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You should always report if your child is, or has been, in contact with some who is…

Chatting to your Asking them to child about sex do sexual things on webcam ceop.police.uk www.thinkuknow.co.uk

Child Exploitation Online Protection Centre Asking to meet up if Making them feel they’ve only met unsafe them online

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Parents

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Films for primary children…

Tell Someone Timon & Pumba EDUCATING CHILDREN Animal Magic Jigsaw

Keeping ourselves safe… Keeping ourselves safe…

Keep your personal information private

2 Never give out your Top Secrets Keeping ourselves safe…

Be kind to your online friends, like you would in the playground at school

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Keeping ourselves safe… Keeping ourselves safe…

Check with an If you get stuck, adult at home If you see or before you something makes visit a new you feel sad or site, game or scared, always app tell a trusted adult

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WE ARE HERE TO HELP! We are police officers. We take this very seriously

TRUST YOUR TUMMY! If anything makes your stomach feel funny, tell an adult you trust, or CEOP Follow the adventure of Smartie the Penguin as he learns how to be safe online when using his tablet. The children must safely guide Smartie to make the correct CHECK YOUR USERNAME! decision. Can they remember Daddy Penguins song to keep Don’t tell people who you are – use a Smartie safe? fun nickname instead…

3 What could you give as answer if someone on a game says to you: “where do you live?” JamieWilliams220408 N O Y B

“None of your business…!”

Remember almost everything you do on the internet… Advice… It's okay to say ‘no’ …can be seen by other people

Remember… if a stranger or someone you don’t like - so be careful what you say and sends you a 'friend' request think before you type! you don’t have to accept it

Tell Take a Never Never reply someone screen shot arrange to to emails of any nasty meet up saying you if you're messages – and with have won being don't delete the the lottery bullied on someone message until you you've met or inherited the internet have done this. online – money - they Taking a screen (for example, are fake CHILDREN’S shot saves the getting nasty even if they nasty messages, so emails, from seem nice, or that you can show people who messages or you think you emails) them to people are trying to know them ONLINE WORLD who can help you trick you

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Key Stage 2

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How many of the Games below are appropriate for Primary aged children?

Very strong violence FrequentA spotlight strong/very on strongthe game language Strong portrayal of sexual activity ScenesGrand of strong Theft sexual Auto violence Strong horror What type of contentStrong blood will and be gore included in this Real sex Druggame? taking Discriminatory language or behaviour

Chat

WhatsApp ooVoo

A group of 15 Nursery's and primary schools in Nantwich, Cheshire, WhatsApp is an Oovoo is a video instant chat app. It lets sent the letter warning adult-themed games, such as Call of Duty and messaging app, Viber Tango you make video Grand Theft Auto, could lead to "early sexualised behaviours". which lets you calls, voice calls send instant Viber lets you Tango is an app and send text messages, text, call, which allows you messages. You images and share photos to make voice can webcam up videos to and send video calls and video to 12 people at friends. messages to calls, and have once. people group chats. 70% of British parents ignore age-ratings on worldwide. games (Techradar)

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Kik Send Safe Skype Facetime Kik is an instant Send Safe is a messaging app Messenger free service, Skype is a Facetime is which lets you which allows you computer video calls over share Messenger is an to send a programme and Monkey Wi-Fi from your messages, message or photo app, which lets iPhone, iPad, Hangouts app which allows YouTube Houseparty photos, games users to IMO via popular you make audio Talk to iPod touch or apps, …that Mac. You can and news, or Hangouts communicate and video calls YouTube lets you Strangers! Houseparty is a IMO is a Disappears even make organise events. is a platform by with their to friends and enjoy the videos Monkey connects group video FaceTime calls Google which friends from Message and after seen family. and music you you randomly to chat app. When love. Upload over mobile includes instant their Facebook video chat app, once. another person you and your original content, networks on messaging, account or with your friends who's on the site, friends are in the and family, no and share it all and lets you talk app at the same iPhone or iPad. and phonebook. video chat matter what with friends, to them in a time, you’ll see SMS features. device they are family, and the one-to-one each other on. world. video chat. instantly.

Video (Music)

Musical.ly KamStar

Musical.ly is the Smule Triller KamStar allows world’s largest you to create creative Smule lets you Triller is a Lip Sync platform. The sing your music video Music Video platform makes favourite songs, maker app for with Magical it super easy for use audio effects iPhone. Pick a Effects! Share on everyone to and video filters! song, select the Apps like make awesome Solo privately, portion of the Muscal.ly and videos and share karaoke with song you want to WhatsApp. with friends or to friends, connect use, snap a few the world. with singers takes, and with What's New around the the tap of a - Duet with your world, or duet button you have friends in a new with celebrity a celebrity- split screen artists like Nick quality music mode now. Jonas and Ed video. Sheeran.

Video (Live) Social Networks

Live.ly Live.me Facebook Live.ly is a new Live.me is a live live video video streaming Facebook is the Twitter is a Huggle Skout streaming Periscope Twitch You Now app. Allowing biggest social social network platform created you to broadcast network, which messaging Huggle allows Skout is a Social by musical.ly. Owned by Twitch is a live On You Now you and watch live lets users create service that lets you to discover Kiwi Network that is You can start a Twitter, video game can tap ‘Go Live’ chat. Join in a page about you send public and connect with for meeting live.ly to Periscope is a website. You can and… Broadcast discussions with themselves. Kiwi is a fast and message called others who new people broadcast to your live video watch playbacks to a live YouTubers and frequent the easy way to ask 'tweets'. near you. fans and friends, streaming app. of games being audience! Musical.ly stars... same places as your friends Instantly meet and have real- Allows you to played by other Expand your you. See the interesting people close by or time interactions send direct live people. You can social media places you have questions and around the world video feeds to also live stream following, in common. find out what anytime, your Twitter your own comment on Share photos, they think. anywhere! followers. games, and chat videos and buy videos and start to other gamers. virtual gifts. chatting…

6 Pictures & Images

Snapchat PopJam FaceApp Snapchat lets Instagram is a you send a PopJam is a FaceApp is a an picture and photo or short creative website app that video sharing video to your for children and transforms your app. Users can friends. The young people. face! Add a post content and ‘snap’ appears You can share beautiful smile, use hashtags to on screen for a drawings, make yourself share matter of photos and younger or older experiences or seconds before – or swap memories with audio messages disappearing. genders! an online with friends and community. other people.

Anonymous

Ask.fm Yik Yak Yik Yak is an Ask.fm is a social Chat networking site Whisper online bulletin board. It uses the where you can ask Whisper is a social Cool chat rooms. GPS settings on other people network where you Self-destructing your mobile phone questions. It’s up remain messages. Talk to you whether you about anything or tablet to find anonymous, your location and want to ask the with strangers. publish text and question Meet new people, show you the most receive replies ask questions. recent posts from anonymously from other people. or not. Nobody will judge other people It also allows you you, as nobody can around you. to talk with others find out your real through private name. messages.

7 YELLOW… Online Dating A mobile app that allows users to interact with new people Potential risks – Similar to popular ✓ Connecting to users that dating apps… TinderYellow are strangers ✓ Location based data swipe right to ‘like’ / Yellow allows you Tinder is a dating necessary swipe left to ‘pass’. to you meet new app, which used to ✓ Linking to other platforms people around the have two separate ✓ Sharing of information / world. Make new Mutual likes mean communities – one images friends, chat and for adults and one users become ‘friends’ meet new people! ✓ No internal mediation for young Right to like, left Known as : peopleto pass! aged Just like13- ‘Kiddie 17. App uses Tinder….pictures Tinder’ Although users areBut judged this –wasand if location data twochanged peoplein like should be Juneeach others2016. to find other over 13 – picturesYou swipe they left can users nearby – chat privately! no verification for ‘no’ or right from within for ‘yes’. process is 0 to 19 miles currently in place

Which of these the App Online Dating Store ‘Calculator App’?

Yellow Tinder MyLOL Yellow allows you Tinder is a dating MyLOL is a dating to you meet new app, which used to site for people around the have two separate teenagers aged communitiesworld. Make –newone friends, chat and MeetMe Snog 13-20, but some for adults and one meet new people! users are up to for young MeetMe is a which Right to like, left Snog is a teen 25 years old. Like a social network peopleto pass! aged Just like13- dating site that an adult dating and dating site and Tinder….pictures17. lets you rate site, you can view allows users to areBut judged this –wasand if other people’s meet and other people’s twochanged peoplein like profiles and search communicate with profiles as snog, each others for others based June 2016. other people marry or avoid. pictures they can Hide photos and You swipe left worldwide. You can also send on their age, App Store ‘Calculator forchat ‘no’ privately! or right private messages. gender and videos behind a App’ for ‘yes’. location. password….

Secret Folders

Calculator Secret Piano

Calculator hides Secret Piano hides private photos photos, videos, and videos passwords, notes, behind a audios, locations calculator. Private Photo Secret Folder and secret Anyone who starts Safe App messages behind a this application real piano. The looks as a Private Photo Safe Secret Folder App app will capture calculator but if locks your photos helps you to photo of you put in and videos protect your intruders if they passcode it will behind a pin. photos and. No attempt to open up private Keeps your photos one can enter access it. area. etc. hidden from except those others. who know the passcode.

8 What is terms You’ll hear various different words used cyberbullying? in the context of cyberbullying…... …any form of Catfishing that is carried out through the use of… Dissing

Exclusion Griefing Fraping

Laptop Outing Gaming Masquerading Console

Desktop Smartphone Roasting Trolling Computer or tablet

FACE-TO-FACE CYBER BULLYING BULLYING

Report S-Start T-Telling Save the O-Other evidence P-People

Be aware of what Try not to you share respond

Block the Bully

What should I do if my child What you say Ask yourself is it is being bullied online? online should pass through True? three gates Ask yourself is it Necessary?

Ask yourself is it Kind?

Report information to your child's school.

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How do offenders engage youngsters? – by using the sites that they use....

Often posing as a child of the same age / gender. GROOMING They will often purposefully present a very similar profile as the child. They are skilled at manipulating them into criminal sexual relationships

Online grooming: The five stages Online grooming: The five stages

Friendship Forming a relationship Flattering a child into talking in a private Gaining information chatroom/game where asking the child what problems they will be isolated /needs they have to create the illusion of being their The child will often be best friend and that they can help asked for a non-sexual They begin to fill the needs of the picture of themselves child

Online grooming: The five stages Online grooming: The five stages Risk assessment Asking the child about Exclusivity the location of their computer/tablet and who else has access to it Building up a sense of mutual love and trust in order to assess the risk of being detected. The desire is to with the child create situations where suggesting that they can they are alone together discuss "anything" to help reinforce a special connection

10 Online grooming: The five stages Mark Taft (27) used Sex talk / Meet Facebook under a fake account of a Engaging the child in child who he called explicit conversations Luke Carlisle. & requesting sexually Sentenced to explicit pictures from 3 years, 3 months them in prison. Also given a Sexual At this stage the predator Harm Prevention will usually try to Order and will sign the Sex Offenders arrange a meeting Register for life. with the child

Law enforcement have warned about Musical.ly and similar apps accounts Two boys, aged 12 and 14 pretending to be groomed on idols like Harry Styles and Justin Minecraft Bieber. by Adam Isaac (23 years) “Lots of child sex and persuaded to send offenders are indecent images utilising Musical.ly on Snapchat and Skype to groom children” said Inspector Jon Rouse.

Why do children send inappropriate images / videos?

There are many reasons why a young person may want to send a naked/semi-naked picture,video or message to someone else…

A joining in C flirting with others B boosting and testing their because they think their sexual identity that ‘everyone is self-esteem exploring their sexual doing it’ feelings

E they may find it difficult D to get attention to say ‘no’ if somebody and connect with asks them for an explicit new people on image, especially if the social media person asking is persistent

11 , bullying and harm post or send indecent images

blackmailed / exploited Blackmail Text Here An offender may threaten to share the pictures with the child's family and friends unless the child sends money 88% or more images can Emotional Bullying Young people leave young distress If images are shared Children can feel with their peers or in people embarrassed and admitted to school, the child humiliated. If they're very may be bullied vulnerable to… distressed this could lead to suicide or self-harm 63% having 37% Unwanted attention Young people received Young people Images posted online can attract the attention of sex offenders, who know how to search for, admitted to sexually admitted to collect & modify images sending suggestive images passing on nude or semi the images nude images to other people Education Child Protection Ltd.

MYTHS ABOUT SEXTING (e.g. it is mostly boys who send indecent photos…?)

47% 53%

Snapchat Apps….

Young people ‘sext’ to….. show off to entice someone to show interest in someone to prove commitment By creating, sending or possessing indecent pictures of a person under 18 you are breaking the law (Protection of Children Act 1978 / Criminal Justice Act 1988) … Education Child Protection Ltd. Education Child Protection Ltd.

12 Police have only recently started filing reports about sexting…

If school choose to take an incident to the MAKING THINGS police, then officers must record the crime. SAFER

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Tips for parents…. Videos on YouTube that seem to be Create the favourite Always worth boundaries and The rules and cartoons of checking the rules for the conversations children – but are videos, not. amount you have apps and of time child now will set “"Peppa does a lot games can spend the tone for of screaming and children use, crying and the online. It’s your child’s and the age dentist is just a bit never too internet use ratings and sadistic and it's early to start as they get just way, way off descriptions putting older. what a three-year- for them. limits in place. old should watch“ said one Mother.

Safer searching Safer searching www.swiggle.org.uk www.kids-search.com

We always recommend a child should have their own user login. Filters should be set to the highest the provider can offer. The Kids Search, search engine is highly sensitive

13 Language Children Use Online..

ASL? ‘Age, Sex, Location’

POS or ‘Parent over Shoulder’ or PIR ‘Parent in Room’

IRL or ‘In Real Life’ or ‘Let’s Meet in LMIRL Real Life’

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Helpful sites for Parents & Carers Making things safer….

www.net-aware.org.uk

Allows parents and carers to search for These will allow you to prevent children from apps, games and sites if they have a accessing certain sites – but they are not a concern or need more information completely full-proof system Education Child Protection Ltd. Education Child Protection Ltd.

Making things safer…. Making things safer….

Parental controls for tablets / smartphones are available too – as always, try them and see which works best for you and your family

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Making things safer…. Making things safer….

Making things safer…. Parents … making things safer….

• Manage up to 10 devices • Block, grant and schedule access to the internet • Block, grant and schedule access to certain apps

15 Set schedules When it's time for school, homework or bed Screen Limit schedules help the Cross Platform day run like clockwork Screen Limit is available on a wide range of devices. Message children Countdown Dinner in 5? Send a message to their screen and get the Keep the peace with a whole family to the table countdown on their screen Rewards on time that shows how much time Bedroom need tidying? Use until screens off internet time as a carrot and keep everyone happy!

To gain access to our special offers with Screen Limit…. visit www.screenlimit.net/ECP

Ever been This app allows parent to frustrated by send a message – Hi.Hi. What Where time are are you coming home? x which takes over whatever someone’s you? x

failure to ??? x else is on the child’s screen What time are – and sounds an alarm reply to your you home? x Where are you? X even if on ‘silent’! text? Who are you with???? x

WHY ARE YOU IGNORING ME??? x NOW->

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16 Simple checklist for parents: I have visited www.thinkuknow.co.uk with my child Online Safety (I have bookmarked the CEOP website and told my child what is there)

Open and honest dialogue – show an interest and learn for Parents about what your child does online Luke Brent-Savage Stay in control as much as you can through Education Child Protection Ltd. parental filters, Family Sharing, and apps like Screen Limit

Advertise yourself as one of the people your child can turn to – without being chastised…

Education is better than saying to your child “you are not doing this anymore…”

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