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14 40 37 ESTATE NEWS HOmE frONT Message from the Dainfern engel & Völkers: Property values 25 Homeowners association 4 In Conversation with Victor Lidchi 29 ESTATE LiviNg LifESTYLE fOr KiDS From the golf Pro 6 The smile Foundation: expats Morning at One smile at a Time 40 the Business exchange 8 October Craft Market 13 LifESTYLE Dainfern Running Club 14 The silver Lining at azaura 37 Dainfern JKa Karate 18 Fitness with Marlaina: Dainfern College 20 Boost your Metabolism 44 Rachel Lynch: TrAvEL Work Wear for summer 46 Florida Highlights 33 Life Talk: The Legacy of suicide 49 Book Reviews 52 OuT & AbOuT High Tea at the Palazzo, Montecasino 22

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Message FROM THE HOMEOWNERS ASSOCIATION A CALL FOR INPUT FROM OUR YOUTH Be a part of the solution

ainfern Golf and Country Estate has matured since • Youth Section in the Sports Clubs (Running, Cycling etc) its inception some 23 years back. Many families • Talent exposure chose this Estate as an ideal and safe environment • Outings (Paintball etc) in which to raise their young children. These • An Auditorium – a centre of celebration Doriginal children have since matured into teenagers and • Art Studio young adults and we are seeing that there’s a need for new • Organisation of Camps facilities to be introduced to the Estate to meet the changing • Discos dynamics of our community. There are so many positive experiences that can come out of establishing a Youth Forum for our community and we A few of the stakeholders and service providers of the Estate encourage all teenagers, parents and children to put forward have met to brainstorm how best to provide solutions, but their ideas and requests. This is the foundation stage – an it soon became obvious that any plans made would be excellent place to establish what will work and what won’t. meaningless unless there was input from the very people who We would also like to encourage anyone who would like to put are in need of these new facilities. The plans should not only themselves forward to be on a Youth Committee to send your be made in consultation with the youth but, in fact, be led by a name, age and contact details to Lynn Muller of the Dainfern Youth Committee. Homeowners Association.

A survey amongst some of our children has revealed a wish list It’s nearing the end of the year, we know, and exams and the – these are some of the items that they felt would add meaning winding down of the school year will be taking up much of your to their lives: time. But we encourage you to give some thought to what you • A place to do supervised homework would like to have introduced to your neighbourhood that could • Computer Centre enhance your life and the life of our community. • Library • Pool table, Ping pong (table tennis), Fuzeball If you have any suggestions, feel free to email them to Lynn • Music Studio Muller at: [email protected]

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6 DAINFERN WWW.CHASEVERITT.CO.ZA Estate Living By Bev Hermanson

Expats welcomed to Dainfern

It was a well-oiled collaboration of service providers ably co-ordinated by Samantha Weir of the Business Exchange and Laura Powell of the Dainfern Homeowners Association that resulted in yet another successful gathering of ladies at the beginning of October.

eld at the Business Exchange in the Dainfern Clubhouse, this get-together was arranged to welcome new Expats to the HDainfern community. Nicola Leitch acted as MC for the occasion and each service provider present was able to spend 3 minutes explaining what it is that they do and how residents can utilise their services.

Looking at the list of activities and services available to Residents, it’s no wonder that Expats choose Dainfern as the preferred estate to stay in while they are in SA.

Here’s a summary of what’s on offer in this prestigious lifestyle haven: MC, Nicola Leitch (left) with Laura Powell Renée Stalbaum of Kid Vantage ADMINISTRATION AND of the Dainfern Homeowners Assn. Academy and Kid Vantage Express. COMMUNICATIONS • Visitor access codes, DHA communications & newsletters – Laura Powell – 011 875 0492 – [email protected] • Business Exchange – Samantha Weir – 011 469 5013 – [email protected] • Dainfern Magazine – Bev Hermanson – [email protected]

Lyle Bishop and Shaskia Singh of Meat by Reservation talk about the Functions and Catering at the Peter Dickinson of the Dainfern Squash Clubhouse. Club and Pete’s Cars.

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CATERING & ESTATE SERVICES • Functions / Clubhouse catering queries – Lyle & Shaskia from Meat by Reservation Interior Designer, – 011 875 0488 or 063 176 1752 Bonolo Moloi – [email protected] shows off some • Kid Vantage Express transport service of her mood – Renee – 011 024 6804 or boards. 082 594 7528 – [email protected] • Peaches & Cream – Colin – 011 469 3900 or 082 300 9134 – [email protected] • Interior Design – Bonolo Moloi – 082 935 5896 – [email protected] • Sourcing and Selling Vehicles for Expats – Pete’s Cars – 084 549 7540 – www.petescars.co.za, [email protected]

CULTURAL ACTIVITIES • The Posthouse Art Gallery - Debbie van der Plank – 072 658 2207 – [email protected] – www.posthousegallery.co.za • Chess – Goforchess - Clive Wolpe – 061 034 2885 – exchangingpower@ gmail.com – www.goforchessnow.com • Art Classes – Jenny Strong – 083 265 8337 – [email protected] Clive Wolpe talks about his Debbie van der Plank of The Posthouse Gallery EDUCATION Chess classes. talks about the artworks on display at the Business • Studio Talk (English lessons) – Pam Exchange and the services that she offers. – [email protected] – www.studiotalk.co.za • Kumon Maths - Kathryn Warmback – 082 857 5319

Marylene Cabal (centre) with a colleague talking about their yoga lessons, Samantha Weir of the Business Jenny Strong talks about her art classes. Kathryn Warmback talks about her Exchange in the background. Kumon Maths lessons.

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sPORTs & FITNess • Golf Club – Vanessa Comrie (Golf secretary) – 011 875 0400 – vanessa@ dainfern.co.za • Golf Pro Shop – Ed Holding – 011 469 0040 – [email protected] • JKA Karate Dainfern – Bernard Buys (5th Dan, JKa) – 083 709 9289 – [email protected] • Pilates – Tracey Daniels – 082 894 6096 – [email protected] • Tennis – Duane Armstrong – Armstrong Tennis academy – 082 456 5441 – [email protected] Duane Armstrong of the Armstrong • Squash – Peter Dickinson – 084 549 7540 Tennis Academy. – [email protected] Sensei Bernard Buys and Sempai • Yoga – Marylene Cabal – Marlaina Balaban of the JKA Karate [email protected] Dainfern Dojo. – Kresta 074 260 0360 • Modern and Tap dancing lessons – Kim Rosenberg – 082 330 1732 • Hip Hop, Latin Ballroom, Salsa & Contemporary Dancing Lessons – David Morake – 011 077 0999 HAS WON THE ESTATE AGENT INDUSTRY AWARD FOR – [email protected] • Dainfern Running Club – Wendy Wood – [email protected] • Dainfern Lions Football Club – Nic Papas – [email protected] – or allison – 072 448 9309 BEST CUSTOMER – [email protected]

sPIRITUaL UPLIFTMeNT Wendy Wood of the Dainfern Running • Dainfern Fellowship adult Sunday Club. service – Pastor Willem – David Morake gives Hip Hop, Latin SERVICE! [email protected] Ballroom, Salsa & Contemporary • Funky Adventures Sunday School – Dancing Lessons. Pastor Natalie – dainfernfellowship@ Ask Afrika’s Orange Index® benchmark is the most comprehensive, longest running service gmail.com excellence benchmark in South Africa. This year is the ﬁrst time that the real estate category • DYC – Dainfern Fellowship Youth Club – [email protected] has been included in this index, with Seeff being awarded 1st place for “best customer • Bible Study – Becci Monge - service” in the category for 2014-2015. [email protected]

NaTURe • Dainfern Nature Association – Monica Condy (Chairlady) – 082 459 1539 – secretary: Linda Munro – [email protected] Call our Dainfern specialists:

We would like to welcome all expat families and new residents to Dainfern. We hope Becci Monge hosts the Dainfern you will enjoy your time here. Fellowship Ladies Bible Study mornings. Sales: www.seeff.com | smart move Rentals:

For more information about booking functions at the Business exchange, contact Pastor Natalie talks about Dainfern Riki Scruton Kerry Engelbrecht samantha Weir on 011 469 5013 or email: [email protected]. Fellowship, Nicola Leitch in the 082 558 5086 | 011 467 3233 071 966 8462 | 011 467 3233 background. [email protected] [email protected]

10 DAiNfErN HAS WON THE ESTATE AGENT INDUSTRY AWARD FOR BEST CUSTOMER SERVICE! Ask Afrika’s Orange Index® benchmark is the most comprehensive, longest running service excellence benchmark in South Africa. This year is the ﬁrst time that the real estate category has been included in this index, with Seeff being awarded 1st place for “best customer service” in the category for 2014-2015.

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October Craft Market Beautiful jewellery, paintings, handmade gift items and organic soaps and skin care were on offer at Nathalie’s October Craft Market.

wice a year, Nathalie Schuurman of Hempton Avenue holds an open house craft market at her home. Last Tmonth saw a display of paintings by Lene Poelmans, Shwe Shwe Poppis Christmas Decorations Natalie Lambert and the Shwe Shwe Poppies represented by Natalie Lambert, Be Happy organic soaps and skin care products presented by Dominique Phohleli, crochet bags and accessories by Aiko and jewellery and Christmas decorations by Nathalie Jewellery Design.

A percentage of the proceeds from Lene Poelmans’ sales of her paintings was donated to Mother of Peace Communities and the proceeds from the sale of the Shwe Shwe Poppis benefit the kids of the Zola Creche in Soweto.

For more information about these craft markets, email Nathalie Schuurman at [email protected]. Nathalie Schuurman, organiser of the Lene Poelmans with her paintings. Craft Market.

Nathalie Jewellery Design. Be Happy presented by Dominique Phohleli.

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Running with your best friend Your dog might be your ultimate training partner – most dogs are willing to fit in with your schedule, have boundless energy and won’t cancel on you at the last minute. All dogs need exercise – just like humans, it keeps them healthy, and there is nothing like a wet nose in your face to motivate you out of bed for a pre-dawn start.

Six tips for tail-wagging training

t is in both your best interests to and drag him out for a trot, is that he can’t child to run 10km with you, so don’t ensure that your furry training buddy breathe. Literally. Dogs with short noses expect that from your puppy either. You is getting as much pleasure from the and flat faces generally have very narrow shouldn’t run a puppy until it has reached partnership as you are. Just as you nostrils and cannot take in enough skeletal maturity which, depending on the Itake care of yourself by watching your fresh air to keep up with the demands breed, could be anything from 7 months nutrition and having your shoes matched of strenuous exercise. They are better to 2 years. As a general rule, the larger to your running style, there are a few suited to long strolls. Dog breeds suited the breed, the longer it takes. If you considerations that will keep your pooch to running are the short-haired, larger know your breed well, you will have that happy and injury free. breed and long-snouted sorts. Dogs that information but if you are unsure, you were bred for running are the obvious should visit your vet just to be safe. In #1 - MAKE SURE YOUR choice. It’s a good idea to research your the meantime, you can continue with its DOG IS A RUNNER breed if you are intending to run with your obedience training and socialization, two Not all dogs are born to run. Just as dog. important traits in any running companion some humans are genetically built to (furry or not). Just as we encourage be better runners than others, the same #2 - PUPPIES ARE NOT ‘free-play’ in our children, the same goes can be said of dogs. What your little pug JUST SMALL DOGS for puppies. Allowing them to play and actually wants to tell you when you try You would not expect your 3-year-old run in grassy areas will start to prepare

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their cardiovascular system without putting undue strain on their developing skeleton. #3 - DOGS NEED TRAINING, JUST LIKE US You can’t expect your dog to immediately be able to keep up with your training programme. They may give the impression that they have boundless energy, but that does not necessarily translate to an easy 10km on tar roads. Your loyal friend may very well keep up with you, even if he is tired, HOW but you need to TO TAKE keep an eye YOUR DOG’S on how his PULSE body and Put your hand on the inside of the especially his feet and hind leg, kind of in the ‘armpit’ and feel pads are for a pulse. A normal heart rate for a handling it. dog is anything between 80 and 140 There are beats per minute. It’s a good idea numerous to establish what is normal for training your dog before you start programmes running. Shaka, the Rhodesian available online and from breeders Ridgeback, is the one and only and, again, the programme should be suited to the type of dog. Honorary Canine member of The general rule of thumb is: build up distance slowly, monitoring the dog’s Dainfern Running Club. Shaka recovery in between runs, and increase and his training partner Barbara either pace or distance, but never both at the same time. Mulcahy have been members #4 - WATCH THE WEATHER of the club since 2006. They In South Africa, the obvious weather hazard is overheating. Not only should regularly ran the time trial in the you be concerned about the ambient club’s infancy, before the route temperature, but if you are running on tar roads you owe it to your dog to ensure was even along the golf course! that he doesn’t burn his pads. If you cannot hold your finger to the tar for more Barbara credits Shaka with much of the motivation than 20 seconds without discomfort, then and support she needed while training for her first two it is too hot for your dog. Making sure he Comrades Marathons. The pair could often be spotted has enough drinking water en route is a setting off on a training run along Broadacres Drive in must. the wee hours of the morning and Shaka became well known to the regular morning pedestrians. #5 - HEALTHY INSIDE, HAPPY OUTSIDE In his peak, Shaka would run between 60-70km per Just as we watch our nutrition to support week with Barbara. His longest run ever was 30km. our running, we owe the same to our This is no mean feat, but being a Ridgeback, he was dogs. Dogs have different energy perfectly suited for the job. dynamics to humans because they are furrier, have different muscle structure and bowel habits. If your dog is running Despite his greying jowls, at 11-and-a-half he is still an for more than 30 minutes continuously impressive sight. Faithfully, he still goes out for a short per day then you should consider looking trot a few times a week. Barbara’s advice is to let the more closely at his diet. A dog’s primary dog set the pace. That way you won’t over-train your fuel during exercise is from fats, so dog and he will get the benefit of the time he spends discuss a higher fat diet with your vet. keeping you company. Energy bars and gels are certainly not

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the optimum fuel for your dog on the run. You may also want to consider a supplement for joint health, something containing glucosamine and chondroitin. A vet check-up is a good way to ensure your dog’s joints are in the necessary shape to run – screening for hip dysplasia or luxating patellas is the responsible thing to do.

#6 – MANNERS MAKETH MAN (AND DOG) Dog faeces in the tread of one’s running shoes is sure to spoil any runner’s day, so be considerate of other runners using the roads and don’t allow your dog to soil there - or make sure you clean up after him. Ideally, for the comfort of your dog, yourself and any other runners that you may come across, your dog should run close to you, on a slack leash and be obedient at all times. This is not the time for him to be charging off after rabbits or birds as it could be dangerous to both of you. Some dogs are better suited to short chases and retrieval, and these dogs are better exercised in ‘off-leash’ parks and dog runs.

We are fortunate to live in a place where we can safely run with our dogs. Running can be a great way to bond with your faithful hound and keep both of you healthy at the same time. Just remember, his safety and well-being is in your hands.

Happy running to you and your best friend.

For more information about the Dainfern Running Club please contact Wendy-Ann Wood at [email protected].

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JKA All Africa Karate Championships

Dainfern karate Champions of Africa: The Dainfern JKA karate students have their first participants who represented South Africa taste of international competition.

he SA JKA Karate Association had the privilege of hosting the inaugural JKA All Africa Karate Championships on the 26th of TSeptember 2015 at the Standard Bank Arena in Johannesburg. The countries that participated included Angola, Botswana, DRC, Egypt, Namibia, Nigeria, Swaziland, Tanzania, Zambia, Zimbabwe, and of course, South Africa.

The JKA All Africa Karate Championships included junior divisions in both kata and kumite from nine years upwards. The senior divisions attracted good participation from the other African countries and the Sensei Bernard Buys flanked from left to right by (back) Sempai Marlaina Balaban, team events provided an exciting finale Taylor Francis and Chenika Bukes; (front) Kiara Rodrigues and Kema Rugara to this historic first JKA All Africa Karate Championships. For the Dainfern JKA January 2016 intake for Dainfern JKA karate students chosen to represent karate is limited to 10 students only. South Africa, this was their first The results of the team events were as follows: Please phone to secure your space by exposure to international competition. contacting Sensei Bernard Buys on The students selected all started karate 083 709 9289 or Marlaina Balaban on Ladies Unison Kata: as complete white belts in 2010, which 084 506 2424. makes this a huge achievement to 1st – South Africa make it to the JKA All Africa Karate 2nd – Botswana Championships at such a young age. Mens Unision Kata: “This is the great thing about karate,” 1st – South Africa comments Bernard Buys, Sensei of the 2nd – Botswana SA JKA Karate Dainfern Dojo. “It gives 3rd – Zimbabwe students an opportunity to represent their country from a young age – they don’t Ladies Team Kumite: have to wait to finish school before they 1st – Botswana can compete internationally.” 2nd – South Africa 3rd – Botswana Kema Rugara of Dainfern JKA karate managed to win two bronze medals for Mean Team Kumite: her country. A magnificent achievement 1st – South Africa indeed. Well done to Kema and all our 2nd – Angola Dainfern karate stars, who made their Joint 3rd – DRC & Zimbabwe country and parents proud.

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Professional JKA instruction Promotes coordination & physical fitness

Classes: Wednesday & Friday afternoons Venue: The Pavilion Dainfern Golf & Country Estate

Contact: Bernard Buys 083 709 9289 Marlaina Balaban 084 506 2424 [email protected]

Bernard Buys (5th Dan, JKA) 18 SA JKA (Dainfern, Blair Atholl & Copperleaf) DAiNfErN LIFDAESTYLEINFERN COLLEGE

Beyond the curriculum

Dainfern College believes strongly in the value of activities that extend pupils beyond the confines of the traditional academic curriculum. In addition to an extensive and varied extramural programme that encompasses sporting, cultural and service activities, the College also has a diverse co-curricular programme in place that provides pupils with a well-rounded education beyond the classroom. High School students visit the Art of the Brick expo

rom Grade 0 upwards, the Junior Preparatory pupils go on outings to theatre productions, expos and museums. The Fourways Vet visit Fis always a big hit with the Grade 0s as is the circus experience for the Grade 2s. Visitors to the school also enrich the pupils’ experiences, from the miracle of watching a chick hatch from an egg to enjoying farmyard visits, puppet shows and book Don Krausz, Holocaust survivor speaks presentations. to High School students One of the highlights in the Grade 3 year is the “I CAN Challenge”, an enrichment programme that supports multiple intelligences. The children are encouraged to participate in all sorts of activities ranging from science experiments to deciphering codes. Once the challenge has been successfully completed the children proudly receive their “I CAN Challenge” certificate. Grade 0 animal farmyard visit Grade 3 I CAN challenge Senior Preparatory pupils enjoy participating in similar outings as well as going on the annual Grade camps. The Grade 6 and 7 pupils also have a dedicated ‘Enrichment Week’ where they embark on a journey of self-discovery, peer-discovery and community discovery.

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This year, the Grade 6s explored the theme of ‘I am, therefore I can’ and ended the programme with a Market Day where they selected a particular cause or charity close to their hearts. The children sold food and created games relating to their cause, charity or service and raised an amazing R21 130 for the various charities. The Grade 7s were exposed to the world of Senior Prep enrichment - making beaded finance with their theme of ‘Money, money, braclets that symbolise ourselves money’ and several budding entrepreneurs were discovered in their version of the ‘Dragon’s Den’ activity.

The High School also has an academic enrichment programme in place for the Grade 8s and 9s. This is a fun, rewarding and academically sound programme where students discover the wealth Grade 0 visit to Fourways Vet of knowledge that can be gained from Grade 6 Market Day success alternative and sometimes unconventional learning opportunities. Numerous speakers visit throughout the year and all the High School students embark on a timetable- free day for which academic outings and activities are planned. This is a wonderful opportunity for subject-specific outings to galleries, museums and botanical gardens and the Grade 11s are given an opportunity to visit a local varsity.

Dainfern College certainly lives up to its promise of “a world of education … an education for the world.”

Contact Kathryn Dornan for further information about Dainfern College: [email protected] or 011 469 0635. Grade 7 entrepreneurs

High School art gallery visit A visit from Fireman Etienne

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High Tea at the Palazzo High Tea is not only for ladies of leisure. It’s a useful option for meetings, too, as this popular pastime is intended to be savoured over at least an hour or two.

eferred to by the upper classes in Britain as afternoon Tea, where a selection of delectable treats and gourmet-style savouries are served with Ran exotic choice of teas, socialites here prefer to call it High Tea as this event is normally celebrated with much pomp and splendour.

High Tea at the luxurious Palazzo Hotel at Montecasino is a grand affair, to be sure. sitting out on the terrace under gazebos, you get to gaze over their beautiful gardens, listen to the soothing sounds of their fountains and you may even be visited by their resident peacocks, or at least be mesmerized by their haunting cries.

The service is attentive, yet discreet. You are offered a choice of the popular teas and coffees while their sweet and savoury delicacies are brought over with a fl ourish.

The three-tiered service trays are stacked full of crustless sandwiches, quiches, scones and – my, oh my – if you have a sweet tooth, you’ll revel in the irresistible choice of baby lemon meringue cubes, milk tartlets topped with strawberries, carrot cakes, macaroons, red velvet cupcakes and chocolate gateaux.

Of course, in the hot summer afternoons, you may feel tempted to order a cooling sparkling water, refreshing rock shandy, or sparkling wine, which the waiters will gladly bring you from the bar (at an extra charge).

after enjoying the fabulous company of your friends or colleagues, take a moment to saunter around the gardens, or down to the pool area and simply enjoy the peace and quiet.

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What influences cause property values to increase

house prices continued to grow positively in (as an income-generating property) will Why investing in real terms in recent months, when adjusted bring in the necessary monthly rental property is the best for CPI inflation. The slower house price which, if managed wisely, can generate growth has created opportunities for enough profit to buy yet an additional way to go. lower income buyers as the prices stay property to rent out. This process can achievable. Property still stays an excellent continue until the investor has a portfolio investment channel. Therefore, now is a of rental properties paying for themselves. hen you buy your first home good time to buy, especially after the recent • They could choose to stay in a rental the usual motivation is to decision by the SA Reserve Bank to raise property costing less per month than their acquire your own property, the transfer duty thresholds on property own home (which they then rent out). If rather than paying someone transactions – costs on transactions below the rent they receive on their property is Welse’s bond and, of course, you then have R2,25 million have actually been reduced. more than their monthly bond payments your independence. Most youngsters seek and the rent they pay is considerably less, freedom from living at home and having to Particularly the millennials (age group the savings could accumulate over time. abide by family household rules. “The very under 30) find that this is normally the time • There is constant growth in the idea of buying their own home is exciting that their financial awareness starts and requirement for accommodation, so and they often do not realise what a an investment into property is what they a sound property investment will be a wonderful investment they are making. This should consider. A wise investment at this guaranteed asset forever and possibly the is the start of their financial independence,” age could set them up for life. start of their property portfolio. Craig Hutchison, CEO of Engel & Völkers Southern Africa comments. There are different options for buyers This financial leveraging emphasises how to consider when looking at a property important it is to keep your credit history According to the FNB House Price Index, purchase, either as a primary residence, untarnished, because when you apply for the average house price for April 2015 or in a buy-to-let scenario. Both scenarios a home loan, your history regarding your rose 5% year-on-year. Despite the nominal create different opportunities: personal instalment payments, leasing house price inflation slowdown, however, • A rental property producing a good yield finance, mortgage loans, credit card

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“The very idea of buying their own home is exciting and they often do not realise what a wonderful investment they are making.”

Craig Hutchison, CEO of Engel & Völkers Southern Africa

It is also important to maintain your home although it feels like a never ending and ongoing evil. Money spent on maintenance should be budgeted for and properly planned. “However, remember that when you eventually sell your home, a renovated and modernised home will always attract the current market value from buyers,” Craig says.

debt, overdrafts and general loans are all before you invest in a home, and buy the Current macro-economic factors affect considered. Consumers’ credit risk profiles property based on an overall assessment, property prices, both up and down. impact their access to credit. not just because the property appeals Increased interest rates, fuel prices, water to you. He says that aspects to consider and electricity always tighten household Which factors influence include the historic investment growth budgets and owners may have to sell due property values? in an area, proximity to commercial to affordability. The irony here is that this According to ABSA’s Housing Review for offices, proposed new developments, creates opportunities for cash flush buyers the second quarter 2015: “The residential schools, and also the general state of to invest, while the affected sellers have to property market will always be driven by the neighbourhood. It is also a known sell their properties to downscale to more economic trends, household finances and fact that the more popular suburbs affordable homes or rent until the situation consumer confidence, which will affect the appreciate at a higher rate than the improves. affordability of housing and the accessibility rest, so your investigation will highlight of and demand for mortgage finance.” this fact. The annual appreciation of ENGEL & VÖLKERS your property is therefore affected by Allow your child the opportunity to complete pre-school • Broadacres • South Africa This means that property prices will the inflation rate, general demand and Broadacres Shopping Centre, Cedar in a beautiful, secure and nurturing environment. invariably change with inflation over the also the infrastructure of the suburb. Avenue, Fourways. years, particularly if the property is in Together, these factors can ensure Tel: +27 (0)11 465 0410 or an area or suburb that is sought-after. property appreciation of more than 15% visit: www.engelvoelkers.com/za/ www.buttercuppreschool.co.za Craig further advises that it is essential per annum, which is much higher than any bryanston to research your area of choice properly fixed deposit investment.

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In conversation with Victor Lidchi

Victor Lidchi (far left) with executives and staff of head office.

People who work with ictor Lidchi learned about the come to South Africa, which he did in 1936 bigger picture surrounding the for the Johannesburg Empire Exhibition. Persian and Oriental Persian and Oriental carpet As a result, he opened his first gallery in business by visiting the bazaars Rissik Street in downtown Johannesburg carpets develop a total Vand the villages in the countries where and later expanded to Bree Street. His passion for the art form, they’re hand-crafted (including Persia, customers were from some of the leading Turkey and Afghanistan) and developing families in South Africa. one that’s difficult to give relationships with leading dealers and the top auction houses such as Sotheby’s The ground floor of his store was occupied up. One such person and Christies in London and New York. In mainly by antiques and paintings and the who I bumped into 1985, Victor started his own carpet and rug basement was where the Persian and gallery and has built a reputation for being Oriental carpets were on display. Being recently is Victor Lidchi, one of the doyens of the local Persian and one of the first in this field, my dad was Oriental carpets market. considered the Father of the Persian who grew up watching Carpet business in SA. his father, and later his In a Q&A interview, he shared some insights with me. As my father decided to retire, my older brother, running Q: The Lidchi name has become well older brother, Maurice, took over the the original Lidchi known over the past seven or so running of the business and expanded decades. Tell me more about its history. it internationally, while I was groomed to Gallery that was started V: My father was a well-known art dealer in eventually take over. However, due to Paris in the 1920s and ‘30s. He got to know family politics, I decided in 1985 to start my in 1936. some very influential people - one of his own Persian and Oriental carpet and rug friends was Sir Ernest Oppenheimer of De business, which I have expanded over the Beers. Sir Ernest encouraged my father to past 30 years.

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One corner of the Dunkeld showrooms. The timeless elegance of Persian and Oriental carpets.

I started from my home in Gardens, 3. They tend to improve with use, much like For our customers’ peace of mind and Johannesburg and, from there, expanded fine wine; because of our confidence in our quality, and moved to Rosebank, then to 4. They have the potential of holding or we offer a full credit-exchange guarantee Craighall, on to larger premises in even increasing their value. – within three months of their purchase Sandton Square (now known as Mandela they can return what they bought, to Square) and then finally to Dunkeld My advice to customers is, if you’re looking exchange for carpets and rugs of equal Centre, with a branch in Clearwater for quality, don’t compromise: rather buy value, no questions asked, (again, Terms Mall. The latter was re-located in 2013 to a smaller superior item than a larger and Conditions apply). Very few ever Honeydew Village, Weltevreden Park. mediocre one. take advantage of this, but it gives them reassurance that they won’t be stuck with Q: How does one determine the Q: What is your price range? something that they feel is not quite right. quality of these hand-made Persian & V: Very wide. Depending on size and Another is, if they don’t see what they Oriental rugs? grade, from under R2 000. But mainly our want in one of our branches or at our V: As with any art form or handcraft, items range from R5 000 to R35 000. Of warehouse, we’ll find carpets at source and remember that there are levels of course, our finer and rarer items go from fly them over to SA, if necessary. excellence – whether they are paintings, R50 000 to R100 000 or more. Each one is rugs or even wines. The standards vary carefully selected with the traditional policy: Everything that we sell carries a written from mediocre, to good, to excellent. it must be an item we can recommend to certificate of authenticity and value, Firstly, some definitions. Persian carpets a friend! accepted by all insurance companies. are those made in Persia (now Iran). Oriental carpets are those that originate Q: What has been the secret of Lidchi’s Our whole approach is not ‘hard sell’. We from anywhere in the East, including 79 years of leadership in this field? want to help people find what they will fall Persia, India, Uzbekistan, Afghanistan, V: Buying a beautiful Persian/Oriental in love with, that will bring magic to their Nepal and China. They are all made using carpet should be a memorable, lives and interiors. When we ask them later the same basic handcraft techniques, enjoyable, hassle-free experience, how they’re enjoying their carpets, the most but each region has its own wonderful like embarking on a journey. Our frequent comments are: “We love them!” personality. By the way, “rug” refers to policy is - “Give clients more service “We can’t live without them.” those below approximately 2,4m x 1, 6m; and value than they expect!” We offer and “carpets” to those larger – the terms clients various services: one is free Q: Victor, what does the future hold for are often used interchangeably. no-obligation expert advice to establish Victor Lidchi Carpets & Rugs? their exact personal taste, needs and V: Well, I have semi-retired and handed the So, we have our grading system to guide budget, then they can make informed running of the business over to my superb the public because, as explained, they choices from our collections. Also, we younger partners. Plans for the next 50 range in quality from simply “mediocre” to give them the opportunity to view their years? Branches in all the major cities of “acceptable”, to superior and to the rare selection in their own home or office: South Africa and eventually selected parts masterpieces. We specialise in superior we actually deliver, lay them in their of Africa. Hey, possibly even New York and and top quality carpets. room of choice to live with for a day and Paris. The ball’s in their court, now. collect - all with no obligation, (although, Q. Why is that? understandably, there are Terms and V: There are good reasons for this: Conditions that apply.) For more information or to arrange 1. They are more beautiful and will a private viewing of carpets in your therefore give more pleasure, add more Our after sales service is equally essential. home or office, call 011 341 0367. style and luxury; We expertly clean and repair their carpets Alternatively, email: daniel@victorlidchi. 2. They are more durable and can give whenever needed so that they will retain co.za or visit: www.victorlidchi.co.za. generations of use with proper care ; their beauty and hold their value.

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A Persian Bidjar carpet, famous for durability and versatility. VICTOR LIDCHI’S 4 VITAL BENEFITS... For saving you time & money. And guaranteeing you total satisfaction! Reputation: Lidchi for 79 years, S Africa’s longest established name in this field. Services: Our senior policy, “Our duty is to ensure we give more & better than each customer expects. (Victor Lidchi, Founder).” Main services include: Try a selection free, no obligation, we’ll deliver & collect. Full-credit-exchange Guarantee. Our famous Certificate of Value & Authenticity. Expert cleaning & repairs. And much more. (Ts & C’s apply.) Range of Prices: We don’t compromise on quality, but our prices, depending on size start from under R2,000. And prices range mainly from R3,000 to R25,000. (With highest grade & rare items from R50,000 & above.) Value Guarantee: Quality for quality, size for size, we will better the price of any reputable supplier!

The renonwned Victor Lidchi Collection: S Africa’s most beautiful rugs, carpets & Kilims in all sizes, styles, colours & designs whatever your taste & décor. Our policy, “Only sell what we can recommend to a close friend!” (Victor Lidchi, Founder). Go to www.victorlidchi.co.za/ for gallery, ranges, full services, etc.”

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fl ying down to Florida. Universal Studios Orlando Airboats on the Everglades

uring our week in the Turkey Vulture. six sandhill Cranes had waters while snail Kites soared gracefully Kissimmee area of central obligingly posed in a garden of one of the overhead in search of apple snails, their Florida we stayed at Orange many expensive houses surrounding the only food source. Lake Country Club, a superb lake and allowed me to take a number of Dtimeshare resort where we met a number photos. ahead of us on one of the few areas of other south africans. armed with of solid ground, we could see the our recently purchased Field Guide to We also visited the various theme parks, Miccosukee Cultural Centre where the the Birds of Eastern North America, epcot Centre (excellent), Universal local Miccosukee Native americans we had taken a boat trip around Lake studios, (pretty good), and Disney’s traded their wares to tourists. although Tohopekaliga in the Kissimmee area Magic Kingdom (so-so!). Then we the centre was interesting, sue and and identifi ed a number of bird species drove along the Florida Turnpike to the I soon had our binoculars out and around the Lake. Water birds included Fort Lauderdale area where we spent identifi ed Blue-gray Gnatcatcher, Belted anhinga, Double Crested Cormorant, the third week of our holiday touring Kingfi sher and Gray Kingbird. Alligators american Coot, Pied-billed grebe and southern Florida. and fresh water turtles lay in just a few Hooded Merganser. Waders included inches of water and, with their backs greater Yellowlegs, Limpkin, White Ibis, The Florida everglades are aptly named exposed, they soaked up the warming great Blue, Little Blue and Tricoloured after the 50-mile wide river of grass in rays of the sun. We boarded the airboat Herons. excellent raptor sightings south Florida, less than three feet deep again and headed back along the included Bald eagle, Black Vulture and and barely eight feet above sea level. unique water system that makes up the We took an airboat ride across this everglades National Park. river of grass that stretched as far as the eye could see. The huge airscrew Once back in our vehicle, we headed on the back of the airboat propelled us along Highway 41, also called the Let us assist you with your property search. powerfully forward over the tall grass Tamiami Trail, to everglades City on the stalks which bent under the boat as we west coast of Florida. The coastal area of glided over them and then regained their this part of the everglades National Park upright stance within seconds of our is appropriately called Ten Thousand Feel free to contact your area specialists; we know what’s going on: passing. Islands as vast numbers of low lying Sue Ralph 082 892 8772, [email protected] (Sales) islands dot Florida’s gulf of Mexico Brenda Gilbert 083 251 4452, [email protected] (Sales) The airboat glided effortlessly and, coastline for many miles. Jean Markham 083 265 3621, [email protected] (Rentals) although the noise from the converted auto engine was deafening, necessitating after a quick lunch, we boarded a Office 011 469 4691 | [email protected] the use of ear plugs, it did not seem to launch and headed out among the unduly disturb the bird life and the Wood coastal islands. We were hoping to Orange Lake Country Club storks continued foraging in the shallow see the manatees that feed on the www.pamgolding.co.za/dainfern 33 DAiNfErN LIFESTYLETravel RANGE ROVER WhEN yOu WANt tO ExplORE.

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sea grasses in the area. On the many Two excellent bird sightings were the Vultures that constantly flew overhead. sandbars we saw flocks of Brown Western Kingbird on Bahia Honda Pelican and Royal Tern and, floating Key and a flock of Black Skimmers Hollywood Beach just a few miles on the water, a solitary American White skimming the waters just off Vaca Key. south of Fort Lauderdale has a fine Pelican dipped its huge bill into the promenade, the type that one sees water in its own unique fishing style. Fort Lauderdale, home to many of in the movies - people with perfect Among the mangroves, we saw Yellow- the rich and famous, is known as physiques on roller blades etc. As crowned Night Heron and Roseate the “Venice of America” due to its our timeshare resort was right on the Spoonbills and Ospreys were often spectacular waterways. One of the best promenade, we would often jog six seen in flight. ways to travel around Fort Lauderdale kms along with many other joggers is via the water taxi which costs $13 for and cyclists (one felt so safe!). Apart The pilot of the launch opened up the a day ticket and enables one to get on from the usual Pelicans and New throttles on the way back and dolphins and off at 11 stops along the route. The World Vultures that were abundant in surfed in the wake of the outboard taxi crew explained just who owned the the area, we had numerous excellent motor. Unfortunately, we did not see mega yachts and the most expensive sightings along the promenade of the manatees but on the drive back we mansions. Ocean going luxury liners Monk Parakeets, which we heard had an excellent sighting of a Red- over seven storeys high sail daily from mostly before we saw them. One Shouldered Hawk perched in the open, Fort Lauderdale to the Caribbean final noteworthy sighting was of three which helped make for a really great day. islands and the roads that cross the Magnificent Frigatebirds unmistakable waterways have centre sections that with their distinctive wing profile and A drive along the Florida Keys is are raised to allow the liners access. long slender tails, flying 100 feet an unforgettable experience as the directly over us and out to sea. only access road (Highway 1) is an One cannot avoid being impressed by engineering marvel linking the mainland the opulence and by the entrepreneurial This was our first visit to the USA and to numerous islands for a distance of spirit that created such splendour. we were impressed with the Americans some 200km out to Key West in the Nevertheless, being typical nature who we found to be very friendly and Gulf of Mexico. One bridge in particular lovers from Africa, we were also extremely service-conscious. The that links Marathon Key to Big Pine impressed by the two-metre long drivers were courteous and law abiding Key is called 7 Mile Bridge and crosses iguanas, (a shade of orange in colour), and the public transport, the Amtrak open water for this distance. We wished that basked along the waterway and by in particular, was very efficient. We’d we had more time to explore the Keys. the flocks of Brown Pelicans and Black certainly like to visit the USA again.

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Moms & Dads: Please bring your child’s gift, wrapped Make memories last – with your complimentary and clearly marked, engraving. to Laura’s office in the HOA building before Thursday The proceeds from the 2015 Carols by Candlelight will go to Poppets Edu Care 3 December 2015 to Pre-School in the Video Centre Informal Settlement in Muldersdrift. TEL. +27 (0) 11 089 6000 EMAIL: [email protected] ensure that Father Christmas receives the gift to give to Anzeige (SÜD) Love Bridge 1-1.indd 1 28.08.15 10:09 your child!

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Smile Foundation

One child, one letter and one phone call gave birth to the Smile Foundation 15 years ago.

ormed in 2000 as The Smile Fund after a personal request from Mr. Nelson Mandela to help a little girl living with a Ffacial anomaly, to date more than 1500 children’s lives have been changed.

Madiba asked the Lubner Family to help him secure surgery for a young child suffering from a rare medical condition causing facial nerve paralysis (known as Moebius Syndrome).

The Lubner Family, inspired by the little girl’s story, saw the bigger picture. There was no sustainability in sending one child overseas, so why not bring the skills to SA. With that, Dr. Ron Zucker and Dr. Craig Van Der Kolk were invited to South Africa to transfer the skills of the technique to South African doctors.

A surgeon, Dr. George Psaras, then Head of the Department of Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery at the University of Witwatersrand was the first surgeon in the country to learn this exceptionally specialised skill. The Independent Newspaper group joined them and the Star Smile Fund was born.

Princess After In 2007, the Smile Fund’s growth necessitated the organisation’s establishment as a Section 21 entity, and It is a non-profit organisation that brings the fund was re-launched as the Smile people together to provide expert surgical Foundation. intervention and pre- and post-operative care for its beneficiaries. The Smile Foundation is passionately committed to making a difference in the Beyond the costs of the patient’s surgery lives of South African children living with and recovery, the foundation also treatable facial conditions such as facial invests in the infrastructure of the public paralysis, cleft lip and cleft palate, as healthcare system through the purchase well as ear and nose conditions and burn of medical equipment, upgrading of Princess Before wounds. existing facilities for the Departments of

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Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery, and the implementation of skills development programmes for surgeons, nurses and other medical personnel.

The foundation is committed not only to supporting the rights of previously disadvantaged children, but indeed to ensuring that these rights are fulfilled. Any and every child deserves the opportunity to overcome their disfigurement and enjoy the pleasures of a normal and healthy childhood.

How does Smile Foundation support South African Academic Hospitals? • Ongoing support throughout the year with a multi-disciplinary approach within existing hospital systems. • Sponsorship of the medical fraternity’s professional development through its Academic Skills Programme. • Financial support in the form of extra theatre staff, anaesthetists, nursing sisters, ICU beds and additional nursing staff for the ward or theatre. • Support of patient backlogs if they exist. • Medical equipment, consumables and surgical instruments needing replacement or upgrading. • Raising awareness using media (social and conventional) as well as community outreach programmes through clinics and communities. • Parent support groups and workshops.

Which hospitals does Smile Foundation support? The Smile Foundation supports the Departments of Plastic and Some more happy smiles, thanks to the Smile Foundation. Reconstructive Surgery in Academic hospitals in South Africa. At present, it partners with: • Universitas Academic Hospital – Free provided when needed; • Charlotte Maxeke Johannesburg State; • Speech, nutrition and Occupational Academic Hospital – Gauteng; • Port Elizabeth Provincial Hospital – Therapy workshops; • Chris Hani BaragwanathAcademic Eastern Cape. • Academic skills programme for Hospital – Soweto; registrars and healthcare professionals; • Dr George Mukhari Academic Hospital What is a Smile Week? • Medical equipment and consumables –Medunsa – Pretoria; 5 consecutive days of reconstructive as required by the Plastics Department; • Red Cross War Memorial Children’s surgery Monday – Friday. • Additional nursing staff when requested Hospital – Western Cape; • Psychological support for patients and in the paediatric ward or in the ICU; • Tygerberg Academic Hospital – Western caregivers, including parent workshops; • Educational activities and sponsored Cape; • Transportation and accommodation is gifts for patients.

The Smile Foundation’s mission is to positively Your generous support makes it all transform the lives of children living with facial possible. For more information please visit www.smilefoundation.co.za. anomalies … because every child deserves to smile.

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How to Boost Your Metabolism and Burn More Kilojoules

Believe it or not, there are ways to increase your metabolism and continue burning fat even when you are not training. That’s good news considering December is less than a month away.

Marlaina a. Balaban is an accredited Personal Fitness Trainer, group Do weight bearing exercise. Muscles topic of much debate between dieticians exercise Instructor require a lot of energy to build, repair and and dieters alike, with specifi c emphasis and 1st Dan Black maintain. In addition to the initial metabolic on the most desirable ratio. all else aside, Belt, sa JKa Karate. spike during training, your body must use the macronutrients affect BMR differently, she can be reached additional energy to repair microtears requiring varying amounts of energy to eat, at 084 506 2424, or to the muscle fi bres for 48 hours post digest and metabolize. Fats raise BMR by emailing: Marlaina. workout and use additional energy for by 0-5%; carbohydrates by 5-10%; and [email protected]. long-term maintenance. Building muscle proteins by 20-30% (1). now burns energy now and later. On the y laying the foundation now, you’ll contrary, things that reduce muscle mass, Add spice to your diet. Warm spicy be able to enjoy your well-earned e.g. starvation diets, will reduce your seasonings such as capsicum, chilli, December break, fully enjoy that metabolism. cayenne pepper, horseradish and year-end function and still remain cinnamon (also a blood sugar regulator) Bon top of your gains. Eat breakfast and don’t skip meals. may have a signifi cant thermic effect and Regular clean eating, especially breaking increase your metabolism by raising your age, gender, hormones, genes as well as the fast in the morning, gives your body core temperature. Caffeine, dark chocolate controllable factors like body composition, something to metabolize. If no fuel is and nicotine also will raise BMR but with diet and physical activity determine forthcoming, your metabolism slows down. side effects. metabolism. By manipulating your muscle- That juicing detox diet may seem to be to-fat ratio, altering your eating habits and/ moving the scale in the right direction Keep your hormones in check. When stress increases, excess cortisol is or increasing your levels of activity, you (water loss), but it is actually slowing your secreted, interfering with normal metabolic can infl uence the rate at which you burn basal metabolic rate (BMR), setting you function and resulting in “toxic fat” around kilojoules. up for weight gain (fat) in the near future. the abdomen. Other hormones of note are To combat toxins and shed water, rather ghrelin and leptin, which signal hunger and consume 2 more glasses of water per day. satiation, respectively. Less than 7,5 hours Increased water consumption has been of sleep per night increases ghrelin and “Movement is Life” shown to improve metabolism. decreases leptin, causing you to overeat – Brad Pitt, World War Z when you are not hungry. Choose macronutrients wisely. Fats, carbohydrates and proteins have been the (1) www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au

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Summer Time .... and the Living is easy

t’s all too easy to let our summertime as summer approaches the southern offi ce wear become a little too revealing or sloppy - hemlines rise Hemisphere, it’s time for us to pack away those a little too far above the knee and Isleeveless tops expose just a little too coats and jumpers and take a fresh look at our much cleavage. sundresses, shorts, tank summer favourites. I’m already enjoying slipping tops and fl ip-fl ops are not appropriate options for the offi ce. on a maxi dress or shorts and a T with some

Don’t worry – it’s not just the ladies who comfy footwear, and I’m really looking forward are guilty of seasonal work wear crimes to long lazy days at the pool or on the beach. - men are too! short sleeved shirts and well-worn chinos get dragged out from Weekends are, of course, especially fabulous. the back of the wardrobe, along with casual or scuffed shoes, and golf-shirts But unfortunately, come Monday morning, many or jeans more appropriate for wear of us have to force ourselves back into work around the braai. clothes and professional mode. With the sun shining, and the air-con in the offi ce turning your morning coffee into sleeves will show off your toned arms, wear them in an understated way to a frappé, we often need to think carefully but balance short sleeves and lower create a look that’s both stylish and about how to dress professionally and necklines with a mid-length skirt, city appropriate for work, and keep the rest comfortably for work when it’s +30°C shorts or stylish Capri pants. Finish of your outfi t neat and ironed, neutral outside. with a pair of closed toe wedges or coloured and in work-wear fabrics. chunky-heeled sandals to keep your look There are some basic rules to follow, professional. after the dark and cosy colours of winter, even if it’s sweltering. In particular, tops it’s refreshing to wear lighter and brighter shouldn’t be too strappy or low-cut. You are allowed to have some fun with colours as the days heat up. If you There are more subtle ways to reveal casual looks, lighter fabrics and bright feel cautious about bright colours – or sun-kissed skin and stay cool and accessories in the summer sun, just you just always wear black - try gently professional in the offi ce. It’s okay to don’t go too casual or boho if you work introducing lighter shades or tones of wear an open neckline which reveals in a conservative industry. sure, update your favourite winter colours. You can a nicely tanned décolletage, just don’t your summertime wardrobe with trendy always bring in bolder colours later, if you be distractingly revealing! Capped patterns, colours or accessories, but wish.

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For example, you could try swapping your challenges when the weather charcoal grey for dove grey, dark is warm and bright. Stand in front of chocolate for milk chocolate, and deep a full length mirror with your eyes green for khaki or olive. When you feel closed after you get dressed in the a bit braver, perhaps try chartreuse. morning. When you open your eyes, Change burnt orange to apricot or wine note where your gaze immediately red to rose pink. If you need to keep your falls. If it’s not your face and your eyes, work wear conservative, change black which is where everyone else’s gaze for navy or gunmetal grey and layer with should immediately fall, make some pastel shades to maintain an authoritative adjustments. Throw out those clothes look in the workplace. that are too snug, too baggy, too worn or stretched. Replace them with cheap Florals are always in fashion at this time summery trends and spend your money of year. Dresses and blouses in floral on quality neutral coloured shoes, patterns ranging from subtle to bright and handbags, trousers and jackets. This bold are easy to find and to work into way, you will always be appropriately, your office wardrobe. Just wear them with and stylishly dressed for work. simple, rather than bold, accessories.

A crisp, clean and cool ‘preppy’ look is always casually smart for work or the weekend. Neat fitting trousers or Capri pants with a crisp shirt and a classic blazer will always look understated, neat and professional. Just throw on a pair of brogues or loafers and a neutral coloured handbag and you’re good to go to a meeting or a braai.

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49 DAiNfErN article written by Nicoleen Davies, Director Life Talk LifE TALK Forum with extracts taken from “Life Talk for Parents” by Izabella Little-gates and Thomas Burkhalter

Opting out – The legacy of Suicide

Twenty-three lives are lost to suicide in south feeling that they have no one to talk to who will understand them. It is also hard africa every day! and, for every successful for people suffering from depression suicide, 20 plus people have attempted suicide. to even consider that there may be alternatives to stop their pain, suffering or anxiety. Often they just can’t see beyond t least 20% of the population suicide is tragic and devastating, leaving the emotions they are experiencing in the will suffer from a depressive traumatized victims in its wake. Those moment. order (illness affecting the body, left behind are left with a psychological mind and thoughts) at some mess and years of personal recovery everyone is potentially at risk. Men are pointa and only one third will get the help ahead of them, notwithstanding having to four times more likely to commit suicide, they need. Left untreated, depression deal with the loss of someone they loved and, by way of example, in the last can lead to suicide. but also with the guilt and blame they decade, suicides of men aged 45-59, will inevitably feel. They will go through have risen by 40%, being a quarter suicide leaves a legacy of pain, a range of emotions from sadness, of all suicides in the UK. similar stats devastation, guilt and even mystery...why frustration, anger and hurt, to remorse are being reported worldwide. several did they do it? and regret, being a stark reminder of the factors contribute – fi nancial pressure, fragility of life. Many of the questions from unemployment, undiagnosed mental family and friends will go unanswered conditions and the reluctance to tell forever, (only one in 4 people leave a someone or to seek medical advice. suicide note), complicating the healing process for those left behind. In contrast, decades of research show that depression rates amongst women according to Cassey Chambers, are higher than in men, most likely Operations Director for saDag, “the resulting from the ever increasing most common reason is untreated pressure to balance work with raising major depression, associated with children and being the breadwinner due an imbalance of the brain chemicals to escalating divorce rates. This juggling that infl uence mood. It is more likely of roles puts women at risk of depression. to occur if you have a family history of depression or other mental problems, or Typical signs and if you are experiencing environmental symptoms of depression stress. This ranges from abusive or It’s vital to know what to look out for. bullying relationships to work pressure Be especially vigilant if you know that (unemployment or exaggerated someone is under extreme pressure and expectations).” feeling stressed or depressed. These signs could include: More often than not, those contemplating • Withdrawal and isolation from family suicide suffer in silence, afraid of being and friends; judged, not knowing how to open up or • A loss of interest in family and things

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that used to interest them; • Lack of energy and fatigue; • Irritability, anger and hostility; • Drug and alcohol use and abuse; • Changes in eating and sleeping habits, especially diffi culty sleeping; • Feelings of hopelessness, sadness, guilt and being trapped; • Preoccupation with, and thoughts about, death; • Talking about suicide; • Acting-out behaviour in teens: running away, problems at school, drugging, criminal activity such as vandalism or shoplifting, sexual activity, reckless and dangerous behaviour; • Lack of interest in their physical appearance; • Unexplained aches and pains; • Panic and anxiety attacks; • Infl icting injuries on themselves through cutting and other forms of self- mutilation. How you can help? “suicide does not Once you have identifi ed that there is a potential problem, there are many ways end the chances of you can help: • Encourage them to talk to you. Listen Life getting worse, and don’t judge, and be there for them when they need to talk. Be supportive. suicide eliminates • Be attentive and look out for warning the possibility of it signs that their depression is escalating. seek professional guidance as soon as ever getting better.” possible. • Take threats of suicide very seriously - don’t ignore the danger signs. • Find a support group – having someone Burkhalter advises: “Consultation with an to do something. Regardless of whether you can talk to, who is in a similar appropriate professional is recommended you have fi nancial pressures, are ill, situation, can be an enormous source of to assess the situation. Depression is not lonely, have made a mistake, are being strength and encouragement. something you deal with on your own.” bullied or are struggling with an addiction, • Educate yourself on depression and there is always someone who can help. mental illness to help understand what In addition, Izabella Little-gates advises: Depression is highly treatable and the you are dealing with (visit www.sadag. “In addition to obtaining professional earlier treatment is started, the more org for more information). help, parents can help by: effective it can be. support groups can be • Don’t do too much for your depressed • Keeping communication fl owing, focus a great option if you feel uncomfortable in loved one – it is important that they do on listening, discussing and sharing; confi ding in those closest to you. things for themselves, have a purpose • Encourage your teen to take part in for the day and engage with the world positive activities; Who to call for help around them. • Help them to develop a positive attitude, 0800 567 567 or sMs 31393 - to change negative thought patterns, saDag (south african anxiety and If you have a teenager in to fi nd ways to deal with life choices, Depression group) the home decisions and challenges; 0861 322 322 - Lifeline The risk of suicide amongst the youth is • Provide opportunities for laughter, fun, fuelled by issues such as undiagnosed and light-hearted or uplifting family activities.” mental issues, bullying, school For more parenting tips & pressures, alcohol and drug abuse, information visit www.lifetalk.co.za and the availability of fi rearms in the What to do if YOU are or email [email protected] home. In south africa, suicide rates feeling depressed or even Other sources: amongst 10-14 year olds has more suicidal www.SADAG.org than doubled in the last 15 years and get help! If you are feeling hopeless and Mentalhealthdaily.com suicide accounts for 8% of teen deaths overwhelmed you may be depressed. It Psychologytoday.com as reported in academic hospitals - but is important to tell someone and get help! Newsweek: The Trouble with Men. the real fi gure is higher. If you suspect Remember that you are important to Daniel Biddulph that your teen is depressed, Thomas those close to you and you owe it to them

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