December 15-16, 2017 / Kislev 28, 5778 PARSHAT MIKETZ Weekday Shacharit Mevarchim Monday-Thursday – 6:35 a.m. Shabbat Chanukah Friday – 6:45 a.m. Scholars in Residence Monday-Thursday – Maariv only - 8:00 p.m. Dr. Naomi and Zvi Grumet Hotline: 201-254-9190 THIS SHABBAT www.FairLawnEruv.com Scholars-in-Residence: Dr. Naomi & Rabbi Zvi Grumet Sponsored by the Davis, Moerdler and Wilen families. Friday Early Mincha - 2:30 p.m. 12/15 SHABBAT EVENING Candle Lighting – 4:11 p.m. 7:45 p.m. in the Main Sanctuary Mincha Kabbalat Shabbat – 4:15 p.m. “Talking to Kids About Sexuality & ” Remember to light Chanukah candles between 3:31 and 4:11 p.m. Dr. Naomi Grumet The candles/oil used should be able to burn until 5:45 p.m. Also remember to repeat Kriat Shema after 5:14 p.m. “Ambiguous Prophecy in Bereshit” ​ 8:30 p.m. and Oneg in the Beit with 7:45 p.m. - Scholars in Residence and Oneg Shabbat. Oneg Rabbi Zvi Grumet ​ Shabbat sponsored by Lenny and Susan Goldstein ​ ​ commemorating the Yahrzeit of Lenny’s father, Yisroel Nachum 12/16 SHABBAT DAY ben Moshe Dovid. Drasha after Musaf “What Does Taharat HaMishpacha Shabbat Day Teach Us About Couplehood?” 8:00 a.m. Dr. Naomi Grumet ​ ​ sponsored by Lenny and Susan Goldstein 3:15 p.m. commemorating the Yahrzeit of Lenny’s father, Yisroel “Chanukah: The Biblical Holiday That Wasn’t” Nachum ben Moshe Dovid. The Yahrzeit takes place on Rosh Rabbi Zvi Grumet Chodesh Tevet. D'var by Andy Schultz on “Tale of the Seudah Shelishit Tape: Reb Yoilish of Satmar vs. Religious ” ​ ​ ​ “A Husband’s Role in Keeping Taharat HaMishpacha” ​ 9:00 a.m. Minyan Dr. Naomi Grumet Sof Zman Kriat Shema –9:29 a.m. ​ 12/17 SUNDAY MORNING Drasha after davening by Dr. Naomi Grumet 9:15 a.m. in the Main Sanctuary “Enhancing the Mikveh Experience: Communal and Personal Youth Groups Spheres” Dr. Naomi Grumet Youth Director: Talia Katz ​ Groups meet in the upstairs youth rooms Open to women of the whole community nd 9:30 a.m. – Ages 3 through 2 ​ grade Sponsorship opportunities available. ​ 10:30 a.m. - Tot Shabbat Dr. Naomi Marmon Grumet is the Founder and Director of the Eden ​ Kiddush is sponsored by the shul. Center in , a non-profit organization that has become a driving ​ Kiddush Clean Up Team: Board Members: Mintz, Bednarsh force in creating a paradigm shift to turn mikveh into more than just a ritual ​ location. Rabbi Zvi Grumet is a senior staff member at Bar Ilan's Member Families: S. Bacon, Berger, Berkowitz, Bernath, ​ ​ Lookstein Center for , where he is editor of Jewish Bernath, Birnbaum, Blachman, Brauner, Brick, Brodsky Educational Leadership and generates initiatives to help advance Jewish education throughout the English speaking world. 3:15 p.m. - Shiur by Rabbi Zvi Grumet Shiurim Mincha – 4:00 p.m. Sefer Bamidbar Shiur with Rabbi Jeremy Donath will not be Followed by Seudah Shlishit, sponsored by the shul. Dvar torah ​ ​ ​ by Dr. Naomi Grumet. held this week. The shiur will resume after Chanukah. Maariv –5:10 p.m. Shabbat Ends – 5:20 p.m. Parshah and Shiur by Rabbi Donath Thursdays - 8:15 p.m., after maariv. Sponsorship opportunities WEEKDAY available. Please contact Andy Schultz to sponsor. Sunday All shiurim take place in the Beit Medrash. Shacharit – 8:15 a.m. Your Cooperation, Please. Out of respect for the sanctity of Breakfast and Mishna shiur by Rabbi Avi Herzog. ​ 9:15 a.m. - Shiur for Women the Shul and your fellow congregants, please discard all trash in Mincha and Maariv - 4:15 p.m. the trash cans, especially after kiddush. Also, please do not ​ change thermostat settings, rearrange chairs, or open windows.

Hakarat Hatov: Darchei Noam would like to thank Drs. Marc ​ ​ and Patrice Schoenbrun for their recent donation of several ​ ​ ​ Darchei Noam Contacts beautiful tallitot. Rabbi Jeremy Donath [email protected] ​ Many thanks to Talia Katz and Ely Lenik for their hard work President: Mark Moerdler [email protected] ​ ​ on this past week's Youth programs (Movie Night and Yoetzet Halacha: Shira Donath [email protected] ​ BounceU), both of which were very successful! Shul Kiddush catering: Abe Adler [email protected] ​ Seudah Shlishit sponsorship: Abe Adler [email protected] Remember Loved Ones With a Memorial Plaque ​ Memorial plaques are available for purchase. Leining & Seudah Shlishit Dvar Torah: Rabbi Avi Herzog Please contact Thaler at: 201-406-7043 [email protected] or email him at: [email protected]. Bulletin: Marshall Wilen [email protected] ​ ​ ​ Events: Oren & Kravetz [email protected] ​ Upcoming Events at Darchei Noam Youth Groups: Talia Mendenhall Katz [email protected] Rosh Chodesh Shiur Series: Tevet Hospitality: Michal Lenik [email protected] December 24 at 8:00 p.m. in the Beit Midrash. Shiur given by ​ Herzog. Classes in this series are given by women of the community, for women of the community. For more information or to sponsor, contact Talia ([email protected]) or Shira ([email protected]). ​ ​ “New Friends, New Year” Meet & Greet Shabbat Darchei Noam has had amazing growth in the past few years, with many new members and prospective members! Shabbat, Jan 6th, 2018 we will have a "New Year, New Friends" Shabbat lunch. We will pair you up with a host or guests to to know each other a little better. Visit darcheinoam.com/event/ ​ ​ ​ meet-greet-shabbat to sign up. Please RSVP before midnight ​ Sunday Dec. 24th. You will find out your meal arrangements by ​ ​ Sunday Dec. 31.

Community Announcements Jan. 6 –Table Tennis Tournament, playing for local Yeshivot, ​ ​ with featured matches including Markowitz and Donath playing Rabbis Belizon and Shestack. SHOMREI TORAH, Saturday night, 8:00 PM. To register to play, sponsor a team, or RSVP as to your attendance, click here: Table Tennis. ​ ​ ​ The Hebrew Home at Riverdale L’Dor V’Dor Summer Internship. The Hebrew Home at Riverdale is accepting ​ applications for their L’Dor V’Dor Summer Internship, an innovative, fun and meaningful four-week program for Jewish teenagers. For more information, please call 718.581.1416 or email [email protected]

Jewish Federation Super Sunday, January 28. Participate in ​ ​ Super Sunday, our largest community telethon, by volunteering, donating or answering the calls. Sign up online at www.jfnnj.org/supersunday or contact Laurie Siegel at: ​ 201-820-3956 or [email protected] ​ Full time paid administrative position available with Marcus & ​ Millichap, a National Real Estate firm. Office is located in Saddle Brook, NJ. Please inquire with Sholom Silvestri or send resumes directly to [email protected]

Rabbi Jeremy Donath • President: Mark Moerdler • Vice Presidents: Abe Adler, Dr. Orrin Davis, Marshall Wilen ​ ​ 10-04 Alexander Avenue • P.O. Box 1331 • Fair Lawn, NJ 07410 • 201-773-4080 • www.darcheinoam.com ​ ​