March 1974
Ski Family Cochran Interview by Harry Cummins WHEN world-class runner Tracy Smith joined the Los "It was like finding something you've been searching for Angeles police force a few years back, he was a man more all your life," relates Tracy. "Somehow I knew it was a new inclined toward pursuing blue ribbons than hanging around start for me." with guys who drank. Last February Tracy's new beginning led him to New Until he suffered a severe Achilles injury in 1969, Tracy York's Madison Square Garden, site of the National AAU Smith was America's premier distance runner. An interna- Indoor Track and Field Championships. Just hopeful of a tional vagabond, he toured the world, beating everyone in good showing after a long lay-off, Smith found himself sight while establishing two world records along the way. leading the three-mile run with only a few laps left. Then, at his peak, came a tear in his tendon—a two-year "When I heard the announcer say I could break the lay-off—and an agonizing search for his identity. world record if I ran the final quarter in 64 seconds, I "For as long as I can remember, running had been my couldn't believe it. I really wanted that record, but I was whole life," reflects Tracy. "I was like a robot, training four also starting to hurt. In that last lap I was thinking about hours every day, thinking of nothing else. You won't be- Christ on the cross and how much that must have hurt. And lieve this, but I actually felt withdrawal pains each morning then I just ran harder." when my regular time for running came, and I knew I Smith won the race in a clocking of 13:07:2, and for couldn't run anymore." the third time in his career he owned a new world record. Faced with the prospect of a lengthy lay-off and feeling Incredibly, his time was 9 seconds faster than his first record- he had to get into something as challenging and demanding breaking effort six years previous. as running, Smith took a job as a patrolman with the Los "That was the most satisfying win in my career," says Angeles Police Department. For a three-time dropout, one Tracy. "When I saw all those reporters crowding around thing was certain: It beat brooding over exams and text- me, the biggest thing on my mind was giving God a little books. plug for what had happened." "While I was growing up, I never had the popular view Today, at 28, Smith is once again back in school, eager of cops," recalls the blond athlete. "I never thought it was to talk about the new direction his life has taken. Although smart to go around shouting 'pig' and 'police brutality.' I he claims that Montreal and the 1976 Olympics are "too just wanted to help people, and this seemed like a good way far in the future," you can't help noticing the gleam in his to do it." blue eyes when the subject is mentioned. After graduating from the police academy and spending Currently in his final year at Cal State Long Beach, Tracy nearly two years on the force, Tracy made an interesting wants to make teaching and coaching his lifework. "Don't observation. He could still run a bit. misunderstand me. I thought the police department was Encouraged by the decreasing pain in his ankle, Smith great; but I love running, and this is where I feel I can do decided to leave crime fighting to that other famous Tracy the most good." and returned to competitive running once again. His efforts "Because of the difficult time I'd experienced off the in the Olympic trials, however, fell short of securing him track, I used to think I had nothing to offer anybody," says a place on the U.S. team for the 1972 Games in Munich. Tracy. "But that's not true anymore. I feel I can instill some Discouraged and still unsure of his future, Tracy became of the discipline I've learned into some of the young run- acquainted with Athletes in Action, a Christian organization, ners." and its director, Bob Price. Until he graduates, Smith is working as an assistant to
LISTEN, March, 1974 / 3 I love anything to do with the out-of-doors—camping, back- At the Crossroads packing, sailing, scuba diving." Bernice C. Heisler As far as diet goes, Smith's only requirement is to keep it well-balanced with plenty of protein from basic foods. "I'm no health nut." The deceivingly muscular 5' 11", 153- Life begins— pounder laughs at that idea. "I like my apple pie like every- body else." Certain things, says Smith, are out. Alcohol and Or begins to end— tobacco for starters. With choices made As for drugs, Tracy contends: "There are just too many At a crossroads. natural things in the world to make you happy. For me just being outdoors creates a euphoric state. How can drugs be as good as sailing, or seeing tall pines and clear lakes? "You know, I can understand why people take drugs though. When you are depressed and without any goals, it's easy to get down. I know. But God is with us, especially when we are feeling low. That's the big hurdle—overcome- ing our doubt that He's there." Although disciplined, Tracy Smith's training habits don't Dr. Jack Rose, head track coach at Cal State Long Beach. project stereotype of the Spartan runner. In fact, they may Laboring with the cross-country team in the fall and the seem downright unorthodox to most. When he's not busy track squad in the spring, Smith has proved that he indeed with classes or coaching, you'll find him in the high coun- has something to offer. try of California's rugged Sierra range, running along Dr. Rose recently told the Associated Press: "Tracy is scenic streams and trails. just the most super human being I've ever met. He's been A week before his record romp in New York, Smith was with us such a short time, and already every distance runner preparing with daily treks through the snows of Lake Tahoe. on the team has run a lifetime best. I don't know how he "I guess not many runners train like that." The tanned does it—he's incredible!" athlete shrugs his shoulders. "But I enjoy being alone in "I'm happy now," Smith says. "It seems like I'm always the mountains. It's a great feeling. Training is less of a the happiest when I'm achieving my goals. Right now I drudgery." just want to keep improving myself and concentrate on my Although Tracy's primary interest is running and work- vocational aims. I guess I'm finally learning not to let run- ing with the new breed of young runners, he says he has ning rule my life." become more aware of the world he lives in. Certain things, Running had always been the biggest thing in the life he admits, disturb him. of Tracy Smith, ever since he was 15 and a freshman at "Whether it's drinking, drugs, or just making luxury our Arcadia High School in southern California. He wanted to ideal, we all seem to be thinking too much of pleasure. A go out for football, but his parents discouraged it. Always lot of this comes from boredom, from not realizing the able to outlast his friends with his endurance, Tracy thought importance of our everyday tasks." he'd give track a try. After some encouragement, he entered Smith credits much of his turn around, on and off the a cross country race and won it by a full minute. He was track, to learning the value of patience and perseverance hooked. the last few years. "I'm more content now that I know I "After that, I told myself that I wanted to be the best don't have to win every race—it's not a life-and-death mat- runner in the world. I starting devoting all my energy ter anymore. It was so frustrating trying to expect imme- toward that goal." diate results to everything I set out to do." Tracy's first headline came in 1963 when he won a big Basically a shy individual, Smith has gained more self- race in the statewide high school championships. He later assurance as a result of the social side of international attended Oregon State on a track scholarship and proceeded competition. He now speaks before groups with confidence. to set back to back world indoor marks in the three-mile However, the real Tracy Smith is better mirrored in quiet, run. The twin record performances in 1967-68 earned him recessive ways. a trip to Mexico City as a member of the United States One must probe at length to learn that Smith finds time Olympic team. amid a full school load to work at a day camp for handi- Following the Games and a stint with the Army, Smith capped children. Or that he decided to move home for a had clearly established himself as one of the top runners few months last summer, not out of financial necessity, but in the world. "That's what made the injury doubly painful," because "it brings joy to my parents and myself to spend says Tracy. "Everything I had worked so hard for—to be time together." number one—was gone." "I've always tried to make my parents proud of me." One Smith's amazing comeback last year would have been glance at the ribbons and trophies hanging from the walls only a dream had Tracy failed to keep in condition during of his parents' Arcadia home, and you know Smith has the lull from competition. "Having a healthy body has accomplished yet another of his goals. always been something enjoyable to me," states the hand- Are there worlds left to conquer? Listen to Tracy tell some runner: "I love to wake up every morning with a long it: "As a coach, I can't very well ask my runners to do any- run. I make it my first priority of the day." thing I couldn't do myself, so I must stay in top condition, By the time most guys are reaching for the reset button right? And if I'm in shape, I don't see any reason why I on the alarm, Tracy is in the shower, cooling off after a can't push the world record for three miles to under 13 10-mile run. "I guess I've always been a hyperactive person. minutes."
LISTEN is published monthly by Pacific Press Publishing Association, 1350 Villa Street, Mountain View, California 94042. Second-class postage paid at Mountain View, California. Subscription price $6.00 a year. March, 1974. Through the Five-Day Plan to Stop Smok- ing, these commuters have found— A New Train of Thought
Dorothy Tymon
THERE was no puff, puff, puffing for five days on at least evening," added William Zoha, 46, a heating engineer, "but one of the cars of the Choo Choo train from Hunters Point apparently no more than the others. I am a veteran smoker to Port Jefferson, New York, while a group of commuters of 28 years. At various times I have made attempts to quit were going through the traumas of nicotine withdrawal. or cut down from two and a half packs a day, but it didn't Thirty-six cigarette-hooked lawyers, engineers, computer last. When I received the flyer announcing the course, programmers, and businessmen were determined that there which was distributed one morning at my railroad station, would be no ifs, ands, or butts for them any longer. I decided to make another try." This harried group caught their usual homebound train Seymour Frankel, 40, a marketing specialist, said, "Dur- at 6:04 p.m. for the more than one hour ride to the north ing the 22 years that I have been smoking, I had tried to shore of Long Island. They passed up the Smoking Car, the give it up on my own without success. I had never par- No Smoking Car, and boarded the "Stop Smoking" car to ticipated with a group before, and so decided to join." enroll in the Five-Day Plan to Stop Smoking offered free Frankel continued, "I was often edgy and tense during by Pastor Nikolaus Satelmajer and members of the Seventh- those first days, and wanted to sneak in just a few puffs, but day Adventist Church at Huntington, New York. This was the thought of admitting to the group that evening that I the first such clinic ever held on a commuter train. had cheated seemed worse than my desire to smoke. Instead, "It was the novelty of the idea that persuaded me to try I telephoned my commuter buddy, Patrick Duffy, with whom the program," said Wayne Green, 45, a public relations I had exchanged phone numbers. The brief conversation we man, who has been hooked on cigarettes for 25 years. had then and during succeeding days helped to relieve the "I admit I was nervous and even frightened that first pressure and gave us the support we both needed."
LISTEN, March, 1974 / 5 Commuters concentrate on the Five-Day Plan conducted on the North Shore Line of the Long Island Railroad.
The Five-Day Plan to Stop Smoking was offered on a car of the Long Island Railroad, which is specially outfitted with microphones, a film projector, and other equipment for use as a classroom. While riding back and forth to work, several hundred commuters are taking college courses con- ducted by professors from Ade1phi University of Garden City, New York. Mathew Kiernan and his Edu-Tran, Inc., who originated the idea of the train of thought, is donating the space and time between semesters to community service programs, with the objective of better utilization of commuting time. Because of the high rate of success of the Five-Day Plan, Kiernan is making arrangements with Pastor Satelmajer to offer the railroad clinic to commuters more frequently. At least 65 percent of those who enrolled in the plan on the train abandoned their addiction, and a follow-up after sev- eral months disclosed that none of them had fallen by the wayside. More than a hundred letters and phone calls have requested a repeat of the program. At the first session each smoker put his partially emptied pack of cigarettes into the bag that was passed around. Milton Cooper, a 23-year smoker, kissed his pack of Pall Malls affectionately before they disappeared, and, together with the others took the vow, "I choose not to smoke." Each one then signed a pocket-size pledge card, which said in part, "I hereby choose to cease smoking from this day for- ward." In the lower left-hand corner is a blank space for a "Decision Date." As each one wrote the date, one member "If you want to stop smoking, here are some sugges- jokingly asked if the date could be erased later. tions," says Pastor Nikolaus Satelmajer, local Five- "There are certain types of foods and drinks that intensify Day Plan director.
6 / LISTEN, March, 1974 a craving for a cigarette," Satelmajer told the group; "so one of the things you must do is to change your diet start- ing with tonight's supper. If you drink coffee, eat spicy foods, or take an alcoholic drink this week, you may fail the course you have pledged to take." A Five-Day Plan pocket manual was distributed, and each participant read the diet musts: 1. For you, it is fruit and more fruit, at least for the first twenty-four hours. Fruit helps clean the body system. If you feel famished and cannot get through the evening without something else, you can have soup, salad (prefer- ably without dressing), cottage cheese, wheat toast, and milk. 2. For breakfast, start with a glass of warm water or warm lemonade. Taking in large quantities of water and juices aids in flushing out the nicotine residue from the body. This regimen, if followed rigorously, takes about five days to cleanse the system. You can have orange, grapefruit, or tomato juice. You may eat boiled eggs (no pepper ), fresh or stewed fruit, and toast. NO COFFEE. If you must have a hot drink, then substi- tute Postum or cereal beverages. 3. During office coffee breaks, drink fruit juice or milk. 4. Avoid condiments on your food at lunch because they are not your friends. "Maybe some of you should stick to this diet more than "How many haven't had a cigarette since last night?" five days," observed Satelmajer as he eyed several bulging E. L. Taylor assists Pastor Satelmajer with the Five- middles. Day Plan.
Sam Cipri, 34, of Dix Hills said that this was the first time he had heard of the necessity to drink warm water or that coffee and spicy foods stimulated the craving for to- bacco. He explained the program to his wife, and that first night she joined in taking the pledge to cease smoking. Because of her cooperation in the preparation of meals, both succeeded in getting rid of the nicotine habit. Another important feature of the plan is to help the smoker change habits bound to bring on the craving. Don't linger at the dinner table, but get up immediately, or the urge to smoke will get you. Don't plop down in your favor- ite chair. Create a new habit and take a walk after each meal, if possible, but particularly after supper. Breathe deeply. As a matter of fact, since deep breathing helps tremen- dously, this should be done numerous times throughout the day. If during the day the urge comes upon you, stop what- ever you are doing and take four or five deep breaths. Then repeat the pledge to yourself, "I choose not to smoke." The four-year-old daughter of William Rishcynski was surprised when right after supper one night her dad asked her to take a walk with him, but she excitedly ran for her coat. They had great fun walking down the streets, looking at the stores, stopping to chat with someone or being fol- lowed by a neighborhood dog. Although it has been several months since he stopped smoking, the evening walk has become a regular part of Rishcynski's life, and it has brought Dr. Thor Bakland, of the New York State University him and his daughter closer together. health faculty, talks about the effects of smoking on The pocket manual advises that a lukewarm bath or the body. shower be taken before retiring and another in the morn-
LISTEN, March, 1974 / 7 ing. This tends to reduce the craving. Further more, bath- The most zealous affirmation of the well-known Five- ing tends to relax the nerves. Day Plan conducted by the Seventh-day Adventist Church "How was your first day?" asked the soft-spoken pastor comes from Attorney James A. Murphy, who has been on the second night of the train program. invited to speak before numerous fraternal and community "It was hellish," confided one man, "but there was no organizations. smoke." "After 35 years of smoking up to three packs a day," he "The afternoon was the worst for me," said another, "and says, "I finally found a system that works. At times I have for the first time since I have been commuting, I couldn't tried analysts, psychologists, psychiatrists, hypnotists, and wait to board this train." was enrolled in a program called Smoke Watchers. None None of these men had been left isolated during that helped. The theory of a gradual reduction proposed by first 24 hours. As part of the program, Satelmajer's wife Smoke Watchers was a disaster for me. Neither were we Ruth telephoned as many of the participants as she could given specific things to do or provided with the props reach during the day. In some cases she left messages with which I feel are so important at the beginning. Neither their wives or secretaries. could I afford four years time or $35 an hour for the "The key thing," says Ruth Satelmajer, "is that the crav- psychiatrist. ing for a cigarette lasts no more than three minutes. So it "I am no longer a slave to a habit. I am in control. I do is necessary to divert their minds for that period of time. everything I did before and do not lead an artificial life. Equally important, you have to give a little moral support, For the first time in 35 years, I am very proud to say, I have because a man may be watching a hundred persons in his not smoked for three months since I took this five-day pro- office smoking during the day. I feel that my job of calling gram, nor do I even want to. every day to keep in touch is very significant." "Essentially, I feel that the pastor and his wife sincerely "We feel that if stop-smoking pledges can get people cared about me and my efforts to break the habit. The plan, over the hump of the third day, the chances are good they devised and carried out for the past ten years by the Sev- will make it," stated Statelmajer. "That is when my wife enth-day Adventist Church, makes a lot of sense. It is prac- and I intensify our contact with each individual. They also tical, direct, gives confidence, and, best of all, it works." have our telephone number and are free to call us day or A member of the department of psychology from Ade1phi night, and many have done so." University has been in touch with Pastor Satelmajer and When pressures mount up on the job and the hand asked his cooperation in conducting some studies concern- moves toward the cigarette pocket, Stop! Take several deep ing behavior and smoking. breaths. Repeat your decision. The urge will disappear. The Human Resources Center of Albertson, New York, William Girard, Henry Muhr, and the other grim-faced has requested help in setting up a similar program to be men listened attentively to Dr. Thor Bakland, from the given at their center. State University health faculty, while he discussed the Six weeks after the nonpuffing Choo Choo program effects of smoking on the body. ended, Pastor Satelmajer and Ruth prepared a buffet supper "Only the dummy smokes," he began, pointing to life- at the Huntington Church for the proud graduates, their size Smoking Sam—a mannequin—cigarette dangling from wives and children. his mouth. "The chances of Smoking Sam dying from lung "We now sleep better, think more clearly, feel less tired, cancer is 700 percent greater than it will be for those of taste our food, and save money," chorused the new members you who chose to cease smoking," continued the doctor. of Nonsmokers International. One man slouched down in his seat and cringed as the Everyone, though, is frustrated because no one has yet doctor held up two large color photographs showing a been able to locate Scott, the writer of the following letter, healthy lung and one riddled and destroyed by cancer. who neglected to include his address: Tar and nicotine invade the thousands of air sacs in the "Dear Pastor Satelmajer, lungs. As the tar residues continue to build up in the air "I was very interested in the article that was written passages over a number of years, they begin to change the about your helping people to stop smoking. surface cells of their air passages. The cells increase in "I am fifteen years old, and I participate in school athletic number and after a few years lung cancer often appears. By activities. Unfortunately, I started smoking before I became the time a diagnosis finally confirms the presence of lung interested in sports. I have many friends, and also my par- cancer, the disease has usually spread beyond control.That is ents, that smoke regularly. why lung cancer proves 95 percent fatal. "I was wondering if you would be kind enough to send "I showed some of those pictures to a couple of the me any excess literature on the way you help people to stop fellows on the job," related Paul Shirrman, a 37-year-old smoking. Thank you very much. telephone installation man, who had been smoking since "Sincerely, he was 15. "The face of one guy actually turned white, and ( signed) "Scott Bonessi" he angrily threw almost a full pack into a nearby trash can." At the final session of the commuter Five-Day Plan to The Five-Day Stop Smoking Plan is conducted Stop Smoking, 23 men felt they were on the right track. periodically. Thus, anyone who wants to become a There was a visible change in their facial expressions and quitter, may contact the Seventh-day Adventist a friendly, more relaxed attitude. Six of the original regis- Church anywhere in the world. Inquiries about the trants were away on business trips and seven had quit the program may also be made by writing to a central course. office at P.O. Box 4390, Washington, D.C. 20012.
8 / LISTEN, March, 1974 Dear LISTEN: My son brought home a magazine from school today titled LISTEN. I was glancing through it and happened to read the editorial. I am so happy to find that the public is finally finding out that the biggest drug problem today is not pills or marijuana but alcohol. I should know. I'm an alcoholic. I'm luckier than a lot of people. I finally went into a treatment center 17 months ago, and thanks to God and Alcoholics Anonymous I'm still sober today. I can hardly understand these people that wouldn't touch "dope" but will pour alcohol down by the quarts, and insist it can't hurt them. I know what it can do; I was drinking a fifth of liquor a day just before I went into the treat- *de to Habitual ment center. I didn't start out to be an alcoholic; I drank because it made me feel like I was just as important as anyone else, and it was an easy way to Trippers escape from reality. I am 30 years old, and from the time I was 26 to 28 years A butterfly under a distorted sky old I hardly drew a sober breath. Hitting wildly I am thankful to be alive and sober, and I hope that the young people will Higher, higher, in a maze realize what a powerful drug alcohol is. Reaching desperately Toward the sun. Peggy Robinson Always a little out of reach, Fairmont, Minnesota It scorches him in its fury And blinds his senseless eyes That, nonetheless, gaze upward In his fright. Pain wracks his body. His mind wallows in a pool of terror; He clutches my hand tighter, Bob Anastas For his mind cannot understand Why he is so afraid, Why his blinded eyes are burning, Answer Or why it hurts him so. The acid in his brain Won't let him be. Yet upward still he flies Till his very wings are blazing, And he can go no longer. With a scream of helpless anguish, He falls. Crumpled in a corner, he is now
His wingsstill are broken And his spirit is shattered. Yet, he wishes for the acid again, For his mind cannot understand Why the world of reality is as "Dad, will you blow this balloon up real painful to him Are people more crea- big for me, like you did for the policeman As the world of hallucinations tive under the influence the other night?" and dreams. of LSD? I think people really feel they are more crea- tive. Whether they actu- ally are or not is very difficult to determine. A lot of studies have com- pared the creative capa- bilities of an individual before and after LSD ex- periences, and there are no significant changes in the individual. You might feel more creative, there- fore giving you some sort of creativity to express. An old saying states that creativity is 90 percent With the gasoline shortage it's hard to get a tiger in the tank these days, but perspiration and only 10 a lion on the bumper can provide a little extra push. This tourist's car gets percent inspiration. playful attention from a lioness at Lion Country Safari.
LISTEN, March, 1974 / 9 A Way of Knowing Yoursel
PHLEGMATIC--Once you get her up and moving, keep her going."
DO YOU know of a family with four children where discover the reasons for these differences. They are four all the kids are different from one another? You would different personality types. Linda is a phlegmatic—kind, think that being raised in the same environment, born of sympathetic, and easygoing, but also lacking in motivation, the same parents, would make them more alike than differ- with a definite trend to be lazy. Her dad has always said of ent. But quite often the opposite is true. her: "Once you get her up and moving, keep her going." The Johnson family is a good example. Linda, 18, is He's right. This is the right way to treat this kind of person. cool, calm, and easygoing. "Sometimes I think all Linda His or her motto is: "What doesn't get done today can be has on her mind is fun and games—and boys!" her mother taken care of tomorrow." Procrastinators are almost always said of her through high school. Around the house, if it this type of guy or gal. weren't a school day, Linda would get up later than everyone Debbie is directly opposite—a choleric girl. What does else. It was a real chore to motivate her to help with house- hold or lawn chores, even to clean her own room. Her sister, Debbie, 16, gets into gear first thing in the CHOLERIC---She's not bashful about morning, and the family call her their "human dynamo." expressing her opinions." She not only helps around home, but gets straight A's on her report card, and plays the piano. She's good at sports too. Debbie is ambitious, even though the rest of the fam- ily is more lackadaisical. John at 14 is already a deep thinker—a quiet guy. He'll sacrifice his own grades to help his younger brother Billy with his homework. Small wonder. Billy already loves other people, not only his friends at school, but almost everyone. In a word, this kid bubbles. He's lively, outgoing, optimistic, and enthusiastic. He doesn't make the best grades or have too many impressive accomplishments—except one. Every- body loves him, and he loves them right back! If the Johnson kids were to study psychology, they would
10 / LISTEN, March, 1974 this mean? Mainly, that she's a real go-getter. The name Afterward, he may feel genuinely sorry about this habit and "human dynamo" suits her well. She has dogged determina- wish he could break it. What he is more likely to do is to tion and will try harder and longer to succeed than most pick quiet persons for friends—perhaps melancholy or a other kids. She has an easy time making big decisions, and phlegmatic. Two friends who complement each other can she's not bashful about expressing her opinions. Her dad become a great team and really "swing" together. The secret won't be surprised if she goes in for Women's Lib because is for them to appreciate rather than disparage these natural she's so independent. Self-sufficient is another word that differences. describes her to a tee. Both of these two personality types I'm one of those sensitive, sacrificial, melancholy types. have one thing in common—they are quite unemotional. Guess who I'm attracted to? You're right—an outgoing, Linda once said: "Deb and I are about as emotional as a lively sanguine person fascinates me. Most of my closest couple of clams!" friends and favorite people are of this type. Through the The other two personality types are highly emotional. years I've gravitated to gregarious persons. They draw me John, the deep thinker, is the melancholy type. He analyzes out, liven me up—and this is good. every move he plans to make, also his friends and his fam- Yet they tell me I inspire them to try to better them- ily, almost everything and everyone. This boy always thinks selves, to do something with their lives. So, while their before he acts. He's a perfectionist. That's why he keeps fun-loving, outgoing nature rubs off on me, my serious his room immaculate, and all his dresser drawers are in ideas often hit home when I talk to them. We have talked perfect order. Of course he's critical of Linda and the way about this and feel we are mutually good for one another. she keeps her room! And he's moody. One day he's soaring Most people are predominantly one of these four basic around in the heights, really riding Cloud Nine. The next personalities. Yet they are most likely a blend of two or day he's drowning in the depths of gloom. three types, even all four. Study yourself and you'll see that Little Brother Billy is the eternal optimist. Seldom does a certain type seems to describe you best. If you try for anything or anyone get him down. And if adversity does big things, such as president of a prominent club, you are strike, it's not long before he's all smiles again. Billy has no doubt a choleric. This type never stops being ambitious about six close buddies, not just one. He'd have more if —it pushes, rather than plods, through life. he figured he had time for them. Even when he gets older, If you have a hard time getting going ( if you lack a his friends will probably say: "Bill's as exuberant as a self-starter), you are probably a phlegmatic. This one child!" That how the sanguine personality appears. nearly always lacks initiative and tends to lean on someone There you have it! Four basic personality types. Perhaps else. He's carefree, and usually careless. But his relaxed you can now see why you get along with some people easier way of living can give him a long life. than with others. A loud, aggressive, goal-centered choleric If you love to ponder about the meaning of life, if you're seldom keeps from getting irritated with his slow-moving, good with figures and keep records (even a diary ), and if lackadaisical phlegmatic friends. Yet unmotivated people you willingly sacrifice for others, you've got to be a melan- find it hard to understand those in high gear. Still these two choly. This is a sensitive, emotional nature given to broad opposite types are often attracted to each other. mood swings. But this individual is more dependable. Why? If Miss Happy (a sanguine) dates a Mr. Sad, there can He always takes life seriously. What he or she is not is a be trouble as well. Once again, two direct opposites are fun-and-games person! attracted to each other. Hopefully, the sanguine's natural If you, however, go out for sports, have a tendency to be optimism might rub off on the sad, analytical partner. Of the "life of the party," and are warm and responsive, you course, a melancholy person is more dependable than anyone are a delightful sanguine personality. Just make sure your else and that's worth a lot. Remember, too, this girl or boy enthusiasm doesn't lead you to talk too much or carry on a will make personal sacrifices for his friends, whereas the monologue. Frank and outspoken, if this is not overdone, other types may be more self-centered. you disarm people, and they really open up with you. One reason opposite types attract is that they long to be Each of these types has virtues and vices. The secret is different, in many ways, than they are. For instance, as much to play up the good points and work on the flaws. But as people love sanguine people, this extroverted type does mainly, knowing about these various types will help you tend to dominate conversations and speak before he thinks. understand other human beings better. 000