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LGBT Films at NIFF p. 19 2 • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com Opinions In the name of God: Missionary murderers? The Controversial Couch By: Nicole C. Lashomb/TRT Editor-in-Chief The Rainbow Times’ unspoken and Lie back and listen. then get up and do something unpublished slogan. We will stand and lthough divided on the issue of say it out loud: We love you in spite of By: Suzan Ambrose GLBT history why this religious/moral beliefs, most the fact that you are different and have TRT Columnist struggle is still going on. Apeople in the commonwealth different views about life. We love you When Senator Larry Craig The struggle we continue to have been known to promote change and even when you love someone from the (R-Idaho) was arrested a few have as loving, committed union. Believing something else should opposite sex, or even if you have erred in months ago at the (and yes, even sexual) peo- not equate being against other communi- the past. We love you because you are Minneapolis airport men’s bathroom for ple in having open and honest, societal- ties. Embracing differences does not just as human as we are, and as capable lewd conduct, it conjured up a whole new accepted relationships. How many of us mean adopting them, but simply under- of making mistakes as we are. It is not meaning for the phrase “dirty politics”. live in the shadows? Are forced to hide or standing that we are all different in some our place to judge you, to intimidate you, And we know how clean public rest- be closeted? How many of us, as recent- form. Just because we share different or to hurt you. We are beyond that, and rooms can be. ly out-ed former New Jersey Governor views and live our lives differently does we remain strong with our commitment No, the Senator got his hands dirty all James McGreevey remarked, “Settle for not make us (members of the LGBT of love. It is not about “converting” any- right—not for voting against gay rights the detached anonymity of bookstores community) bad people, and should not one, but about love and acceptance. After time and time again, as his voting record and rest stops”? For too many of our make us the target of hatred, bigotry, dis- all, who do you know that is, thinks and seems to show—but for continuing to community, being out is a lot like choco- crimination, and even murder. feels exactly as you do in every single deny who he really seems to be. late … just oh-so forbidden. Many people consider themselves way? I think that if your answer is as At time of this writing, Sen. Craig has: Yes, Larry Craig is a hypocrite and Christians, followers of Christ’s teach- mine—no one—then there is only one 1. Announced his resignation from much of his anti-gay voting legislation ings, or even religious. I still have not way to look at this. We are all different Congress, as well as his hesitation to has hurt LGBT causes over the years. But read anything from the Bible that showed and all deserve love, rights and protec- actually go through with that. 2. Rallied at the same time, my heart feels for some- that Christ hated others, or hurt anyone, tions. It should be that simple. against his guilty plea, saying he didn’t one who would cling with such despera- especially those who were different. He In the name of God has become a TRT know what he was signing, and is now tion to remaining closeted. As much as I purely loved people (all people) for who section that will highlight the good news appealing the court’s decision to let his don’t care for the ”he protest-eth way too they were: Children of God. Why is it about what others do in the name of God plea stand. 3. Has chosen to stay in office much-eth” Senator, I just have to beg the then that we are the targets of hatred, to help other communities, or people who until the remainder of his term (Jan. 09), question—what crime is he really guilty judgments, attacks, etc., all “in the name having recently accepting Idaho’s Hall of of committing? of God?” I am here to tell you that love is See Love on Page 3 Fame award (he was nominated before He touched another man’s foot. His this debacle broke), and stand firm on his hand went under the stall. His extremely {stance------} denial that he is, wide stance isn’t made for public bath- Love, Rights…and the Rest of It indeed, gay. rooms. By: JM Sorrell*/TRT Columnist who have Craig’s continuing denials of what he No money was exchanged, and no one ast month, I wrote about commu- caused harm did & didn’t do, isn’t (gay) & and is (in engaged in public acts of lewdness. He nity and proposed ways we to our com- love with his wife) is true entertainment only wanted an intimate somethin’- Lcould create and sustain it. In munity as of for comedians and those who love to somethin’ with another man. conjunction with this theme and in late. I wrote ‘poke fun’ at politics as usual. Andrew Sullivan nails it on the head in response to personal pain I have experi- it out, and The hypocrisy is palpable. his post in The Atlantic: enced, I would like to ask readers to con- then reconsid- But as the laughter dies down, we are See Couch on Page 17 sider the harm of gossip. According to ered my forced to re-examine once again in our the dictionary, gossip is “a rumor or motive. Recently, I The Rainbow Times report of an intimate nature” or “a person J.M. the JP Letters to the Editor 351 Pleasant St., #322 who habitually reveals personal or sensa- received reli- Dear Editor, Northampton, MA 01060 tional facts about others.” The verb ver- able word that I have been the source of This is in regards to the Transgender www.therainbowtimesnews.com sion is simply putting to practice the gossip in circles of people who know Pride March 2008 Informational that is nothing about my character, my history, [email protected] noun. in the latest issue. [email protected] Who amongst us has not engaged in or my heart. I want to start off by saying that I am a Phone: 413-204-8959 • Fax: 866-310-8512 gossip? Many spiritual practices consider The characterizations of me were hurt- huge fan of TRT, it’s a wonderful, great gossip as offensive as major crimes, but ful. As a conscious activist for nearly 26 Publisher Columnists: publication that has been long over due! Gricel M. Ocasio Dr. Renee Lang its insidious nature and the disguises we years, I understand the risk of speaking So, Thank you! Editor-In-Chief Jack/ie Kennedy use make it challenging to own and there- out for social justice, but it saddens me In the latest issue, I saw the informa- Suzan Ambrose greatly that the very people I support Nicole Lashomb fore to accept that we should not partici- tional about the Transgender Pride Writers: Sales & Dist. pate in it—either as an executor or as a (and directly or indirectly work on behalf Lindsay Wilson March for 2008. I found this a little dis- Ben Peterson listener. For instance, a piece of gossip of), would find satisfaction in creating appointing, not only the explanation of J.M. Sorrell Sales Associates: may be prefaced with, “I’m really wor- harmful gossip that simply maligns my why, “because it’s not enough to be Webmaster: Simone Irizarry ried about so-and-so; did you hear that character. Who benefits from this care- Jarred Johnson included in the Gay Pride Parades,” but SJ Seymour she..?” less behavior? because I think that the concept of it is Some sociologists say that using gossip What does this hard lesson mean to The Rainbow Times is published by The Rainbow Times, very segregating to what’s left of our gay LLC. The articles written by the writers, columnists, and may be a form of communication that me? I myself must cease the endless community. correspondents express their opinion, and do not repre- denotes belonging to a group, and it may temptation to be any part of gossip. I Growing up in the Midwest, I know that sent the endorsement or opinion of The Rainbow Times, would love to be joined by some form of LLC or its owners. To write letters to the editor, please create some form of bonding. The prob- the struggle for GLBT(rangender) com- send your letters, with your name, address and phone lem is that it is always at the expense of a larger moratorium that would con- munity is not the same as here in the val- number to: The Rainbow Times (address shown above), someone else. To profit from harm is tribute to a healthy and life-affirming ley. I’m not saying that there aren’t or e-mail any comment/s to the editor at: [email protected]. All submissions wrong, no? Feeling self-important for a LGBT community. It seems to be the way struggles, because we all damn-well- will be edited according to space constraints. The moment of information-sharing can hard- to love. know, we struggle anywhere we are! Rainbow Times, LLC reserves the right not to print any ly nurture the heart and soul. So why do * J.M. Sorrell is a Justice of the Peace. She That being said, when I was growing up or all content, or advertisements for any reason at all. TRT is not responsible for advertising content. To we do it? bleeds and feels deeply. She will keep you in Indiana, I struggled with the commu- receive The Rainbow Times at your home via regular To speak for myself, I was tempted to posted as to how her experiment to refrain nity that I was to reach out to, not mail, or through electronic delivery, please visit our from gossip works. She welcomes all feedback website. The content and graphics (photos, etc.) are the use this column to engage in self-right- sole property of The Rainbow Times and it cannot be eous gossip about some (from the inside) and suggestions. See More Letters to the Editor on Page 4 reproduced at all without TRT’s consent. www.therainbowtimesmass.com • The Rainbow Times • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • 3 More Opinions & News Lesbian Notions: A Family Affair By: Libby Post * recently. "Utah's law regarding place- wore rainbow leis and received national three foreign countries have been trained o good ment of foster care children is not good media attention? That was thanks to to speak out on family equality issues. deed goes public policy, nor is it good for children." FEC. "We're training people to be advocates Nunpun- Ballot initiatives banning gay adoption When James Dobson from Focus on the for themselves, their families, friends, ished. and fostering may well raise their ugly Family wrote a hateful op-ed in Time and people they care about at every level That is certainly heads in the 2008 presidential race - Magazine about Mary Cheney's pregnan- of their life, from responding to a com- the case for Michael although when that tactic was used in cy, FEC pressured the conservative ment in an elevator to speaking to the Gregg Valdez and 2004, it didn't gain much traction. weekly to run a counterpoint piece enti- PTA," said Chrisler. "We have a lot of Michael Oberg, However, according to Chrisler, tled "Two Mommies or Two Daddies people raising the issue of family equali- who took in the four young children of Arkansas is likely to mount a ballot ini- Will Do Fine, Thanks," authored by ty at lots of different levels...we're work- Valdez's niece. The niece asked the cou- tiative that in the long run will just hurt Chrisler. The piece focused on the ing to change the hearts and minds of ple to take care of her children while she kids in need of loving homes. inequity of Virginia state law—where straight people we come into contact dealt with some drug-related criminal And in Texas, the state is proposing Cheney and her partner, Heather Poe, with." matters. spending close to $3 million to investi- live with their son—and how Poe is with- Changing those hearts and minds Already parenting Valdez's biological gate current foster parents. If any of the out any legal parental rights. means changing the way LGBT families daughter, Michael and Gregg, as Valdez parents are found to be LGBT, the kids "Some of the pressing issues we face live. Many of us no longer have to live in in known, are more than happy to pro- will be yanked from the homes. are marriage equality and uniform par- the shadows, afraid that someone will vide a stable, loving home until the chil- Chrisler has been working to protect enting laws," said Chrisler. "We need find out that our kids have two mommies dren's mother is ready to do the same. those kids and their LGBT families since laws that recognize the complicated and or two daddies. But for those who do, The problem is they live in Utah, where April of 2005, when she came to the creative ways our families are created. FEC and Chrisler work to change laws, two unmarried people cohabitating can- Council, then located in Washington, Issues such as surrogacy, sperm donors, make schools safer, and create a national not serve as foster or adoptive parents. D.C., after serving as a fundraising con- and divorce create legal complications. It LGBT family movement that can no The state's Division of Children and sultant for political campaigns and would be nice to have a uniform law to longer be ignored. Family Services asked the courts to take LGBT organizations in Massachusetts. protect our families." the children away from the two men so She and her spouse, Cheryl Jacques (yes, A community organizer at heart, * Libby Post is the founding chair of the they could be placed in foster homes the same Cheryl Jacques who helmed the Chrisler understands that she can't be the Empire State Pride Agenda and a political more to the state's liking - married, het- Human Rights Campaign for a brief and only one out there speaking on behalf of commentator on public radio, on the Web, erosexual households. Instead of handing shining moment) recently moved back to family equality. Through OUTspoken and in print media. She can be reached care custody to the state, the court took cus- the Bay State with their 5-year-old frater- Families, the organization's national of this publication or at tody of the kids and then turned around nal twins, Tim and Tom. The organiza- speakers bureau, more than 1,000 people [email protected]. and granted Gregg temporary custody. tion moved with them, and is now head- in 39 states, D.C., one U.S. territory, and For now, the four will stay together. quartered in Boston. This is just the type of situation that "I'm a mother. I'm raising my kids in a fuels the passion of Jennifer Chrisler, the world where our families don't have what executive director of the Family Equality they need to keep each other strong and Council. You may have known the organ- protected," she noted. "Kids spend a lot ization as Family Pride - the name was of time explaining who their families are, recently changed to reflect their purpose and I'd like that to stop." of achieving family equality for all lov- In the little more than two years that ing families. Chrisler has been at FEC, she has trans- "Mike and Gregg's willingness to open formed the organization into a political their homes and hearts highlights what is powerhouse. best about families—love, commitment, Remember the Easter Egg Roll at the strength, and support," Chrisler told me White House, where LGBT families

Love from Page 2 who are different than what they are. It that they are doing society a “favor.” will also emphasize the heights that some From such ignorance I still remember the people will go through to show their fear, following “missionary murderers:” hatred and ignorance and the results and Timothy McVeigh (Oklahoma City), consequences of such prejudice. Let’s not Osama Bin Laden (911), Eric Harris and forget the names of ignorance and the Dylan Klebold (Columbine High School carnage they have committed just Massacre), and many others who attack because they felt that others were differ- others because they are different. I ask ent. They can fall into the category of myself, “What their hatred accom- missionary murderers who, according to plished?” The answer comes to me Wikipedia.com, believe that their “acts quickly: “Nothing but pain, fear and suf- are justified on the basis that they are get- fering to their victims.” This is how we, ting rid of a certain type of person” (often members of the LGBT community, feel members of a certain race, ethnicity, dif- when we are the target of such malicious ferent set of values, etc.), and thus feel acts. Can you relate? Did you know that? Remember, Gender Expression: Refers to all external characteristics and behaviors that are socially you saw it defined as either masculine or feminine, such TRT as dress, mannerisms, physical characteristics and speech patterns. here first! 4 • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com In ‘The Name of God’ Billboard Assault Spreads Hatred (BASH)? By: J.M. Sorrell/TRT Columnist & Writer Forest Park. when representing a group or individuals. originally opposed same-sex marriage, The billboard on southbound I-91 (see I take long-term outcomes into consider- urged her to support their lesbian and gay photo) near the Basketball Hall of Fame JM/Q: On June 14, 2007, you joined ation. I will sit down with any group and neighbors. in Springfield, Massachusetts depicts with your peers to vote against taking I engage in a thoughtful process to get to A pivotal point [prior to June 14] was State Representative Angelo J. Puppolo, away the civil right of marriage to same- decision making. when dozens of LGBT families attended Jr. (D) as a “traitor” to the New Jersey- gender couples. Today, do you stand by Q: Most western countries have federal a community forum at Springfield based National Organization for this decision? protections for same-sex couples. They College where religion was discussed. It Marriage’s (NOM) definition of mar- Representative Puppolo/A: Yes. may be called marriage, civil unions, or became clear that many families are riage. Certainly when I came to the decision to domestic partnerships. Do you believe affected by this. According to their web site, NOM keep the question off the ballot, I came to that our federal government should offer This billboard serves as a reminder that intends to target each of the 11 it with a lot of discussion and meetings in this protection? Why or why not? we want to put this behind us. A ballot Massachusetts legislators who had previ- my home area—with a broad base I came A: Massachusetts is groundbreaking and measure would have waged a campaign ously supported a ballot measure to con- to the conclusion it is wrong to take away a role model for other states. States are of hate with an inundation of out of state sider reversing the SJC decision of rights. I feel stronger as each day goes by. following, and that is the process and money. November 18, 2003 that put into law I have received hundreds of emails sup- stronghold of our country. Senator Candaras works in the best equal marriage rights for same-sex cou- porting this decision and each day, more Q: Any final words? interest of the Springfield area [her dis- ples. and more compelling stories reinforce A: I would like to thank the community trict also includes Wilbraham, East After perusing nationformarriage.org, I my decision. I stand by it and I am proud for continued support, politically and Longmeadow, Ludlow, Belchertown and contacted NOM’s executive director, of it. Just yesterday, I received an email financially, and for your well-wishing. It Granby], and important issues such as the Brian Brown, to give him an opportunity from a man who was denied access to his has been overwhelming for me. Those of poverty rate in Springfield drive her to explain his billboard campaign and to partner in the hospital four years ago, and us who do the right thing are doing well. agenda. ask questions about the statements on the he wanted to thank me for ensuring that Call or write if you want to work with Candaras’ statement to the Boston web site’s “Why Marriage Matters” would not happen again. me. We’re in this business to help peo- Globe on June 14, 2007 included this pages as addressed to Catholics, Q: What would you like to say about the ple—and not just the majority and not to passage: “I also want to address directly Protestants, and Jews. “National Organization for Marriage” take things away. My legal background one of the more contentious issues in this Mr. Brown said, “The billboard speaks and their billboard campaign to demonize assisted me in this decision. debate. Same gender couples have been for itself.” At first, Brown was open to you as a traitor? adopting children and building families an interview, but when I told him I was A: I think it is unfortunate that an out of Other opinions here in the Commonwealth for about writing an article for TRT, he abruptly state group would come into the In western Massachusetts, Senator Gale twenty years. In many instances, same ended the conversation: “I make it a pol- Commonwealth to spin a mean-spirited, D. Candaras (D) is also on the billboard gendered couples have adopted children icy not to do interviews with more divisive message. It simply confirms my “hit list” as someone who changed her with severe challenges, children no one extreme magazines.” belief that, had this been on the ballot, vote from favoring a ballot measure that else wanted, and they have worked mira- It is interesting to note that organiza- mean-spirited behavior would have been may have led to a constitutional amend- cles with them. These children would tions such as NOM and the Coalition for perpetuated for a long period of time. If ment to ban same-sex marriage. I spoke have lived lives of despair without these Marriage & Family purport so-called they [NOM] want to help families, they with her Chief of Staff, Aaron Saunders, families. This underscores how we can- principled stances while refusing oppor- should spend their resources to work with about Candaras’ thoughts on NOM and not afford to marginalize any of our peo- tunities to explain themselves clearly. families and children in need. the billboard campaign. ple; make anyone second-class citizens. From what I know, MassEquality, on the Q:What is your most important guiding JM: Does Senator Candaras stand by her We are all precious resources to each other hand, offers dialogue and reitera- principle in legislative work? decision today? other, and to generations yet to come.” tion opportunities to all forms of media. A: Prior to elected seat, I served on the AS: Yes, she has received overwhelming What is it that NOM fears? City Council for nine years in support from her constituency. Her Springfield. I have an ability to listen entire district, not just LGBT families, I spoke with Representative Angelo J. See BASH Page 10 Puppolo, Jr. in a telephone interview last and to show the compassion needed but also neighbors of these families who week. After nearly 45 minutes, I felt moved by the depth, honesty and inten- Letters to the Editor from Page 2 tion of service that Puppolo brings to However, as I needed my community ing than to march down the street with office. Readers should go to www.puppo- only accepted gays but also bisexuals and more and more, through the beating from tons of people from all walks of life that lo.com to learn more about this man, to transgender people. I didn’t want to be my brother, through the loss of communica- are together as one. I accept and cherish offer financial support and/or for volun- categorized in the same group with them, tion with my parents, I realized why these the transgender people in my community, teer opportunities. His district includes thinking that in some way, it would reflect wonderful people were included in my com- but sometimes “enough is never enough”. East Longmeadow, Wilbraham, and bor- me, that people would think that I wanted munity! They understood me, accepted me It may not be accepted by many, but dering areas of Springfield such as East to be a woman, or something. (young and celebrated me because they knew that’s just my opinion. We must stick ignorance!) where I was in my life! This is why in together, as one community! Together we Indiana, we call people in our GLBT com- will continue to progress and be that role munity, “FAMILY”! We are ALL family. model community that many parts of our With the amazing progression out here in country need! Separated, we will begin to Massachusetts, it is sometimes easy to for- lose why we are considered “family”. get about the connecting links that we have Grateful for your work and dedication, as a Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender —Adam Brogan, Northampton FAMILY! With the constant segregation of Dear Editor, our vibrant, small community; Men only I found The Rainbow Times in Albany. I dances, unaccepting lesbians, and am wondering if you are going to continue Transgender Pride; We will have no reason targeting this community. We have never to accept, educate, love and support each had anything like The Rainbow Times, but other. I loved the first issue, especially the story The idea that it may not “be enough” to about the companies that cater to the be included in gay pride marches for some GLBT market. I didn’t know how many transgender people, saddens me. Yes, we didn’t and now that I am aware, I say need to tackle legislative issues for the “shame on you for segregating us and not transgendered members of our community, wanting our business.” I will definitely but I think we would be more effective take my business elsewhere from now on! doing it as a whole! There is no better feel- —J. Randall, Albany NY www.therainbowtimesmass.com • The Rainbow Times • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • 5 Featured Business Serio’s Market celebrates 57 years, right at home By: Nicole Lashomb/TRT Editor-in-Chief According to Cavallari, the high quali- Serio’s Market celebrates its 57th year ty of their products, care of customer anniversary on the same corner where it needs/requests, offering local produce all began, literally, from scratch. and products are some attributes that dis- “This Business was started in Nov. tinguish Serio’s Market from other mar- 1950,” said Christina Cavallari, owner kets. Serio’s Market, Northampton, MA. “I think we fill a space for a lot of peo- “Prior to that, my Grandfather came from ple who either do not have the time or the Sicily in 1906 as a teenager. He started as desire to shop big box shopping,” she a fruit peddler, going door to door to his said. “We offer quality in our meats, pro- customers. He married my grandmother duce and dairy. We do a lot with local and they continued this business together. produce and local products, and people When his health started to fail in his early appreciate that too. They [customers] forties and my uncles went in the service, know if we get in a new product, we have my Mom started a small vegetable stand probably tried it ourselves or it has been at the house. They lived on the corner requested by another customer, so we can where the store stands. They realized give an honest opinion. And if they [cus- people would come to them and started tomers] are looking for something, we try "The Little Store" in the front two rooms our best to get it in.” of their house.” Services such as catering and home According to Cavallari, the success of delivery are also available at Serio’s. her family-owned business has largely to “Catering has come out of customer do with the area in which it thrives, requests,” said Cavallari. “We started Northampton, Mass. Serios Market at 65 State St. in downtown Northampton, Mass. doing it because someone would have a hot dish or something from the deli and “Northampton is a great community,” expect things to always stay the same. diversity in our clientele; a lot of fami- ask if we would make it for a party they said Cavallari. “It has changed over the [But] the people who come here fall in lies, singles, students and people who were having. We now do a lot of orders. years for sure, but I think that this is the love with the area, what it has to offer, move here from all over the country and We make all of our deli salads, reason we have been able to be success- and decide to make their homes here. the world, which is great. We try to treat ful. A lot of people who have grown up [That] makes the town a very vibrant all of our customers with the care and See Serio’s on Page 6 here take the area for granted. They place to be in business. We have great respect we would want for ourselves.”

RTainbowhe Times Your LGBT News in Western MA, the Capital District of NY, Northern CT, & Southern VT 6 • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com Queer Local News Trans discrimination by UMASS campus employee By: Gricel M. Ocasio* /TRT Publisher However, that was back in September. is something that Brennan mentioned to dent takes place, according to Brett- As of the last week of October, TRT him as “being helpful for the staff to raise Genny. Sept. 19, 2007 was just another day that received information about the UMASS awareness and sensitivity.” “It would be better if companies and she encountered discrimination. This Parking Services Department’s decision “In matters like this we do not com- institutions were to recognize the need time, a UMASS employee disregarded to offer its staff training on trans issues. ment in detail,” said Blaguszewsky. “The for education around LGBT issues at the her request, although she was properly The Training will be provided by the parking people view this in terms of the onset and not have to address the issue dressed as a woman. She is just another UMASS Amherst Stonewall Center. parking attendant who is involved as a once there has been an incident of dis- male-to-female (MTF) transgender per- “We’re doing a two-hour transgender personal matter, which we do not discuss crimination,” said Brett-Genny. son who has faced discrimination. training for the UMASS Parking with the press. Parking Services will be According to Ten Strategies To Improve “The officer from the UMASS Parking Services and everyone from the director conducting its trans training in coordina- Trans Inclusiveness on Campus, written Services Department came to me and to the clerk will take part in it,” said tion with the Stonewall Center early in by Brett-Genny, “more than 40 colleges asked me to move my car while repeated- Brett-Genny, Janiczek Beemyn, Ph.D., November.” and college systems have added ‘gender ly calling me “’sir,’” said Lara Lane, a Director, the Stonewall Center, UMASS, Trainings can occur before or after an Western Mass. resident, who distributes Amherst; Co-Chair, Consortium of incident has taken place. However, it is newspapers on campus. “When I asked Higher Education LGBT Resource preferable to have them before an inci- See Discrimination on Page 11 her to address me as ‘Ms.,’ she simply Professionals; Board Member, replied ‘yes, sir.’” Transgender Law and Policy Institute. Lane filed a complaint with the Serio’s from Photos by: G. M. Ocasio “We do awareness and education train- Page 5 UMASS Police Department on that day. ing. We talk about why it’s important to The officer completing the report from homemade address trans issues and talk about the soups, and hot the UMASS Police Department, Sergeant experiences of trans people. We go dishes in- Mark L. Jacques, stated in it that he through terminology and talk about prac- house. We do informed Lane that “a non-criminal tical workplace issues.” all kinds of report would be filed, as I (he) did not After receiving no response from platters [such believe it met the standard for criminal as] sandwich- Michael Brennan, Director of Parking es, cheese & discrimination, but that a report would be Services, UMASS, TRT was contacted on file to document her coming in.” The CHRISTINA CAVALLARI & crackers, veg- by a UMASS spokesperson on his behalf. GARY GOLEC gie/munchies report ended with the words: “No action husband, Gary Golec. According to Ed Blaguszewsky, UMASS SERIO’S MARKET OWNERS etc. We also “We do not have anyone who has required by this department.” Director of the News Office, the training [offer] grocery expressed a desire at this point,” said home delivery which a lot of stores have Cavallari. “Gary has three children and gotten away from.” we have nieces and nephews. I did not According to Cavallari, there are no think I would have taken it over and my plans for expansion at this time. grandmother worked until she was 90. So “One place keeps us very busy,” said you never know!” Cavallari. “We also like being present in Serio’s Market is located at 65 State our Business to give it heart and feeling.” Street in downtown Northampton. For It is unclear who will be the next in line more information about their products to take over the market when the time and services, call Chris or Gary at 413- comes, according to Cavallari and her 584-2633.

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“A Thousand Miles,” the ubiquitous hit Photo by: Kurt Iswarienko by tourists, which it already is. single from her 2002 debut Be Not Q: Now that you’re on The Inc. Records, Nobody, earned singer-songwriter- were you nervous about working with pianist Vanessa Carlton Grammy nomi- executive producer Irv “Gotti” Lorenzo, nations for Record and Song of the Year. who’s best known for collaborations with Now on a new label and releasing her artists like Ja Rule, DMX and Jay Z? third album, Heroes and Thieves—which A: I was until I met him. When I played, includes lead single “Nolita Fairytale,” he was running around the office scream- an ode to the New York ’hood she moved ing obscenities—all in a good way. I was into three years ago—the 26-year-old just like, This guy is so refreshing! All spun us a few yarns about her heroine preconceived notions popped, because in Stevie Nicks and the gays who’ve stolen the end, we really respect each other and her heart. make each other better. That’s the ulti- Q: The low sales of your sophomore mate for any partnership, romantically or album Harmonium, which featured the professionally—making the other person controversial single “White Houses,” led better at what they do and who they are. you to get dropped by A&M Records. Do Q: Tell me about your gay fans and you have any regrets? friends. Vanessa Carlton: As I’m promoting this A: I love the gays! All my gay boys and record, I thank God for Harmonium, girls are great, and I have a lot of very because there was a fork in the road after cute gay boyfriends. I have so many VANESSA CARLTON my first record, and I opted for the hard- friends in healthy relationships who close a book to open a new one. It was corner and hear four different languages, er path. I think in the end it’s going to pay aren’t able to get married. There’s so [director] Marc Klasfeld’s idea to run the there’s so much interesting stuff going off so much more for me in terms of much oppression in this society that it piano over. At first I just saw the humor on. Just walking down the street, I’m longevity. I would’ve had regrets if I’d feels oppressive to me as well. Actually, I in it, but as I thought about it, I was like, inspired by the people that I see express- taken a slicker path that wasn’t a reflec- really wanted [the Harmonium track] Wow, this is a big, bold statement, but an ing themselves artistically. They also tion of my own aesthetic, but had maybe “Who’s to Say” to be a gay anthem. important one. So it was like, let’s remind have great dive bars, which I really sold more records. Q: Have you performed at gay clubs? people of the girl on the rolling piano— appreciate! My favorite hole-in-the-wall Q: In the “Nolita Fairytale” video, a taxi A: I just recently performed at a lesbian because that image was bigger than the is Ruby’s, which I mention at the end of smashes the infamous piano from the “A club in Albany, and the radio station that song and me—and then destroy it so we “Nolita”: “Ruby’s in the afternoon.” But Thousand Miles” video. Does that mean put the show on didn’t even can start anew. I’m nervous because I don’t want people you’re officially over that single? Q: What’s so great about Nolita? to go to Nolita! I feel protective of it. I A: I looked at it more like you have to See Carlton on Page 9 A: Aside from the fact that I walk to the don’t want it to be completely infiltrated

413-569-0000 8 • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com www.therainbowtimesmass.com • The Rainbow Times • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • 9 Health News Is there a gay gene? What are the facts? By; Dr. Renee Lang gay men and 16 probability that a genetic component of the justification seems to revolve non-gay men. exists for homosexuality. However, if around legality and discrimination, Question: I am a lesbian and my younger The study purely genetic, all the identical twins meaning discrimination against genetic brother recently came out as gay. Since revealed that an should be gay. In addition, other subse- “conditions” is unacceptable. In addi- then, we have both been disowned area of the hypo- quent twin studies do not duplicate these tion, some possibly internalized homo- because my family thinks it is all a thalamus was results. phobia seems to exist around this topic. choice. I know it is not a choice for me, slightly smaller in Finally, the third study by Hamer in “Do you think I would choose to be this but has there been any scientific proof the gay men as 1993 studied pedigrees and determined way?” “I was born this way!” that being gay runs in the genes? Could compared to the that “gayness” in men was passed on via Homophobia is a social/political/reli- that explain why my brother and I are heterosexual men. the X chromosome from mothers. Is that gious construct, one that I don’t think both queer? I would like to be able to The researcher science or a stereotypical thought about needs to be supported by defining homo- combat the situation with facts and not DR. RENEE LANG concluded that a gay men? From that conclusion, he sexuality as a genetic disorder. just emotions. genetic component of gayness existed. looked at the X chromosome and found In conclusion, no gay gene exists. No —Nancy E., Easthampton, MA single genetic factor causes homosexual- ity. However, due to the increased likeli- Dear Reader, hood of homosexuality in family sys- I am sorry to hear about your family’s In conclusion, no gay gene exists. No single genetic factor tems, a genetic component does exist. response to your and your brother’s sex- Sexual orientation results from a combi- ual orientation. I hope to provide some causes homosexuality. However, due to the increased likeli- nation of genetic and environmental fac- clarification to you and other reader’s hood of homosexuality in family systems, a genetic compo- tors. Family and social expectations and regarding the genetic component of beliefs contribute, past incidences of homosexuality. nent does exist. trauma and abuse contribute, and so do In short, there is no definitive scientific many other factors. We rarely discuss proof showing a direct link between how all of these things also contribute to genetics and homosexuality. Sexual ori- However, there was no discussion of that a high percentage of the gay men in being nice, being generous, and being a entation, like other complex human whether or not AIDS may cause the the study shared a region of genes. considerate person. However, all of that behaviors, result from both genetic and shrinking or if that particular area of the However, he did not study the percentage contributes to those complex behaviors environmental factors. Certain traits brain controls sexual behavior. The of this “gene” in heterosexual men. as well. This article provides my best directly pass down from genes, including small study size precludes any ability to Another study in 1999 did not find any understanding and interpretation of the hair and eye color. Homosexuality is not make a statistical assessment. region on the X chromosome specific to current research. like hair color. The next study in 1991 found higher gay men. * Dr. Renee Lang is the owner of Pioneer The media information about the gay rates of homosexuality among identical At first thought I wonder why these Naturopathic Medicine in Northampton and gene arose from three different studies twins (about 40-50%) than fraternal studies are being done. I wonder why in Brattleboro, Vermont. Submit your ques- conducted in the 1990’s. The first study twins (about 25%) and adopted siblings money flows to this topic as opposed to tion to Dr. Lang at TRT’s website (Health done in 1991 examined the brains of 19 (about 5%). This study points to the other life threatening conditions. Some Section).

you can choose to be peaceful, you can seek it out. You create your own reality. I Carlton from Page 7 Vanessa Carlton Upcoming Tour Dates know—and these were big, scary girls. choose to be happy and not crave any- just hate getting my picture taken and I [Laughs] A lot of times these stations are Nov 18 2007; 8:00P; Park West Chicago, IL thing more than what you have. That’s hate clubs. I like old bars where it seems Nov 20 2007; 8:00P; Joe’s Pub, New York, NY obviously directed at someone else, like Hobbits or ghosts would be. narrow-minded, so I was so glad they Nov 21 2007; 8:00P; Birchmere, Alexandria, VA stumbled upon it by accident. It was a wishing for them to understand that as Q: So no rehab for you anytime soon? Nov 22 2007; 8:00P; Mod Club; Toronto, Canada well. A: Hopefully not. [Laughs] You never funny, special little secret I knew but they Nov 24 2007; 8:00P; Cabaret; Montreal, Quebec didn’t. Q: You’re young, pretty, famous, and know, though. We’re all fragile, aren’t who also co-produced your album, influ- Q: Speaking of lesbians, how was work- you even dated another celebrity. How we? We all have our vices. ence the record? ing with producer Linda Perry? have you avoided tabloid attention? FMI: www.vanessacarlton.com. Heroes A: We all learn so much from our rela- A: I did my first batch of songs with her, A: Well, I don’t live in L.A., and I don’t and Thieves (The Inc. Records/Universal tionships. Not just regarding that rela- so it dictated the direction of the record tionship, I’ve had so many life lessons and made me realize what I wanted it to Queer Cinema You Can’t Miss! and evolved a lot these past few years. I sound like—like it came out on vinyl in Washington, D.C. gentleman who escorts the work out questions and find the answers Southland Tales (LESBIAN) 1972. That was inspired by her vibe and wives of rich and powerful men to public events. through writing—but sometimes I don’t Genre: Comedy, Musical, Sci-Fi, Thriller all her cool vintage gear. Rating: Not yet rated; Director: Richard Kelly; He is closest to Lynn (Bacall), who, one day, finds find the answers. The last song on the Q: How did your split earlier this year Starring: The Rock, Seann William Scott, Sarah her lover stabbed to death. By trying to protect album, “More Than This,” is about my from Third Eye Blind’s Stephan Jenkins, Michelle Gellar, Cheri Oteri; Release Date: his friend and cover up her affair, Carter tells her favorite idea in life: At any given time, 11/14/07; Synopsis: Futuristic comedy that takes husband (Willem Dafoe) that he found the body, place in Los Angeles July 4, 2008. Cheri Oteri and thereby becomes the prime suspect. Finding You the RIGHT One, Not Just Anyone plays a villainous lesbian bodybuilder. Almost Myself (TRANS) Priviledged (GAY) Genre: Documentary; Rating: Not yet rated Genre: Drama; Rating: Not yet rated Distribution: Limited Release; Director: Tom We understand ... Distribution: Limited Release Murray; Release Date: TBA • It’s hard to meet the right Director: Jonah Salander; Starring: Julian Morris, Notes: Premiered at 2006 Newfest person. Aaron Ashmore; Release Date: 12/01/07 Synopsis: Director Tom Murry explores the lives Synopsis: A closeted gay teen (Morris) tries to of a group of diverse MTFs in this documentary. • You are busy and want destroy the relationship between a girl and the • Personal, Discreet, matches chosen just for you. boy he secretly loves. Be Real (LBGT) Respectful Lanie & Bud, Company Founders • You might not want to meet Genre: Documentary; Rating: Not yet rated • People are who they say they “We met through a dating service.” someone in a bar or at work. The Walker (GAY) Distribution: Limited Release are ... Genre: Drama; Rating: Not yet rated Director: Bobbie Birleffi and Beverly Kopf • You don’t want your personal • We welcome Singles of all Distribution: Limited Release; Director: Paul Release Date: 00/00/00; Notes: Premiered at info for all to see on the Lifestyles Schrader’ Starring: Woody Harrelson, Lauren 2006 Miami Gay & Lesbian Film Festival Internet. Bacall, Kristin Scott Thomas, Lily Tomlin, Ned Synopsis: The two directors went in search of six • An affordable service Beatty; Release Date: 12/07/07 extraordinary LGBT individuals across the coun- Notes: Premiered at 2007 Berlin Film Festival try. This film tells their stories. (413) 665-3218 • massmatch.com • [email protected] Synopsis: Carter Page III (Harrelson) is a gay 10 • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com Education UNH:Gay men discriminated against more at work than gay women DURHAM, N.H. (AP)—Employers ket, according to Bruce Elmslie, profes- “Employers could reasonably infer that inate. discriminate more against gay men in sor of economics, and Edinaldo Tebaldi, a lesbian applicant or current employee Gay men also may be discriminated many jobs than against gay women in the a former assistant professor of economics will have a stronger attachment to the against because customers may not want workplace, according to new research. now at Bryant University. Their research labor force than will a heterosexual to interact with them, thus influencing University of New Hampshire appears in the Journal of Labor Research woman,” the authors said. hiring practices. “If customers prefer to researchers found that gay men who live in the article “Sexual Orientation and The authors note that previous studies interact with heterosexual employees, the together earn 23 percent less than mar- Labor Market Discrimination.” of attitudes of heterosexual men toward owner will act on the customer

BASH from Page 4 documents referring to various faith tra- suit—but teens with a skateboard, JM: Do you see an opening for dialogue ditions, and why those traditions should “Excuse, me. I’m trying to get to Church regarding the points on each side of this State Representative Ellen Story support only the man-woman definition Street.” They are disarmed; they have debate? (D/Amherst and Granby) has been a sup- of marriage. With all of the verbiage something that I need–directions. Then A: We are always reaching out to people, porter of same-sex marriage from the around “threat,” it does not appear that they start to discuss the best way amongst and we respect concerns, but we will not beginning. I asked her about the latest same-sex marriage threatens the hetero- themselves. Their posture is different respond to the Judas/Benedict Arnold backlash. sexual version. Why do you suppose the when I leave then when I first language. We see more and more people JM: What do you think of the NOM bill- opposition uses the term “threaten” so approached them. This never backfires; coming out as supportive of equal rights board campaign? often? it is so unexpected-- a middle-aged every day. ES: I think it shows they are searching ES: I think it’s part of their strategy, woman in a suit, why is she walking here JM: Do you have any words of advice for a new avenue to take. In the legisla- which is to inspire fear in people. Most to ask us? They love it. They feel com- for LGBT activists and allies now? What ture, it is clearly a dead issue, and it will of my district supported the SJC deci- petent afterwards. should they be doing personally and not come up again in the next several sion, but those who called in did say, JM: Do you believe that our federal politically to work for equality? years, and the more time that passes, the “This makes a mockery of my marriage,” government should offer this protection? A: A #1 priority is to make sure that the deader the issue becomes regarding etc. Leaders were suggesting they say Why or why not? legislators who voted with us are re- amending the constitution to discrimi- this. It has always been baffling to me. ES: Yes, because it’s FAIR. The SJC elected. Donate, volunteer, and help nate. They have realized that they cannot JM: What is your most important guid- [Supreme Judicial Court] said it’s dis- those who need it in your district. We win in the legislature, so they are looking ing principle in legislative work? crimination if you don’t. It is treating stick by those who stuck by us. for new areas to explore. They think that A: To try to be fair. It’s one of my most other people the way you want to be …The legislators I spoke with are having billboards is a good idea. guiding principles in life. Also, to treat treated. aligned around the concept of moving on. I think that for the few people who agree, other people the way I want to be treated. I caught up with MassEquality’s They have come together at a crucial they probably think it’s a good use of Jesus says love thy neighbor as thyself. Communication Director, Melissa point in history to honorably serve their money. For the majority of people who That’s too hard, I can’t love all of them Threadgill. constituencies and to take a stance for do not agree, they are either amused or but I can treat them the way I would hope “I think it is a hateful and divisive bill- fairness and social justice. Whether or outraged: “Isn’t that issue already decid- they would treat me. This is possible to board. ‘Threat’ is a loaded word. This not we see additional BASH activities ed?” If this is they way they choose to do. heightened language inspires people to throughout the Commonwealth, one spend money, fine. It will not be effec- Sometimes, I will walk through Boston action. There is no indication that hetero- thing is for sure. United we stand; divid- tive. Most of us have moved on in and find the most unlikely people to ask sexual marriage is in any way threatened ed we fall. Massachusetts. directions from—not the man in the by same-sex marriage.” JM: I have read through their (NOM) www.therainbowtimesmass.com • The Rainbow Times • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • 11 QEntertainment BCT: Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat Cast members include 12 Gay men from the MA area “Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor able to incorporate a lot of gay humor Dreamcoat,” The Biblical saga of Joseph that everyone will enjoy.” and his coat of many colors comes to Proceeds from these performances go vibrant life in this delightful musical into the BCT Scholarship fund that is parable. available to a South Hadley High School The Black Cat Theater, in their 22nd senior going on to college to further their year, is rehearsing and gearing up for education in the arts. their annual fall production at the South Set to an engaging cornucopia of musi- Hadley High School auditorium on cal styles, from country-western and November 7-11th. Wednesday November calypso to bubble-gum pop and rock 'n' 7th is “Friends and Family Night” with roll, this Old Testament tale emerges both discounted tickets for all. The Thursday, timely and timeless. This year's cast fea- Friday and Saturday performances have a tures Nick Adams of Amherst as Joseph 7:30 pm. curtain. There are also Saturday and Seana Lamothe of Northampton as and Sunday matinees with a 2:00 p.m. the Narrator. There are also over 20 per- curtain. formers in the cast, a six piece band and This year's cast features 12 men from a 24 member children's chorus. the local gay community playing several “A show like this brings a lot of people roles. This is a trend that started last year out of the woodwork to get involved" with BCT's production of "South Pacific" said director and cast member Matt in which most of the male chorus consist- Meers of Easthampton. "We have people ed of gay men from the area. involved from Springfield, Chicopee, “We have seasoned performers and Northampton, Granby and as far away as guys who have never been on stage Conway and Greenfield. It's a real com- before taking part in this show,” said munity effort to put on a show of this size director and cast member Matt Meers of here in South Hadley". Easthampton. “Directing a show with For ticket reservations call 563-6023 or this many gay men involved, I've been email [email protected].

Discrimination from Page 6 either. I hoped that the company I identity or expression to their policies in worked for would advocate for me, but the last decade.” However, at the they didn’t care about my issue, but Stonewall Center’s website (under the [rather] their truck. I will have to watch Campus Transgender Guide), UMass out for myself even more.” Amherst, the guide reads, does not have * Gricel M. Ocasio is the Publisher of “gender identity or expression” in its TRT, and a graduate of Temple University nondiscrimination policy. with over 16 years of experience in the pub- It further clarifies that The Stonewall lishing/journalism field. Center is leading an effort to amend the policy. Albany, Troy, Schenectady, NY? According to Lane, all she wanted was NO PROBLEM! that the officer be reprimanded accord- ingly, and to receive an apology from her. “It doesn’t seem like that’s going to be TRT the case,” said Lane. “I did not even hear about the training until recently, 518.391.2617 and frankly, I did not expect much 413.204.8959

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There are a couple of bar areas, a ing not only increased its with a relaxing, informal meal at one of patio in back, and a good (loud) sound population by nearly 50 the city's well-regarded purveyors of Tex- system serving the tiny but pulsing dance percent but also solidified its reputation as Mex, such as Guero's or Manuel's. A for- floor. Austin's many queer country-west- an ultra-cool place to live and visit. The mer feed store that's now a fabulous taque- ern fans head to the nearby Rainbow Cattle Co., where they two-step and line- fact that Austin is oppressively hot for a ria, Guero's serves some of the best dance below a sea of wagon wheels and few months each summer is about its only Mexican fare in central Texas—from stan- Wild West artifacts. If you're into leather, major negative. As autumn approaches, dard but artfully seasoned tamales to more head to the Chain Drive, which cultivates however, Austin cools off again - and this innovative creations like marinated grilled a bearish and rugged ambience. means the city's myriad cafes, lounges, pork on a corn tortilla with onions, The city also has dozens of clubs and music clubs, and gay hangouts sizzle with cilantro, and fresh pineapple. Fancier than lounges hosting bands and singers of just activity. most of the Mexican restaurants in town, about every ilk, making Austin one of the If you've been to this left-leaning - espe- Manuel's is a sleek, deco-inspired space in nation's top cities for live music. Just stroll cially by Texas standards - city before, say the Warehouse District with a sassy little through the Warehouse District, especially five or more years ago, you may have bar in back. along East 6th Street, and listen for the trouble recognizing it. The downtown After your meal, it's time to check out at sounds of music to your liking. In Austin, landscape has been transformed by recent- least a couple of Austin's inviting gay bars nobody cares much about looks, labels, ly constructed office and hotel towers, and —it's a topsy-turvy scene in these parts, The gay section of Hippie Hollow Park is a favorite and agendas—you'll be made to feel wel- a fantastic new airport makes traveling with one or two bars coming and going Austin hangout on weekend afternoons. come most anywhere. here a breeze. Here's a recipe for enjoying seemingly every year. But you can consis- Pool, a popular and enormous swimming Sunday morning offers a fresh opportu- the perfect three-day weekend in this tently count on there being roughly a half hole, remains an invigorating 68 degrees nity to sample one of Austin's great brunch upbeat, welcoming metropolis. dozen gay bars downtown, mostly concen- year-round, so bring along a swimsuit if or lunch spots—depending on how late Consider staying in the funky downtown trated in the Warehouse District. the weather's nice. you sleep in. A favorite of the gay commu- Warehouse District, with its bounty of Worthwhile options on Fridays include the Austin's best outdoor attraction, howev- nity, Katz Deli is renowned for its half- both gay and gay-friendly bars as well as relatively new Rain on 4th, which opened er, is Hippie Hollow Park, which hugs the pound sandwiches—the grilled three- cheese with tomatoes is especially good. hip restaurants and offbeat boutiques. in the Warehouse District in 2006, and has shores of stunning Lake Travis, about a Another enjoyable option is the South Worthy recommendations include the a lovely deck out back, a cozy billiards bar 30-minute drive west of town. This is the Congress Cafe, a handsome space known most glamorous hotel in town, the up front, and a mid-size dance bar in the region's only official clothing-optional for such toothsome brunch treats as duck- Intercontinental Stephen F. Austin, an middle; and Charlie's, the city's oldest gay sunbathing spot. The gay section, which and-oyster gumbo, and a luscious carrot opulent 16-story beauty with marble bar, which lies in the shadows of the state draws substantial crowds on just about cake French toast. baths, 1920s-era furnishings, and twice- capitol building. Go-go boys perform any day with temperatures above 65 Spend your final afternoon in town daily maid service. Perfectly appealing yet inside, and there's a spacious deck in back. degrees, lies at the very end of the path- exploring the leafy 357-acre campus of less pricey downtown alternatives include If you're looking to keep it mellow your way that leads from the parking lot. On the University of Texas, whose attractions the Radisson Town Lake, whose rooms first night, have an after-dinner cocktail, weekend afternoons you'll often see pleas- include the Lyndon Baines Johnson face the scenic Colorado River (known as fruit smoothie, or espresso drink at the ure boats packed with cute guys docked Presidential Library and Museum and the Town Lake in this part of the city), and the stylish Halcyon Coffeehouse and Lounge, just offshore. Break for refreshments with Texas Memorial Museum, which has Hampton Inn and Suites, an attractive, a hipster-infested, gay-friendly hangout a meal at the Oasis, a massive outdoor exhibits on state history and local flora reasonably priced mid-rise opened a few across the street from Rain on 4th. compound set high on a bluff overlooking and fauna. UT's Blanton Museum of Art is years ago. Rise and shine on Saturday morning the lake and Hippie Hollow - it's a short well-regarded for its collections of Across the river, within walking dis- with breakfast at one of Austin's more drive from the park. The mediocre Renaissance paintings as well as modern tance of downtown, you'll find another eccentric nosh pits, Magnolia Cafe, which Mexican food at Oasis won't win any culi- Latin American art. Guadalupe Street, excellent lodging base, the retro-trendy has branches along South Congress nary awards, but the views and the potent known along its border with UT as "the South Congress district, home to the clev- Avenue and also just west of downtown on margaritas make this a winner. Drag," is a haven of alternative culture as erly restored Austin Motel. Many rooms at Lake Austin Boulevard. The delicious, On your way back into town, treat your- well as the place to shop for locally made this quirky slice of '50s-style Americana filling breakfast specialties range from the self to some truly heavenly ice cream at arts and crafts, Longhorn memorabilia, have tile floors, kitchenettes, Jacuzzi tubs, "Solar Landscape" (seasoned grilled pota- Amy's, a shrine to fattening dairy treats. and other offbeat goods. and kidney-shaped patios. There's an on- toes, red onions, and ham topped with Mexican vanilla, pumpkin cheesecake, On your final night in Austin, you might site Mexican restaurant, El Sol y La Luna, queso and chipotle sauce) to hefty ginger- and honeyed brandy are a few popular fla- go all out with a high-ticket dinner at one that turns out fiery, kick-ass huevos bread pancakes bursting with blueberries. vors at this local chain with outposts in of the city's most sophisticated restau- rancheros and carne asada. A few blocks Very close to the South Congress neigh- several handy locations, including South rants, such as dark and sexy Jeffrey's, away, the swankier Hotel San Jose is borhood, you can take to the outdoors and Congress Avenue and 6th Street down- which has the polish of a big-city supper another old motor court that's been given a work off some calories with a stroll town. If you still have a little time left, club and a clientele that ranges from postmodern, minimalist makeover. The through beautiful 350-acre Zilker Park, a stroll among the cool antiques, home-fur- celebs to politicos. The lamb T-bone with spacious courtyard suites are downright fine spot to tan your hide on sunny days. nishings, and second-hand clothing shops spinach-parmesan souffle and onion-mint posh (and pricey), but a simpler though The park's spring-fed Barton Springs along South Congress Avenue and also in confit is a typically sublime dish. Don't the Warehouse District. miss the white-chocolate parfait with Saturday-night dinner options are many. brandied cherries and pistachios for The Healing Way Stick with the Warehouse District for the dessert—a memorable ending to a great Austin weekend. Dr. Renee Lang, ND best people-watching, plus proximity to gay nightlife. Excellent dining bets Naturopathic Doctor * Andrew Collins is the author of Fodor's Gay include Kenichi, a mod, happening place Guide to the USA and eight additional travel Serving 2 locations: where pretty young things hobnob over guides. He can be reached care of this publi- 16 Armory St., #9 200 Clark Ave. superbly rendered Japanese cuisine. At cation or at [email protected]. Northampton, MA 01060 Brattleboro, VT nearby Malaga, you can savor plate after Phone: 413.582.0303 Phone: 802-254-4369 plate of terrific tapas, such as braised beef To get phone numbers of the places listed here, Fax: 413.582.0355 short ribs in Riojo wine. otherwise known as The Little Black Book, Saturday is Austin's big night for gay please go to: www.therainbowtimesnews.com www.thehealingway.net revelry. Rain on 4th and Charlie's remain (click on the Travel Section). www.therainbowtimesmass.com • The Rainbow Times • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • 13 14 • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com PuddleJump Travel Stories Going Green: Exploring the nooks and crannies in El Yunque By: J. Stevenson* Some plants grow so fast, it’s possible TRT Travel Columnist to see and hear the stalks creeping upward. Others are so deeply rooted he raindrops drum onto leaves they've stood firm in the same place for below, the twittering Coqui frogs decades. Tkeep time with the beat, and A glimpse at an endangered Puerto every inch of the land is a shade of green, Rican parrot is a rare treat, and more from turquoise to olive to chartreuse. common marvels are the tiny, chirping Just a short bus ride from the seaside Coqui frogs – an unofficial mascot of the resort town of Fajardo, Puerto Rico, it’s island, some exist nowhere in the world hard to believe the El Yunque Rainforest but in El Yunque – and giant snails, cling- exists so close to civilization. But El ing to branches and leaves. Yunque, the only rain forest in the U.S. A different look at a culinary delicacy Forest Service system, encompasses or two could be found as well; in the case 28,000 acres of Puerto Rico and includes of hearts of palm, for instance, the root, the Luquillo Mountains, offering spec- found in many Caribbean and Latino tacular, emerald views from every angle. dishes, cannot be harvested until the tree The Mt. Britton lookout tower, perched in which it lives is felled, and at El at 3,088 feet and accessible by foot or Yunque, that's always of natural causes. car, is an excellent place to start taking it A walk through El Yunque isn’t just a all in. It’s a simple, stone cylinder rising hunt for strange sights, though. It’s a from the trees, allowing visitors to peek truly ecological experience, and a brief at the foliage from windows at many lev- study of a rare and tiny island rainforest els of a winding, stone spiral staircase. At that is also considered by experts to be the top, rain clouds can be seen retreating one of the most fragile in the world. or approaching, and on a clear day, the There are lessons to be learned in EL YUNQUE RAINFOREST IN EL YUNQUE, PUERTO RICO coast is visible in the distance. A deep Puerto Rico’s rainforest, where the bank of fog lolling over the tree tops, but as such, is a concentrated hot spot for and other environmentally based sub- rhythm of life drums quietly on. however, is more likely, and equally life – in countless forms. jects. Walking through the forest, though, striking. * J. Stevenson is a travel, culture, and busi- El Yunque is what is called an 'experi- either alone or on a guided tour, is the ness writer based in Massachusetts. Visit her It’s a small rainforest in comparison to mental national park;' It is the site of sev- only way to fully appreciate how amaz- online at www.writerjax.com. other tropical forests around the globe, eral studies of flora and fauna, climate, ing El Yunque is in its diversity.

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The Pub 382 Dwight Street Springfield, MA New York State Legislators applaud expansion of GMDVP into New England Club Phoenix BOSTON—The Gay Men’s Domestic GMDVP and their sister organization the MB 348 Central Ave., Violence Project (GMDVP) announced Network/ La Red. 40 Grafton Street Albany, NY 12206 Worcester, MA today that its hotline program, designed to Verizon President of Massachusetts and 518-462-4862 aid gay male victims of domestic violence, Rhode Island Donna Cupelo said Sin City Joey's Bar will expand to cover all of Massachusetts, “Domestic violence is an issue that affects 350 Worthington Street 664 2nd Ave., Troy, NY Rhode Island and Connecticut. It will be every segment of society and statistics Springfield, MA 518-237-4846 funded through a $75,000 grant from the have shown that 1 in 4 gay men will be Connecticut Verizon Foundation. victims of domestic violence. 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State Representative provides a lifeline to gay, bisexual and Liz Malia, a long time champion of LGBT transgender male victims currently with- Domestic Violence remarked that domes- out access to services. It also exhibits tic violence in the gay community needed leadership to other corporate foundations to be confronted with equal vigor and who traditionally have not funded GLBT resources as seen in the heterosexual com- domestic violence issues” munity. She spoke with compassion of her State Senator Ed Augustus spoke of the connection and on going work with both 16 • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com LGBT Announcements TRT PRIDE Calendar from MA, NY, CT & VT! (MA) UNITY is a Transgender support group the door, $20.00. 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By: Nicole Lashomb/TRT Editor-in-Chief care is not to be considered household The preliminary qualifications to become a “income”. Therefore, applicants are asked Over half a million children in the U.S. Professional Parent are: to provide us with evidence that they are are awaiting foster care or adoption place- • At least 21 years of age • High School diploma or GED • An extra bedroom in the home and financially capable of supporting their ments. In many cases, these children will household.” never know a family or home to call its landlord permission if you rent • Valid CT driver’s license and a reliable car with insurance • Never been substantiated for abuse or neglect (there are also a number of criminal convic- Currently, The Professional Parenting own. In an exclusive interview with The program has 104 children with over 50 Institute of Professional Practice’s tions that would preclude someone from being approved) • Sufficient income to meet the children on a waiting list who are in need Professional Parenting Program, TRT needs of your family (money should not be a motivating factor for someone considering this of professional level foster homes. brings to you the way that you can take work) • A first shift work schedule “IPPI’s Professional Parenting Program these kids out of the system and into your is licensed by the State of CT and there- hearts. is the legal guardian of the child, they are those Professional Parents that feel that fore we can only approve homes within “The Professional Parenting Program is most likely eligible for adoption,” said saying good bye to their foster child will the state; just as the children referred to a specialized foster care project operated Wick-Glaser. be too painful, we recommend for them our program are residents of the State of by The Institute of Professional Practice, “Many of the children that are referred the children in need of long term place- CT,” said Wick-Glaser. [However], the Inc.,” said Martha Wick-Glaser, The to the program lack family resources and ments or perhaps the adoptable children Institute of Professional Practice, Inc. in Professional Parenting Program, The [their] biological parent’s are not that are referred to the program.” MA, recently started a Professional Institute of Professional Practice, involved. Our program has celebrated the According to Wick-Glaser, services and Parenting Program which specializes in Woodbridge, CT. “The program is adoptions of several of our children over supports such as 24/7 emergency on-call working with Developmentally Delayed designed to provide a loving home for the years.” staff, behavioral consultation, reimburse- children. The rewards are many but very children who are difficult to place due to Although many adoptions have ment for therapeutic respite and recre- personal. Certainly what our parents give emotional, behavioral, developmental or occurred, other professional parents are ational expenses, consulting psychiatrists, to their foster children is returned tenfold. medical issues. We are a licensed child needed on a short term basis. In certain individualized treatment plans, compre- Giving them the opportunity to become placement agency and over the years circumstances, the children may be re- hensive parent training, weekly home vis- well adjusted, successful, happy children many of the children in our program have united with their biological parents, its, and a competitive stipend are avail- provides for them unlimited personal ful- been adopted by their Professional according to Wick-Glaser. able once a placement has been made. fillment and satisfaction.” Parents.” “Foster care is designed to be a tempo- “Such services and supports are what For more information about the CT Being a foster parent can involve many rary solution for children in need of a safe separate us from other programs and are Program, visit www.ippi.org or call different types of placements, including and loving home,” said Wick-Glaser. made available to our Professional Martha Wick-Glaser at 888-968-4489, short-term and long-term, which may “Many of our children look forward to Parents upon placement of a child,” said x134. To become a foster parent for result in an adoption. reunification with their biological fami- Wick-Glaser. developmentally delayed children in “If the child’s biological parent’s rights lies and when that is the plan, foster par- “The stipend that Professional Parents Mass., contact Mary Devlin at 978-343- have been terminated and the State of CT ents know it at the time of placement. For receive on behalf of the children in their 8392, x314.

Couch from Page 2 proposal (and for another kind of “pro- demand destroying not only his career, He is in bed with them, literally. He posal”, there’s always the internet, but his very life as he knows it. “Craig was seeking in that toilet stall a is married to this identity; being a Larry!). And when looking at the entire Larry connection, a shard of intimacy, that the straight man, sleeping with a I am not going to defend the Senator’s Craig fiasco, I can only hope that some- world would not give him, or that he woman, having fathered a couple of choices. (He is in bed with them, literal- one—some youth, some elder, some ly.) He is married to this identity; being married person—will be inspired could not give himself. No one should children: A true hypocrite. have to live without that intimacy and a straight man, sleeping with a woman, enough to come out, especially because dignity—no one. Living a life like that, subculture of married-with-children having fathered a couple of children: A of him. a deeply lonely, compromised, painful true hypocrite. But he’s also a victim. Of * Suzan Ambrose can be heard on “The men who didn’t self-identify as gay, or Naked Truth” every Monday from 8-9 p.m. interior existence—is a very sophisticat- bisexual, yet still sought clandestine sex the same world that demands we don’t ask and don’t tell. To admit anything dif- on 103.3FM. More commentary at: ed form of hell. No human can keep it with other men on the side. Published in www.nakedtruthshow.com up forever. No human should have to 1970,”Tearoom Trade” is full of useful ferent to himself at this point, would keep it up forever.” information about foot tapping, shoe And perhaps we’ve forgotten that it touching, hand signaling and other ritu- wasn’t so long ago when gay people first als of those so inclined to make contact stood up and said: “We aren’t going to with one another in public places. take it anymore!” (Yes, I was born then). I never got the handbook (or the toaster Unfortunately now, just like in the past, oven!). so many of us are still not free to stand In a world where television’s Will and up and be counted. People like Larry Grace and The L Word fill our living Craig, who act on their desires without rooms, bathroom cruisers seem almost If you’ve ever considered being a Foster Parent… ever being able to come to terms with antiquated. Today’s GLBT community their sexuality. wants the right to get married, and public NOW is the time to do it. Sociologist Laud Humpreys’ bathrooms aren’t the right venue for a ”Tearoom Trade” study describes this Connecticut’s children need you more than ever. CT Neighborhood Organizations The Professional Parenting Program AIDS Testing: www.guardinhealth.org Runaway Switchboard: (773) 880-9860Connecticut provides comprehensive supports to foster families. Gay Father’s Group: (203) 938-2881Hartford Women's Education and Legal Fund (CWEALF): 135 Together, we can make a difference in the lives of children with Community Center: (860) 724-5542CT Freedom to Marry Broad Street, Hartford, CT 06105 - 860.247.6090 Info. and Coalition: (203) 791-9553Love Makes a Family: www.lmf- Referral program: (800) 479-2949 or Greater Hartford special needs. ct.org (860) 525-7777Married Lesbian Support Group: 524-0601 - Statewide women's rights organization working [email protected] (203) 430-9227 to end discrimination and hate crimes; provides free legal Connecticut residents only. Married Men’s Bisexual Support Group of Hartford: information and referral to the LGBT community. (860)264-5605Metropolitan Community Church of New XX Club (Twenty Club): Rev. Cannon Jones - 45 Church Haven: (203) 397-2312New Haven Gay & Lesbian Street Hartford , CT 06141-0387 - (860)646-8651 - Povides Please call us today (888) 968-4489 x134 Center: www.nhglcc.org; (203) 387-2252 knowledgeable info., and ongoing peer support to trans- PFLAG Danburry: www.pflag.org; (203) 797- sexuals. 2nd and 4th Saturdays of the month, 2 -5 p.m. 4743Connecticut ’s Kids: (203) 256-8414 connecticuT View (cTView): A Transgender social and Senior Lesbians Happily at Play (SLAPHAPS): Kathy support club, for the TV, TG, TS, CD, both male and (203) 929-8113 female. Monthly meeting in New Haven as well as e-mem- True Colors CT: www.ourtruecolors.org; (888) 565- bership, and more. A no dues club, with all the frills; 5551National www.transgender.org/ctv/ 1764 Litchfield Turnpike • Woodbridge, CT 06525 • www.ippi.org 18 • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com QueerWood Deep Inside Hollywood: Moennig shows Remorse By: Romeo San Vicente* in the works. And so it goes with Clive ueer fans of Katherine Moennig Barker's 1987 hit Hellraiser, which Katherine spawned several sequels and taught the QMoennig, world to be afraid of bald men who stick The L Word's shaggy- nails in their heads like they were pin- haired, womanizing, cushions. Gay horror master Barker underwear-modeling directed the original and has now given Shane, will have a reason to leave their his blessing for Dimension Films to televisions for movie theaters when the reboot the franchise with a remake. The actor stars in the new indie thriller story, you may recall, deals with a cheat- Remorse. First-time feature director ing wife trying to liberate her lover from Quinn Saunders will helm the project, Hell and encountering the nasty demons which co-stars Eion Bailey (Band of known as Cenobites. Will Barker's cre- Brothers). The plot is still mostly under ation still have bite the second time wraps, but there's already an ominous around? Audiences will decide when it poster image for the film online, one that opens in 2008. suggests the movie will serve up a fairly Dumbledore's Unrequited Crushes large serving of insanity and fear. And no The Harry Potter books have all been matter what the story line, it will simply written and published, so the recent and be good to see Moennig on screen for somewhat bemused comment from more than a few minutes at a time after author J.K. Rowling that she always her tiny roles in films like Art School believed Hogwarts' headmaster Albus Confidential. Remorse cameras will roll Dumbledore to be gay can have no effect beginning March of 2008. on future installments. But there are still Toni Collette Moves into Tara two film adaptations left in the cinematic You’ve seen Toni Collette play every- version of the boy wizard's saga, and that thing from an ABBA obsessive to a mom Showtime has announced that Collette mother of two who copes with life's leaves plenty of room for both actor whose kid talks to dead people, but the will star in The United States of Tara, stresses via multiple personalities. These Michael Gambon to re-interpret the char- Aussie actress is about to play a whole lot based on an idea by Steven Spielberg, alter egos include a promiscuous teen, a acter with plenty of new subtext and for of new characters - all in one TV series. about an ordinary-seeming wife and picture-perfect housekeeper, and even an queer fans to speculate wildly on what aggressive male biker. The pilot, which those sidelong glances to other actors shoots in 2008, was written by Diablo might really mean. Of course, neither Cody, the screenwriter behind this win- Gambon nor anyone else related to the ter's much-buzzed-about comedy Juno. projects will speak about what's coming And if any actress can convince us there's to theaters near you, but Romeo would a menacing guy lurking inside a regular like to officially cast his vote for a little gal, it's Toni Collette. infusion of homo content into the magi- cal world of Harry. Hellraiser Raises Hell Again Practically every successful horror * Romeo San Vicente knows a few lesbian movie made between 1960 and 1990 has witches but, sadly, no gay warlocks. He can been remade—Halloween, Dawn of the be reached care of this publication or at Dead, The Hitcher, etc.—or has a remake [email protected]. www.therainbowtimesmass.com • The Rainbow Times • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • 19 Local Events & Auto Automotive Q & A By: Stephen M. 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Fully Insured Free Estimates 413.587.0786 Packing Services Commercial & Residential 221 Pine St., Suite 358 Local/Long Distance Florence, MA 01062 Hot Tubs/Furnaces Piano Moving - Our specialty! 20 • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com Featured LGBT Artist Empowered: Party Drugs, STD’s and world peace with Annie Lennox Ready for a roller-coaster ride? That’s what Annie Lennox likens her music to, and her new solo disc, Songs of Mass Destruction, is certainly a dramatic jour- ney of extreme emotions—as is this interview with the surprisingly sassy songstress. But when discussing her work, she’s a serious artiste: “Each track has a different feel,” Annie says of the album that veers from atmospheric songs of loss to anthemic calls for hope. She’s also serious about her passionate for human rights—her disc’s title references the Iraq war—and when we caught up with Annie, she had just performed in anthemic sound on many tracks. How do London for Peace One Day, a movement you meld the two? to make September 21 the day of world Annie Lennox: Seamlessly, dear! The peace. “But it doesn’t have to be about music comes intuitively. I don’t try to fig- putting weapons down,” she says. “You ure it out. And as human beings, we are can make friends with someone you paradoxical, the two things co-exist: haven’t spoken with—whatever it means darkness and light, positive and negative. to you.” What? Make peace with our ex- You can’t get one without the other. I’ve boyfriends? Now that really would always been a person with a dark side, change the world. but I do try to be positive. HX: After hearing the haunting debut Q: Yet another sample of "Sweet single “Dark Road” and reading about Dreams" has surfaced in a dance track, the disc’s serious subject matter, listeners this time in Britney Spears’s might not be prepared for the upbeat, See Lennox on Page 22 www.therainbowtimesmass.com • The Rainbow Times • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • 21 Sex Talk & More Dr. Lola: Sexpert & more Q Puzzle: Ford Foundation Dear Dr. Lola: Hi, I am a strictly lesbian identified Dear Dr. Lola: woman who has never had sex with I am an openly gay man. I love my a biological man. I also don’t have sex life. I love my man. He loves with women who do have sex with my neurotic cat. So what is the biological men. (I’d like to get a tee problem? My man was born a shirt that says, “I don’t do Dick – woman. When we met I never would just Jane!”). So, my question is this; have thought that he was a trannie. He my new partner, well sort of new, and I was honest with me from day one. At first I have been intimate for almost three months. thought he was joking. Then, before we first Now she thinks we each need to have an AIDS got busy we had a real heart to heart and test before we can have hot sex without gloves and all. She’s done a lot of volunteering and worked stuff out. He is the biggest, hottest works in the gay men’s community and per- bear that has ever taken me down. I love this sonally, I think she’s on overload with all this man and I love his cooking. Unless you knew AIDS stuff. We are lesbians. Why do we need him before the transition you could never to worry about this stuff? And, more impor- guess he was any different than he is now. tantly, do you think we need to get an AIDS Since he was born a woman does this mean I test? Maybe there’s something she’s not am really straight, only I am hiding behind my telling me? lover? I am 32; a little old to be questioning —“All about Jane” in Northampton, MA my sexual orientation. Oh, and he asked me to marry him. The guy loves me for me. He’s Damn girl, you’ve got issues. You can even Jewish! My family, even my mother loves be all about Jane or Jeffrey for all anyone him. She thinks he’s quite a catch. He’s the cares – that doesn’t stop you from being only man I ever brought to Temple but nobody human. Before I get tempted to give you in my family knows his physical history. Is this a life lesson, let’s get real about HIV. something we need to tell my family? The There is no such thing as an “AIDS” test. wedding is next spring. Oy vey! There is a test for HIV. HIV stands for —DL, Holyoke MA the Human Immunodeficiency Virus. The Dear DL: HIV test looks for the antibodies that the Mazeltov my darling mensch! Now – human body produces when it has been you listen to me. A Yentl he’s not - it’s a Across Down exposed to the virus. AIDS is a diagnosis 1 Elton John wears them 1 American Beauty director Mendes good thing too! Why stir the pot when 6 "Silence = death," e.g. 2 Stick your nose in of the syndrome and is based upon spe- the matzoh balls have already floated to 11 Colts' org. 3 Firm member (abbr.) cific medical criteria. You don’t say how the top? It’s time to take out the ladle and 14 Flaming queen's crime? 4 Poet Cullen old you are. You sound young and dan- serve everybody this love. He’s happy, 15 Pink, for one 5 Pussyfoot gerously unaware. you’re happy. 16 Matthew in The Producers 6 160 rods My advice to you is as follows, 1) Be Hello - how many men would be able 17 Former column by Michael Thomas Ford 7 Bonehead 19 Oddball comedian Philips 8 Went down proud that your partner serves our com- to make your mother happy? If you are 20 Broadway title woman of 1925 9 Tammy Baldwin's page, e.g. munity 2) Get your butt to a clinic spe- asking what to do, I would say talk it over 21 Top 10 Preposition for Byron cializing in sexual health and get tested with your beloved. Let him know what 22 TV host Steve 11 Ford's ___ Doesn't Love Me for anything and everything the coun- your concerns are. See how he’s feeling 25 Like some condoms 12 Amelie Mauresmo's woman selor suggests because lesbians are not about it and then the two of you decide 27 Setting for At Swim, Two Boys 13 Whispered to one's partner immune to STI’s (sexually transmitted 28 Ejaculation of concern 18 Tired lover's cry what is important to disclose to whom 32 Valencia author Michelle 21 His brother laid him in his grave infections) 3) Grab all the pamphlets and what is not. 33 Melissa Etheridge's "Don't Look ___" 22 Reeves of My Own Private Idaho from the clinic and read them with your Enjoy this time in your relationship and 34 Rowlands of An Early Frost 23 Hat for Pope Julius II partner, ask her questions and listen to remember to say, “thank you”, to your 35 Fashion designer Perry 24 "The gay ___" (Ford nickname) what she has to say 4) Only you and your mother for giving you life and for raising 38 R. Mapplethorpe supporter 26 Caligula's way partner can negotiate safer sex practices. a son who is such a good catch that he’s 39 With 60-Across, Ford book 29 Prelims for Bruce Hayes It really is a negotiation so if you think 41 Sex orientation determiner, some say 30 Coming soon marrying the man of his dreams before 42 Like Tales of the City? 31 Until, in Sitges there are things that need to be said, say 35. A mitzvah, truly. There is a passage in 44 Russian singing duo 36 Cockamamie them and be prepared to communicate, the Talmud that I love – it says, “…every 45 Out 37 Nay follower listen, share, and exchange ideas before blade of grass has an angel that whispers, 46 Coll. of Phil Andros 39 Oddly shaped testicle? you exchange bodily fluids 5) read my ‘Grow, grow’…” Bask in the love and 47 Places where women might sweat together 40 What a Minuteman shoots off column regularly for hot sex tips 6) Open support of your family. They seem to be 48 Fruity drink 43 Where to find Moby Dick 49 Houston's WNBA team 45 "Fabu!" your mind; it is sexier than opening your whispering to the both of you. 52 Catherine of Capote 49 Weight unit for David Diamond? legs. 54 Mamma Mia! band 50 You can blow them in the orchestra pit 55 Emily Dickinson, in her day 51 Jane of the cloth 59 Lesbian opponent of Wade 53 Artist Hernandez Support the advertisers who 60 See 39-Across 56 Shrek, for one 64 Old nuclear power org. 57 Some actors have big ones support our communities! 65 Ecstatic spasm, like an orgasm 58 Ballet supporters? Are YOU paying attention? 66 Eastern positions 60 Co. that may deliver pansies 67 Fab Five syllable for many a straight guy 61 The feminine side 62 Stuff from your shaft 68 Drag queen's garment 63 Bring to bear TRT in more places! 69 O'Connor of Xena Solution of Puzzle on Page 22 22 • November 1 - Dec. 5, 2007 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com Queer Politics

Obama speaks to SC homo- 15-year-old presses Lennox from Page 20 of women across the globe who are in sexual group about concert Romney on views on gay “Everybody.” You've covered other desperate need of it. Empowerment is not COLUMBIA, S.C. (AP)—Democratic rights, abortion artist's songs, but how do you feel about a given. Women struggled and fought before us to secure the vote and equal presidential hopeful Barack Obama's EXETER, N.H. (AP)—Kevin Daly got your work being covered and sampled? campaign held a hurriedly put together rights. We owe them some acknowledge- a lesson Thursday in Presidential Politics A: Well, most of the time I don’t mind, ment for what we’ve received because of conference call Thursday night with gay 101. but frankly, I think a lot of it’s pretty and lesbian leaders in South Carolina. their efforts. As for the men—I still The sophomore at Phillips Exeter lame. haven’t figured it out. Enough said. The call discussed Obama's weekend Academy pointedly asked Republican Q: Back to the album: Some tracks give gospel tour, which includes gospel singer Q: The new album and the video for candidate Mitt Romney about his shifting “Dark Road” explore that political and me the impression of someone who has Donnie McClurkin who says homosexu- positions on abortion and gay rights. economic rift in today’s world. On the been pushed too far for the last time, ality is a choice. As governor of Massachusetts, someone on an extreme edge. Would it be Obama campaign spokesman Kevin Romney indicated he would not change new album cover, you symbolize a priest- a mistake to assume you’re writing from Griffis refused to talk about what was state laws on abortion rights, now he ess rising from the destruction? personal experiences? discussed on the call. opposes abortion. During the 1994 Members of the South Carolina Gay Senate campaign in Massachusetts, and Lesbian Pride Movement are dis- Romney indicated he would be a better Queer ears will prick up when they hear “Sing.” Who’s that girl on the second cussing what actions they could take, advocate for gay rights than rival verse? Yes, it’s Madonna. In the chorus? Joss Stone, Celine Dion, including a possible protest or vigil, out- Democrat Edward M. Kennedy. Fergie, P!nk, Shakira, k.d. lang and a host of other divas. Annie wrote the side the Sunday concert in Columbia. “How can any of your campaign prom- Obama's campaign invited the Rev. ises be trusted?” Daly asked. empowering track to focus awareness on HIV/AIDS in women and chil- Andy Sidden, a South Carolina pastor Romney suggested the 15-year-old dren (money from the single goes to Treatment Action Campaign). who is openly gay, to appear at the same from Weston, Mass., had falsely stated concert. that he favored gay marriage in 1994. A: Darlin’, I’ve been through pretty McClurkin is a Grammy Award winner Around and around the two went, with A: I had the imagery established in my much everything. Let me put it to you who performed at the Republican Daly referring to a New York Times mind well before we went to the studio. I National Convention in 2004. He told AP wanted to stand in front of an apocalypti- like that. But having said that, I have to report about the gay rights pledge. The say that the songs are non-specific … just Radio in an interview that September that second time through, he mistakenly said cal sky because every day I’m seeing he was “once involved with those desires like STDs. the story detailed a “gay marriage” images of destruction. Some bombing Q: STDs!?! I’m sure I wouldn’t know and those thoughts,” but God turned him pledge. here, some building that has been blitzed, anything about that, but speaking of away from them. That was enough for Romney. some body parts lying around. When I which—God, this is a terrible segue—the Obama has spoken out against homo- “Even The New York Times hasn't said say “Songs of Mass Destruction,” it isn’t gays have always loved you. Can you phobia, including in the black communi- I'll be stronger on gay marriage than Ted elaborate on that relationship? ty. He supports civil unions for same-sex only in Iraq. The globe itself is almost at Kennedy, even The New York Times,” a tipping point. Now is a time to question A: Gay men relate to me because they couples but not the right for gay mar- Romney said. “I've never been an advo- want to be me, stupid! Just kiddin’! I political leaders and find ways to save the riage. cate of gay marriage.” wish that people wouldn’t have to make planet. their sexual orientation the entire center Q: You amassed an entire choir of world- of their existence. I don’t think too much famous divas to help out on “Sing.” In about which side of the fence people are fact, I get a strong feminist vibe on the on. I just know whether I feel connected The Canary Chronicles: disc. Is that a fair assessment? Have you to them. A lot of the time, I still feel pret- had it with men? ty alienated from the herd. I keep myself A: To me, the word feminism means to myself mostly. The Road to Maura social, political and personal empower- Q: One last subject: dance mixes. You ment. Despite the fact that Western music has always been a staple on the women seem to have become so blasé dance floor. And you have remixes Anne Smith Burton about the subject, there are still millions already slated for the single “Sing.” You Q Puzzle Solution from P. 22 said you collaborate with the art direc- tors. Do you also work with the DJs and producers on the remixes? “You’ll laugh and you’ll cry with this A: I’m going to be brutally honest here. I book ... but you won’t be bored ...” find a lot of it totally vacuous. People say “Totally entertaining ... you won’t put it you’ve got to have taken a lot of drugs before you “get it.” I’m pretty sure that down until you finish.” you have to take a lot of drugs. What kind of drugs are you gay guys taking? Wait! Don’t answer that! Please don’t! “Songs of Mass Destruction” (Arista Records) hit stores in Oct. For more information: Annie Lennox will be performing live http://annesmithburton.com/index/htm on Nov. 11 at the Boston, MA Symphony Hall. For more info, visit annielennox.com.

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Now, with the release of Ziegler cites the section on transsexuals when Sports their first book, The Outsports in sports as particularly noteworthy. "Gay EIllustrated Revolution: Truth and Myth in the World people go through a lot of crap, but trans unleashes its swim- of Gay Sports, they're bringing that world struggles are so difficult," he says. suit edition on to a wider—and perhaps straighter— "What's interesting, though, is they've America, readers audience. probably made more progress in sports - react predictably. "I think we have a lot to say," explains in tennis, women's professional golf, the Many men greet it Buzinski, of the book's genesis. "A book Olympics—than in most of the rest of with orgasmic pleas- has permanence, and the potential to society. The sports world views [trans- ure; a few writers bloviate that they've reach people who don't see our stuff on sexuality] as an issue of biology, not removed it from their living rooms, bed- the Web." With a broad focus - stories sociology. That's pretty refreshing." rooms, or bathrooms, and huffily cancel range from gay sports history and the The Outsports Revolution includes their subscriptions. No one wonders why Gay Games to "the curse of the high some of the most popular and ground- credit-card-thin models, with no visible school gym class" and how to date a breaking stories from the website's 7- connection to athletics, appear in a mag- sports nut—Buzinski hopes The year history. Where will the site - and gay azine otherwise wholly dedicated to Outsports Revolution will reel in readers sports in general - be seven years from sports. who are interested in the role all sports now? Like SI, Outsports.com—the Internet's play in American society. After all, the "It will be nice if there's Outsports favorite destination for all things GLBT- writers note, studies show that for rabid provocative sections, he says, is the first: TV!" Buzinski laughed. "The big ques- athletics-related, from an international fans, the thrill of watching their favorite "Why Should I Give a Damn About tion, of course, is when will a male who's gay rugby tournament to discus throwing team in action can rival a sexual experi- Sports?" "Lots of gay people instinctive- an active player in a major sport come in ancient Greece—also runs photos of ence. Members of Queer Nation bond ly diss sports, in many cases because of out. A 40-year-old told me, 'Not in my eye-popping eye candy. Shirtless soccer with members of Red Sox Nation in a negative experiences growing up," he lifetime,' but I think that's way too nega- players, Speedo-ed swimmers, and Super way that's unimaginable - and unstudied - says. "They think that games have no tive. I hope in seven years that will have Bowl studs—some gay, most straight, a in many other areas of life. value. We talk about why they're impor- happened, and it will be less of a story few wink-wink—are, like the site's in- "My 17-year-old nephew asked a lot of tant: They're dramatic, unscripted, and than it would be today." depth stories and interactive discussion questions about gay sports," Buzinski unpredictable, just like life. And, because "I think our readership will change," boards, ways to keep users coming back says. "And my 32-year-old niece, who is they allow people to work, compete, Ziegler adds. "We're still at a time when for more. not a sports fan, devoured the book." laugh, and cry together, they provide a gay people read gay books and watch gay But, though their photos always depict His niece also called him on the Sports crucial community bonding experience." movies. Seven years from now, our next athletes, Outsports founders Jim Illustrated—ike swimsuit section, which Buzinski cites other chapters as impor- book may be more about sexuality in Buzinski and Cyd Zeigler Jr. say they are included negative comments about tant, too, including "The Media's sports than homosexuality in sports." criticized for running titillating photos cheerleaders. "Aren't you stereotyping Fumbling of Gay Sports," "The Wave of that undermine the site's journalistic them, the same way gay people don't like Out Young Jocks," and "Getting in the * Dan Woog is a journalist, educator, soccer integrity. Some of those comments come to be stereotyped?" she asked. She was Game." "We want gay sports to be acces- coach, gay activist, and author of the "Jocks" from gay athletes themselves. right, he admits. sible," he says, referring to that how-to series of books on gay male athletes. Visit his Welcome to the still-evolving, often Her comment got him thinking, which section for nonparticipants. "People have website at www.danwoog.com. He can be controversial, and always entertaining is exactly what Buzinski hopes the book to get over the fear that gay sports today reached care of this publication or at world of gay sports. It's a relatively new will do for others. Among the most are like high school, when they always [email protected]. Q Classifieds HELP WANTED PERSONALS Women 4 women more. Contact: Ashley at [email protected] Looking to meet women in the Springfield/Northampton Men 4 Men MA area for friendship and fun! Diva's, Oz, dinner/cof- GWM, 37, seeks companionship in the Northampton fee/drinks in NoHo or Springfield. Movies, the beach, you area. Contact: Martin at 413-527-1533. name it let's get together and do it! Contact Kris at dol- Hey, 18 yo looking for a man in Western MA, for roman- [email protected] tic relationship... under 20 ONLY. Thanks. 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