Bridal GuideSummer 2009
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BridalSUMMER 2009 Guide
Reflecting your personality Special Sections Coordinators 6 Burgundy Heiner Dresses Caitlin McCain Ten things to know before choosing a dress Reporters 12 Veronica Anderson diamonds Barbara Clarke Rock-solid help with diamond designs and choices Kate Lehnof Abigail Rich 14 Jill Tuttle wedding cakes Amanda Wallace Add a touch of personality to your wedding decor Chelsea Warren 22 Graphic Designers wedding photo trends Alyssa Watson Which style represents you and your spouse best Steve Hunt Marianne Jolley Student Ad Manager Mekelle Johnson 5 To the temple Production Assistants Practical preparations for the wedding day Emily Cardenas Candice Butterfield 8 Protocol Advertising Director Lines, introductions and who should sit where Shayne Durrant Managing Director, 10 Legalities Systems Getting the marriage license and changing your name Daryl Gibson Business Manager 17 bridesmaids Ellen Hernandez The perfect bridesmaid is… Editorial Manager Rich Evans 21 Editorial Adviser On Budget Kaye Nelson There are simple ways to save money Advertising Design & Layout Manager 27 healthy eating Warren Bingham Advice for eating well and a few recipes to try Advertising Production Supervisor 26 Calendar Nicole Smith Check off the list of things to do and when Multimedia Editor Richard Johnson 28 honeymoon Ways to save as you start life together
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12234MW22009 Temple Preparation Temple Recommends temple dress standards
Schedule an interview with your bishop to obtain BRIDES a Recommend for Living Ordinances for your own Your wedding dress should meet the following endowment (if not previously endowed) and for guidelines: temple marriage. If you have previously been married • Be white. No off-white, ivory or cream colored in the temple, discuss with your bishop the next steps. dresses. Please avoid fastened colored ribbons, After your interview with the bishop, schedule sequins and elaborate ornamentation. Colored a temple recommend interview with your sashes, worn for photographs and reception stake president. activities, will need to be removed at the temple. • Have long sleeves. If your dress has short sleeves, Receive your endowment on or before your the temple can provide a bolero or sleeve inserts. wedding day. • Have a modest neckline and be modest in design The day of the wedding bring to the temple: and fabric. Sheer fabric should be lined. • Have a removable train or one that can be pinned • Your individual Recommend for up or fastened out of the way. Living Ordinances (bride and groom) If a wedding dress does not meet the guidelines above, • Marriage license you may wish to wear one of the wedding dresses available at the temple. Wedding dresses should always cover the sacred garments. Temple garments should not be altered or removed in order to accommodate the style of the wedding dress. Brides being endowed the same day as their marriage or sealing may wear a white temple dress (available at the temple if needed) for the endowment session.
GROOMS White temple clothing is worn for the marriage ceremony.
For temple addresses and phone numbers visit temples.lds.org.
BRIDAL GUIDE 5 Here comes Bridethe Ten things you should know before buying your wedding gown
By Burgundy Heiner
rom choosing the most flattering gown to adding the finishing touches, these tips 2 Research your style willF help make sure your wedding dress search Look through bridal magazines and wedding
goes smoothly. Web sites and attend bridal shows to familiarize yourself with latest designer trends. Keep pictures Take your time finding a dress 4 of the designs you like. From the type, size and To make your day a pleasant and rewarding 1 Begin the search early location of your reception, determine your budget one, try not to visit too many bridal shops in Start shopping as soon as you set your date. and styles of wedding gowns you prefer. the same day. When you are fresh, full of energy Many designer wedding dresses need to be and enthusiasm, you will be able to make sound special ordered. It could take three to six months Be aware of your budget and the judgments. On the other hand, if you come to for special order or designer wedding dresses to 3 overall cost of a wedding gown the store exhausted and unprepared, after trying arrive. It is important to get a dress three to four Many brides don’t take into account the many a few styles you may be confused and find that months before your wedding. This will allow time expenses that can go into one single dress. The all the gowns begin to look the same and you for fittings, alterations and coordination. If you initial cost of the dress is definitely the most may come home toting one of the cheap wedding decide to have your gown custom made, allow expensive, but when creating a budget it is dresses simply because you were tired! Set aside about six months since selection of style, fabric important to plan for additional costs including several days where you can go look at your own and details along with fittings takes time. alterations as well as press and cleaning. leisure.
6 BRIDAL GUIDE Be aware of temple guidelines shops have recommendations and contact information for local wedding that may influence how your seamstresses. 5 gown should look Take time to research the guidelines the LDS Church sets for temple wedding dresses. Specific 10 Add the final touches guidelines can be found on page 5. Many brides After choosing your wedding gown, choose to wear a temple dress for the ceremony begin looking for matching elements and then wear their wedding dress for their such as veils, shoes and jewelry. reception. Decide what works best for your These simple yet elegant pieces can situation and adhere to those guidelines. add the finishing touch to your gorgeous wedding apparel. Bring along your own personal 6 consultant Shopping is always better with two. Bring your mom, friend or roommate along to help you decide on a style that fits you. Avoid taking more than one person since too many opinions can conflict and confuse. It’s a good idea to bring a camera along to take pictures of each wedding
dress and bring them home to study. Dress Photographs courtesy Walker’s Eternity Bridal. 7 Trust your instincts While most brides try on hundreds of dresses, many find that their favorite was one of the very first ones they tried on. Don’t be afraid to go back to your first selection. Ask yourself how you feel in each gown and what accents your personality and physical features the best. Embrace your 8 decision Nothing is worse than buyer’s remorse. Once you have selected your wedding gown of choice, do not question your decision. Mentally decide to love your dress from that day forward no matter what! Always remember the features that drew you to it. Have your dress 9 altered by someone you trust It is important to find a professional seamstress who is familiar with wedding gown alterations. This will ensure that your dress will fit perfectly to match your figureand showcase your beautiful wedding gown. Most bridal
BRIDAL GUIDE 7 Just where It’s up to the bride if she wants the brides- should I maids and groomsmen to be included, but it is becoming more common not to have them in Fundamental the receiving line. lessons in At the head table wedding If you choose to have a sit-down dinner either etiquette before your reception or at your reception, By Abigail Rich there are several ways to arrange seating at the head table: hen friends and family travel to be the opportunity for the bride and groom to 1. Alternate bridesmaids and groomsmen, Wwith you on your special day, you meet and speak with friends and relatives of with the bride and groom in the center want to make sure it’s worth their trip. It can their new spouse. A receiving line also ensures be stressful trying to get everything right, so guests will be able to visit briefly with the 2. Bridesmaids, maid of honor, bride and here are some simple tips to help you plan newlyweds. This is important for guests who groom, best of the man, groomsmen your reception properly. have traveled considerable distances to attend. 3. Parents of the groom, groom and bride, The bride and groom must make sure not to Introductions parents of the bride spend too much time with any one guest. When introducing the wedding party, the There are three different ways to organize a groom’s family comes first. Therefore, the Both in a receiving line and at a head table, receiving line: correct order to present would be: parents of the bride and groom’s respective mothers are the groom, parents of the bride, bridesmaids 1. Parents of the groom, groom and bride, always the parent closest to them. If you opt and groomsmen (as couples), maid of honor parents of the bride not to have a sit-down dinner at your recep- and best man, bride and groom. tion, make sure you eat something before 2. Best man, parents of the groom, groom and taking your place in the receiving line because Receiving lines bride, parents of the bride, maid of honor you never know when you’ll have another According to proper etiquette, it is acceptable 3. Groomsmen, best man, parents of the chance to eat. not to have a receiving line, but having one groom, groom and bride, parents of the Information provided by Cara Tilton, a wedding consultant may be worthwhile. A receiving line provides bride, maid of honor, bridesmaids for Elegant Affairs in Gilbert, Ariz.
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seven round diamonds in a shared-prong mounting
The 4 Cs of diamond buying round center diamond in a cross-prong three-stone mounting Carat is simply Clarity When a the unit of weight used in gemol- diamond forms, natural carbon spots, ogy. One carat is usually about called inclusions, develop within the the weight of a small paper clip. mineral. The clarity of a diamond The heavier the carat, the rarer indicates how visible those inclu- the diamond and the more sions are. The scale of clarity ranges costly the ring. With regard to from flawless (FL) to Clarity Grades Flawless FL the rarity of diamonds, only 20 imperfect (I3). A flaw- Internally IF percent are actually of gem quality less diamond requires Flawless Very Very VVS1 and can be cut for jewelry. Despite intense magnification Slightly VVS2 the rarity of larger carats, greater to reveal any inclusions, Included Very VS1 carat weight doesn’t necessarily mean whereas an imperfect Slightly VS2 increased attractiveness. “In reality, diamond has carbon Included Slightly SI1 carat weight doesn’t have a lot to do spots visible to the Included SI2 emerald with the beauty of a diamond,” said naked eye. Imperfect I1 cut center David Colorado, a member of the Kay I2 diamond I3 Jeweler’s management team. Determine the diamond and ring you can afford ot every man makes $30,000 to be beautiful [the ring] becomes a burden,” a summer from door-to-door Bowen said. “Instead of a token of love, they Nsales. For some, buying a have a token of debt.” diamond requires months of work strictly for Bowen said most college men spend the cause. between $1,500 and $3,000 on an engagement Regardless of income, however, John ring. Many finance the ring, paying no interest Bowen, vice president of Sierra-West Jewelers, for up to 24 months. cautions students to avoid diamond-related “The important thing is to just be aware of debt. “When a couple is just starting out and what you can afford,” Bowen said. “You don’t they get in over their heads, what was meant want to mortgage your future for a ring.” five similarly sized assher cut diamonds.
10 BRIDAL GUIDE radiant cut center diamond with baguette side stones
How to pick a diamond shape ewelers will typically offer diamond shapes can complement specific princess cut eight shapes of diamonds— types of hands. “The marquis diamond has center diamond round, marquis, emerald, an elongating effect,” he said. “A princess cut on micro-pavÉ princess, pear, oval, heart diamond turned on point can also make a mounting Jand radiant. Princess cut diamonds are by far girl’s finger look longer and thinner.” the most popular shape sold. Narrower bands will also do the skinny Micah Espinoza, manager at Samuels trick, though many girls want wider bands. Diamonds in University Mall, said some
The 4 Cs of diamond buying Round center diamond (top view left, Side Color Diamonds come Cut Colorado View below). in every color but emerald. The purest said the cut of a diamonds are completely colorless diamond is the most and appear to be bright white. “You important factor. “It want to avoid any hues of yellow or needs to be really well-cut brown,” Colorado said. The diamond to sparkle like it should,” Color Grades Colorless D color scale ranges from D he said. “When a diamond is E to Z. Colorless diamonds well-cut, every facet will reflect light F Near G are given a D rating, while from the top instead of the sides.” Colorless H I light yellow diamonds are Diamonds that are cut too deep or too J Faint K given a Z. Near colorless, shallow will leak light, lessen brilliance Yellow L M faint yellow and very light and lose value. Very N Light yellow diamonds mark the O Yellow P categories between the D Q and Z extremes. R Light S Yellow T U V W X Y Z
round center diamond in a semi-tension mounting oval center diamond in micro- pavÉ halo mounting
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BRIDAL GUIDE 11 The details after getting married
Changing your name on your Updating vehicle title Social Security card and registration Visit the Social Security office (485 North Changes must be made at a DMV office (150 Obtaining a Freedom Boulevard, Provo) and submit form East Center Street, Provo). SS-5 (form available at socialsecurity.gov). Office hours: Monday–Thursday, 7am–6 pm. marriage license Office hours: Monday–Friday, 9am–4 pm Phone: (801) 368-8824 Marriage license requirements vary from state to state. States may require Phone: (800) 722-1213 or (801) 377-5651 Vehicle Registration: Bring your current a blood test or physical. It’s best to Identification Needed:US Citizen/Permanent registration card and marriage certificate. find out the specific requirements of Resident: driver’s license, marriage license, You’ll also need to complete a new registra- the county where the wedding will be student ID; International Students: I-20 ID tion form. Cost $4. performed. The requirements for Utah form, passport, student ID. Vehicle Title: The process is the same as County are: The average time to process name change is changing your name on the registration. • The applicants must appear together three to five working days once a copy of the You can change your registration and title at the same time at the Utah County Clerk’s Office. new card is received. with just one form. Bring current title and marriage certificate. If there’s a lien on the • Pay a fee of $50. Changing your driver’s license vehicle, you’ll need to receive permission Utah’s Division of Motor Vehicles (DMV) • Provide required information from the lienholder before applying for the (applicants’ full names, Social Security recommends updating your Social Security change. Cost: $6. numbers, current addresses, dates and card before amending your license. To places of birth, names and birthplaces change your name on your driver’s license, Changing marital status at BYU of parents, race of applicants, one form of ID such as a driver’s license bring the marriage certificate indicating the Go to the Records OfficeB-150 ( ASB) and or passport). change of name to the driver’s license office fill out the marital status change form. If the The marriage license will be issued at (759 N 1370 W, Orem), where a replacement university record continues to show your the time of application and is valid for will be issued for $18. status as single after your marriage, you can 30 days. The temple will return the Office hours: Monday–Thursday, 7am–6 pm. be fined for living in non-contracted housing. marriage license to the Utah County Arrive at least one hour before closing. Clerk’s Office for you. Phone: (801) 234-8260
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he tradition of wedding cakes is a long one, Individual Mini Cakes some claim dating as far back as the Roman An inventive alternative from T Cakesa traditional large wedding era. While the Romans used loaves of wheat bread, cake is individual mini people living in the middle ages used scones or biscuits. cakes for all your guests. French bakers started a new trend in the seventeenth Mini cakes can be served century by stacking wheat buns coated with icing. on a tiered cake stand, individually boxed In Victorian times, white icing was considered a symbol or arranged on a of purity. Previously whiter icing reflected a more affluent dessert buffet. family—they could afford refined (and whiter) sugar. Today couples can break away from these traditions and choose a cake that better reflects their personalities.
Choose a cake that fits yourp ersonality
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14 BRIDAL GUIDE Traditional/Classic Modern/Contemporary If the details for your wedding include For the trendy, chic bride this is pearls and lace, this may be the fit for the way to go. Out with the you. White or ivory icing, three old and in with the new. tiered with cascading flowers, Instead of the traditional or swiss dot embellishments round-tiered cake, have comprise this cake to make stepped layers with it a beautiful piece on your square shapes. Instead of wedding day. butter cream frosting, have the new rave, fondant. Straight lines and geometric shapes add the finishing touches.
Timeless Give your cake a delicate touch Grooms Cake with floral details. From donuts to a football, the Creamy white grooms cake can resemble icing with pearl anything and is a great oppor- dot embellish- tunity to make your guests ments, basket-weave chuckle. Creating a molded accents and cake to match one of beautiful floral your fiancés favorite arrangements things will give you a complement a fantastic opportu- bride’s ladylike nity to use your disposition. creativity.
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“A happy bridesmaid makes a happy bride.” will be less likely to overspend or forget any English poet Alfred Lord Tennyson made important details. that statement. While it may seem odd that Help compile a playlist such a brilliant literary mind would stoop to In the age of iTunes and Rhapsody, it’s comment on wedding minutiae, any bride easier than ever for a bride to customize the will tell you this quote is true doctrine when it soundtrack of her wedding. Unfortunately, comes to planning a wedding. downloading songs and organizing them So, what kind of things should the ideal into the perfect order is not only tedious but bridesmaid do? also requires time: a valuable asset which Unfortunately, there really isn’t any gener- most brides find themselves lacking. It’s a alized list that applies to all brides everywhere. simple thing to use your extra time and whip Photographs by Robert Isacson However, simple things can be the greatest something up, and then the bride can make help. The following activities are some of the changes at her leisure. simple ways a bridesmaid can become the brides most needed asset. As an added bonus, Plan the bridal shower or bachelorette outing most of these things are free. Don’t be afraid. These things don’t have to be Make a spreadsheet as painful as they seem. While the traditional route tends to include home-baked goodies, This may sound entirely nerdy and a bit obses- streamers and some form of bridal-shaped sive compulsive, but it’s incredibly comforting confetti, it’s also completely acceptable to for a bride with a million things on her mind make reservations at a local restaurant and ask if she has everything written down. This can everyone invited to pay for their own meal. be a helpful tool when it comes to slicing up a Just make sure that you check with the bride wedding budget into many separate expenses, about the date, location and guest list. such as: flowers, food, cake, invitations, etc. Not only will it allow the bride to keep track Be her human calendar of the things she has already taken care of, When a person has a lot of things to worry but she’ll be able to update it as needed and about, they forget dates and appointments
BRIDAL GUIDE 17 THE perfect “A happy bridesmaid bridesmaid, to me... makes a happy bride.”
“...is a best friend or awesome sister who is willing to wear a silly dress and support surprisingly often. Running from place to dress that uniquely flatters your figure, for and love her friend on place, meeting every deadline and keeping what your friend, the bride, needs. Most the most important day of her life.” track of every detail can be overwhelming. A brides spend a lot of time stressing over what Melanie Merchant Park, simple calendar and reminder of each upcom- their parents want, what their fiancé wants, married Dec. 27, 2007 ing event can help calm any bride. A possible and what they can afford. Whatever you can in Mesa, Ariz. chauffer to her next appointment may be do or say or cheerfully not say to make her life “...is reliable, helpful as she has a little time to sit back, relax easier will be truly divine on your part. accessible, and and talk through her next upcoming event or Be there and be prepared flexible.” deadline. Michelle Huefner, It might sound surprisingly simple, but married Dec. 30, 2008 Act as a diplomat one of the best things a bridesmaid can do is in Salt Lake City. Being a bridesmaid is a job that requires the same thing a good friend does. With all patience, selflessness and humility. How else of the stress involved in planning a wedding, “...is patient, helpful, and a little OCD.” could a girl stand there, wearing a hideous it’s no wonder brides often break down Janell Armstrong, taffeta number in lime green, so that her best momentarily. There’s nothing better than a bridesmaid on April 24, 2008 friend will shine even more brightly and beau- compassionate friend’s shoulder to cry on in Salt Lake City. Bride to Bride (BYU)#2 8x5.125:Layouttifully in comparison? 1 2/17/09 Sometimes, 4:33 thisPM meansPage 1 when needed, especially if they’re armed with sacrificing what you want, such as a gorgeous Kleenex and replacement mascara.
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568-3737 6973 South 1300 East, SLC toll free 877-819-8809 www.theperfectdress.com Weddings on a Budget By Chelsea Warren When the giddiness of a marriage proposal passes and the reality of wedding planning sets in, couples realize how quickly wedding expenses can get out of hand. The Association of Bridal Consultants estimates the average cost of a wedding at $20,000. With a little creative leg work, couples can cut that cost down dramatically. Here are some tips of how to make your wedding gorgeous while on a budget. Photos Hire a photographer who gives you the copyright to all your pictures without any additional costs. This will allow you to make as many copies of the pictures from your wedding day as you want without having to order them from your photographer. Flowers Minimize the amount of flowers you have in your wedding. If you only have flowers for a few key people in the wedding party your cost for flowers will decrease considerably. Consider candles, lace, ribbons or other less expensive decorations to make your wedding beautiful and memorable. Give your florist a general style and color scheme, and any “banned” flowers that you hate, but generally allow them flexibility so they can use what is in season and least expensive. Be honest with your florist about your budget, and have them recommend the most inexpensive flowers. Cake Instead of a fancy cake, opt for cupcakes. They can be decorated with fruit or chocolate shavings that can still be classy and charming. Bridesmaid dresses Determine the color of the skirt and then give each bridesmaid a piece of cloth of the color you want them to wear for a top. They can pick out something that will match, but also something that they like and can wear again. Go shopping for bridesmaids’ dresses during prom season and after New Year’s. There’s nothing written in stone that says you have to buy your bridesmaids dresses at a wedding shop, and generally your prices will be a bit cheaper elsewhere. Invitations Make your own invitations utilizing the software programs and wedding invitation paper available. If you prefer to order them, consider getting the invitations thermographed instead of engraved. Save postage on your wedding invitations Forgo the inner envelope and blotter paper, which are leftover relics from times when ink needed time to dry and people wanted a pristine envelope. Rather than having a reply card, ask guests to reply by email or by telephone. Not only will you save money on printing, it will also reduce your postage expense. Change the day of the week Have your wedding on a weeknight rather than a weekend. There is less demand for these dates, so vendors will often be willing to give you a better rate. Music If you want live musical accompaniment for the reception, one place to look for low-cost musicians is at the local university’s music department. Contact them and ask if there are any students who are studying a particular instrument or vocal style and see if they’re available to provide music for your wedding. It can help them with their resume and save you on this part of your wedding.
BRIDAL GUIDE 21 ChoosePicture photos that best reflect Perfect your personality h By Kate Lehnof & Caitlin McCain igh fashion Photojournalistic This trend tells the story of your wedding using photographs. The candid images help create a visual record by capturing people in their natural element. More focus is on documenting the emotion and ambiance of the event rather than getting all the standard, posed shots. Forced smiles and awkward hand placements are replaced with ordinary events of the day such as the bride getting her hair done, the bridesmaids chatting at a luncheon or a little brother tying his shoe.
Pros: Photojournalism uses unique photos to tell your unique story. The lens captures the true emotions and real experiences. Cons: This trend relies heavily on the photographer’s artistic vision. The bride and groom need to communicate with the photographer what they want so the photographer will document the day well. All Photos courtesy of Charolette Winder/Utah Valley Photo
These photos are classic of the bride and groom posed at key moments on their wedding day. Most of the photographs capture people looking at the camera anticipating a picture to be taken of them.
22 BRIDAL GUIDE Photo trends are also being carried over to invitations. Here are a few invitations to start with, but remember to keep the style your own. Invitations bring another opportunity high fashion to be creative with your wedding.
Many couples today are moving to- wards more creative and modern David and Rackel Olsen photography trends. This style is are thrilled to announce� the marriage of their daughter
Sarah Nicole influenced by magazine photo to trends and emphasizes the Andrew Taylor Staley son of Brandon and Julia Staley on Saturday, August 4, 2009 glamour and romance of in the Los Angeles California Temple The pleasure of your company the special day. Images is requested at a celebration in their honor that evening Livingston Ballroom, Riverside Hotel 3339 Silk Street, Irvine California focus more on striking 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm contrasts and abstract location shots. Fre- quently the photo- graphs are later ed- ited to get a more high-fashion look.
Pros: High fash- ion photos will set your wedding Mr. & Mrs. Craig Fields apart from oth- are thrilled to announce the marriage of ers. These pic- Savannato June tures allow your
Benjaminson of MaryAurthur & Trent Loft Loft unique person- on Thursday, July 14, 2009 in the Provo Utah Temple.
alities to be cap- The pleasure of your company is requested at a celebration Riverside Country Club tured on camera. 1432 University Ave, Provo Utah 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Cons: Though your photos may be high L fashion today, they may look dated in a cou- ple years. The price may
also add up quickly de- Ron & Nancy Holdaway pending on the number of are pleased to announce the marriage of locations and the amount of Kerrito Shay editing required in each photo. Adam Riley Peterson son of Robert & Sue Peterson on Thursday July 14, 2009 in the Provo Utah Temple.
The pleasure of your company is requested at a celebration Riverside Country Club 1432 University Ave, Provo Utah Pros 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm. This trend is safe and Kerri & Adam are registered at Bed Bath & Beyond and Target. allows you to get shots you like that are elegant and exactly what you expect. Cons Jaklynn & Austin are registered at Macy's & Target
Ryan and Annie Taylor Photos are often predictable are thrilled to announce the marriage of their daughter
Jaklynn Jane to and appear posed. It can Austin Ray Williams
son of Josh and Leah Williams on Saturday, June 11, 2009 also be time consuming. in the Sacramento, California Temple The pleasure of your company is requested at a reception that evening Sacramento Nineth Ward Building 8:00 pm Considerable time will be 1467 N Blaine6:30 Street, pm –Sacramento California pm pm – 9:00 Dancing from 8:00 spent away from the guests
s Open House Friday, June 24, 2009 on your wedding day. pm 8:30 Williams Residence,7:00 1942 pm Brick– Avenue, Plano, Texa Traditional BRIDAL GUIDE 23 WEDDINGS
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SOUTH JORDAN LOCATION LINDON LOCATION CONTACT US TODAY! 320 West 11000 South, 644 North, 2000 West, WWW.MYNOAHS.COM South Jordan, Utah 84095 Lindon, Utah 84042 1 800 MY NOAHS (696 6247) Love is in the air and all eyes are on you. It’s only natural to want to look your best before your wedding. Here are a few tips to help you feel great and eat healthy before taking center stage. Eat in small portions It is best to eat between four and six small meals a day. This keeps your metabolism working and helps you avoid over-eating.
ATING Try new foods Expand your diet to include foods that may be new to you. Incorporate the food pyramid and branch out. This may mean trying spinach leaves and peppered cottage E cheese, so go for it! Plan ahead Often our lives get busy and we resort to unhealthy foods for convenience. Plan your meals weekly and take a list when you go to the grocery store. Another good idea is to make a lunch or dinner if you know you will be out of the house for mealtimes. Exercise Part of treating your body is finding time to move. This will give you more energy and is a great activity to do with your lifelong workout partner. Set goals together and make it fun. Stay balanced Planning a wedding puts a lot of stress on you. Treat yourself once in a
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Apple and Spinach Salad Broccoli and Cheese Soup 1 package (6 ounces) fresh baby spinach 1 small jar (8 ounces) processed cheese spread 2 small Granny Smith apples, chopped 1 can (10 ¾ ounces) cream of celery soup ½ cup cashews 1 bag (16 ounces) frozen broccoli ¼ cup golden raisins 2 cups half-and-half ¼ cup sugar Mix all and heat in slow cooker on low for about 2 to 3 ¼ cup apple cider vinegar hours, until broccoli is tender. Bread bowls are a great ¼ cup vegetable oil addition to this yummy soup! ¼ teaspoon garlic salt ¼ teaspoon celery salt Combine first 4 ingredients in a large salad bowl. Whisk Lemon Chicken together sugar and next 4 ingredients until blended. Serve dressing with salad. You can chill dressing up to 1 day; 2 pounds boneless chicken cutlets whisk well before serving. Serves about 4. ¼ cup olive oil or butter, melted ½ cup flour 2 tablespoons lemon juice 2 tablespoons parsley, chopped 1 can (14 ½ ounces) chicken broth Flatten chicken cutlets. Place olive oil and flour in separate bowls. Dip chicken cutlets in oil or melted butter, then in flour. Place in 9 × 13-inch oblong dish. Squeeze lemon juice over chicken cutlets. Top with parsley. Pour chicken broth over chicken. Bake in 350 degree oven for about 45 minutes. Serves 4–6.
BRIDAL GUIDE 25 PlanningBy Sara Lenz your wedding,
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