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November 2015/cheshvan-kislev 5776 a publication of United jewish federation of Volume 17, Number 9 Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien Anat Hoffman: Spotlight on Tapestry at Twelve On Saturday, November 21, at 6:30 Participants in this workshop will have Religious Pluralism pm, the Stamford Jewish community the opportunity to try their hand at will gather at the Stamford Jewish Com- creating a work of art of their own. Hyacinthe and Harold E Hoffman munity Center to celebrate Jewish Another arts-related workshop will learning. The 12th annual Tapestry, teach participants to create their own Memorial Lecture chaired by Carol Lilienthal, with Co- family history book. Alexandra Moller By Steve Lander El, stated, “Anat Hoffman is chairs Adam Batkin and Rhonda will display examples of family history Anat Hoffman, executive undoubtedly the foremost Ginsberg, brings together teachers projects she helped to assemble, and director of the Israel Religious champion of religious plu- and subjects with “tracks” for teens the books that become a legacy of Action Center, and director ralism and women’s rights and grandparents, for history buffs and that history. and founding member of in Israel. She has inspired for those interested in Israel, women’s Along with the local community of the Women of the Wall, will Israelis to forge a more just studies and text studies. rabbis, cantors and teachers, Tapestry speak at Temple Beth El on and equitable society, and This year, Tapestry will feature a will feature two sessions with word- Wednesday, November 11, American Jews are crucial to workshop on the art and history of Jew- smith Andrew Lustig, whose spoken- at 7:30 pm. Her topic will be the success of this important ish paper-cutting with artist Dena Levie. word poetry is considered a hit on “What We Don’t Talk about mission. I am so proud that In addition to creating one-of-a-kind YouTube. Lustig’s second session will When We Focus on Israel’s we will be able to host her.” ketubot and other Jewish documents, be a closed workshop and party for Security.” Anat Hoffman Hoffman is a sabra born Levie’s artwork is displayed in museums UJF’s Young Leadership Division. (See Rabbi Joshua Hammer- on a kibbutz near Jerusalem. and has been used for such projects accompanying article on page 4.) man, spiritual leader of Temple Beth See “Hoffman” on page 2 as the cover art of a CD by Matisyahu. See “Tapestry” on page 4 No Arms Deal is Perfect When Difficult Relatives By Sandy Golove the strengths and weaknesses of the Ambassador Dennis Ross, former agreement. As a former arms negotia- Happen to Good People chief Middle East peace negotiator tor, he reminded the audience that and senior member of several presi- “no arms deal is perfect.” but reiter- Saul Cohen – JFS Lecture dential administrations, spoke to a ated on several occasions that “there By Lynn Saltz Hosted at the Ferguson sold-out audience at Greenwich’s is sincere cause for concern” within On Thursday, November Library, Main Branch, in Carmel Academy on September 24. the agreement. 5, at 7:30 pm, Jewish Family Stamford, Felder notes his The evening was co-sponsored by Ross spent the bulk of his presenta- Service will present the fourth presentation, “When Dif- UJF of Greater Stamford New Canaan tion discussing ways to strengthen the Annual Saul Cohen – JFS ficult Relatives Happen to and Darien, UJA Greenwich and the agreement and the posture the United Lecture featuring Leonard Good People,” will be an Greenwich JCC. States should take over the course of the Felder, Ph.D., a clinical psy- exploration of ways to deal Ross, who did not take a public 15 years of the agreement. Ross suggests chologist and author. The with family members who are position as to whether or not he sup- that the United States declare, in no un- lecture is offered through considered complicated or ported passage of the proposed P5+1 certain terms that a dash for a nuclear the generosity of Mimi and who have “baffled and chal- Nuclear Arms Agreement with Iran, weapon would immediately “trigger the Saul Cohen and is a gift to lenged” others in the past. explained his views in detail, noting See “Deal” on page 10 the community at no cost. Leonard Felder, Ph.D. See “Relatives” on page 4 Candle 2 Bits & Pieces 6 Family 14 Senior 18 Adult 21 Adult 22 Lighting Central Happenings Education Volunteers

Shabbat of Impact BBYO Connecticut Valley Region teens who serve as Regional Board members spent September 25 at Tower One/Tower East in New Haven. The teens helped to decorate the sukkah, and then had dinner and attended services with the senior residents. Emmy Roday, of Woodbridge, CT, and Max Kitay, of Stamford, co-regional sh’lichim, planned and implemented the event as the first Shabbat of Impact, a project for the Regional Board to lead their peers in a rededicated effort to community outreach and service. (See article on page 8.) L-r: Molly Schwartz, regional treasurer, West Hartford, CT; Emily Liebowitz, regional chairwoman, Longmeadow, MA; Louis Shenker, Regional VP membership, Longmeadow, MA; Shaina Lubliner, regional president, Stamford, CT; Alexa Pellenberg, regional VP programming, Fairfield, CT; Sam Wasserman, regional VP programming, Orange, CT; Hayley Ratick, regional secretary, Fairfield, CT; Max Trachten, regional secretary, Woodbridge, CT; Nohar Segal, regional VP membership, New Haven, CT; Emmy Roday, regional VP Judaic programming, Woodbridge, CT; and Max Kitay, regional VP Judaic programming, Stamford, CT. 2 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2015 november 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 3 President’s Message COMMUNITY NEWS Mission: Possible Full Disclosure: My trip to inspire, educate, bring people with shared values Leadership Cabinet and UJF’s Board of Directors, Community Turns Out for JCC Maccabi Kickoff Israel almost 40 years ago was ac- together and, not the least, are fun. Missions come recently visited the Jewish communities in Bucharest tually part of a larger mission to in all sizes: from those that take us across the globe and Budapest, where she saw how “Federation dollars By Luisa Viladas At right: Celebrating the find a Jewish husband! Although to others just around the corner. are making it possible for Jews in these communities Hundreds of families turned out in September kickoff to the 2016 JCC I didn’t succeed in finding my This past summer, UJF’s Chapter 2 women’s group to thrive after the double blow of the Shoah and for the Jewish Community Center’s kickoff to the Maccabi Games and ArtsFest spouse on that trip, it fostered participated in two mini-missions to UJF recipient Communism. Spending the day with young Jews from 2016 Stamford JCC Maccabi Games and ArtsFest. (l-r:) JCC CEO Eric Koehler, my lifelong love of Israel and agencies, Camp Laurelwood and the American Jew- all over Eastern Europe at Camp Szarvas was both Volunteers were on hand to share information with JCC President Jeff Goldblum, the Jewish community. ish Joint Distribution Committee. In both cases, we humbling and inspiring. Seeing how our Federation potential host families, volunteers and participants, CT state Senator Carlo Leone, Rebekah Raz, UJF’s vice saw our Federation dollars at work. dollars allow these children to explore their Jewish while everyone had the opportunity to enjoy Mac- JCC Maccabi Games and president of development’s, How impressed were we to see Camp Laurelwood’s roots and connect with other Jewish children made cabi-themed games, activities and refreshments. ArtsFest Co-chairs Jeannie mantra is, “go on a mission – it Ellen Weber, beautiful grounds and have the opportunity to give me feel proud to wear my Lion pin.” “We couldn’t have been more pleased,” said Jean- Kriftcher and Michael Gold, will change your life!” Missions UJF president thanks to God with campers while lunching together. There are two Federation missions planned for nie Kriftcher, who is co-chairing the Stamford 2016 Stamford Mayor David At the JDC, we heard from Will Recant, assistant ex- 2016. The first is JFNA’s Women’s Philanthropy Heart JCC Maccabi Games and ArtsFest with Michael Gold. Martin, and JCC Maccabi ecutive vice president, about JDC’s impact on Jews to Heart Mission to Israel from February 7-11. Par- “More than 150 athletes, artists, host families and Games and ArtsFest Director around the world and, specifically, how we support ticipate in a Federation-sponsored tzedakah project volunteers expressed interest in joining us for this Rachel Rothman. CANDLE LIGHTING French Jews confronting antisemitism. Future mini- with children in Tel Aviv, learn how JDC provides remarkable community project.” missions in the planning stage include a trip to Jewish poor, at-risk families the means to live healthy lives, “We still have a way to go,” Gold added, “but the the kids who participate.” are an Olympic-style athletic event with competition TIMES Senior Services in Fairfield and the JFNA General and be part of a meaningful bat mitzvah celebration community’s enthusiasm is very exciting. Altogether More than 1,000 Jewish teens from the U.S., in 10 different sports. JCC Maccabi ArtsFest is a October 23...... 5:44 pm Assembly in Washington, DC, where we’ll hear how in Jerusalem. it will take 1,000 volunteers and 450 host families to Canada, South America, Europe and Israel will travel week-long arts experience for Jewish teens, featur- help us make this the best possible experience for to Stamford next summer. The JCC Maccabi Games ing workshops led by artists in the fields of dance, October 30...... 5:35 pm Federation touches more Jewish lives than any other The Southern New England Consortium will be organization in the world. celebrating the 20th Anniversary Partnership 2Gether acting/improv, culinary arts, musical theater, vocal November 6...... 4:26 pm Linda Spilka, a leader of our Jewish community, with an Israel trip from March 31-April 7. In addi- music (“Glee”), rock band, visual arts and reporting. November 13...... 4:19 pm has been on “more missions than I can count” and tion to seeing Israel’s great sites, you’ll learn about UJF Plans Fall Affinity Group Events Stamford will be the only city to host ArtsFest next November 20...... 4:14 pm says that their value is simple. “Missions assist me in Federation programs in Haifa, Ashkelon and in our summer. The local delegation team of athletes and By Sharon Franklin says DVI treats children in need in Israel regardless artists is expected to number 300. November 27...... 4:10 pm connecting with Jews and non-Jews in need from sister city, Afula, to name a few. And, the first 40 around the world… making the concrete connection registrants will be given a $999 incentive! In the last year, United Jewish Federation has of their religion and race. Liran Raz, M.D., will focus See “Maccabi” on page 4 December 4...... 4:08 pm opens up a world of understanding that is so powerful. A mission can change your life and we hope you introduced three affinity groups to the Greater on his time as a medic for the Israeli Defense Forces, December 11...... 4:08 pm Each recipient has a story to tell. They embrace the will join us on one in 2016. Stamford community. Based on the success and posi- working in a Rwandan field hospital treating victims December 18...... 4:09 pm opportunity to meet a mission participant so openly. All the best, tive feedback of the initial events, UJF has planned during the genocide. The event will take place at the additional networking events this fall for all three Tully Center in Stamford. Maimonides Society chairs Deadlines for December 25...... 4:13 pm They know they are not forgotten.” Ellen Weber Rachel Dayan, a member of the National Young professional groups, the Cardozo, the Maimonides are Dr. Shara Israel and Dr. Marc Silver. To RSVP, go and the Rothschild societies. Two events are planned to UJF.org/MaimonidesNov17. articles Continued from page 1 Hoffman for the coming year for each affinity group. The Rothschild business society will hold its third The deadlines for the next three issues of The Her mother, Varda Blechman, was the first child “It is our goal to bring quality speakers and pro- event on Wednesday, December 2. Based on the suc- New Jewish Voice are: born at Kibbutz Ramat Rachel (Rachel’s Heights). gramming to our professional community while cess of last spring’s program, which featured Neal Monday, October 26...... December Her American-born father, Charles Weiss, served as providing both leadership and networking opportuni- Hoffman, inventor of Mensch on a Bench, UJF will Monday, December 28...... February a Voice of America correspondent in Israel. She at- ties with the objective to benefit both the local and offer new strategies and stories from professionals Monday, January 25...... March tended the Bezalel Academy of Arts and Design. She global Jewish communities,” says James Cohen, CEO in the business world. Details of the program will Send New Jewish Voice article submissions to also excelled as a competitive athlete, becoming a of United Jewish Federation. Each program will start be forthcoming. Sandy Golove at [email protected] marked “Stamford champion swimmer. She competed in the Maccabiah with a cocktail hour followed by a program. For more information about these UJF programs, Voice” in the subject line. Expect an acknowledge- Games, winning titles in nine events. UJF’s Cardozo law society will hold its next event contact Sharon Franklin at [email protected] or call ment; please re-send if you do not receive one. In 1974, after she completed her service in the on Tuesday, November 3, at 6:45 pm, featuring 201-321-1373, ext. 109. Israel Defense Forces, she left for the United States to Rabbi Daniel Cohen of Agudath Sholom. During study. She graduated from UCLA in 1980 with a B.A. the program titled “Courageous Choices: Signals and in psychology. While at UCLA, she was connected to Strategies for Ethical Living in a Morally Subjective Hillel: The Foundation for Jewish Campus Life and World,” Rabbi Cohen will explore recent cases of started the Israeli Student Organization. She was financial fraud, discuss the moral underpinnings of exposed to Reform Judaism and realized for the first the cases, and identify strategies for financial and time that Judaism was not limited to Orthodoxy. She value-based success. Resources will be drawn from later pursued graduate study at Bar Ilan University. ancient Jewish wisdom as well as modern scholarship. Returning to Israel, she became an activist for The event will be held at the law office of Shipman religious pluralism, becoming involved in the found- and Goodwin in Stamford, and 1 CLE credit in eth- ing of Kol Haneshema, a Reform or progressive ics will be provided. Chairs of the event are Robert Steve and Hersh Batkin synagogue in Jerusalem. She served on the Jerusalem Hoff and Michael Wirgin, with Julie Daniel and Shari City Council from 1988-2002, representing the Civil Goodstein as committee members. To RSVP, go to UJF.org/CardozoNov3. Personal & Commercial Rights and Peace Movement. Insurance The Hyacinthe and Harold Hoffman Memorial The Maimonides Society, a networking group for Lecture is sponsored by the family of the late Hya- medical and health professionals, will hold a panel cinthe and Harold E. Hoffman, former members discussion on Tuesday, November 17, at 7 pm, titled of TBE and the Stamford community who were “Wellness Beyond Borders: A Panel Discussion about dedicated to many civic and Jewish causes. 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The Center Women of the Stamford the staff of the JCC’s youth department 0941 or [email protected]. of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Saturday, November 21. Lustig, 25, of Long all over the U.S., which are designed to For more information about Tapestry, contact Jewish Community Center will present offering pizza and a movie for children The Jewish Community Center is a Darien. Island, NY, came to public attention in early encourage students to reflect on and take Cantor Marcia Lane at [email protected]. For more its annual gift show on Thursday, No- at a nominal fee. 2014 when his poem “I am Jewish” went ownership over their Judaism. information about Café Tapestry, contact Sharon vember 19, from 5:30-9:30 pm, at the The event raises funds for JumpStart, viral on social media, including YouTube. Lustig will hold a writing workshop Franklin at [email protected]. Stamford JCC. the JCC’s therapeutic early-childhood Local Forgotten Hero The poem was written while applying to in the first session open to all Tapestry “This is everyone’s favorite shopping classroom experience for 2-4-year-olds year abroad programs dealing with social participants. During the second session, night out,” said Co-chair Amy Davidson. with special needs. The only program of Remembering Varian Fry justice and traditional learning in Israel. Café Tapestry, Lustig will give an exclusive Maccabi Continued from page 3 “It’s a great chance to sip some wine, its kind in the Greater Fairfield County All the essays for the applications got him performance for UJF’s Young Leadership have a nosh and shop with friends.” area, JumpStart follows the pattern of a By Elissa Kaplan tion, along with a short film, about Fry This is the second time that the Stamford JCC has Vendors from past years will return, typical nursery school classroom, offer- thinking about his Jewish identity – “not Division. YLDers will enjoy food and drinks been selected to host the JCC Maccabi Games. The first Do you know someone who lived in and his rescue operation in France, something to take lightly” – and made him Andrew Lustig as part of the café experience. along with many new vendors offering ing social and educational experiences Connecticut and who fits this category: beginning in 1940. Fry is responsible time, in 2006, was considered a rousing success and gifts, hand-crafted jewelry, Judaica, in a group setting. realize he wanted to understand it “more Admission to Cafe Tapestry is included brought Jewish culture and enthusiasm to Stamford. he saved many people during the Holo- for rescuing many artists, writers, deeply than gefilte fish and dancing on Shabbat.” in the cost of Tapestry general admission ($25 in clothing and more. As they did last Each vendor’s table fees will be caust; he is called the American Oskar scholars and scientists who were living “After a decade, we are delighted that the Stamford year, Center Women hopes to offer donated directly to the JumpStart JCC has been selected to host JCC Maccabi again in Schindler; he was named Righteous in France under the Nazis. Thanks to tastings from local kosher caterers program. Co-chair Ellen Laichtman Among the Nations by Israel; and he Fry, the following people were among August of 2016,” said Jonathan Fass, director of JCC and restaurants. Attendees at last said, “We feel fortunate to be able to Tapestry Continued from page 1 Maccabi for the Jewish Community Centers Associa- was a part-time teacher in New York those rescued: painter Marc Chagall, year’s gift show enjoyed samples from help this marvelous education pro- City and Connecticut? The answer is Nobel laureate and physiologist Otto For the first time, Tapestry will include two work- at Congregation Beth El in Norwalk, will shine a light tion of North America. “The strength, growth and Abel Caterers, Fairway Market, Joseph gram for children, and hope that all shops for teens. A representative of The David Proj- on one of the Talmud’s women, Beruriah, the wife passion for community engagement that the Stam- Varian Fry. Meyerhof, mathematician Jacques Craig Caterers, Main Event Caterers, of Stamford will turn out to shop and Fry was an American journalist who Hadamard, writers Hannah Arendt ect will discuss the challenges and opportunities of of Rabbi Meir. Cantor Micah Morgovsky will explore ford JCC has shown over the past decade makes it an Mike’s Center Café and Navaratna. support JumpStart.” campus attitudes toward Israel. In the second session, the complex story of women’s voices in the cantorate, ideal host. This summer, teen athletes will be joined ran a rescue network in France dur- and Heinrich Mann, sculptor Jacques At the time this article went to press, Beth Baer is also serving as co- ing the Holocaust. Using black-mar- Lipchitz and artist Max Ernst. Fry Miri Kornfeld, the high school program director of and educator Michal Smart will delve into the Book by artists in the JCC Maccabi ArtsFest program. By Center Women was in the process of chair of this year’s Gift Show for the StandWithUs, will help students develop skills to be a of Ruth for lessons about kindness. hosting these programs together, the Stamford JCC ket funds, forged documents, secret also rescued the photographer Fred inviting these caterers, restaurants second year. mountain passages and sea routes to Stein, who took a well-known photo of positive voice for Israel. Although these workshops are Tapestry will begin with a communal Havdalah, is a partner in hosting the world’s largest summer and others to showcase their food The suggested admission for the specifically designed for teens, high school students led by Cantor Micah Morgovsky (Temple Sinai) program for Jewish teens.” spirit endangered refugees to safety, Albert Einstein. The photographer’s at the 2015 Gift Show. Interested event is $5 and parking is free. The JCC Fry’s efforts saved some 2,000 people. son, Peter Stein, an American cin- with a valid ID can choose to go to any two workshops and Cantor Magda Fishman (Temple Beth El), and “The JCC movement creates connections to Jewish caterers and restaurants can contact is located at 1035 Newfield Ave., at the for only $5 through a new program called High 5. will conclude with a dessert reception and time for life in all its different forms and experiences,” said Although some people do know about ematographer and recently retired Center Women at CenterWomen@ intersection of Vine Road. For more him and his work, he remains a largely cinematography professor in the Grandparents can attend a workshop on how to everyone to share experiences. See the back page Gold. “For so many teens, the journey to connect to stamfordjcc.org. information, visit stamfordjcc.org or be “a great Jewish grandparent” to interfaith grand- for more details. their heritage, homeland and Jewish future begins unrecognized “Righteous Gentile.” graduate film program at New York children. Barbara and Joel Levitt of The Grandpar- Tapestry, a Community Celebration of Adult Jewish with JCC Maccabi.” The Jewish Historical Society of Fair- University’s Tisch School of the Arts, field County, in partnership with the will also attend the talk to discuss Fry ents Circle run an eight-session course, but in this Learning, is a program of the United Jewish Federa- “After seeing how the Games and ArtsFest have JCC Mother-Son Game Show Night workshop they will give participants a short course tion of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien, been life-changing experiences for hundreds of young JCC Jewish Arts and Film Festival of and his own father, Fred Stein. Following the success of last year’s Mother-Son Game Show Night at the Jew- on how to be a positive influence without alienating in partnership with the Stamford Jewish Community people from Stamford,” Kriftcher concluded, “we are Fairfield County, will host a program on Those with questions about the pro- ish Community Center, another night of games is on tap for boys 5-10 years of your non-Jewish son- or daughter-in-law. Center. General admission is $25 in advance and honored to host a new generation of Jewish teens from Fry on Sunday, November 8, at 1 pm, for gram should contact Marcie Schoen- age and their moms, on Saturday, November 7, from 6-7:30 pm. th Women in the cantorate, in Talmud and Tanach $36 at the door. around the country and around the world.” the 77 anniversary of Kristallnacht. The feld at 203-359-9148, elissa@de-kaplan. Games will include “Easy Jeopardy,” “Name That Tune,” “Beat the Clock” will also be featured. Rabbi Ita Paskind, the new rabbi For more information about participating, volun- program will be held at the Stamford Jew- com, or Nancy Schiffman at 203-487- teering, coaching or serving as a host family for the and many more. Pizza, salad and drinks will be served. Admission is $45 per ish Community Center, 1035 Newfield 0941 or [email protected]. 2016 Stamford JCC Maccabi Games and ArtsFest, “couple” and $5 for each additional child; or $36 per “couple” and $5 for each Ave., Stamford. Admission is free and all For additional information, visit the contact Games and ArtsFest Director Rachel Rothman additional child for JCC members. are welcome. Refreshments will be served JHS website at jhsfc-ct.org or the Jewish at 203-487-0949 or [email protected]. Register online at stamfordjcc.org or by calling the JCC Welcome Desk at at the beginning of the program. Arts and Film Festival website at www. The Jewish Community Center is a recipient agency of 203-322-7900. For additional information, contact Galit Roloff at 203-487-0974 Guest speaker Marion D. Percy, who jewishartsandfilm.org. United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan or [email protected]. has been active in promoting recogni- The Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield and Darien. The Jewish Community Center is a recipient agency of United Jewish Federation of tion of someone she calls “America’s County is a recipient agency of United Jewish Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. unsung hero,” will present informa- Federation. Relatives Continued from page 1 Felder is a licensed psychologist in West Los An- geles. He has written 12 books on Jewish spirituality and personal growth that have sold more than one million copies and have been translated into 14 lan- guages. His newest book is titled “Here I Am: Using Jewish Spiritual Wisdom to Become More Present, Centered, and Available for Life.” He has appeared on more than 200 radio and televi- sion programs, including “Oprah,” “The Today Show,” CNN, “The CBS Early Show,” “NBC Nightly News,” Na- tional Public Radio, Canada AM and BBC London. Felder’s books have also received numerous national awards, including the “985 Non-fiction Book of the Year Award” from Medical Self-Care Magazine, “Best Jewish Writing 2002” from Jossey-Bass, “2008 Nonfic- tion Book of the Year” from Body and Soul Magazine, and “2008 Best 5 Psychology Books” from The Books for a Better Life Foundation in New York. “We are extremely fortunate to be able to secure someone as knowledgeable and respected as Leon- ard Felder,” said Matt Greenberg, CEO of JFS. “He combines a captivating speaking style with a deep understanding of how families and individuals can overcome divisiveness. We look forward to seeing everyone at the lecture.” Prior to the community lecture at the Ferguson Library, a select group of JFS donors will be thanked at a Patrons’ Reception with Felder. Anyone wishing to become a patron should contact Claudia Brenner, JFS donor relations coordinator, at 203-921-4161. A book signing and dessert buffet will follow the lecture. Dinner and drinks will be served to a gathering of Jewish Twenties and Thirties in a private home in Stamford on Wednesday, November 4, at 7:30 pm. Those attending will have the opportunity to speak with Felder. For details and to RSVP, contact Leah Schechter at [email protected]. For more information about the lecture, the gathering for Jewish Twenties and Thirties, or to find out about the Patrons’ Reception, contact Jewish Family Service at 203-921-4161, or visit www.ctjfs.org. Follow it on Facebook at www.facebook.com/CTJFS. Jewish Family Service serves Greater Stamford, Greater Westport and Eastern Fairfield County. Lynn Saltz is the JFS marketing communications coordinator. Jewish Family Service is a recipient agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 6 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2015 november 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 7 bits and pieces JEEP* tracks: musings on Interactive Workshop on Improving “Happily Ever By Sandy Golove MAZEL TOV TO B’NAI MITZVAH: To submit infor- Noah Dorfsman, son of Beth and mation to Bits and Michael Dorfsman. education and engagement Family Relationships After” Pieces, call 321- Shoshana Epstein, daughter of 1373, ext. 107, or Tova and Josh Epstein; grandparents Talking to Schwartz CAS Scholars-in-Residence Cantor’s Concert at Temple e-mail me at sandy@ are Deena and David Bessaleli. By Cantor Marcia worry whether you have a good voice By Michael Feldstein Loyola universities, as well as at the ujf.org. Samantha Hass, daughter of Lauren Lane or not. No one will tell you to stop. If Rabbi Tsvi Blanchard, an Drisha Institute for Women, the Sinai MAZEL TOV TO and David Hass; grandparents are There’s an old you have a great voice, belt it out! If Orthodox rabbi, psychologist Jewish Theological Seminary and The entire community is in- GROWING FAMILIES: Peggy and Alan Kalter, and Carol and joke: you have a lousy voice, you can belt and a senior associate at CLAL the Wexner Heritage Foundation. vited to take a musical journey Cara and Ben Friedlander on the Allen Krim. A guy goes to visit that out, too! If you want your Juda- (the National Jewish Center Mark is a psychotherapist in to “Happily Ever After” during birth of a son, Eli George Friedlander; Douglas Herman, son of Jacqueline his elderly father ism to be intellectually challenging, for Learning and Leadership), private practice, where she spe- Temple Sinai’s annual Cantor’s grandparents are Janie and Edward and David Herman. and the father insists you can engage with the sermon or and his wife Naomi Mark, a cializes in work with couples and Concert on Sunday, December Friedlander. Nathaniel Herman, son of Jacqueline on going to Shabbat D’var Torah, or with the Torah read- psychotherapist on the Upper families. She was trained at the 6, at 4 pm. Micah Morgovsky, Brooke and Daniel Gray on the birth and David Herman. services. So the son ing. If you want poetry, you can read West Side of Manhattan, will Ackerman Institute for the Fam- cantor at Temple Sinai, will of a son, Noah Samuel Gray; grandfa- Talia Kunin, daughter of Susan and goes along and it seems that everyone the psalms. conduct a series of workshops ily and at Columbia University perform favorites from Broad- ther is Bob Gray. Len Kunin. greets his dad. After the service, it seems When you are part of a real com- and presentations on improving School of Social Work, where way shows, Gilbert and Sullivan, Lior and Haim Helman on the birth Naomi Listokin, daughter of Elissa everyone knows his dad and everyone munity there’s an additional benefit: family relationships on Shab- Rabbi Tzvi Naomi Mark she also was an adjunct clinical Disney and more in a program of twin sons. Stein and Ted Listokin; grandparents mentions that he comes every Shab- people will notice when you aren’t bat weekend, November 6-7, at Blanchard professor of social work. designed to appeal to people of Nicole and Jack Jacob on the birth are Sissy and Gary Stein. bat. “Dad,” the son says later, “I’m so there. Being part of a community, Congregation Agudath Sholom. The weekend is being sponsored by Ron and Bar- all ages. In celebration of the Cantor Micah of a daughter; grandparents are Jodi Andrew Patashnik, son of Dayna and impressed with how pious you are! You whether at a Tapestry class or at a On Friday night, November 6, the congregation bara Ashkenas, in memory of Barbara’s parents, Ed- first night of Chanukah, those Morgovsky and Richard Boxer, and Batya and David Patashnik. come every week to talk with God.” Chapter 2 event, will host a traditional Shabbat dinner at the syna- ward and Evelyn Weinberger, of blessed memory. attending will light the chanukiah together and enjoy Mike Jacob. Ita Bracha Shapiro, daughter of “Pious?” the father replies. “Not me! can foster good health. The compan- gogue at 6 pm, after which Rabbi Blanchard and “We are delighted to be able to sponsor a weekend holiday refreshments. Rachel and Daniel Schilowitz on the Esti and Yitzi Shapiro; grandparents Schwartz comes to talk to God. I come ionship grows your circle of friends. klal Mark will moderate an interactive workshop, “The focusing on family and relationships at our congrega- Tickets are available in advance at Temple Sinai birth of a son; grandparents are Shelley are Lillian and Sandy Shapiro. to talk to Schwartz!” Yisrael – the people Israel – is strength- Ten Commandments of Good Communication.” tion,” said Rabbi Daniel Cohen, spiritual leader of or at the door; the suggested donation is $36/adult and Jeff Cooper, and Tobi and Alan CONDOLENCES TO: I was thinking about the genius of ened by you and you by them. Reservations are required. the synagogue. “Building stronger relationships and and $18/child under age 12. Sponsors donating Schilowitz. Marc Becker on the loss of his Shabbat. (Maybe it’s because we’re It seems counter-intuitive, but show- On Shabbat morning, Rabbi Blanchard will give improving communication skills is a universal issue, $180, $360, $500 and $1,000-plus will receive MAZEL TOV TO: brother, David Becker. deep into preparations for Shabbat ing up week after week makes you part the sermon during morning services upstairs in the and we are fortunate to have two experts share with us added benefits and recognition. All proceeds from Liz and Bill Gilbert on the engage- Ellen Carter and Robin Champion, Across Stamford! More about that of a non-homogenous community main sanctuary, “The Story Behind the Story – How their wisdom and understanding on the subject.” the concert will support music programming at later.) The institution of Shabbat serves – different ages, different interests, ment of their son, Ben Gilbert, to Rachel Seligson, Ruth Stringer and Rabbinic Midrash Tells Us What the Torah Text Does For more information and/or to make a reserva- Temple Sinai. Kendall Gladstone. so many purposes. If you want to medi- different levels of knowledge or ob- Not.” Services will begin early at 8:45 am. tion for the meals, visit the synagogue’s website at The concert will be held in Temple Sinai’s social Judy and Howard Goldstein on Rosalind Wertheim on the loss of tate, you can close your eyes and just servance. But every time you show up, Following kiddush, the synagogue will host a www.agudathsholom.org or call the synagogue office hall at 458 Lakeside Dr., Stamford. For more infor- the engagement of their son, Brad- her husband and their father, Mark breathe. No one will bother you. Find you imprint your own unique self on lunch at 12:15 pm (reservations also required), at at 203-358-2200. mation, call Temple Sinai at 203-322-1649. ley Goldstein, to Avielle Movsas, Carter. your makom kavu’ah (your appointed the group. You alter the congregation which Rabbi Blanchard and Mark will lead a second daughter of Tammy and Benjamin Sharla Davis and Felice Grein on place) and just be there. If you want by your presence. interactive session – a cooperative collaboration in Movsas. the loss of their mother, Deborah to have the company of other people, And, like another old joke says, “It which they will moderate a discussion on a positive Collecting Thanksgiving turkeys for those in need Lizabeth and Paul Sachs on the mar- Kahan. you can wander in and out, chat with couldn’t hurt!” approach to building deeper, stronger connections KinderPlace, the JCC’s child care program at vember 22 before 11 am. Gift cards to area super- riage of their daughter, Monica Sachs, Irene Meltzer, David Meltzer, your neighbor when the Torah is going JEEP* = Jewish Education and within family relationships. the JCC, will hold its annual JCC Turkey Drive on markets can be dropped off any time. The JCC is to Sean Breslin. around, or schmooze at the dessert or Engagement Project of United Jewish Finally, Rabbi Blanchard will conclude the week- Sunday, November 22, from 8-11 am. Everyone located at 1035 Newfield Ave., at the intersection Doug Meltzer and Deidre Meltzer Karen and Larry Tobias on the mar- at the luncheon. Be social or be solitary; Federation end with a short d’var Torah at shalosh seudot following in the community is asked to share Thanksgiv- of Vine Road. riage of their daughter, Erica Tobias, Goldberg on the loss of her husband either is fine. Cantor Marcia Lane is UJF’s director of Mincha at 4:15 pm. ing cheer with those who otherwise would go For more information, contact Liz Gebert at 203- to George Brunner. and their father, Henry Meltzer. If you like to sing, you don’t have to education and engagement. An ordained Orthodox rabbi, Rabbi Blanchard without by donating a turkey and fixings, which 487-0968 or lgebert@stamfordjcc,org. Mitch Pomerance on the loss of holds a Ph.D. in psychology and philosophy, and was will be distributed by the Food Bank of Lower The Jewish Community Center is a recipient agency of his mother, Annabelle Pomerance. the director of the Ida Crown Jewish Academy in Chi- Fairfield County. United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan UJF Tribute Cards are a Danny Prince, Jimmy Prince and cago. He has taught at Washington, Northwestern and Food should be dropped off at the JCC on No- and Darien. wonderful way to connect Melissa Prince Quisenberry on the with your family and friends loss of their mother, Phyllis Prince. KLEI KODESH and mark any occasion while Barbara Shanen on the loss of her A MONTHLY COLUMN FROM OUR CLERGY supporting the extraordinary husband, Allen Shanen. work of UJF. To send a tribute, Dorothy Zelinsky Jaiven on the Supporting the Choice to Make Aliyah go to www.ujf.org. loss of her sister, Charlotte Zelinsky Rubenstein. By Rabbi David a pastoral water coloring of Israel, in Israel the middle of which was written the A dear childhood famous statement of Theodore Herzl, friend blogging the visionary of the modern state of about his impending Israel, “If you will it, it is no dream.” aliyah told of his re- Had I never noticed that? cent encounter with If you ask my daughter why she a (typical) talkative made aliyah, her answer will be clarion Israeli cab driver clear: “Israel is a modern day miracle. who, when hearing Rabbi David It is where the future of Jewish history of my friend’s plans, Israel will be written.” She might even quote not so subtly shared the famous opinion of Nachmanides his opinion: “Are you crazy?!” The (RamBan) that it is a mitzvah to live image of the garrulous and candid in Israel even when under foreign rule Israeli taxi driver was very familiar and -- how much more so when we have a brought a smile to my face. The cab- sovereign Jewish state. bie’s reaction, however, startled me. We are, of course, supportive of our In reflecting back on my first trips to daughter’s choice. What are we sup- Israel, I remember a very different re- posed to do, tell her that all that stuff sponse. Back then, the taxi drivers used we said about our connection to Israel to press me and my friends, “When are was only in theory? Yet, we are cautious you coming to live here?” when telling others. We are trying to Today, ongoing struggles with the avoid confronting the question asked by Palestinians, the uncertainty of the my friend’s taxi driver: “Is she crazy?!” Arab spring (and subsequent winter), Worse yet, we might be asked, “How the prospect of a nuclear-armed Iran, could you let her do that?!” And so, we tensions between the religious and non- openly share the information with our religious, and a host of other domestic friends and like-minded individuals; and political problems cloud the clar- others receive a more “round-about” ity with which we once embraced the answer. miracle of the state of Israel. And so We recognize how hard life in Israel goes today’s shift in the philosophical can be and how much we will miss our discussions between Israel’s visitors and daughter. We worry about her life in the its sage taxi drivers. IDF and the shifting geo-political scene Our daughter made aliyah two around her. We also know that with all years ago and entered the Israel De- Israel’s problems, Israel is a modern- fense Forces, where she continues day miracle filled with opportunities to serve. When she left for her gap for spirituality, family-oriented lifestyle, year in Israel, the writing was literally creativity and entrepreneurship. “on the wall.” Indeed, the day after Is my daughter crazy? No, just her departure, I wandered into her idealistic. empty room and, somewhat wistfully, Are we crazy? No. We are very looked around. There I noted the proud. Israeli and B’nai Akiva flags promi- Rabbi David Israel is the rabbinic dean nently displayed. On her dresser was of Bi-Cultural Day School. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 8 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2015 november 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 9 TEEN TALK TEEN TALK FROM THE CONNECTICUT REGION OF BBYO Third Place Goldman Memorial Essay Contest Winner Jenna Plotzky was the third-place The contest assignment was to write how the experience has affected the University in Boston, MA. Below is her th BBYO Teens “Stand UP” for a Cause winner of the 12 annual Rabbi Alex an essay, based on the student’s Jewish student’s Jewishness. Plotzky graduated essay. (First and second place essays were By Tyler Pepe teens. The chapters take part in peer- Goldman Memorial Essay Contest for experience, that completes the sentence “I from Westhill High School in June and printed in previous issues of The New It is early in the school year, but led programs that include education, high school students this past June. never thought I would…” and discuss is now a college freshman at Bentley Jewish Voice.) Jewish teens leading their local BBYO social, athletic and community service chapters across the state of Connecticut elements. The chapters meet every other are already accomplishing so much. To Monday night at the Stamford JCC and My Jewish Experience end the summer, 250 Jewish teenag- are open to all Jewish teens in eighth- By Jenna Plotzky – Third Place Winner At the beginning of seventh This defining moment in appreciate what we already have. In a ers from all over the Northeast came 12th grades. For more information on Once upon a time, there was the clas- grade, I became a victim of my life has brought clarity to world filled with hate, prejudice, and together to plan the year that lay ahead BBYO, contact Josh Cohen, area field sic Disney animated film, “Cinderella,” anti-Semitism. A large swastika my dreams and goals. It is the bigotry, it is crucial that people are and set goals at B’yachad – a training director, at [email protected]. about a girl who was forced to work for was given to me as my secret reason I am no longer afraid reminded of Cinderella’s, and Juda- her evil stepmother and stepsisters. It is Santa holiday gift. It was my to excel in my studies, or to ism’s, important words of wisdom on retreat for BBYO members to prepare There was standing room only for Leviticus AZA’s first meeting of the year at the Stamford For more information about BBYO only when her fairy godmother comes first and last secret Santa, not be the only girl brave enough courage, kindness, and appreciation. to make a great impact in their com- Jewish Community Center. chapters, contact Tyler Pepe at tpepe@ munity in the year to come. bbyo.org. along and works her magic, does Cin- just because of the incident, to speak her mind. But most Fairy tales aren’t just meant to evoke This year BBYO, which is a world- social program experiences that will In Stamford, the Leviticus AZA (boys) BBYO is a recipient agency of United derella find true love and leave her evil or that fact that I am Jewish, importantly, it is the reason dreams and wishes, they are to explore wide movement for Jewish teens, is also be influenced by these Stand UP and Tikvah BBG (girls) chapters are Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New stepfamily behind. However, this year, but because in that moment I I have courage and a strong the possibilities, activate our individual setting the platform to make positive causes. The causes will be officially an- comprised of more than 150 local Jewish Canaan and Darien. Disney chose to change their tune and realized that the only person Jewish identity today. I have and collective agencies, and create contributions in Connecticut’s Jewish created a live-action version of the clas- I needed to be was myself. I roots all over Stamford in identities. Cinderella’s message to have nounced by each chapter at the BBYO Jenna Plotzky communities. The BBYO program CVR 2015 Fall Convention, a spirited sic fairytale, Cinderella. In this new film, had only signed up for the various Jewish programs and courage and be kind is what I associate focus is on community service, Israel retreat in November where chapters we see Cinderella not as a fairy tale or gift swap because I had this schools, and I am fighting with Judaism. Being Jewish to me is advocacy, peer leadership and creat- come together to celebrate each other’s young voices a story of how a young girl falls in love preconceived notion that I had to mir- for other teens to find the courage to having courage and being kind. I never ing meaningful experiences for as success, compete for bragging rights with a prince, but of how an underdog ror my friend’s actions if I wanted them step outside of society’s restrictions and thought I would appreciate (or even many Jewish teens as possible. This and give back to the community. Friendship Circle is Off to a uses her courage to go after what she to continue being my friends. I finally explore what their Judaism means to have) a Jewish identity and I am eter- year, BBYO is increasing the focus on The official end of BBYO CVR 2015 Fall wants despite life’s challenges; a story realized just how important my Jewish them. Society is so caught up in fight- nally grateful to have the opportunity community service by implementing Convention will mark the official begin- about an empowering, brave, and smart identity was to me and how special it is. ing and wanting, that we never stop to for Judaism to be part of my life. year-long service projects, as well as a ning of BBYO CVR’s dedicated Stand UP Great Start girl whose potential is exponential. dedicated community service month. month. Though chapters participate in By Charlotte Kriftcher “Have courage and be kind,” is the This year, in the Connecticut Valley community service projects all year, the Volunteers at the Friendship Circle motto of the new and improved Cinder- Region of BBYO chapters are choosing last two weeks in November and first two are ready to kick off an awesome year. ella. Despite her immense suffering, she Kuriansky Teen Tzedakah Corps a cause to advocate for and spread weeks in December will be chock full of On October 20, a group of nearly 100 has the courage to stand up, and teach awareness around, called a “Stand Jewish teens in Connecticut making last- high school volunteers gathered at others to stand up, for what they believe Teens in Charge of Giving th th UP” cause, that they are aligning with ing impacts on our own communities. Chelsea Piers for an amazing kickoff in. While imprisoned by her stepmother By Cantor Marcia Lane together about Jewish concepts of ninth, 10 and 11 grades. They will and committing to for the year. Each Here’s to our teens – off to a great start event including inspiring speakers, she values forgiveness, kindness, and September marked the beginning of tzedakah, chesed and tikkun olam (giv- meet 10 times during the year, and they chapter will spend the year creating fun, and looking ahead to an even better finish! moving videos, yummy Chinese food always holds her head up high. a new teen philanthropy project. The ing, kindness, repairing the world), will be doing the work of fund-raising and fun activities. Teen volunteer Just like the classic Cinderella, I felt Kuriansky Teen Tzedakah Corps was and have applied those principles to and allocating for both Jewish and non- Daniel Silverstein summed up the par- forced by society to try to fit in and pretend begun in 2009 with a grant from the charitable giving. Last year, the KTTC Jewish local organizations. The process ticipants’ attitudes in four words: “How to be someone I’m not. I was blinded and Louis J. Kuriansky Family Foundation. gave out a total of $3,000 in grants to of deciding on a mission statement, de- can I help?” Everyone involved was L-r: Simone Nachman and Leah Voytovich, chose to push religion away, treating it as The purpose was to educate the next the Friendship Circle and to 3 Square fining grant-making parameters, raising eager to make this a remarkable year two volunteers, participated in the fun. more of a chore than a privilege. However, generation of philanthropists by giving (a program to provide food support to funds and reviewing grant proposals will for the Friendship Circle. With count- just like the new Cinderella movie, I too them the tools to apply Jewish values needy children). take the group through the entire cycle less events and volunteer opportuni- was renewed and empowered; only my to the act of giving. For the past four This year, the redesigned KTTC has of a not-for-profit board. The Kuriansky enthusiasm and positive energy, all of th ties, there is a role for everyone in the whom couldn’t wait to volunteer with renewal happened a few years ago. seasons, 10 grade teens have learned a cadre of more than a dozen teens in See “Teen” on page 11 organization that matches teens with the organization this year. One of them, individuals who have special needs. Chanie Kamman, shared some of the Jamie Krug, a mother of two kids group’s hopes for this coming year. They who have been touched by the help of are “really excited for a wonderful year Friendship Circle, came in to speak to ahead and feel the energetic spirit of the the volunteers, offering them touching awesome group of volunteers.” Everyone words and advice for the future. The who got to enjoy Sunday night’s activi- teenagers who volunteer with her two ties agrees that they are confident that, children were also present and both par- together, the Friendship Circle team will ties remarked about “how rewarding this make a strong impact in our community. organization has been for them.” Jamie For more information, or to sign up expressed how the Friendship Circle has as a volunteer, visit FriendshipCT.com, been such a positive asset to her family. e-mail [email protected], or She shared the joy of the moment when call 203-329-0015, ext. 131. her son was able to call his volunteers by Charlotte Kriftcher is a Friendship Circle their name and how their visits are truly volunteer and an 11th-grader at Westhill a highlight of her family’s week. High School. There were also a number of Friend- Friendship Circle is a recipient agency ship Circle representatives there who of United Jewish Federation of Greater were visibly impressed with the teens’ Stamford, New Canaan and Darien.

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Ariela Dubler Head of School Marsha Feris Director of Admissions (212) 595-7087 [email protected] ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 10 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2015 november 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 11 YLD Gets a Kick Out of Thursdays Chabad Kids Club Aids JFS Friday Night Live! Based on the success of the YLD tendees asked to form a kickball team. By Taly Farber year was a shemitah or sabbatical year. For (Young Leadership Division) Dodge United Jewish Federation quickly acted Food Pantry Chabad Stamford is launching a an entire year, the nation’s economy Ball tournament event last July, at- on the request and the YLD Kickball new program called Friday Night Live. came to a standstill while everyone Team was formed. Games are played Having started on October 9, and con- studied and focused on spiritual, rather through the Stamford City Recreation tinuing once a month, Friday Night than physical, needs. “At the onset of the Department and are open to anyone Live will be held on 10 Friday nights eighth year (the first in the new seven- in the Stamford community. throughout the year, providing a Shab- year cycle), the nation would be ready If interested in joining the spring bat experience for families, singles and to head back to work, but first, on the 2016 team, contact Sharon Franklin at couples of all ages. second day of Sukkot, everyone would 201-321-1373, ext. 109, or at Sharon@ Each Friday Night Live will entail gather in the Holy Temple for a dose ujf.org. a Kabbalat Shabbat, or welcoming of of inspiration to tide them over for the At right: Team members (l-r) Courtney Shabbat, with songs; a children’s pro- next six years of work and business,” Blahosky, Alex Vaidyan, Allie Zur, Spencer gram with entertainment, service and notes Leah Shemtov. The gathering was Ginsberg, Morae Christian, Jason Thrope snacks. There will also be a themed known as hakhel and became the basis Allie Zur and Arielle Krause stood by to and Loren Steinfeld. Not pictured are Arielle kiddush – upcoming themes include of the hakhel year. play at the premier kickball game held on Krause (captain), Andy Rosen (captain), Fruit and Absolut on November 13, In modern times, the Lubavitcher September 10. Isabella Archibald and Stacey Hunter. from 5:30-7 pm, and Latkes, Babkes rebbe encouraged these assemblies on and Beer on December 11, from 4:30-6 or around Sukkot, as a time to promote pm, with a menorah lighting. Jewish unity and gatherings. In this Deal Continued from page 1 “These Friday nights are being held vein, Chabad Stamford extends the use of force” against Iran. Likewise, he Camp David, and massive military aid in honor of the hakhel year,”says Rabbi invitation to everyone to attend Friday is urging the United States to provide to Israel, after his disagreement with Moshe Shemtov. Night Live. There is no charge for the Israel with the military aircraft needed Prime Minister Menachem Begin over The hakhel year is a year to promote event; sponsorship is available. to “take out” Iranian installations built the sale of arms to Saudi Arabia. Jewish unity through gathering and For more information, contact pro- into mountainsides. “No one doubts “Dennis Ross’ presentation was the learning. In ancient Israel, every seventh [email protected]. that Israel will use force if Iran dashes most thorough, engaging and bal- toward a nuclear weapon,” noted Ross, anced discussion on Iran that I have JHSC Open House implying that supplying Israel with such heard to date,” said UJF Vice President On September 20, children from Chabad Kids Club, in conjunction with Jewish Family The Jewish High School of Connecticut will hold its Open House on Sunday, capability would force Tehran to think Ricky Arbron upon leaving the audito- Service, met outside of Stop and Shop in Stamford to help collect food for the JFS Kosher November 1, from 1:30-4 pm, at the Stamford Technology Center, 1937 West twice before making serious violations rium. “He was able to explain complex Food Pantry and Holiday Food Drive. Back row (l-r): Nate Sigman, Isabel Sigman, Jacob Main St., Stamford. For more information or to RSVP, contact Sarah Rich at of the agreement. components of the agreement in a Sigman, Leah Shemtov, Claudia Brenner (JFS development director) and Rebecca Sigman. [email protected] or 203-357-0850. Ross then turned his attention to way the layman could understand. I Front row (l-r): Levi Shemtov, Shayna Shemtov, Rivka Shemtov, Gavriel Shemtov and The Jewish High School of Connecticut is a recipient agency of United Jewish Federation the status of U.S.-Israel relations, com- thoroughly enjoyed it.” Shternie Shemtov. of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. menting that there have often been UJF CEO James Cohen remarked times when the U.S. president and the that “Bringing Ambassador Ross Israeli prime minister did not have a to the community is part of UJF’s Teen Continued from page 9 warm relationship. And yet, disagree- continuing effort to help educate its Foundation has agreed to match 3-to-1 learning. Pairing these top values with ments have always been followed by constituents on the most important Pictured with Ambassador Dennis Ross (center) were (l-r) James A. Cohen, UJF CEO; all funds raised by the teens. the impact area(s) they’d like to focus periods of continued cooperation issues facing Israel and the greater Peter Lilienthal, UJF board president of the Jewish Education and Engagement Program; The KTTC is one of more than on, teens then craft a mission statement – Ross cited President George H.W. Jewish community. From President James Schreiber, Greenwich community member and event sponsor; and Pam Ehrenkranz, 100 Jewish teen philanthropies in for their foundation.” Bush’s work to have China recognize Obama to Prime Minister Netanyahu CEO of UJA Greenwich. the United States and Canada, and Zelkind notes that the creation of Israel after his contentious disagree- to the Israeli deputy consul general, together these groups haven given a a mission statement is a teen board’s ment with Prime Minister Yitzhak UJF has provided numerous oppor- subject. I am so glad we were able to JBS (Jewish Broadcasting Service) total of almost $1 million. They gave first collective decision. It sets the stage Shamir over loan guarantees, and tunities for Stamford citizens to hear co-sponsor this event with our col- recorded the event. Broadcast details in the areas of youth and education, for consensus-building in future deci- President Jimmy Carter’s push toward from opinion leaders on this critical leagues in Greenwich.” will be provided when available. but they also allocated funds toward sions. It’s not an easy task to come to alleviating poverty, homelessness and consensus, but it’s considered essential chronic illness. In an article in eJew- for effective foundations. In addition, ishPhilanthropy.com, Stefanie Zelkind, the building of group dedication to director of the Jewish Teen Funders a shared value is one that can carry Network, speculates that teen philan- over into adult philanthropies and thropists are more focused than their other adult activities. The KTTC in- adult counterparts. “By participating tends to be a model for growth and in values clarification exercises, teens development of the individuals, and identify the values that matter most to also for the next generation of Jewish them – first as individuals, and then philanthropists. as a group. This is, in and of itself, a For more information about the meaningful activity and opportunity KTTC, contact Cantor Marcia Lane at for self-reflection, self-awareness, and [email protected].

ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 12 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2015 november 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 13 14 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2015 november 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 15 Bi-Cultural’s Daycare Program Booming Day Schools Celebrate Back to School Barbecues By Dina Berger building, Bi-Cultural seeks to ensure workplace option at Bi-Cultural of- Bi-Cultural Day School Carmel Academy Bi-Cultural Day School welcomed the school workplace helps meet the fers parent-teachers a chance to meet On September 20, the Bi-Cultural More than 300 members of the Car- not only students in pre-kindergarten childcare needs of its teachers with their personal needs by enabling Day School gathered for the annual mel Academy community – students, through eighth grades this school year, infants and small children. them to check up on their children Back-to-School Barbecue and Picnic, parents, alumni and faculty – kicked off but also five infants and toddlers into Many parents discover that quality throughout the day. For Bi-Cultural, organized by Bi-Cultural’s Parents the school year with a Parent Association its nursery daycare program. In a spe- daycare and a conveniently located the benefits include heightened staff Association. More than 500 parents, Council Back-to-School Barbecue. CA cially equipped and private wing of the facility can be difficult to find. A morale, reduced turnover and absen- children, teachers and family mem- students navigated the inflatable obstacle teeism, increased productivity and an bers had a chance to connect for course, danced and sang with a DJ, and enlarged pool of qualified candidates. games, sports, arts and crafts, face enjoyed the barbecue. New and veteran Kids Health Day and Gan Open House Currently in its 14th year, Bi-Cultural painting, a bouncy house and the families had a chance to connect as they On Sunday, November 15, Gan Yeladim Early Childhood Center will host a Kids offers onsite daycare to its faculty barbecue picnic. celebrated the start of a new school year. Health Day and Open House from 9:30-11:30 am. The event will be an opportunity and staff for infants and toddlers up for families to educate themselves on healthy habits for children, encompassing to 2-years-old, employing a child-to- nutrition and exercise. It will be open to all children ages 0-10 years, as well as teacher ratio of 2-to-1. prospective families wanting to tour Gan Yeladim Early Childhood Center. “Having a daycare in-house shows L-r: Carmel Academy students Annabelle Raz, Talia Moss, Lily Fanwick and Joel Goldman Separate programming for parents and children will be available. For the adults, a personal investment in our staff and Eight-month-old Meital Hazony attends at the Carmel Academy Parent Association Council Back-to-School Barbecue. Nouveau Nutrition will be present to discuss healthy lunchbox ideas, and a local our belief in the need to make sure that daycare at Bi-Cultural’s onsite daycare At right (l-r): Eric pediatrician will demonstrate kids’ CPR practices. For children, yoga instructors teachers have a happy work/life balance. program available to Bi-Cultural’s faculty Kwalwasser, Julius Kurtz will offer a class featuring moves to enhance activity and core strength with specific We want our staff to have the peace of and staff. (Photo by Dora Salm) and Remy Chamerlain Mommy and Me yoga, and the Gan morahs (teachers) have planned hands-on activi- mind they need to focus on their teach- played a game of soccer ties to keep children busy, active and healthy, such as a hula hoop competition. ing,” said Jackie Herman, Bi-Cultural’s a family feeling,” said teacher Lauren during the annual Bi- “We wanted to plan an event that would encompass kids’ health and the principal and head of school. Hazony, herself a Bi-Cultural graduate. Cultural Barbecue. (Photo importance of the connection of mind and body health, as well as open the Staff members consider that peace of “My daughter is thriving here.” by Kathryn Danner) Gan to children of all ages for a fun morning,” says Reb. Dovid Hordiner, Gan mind invaluable. “Having daycare at the Bi-Cultural Day School is a recipient Yeladim director. school really fosters a more collabora- agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater For more information about the event, contact [email protected]. tive atmosphere and gives me more of Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. FAMILY CENTRAL November, dECEMBER 2015 & jANUARY 2016

BIRTH through PRESCHOOL GRADES 9-12 Got Shabbat! Tiny Treasures Mommy & Me BBYO Birth - 30 months with a parent or caregiver. Fridays from 9:30-10:30 am at Chabad For Grades 8-12. Leviticus AZA (Boys) & Tikvah BBG (Girls).Every 2nd Monday • 7-9pm (winter session begins Jan. 8) $15 per class. (First Timers FREE). For more information, at The J. Information: contact Josh Cohen, Area Field Director, at [email protected].. contact [email protected] FRIENDSHIP CIRCLE JCC Mommy & Me Class: Movin’ and Groovin’ For volunteers in Grades 9-12 at Chabad. Information: Malya Shmotkin at 12-30 months with parent or caregiver. Tuesdays through Dec. 22 (No class 11/3). 203.329.0015 #414, [email protected] or www.friendshipct.com The Grunberg family gathered for a photo during the annual Bi-Cultural Barbecue (l-r): L-r: Dana Roth, Rebecca Lieberman, Caryn Siegel Moss and Andrew Moss at the Carmel Contact Galit Roloff at (203)487-0974 or [email protected]. Ava (front), Rebecka, Sydney, Reina, Lilly and Michael. (Photo by Kathryn Grunberg) Academy Parent Association Council Back-to-School Barbecue. Jewish Student Connection Music and Movement with Rachel Bahar and Jonathan Cahr For Grades 9 – 12. Tuesdays at 2:15 pm at Stamford High School or Thursdays at 2:15 Thursday, Nov. 10, Dec. 1 & 15 & Jan.5,19 from 1:30- 2:15pm at Bi-Cultural Day School. pm at Westhill High School. For further information, contact [email protected] Free of charge. For further information, contact Joanne Karow at 203.329.2186 ext. 1310 or [email protected]. Music, Movement and Yoga, Mommy & Me Inclusion Program at the JCC 2- 4 years with parent present. Sunday through Dec. 13 from 9:30-10:10am. To register, contact Inclusion Coordinator Dinushka De Silva at 203.487.0946 or ddesilva@ stamfordjcc.org. Pizza & Pajamas FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY Tuesday, Nov. 24 at 5:00pm. Dinner and fun for kids up to 8 years old and their families. For further information, contact [email protected] Challah Club Launch For all ages. Weekly. Thursday Jan. 7, 14 & 21 from 4;45-5:45pm. $5 per person. Tiny Treasures - Nurturing the seeds Wednesdays from 9:30-10:30am. For further information, contact programs@ Chanukah party at Harbor Point chabadstamford.org Thursday, Dec. 10 at 7pm. Location TBD. For further information, contact programs@ chabadstamford.org Wonderful Ones: Mommy & Me Class at the JCC Sara Walker Nursery School Chanukah Wonderland and Community Concert Celebration 1-2 years. Thursdays through December 17 from 9:15-10:15am. Fee: $216 for 12 Sunday, Dec.13 from. Chanukah Wonderland from 1-3pm and Concert from 3-5pm at sessions / JCC members $180. Contact Sandi Waldstreicher at 203.322.6542 or Rippowam Middle School, 381 High Ridge Road. Featuring the amazing Benny Friedman. [email protected]. Family Day Brunch & Loaves of Love Cooking Friday, Dec. 25, 2015 from 10:30am-12:30pm Pancakes, waffles, eggs and all the GRADES K-8 trimmings. Activities and fun for all ages! BBYO Friday Night Live For Grades 8-12. See description under Grades 9-12. Fridays, Nov. 13 from 5:30-7:00pm; Dec. 11 from 4-6pm and Jan.15 from 5:30-7pm at Bat Mitzvah Club & BMC Beyond Chabad. Kabbalat Shabbat, special children’s program and Kiddush. For girls. Sunday Nov. 22 from 5:30-7:30pm or Sunday Dec. 20 from 5:30-7:30pm. For Giant Menorah Lighting further information, contact [email protected] Sunday, Dec. 6 at 4:30pm at Latham Park. Fairfield County’s largest Menorah, joined Chai Five Mitzvah Club by dignitaries and community leaders. Donuts, apple cider, latkes and gelt for the kids. Wednesday, Nov. 18 & Dec.16 from 5:00-6:30pm. Dinner included. For further Kids Health Day & Gan Open House information, contact [email protected]. Sunday, Nov. 15 from 9:30-11:30am. For further information, contact programs@ Kids Fun Night chabadstamford.org. For Grades K-6. Saturday, Dec. 5 from 6-8pm at the JCC. $18 per child / JCC members $16. For further information, contact Emily Eisen at 203.487.0973 OPEN HOUSES [email protected]. Bi-Cultural Day School Mother-Son Game Show Night Sunday, Oct. 25 at 10 am. For information, contact Joanne Karow at 203.329.2186 For 5-10 years old. Saturday, November 7 from 6-7:30pm at the JCC. $45 per “couple” x1310 or [email protected]. $5 per additional child / JCC members: $36 per “couple” $5 per additional child. For Carmel Academy Open House further information, contact Emily Eisen at 203.487.0973 or [email protected]. Sunday, Nov. 1 from 10am-12pm. To RSVP, contact Daneet Brill, Director of Admissions, Pizza & Pajamas at [email protected] or 203. 983.3503 See description under Birth through PreSchool. Jewish High School of CT (JHSC) Open House Sunday, Nov. 1 from 1:30-4pm at the Stamford Technology Center, 1937 West Main PJ Library at the JHS Judaica Library at the JCC Street, Stamford. For further information, call 203.357.0850. Grades K-2. Second Tuesday of the month, Nov. 10, Dec. 8, Jan 12 from 4-4:45pm Grades 3-5. Third Thursdays of the month, Nov 19, Dec. 17, Jan 21 from 4-4:45pm Parents and caregivers welcome. For further information, contact Marcia Lane at 203.321.1373 x104. Program in partnership with UJF and Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County. Free. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 16 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2015 november 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 17 Carmel Students Enjoy Edible Science Lesson Inspiration Strikes for Bi-Cultural “Makers” By Dora Salm BDCS administration and were given a large space Donations continue to come in through Home De- By Julie Lapin For students who thrive on learning by doing, being used for storage. “We are so excited about pot gift cards, cash, web allocation and even tools.” Carmel Academy’s fifth grade has come full circle. the opening of a “Makerspace” lab at Bi-Cultural the response that we have received so far from Currently, Bi-Cultural is one of only two Jewish day Last spring, as fourth-graders, the students planted a Day School is a milestone for the school and the parents – it’s been an outpouring of support and schools with this collaboratory lab. plethora of vegetables, herbs and flowers in Carmel community. Makerspace is a forum for hands-on energy,” said Fritz, who, with Robinson, reached “I think one of the greatest assets the Makerspace Academy’s organic garden as part of their life sci- invention and creation, melding DIY (do-it-yourself) out to the Bi-Cultural community and found an lab brings to our school is the fact that we are not ences curriculum. methods with modern technology. The teaching audience of parents willing to embrace a new way only asking students to think outside the box, we Now, as fifth-graders, the same students are harvest- format combines STEM (science, technology, engi- of applied learning. are asking them to completely redesign the box, ing the fruits of their labor. The autumn garden is neering and math) and STEAM (science, technology, “The space itself was renovated with a little old- said Robinson. “It’s the perfect venue for student bursting with more than 20 different fruits, vegetables, engineering, art and math), with hands-on building fashioned elbow grease and a few late nights with a cross-curricular engagement. It’s a great platform for herbs and flowers. Not only are the students continu- and discovery. Makerspace at BCDS is the creation paintbrush in hand,” explained Robinson. “When students who excel in areas outside of the traditional ing their life cycle learning, they are also using the of third-grade teacher Beth Fritz and middle-school we announced the launch of this Makerspace initia- classroom setting to shine a little brighter.” organic produce as part of their health curriculum, teacher Adrianne Robinson, who said that parents tive, we were overwhelmed by the generosity of our Bi-Cultural Day School is a recipient agency of United said Carmel’s fifth grade teacher Darren Bahar. can expect their children to bring home Makerspace parent body. Within the first 24 hours, one family Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and “It’s been an amazing learning experience for my projects ranging from crafts to circuitry and from donated the funds for us to purchase our 3D printer. Darien. students,” said Bahar about the garden. “They are Carmel Academy fifth-graders Ariela Hope, Atara Ivri and Carmel Academy fifth-graders Evan Roth and Ela Dynner woodworking to wearable technology. seeing first-hand how the small seeds they planted Francesca Margolius held a Cinderella Pumpkin, which with their teacher Darren Bahar. The students picked “The Makerspace Movement encourages student have grown, and now that the vegetables and fruits was growing in the school’s organic garden. vegetables, fruits and herbs that they grew last spring as exploration, collaboration and forward thinking. are ready for harvest, the students are incorporating part of a science life cycle unit and are now using them as Students will be able to fine-tune their problem- JHSC Sophomore’s Singing Internship these organic healthy foods into their diets. ated two summers ago by CA alumus Elias Boyer for part of their health curriculum about eating healthy. solving skills in an environment where there are no “We have picked various types of carrots, Swiss his Eagle Scout service project. limits to their creativity. Each session asks students to chard, cucumbers, squash, eggplant, kale, tomatoes, “It was quite an undertaking,” said Head of School lessons they will carry forward into adulthood,” question the world around them. These students are pumpkin, zucchini, basil, potatoes, peppers, sage, Nora Anderson. “Elias met with me and other mem- Bahar said. going to be the artists and engineers of the future,” dill and other leafy vegetables. We’ve been making bers of our educational and administrative leader- Carmel Academy is a recipient agency of United said Robinson. salads and eating them without any added sugars or ship team to plan the project. He then organized Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Students will be able to take classes in robotics, preservatives, and are also learning how to prepare the temporary donation of tools, as well as a team Darien. coding, fashion technology, knitting and circuitry the produce in healthy ways,” Bahar said. of volunteers to work on the project.” during Bi-Cultural’s Lunch and Learn period, with The students are trying vegetables they may not Over the course of many days, Boyer cleared the JFS Support for Families Living with projects designed according to grade, curricular units have been inclined to eat before and many of the site’s overgrown vegetation and debris. He and the and the students’ own interests, explained Robinson. students have been inspired by this experience and volunteers then built garden beds, lay down weed Autism “We have assembled a Makerspace team of teachers have begun growing gardens at home, Bahar said. tarp and top soil, and created wood chip paths. Jewish Family Service will offer a monthly sup- who are excited to participate in this groundbreak- “I was so surprised when I saw how big they “The garden has been a wonderful addition to our port group for families of a loved one with Autism ing program. Also, several of our parents have ap- grew,” said fifth-grader Ela Dynner. “Trying the campus,” Anderson said. “Students of all ages now Spectrum Disorders. Specific challenges and op- proached us, eager to help by donating their talents The president, “The Donald” and the pope all have one thing in common. Jewish High School of Connecticut’s sophomore new vegetables has been fun. This is the first time I have an opportunity to tend a garden, and learn first- portunities, for both parents and siblings, are often for our projects.” The first Makerspace project will Natalie Shclover has sung for all three. Shclover (third to last on the right) is part of The Young People’s Chorus of tried eggplant right from the garden. It was really hand about ecosystems, life cycles and nature.” a part of being in a family with a loved one on the involve the upper school students planning, creating New York City, which includes young singers from throughout the region. The chorus performs at numerous events and amazing. I had never tried radishes before and now Bahar and his students couldn’t agree more. Autism Spectrum. and building the actual work tables for the lab. occasions, the most recent one being during Pope Francis’ visit to the 9/11 Memorial in New York City. JHSC’s guidance I love them.” “You can tell kids about eating healthy, but giving Talia Ben-Joseph, M.A., M.Ed., BCPC, LPC, an The first project that Fritz and Robinson tackled program helps students like Shclover find summer internships that enable them to explore their interests and passions. The organic garden, which sits between the them a chance to experience healthy eating in this expert in Integrative Psychotherapy and Family was the lab space itself. Fritz and Robinson said they school’s lower and upper school campuses, was cre- continuum has been invaluable. I hope these are Counseling Services, will facilitate. “A variety of stress- imagined that a Makerspace lab would be “a great related issues accompany the demands of raising a addition” to BDCS. They brought the idea to the child with autism,” notes Ben-Joseph. “At times, the family dynamic is altered. Feelings of resentment may also be fostered amongst other family members because of the time devoted with dealing with the loved one on the spectrum. The importance of families having a strong support system and a sense of well-being has often been ignored while the focus of treatment is on the child with autism.” The group was to hold its first meeting on October 18. The group will meet on Sundays, November 15 and December 13, at 10 am, at the Stamford JFS office, 733 Summer St. To register, contact Eve Moskowitz at 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. Jewish Family Service is a recipient agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. Take a Peek Inside a Carmel Classroom Carmel Academy announces its Take-A-Peek Tues- days Program for parents interested in an informal introduction to school life at Carmel Academy. The new program will give parents of prospective students an opportunity to spend some time inside a Carmel classroom. “We are thrilled to offer Take-A-Peek Tuesdays and give parents an experiential window into the dynamic learning that takes place at Carmel each Teacher Beth Fritz painted the walls for retooled space for day. This program is a chance for parents, who the newly-created Makerspace lab at Bi-Cultural. (Photo by are considering a day school education for their Adrianne Robinson) children, to see Carmel’s engaging, integrated curriculum taught by our outstanding faculty,” said Head of School Nora Anderson. The series runs through March and is open to no matter how parents of children entering all grades – transitional kindergarten through eighth grade. Upcoming dates and details about the series can be found at www. you look at it... carmelacademy.com. Reservations are required, so e-mail or call Carmel Academy’s Director of Admissions Daneet Brill at Your ad should be [email protected] or 203-983-3503. Carmel Academy is a recipient agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. here! For information on advertising, please contact Bonnie Rozen at (800)779-7896, ext. 244 or Please support our advertisers, [email protected] and tell them you saw their ad here in ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 18 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2015 november 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 19 Bi-Cultural Students Experience Carmel Academy Welcomes Tashlich at Arboretum Visiting Jewish Community Leaders

On September 21, students in Bi-Cultural Day School’s upper school participated in a Carmel Academy’s students welcome visiting rabbis and leaders within the larger Jewish Tashlich service at Stamford’s Bartlett Arboretum and Gardens. Meaning “to cast off,” community throughout the school year. The visitors share their personal perspectives on Tashlich is a ritual that involves symbolically casting off the sins of the previous year by Jewish living with the students. In September, Rabbi Eli Kohl of Young Israel of Stamford tossing pieces of bread or another food into a body of flowing water. Students in grades six, spoke to Carmel’s sixth-graders (pictured above) about Rosh Hashanah and the meaning seven and eight took part in the service. Above: Rabbi Eli Kohl began the seventh-grade of the holiday. Morah Leah Shemtov from Chabad of Stamford visited and led Carmel’s Tashlich service with song. (Photo by Gina Fass) seventh- and eighth-graders in learning about the holiday. Thanksgiving Turkey Leftovers, Middle-Eastern Style By Ronnie Fein perfectly fine when made with left- ¼ cup orange juice from around the edges. Cut On Thanksgiving you can count on overs. It’s sufficient for a lunch or light ¼ cup lemon juice the oranges into segments three things: football on TV, turkey for dinner meal. You can make this with ½ to 1 tsp. harissa and add to the bowl. Toss dinner and a lot of leftovers. A few hours chicken, too. Salt and freshly ground ingredients gently. after dinner’s done, many of us will Turkey Couscous Salad with black pepper, to taste Combine the olive oil, nibble on the pie, or slip in a spoonful Oranges, Dates and Pistachios Place the turkey pieces in orange juice, lemon juice of marshmallow-topped sweet potatoes 1 pound cooked turkey, chopped a bowl. Bring the stock to a and harissa, and whisk vig- every time we open the fridge. And, into bite-size pieces boil and stir in the couscous. orously, then pour over the of course, the turkey slices get stuffed 1¼ cups chicken or turkey stock Cover the pan and simmer salad. Toss the ingredients into a sandwich. 1 cup Israeli style couscous for about 8-9 minutes, stir- and season to taste with salt But in my house there are usually left- 1 cup chopped dates, preferably ring once, or until liquid has The cover of Ronnie and pepper. over leftovers. You know, what remains medjool been absorbed. Spoon the Fein’s newest Makes 6 servings. after the initial indulgence in the meal- ½ cup chopped dried apricots couscous into the bowl with cookbook, “The Ronnie Fein is a cookbook after-the-feast. There’s usually enough ½ cup chopped red onion the turkey. Modern Kosher author, food writer and cooking for the entire weekend. We always have ¼ cup minced fresh parsley, prefer- While the couscous is cook- Kitchen” teacher in Stamford. She is the plenty of turkey leftover because I buy ably flat leaf ing, chop the dates, apricots, author of Hip Kosher and The a huge bird. Also, we all love the soups 2 Tbsp. chopped fresh mint red onion, parsley and mint, and add Modern Kosher Kitchen. Visit her food blog, and salads that come from the bits and ¾ cup pistachio nuts them to the bowl. Add the pistachio Kitchen Vignettes, at www.ronniefein.com pieces that we didn’t yet get to. 2 navel oranges nuts. Peel the oranges, cut them into and friend on Facebook at Ronnie Vail Fein, Here’s one of our favorite salads, 6 Tbsp. extra virgin olive oil thick slices and trim the white pith Twitter at @RonnieVFein. November, December 2015 & January 2016 Senior Adult Happenings KOSHER LUNCH AT THE JCC GAMES & GAB AT THE JCC Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays at 12 pm. $4 suggested Thursdays & Fridays, 1-3 pm. Free of charge. For further donation. For further information, contact Connie Cirillo information, contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203.487.0983 or Freeman at 203.487.0983 or [email protected]. [email protected]. TRANSPORTATION TO JCC SENIOR PROGRAMS LIFE ENHANCEMENT CLASSES AT THE JCC Call every Monday. $1 each way, suggested donation. Tuesdays & Thursdays (No class Nov. 26) from 11-11:45 am For further information, contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at Free to all seniors. For further information, contact Connie 203.487.0983 or [email protected]. Cirillo Freeman at 203.487.0983 or [email protected]. AARP SMART DRIVER COURSE AT THE JCC Reservations required. Wednesday, Nov. 4 • 8:30 am-1 pm. LEARN TO PLAY MAH JONGG AT THE JCC AARP member $15 / All others $20. For further information, Thursdays, 1-3 pm. Member $25 / Community $35 contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203.487.0983 or cfreeman@ (5 sessions). For further information, contact Connie Cirillo stamfordjcc.org. Freeman at 203.487.0983 or [email protected]. BLIND AND VISUALLY-IMPAIRED ADULTS SUPPORT GROUP LET’S TALK AT THE JCC Thursdays at 11:00am at the JCC. Free. In cooperation with Tuesdays & Thursdays, Nov. 24 & Dec. 29 • 1-2 pm. Free of JCC Seniors program. Engage in meaningful conversation about charge. For further information, contact Connie Cirillo Freeman a wide variety of topics that are important in our lives? For more at 203.487.0983 or [email protected]. information, contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203.487.0983 or email at [email protected] BLOOD PRESSURE SCREENING AT THE JCC No appointment necessary. 1st Tuesday of the month, JCC MORNING MOVIE MATINEE/GAMES Nov. 3 & Dec. 1 • 9:45-11:15 am. Free of charge. For further Fridays at 10 am • Free of charge. For further information, information, contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203.487.0983 or contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203.487.0983 or cfreeman@ [email protected]. stamfordjcc.org. EXERCISE YOUR BODY – CHAIR EXERCISE AT THE JCC Tuesdays & Thursdays through Dec. 31 from 10:15-11am. Free to all seniors. For further information, contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203.487.0983 or [email protected]. 20 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2015 november 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 21 Who’s Behind Broadway’s Hip-Hop Hit “Hamilton”? What’s On for Adults Jewish Biographer Ron Chernow November, December 2015 & January 2016 By Curt Schleier cal, much less a hip-hop musical,” Chernow was a seemingly unlikely hit about growing (JTA) – Historian Ron Chernow has written suc- said in a telephone conversation with JTA. up in the largely Dominican Washington SPECIAL EVENTS OTHER PROGRAMMING cessful biographies of the likes of J. P. Morgan, John “I think I can safely say that that’s the last Heights section of Manhattan. Cantor’s Concert at Temple Sinai Inside Israel with JCC Shaliach Or Berger D. Rockefeller and George Washington. So it’s fair thing I would have expected.” But it certainly was no more unlikely Sunday, Dec. 6 at 4pm at Temple Sinai. For more information, contact the Mondays, 7-8:30pm at the JCC. Nov. 9 – Celebrating Sigd: Ethiopian Heritage; to say that at this point in his career, the Alexander Nevertheless, the hottest ticket on Broad- than hip-hop Hamilton. “Through a mu- Temple office at 203.322.1649. Nov. 16 – Hussein Aboubakr, Egyptian Political Refugee; Nov. 23 – Yom Hamilton biographer knows the drill: There’s the way today is “Hamilton,” which received tual friend, I learned that he’d read the Kippur: Personal Stories. Free of charge. Contact Or Berger at 203.487.0961 or author tour, the positive reviews, the making of the “rapturous reviews” and has played to full book,” Chernow said of Miranda. “He was Annual Saul Cohen Lecture – “When Difficult Relatives Happen to [email protected] best-seller lists. There are scads of awards, including houses since it opened in August. The musi- still starring in ‘In the Heights’ at the time, Good People” a Pulitzer, a National Book Award and the American cal is the brainchild of Lin-Manuel Miranda, and I attended a matinee. I went back Thursday, Nov. 5 at 7:30pm at the Ferguson Library. Guest Speaker: Leonard Introduction to Judaism – Not Only for Non-Jews and Jews-by-Choice! History Book prize. But the transformation of his considered one of the brightest young lights stage afterward and met Lin. He told me Felder, Ph.D. Open to the community at no charge. Dessert reception to follow. Wednesdays, through Mar. 30 at 7:00-8:30pm with Rabbi TelRav (Temple Sinai) book into a hit Broadway musical? Not so much. on the Great White Way. Miranda’s first Ron Chernow has won as he was reading the book, hip-hop lyrics For more information, call 203.921.4161. & Rabbi Hammerman (Temple Beth El) with occasional guest presenters. Fee: Yet that’s exactly what happened to his tome about Broadway show, 2008’s “In the Heights,” was numerous awards for started rising off the page. I was completely Hyacinthe and Harold E. Hoffman Memorial Lecture – “What We $180 and includes all materials (including books). For further information, the nation’s first secretary of the Treasury. “I never nominated for 13 Tony Awards, winning four, his biographies. (Photo astonished by his response.” contact Temple Sinai at 203. 322.1649 or Temple Beth El at 203.322.6901. imagined that Hamilton would be turned into a musi- including for best musical and best score. It by Nina Subin) See “Broadway” on page 22 Don’t Talk About When We Focus on Israel’s Security.” Wednesday, Nov 11 at 7:30pm at Temple Beth El. For more information, contact Israel Folk Dancing with Leng the Temple office at 203.322.6901. Thursdays at Temple Beth El. Let’s dance! Connect with Israel while reaping the November, December 2015/January 2016 Louis J. Kuriansky Conference mental and physical benefits of dance. For other locations and schedule, call “50th Anniversary of Vatican II.” Tuesday, Nov. 10 at 7pm in the GenRe 203.912.4086, www.ctisraelidance.com or twitter: @Israeli_Dance auditorium at UConn-Stamford. Donation of $10 per person is suggested and JHS November Program - Kristallnacht Commemoration -Varian Fry Support for Those in Need the conference is free to local educators, students and non-profit professionals. Sunday, Nov. 8 at 1pm at the Stamford JCC. Presenters: Marion D. Percy and To register or for more information, go to [email protected] Peter Stein. Free and open to the public. Refreshments at the beginning of the SPECIAL EVENTS or 203.251.9525. program. In Partnership with the Jewish Arts & Film festival of Fairfield County JFS Financial Education Workshops Tapestry: An Evening of Adult Jewish Learning JLI Fall Semester “The Final Journey” Tuesday, Nov. 17 (Preventing Identity Theft) at 11:00 am. No Fee. In conjunction with LifeBridge of Bridgeport at the Westport office, 432 Post Road East, Suite 11. Saturday, November 21 at 6:30 pm at the JCC. For further information, contact Tuesdays, Oct. 27 from 8-9:30pm or Wednesday, Oct. 28 from, 9:30-11am. 6 To register, please contact Rebekah Kanefsky at 203-921-4161 or email [email protected]. Marcia Lane at 203.321.1373 x104. weeks. For more information, contact [email protected] JFS Workshop: The Race to College Mondays, Dec.7, Jan. 25 & Feb.29 from 6-7 pm. JWC Chanukah Package Party Co-sponsored by the Federation of Jewish Philanthropy of Upper Fairfield County, College Ahead! will feature a panel of prominent college admissions deans OTHER PROGRAMMING For Women. Wednesday Dec. 9. Meet, mingle, nibble at 7:15pm. Program exploring the essential issues all high school students and their parents need to know as they begin the process. Moderated by Claire D. Friedlander, JFS College starts at 8pm. Bring a wrapped gift (worth $10 or more) to Consultant, the program will take place at no cost at Congregation Beth El, 1200 Fairfield Woods Road, Fairfield.For more information, contact, Claire D. Fried- Beginners Adult Hebrew benefit “Loaves of Love” at the home of Alix Eben. lander at [email protected] or call 203.921.4161. Wednesdays, 6:30-7:30pm with Fran Schechter. Fee: $180. This course will JWC Fashion Event follow the school calendar. For further information, contact Temple Sinai office at For Women. Monday, Nov. 2 at 6pm. For more information, contact programs@ 203.322.1649. COUNSELING, MEDIATION & CRISIS DIVORCE & BEREAVEMENT chabadstamford.org Beginners’ Torah Study JFS For Children/ Adolescents Diagnosed With ADD/ADHD JFS Bereavement Support Group Taught by Rabbi Jay TelRav, Cantor Micah Morgovsky and Amy Ritell. JWC Rosh Chodesh Learning Wednesday afternoons. Finding Your Focus with Dr. Lee Combrinck-Graham Tuesdays at 10:30 am. Free of charge. Are you searching for a safe haven to Fridays, 12-1pm with Rabbi Jay TelRav, Cantor Micah Morgovsky and Amy For Women. Thursday, Nov. 12 at 8pm at Soosh. For more information, contact MD. Service includes psychiatric evaluation, review of previous evaluations, explore your thoughts and feelings about grief? JFS provides an environment Ritell. No Fee. Bring your lunch. For further information, contact Temple Sinai [email protected] family assessment, on-going support, and medication management. Qualifies of emotional, physical and spiritual support. For more information, contact office at 203.322.1649. for insurance reimbursement. For more information, contact Eve Moskowitz at Rosemarie Delia at 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. JWC Trip to the Ohel 203-9211-4161 or [email protected]. Bible Study with Rabbi Eugene Borowitz Wednesday Jan. 6 from 9:15am-1pm Special trip in honor of Leah Shemtov’s Parent Education Program (PEP) Saturdays, 9am at Temple Sinai. No Fee. For further information, contact Temple birthday! Visit to the Lubavitcher Rebbe’s gravesite for a day of prayer and JFS College Counseling State-mandated workshop for divorcing parents with children at JFS Stamford. Sinai office at 203.322.1649 introspection, inspiration and brunch. Need help navigating the college admission and application process? Fee is $125 per person. Call for date and to register at 203-324-3167. Qualified, experienced assistance provided by Claire D. Friedlander, JFS Annual Fall Sampler - The Brandeis Women’s Committee Judaica Needlework - The Kesher Chapter of the Pomegranate Guild College Consultant. Competitive fees. For more information, contact Claire JFS Focus on K.I.D.S. Monday, Oct. 12 at Temple Sinai. For information, contact Betty Baer at For divorced or separated parents experiencing high conflict around parenting of Judaic Needlework Friedlander at 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. 203.324.7972 decisions. Teaches both parents strategies for communicating in a non-hostile manner. Second Sunday of each month, Nov. 8 & Dec. 13 from 10am-12pm at the JCC. JFS Counseling For more information, contact Erika Garcia at (203) 921-4161 or [email protected]. “The American Schindler” For further information, contact [email protected] Qualified, licensed professionals provide counseling and psychotherapy to Sunday, Nov. 8 from 1-3pm at the JCC. Free. Speaker: Varian Fry. All are JFS New Beginnings or visit www.pomegranateguild.org. individuals, children, adolescents, families, couples and groups. For emotional welcome. For more information, contact Nancy Schiffman Tuesdays from 7:30-8:30 pm in Stamford. Fee: $10/session or $50/for 6 ses- support while unemployed, see Life Transitions below. Affordable fees, at 203.487.0941 or [email protected]. Lunch and Learn (weekly Torah portion) sions. For adults who would like to discuss all aspects of separation and di- based on income; no one is “turned away”. Insurance accepted. For more Wednesday, Nov. 18 & Dec.16 from 11:30-12:45pm. Open to everyone. Lunch. vorce, JFS will provide a support group in the JFS Stamford office, 733 Summer information, contact JFS at 203-921-4161. JHS Book Talk Street, 6th Floor. To register, please contact Rebekah Kanefsky at rkanefsky@ Wednesday, Nov. 18 at 10am. Kandinsky - A New World of Art: A Visual Men’s Fabrengen JFS Individuals / Families in Crisis ctjfs.org or call 203-921-4161. Presentation of the work of Wassily Kandinsky. Presenter: Dr. Elissa Kaplan. Free For Men. Monday, Nov. 9 at 8pm. For more information, contact programs@ Comprehensive services. Assistance with basic necessities, housing, medical, social, and open to the public. Refreshments at the beginning of the program chabadstamford.org legal and financial matters. Fees based on ability to pay.For more information, contact: Rebekah Kanefsky at 203-921-4161 #128 or [email protected]. SUPPORT Hadassah Book Club Parenting Club Wednesday Nov. 18 at 7pm. Marriage of Opposites by Alice Hoffman. Open to all. Monday, Dec.1 from 9:15-10:15am at Chabad. For more JFS Brain Fitness Program For more information, contact Rhonda Greif at [email protected]. information, contact [email protected] CARING FOR SENIORS Working with clients experiencing early stage dementia or Alzheimer’s in Sponsored by Hadassah Torah and Tea JFS Caregiver Support Group the client’s home. Each volunteer will work with an aide or family member “Supervised Bridge” at the JCC Tuesdays from 11am-12:00pm. For more information, contact programs@ Sundays at 10:30 am with facilitator, Rona Wall, LCSW at JFS Westport, 431 Post present. For more information about the program or to participate, please Mondays through Nov. 16. “Supervised” lesson at 11 am - 1 pm. Free play at contact Matt Greenberg at 203-921-4161 or [email protected] chabadstamford.org. Road E. Fee: $10 per session or $50 for 6 sessions. Do you find yourself stressed 1-3pm. Members $54 / Community $66 (6 sessions). Contact Connie Cirillo between the needs of your children and your parents? JFS will offer an open JFS Kosher Food Pantry Freeman at 203.487.0983 or [email protected]. Why Reform Judaism forum to provide support and help in dealing with the difficulties and stresses Non-perishable staples for those in need. Donations welcomed. For more Brunch and Learn with JCC Shaliach Or Berger Saturday mornings, Dec. 5, 12, 19 from 10:30-11:30am. Taught by Rabbi Jay of caring for your loved ones. Groups will be held at the JFS Westport office, 431 information, contact JFS at 203-921-4161. TelRav. Coffee and bagels will be served. Open to all. Post Road E, Westport. Rona Wall, LCSW will facilitate. For more information or Sundays, Nov. 22 & Dec. 20 from 10-11:30am. No Fee. Contact Or Berger at to register, contact Rebekah Kanefsky at 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. Living with Autism 203.487.0961 or [email protected]. Healthy Morning (Yoga) Sundays, Nov. 15 & Dec.13 at JFS Stamford. Time and Location TBA. Monthly Wednesday, Nov. 4 from 10am-12pm. Family Tree Yoga. For further information, JFS Home Companion group to share the joys and challenges of living with Autism Spectrum Disor- Center Women Gift Show contact Melissa Bildner at [email protected] A program placing fully trained and vetted home companions and CNAs der. Facilitated by Talia Ben-Joseph, MA, M.Ed, BCPC, LPC. For more details, Thursday, Nov. 19 from 5:30-9:30pm at the JCC. Admission: FREE. All are matched to the needs and specific circumstances of senior clients. Trained aides contact Eve Moskowitz, JFS Director of Clinical Services at 203.921.4161 or welcome. Babysitting available, 5-10 years. $12 / JCC members $10. For Neshama YogaTM assist seniors with daily activities, chores, and socialization. Certified Nursing [email protected]. further information, contact Nancy Schiffman at 203.487.0941 or nschiffman@ Wednesdays, Nov. 4, 11, 18 from 6:30-8:00pm in the Temple Sinai Sanctuary. Assistants can provide personal care, toileting, and medication management. stamfordjcc.org Taught by Jackie Tepper. Fee: $136 for the series or you can drop in on a Services are provided hourly, daily or up to 24/7 at competitive rates. Full class-by-class for $25 per class. No prior experience is necessary. For further supervision by professional JFS staff. For more information contact Isrella Knopf, Chabad Annual Gala EMPLOYMENT & TRAINING information, contact Temple office at 203.322.1649. Director of Senior Services at JFS at 203-921-4161 or email at [email protected]. Sunday, Jan. 10 from 5-9 pm. Location TBD. JFS Residential Cleaning JFS Computer Training Courses JCC Center Women Chanukah Giftique Neshama YogaTM at the JCC Employ professionally trained individuals to clean your home and at the same Variety of courses - all levels, individuals or small groups. Nominal fee. For Tuesday, Dec. 1 – Wednesday, Dec. 9 at the JCC. One-stop shopping for all your Fridays through Dec. 18 (no class 11/27) from 9-10:30am. Members $252 / time help support Jewish Family Service. Rates lower or competitive than more information, contact Ilene Locker at 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. holiday needs: dreidels, candles, menorahs, cards, wrapping paper, decorations, Community $294 (14 sessions). For more information, other service providers. For more information, contact Jodi Maxner at 203- JFS Life Transitions gifts and more. Visit stamfordjcc.org or call 203-322-7900 for hours. contact Nancy Schiffman at 203.487.0941 or [email protected]. 921-4161 or [email protected]. Wednesdays at 11:00 am. Support group for the unemployed at Stamford JFS Crochet at the JCC Shal-Om Yoga office. The groups will provide a forum to discuss and explore the concerns Jewish Senior Services Tuesdays, 1-2 pm. Member $24 / Community $30 plus cost of materials Wednesdays at 6pm at Temple Beth El. Fee: $20. Please contact Pamela and issues related to job loss and to find alternative solutions for career Jewish Senior Services is one of the premiere providers of senior care in Con- (purchased separately). (3 sessions). Contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at Tinkham MSW, LCSW, RYT for more information at [email protected] satisfaction. The group is a collaborative effort between JFS Counseling and necticut serving clients at their two Fairfield locations and in clients’ homes 203.487.0983 or [email protected] or visit www.YogaPsychHealth.com. Employment & Training Departments. For Information or to register, please throughout Fairfield and New Haven Counties. Their 5-star skilled nursing and contact Rebekah Kanefsky at 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. 20s and 30s & FC Alumni Shabbat Dinner Yud Shevat Fabrengen short term rehabilitation facility has been serving the community for over 40 Friday, Jan. 15 at 7pm. Open to All. Tuesday Jan.19 at 8pm. years with an unparalleled level of quality and personalized care. Other servic- JFS Seniors2Work es provided include home care, hospice, day services, advocacy and education, Job Bank for age 50+. Lower Fairfield employers can list full/part time jobs for Hadassah Walking Program Culmination Yud Tes Kislev Fabrengen and long term care protection. To find out more about the many services of dedicated, skilled mature workers. No fees. For more information, contact Wednesday, Nov. 4 from 10am-12pm. For further information, contact Melissa Open to All. Monday Nov. 30 at 8pm. Jewish Senior Services, please call 203-365-6400 or visit www.jseniors.org. Ilene Locker or Jodi Maxner at 203-921-4161 or www.seniors2work.org Bildner at [email protected] or 203.554.6446. 22 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2015 november 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 23 Broadway Continued from page 20 Miranda assured him that he was of Alexander Hamilton lends itself to well. He’s become a fan of rap – or, at serious. “He made a complete believer hip-hop treatment. Hamilton’s person- least, an admirer of Miranda’s “rhymed CHANUKAH out of me,” Chernow said. “The story ality is driven and unrelenting, and the couplets that very much reminded me music has that same quality. The music of Cole Porter.” The New Jewish Voice and the man mirror each other.” Chernow points out that in addi- Miranda purchased theatrical rights tion to a hip-hop persona, Hamilton Once again this year, The New Jewish Voice is inviting its readers and local organizations to BI-CULTURAL DAY SCHOOL (BCDS): “The New Jewish Voice” (USPS #189) is published monthly by the extend Chanukah greetings to the community by purchasing a Chanukah greeting ad, which will United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and to the book and signed on Chernow as had several Jewish connections: His appear in our December issue (Deadline: Nov. 6). Chanukah begins this year on the evening of 2186 High Ridge Road, Stamford 06903 • 203.329.2186 • www.bcds.org Darien Inc., 1035 Newfield Ave., Stamford, CT 06905-2521. historical consultant. “He wanted me to mother’s husband, Johann Michael Dec. 6. You may choose from the designs, messages and sizes shown here - more are available. www.ujf.org for updates and donations tell him when something was wrong,” Lavien – when Hamilton himself wrote You may also choose your own message, as long as it fits into the space of the greeting you select. BBYO - Leviticus AZA (Boys) and Tikvah BBG (Girls): Chernow said. “He said, ‘I want histo- the name, he spelled it the more tradi- Ellen Weber...... President (Custom designs available upon request.) The price of the small greeting is $18 (styles B & E), Regional Office 203.389.2127 or [email protected] • www.cvrbbyo.net James A. Cohen...... Chief Executive Officer rians to take this seriously.’” tional “Levine” – was likely Jewish. She the larger one is $36 (styles A, C, D & F ) and the largest one (style G) is $72. There were very few instances where left him in St. Croix, met James Hamil- Advisory Committee To ensure that your greeting is published, please contact Bonnie Rozen at 1-800-779-7896, CARMEL ACADEMY: Meryl Gordon...... Chair Chernow intervened; most were re- ton in St. Kitts, and the two moved to ext. 244 or [email protected]. Checks can be made payable to The Reporter and Meryl Japha, Nancy Schulman, Sue Yellen lated to dramatic license to condense Nevis, where Alexander was born out sent to: The New Jewish Voice,500 Clubhouse Rd., Vestal, NY 13850. 270 Lake Avenue, Greenwich 06830 • 203.863.9663 • www. Hamilton’s life story into a manageable of wedlock. As a result, he could not Reporter Group Staff Style A -$36 • carmelacademy.com The Reporter Group edits and publishes The New Jewish Voice. two-and-a-half hours. So, for example, be educated in church schools. Actual Size: 3.22” x 1.975” Rabbi Rachel Esserman...... 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Bookkeeper history is boring – Lin-Manuel Miranda the sense that there is a sizable revi- Commandments in Hebrew. [email protected] • www.cjmes.stamford.uconn.edu felt exactly the opposite,” Chernow sionist movement when it comes to “Perhaps because of this exposure,” Actual Size: 3.22” x 1.975” Opinions The views expressed in editorials and opinion pieces said. “He felt the most dramatic way to the Founding Fathers. Hamilton, who Chernow suggests, Hamilton had a CHABAD OF STAMFORD: are those of each author and not necessarily the views tell the story was to stick to the facts. was an abolitionist, is on the rise, while particular “reverence for Jews,” he 770 High Ridge Road, Stamford 06905 • 203.3.CHABAD x102 • of the United Jewish Federation. He felt the story was so sensational you Jefferson is on the decline, in part said, speaking from his home office Leah Shemtov: [email protected] • Letters couldn’t improve on it.” because he was an unrepentant slave in Brooklyn, a copy of his biography The New Jewish Voice welcomes letters on subjects of Still, Chernow admits he was a little owner. “I started the book in 1998. I at hand. He leafs through his book to www.chabadstamford.org interest to the Jewish community. All letters must be taken aback the first time he attended a felt Hamilton was largely overlooked find several examples, including one signed and include a phone number. The editor may rehearsal – the cast was made up almost and, among the Founding Fathers, the from a trial, where Hamilton said, CHAVURAT AYTZ CHAYIM: withhold the name upon request. exclusively of people of color. But he one most demonized,” Chernow said. “Why distrust the evidence of the Jews? 203.322.6676 • www.chavurah.org Kashruth soon decided the casting was “a stroke “Jefferson was considered the pure Discredit them and you destroy the We are not responsible for the Kashruth of any of genius,” he said. and virtuous tribune of the common Christian religion.” May the lights CONGREGATION AGUDATH SHOLOM: advertiser’s product or establishment. “The actors had a special feel for people and Hamilton was the stooge For the record, Chernow – who of Chanukah 301 Strawberry Hill Ave, Stamford 06902 • 203.358.2200 • HOW TO REACH THE EDITOR: the material, in addition to being very of the plutocrats. grew up in an “overwhelmingly Jew- talented. From the moment the cast “Jefferson’s vision for the country ish middle-class area” of Forest Hills, shine in Style F -$36 • www.cas-stamford.org Mail: Sandy Golove walks out, it immediately shakes your was of small towns and traditional Queens – cannot recite the Decalogue your hearts Actual Size: 3.22” x 1.975” 1035 Newfield Ave. - Suite 200 preconceptions about the Founding agriculture,” he added. “Hamilton in Hebrew. “I have in recent years not forever FRIENDSHIP CIRCLE: Stamford, CT 06905-2521 Fathers,” Chernow said. “Conversely, thought in terms of a stock exchange been observant, but have a strong sense E-mail: [email protected] 203.329.0015 X414 • [email protected] or www. Fax: (203) 322-3277 that sense of excitement is felt by the and factories and large cities, which of Jewish cultural identity,” he said. Your Name(s) friendshipct.com Phone: (203) 321-1373, ext. 107 actors, who never thought they’d have is pretty much the way it turned out. Chernow is currently working on a bi- a chance to play George Washington or Hamilton would feel much more at ography of Ulysses S. Grant, but things Style D -$36 • HADASSAH STAMFORD CHAPTER: Send article submissions via e-mail to James Madison. This show is not only home today than Jefferson.” have changed. “Ever since Hamilton, Actual Size: 3.22” x 1.975” Sandy Golove at [email protected] theatrical, [it’s] a cultural and political A lifelong theatergoer, Chernow there’s been more interest expressed 203.829.9341 or [email protected]. Find us on Facebook: marked “Stamford Voice” in the subject Wishing you a Happy Chanukah! Stamford Hadassah line. Expect an acknowledgement; phenomenon, showing us who we are previously had a preference for dramas. in all my other books, if only because please re-send if you do not receive one. as a country now and at the same time “One of the things that’s come out of my visibility is greater than before the Your Name(s) showing us what it was then. 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No matter what the future holds, Phone: 1-800-779-7896, ext. 244 www.stamfordjcc.org try, including an estimate that 5 percent His taste in music, which previously “Hamilton” is something special. “In SUBSCRIPTION INFORMATION: of Washington’s army was made up of ran from classical to jazz to the Ameri- all likelihood,” Chernow said, “this is JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE (JFS): Phone: (203) 321-1373 ext. 107 free blacks.” can songbook, may have changed as my last hip-hop musical.” 733 Summer Street, Stamford 06902 • 203.921.4161 • www.ctjfs.org JEWISH HIGH SCHOOL OF CONNECTICUT (JHSC): Adult Volunteer Opportunities 1937 West Main Street, Stamford 06902 • 203.357.0850 • [email protected] • www.jhsct.org CHABAD STAMFORD JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE (JFS) Betsy’s Buddies Volunteers JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY (JHSFC): Drivers needed to deliver food from the Kosher Food Pantry General Information: P.O. Box 16918, Stamford 06905-8901 • Weekly or bi-monthly commitments available. Betsy’s to individuals in the community. For information: Rebekah (203) 321.1373 x150 (messages only) • Archives: 990 Hope Street Buddies is a program looking to facilitate one-on-one Kanefsky at 203-921-4161 or [email protected] (Rear), Stamford 069805 • 203. 359-2196 • visitations between volunteers and homebound members [email protected]; The Harry Rosenbaum JHS Judaica Library: in the community, and a great opportunity for retirees and JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY OF JCC, 1035 Newfield Avenue, Stamford 06905 • (203) 487-0957 • families. For more information, contact FAIRFIELD COUNTY (JHS) Style G -$72 • Actual Size: 3.2222” x 3.95” [email protected] [email protected]. Harry Rosenbaum JHS Judaica Library at the JCC. Cover Loaves of Loves Deliveries 2-hour slot (or more) once a week. You’ll be trained on the Style E -$18 • Actual Size: 1.5278” x 1.975” JEWISH SENIOR SERVICES: Every Friday after 10 am. Help distribute Loaves of Love computer system and the arrangement of books in the 175 Jefferson Street, Fairfield 06825 • 203.365.6400 • packages to new neighbors, friends, new moms, the sick library. Call 203-487-0957. CHANUKAH [email protected] • www.jseniors.org and ANYONE who could use a “Taste of Shabbat”. For more Name______information, contact [email protected]. The Archives at the Jewish Historical JEWISH STUDENT CONNECTION: Address______Rebecca Ruberg: [email protected] FRIENDSHIP CIRCLE Adult Circle Program Society of Fairfield County City______Sundays, Nov. 8, Dec. 20 & jan. 24 from 1-4 pm at The Help protect the pieces of our Jewish history. Do you enjoy State______Zip______Phone______TEMPLE BETH EL (TBE): Friendship Circle Center. Serving adults with a full range finding out about our region’s early Jewish settlers? Do you Greeting Style______350 Roxbury Road, Stamford 06902 • 203.322.6901 • of physical, mental and cognitive needs through one-on- want to help Jewish organizations retain their history and [email protected] • www.tbe.org one friendships and social opportunities with other adults documents? Call 203-359-2196 ______TEMPLE SINAI (TS): in our community. Opportunities this year will include a How you would like it signed______458 Lakeside Drive, Stamford 06903 • 203.322.1649 • Vocational Readiness Program and Community Integration UJF’s READING PARTNERS ______www.templesinaistamford.org Employment. For more information, contact Sarah@ Read one-on-one with Stamford public school children. We accept r Visa r Mastercard r American Express r Discover (if applicable) friendshipct.com. One hour a week, mornings or afternoons. 12 elementary UNITED JEWISH FEDERATION OF GREATER STAMFORD, NEW Print Name on Card______schools and 2 community centers. Training, literacy, focused CANAAN AND DARIEN (UJF): JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER (JCC or The J) Card Number______workshops and support network provided. Contact Marlyn 1035 Newfield Avenue, Suite 200, Stamford 06905 • Kosher lunch Program for Seniors. Help set up and serve Expiration Date______Agatstein 203-321-1373 x115 or [email protected] 203.321.1373 • www.ujf.org HOT Kosher lunch to seniors. Tuesdays, Thursdays & Address, City, State, Zip (Registered billing address of card) ______Fridays at the JCC. For more information or reservation: DEADLINE YOUNG ISRAEL OF STAMFORD: Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or cfreeman@ is Nov.______6 69 Oaklawn Avenue, Stamford 06905 • 203.348.3955 • stamfordjcc.org Checks should be made payable to The Reporter, 500 Clubhouse Rd., Vestal, NY 13850 www.yistamford.org 24 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2015