with me,’ ” recalled After meeting with Domino, mainte- and bushes were cut and trimmed. The classrooms and offices. Domino. “She saw the need and got on it.” nance supervisor Willie Crenshaw and school is also sporting a new sign, made other staff members, Miller said a plan by Miller and her husband. was made to get the school ready for the In addition to helping hands, Miller arrival of 202 students on the first day of said wish lists for office supplies, set up school, Aug. 7. Miller recruited volunteers with an online retailer, were immedi- through social media and other contacts ately filled. She added that eight donors and enlisted the help of her family mem- stepped up to sponsor classrooms and bers, including her husband Jeff. For two their needs. days on the weekend before school began, Additional projects and events are 45 volunteers rolled up their sleeves and planned for the future, including es- got to work. tablishing a building and maintenance Jennifer Sims, a junior at St. Joseph’s fund to pay for central air and heat at the Academy in Baton Rouge and a relative school. Currently, window units cool and of Miller, was among those who showed heat classrooms and offices only. up to work. She also recruited friends to “(A few of my friends) and I were look- assist and said she was moved by the ex- ing for a new ministry,” said Miller. “We perience. want to see our money, our time and our “I thought it was wonderful that we efforts change the community.” could help out,” said Sims. “I was excited “I am overwhelmed and grateful,” said to get involved and do what I could do.” Domino. “Miss Mary came to open house Miller said there were an abundance of and I introduced her like a sister, like I’ve blessings on the project. During a trip to been knowing her for ages, and I haven’t. a local paint store, Miller said she was in- She doesn’t just talk about it, she puts quiring about a donation of paint when a things into action.” painter mentioned a job he was on with 75 Built in 1947, Redemptorist St. Gerard gallons of unused paint available. Miller School sits on St. Gerard Avenue with said one phone call later and the company beautiful oak trees shading the front en- had approved the donation of the unused trance. Now with this beautification ef- paint. fort, the energy inside the school can be “That’s God,” Miller of the experience. felt and seen alongside the spruced up “Because that was very expensive and we grounds and freshly painted halls and were able to repaint all the classrooms, walls. almost every floor, the cafeteria and the “I came to Redemptorist High School concession stand (in the gym).” in 10th grade, and this community of Re- The hallways were also repainted with demptorist changed my life,” said Miller. flowers and clouds “to make it a happy “And when you hear people say, ‘Redemp- place for the kids,” she added. torist is a family,’ that’s exactly what it The outside of the building was pres- means. You have made a life-long connec- sure washed, flowerbeds were cleaned out tion wherever you go.”

Flowers, butterflies and clouds were painted onto the walls of the hallways in the school during the cleanup project at the school. September 13, 2019 The Catholic Commentator 13

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A-III; PG-13 leisurely unfolded story of conversion As the vice president (Tim Blake Nelson) ten bloody violence, some gruesome im- and reconciliation that would have been takes over and uses evidence of Russian ages, a couple of uses of profanity, several Ready or Not more effective if allowed to speak for it- involvement to push for a war that would milder oaths, pervasive rough and crude Fox Searchlight self. While objectionable elements are benefit an old buddy (Danny Huston) of language. A-III; R Thoroughly unpleasant horror fantasy, entirely absent from his message-driven the protagonist’s who’s become a private directed by Matt Bettinelli-Olpin and Ty- film, some of the topics raised make this military contractor, and an FBI official Blinded by the Light ler Gillett, about a bride (Samara Weav- unlikely fare for kids. Mature themes, in- (Jada Pinkett Smith) tries to figure out Warner Bros. ing) who belatedly discovers that one cluding narcotics use, a bit of marital dis- the truth, he escapes and goes on the The hardscrabble world of 1980s Lu- of her wealthy groom’s (Mark O’Brien) cord. A-II; PG lam to get to the bottom of it all by him- ton, England, provides the setting for this ancestors long ago made a devilish pact self. Director and co-writer Ric Roman touching fact-based mix of drama and that could have fatal consequences for The Peanut Butter Falcon Waugh’s addition to the franchise that comedy from writer-director Gurinder her. The terms of the Faustian bargain by Roadside which the clan obtained their fortune dic- Heartwarming drama, primarily set tate that, on her wedding night, she play on the Outer Banks of North Carolina, a murderous game of hide and seek dur- in which a young man with Down syn- ing which her new hubby’s relatives (most drome (Zack Gottsagen) and no family prominently Adam Brody, Henry Czerny to care for him escapes the retirement and Andie MacDowell), motivated by the home where the state has warehoused belief, derived from family lore, that if him for lack of a more suitable facility she survives until dawn they will all die and takes to the road. He crosses paths a ghastly death, pursue her through their with a down-on-his-luck crab fisherman vast mansion. Screenwriters Guy Busick (Shia LaBeouf) who’s being pursued by and R. Christopher Murphy imbue the two lowlife rivals (John Hawkes and proceedings with pitch-black humor, but rapper Yelawolf). Though his new com- also consider outrageous gore part of the panion is initially gruff, the two bond fun. Thus the violent encounters among and the angler agrees to help the lad in-laws become increasingly gruesome in achieve his dream of meeting his idol, the lead-up to a climactic sequence that a professional wrestler (Thomas Haden must be among the bloodiest ever filmed. Church). As the duo shares Tom and Excessive gory violence, drug use, about Huck-like adventures, a sympathetic a dozen profanities, pervasive rough and caregiver from the old-age home (Da- crude language. O; R kota Johnson) is on their trail. Directors and co-writers Tyler Nilson and Michael Where’d You Go, Bernadette Schwartz handle their Southern Gothic- Annapurna tinged story with a light and dexterous Director and co-writer Richard Lin- touch. The result is an aesthetically ac- klater’s adaptation of the 2012 bestseller complished, implicitly pro-life movie by Maria Semple follows a devoted mom that subtly but resolutely upholds the (Cate Blanchett) but an otherwise abomi- dignity of all. A good deal of gritty talk, nable human being as she goes through though justified by the context, probably mental difficulties after devastating set- puts this off-limits even for older teens, backs in her architectural career. When despite its valuable message. Brief par- a proposed family trip with her suc- tial nudity, mature themes, a few uses of cessful computer programmer husband profanity, at least one rough term, per- (Billy Crudup) and middle-school-aged vasive crude and some crass language, a daughter (Emma Nelson) sets off her couple of obscene gestures. A-III; PG-13

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Father Jamin David at St. Margaret Queen of 1234 56789 11120 131 VOCATIONS  Scotland Church in Albany but admitted this From page 1 year was a difference experience. 41 51 61 “Last year I did not have much of an expec- 187 1 91 taking the parish truck to have the oil changed. tation so what happened was I followed Father Some seminarians serve in a hospital for the Jamin around everywhere he went, which was 02 12 22 summer or perhaps go on a mission trip. a good thing, and I think I really needed that,” 32 254 2 “(The summer internships) are so vital to my Turner said. “This summer I wanted to take discernment,” said Turner. “You can learn so more of an initiative and was able to do some 276 282 92 much just spending a week with a priest. The things on my own.” 03 3312343 3 seminary trains us and we get a lot of the prin- He said his summer work even included mak- 53 63 73 ciples. When you go to do your summer assign- ing homebound visits on his own, which he ad- ments you get to see how the principles are ap- mitted was initially confusing because some of 398 3 04 plied in practical situations. We don’t get a lot the people were older and not necessarily aware 14 24 of that in the seminary.” of what was happing. But he said he found an Father Lorrain said the summer assignments internal joy, and for that he was grateful. 443 454 64 are multi-purposed, in some cases just provid- “I think the biggest difference (from 2018) 74 84 409 515 ing companionship to a pastor who is assigned is more confidence in my vocation and my- in a parish by himself. Seminarians are as- self, especially starting out in the seminary 25 543 555 signed to cover all areas of the diocese so they when I was 18 years old, coming right out of 65 75 85 can be a witness for vocations. high school,” Turner said. “It took a while and “I try to put them in parishes with priests some experience being with parishioners to be 95 06 16 that will assist them in their growth,” Father comfortable to be myself in front of people and moc.scilohtacrofsemagdrow.www Lorrain said, adding that the summer is a time being comfortable ministering to other people. ACROSS 2 Engrave for a seminarian to work on his soft skills, in- “Every year I do an internship I gain more 1 Where Jesus met the Samaritan 3 Decoy woman 4 Nero’s full deck? cluding adjusting to living in a rectory. confidence in myself and being able to minister 5 Boss monk 5 Be present at Mass “Are they easy to live with? Are they difficult?” without being worried about people judging. I 10 Soft pulpy mass 6 Rumor he said. “Those are the kind of things that are think the biggest thing for me is not worrying 14 Sewing case 7 Set afire 15 Armistice 8 Wood sorrel important so that we can give them feedback to about the unknowns and trust in God and trust 16 Double curve 9 No. starting with an area code say ‘you’re kind of messy,’ which might not be what he has given is enough.” 17 Pertaining to the Bible 10 Communal way of life in the Church noticeable at the seminary. Or they might need Turner said the internship helped affirm his 19 Bright star 11 Disco era phrase to learn to pick up after themselves.” decision to become a priest and made him even 20 Definite article 12 Years Jacob promised to work to 21 Restraint marry Rachel He said those practical skills that need sharp- more eager for the day he is ordained. He ad- 22 Pilsner 13 Listens to ening might not be so obvious in seminary life, mitted seminarians are limited in what they 23 Pious platitudes 18 Trick but something that can be pointed out before can do but the experience is invaluable, espe- 24 Jails 22 Hayes of “The Mod Squad” ordination. cially in his spiritual life and learning how to 26 Commandment that forbids taking 23 First Christian Roman Emperor God’s name in vain 24 Enamel “The internship is as much practical as spiri- pray like a priest does and establishing a rela- 29 Spoil 25 Ascend tual,” Father Lorrain said. “You want to mea- tionship with Jesus in the midst of what can 30 Tree part 26 The Wise Men followed it sure their discipline, their self-knowledge. You be a typical chaotic day in the life of a parish 31 She taught with her husband 27 Perry’s creator don’t want to just focus on psychology because priest. Aquila 28 Drinking vessels 35 Swiss mountain range 29 ___fatty acid that would be missing the point.” “We don’t put high expectations on what (a 36 Large wading bird 31 Head of a monastery “As long as the guy knows what are his seminarian) needs to learn or to develop (in the 37 Prompted 32 Biblical physician strengths and what are his gifts,” he said. “You summer),” Father Lorrain said. “Whatever God 38 Confinement 33 Sly look don’t have to have it all nailed down but point- provides in the summer is why you were there. 40 Enjoyed 34 Does sum work 41 Mercury or Saturn 36 Roman statesman ed in the right direction. You have a clear desti- It’s not as if there is a long list of things that 42 Not winners 39 Anglo-Saxon writing symbol nation in front of you.” need to be accomplished other than growth in 43 Catholic author of A Good Man is 40 St. ___ Bertrand Turner said he assisted at all of the Masses, faith and personal growth.” Hard to Find 42 Evens 46 “Te ___” 43 Opposite one of two performed maintenance work such as setting “It’s not like we are looking for perfection in 47 Hackneyed 44 Doctrine up tables and chairs and sitting in on some the summertime,” he added. “We know we all 48 AKA Matthew (Lk 5:27) 45 Greased meetings and marriage prep sessions with Fa- make mistakes. We are looking for openness 49 Genetic marker (abbr.) 46 Postpone ther Broussard. to God’s grace and life and a strong desire to 52 Father of Joseph (Lk 3:23) 48 Roundish projection 53 ___ of Faith 49 “What you sow does not come to Turner had spent six weeks in 2018 assisting serve others.” 56 Biblical garden life unless it ___.” (1 Cor 15:16) 57 Trademark 50 Shem’s father 58 Goliath lost his 51 Actor Griffith 59 Traveled 53 Middle Eastern grp. 60 Debtors 54 Inexperienced GOSPEL  answers. Asking for strength from the Holy Spirit. 61 Wan 55 ___ Na Na From page 2 A participation in the sacraments, especially the Eucharist. Continued growth in deep knowledge of DOWN ity, proclaiming truth, goodness, conversion and the Bible. Being a person of peace. Living the beati- 1 Direction from the Jordan to Bethle- hem reconciliation, not just when it is convenient, or tudes. Being aware of others. Desiring for what is without pushback, but all the time. Obstacles and good, holy and beautiful. Having a fiery love of God Solution on page 18 naysayers, even among family and friends, are to and others within your heart. A willingness to be be expected. Am I willing to persevere in the truth, vulnerable in order to invite others to the table of despite all obstacles? Have I set my goal of eternity, the Lord. Offering sacrificial love. Understanding as I run on the path of faith? Am I open to accom- humility. Embracing mercy. Learning more about panying others on the same journey who may have the lives of the saints in glory. strayed off the path? Fixing our eyes on Jesus is a challenge in today’s Jesus prepares us for entry into the “gate” stat- time, where so much is pulling at our gaze. Yet, it is ing, “Strive to enter through the narrow gate, for possible to peel away distractions and set a 20/20 many, I tell you, will attempt to enter but will not vison on Jesus, who is the face of God. be strong enough” (Lk 13:24). What will give us strength to enter the narrow gate? Thinking about Dow is the Director of the Office of Evangeli- Jesus as our guide, perhaps the following may zation and Catechesis for the Diocese of Baton prove fruitful: A life centered on prayer, expecting Rouge. 16 The Catholic Commentator VIEWPOINT September 13, 2019 Clergy retreat set How do I look to Jesus?

Dear People of God of the Diocese of Baton Rouge, am not who I think I am. but affirmation of others. He called us to be affir- I am not who you think I am. mative looking glasses for others, especially the One of the pillars of our priestly “I I am what I think that you think I am.” young. Psychology has the right theme; it is just life is growing in our priestly minis- This is called the looking-glass too me-centered. Jesus didn’t teach try skills and in our self-awareness concept of self. We see ourselves his disciples to help themselves; he as called by God to priesthood. Our in the eyes of others. If we are taught them to help others. diocese has a long-standing tradi- loved, we know ourselves as lov- We can learn from the way Jesus tion of offering a Clergy Fall Retreat able. If we are praised, we see treated his disciples. He believed in October mandatory every other ourselves as talented. If others in their goodness. Jesus told St. year, as well as the mandatory An- believe in us, we gain ambition to Peter, “You are the rock.” St. Peter nual Priests’ Formation Days in reach our goals. did not act like a rock at first, but January. The Clergy Fall Retreat Like so much psychologi- through Jesus’ assurance, patience is mandatory this year and will be cal lore in our modern age, it and forgiveness he became a rock. held on October 7-10. is both true and dangerous. It The German poet Goethe illustrated Their temporary absence will af- is so true that St. Paul makes it this point well. “Treat people as fect certain regular pastoral minis- the key assertion of his Epistle they ought to be, and you help them tries. In particular, the schedule of From the Bishop to the Romans. No matter what become what they are capable of weekday Masses and possible times Bishop Michael G. Duca befalls us in life, St. Paul says that being.” for funeral Masses may be impact- “we are more than conquerors Another Jesus prayed for others: “For ed and adjusted in your parish to meet a family’s needs. Please be because of him (Jesus) who has these I pray, not for the world but patient and if possible flexible on scheduling of a funeral Mass to loved us” (Rom 8:37). This truth Perspective for these you have given me, for allow your pastor to complete his days of retreat. Remember the is dangerous because our psy- they are really yours” (Jn 17:9). If deacons of your parish are able to provide a pastoral presence and chological age seems to produce Father John Carville our prayer and our concern are for can be scheduled for the vigil wake service. so much self-centeredness. We others, we tend to forget our own I ask that you pray for our priests and our diocese dur- worry so much about ourselves, troubles. We also understand better ing these days of retreat. I appreciate your affirmation and -en place so much emphasis on our self-development God’s will for us by considering the courage and couragement of our priests who give their lives for our diocese. that we forget about others, about God and make faith of others. They can be a looking glass that May God be generous in leading us into the future with hope. ourselves miserable. inspires us. Christians should be happy, but many are not. In his affirmation of others Jesus was creative. One year at our annual clergy retreat in Octo- He was a master of the principle “Don’t argue, ber at Manresa Retreat House in Convent, La., illustrate.” That’s the point of his parables. It Letters to the Editor Father Mark Link SJ a nationally famous retreat was the way he treated people like St. Peter who master and writer, said, “If you believe that God had let him down so badly, even denying that Letters to the Editor should be typed and limited to 350 words loves you, and focus on the good part of yourself, he knew him. Jesus not only forgave St. Peter’s and should contain the name and address of the writer, though you have it made.” But then, why aren’t there triple denial by three times telling him that he the address will not be printed. We reserve the right to edit all more happy Christians? was still leader of the sheep Jesus’ disciples, but letters. Send to: Letters to the Editor, The Catholic Commentator, Perhaps it is a question of grace. We can’t he also predicted that now St. Peter would be P. O. Box 3316, Baton Rouge, LA 70821-3316, or to [email protected]. grace ourselves. Grace can only come from oth- faithful until death. “When you are old, you will ers, ultimately from God, but often from God stretch out your hands, and someone else will through others. Others are our looking glass, dress you and lead you where you do not want and God’s love shown to us by them is what to go. He said this signifying by what kind of makes us happy. In today’s terminology that is death he (Peter) would glorify God” (Jn: 18-19). Mission Statement called affirmation. Encouraged by Jesus’ vision for him, Peter once Jesus was a master of affirmation. He looked again followed him. The mission of The Catholic Commentator is to provide news, at a bunch of smelly fisherman and said, “You So will others, if they see themselves loved by information and commentary to the people of the Diocese of are the salt of the earth; you are the light of the God in the looking glass we are for them. Baton Rouge, Catholics and their neighbors alike. In doing so, The world.” He showed his disciples what they could Catholic Commentator strives to further the wider mission of the really be what God wanted them to be, and they FATHER CARVILLE is a retired priest in the Diocese Church: to evangelize, to communicate, to educate and to give sought that pearl of great price for the rest of of Baton Rouge and writes on current topics for the Catholic viewpoint on important issues of the present day. their lives. The Catholic Commentator. He can be reached Jesus taught affirmation, not self-affirmation, at [email protected]. | Pray for those who pray for us Please pray for the priests, deacons and religious women and men in the Baton Rouge Diocese. Sept. 19 Rev. Howard R. Adkins Br. Noel Lemmon SC Dcn. Mauricio Salazar OP Dcn. Roger A. Navarra Sept. 24 Rev. Joey F. Angeles Sr. Cynthia Sabathier CSJ Br. Dwight Kenney SC Dcn. Minos J. Ponville Jr. Sept. 29 Rev. Mark B. Beard Sept. 20 Rev. Donatus Ajoko Sr. Guadalupe Rosales HMSS Dcn. Eliazar Salinas Jr. Dcn. Angelo S. Nola Sept. 25 Rev. Charles A. Atuah MSP Br. Paul Montero SC Sr. Janet Roesener CSJ Dcn. Curles P. Reeson Jr. Sept. 30 Rev. Robert H. Berggreen Sept. 21 Rev. Michael J. Alello Br. Roger LeMoyne SC Dcn. Mario (Sam) Sammartino Dcn. Ricky P. Oubre Sept. 26 Rev. J. Cary Bani Sr. Anna Schellhass CSJ Br. Clifford King SC Dcn. Alfred J. Ricard Jr. Oct. 1 Rev. Donald V. Blanchard Sept. 22 Rev. David E. Allen Sr. Eileen Rowe FMOL Dcn. Joseph M. Scimeca Dcn. Stephen Paul Ourso Sept. 27 Rev. Frank B. Bass Br. Marcus Turcotte SC Sr. Brendan Mary Ronayne FMOL Dcn. Thomas M. Robinson Oct. 2 Rev. Patrick Broussard Sept. 23 Rev. Richard R. Andrus SVD Br. Malcolm Melcher SC Dcn. Rudolph W. Stahl Dcn. Ricky A. Patterson Sept. 28 Rev. M. Jeffery Bayhi Sr. Janelle Sevier SNDdeN September 13, 2019 VIEWPOINT The Catholic Commentator 17 A lesson in aging

e live in a culture that idealiz- aging doesn’t normally announce its eyes – nor in your own. deeper into the mystery of life, of com- es youth and marginalizes the arrival. You’re mostly blind to it until Moreover gravity doesn’t just affect munity, of God and of itself. Our souls Wold. And, as James Hillman one day you see yourself in a mirror, your body, pulling things downward, so don’t age, like a wine, they mature, and says, the old don’t let go easily either of see a recent photo of too for the soul. It’s pulled so we can always be young in spirit. Our the throne or the drive that took them yourself, or get a diag- downward along with the zest, our fire, our eagerness, our wit, there. I know; I’m aging. nosis from your doctor body, though aging means our brightness and our humor are not For most of my life, I’ve been able and suddenly you’re hit something very different meant to dim with age. Indeed, they’re to think of myself as young. Because on the head with the here. The soul doesn’t meant to be the very color of a mature I was born late in the year, October, I unwelcome realization age, it matures. You can soul. was always younger than most of my that you’re no longer stay young in soul long af- So, in the end, aging is a gift, even if classmates, graduated from high school a young person. That ter the body betrays you. unwanted. Aging takes us to a deeper at age 17, entered the seminary at that usually comes as a Indeed we’re meant to be place, whether we want to go or not. tender age, was ordained to the priest- surprise. Aging gener- always young in spirit. Like most everyone else, I still hood at age 25, did an advanced degree ally makes itself known Souls carry life dif- haven’t made my full peace with this within the next year, and was teaching in ways that have you ferently than do bodies and would still like to think of myself graduate theology at age 26, the young- denying it, fighting it because bodies are built as young. However I was particularly est member on the faculty. I was proud and accepting it only to eventually die. Inside happy to celebrate my 70th birthday of that, achieving those things so early. piecemeal, and with of every living body the two years ago, not because I was happy And so I always thought of myself as some bitterness. In Exile life-principle has an exit to be that age, but because, after two se- young, even as the years piled up and But that day comes strategy. It has no such rious bouts with cancer in recent years, my body began to betray my conception round for everyone Father Ron Rolheiser strategy inside a soul, I was very happy just to be alive and of myself as young. when you’re surprised, only a strategy to deepen, wise enough now to be a little grateful Moreover, for most of those years, I stunned, that what you grow richer and more tex- for what aging and a cancer diagno- tried to stay young too in soul, staying are seeing in the mirror is so different tured. Aging forces us, mostly against sis has taught me. There are certain on top of what was shaping youth cul- from how you have been imagining our will, to listen to our soul more secrets hidden from health, writes John ture, its movies, its popular songs, its yourself and you ask yourself: “Is this deeply and more honestly so as to draw Updike. True. And aging uncovers a lot lingo. During my years in seminary and really me? Am I this old person? Is this from its deeper wells and begin to make of them because, as a Swedish proverb for a good number of years after ordina- what I look like? ” Moreover you begin peace with its complexity, its shadow puts it, “afternoon knows what the tion, I was involved in youth ministry, to notice that young people are forming and its deepest proclivities – and the morning never suspected.” helping give youth retreats in various their circles away from you, that they’re aging of the body plays the key role in high schools and colleges. At that time, more interested in their own kind, this. To employ a metaphor from James Oblate Father Ron Rolheiser, theologian, I could name all the popular songs, which doesn’t include you, and you look Hillman: The best wines have to be teacher and award-winning author, is movies, trends, speak youth’s language silly and out of place when you try to aged in cracked old barrels. So too for president of the Oblate School of Theolo- and I prided myself in being young. dress, act and speak like they do. There the soul: The aging process is designed gy in San Antonio, Texas. He can be con- But nature offers no exemptions. comes a day when you have accept that by God and nature to force the soul, tacted through his website ronrolheiser. Nobody stays young forever. Moreover, you’re no longer young in the world’s whether it wants to or not, to delve ever com and facebook.com/ronrolheiser. In secret you will be repaid

t. Augustine was a “seller media and to ask what they are In the Gospel of Matthew, about our relationship to God. bling act of confession where of words.” Prior to his professing. Jesus says, “In praying, do not The dispersed self, the self God and self enter into an Sconversion, St. Augustine St. Augus- babble like the that is present everywhere at intimate exchange. No longer was a professor of rhetoric in tine’s conversion pagans, who think once online, is in need of recol- dispersed in the world, racing Rome, making money teach- from rhetoric that they will be lection. Far-flung photographs to publish the clever or intel- ing students how to speak well to Christianity heard because on Instagram and random lectual quip for likes, the self is and persuade audiences. When stemmed from of their many thoughts on Twitter are slivers most at home in quiet conver- the great saint found his way his awareness words” (6:7). of the self in need of being sation with God. to Christianity, he realized that that talkative- But St. Augus- gathered together again to “When you pray, do not be he had to abandon his “chair of ness, lots of tine is a doctor of make the picture whole. Who like the hypocrites, who love to lies.” arguing and the church and am I? What am I trying to say? stand and pray in the syna- Is it possible that speech professing, is without “The To whom? gogues and on street corners and rhetoric, the gift of human akin to silence. City of God,” the Recollection is the prac- so that others may see them. communication, can be an Lots of noise or “Confessions” tice of gathering those things Amen, I say to you, they have obstacle to the life of faith? St. no noise at all and his beauti- together again to see the self received their reward. But Augustine’s conversion ap- contributes very ful sermons, the in full. when you pray, go to your inner pears to be one from rhetoric little because church would be To read St. Augustine’s room, close the door and pray to Christianity. What’s behind it suggests an Theology in impoverished! “Confessions” is to hear the to your Father in secret. And this shift? absence of love. True enough. voice of a saint who has discov- your Father who sees in secret In the age of 500 million Like St. Paul Technology St. Augustine’s ered how to be present to him- will repay you” (Mt 6:5-6). tweets per day, there are a lot said, “If I speak prolific output self, and to God, once again. He of words proffered online to in human and Brett Robinson after his conver- is no longer dispersed, casting ROBINSON is director of commu- persuade, amuse and an- angelic tongues sion represents a words for money in the mar- nications and Catholic media tagonize. A useful experiment but do not have love, I am a new understanding about how ketplace of speech as a rhetoric studies at the University of might be to read the last three resounding gong or a clashing our style of communication professor. Notre Dame McGrath Institute things you posted on social cymbal” (1 Cor 13:1). says something very important He has discovered the hum- for Church Life. 18 The Catholic Commentator COMING EVENTS September 13, 2019

Religious Emblem Training – The Catholic Commit- St. Elizabeth Harvest Festival – St. Elizabeth Church, be at the Lakeview Inn at the Attakapas Landing, 2080 tee on Scouting will host a training for religious emblem 119 Hwy. 403 Paincourtville, will host its Harvest Festi- Hwy. 401, Napoleonville. For more information, call 985- counselors for Boy Scouts, Cub Scouts, Girl Scouts and val on Sunday, Sept. 22, 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. For more infor- 369-2802 or 985-369-2148. American Heritage Girls units Sunday, Sept. 15, 1– 5 mation, call 225-473-8569. p.m., in the St. Jerome Library of the Our Lady of Mercy Natural Family Planning Class – A general introduc- Church Parish Activity Center, 445 Marquette Ave., Ba- Mass and Healing Service – Father Jason Palermo, tory class to Natural Family Planning class will be held ton Rouge. For more information, visit info.ccosbr.net or pastor of St. Joseph Church in French Settlement, will Saturday, Oct. 12, 9 – 10:30 a.m., at the Bishop Robert call Kathy Gora at 225-266-9001. celebrate a Mass with healing service Sunday, Sept. 22 at E. Tracy Center, 1800 S. Acadian Thwy., Baton Rouge. St. Joseph, 15710 Hwy. 16. Praise and worship will begin For more information, visit mfldiobr.org/nfp-101 or call Citizenship Workshop – Catholic Charities of the at 1:30 p.m., and Mass will begin at 2 p.m. For more in- 225-242-0323. Diocese of Baton Rouge, 1900 S. Acadian Thwy., Baton formation, call 225-698-3110. Rouge, will sponsor a free citizenship and naturaliza- Domestic Church Weekend – A Domestic Church tion workshop Saturday, Sept. 21, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. For Secular Franciscans – The monthly meeting of the Weekend will be held Thursday, Oct. 17 – Sunday, Oct. more information and to reserve a spot, call 225-346- Secular Franciscan Order will be held Sunday, Sept. 20 at Rosaryville Spirit Life Center, 39003 Rosaryville 0660. 22, in the Chapel of St. Francis of Assisi at Maryville Road, Ponchatoula. For more information and to regis- Convent, 4200 Essen Lane, Baton Rouge, beginning ter, visit domesticchurchfamilies.com. Charismatic Mass – Bishop Michael G. Duca will cel- at 1 p.m. with the recitation of the Franciscan Crown. ebrate a charistmatic Mass, sponsored by Magnificat, For further information, email Patsy T. Burgess OFS at Dr. Allen Hunt Presentation – Dr. Allen Hunt of Dy- Marian Servants of the Eucharist and Catholic Charis- [email protected] or call 225-907-8248. namic Catholic will present “Find Your Greatness: Four matic Renewal of Baton Rouge, Saturday, Sept. 21, 10 Habits That Will Transform Your Life” Friday, Oct. 18, a.m., at St. Joseph Cathedral, Fourth and Main streets, KC Fishing Rodeo – Knights of Columbus Council 6:30 – 10:30 p.m., at Our Lady of Mercy Church, 445 Baton Rouge. Praise and worship will begin at 9:30 a.m. #1099 will host a youth fishing rodeo Saturday, Sept. 28, Marquette Ave., Baton Rouge. Tickets are $25 and avail- To RSVP, email [email protected]. 6 a.m. – 1 p.m., at Lake Verret. The headquarters will able at dynamiccatholic.com or by calling 859-980-7900.

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CHAPEL  Construction began in 1918, From page 1 after the conclusion of World War I, and was completed in Au- have deep roots. gust. Parishioners Ronnie Bencaz There were approximately and Ray Burleigh share the work 100-130 Catholics at that time in keeping up with the church’s living in Livingston. physical needs. The Oblates of Mary Immacu- Bencaz, who was born and late were assigned to Livingston raised three blocks from Sacred Parish and established them- Heart, said his favorite memo- selves at St. Joseph Church in ries were the Dominican Sisters French Settlement and St. Mar- who served as catechetical in- garet Queen of Scotland Church structors. in Albany. “The sisters were a lot fun,” On Sept. 11, 1960, Immacu- said Bencaz. He said they had late Conception in Denham outdoors Halloween festivities Springs became an established that included apple games and parish and the Sacred Heart Father Frank Uter, pastor of Im- during the night free-ranging chapel became a mission of Im- maculate Conception Church in cattle ate the apples. maculate Conception. Denham Springs and the Mission He also cut and stacked wood Despite being a small church, of the Sacred Heart in Livingston, for the heater on cold days be- Sacred Heart looks confidently welcomed people to Sacred fore Mass. He also remembered to the future as a strong, vibrant Heart as the church celebrated its the eight-person telephone party community of young and old, centennial anniversary at a Mass lines, so “everyone knew your singles and families filling the Aug. 25. Photos by Debbie Shelley | The business.” church each Sunday. Catholic Commentator “It’s a close-knit community, “There are a lot of (ministry) like it is now, just like a family re- volunteers and they do it very sound system, said Father Uter. union,” Bencaz said. well. They are always ready to “You speak loudly and clearly Likewise, Burleigh described welcome new people to a minis- and it just works fine,” he said, Sacred Heart at “a big happy try,” Father Uter said. adding it adds to the atmosphere family.” He said when Sacred Heart of intimacy. “We’re always together, and faces challenges, they “rise up to “You feel like you are talking that’s how the church got start- it.” to people and you see their faces ed,” said Burleigh. Ten years ago, the church was responding,” said Father Uter. Livingston Parish began to remodeled and recently a new He said the people today are blossom with the construction altar, lecturn and cantor stand the continuing chapter of the of the railroad, resulting in set- were purchased. chapel’s history. Tiny in stature, the Mission of the Sacred Heart has a rich history. tlers moving in from the north, “It’s beautiful, it’s up-to-date,” Burleigh and Bencaz noted predominately Italians, Ger- said Father Uter. the generosity of its parishio- the bell for Mass and funerals town. mans and Hungarians, moving Additional property was pur- ners, especially Rita “Tita” Pearl for many years and her mother “The church and town have south. By the 1890s, the lumber chased that can be used for reli- Parent Contine who was the played the piano. been part of me for all my life,” industry boomed and lumber gious education or a rectory as “matriarch” of Sacred Heart and Contine’s brother, Larry Par- said Parent. “There’s a kind of mills and railroad towns sprang well as additional parking. a house next to the church that ent, 89, who also rang the bell, unity with everyone; they all up throughout south Louisiana, One unique thing about the was purchased bears the name shares intertwining stories of support each other pretty good resulting in the need for more church is that it does not have a “Tita House.” Her father rang the history of church and the and I they are my family.” churches. In 1917 the town of Liv- ingston, which was owned by Garyville Land Company, an af- filiate of Lyon Lumber Company, Hospice is not about giving up was founded. On Aug. 10, 1918 Father Er- … it’s about taking control nest P. Miller, a missionary from the Diocese of Ghent in Belgium • We rely upon the intercession of our Blessed Mother to assist us in imitating the healing ministry of Jesus assigned to the church at French Christ as we care for terminally ill patients and their families. Settlement and the Livingston • We call forth the compassion and kindness of our staff, who serve in this health care ministry, to respond to Parish missions, wrote to Arch- the physical, spiritual and emotional needs of our patients and their families. bishop John William Shaw of • We believe in the sacredness of life from conception to natural death, and we devote ourselves to the Archdiocese of New Orleans supporting patients and families through the dying process at the end of life’s journey on this earth and requesting a chapel be built in new life in eternity. Livingston. Father Miller wrote that local Catholics were willing to contribute toward the erection of the chapel and compensate the priest who would minister to them. Father Miller petitioned the The right people, Catholic Extension Society to doing the right thing donate $500 for a chapel and for the right reason. SERVING PEOPLE OF ALL FAITHS permission to purchase the property from the Lyon Lumber www.NotreDameHospice-NO.org • (225) 243-7358 Company, which in 1918 agreed Notre Dame Hospice does not discriminate against any person on the basis of race, color, religion, national origin, disability or age in admission, treatment, ability to pay, or participation in its programs, services and activities, or in employment. to sell three lots for one dollar. 20 The Catholic Commentator September 13, 2019

CARNEY  to “not to tell women not to have an abortion, but LOAR  ther’s or mother’s funeral, or From page 4 offer an alternative and hope for women in crisis From page 7 my brother’s suicide, or my pregnancy situations.” sisters’ suicide, the two of Planned Parenthood clinic directors in the nation “It’s putting the issue in a positive light,” said “Out of the blue my prayer which have happened in re- before she witnessed an abortion procedure, left Lukinovich. tongue radically changed. cent years.” the organization and became a strong pro-life ad- Jeanie Hannaman, publisher and editor for the There was a power and inten- But in October he sobbed vocate. Carney said he did not meet Lotz in person Brown Pelican Society and whose pro-life views sity I had never experienced for the first time in his life. but had good conversations with him by phone. were formed while growing up in Baton Rouge, before. I also experienced a “The emotional scab was Scott Smith, vice chairman of Men of the Im- agreed. Now living in Tyler, she launched a suc- rediscovery and love of Scrip- ripped off, because the emo- maculata and member of St. Mary’s of False cessful 40 Days for Life Campaign this past spring. ture, where I just couldn’t put tional wounds had never River in New Roads, said he liked Carney’s mes- “It’s a true ecumenical effort,” said Hanna- the Bible down,” he said. healed,” said Loar, who is able sage about how people who have participated in man. She noted that there are families present Three months after his to cry in public and private 40 Days for Life have increased their faith life at the vigils, and as Catholics pray the rosary, physical healing, Loar experi- situations and events. through sustained prayer during a 40-day period. people of other faiths will ask questions about enced emotional healing. He also is able to express “You should not be afraid to spend a length of the devotion. “(Growing up) there was no joy. days in prayer,” said Smith. “The show of unity is pretty powerful,” said love ever expressed or shown. His story of healings is one He said prayer is even more important since Hannaman, who also talked about the importance In fact, one of my main mem- of hope, Loar emphasized. people are engaged in a spiritual battle with a cul- of providing resources and support for women ories is of my father scream- He concluded that now he ture that disregards the value of human life. who ask, “Where are you going to be after the baby ing and yelling all the time. is in the “autumn” of his life He also appreciated the fact that Carney said, is born?” He was a raging dry alco- he feels called to try to live “We need to sit down and pray” on how to address This is where centers, such as Woman’s New holic,” said Loar. “As I teen- by the words of Father Henri the abortion issue before starting the first 40 Days Life Center, provide healthcare, counseling and ager I got into fist fights with Nouwen: “The question is not for Life Campaign. other services for women facing crisis pregnancy him when he hit and hurt my ‘How much can I still do in David Lukinovich, president of the Brown Peli- situations. Woman’s New Life Center has clinics in mother. I vividly remember the years that are left in me,’ can Society of Louisiana, which provides informa- Baton Rouge and New Orleans that are next door him punching me and knock- the question is, ‘How can I tion and commentary on church teachings and to abortion clinics. ing me over a chair. Because prepare myself for a total sur- social issues facing America, said, “What Shawn Angie Thomas, CEO of Woman’s New Life Cen- of that background, as well as render so my life can be fruit- has done has changed the dynamics of the issue ter, said, “It is amazing to see the Lord at work in almost dying from third-de- ful?’ ” of abortion in this country. He has established a all pro-life efforts. I am in awe at the growth of gree burns over my entire left The event was sponsored peaceful vigil that is a faith-based initiative.” the 40 Days for Life program: over 800 around the leg, with some very traumatic by Catholic Charismatic Re- He and Smith said 40 Days for Life has united world. This prayerful, peaceful effort is beautiful.” treatment in the hospital as newal of Baton Rouge. people of different faith denominations as well as The Baton Rouge 40 Days for Life Campaign a five-year-old scared little “those of no denomination.” will run from Sept. 25 – Nov. 3, 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. boy, I repressed all emotions. Next: Judy Holston’s heal- Lukinovich likes 40 Days for Life’s approach For more information, visit 40daysforlifebr.com. I did not cry either at my fa- ing testimony.

Can you imagine what a homeless child would Homelessness is a Nightmare for a Child dream about if they had to sleep in a car tonight? Would they dream of a cozy place with soft beds and fluffy blankets, where there are three good meals a day and no one goes hungry? Or would they dream of scary things that lurk in the dark just outside the windows? We know what homeless parents dream about: a better future, a safe place to stay until they can find a job, save money, and start over. At St. Vincent de Paul, Sarah our Sweet Dreams Shelter is making dreams come true every day: big dreams, little dreams, and everything in between. We provide the cozy home, the nourishing meals, and the soft beds that homeless children dream about. But just as important, we provide the safe haven and the time parents need to get back on their feet, so they can take care of themselves and their families. Audrey Meg and Chris Jackie Sianne and Tina Sweet Dreams Prayer Our shelter is more than just a home. It is also the first step toward a Lord God, Giver of Life, brighter future. Children like those Fill us with your Spirit. in the photos – Sarah, Audrey, Meg, Chris, Jackie, Sianne and Tina – have had difficult lives, and their needs are very simple: Use our hands to shelter the homeless; love and security. Their mothers give them plenty of love, and we give them security. Use our hearts to enable sweet dreams; In 2001, a St. Vincent de Paul dream came true when we opened our Sweet Dreams Shelter Use our voices to end homelessness. for women and children. That dream grew in 2018 as we expanded this facility, increasing our bed capacity from 36 to 82. In addition to homeless women and children, we can now May our actions improve life for others accept intact families and single-parent families headed by fathers. And reflect your abundant love. This expanded facility is proof that, when people work together, dreams can come true. Through Christ our Lord, AMEN. Thousands of prayers laid the foundation for this effort before the first concrete was poured. So, please keep praying! We need your prayers and financial support, so we can say "yes" to so many more who are facing the nightmare of homelessness. See how you can help by visiting us online at www.svdpbr.org.

We need your help more than ever. Every year, through our Sweet Dreams effort, we ask people to pray for those we serve. Please save this Sweet Dreams Prayer and make it a regular part of your spiritual life. Pray for all those we serve!

September 13, 2019 CATHOLIC WEDDINGS The Catholic Commentator 13 Weddings

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A couple choosing to marry in the Catholic Church ther the bride or groom and the pastor of the place of the of faith. should realize that their wedding is more than a public proposed wedding, a wedding may take place in some Because the marriage ceremony is a public act of wor- display; it is a sacrament. other parish church. With the additional permission of ship as well, it should reflect the communal nature of the A well-planned liturgy gives insight into the impor- the proper religious superior, a wedding may take place sacrament, with the guests serving not merely as specta- tance the couple has placed on their wedding. But there in a chapel attached to a religious house. tors, but more as participants in the marriage celebra- are some diocesan policies that pertain Weddings may not be celebrated out- tion. They are called upon to pray, to sing and to witness to weddings. of-doors, in commercial halls, secular the love of Christ in the church and in society, to be signs In the Diocese of Baton Rouge, wed- facilities or private homes. of Christian love and support for the couple as they begin dings are not permitted on Sunday or In the Catholic Church, a marriage their married life. on holy days of obligation. Nor are wed- of two Catholics normally takes place The couple is encouraged to choose the readings, pre- dings, even without the nuptial Mass, within a Mass. For a serious reason, a pare the general intercessions and select the music for permitted after 3 p.m. on Saturday or marriage between a Catholic and a bap- the wedding liturgy. days preceding the holy days of obliga- tized non-Catholic may take place at a The Diocese of Baton Rouge recommends that music tion. nuptial Mass. Permission may also be be chosen that is technically correct and of good quality. Weddings on other weekdays must granted for a Catholic and a non-bap- That which is cheap or a trite musical cliché should not be scheduled to begin no later than 8 tized person to be married at a nuptial even be considered. p.m. Mass for a grave reason. The music at weddings should serve to emphasize the There is no diocesan norm prohib- When either the bride or groom is sacred event, not distract from it. Music at a particular iting marriage during Advent or Lent. not Catholic, the couple is encouraged wedding must be judged on how well it will enable this But, where weddings are scheduled to choose a wedding liturgy that does particular group of people present at this wedding to during these times of the church year, not include Communion. express their faith. Some churches require adherence to the couple should be advised to take into consideration The wedding liturgy is complete whether or not there parochial guidelines for wedding music in hope that the the special nature of these liturgical seasons. In practice, is a Mass. suggestions contained there will offer even more help in the décor and liturgical arrangements determined by the The bride and groom are the ones receiving the sac- planning the celebration of the wedding. parish during these seasons take priority over the envi- rament and they are also the primary ministers of the There are several books available that contain read- ronment desired by the couple for the wedding. celebration. There are also many other ministers at the ings from sacred Scripture that would be appropriate in In the Diocese of Baton Rouge, weddings are usually wedding, each having a special role in the service. Care planning for a wedding. These books also contain rel- to be celebrated in the parish church where either the should be given that those persons asked to be ministers evant commentaries on the readings to assist the couple bride or groom has a domicile, quasi-domicile or month- during the celebration have a clear understanding about in choosing the readings and the Gospel that would be long residence. With the permission of the pastor of ei- what they are being asked to do and that they are people appropriate for their wedding.

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A new wedding preparation that is in the process of being rolled out by the Diocese of Baton Rouge will insure when couples are entering a marriage in the church they are entering it from a conviction of faith. Family Bibles Bible Engraving on select Bibles New marriage prep program Lasso Rosaries • Arras For that little bit of tradition every Wedding needs! Bibles & Bible Engraving • Wall Crosses By Richard Meek married. tinuing to meet with the mentor New Order of Celebrating Matrimony Books • Frames The Catholic Commentator Additionally, the deacon or couple at least once a month to Unity Candles • Rosaries • Statues • Fine Art priest will explain what the ensure the transition to married Gift Wrap & Greeting Cards A spiritually enriching mar- church has to offer the couple in life is going smoothly. Ducote riage preparation program de- terms of their marriage. said the mentor couple will also Catholic Art & Gifts signed to take the wedding Ducote aptly called the second assist the newlyweds to connect 6184 Florida Blvd. Baton Rouge celebration from social to sac- stage a “marital apprenticeship.” with their church parish and 225.926.1216 • www.zieglers.com ramental is in the early stages of The couple will be required to help them identify an appropri- Hours: M-F 9am-5pm; Sat. 9:30am-4:30pm being rolled out in the Diocese of take a marital inventory that will ate ministry for them to join. Baton Rouge, according to Dar- identify the strengths and weak- Currently, an engaged couple ryl Ducote, director of the Office ness of each person and discuss is only required to meet with of Marriage and Family Life. the results with a mentor couple. the deacon or priest in order to Ducote said the new program, The second stage will also make sure there are no canoni- which has been in the works for include a spiritual preparation cal obstacles to their marriage. the past two years, will initially component, which will be likely They are also required to take be tested as a pilot program in be done online. a pre-marital inventory and dis- selective churches and gleaned “The church’s understanding cuss those results with a trained from feedback tweaks will be of marriage will be presented to couple or a clergy member. made. Ducote is hoping the com- them at this time,” Ducote said. Until this year, the couple had plete program will be fully im- The third phrase is a manda- the choice of either making the plemented throughout the dio- tory retreat, whether it be the Engaged Encounter retreat or cese in the next two years. long-standing Engaged Encoun- attend a one-day program at the “We want to make sure that ter weekend or a new Called to Catholic Life Center called Life when couples are entering a Love weekend that the Office Choice. marriage in the church that they and Marriage and Family Life “For many people the one day are entering it from a real con- debuted in February. Ducote (program) was a no brainer,” viction of faith and that they rec- said the goal of either retreat is Ducote admitted. “But it was re- ognize the need for God in their to help the couple deepen their ally nothing or not at all what we marriage and in their relation- relationship with God and un- believe they needed to prepare ship,” Ducote said. “We believe derstand the full meaning of themselves. that drawing upon a spiritual what they are committing to in “That is when we started resource is going to be extremely marriage. looking at the RCIA model and important for marital success.” He said during the Called to began to expand it.” Mirroring the Rite of Chris- Love retreat the couple will be “Our intention is not to put tian Initiation for Adults (RCIA) walked through the marriage obstacles in the way of a couple model, he said the new marriage ritual and reflect in depth on but to show the church’s concern prep program is divided into four the meaning of the readings, the for the engaged couples to pre- stages, with the first being evan- questions asked before consent pare them as best as possible for gelization. During this stage, the and the vows. a successful marriage,” Ducote couple will meet with a priest or “Primarily they are learning said. “For many of the couples a deacon, who will explore their to pray as a couple,” Ducote said. retreat is a whole new experience understanding of marriage and The fourth stage, which is for them as they have never been their reason for wanting to get post wedding, is the couple con- SEE PROGRAM PAGE 8B 4B The Catholic Commentator CATHOLIC WEDDINGS September 13, 2019 Just Married: The Catholic Guide to Surviving and Thriving in the First Five Years of Marriage

By Gregory and Lisa Popcak relationship, it wouldn’t be so much hard USCCB work.’” That idea constitutes “a seductive lie,” they state. “Most people think of a marriage or The book is insightful in drawing a family as something they have (like any distinction between complaints and criti- other possession or acquisition), but it’s cisms in marriage. A complaint, it says, much more than that,” Gregory and Lisa is one way a spouse calls “attention to a Popcak write in “Just Married,” their problem” that needs to be addressed. A worthwhile “Catholic guide to surviving complaint is “not personal” and is “nonat- and thriving in the first five years of mar- tacking.” riage.” Criticisms, however, “are very person- The Popcaks want couples to regard al, usually attacking,” the book continues. marriage “as an actual activity, an activity Criticism has a way of removing the focus that requires time, energy and practice.” from the problem at hand. Instead, criti- In fact, their book includes an exercise cism “makes your spouse the problem.” to help a wife and husband estimate how When criticism develops in a marriage many hours they need to invest in their as “the normal, habitual and automatic marriage per week in order “to properly way you talk to each other,” then it is time maintain it.” for a couple to take steps to change their The authors caution recently married communication style, the authors make couples against believing that great mar- plain. Among other possibilities, these riages are “the result of good fortune or steps might include a Marriage Encoun- Couples in great marriages simply practice certain skills and habits that other couples other accidents.” Actually, they insist, ter weekend or “a few sessions of couple’s do not. “couples in great marriages simply prac- therapy” with a “trained, marriage- tice certain skills and habits” that other president of Pastoral Solutions Institute, personal lives.” friendly therapist.” couples do not. which, its website states, is “dedicated to Earlier books from the Popcak house- During the early years of a mar- The Popcaks are known to many as providing the resources religiously com- hold include “Parenting With Grace,” “For riage, the Popcaks comment, “even a fair hosts of Catholic radio and TV series. mitted Catholics need to live more faith- Better … Forever!” and “Holy Sex!” The amount” of conflict – “certainly more He is executive director and she vice ful and abundant marriage, family and latter title also serves as a chapter head- than you want” – is normal. They view ing in “Just Married.” this as a time for learning to handle con- “Too many couples think that being flicts respectfully. married means settling for less love, less Four unwavering commitments lay passion, less joy, less intimacy. It doesn’t, “the foundation for a great Catholic mar- and don’t listen to anyone who tells you riage” and serve as the foundation for otherwise,” the Popcaks tell newly mar- “Just Married” too. First is a commitment ried couples. to “individual and couple prayer.” The According to the “theology of the Popcaks hope couples will conclude that body,” the authors explain, “the ache in “if something is worth arguing about, it’s your heart for a free, total, faithful, fruit- worth praying about even more.” ful love in and out of the bedroom has Second is the commitment to “nurture been given to you by God as a promise your love.” A concern for the Popcaks is that he wants to fulfill, not just in the next that “too many couples think that the life but in your marriage today.” fires of love kindle themselves.” The Popcaks consider it unsurprising The third essential commitment is to that couples in the early years of marriage “each other,” with “an even stronger com- “tend to have a lot of questions about sex.” mitment to your vows.” Couples should These authors call marriage “the sacra- not be frightened by the thought that ment of sexuality.” there will be days when what keeps them “A sacrament,” they write “takes some- “hanging in there” is their “commitment thing common (water, bread, a man, a to the marriage itself,” the Popcaks ad- woman) and transforms it into a sign that vise. They believe that “every couple ex- conveys grace to help the people who en- periences this at least briefly,” but that counter that sign become what God cre- “these times pass and the loving times ated them to be.” come back.” Habits, attitudes and skills that The fourth commitment is to “learn strengthen marriage are central to the 13 new skills when new challenges come, in- chapters in “Just Married.” Money issues, stead of giving in to a tendency to blame relationships with in-laws, traits and your marriage or spouse for being ‘bro- tools to “help a marriage get off on the ken.’” right foot from the beginning” are some With that in mind, the Popcaks rec- of the book’s points of focus. ommend that couples remember the Particularly helpful are its sections following “four little words” when they dealing with conflict. The authors at- experience a difficult stretch in their tempt to steer couples away from the relationship: “Never blame your mar- “popular belief that ‘if we were in a good riage.” September 13, 2019 CATHOLIC WEDDINGS The Catholic Commentator 135B

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Wedding planning is no small task. a day-of-service provider is within their From sending out engagement announce- budget. This person can handle all of the ments to gifting guests with take-home details of the wedding day so brides and favors, a couple will pour over scores of grooms can fully immerse themselves in details as they plan their the festivities. weddings. 3. Bring extra cash. Un- As if selecting a pho- Couples can take expected expenses may tographer or choosing the pop up. Couples may have right passed appetizers their cues from to feed an extra member isn’t challenging enough, of the band or a guest who some unknown variables others who have was able to get a babysitter are sure to pop up on the at the last minute. Brides big day as well. Couples walked the aisle and grooms may want to can take their cues from offer a bigger tip than an- others who have walked before them with ticipated to the waitstaff or the aisle before them with deejay who went above and these tricks of the trade, these tricks of beyond. which may help couples’ 4. Learn how to bus- wedding days go smoothly. the trade, which tle. Walking around with Learning certain tricks can help the wedding day much smoother and stress free. Photo by 1. Host everything at a free-flowing train all Kleinpeter Photography a single location. Couples may help couples’ day can become tiring who want to simplify their for brides. Brides should for photo opportunities. necessities, such as breath mints, tooth- wedding day can select a wedding days go make sure that one per- 5. Give an outgoing person a job. En- paste, extra pantyhose, hairspray, lip site that can host a recep- son practices how to list a boisterous friend or family member gloss, and/or sanitary pads. tion and also house guests. smoothly. bustle the train and will to wrangle guests for photo opportuni- 7. Be all smiles. Couples can’t predict The cost of such facilities step in to do so for the re- ties. He or she can be the photographer’s everything that will happen on their wed- may be more affordable ception. Also, it may not helper and give the happy couple one less ding day, but they can help create the than couples think. be the height of fashion, but having a thing to do. mood. Smiling couples can make things 2. Think about a day coordinator. Cou- garbage bag on hand can keep the train 6. Stock the bathroom. Some venues better for everyone, even when zippers ples who cannot afford a wedding planner clean during inclement weather, or if will have courtesy items for their guests, break or someone gets the chicken in- to handle all of the details often find that the bride has to trek across grass or soil but couples also should bring their own stead of the salmon. 5 great reasons to take engagement photos

During their engagements, couples and help make wedding day photos look will make many decisions in regard to better. Similarly, spending time with their weddings. Wedding planning can the photographer gives the couple an sometimes seem like a runaway train of opportunity to develop a rapport with appointments, schedules and deadlines. their photographer. If couples and their As a result, some couples do not take the photographer don’t click, scheduling an time to enjoy being engaged, which is a engagement shoot well in advance of the special and unique time in their lives. wedding gives couples a chance to find Engagement photo shoots can be a someone else to take their photos. unique way for couples to commemorate 2. An engagement photo shoot gives and enjoy the months preceding their couples time to spend together. An en- weddings. Engagement photos memori- gagement photo shoot is an ideal time to alize the engagement and provide many spend an afternoon in a special location additional benefits as well. focusing on each other without wedding 1. Engagement photo shoots give planning taking up your time. couples a chance to connect with their 3. Photo shoots provide a chance to photographers. Booking an engagement get comfortable in front of the camera. photo shoot provides helpful informa- Professional photographs taken before tion to both the couple and the photogra- the wedding enables couples to view pher. The photographer gets to see how how they will appear in pictures. Seeing the couple interacts in front of the lens these photos might help couples grow and can determine any insecurities or more comfortable in front of the camera. strengths and weaknesses couples may This practice can help couples temper have. These lessons can be filed away SEE PHOTOS PAGE 8B September 13, 2019 CATHOLIC WEDDINGS The Catholic Commentator 137B How to create a wedding day schedule

Wedding days venues may help if anyone has questions or Couples can solve the riddle can be hectic. In include small if something goes awry. Sharing of scheduling their wedding fact, many cou- lunch buffets in the schedule with the wedding days by working backwards ples note after their reception party decreases the chances of and asking their vendors to co- tying the knot costs, while oth- someone being late or missing operate in laying out the day’s that their wed- ers might charge an appointment. events. ding days were extra. Confirm so busy that the the availability ceremonies and and costs, and if receptions were it’s unavailable over before they or too expen- Palazzo Bernardo Over 35 years experience. knew it. sive, then ar- Creating a range for lunch wedding day to be delivered. schedule can Either way, cou- seem like a ples should not daunting task. skip lunch, as Couples tend it may be their to have lots of only chance to things to do be- eat until after fore saying “I do,” the ceremony. and organizing • Distribute everything so your schedule to "A Place Where ceremonies begin one another and on time can seem the bridal party. Your Dreams Can Come True" as puzzling as a Once the wed- brain teaser. 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Brides may want to get several hours for large bridal their hair and makeup done at parties, so brides should sched- the ceremony sight, but that ule their sessions early if their may only be possible if the ven- parties are big. ue opens early for the wedding • Make lunch arrangements. party or have facilities for the Some couples choose to tie the bridal party. If it does not, then knot and host their receptions brides must account for trans- at the same venue. In such in- portation time to the ceremony stances, if brides are getting sight when making their wed- their hair and makeup done at ding day schedules. the venue, ask the venue rep- Classic Elegance & Impeccable Taste • Determine how much time resentative if lunch can be pro- is needed for hair and makeup. vided to the bridal party. Some Highland Road 225-761-0888 8B The Catholic Commentator CATHOLIC WEDDINGS September 13, 2019 PROGRAM PHOTOS From page 3B From page 6B at a place they are free from distractions and their anxieties prior to the can strictly focus on their relationship with wedding. An engagement each other and their relationships. shoot also can be a great “Many of the comments we’ve received time for couples to speak have been how much they appreciate having with their photographers the time to talk with each other about issues about angles or styles they they never would have addressed before.” prefer or dislike. Ducote said during the process the advi- 4. The bride and groom sory committee recognized each couple needs have save-the-date or so- a vision of what marriage is, which comes cial media photos. En- from the theological piece; relationship skills, gagement photographs which will be taught by the mentor couple; can be used for save-the- and support, also coming for the mentor cou- date cards or social media ple and parish community. postings (check with the He admitted that many couples choosing photographer for licensing a church do not necessarily have a deep faith agreements). This can be a but are coming because the “church is a nice great way to spread excite- place to have a wedding. They are coming for ment about the upcoming the venue more than for what the sacrament nuptials. really means.” 5. Photo shoots provide In those instances, Ducote said “that’s not a chance to experiment a reason based on faith or what the church’s with vivid backdrops. En- understanding of marriage is.” gagement photography But he emphasized that no matter the rea- gives couples plenty of op- soning, a couple’s decision to get married in portunities to experiment the church presents an opportunity for evan- with different locales, gelization. which may not be possible “It’s an opportunity to have them look at come the wedding day. their relationship with God and how that fits Engagement photogra- into their marital relationship,” he said. phy can be a worthwhile Engagement photo shoots can be a unique way for couples to commemorate and enjoy the And shift the focus from social to sacra- inclusion in pre-wedding months preceding their weddings. Engagement photos memorialize the engagement and pro- mental. celebrations. vide many additional benefits as well.

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