Istj: Polar Bear s2

Famous Dolphins ENFJ: DOLPHIN Martin Luther King, Stephen Fry, Peter Ustinov, Sean BUZZWORDS: imaginative, generous, friendly Connery, Johnny Depp, Rose Tyler - charismatic people Many people say the dolphin is their favourite we like to listen to. animal, and ENFJs can be very popular too. Both usually Peter Kay is a talented comedy writer, performer and share the qualities of intelligence, warmth, great vision chart-topper. Energetic, imaginative, warm, generous and charisma. Dolphins can swim up to 20 miles per and hard-working. These qualities make his humour as hour and sleep only in 7 minute naps. Like dolphins, popular as it is funny and prolific. The realistic characters ENFJs often need to move fast to fit everything in, often he creates and shares with us are a combination of his enjoying busy and complicated social lives. imagination and accurate observation of people. Strengths Preferred learning style  Friendly, popular communicators.  They like group activity and discussion.  Can be aware of people’s values and principles.  They like to know the theory behind the idea.  Can focus on getting the job done.  They like to be encouraged and praised.  Are full of enthusiasm and can persuade others.  They like structure, procedures and knowing  Can solve problems using imagination and finishing times. creativity. Revision tips  Interested in how ideas affect people. Talk about your work with tutors and friends -  Enjoy learning new skills.  you usually learn better this way, but find time for  Can enjoy variety and action. private study too. When they’re pointing in a positive direction  They are good at making people feel valued &  Focus on the positives and the facts. important.  Make time for rest and relaxation.  They are assertive, creative, friendly & flexible. Degree course ideas  They learn from their mistakes.  psychology, law, medical sciences  They have fun.  secondary teaching, English literature, languages, When they’re pointing in a negative direction linguistics, communication, performing arts  They take over, saying ‘oh, I’ll do it!’  media, journalism, marketing, advertising, public  They dig their heels in.. relations To reduce stress Keep some time for yourself. You can’t help all of the people all of the time. As a teenager In an argument o They usually popular, cooperative and friendly.  Talk louder and faster. o People like their enthusiasm, warmth and passion.  Want to get things sorted out now! o They can try to keep everyone happy too much  Personalise everything. and neglect their own needs.  Sometimes just give in to keep the peace. o They can jump from one thing to the next without  Imagine huge consequences from small incidents.  Make sweeping generalisations. settling on something and doing it really well.  Jump to conclusions quickly. o They should learn to stay positive, since they can’t  Oversimplify issues... know everything! And they can say no to people sometimes! . As a boyfriend/girlfriend How to avoid an argument o They’re usually friendly, caring and loving.  Text or email ideas before springing them on o They work hard at making their relationships people. strong, deep and meaningful.  Listen: talk only when the other person has In a parent/child relationship (note: parent/child can finished. be substituted for other relationships, eg friendships, marriages &  Don’t take everything personally. working relationships)  Don’t be afraid of disagreement – sometimes it’s Parent: healthy. Tend to be encouraging, like everyone to get on o  Don’t ignore practical details. well, take care of and support each other.  Consider how to get there – not just the finish o Can try to impose their own ‘hippie’ values on line. those close to them. Tend to withdraw love &  Consider all of the options before deciding. support as punishment.  Remember doing things the same way is not Child: always best. o Are deep & inventive, think through their Preferred job roles & themes feelings,are sensitive. Counsellor / healer / mentor / adviser / advocate / Respond well to imagination and helping others. o friend o Can get lost in the world of their ideas.  Jobs in which you can use your people skills to Buying a present for a Dolphin? develop ideas and people in an organised way. o An album with photos of all the people they know  journalism, writing, media, marketing, with positive comments written by close friends & advertising, PR family  social science, teacher, law, psychology, medical therapies, human resource management Jobs that don’t require loads of qualifications coach/trainer / retail assistant / bingo caller / teaching assistant / paramedic / youth worker / tour guide / travel agent / conference/hospitality worker / advice worker / carer / holiday centre worker