Up Close And Personal Princess Diya Kumari Of Jaipur

Plus Explosions JUMA at New York In The Sky’s MUNAF RAYANI Fashion Week An Insiders Look EXCLUSIVE: The Royal Issue at a Coachella LADY DIANA & her lesser known Pakistani love affair SEPTEMBER 2012 Olympic Wrestler Arjan Bhullar The Olympian Diaries THE TORONTO23 EXPLOSIONS IN98 THE THE SULTAN’S114 TENT & FASHION INCUBATOR SKY’S GUITARIST CAFÉ MOROC SEPTEMBER 2012 MUNAF RAYANI 8 Editor’s Note BUSINESS 5th anniversary in Canada’s Very Own Tara Elizabeth speaks 10 Contributors 23 The Toronto style—the four-day Shooting Star with the founders of Fashion Incubator a event was attended The Little Mosque Titika a hot new yoga STYLE SCOOP Canadian designer’s by the who’s who of on the Prairie starlet wear line based out of 12 What we’re obsessed formula for success Pakistani fashion breaks down what Toronto with this month life is like post the 136 Yafa COVER STORY runaway success of 138 Spirit Guru 74 What Fairy Tales the little Canadian Have a question that are Made of comedy that could you’ve been aching SHE Associate Editor 38 Precious by Maira to ask that no one has COVER74 Priya Kumar talks with given you a straight STORY has a virtual monopoly WHAT FAIRY Princess Diya Kumari on the South Asian answer for? SHE’s Spirit TALES ARE of Jaipur on what being wedding jewelry Guru has you covered! MADE OF a Royal is all about market in Toronto— THE ARTS SHE finds out how her EVENTS 98 An Insiders business went from a 139 J.J. Valaya Look at a Coachella hobby to booming SHE takes you behind Artist that Keeps the the scenes at the king of Masses Coming Back NIGHTLIFE Indian couture’s showing Explosions in the Sky’s 114 The Sultan’s Tent at the Liberty Grand guitarist Munaf Rayani & Café Moroc talks to the SHE team SHE goes behind ON THE ROAD about he and his band’s the scenes at one 143 Steeped in Sri journey from going of the most iconic Lanka’s Central with out heating in the restaurants Toronto Highlands Travel winters to selling out has ever known extraordinaire Robin concert halls across the Esrock discovers world HE where that little satchel 102 The Censorship 131 Wardrobe of tea leaves you FASHION CENTRAL SOCIAL of Reality Essentials every man consume everyday 20 Juma Makes a CONSCIENCE Filmmaker Ashvin should have in his closet originates from Successful Debut at 34 Niqabi Like Me Kumar discusses the 132 That’s What NYFW Saima Hasan spoke with difficulties of being a SHE Said giving BEAUTY 22 Murano in two brave women who documentarian in a sound advice to our 148 Beauty Desires the City were targeted by bullies Bollywood-possessed male readers on 149 Shirley Wu: Anu Raina breaths over wearing a niqab, a culture relationship, family Beauty Concept new life into the symbol of their devotion and fashion drama She came to Canada urban-chic category to their religion MADE IN CANADA 133 The Olympian from Pakistan to visit relatives and ended 32 Fit for a Princesse 104 Senator Diaries PAKISTAN Ataullahjan In Her SHE goes one-on-one up starting the most Creative Director successful South Asian Karishma Shahani 34 Fashion Pakistan Own Words with Olympic Wrestler Week 2012 was a Canada’s first Arjan Bhullar exactly salon/beauty school in shows SHE how one the GTA becomes a successful melody of zardozi, Pakistani-Canadian one month before cross-over designer chiffon and organza Senator of Pushtan competing in London and displayed the best decent candidly speaks 151 Horoscopes 34 Ritu Kumar unveils 152 Quote/Unquote her Panchvastra of what Karachi had with SHE about HEALTH/ to offer becoming an integral WELLNESS “What does being couture collection in South Asian mean to New Delhi 52 PSDC Sunsilk part of the country’s 135 Keeping up with Fashion Week in bill passing protocol Tara Elizabeth you?” Our favourite Lahore celebrated its 108 Sitara Hewitt: Brand ambassadress celebrities let us know. EDITOR’S NOTE

hen we decided to Part high fashion, part politically driven, launch SHE Can- our sophisticated, timely articles and com- ada, a multitude prehensive editorial content cross over all of ideas, concepts cultural boundaries. In our nations of ori- and mandates gin, political, religious and ethnic tensions were available at plague us. Here in Canada, no such ten- ourW disposal. There was, however, one thing sions should exist and SHE Canada aims that was certain—while we would stay true to highlight our similarities as opposed to or our parent publication, Pakistan’s SHE dwelling on our differences. Magazine, some work was to be done in making SHE Canada our own. This month we take an in-depth look On a recent trip to the South Asia, I at what it means to be South Asian living was seated beside a Bangladeshi business- in Canada. First, back when we partnered man. In spite of the rocky politics between with SHE in January we had the opportu- Pakistan and Bangladesh over the past few nity to candidly speak with the Honourable decades, this gentleman had nothing but Senator Salma Ataullahjan—Canada’s first glowing things to say about my country. Senator of Pakistani-Pashtun decent. We This really had me thinking—our nations’ also caught up with Little Mosque on the tensions are not propagated by their people, Prairie’s rising starlet Sitara Hewitt, who’s but rather it is archaic politics that keep our now living in Los Angeles. Finally, readers governments at odds. Such sentiments cannot miss our cover story exclusive— promoting unity and goodwill are reflected SHE Canada co-sponsored the Jaipur amongst all South Asians, particularly those Royal Polo Challenge back in June and who are a part of a multi ethnic and multi interviewed event hostess Princess Diya cultural society like Canada. Kumari and son the teenaged Maharaja Padmanabh Singh. After much thought and reflection to hope you enjoy our inaugural issue and determine where we stand, we came to a if you take anything from these pages, let it consensus. Although SHE originated from be a message of peace and solidarity; one we Pakistan, SHE Canada would be a voice for look to propagate for decades to come. South Asian Canadians as a whole. Wheth- er Sri Lankan, Bangladeshi, Indian, Nepal- ese or Pakistani, SHE Canada will cover the topics these cultures feel strongly for. Re- gardless of or target demographic—young women between the ages of 20 and 40 in the GTA—we strongly feel that our content will strike a chord with both a younger and older generation. We have also ensured that men will not feel left out—our section HE is an authority on men’s culture, fashion and lifestyle. CONTRIBUTORS

Yafa Sakkejha Tara Elizabeth Steve Rhodes Sakkejha is a Palestinian who was born in Writer, ‘Inspired by Life’, page Based in Toronto, Steve Rhodes has been Toronto, Canada. She currently runs the Photo credit: Kyle Scheib photographing for advertising and edito- House of Verona, a health retreat com- rial clients, as well as private commissions, pany in Collingwood, Ontario. She also is Tara Elizabeth is a freelance writer, actor, for the past ten years. Clients include Style a partner at Beneplan, a customer-owned and model residing in Toronto. After at Home, LCBO and Nestle. health insurance company. She became landing a job at a Toronto magazine she passionate about health when she met a got discovered by some local photogra- whole community in Toronto of people phers to model. Acting soon followed who successfully reversed diabetes, mood and she was lucky enough to hone her disorders such as depression, and other skills at Pro Actor’s Lab in Toronto. You diseases through advanced nutrition. can see her feature film debut in the indie film ‘Divine Enmity’.

Mariana Valente Mariana Valente was crowned Miss Universe Canada in 2009, she represented Canada in the Miss Universe pageant in the Bahamas. She speaks 4 languages and has an honours Degree from York University. She now runs her own business in the fitness industry. CONTRIBUTORS

Priya Kumar Liz Guber Robin Esrock Associate Editor Fashion Assistant Esrock’s success as a global adventurer, Kumar joined the SHE family in January Recent fashion school grad with an travel writer, TV producer and 2012 as a Contributing Columnist for the overflowing wardrobe. Guber keeps SHE international TV personality was no Pakistani Edition. She brings a wealth of readers up to date on both Canadian and accident, although it did start with international fashion/beauty experience international fashion. Look out for her one. Struck down on his bike at a to the table, having previously worked at coverage of JUMA’s collection showing at Vancouver intersection, Robin hobbled Vogue India in Mumbai and Blackbook New York Fashion Week and the Toronto away with a broken kneecap, a modest Magazine in New York. Her cover story Fashion Incubator’s 25th Anniversary Gala. $20,000 insurance settlement and a “What Fairy Tales are Made of” on Prin- new lease on life. He packed up his cess Diya Kumari’s life, love and family things, quit his job and set off on a history is one not to be missed. one-year solo round-the-world backpacking adventure to 24 countries. Esrock continues to write, blog, tweet and film his ongoing adventures. He is living proof that sometimes life is just an accident waiting to happen.

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Caradine Velcro Shoes Globo Shoes $59.99 JUMA MAKES A SUCCESSFUL DEBUT AT NEW YORK FASHION WEEK smaili-Canadian brother/sister The duo’s journey has taken them Canadian duo Alia and Jamil Juma have around the world, even to such remote Contributing achieved something most of us places as Kazakhstan and the Congo, Editor S. M. can only dream of; they showed “we had different lives in all these coun- Kamran Zaidi their self-titled line JUMA at tries, and it definitely had an impact on New York Fashion Week. An the way we view the world”. and Features admirable feat, their installation-style Speaking further their worldly up- Columnist Ipresentation at Fall/Winter 2012 NYFW bringing and the way it shaped JUMA, Priya Kumar sit was well received by editors and buy- Jamil adds, “I wouldn’t say it [influ- down with Jamil ers alike. “We showed in Chelsea, in the enced our design process] consciously, Gallery District, we wanted to work with it was more subconsciously.” Although Juma to Discuss the Gallery, instead of doing a traditional no literal inspiration has been drawn JUMA’s Fall/ runway.” It would seem that little about from their many travels, the siblings’ Winter 2012 JUMA is traditional. The designers have global worldview has influenced their Presentation and taken a decidedly different approach to philanthropic efforts. Working with fashion. “We fell in it together, basically” the UK based Maple Leaf Trust spear- creating a new Jamil speaks of their journey with non- headed by the Canadian Consulate; legion of fans chalance, revealing that he started out by JUMA was able to help those less for- studying Engineering then beginning his tunate in the East. career in Finance, only later joining his Perhaps the greatest turning point sister in her design pursuits. JUMA was for the direction of the label was the launched in 2003. shift to computer-generated prints. We developed a few prints initially and they came out really well, and so ‘‘ we decided to go deeper into it.,,

“I just started playing around on the computer with my sister, and we de- veloped a few prints initially and they came out really well, and so we decided to go deeper into it.” Going deeper into it meant producing a collection cen- tered on dreamy, frenetic prints, bal- anced perfectly by strong, structured garments. The looks included asym- It seems that Juma’s rise to fashion’s metrical dresses and shaped coats. The greatest stage was as natural and style lines and details were kept to a effortless as the clothes they create. minimum, allowing the patterns to Their greatest asset perhaps, is a shine. When looking at the prints, one unique approach to design and an couldn’t help but see abstract, hazy sun- uncompromising sense of self. For sets, muddled inkblots and even hints those with fashion aspirations as high of hippie tie-dye. The standout piece as JUMA’s, Jamil offered some wise of the collection was the short black words; “Try to develop something that dress with an unexpected green and speaks with your voice and has some red overlay. Its strength and androgyny sort of authenticity”. was the perfect antithesis to the dainty, ladylike trend so common this season —Copy by Liz Guber

PHOTO CREDIT: JUMA CREDIT: PHOTO on the runways around the world. SITARA HEWITT: CANADA’S VERY OWN SHOOTING STAR Sitara Hewitt sits down with Associate Editor Priya Kumar to talk about making it in the film industry, childhood anecdotes and being a part of one of the most talked about Canadian television shows of all time Photo Credit: Ribee She also sees similarities between her- self and Rayyan. “She has a soft heart, as do I, and at the same time she’s a little The chemistry between the characters intense, which annoys those around was undeniably responsible for the her…[We} both have a lot of convic- show’s long and successful run. The tion in what we believe in, and are not cast was a smorgasbord of actors from afraid to tell people how we feel.” all around the country. The pilot epi- Idiosyncrasies are where their sode begins with Jummah prayers at similarities end however. Hewitt had f you were to ask any Canadian the local Anglican Church, rented out an eclectic upbringing; her parents, from the farthest reaches of the by Yasir Hamoudi and his wife Cau- both professors at Wilfred Laurier country what television show casian wife Sarah as a place to pray for University, were stationed in various has garnered the most attention Mercy’s growing Muslim community. locations around the world including in recent years—good, bad Their daughter Rayyan, portrayed by the Himalayas in Pakistan during her or otherwise—you would the beautiful Sitara Hewitt, embodies formative years. “I’m fortunate that my resoundingly hear about Little Mosque the quintessential Muslim-Canadian parents took me on their adventures on the Prairie. The brainchild of Zarqa hijabi. SHE had the opportunity to and research. To see how people live I in these remote places, cooking over Nawaz, Little Mosque was a 30-minute chat with Hewitt, to discuss her break- weekly sitcom about Muslims and non- out role in the little Canadian series a fire, growing their own food, raising Muslim cohabitating in the small town that could as well as what lead up to her animals for milk and labor [was so of Mercy, Saskatchewan (population stellar acting career. enriching]. [They lived] so simply, in 14,000). Like the name of the pint-sized Hewitt, whose first name Sitara liter- synchronicity with nature and with a community suggests, hilarity ensues ally translates to star in Sanskrit, got her sense of community unlike anything I when the white-folk come into contact start in film at the age of 20 as a dancer in have ever seen.” with their new ethnic neighbours. The Deepa Mehta’s Bollywood/Hollywood. Watching these mountain people live program had a great run on the CBC She says this was the time when she was like they did in biblical times was also a from January 9th, 2007 to April 2nd, “more of a starving artist, though I had cathartic experience for the then young 2011. After 91 episodes and being a few indie movies and pilots under my Hewitt. “The landscape is breathtaking, syndicated in 80 countries across the belt, some theater and a great deal of and the people are so hospitable, that I world (including Algeria, Australia, sports related shows that I hosted.” The [considered] them family.” Her fondest Belgium, Finland, France, Indonesia, concentrated portion of her year spent memories of growing up in Pakistan Italy, South Africa and Spain—notably on the set of Little Mosque stood in stark include, “sitting on the roof of a mud absent is the United States), the show contrast to the years of teaching dance, hut, looking out at walnut and apricot brought the world’s attention to the acting in low budget productions and trees at the feet of hulking mountains, day-to-day social issues modern day taking acting classes. surrounded by 10 or 12 children of all Muslims face in the Western world. In regard to her feelings on playing a ages. Though our worlds couldn’t be Often its message is compared to that strong, positive female role model like more different we always found ways of The Cosby Show of the ‘80’s. Ozlem Rayyan, Hewitt says, “[she’s] the great- to communicate, things to talk about.” Sensory, an associate professor at Simon est kind of character a woman can play. Although she says she’s still unsure if Fraser University explained The Cosby Rayyan lived many sides of life on the acting is her true calling, it’s been an Show was a response to American show, from relating to her parents to enjoyable ride ever since making it her society’s ever-evolving fear of African- being a professional at work to getting career in her early 20s. When asked American culture—many viewing it involved in all the crazy, silly storylines about crossing over to South Asian as “dangerous” or “ghetto.” “The Cosby a sitcom character gets wrapped up film, she says if the right one came Show emerging in that context did in, to being someone’s love interest…I along, she definitely would. Her Urdu two things,” she continues. “It made think there is a shortage of female char- and Hindi are flawless and she views white folks much more comfortable acters in the media who have depth of Bollywood as being a fun, lively and with a certain kind of black family. character and Rayyan was unique in touching medium. Growing up half- But it did so without addressing the that she was smart and funny but also Welsh, half-Pakistani she could not be very structural conditions that made devout in her spirituality, which I felt more proud of her ancestral roots. We that show necessary.” gave her a unique, interesting layer.” have a hunch the feeling is mutual. Under The Sultan’s Tent

Eastern Extravagances at Toronto’s iconic landmark, The Sultan’s Tent & Cafe Moroc and BerBer Lounge Editor S. M. Kamran Zaidi Photographed by ZVONKO ZUPANCIC Fashion Editor PRIYA KUMAR Hair/Make-up SHIRLEY WU Stylist Assistants LIZ GUBER, SHIRLEY WU Models OKSANA PODKOLZINA, MARIANA VALENTE Ritu Kumar creates pieces that have a certain timelessness. Her fashion house has truely has endured the age since its founding in 1968. Opposite Page: Geometric Sequined Dress Sabbah Sharma This Page: Saagarika Dress by Label, Ritu Kumar Opposite Page: One-Shoul- der Cloud-Print, Gaurav Gupta This Page: One-Shoulder Leheriya Dress in Silk Jersey, Malani Ramani

THE SULTAN’S TENT AND BERBER LOUNGE: A Symphony Of Ethnic Flavour, Sights And Sounds By Chantelle Henriques oronto is home to “The food, colours used and de- podium at the front entrance. “The many ethnic restau- tailed architecture are not preva- King of Morocco gifted [us] this rants rich in culture lent in Toronto, or most of Canada, very rug and we know this because and flavour, but The so my parents found it fitting to the design and pattern in the cen- Sultan’s Tent & Café introduce the culture, food and ar- tre of the rug can only be used by Moroc and BerBer chitecture [to the masses],” the King of Morocco,” explains a Lounge have upped the ante on the While The Sultan’s Tent and Café beaming Panigas Perusini. Tlocal dining experience. Located Moroc have become household While the elaborate designs and at 49 Front Street East, opposite names having been in Toronto for décor have gained The Sultan’s Tent Toronto’s iconic “Flat Iron” build- over a decade, BerBer Lounge has and BerBer Lounge international ing, this two-story establishment only begun to gain fame in recent accolades, the food cannot be will transport you to a bygone era years. In anticipation of its opening, overlooked. Dishes range from of Middle Eastern opulence. “The Panigas Perusini’s parents travelled savoury B’Stilas (a traditional Sultan’s Tent & Café Moroc evokes to Morocco to gain some insights North African pastry) to divine a nostalgic and romantized vision about Middle Eastern culture. Moroccan Crab Cakes, and while of an exotic French Moroccan set- “[My father] developed the whole there is something to satisfy every ting,” says Jennifer Panigas Pe- concept and had it [memorized] palate, Panigas Perusini offers rusini, Marketing Manager at The when my mother and father went to her recommendations. “The Blue Sultan’s Tent. Morocco for 10 weeks to meet with BerBer, our signature drink, is a But while The Sultan’s Tent and all the different artisans developing great way to start off your meal BerBer may share the same building all the materials,” Panigas Perusini and I can’t get enough of our and management, this is where their says. Everything from the floor Cambanzola Fritter Salad,” she similarities end. The Sultan’s Tent pro- tiles to the cedar hand carved and says, “I think I could eat a dozen vides restaurant-goers with savoury painted ceilings were designed and Fritters in one seating!” Moroccan food bound in tradition, created for BerBer and its one-of- Finally, the feature of The Sultan’s exquisite belly dancers and ambience a-kind quality is not lost ontheir Tent/Berber Lounge experience unmatched anywhere outside the Asia patrons. Every detail down to the that cannot be overlooked is the Minor. BerBer Lounge, in contrast, lacquered tiles in the bathrooms live entertainment. At BerBer has a more after-hours feel and in- and creamy leather on the bar Lounge, guests enjoy various live corporates dishes from North Africa, stools have a rich artisanal past. music acts on specific nights and Southern Europe and the Middle East. Mosaic fountains and hollow-brass at The Sultan’s Tent, salutary belly Panigas Perusini explains that warrior statues add an element of dancers. While Panigas Perusini although her family is Italian, Mo- whimsy to the BerBer experience. describes The Sultan’s Tent as roccan culture has inspired them Not to be out done by its sis- a romantic setting for couples to create a Middle Eastern res- ter restaurant BerBer, The Sultan’s looking to “share that special taurant in Toronto. “Like Italians, Tent is largely furnished by Hol- moment,” she says that there is Middle Eastern and Moroccan cul- lywood memorabilia; on one of something for everyone looking to tures have a strong sense of fam- their many sourcing expeditions, escape into a new world—if only ily, which runs dominant in our the Panigases secured a collection for a few hours. family as well,” she says. Not only of props from the classic film Cas- “At The Sultan’s Tent & Café Mo- does this strong sense of familial ablanca (1942) including ceiling roc and BerBer Lounge, we strive values keep the restaurant running fans and decorative table lamps. to stay true to the cultures we rep- smoothly, they also recognize how If that’s not enough to impress the resent. We have developed experi- a Moroccan themed restaurant will most jaded of diners, the restau- ences for all the senses.” be considered unique even in a city rant’s crown jewel is a large hand- as ethnically diverse as Toronto. woven rug hanging by the hostess

SHIRLEY WU BEAUTY CONCEPT Features Columnist Priya Kumar discovers this essential for your big fat Canadian-Desi Wedding major hurdle every South Her contacts in Pakistan passed her Asian bride faces in Toron- name along to family and friends getting to pre-wedding is finding married in Canada and it was on this foun- the perfect make-up artist dation she built her business up over the for the big day(s). While past 20 years. the major beauty giants Beauty Concept is not just Shirley. It’s like MAC, Estee Lauder and L’Oreal have comprised of a whole team of talented trained many local artists, Desi brides seek make-up artists. Her four sisters, currently Asomething more than typical French make- living in Pakistan, come back and forth in up artistry. Shirley Wu Beauty Concept is the summer to collaborate with her. As for aware of this cultural disparity and answers the local artists, she provides them with such anxieties by picking make-up brands classes and training on hair and make-up suitable for all skin types. “I love Motives so they are well versed in her clients’ specific [Cosmetics]. Motives has that edge that we needs. “It’s been a very successful business, can actually customize the whole makeup and our team is great.” line. It has shades for basically every woman From the jewelry a woman wears, to her and every [skin tone],” Shirley says. clothing, Shirley likes to draw inspiration We had the opportunity to sit down with from a variety of places and it is her passion Shirley at her studio Beauty Concept in Mis- for beauty that leads her to create unique sissauga recently. Don’t be fooled by appear- looks. “As I developed and got into the beau- ances; Shirley Wu was born and raised in ty industry, I was thinking ‘oh wow makeup Pakistan. She entered the beauty industry is able to empower women.’” She finds this at 14, working for her mother at Lily Beauty to be the most rewarding part of her job. Salon in her hometown of Lahore. Here she So how should a Canadian bride go about learned the art of Desi bridal make-up in building her wedding trousseau of outfits, addition to understanding the special needs jewelry and of course hair/make-up assis- of South Asian and ethnic skin— one of tants? Shirley says while the bridal shows the many things that drew her to Toronto. are a good place to start, word of mouth is “I saw a lot of different ethnic groups and always best. In terms of make-up itself, she people that I met and it was so much fun, suggests a company that is more established. doing [make-up for] different [ethnicities].” Going in for a trial and then getting friends’ If that’s not enough to put you at ease, her feedback is a must. Hindi and Urdu are flawless. Shirley offers services daily at her home When asked why she came to Canada studio including facials, waxing, threading to start a beauty consultancy, she states, “I and hair styling. She is also a certified make- came to visit family. To us [Canada] is a up instructor offering classes on basic and second home. From there I got married advanced application techniques. and we started a business. Basically when Contact her at I came, there was nothing much happen- +1.905.201.1072 or +1.905.232.6978. ing [in the South Asian make-up industry].” She’s available by appointment only, ladies!

As I developed and got into the beauty industry, I was ‘‘ thinking ‘oh wow makeup is able to empower women,, AN INSIDER’S LOOK AT A COACHELLA ARTIST THAT KEEPS THE MASSES COMING BACK Festival go-er Priya Kumar talks with Explosions in the Sky’s guitarist Munaf Rayani about his band’s rise, societal controversies, future plans and participating in North America’s largest modern-day music festival

ince 1999, The Coachella Then there was the fashion—oh the Valley Music and Arts fashion! From celebrities like Katy Per- Festival (Coachella for ry and Fergie to the youngest of teens, short) has attracted the revelers were decked out in their finest masses from as far as New boho chic. Flower crowns, tassel mes- Zealand and the UK, for senger bags and Navajo prints were a one of a kind music pilgrimage to ubiquitous style staples. Sthe sleepy California Desert town SHE Canada not only had the op- of Indio. Legendary American rock portunity to attend Coachella 2012, but group Pearl Jam started the movement also sat-down with Munaf Rayani, the to boycott Ticketmaster’s monopoly South Asian-American guitarist of the over Californian music venues. Since white-hot indie band Explosions in the its humble beginnings as a one-band Sky to get his take on the festivities. “For concert for 25,000 at the Empire Polo us to get an invitation to such a grand Grounds, it has become a three-day event and get a good time-slot towards ecological music and art extravaganza the evening was pretty exciting. It’s in of unprecedented proportions. those moments that I’m sure that at The 2012 festival spread over two least 80%-90% of that crowd didn’t weekends, boasted a roster of A-list even know who we were.” performers including Snoop Dogg & This is where I beg to differ. Having Dr. Dre, Eminem, Tupac Shakur’s ho- sold upward of 250,000 albums, it was logram, Rihanna, David Guetta, Gotye, no coincidence Explosions in the Sky The Black Keys, Radiohead, Explosions played at 10PM on the Outdoor stage, in the Sky and over 100 other artists. on Day 1 of the festival. Their music has It sold out its 180,000 tickets in just 3 an appeal that is revered the world over. hours. Besides five stages (Main, Out- Undeniably instrumental, giving it an door, Gobi, Mojave and Sahara) featur- exact genre goes against everything Ray- ing the endless line-up of artists, giant ani believes in. “These kind of labels help installations dotted the Polo grounds as reference points for somebody who lighting up at dusk, creating an other- may not of heard whatever music that worldly skyline. you’re talking about. We consider ourselves musicians and a rock band. Kite Runner and Ghosts of Girlfriends with a picture of an airplane on their [But] once you limit yourself in labeling Past. “I think Hollywood knows about album sleeve with a caption “This Plane or agreeing to a label you are just that and us; if ever we meet music supervisors, Will Crash Tomorrow.” To top it off, what we are making is bigger than that.” they love to tell us how they temp our Rayani is Ismaili-Muslim—a religion Being of South Asian origin, Rayani’s music when a film is being edited. Temp that has since become somewhat mother was born in Mumbai and grew music is a placeholder. We are the kings of misunderstood in the southern States. up in Karachi. “My mother was hoping temp music! If you look at the glass is half- “That’s what it is, coincidence, and [I would become] either an engineer, full, it’s excellent that we’re in the collective journalism can sensationalize things doctor or both. I grew up in a small conscious but the glass half-empty, why sometimes. It was just a silly thing for town with the fellas [from Explosions are they not calling us to use the music [in people to attach to and kind of run in the Sky] in Midland, Texas and we the final product]?” Regardless, they have with. Our name was put in the paper started hanging out early to listening come a long way from their early days of for its relation to what was happening to and playing music.” His mother was going without heat to pay for recording in the world.” This stigma came back weary of what he was doing and wasn’t sessions and feeling lucky to have sold to haunt them this past year during entirely sure if this was a phase her son even one album. the days leading up to a concert they was going through. “I was supposed to Whether it is producers, directors or did in Boise, Idaho— the combination be going to school, but I was just play- their fan base, their music is adored be- of the name of their band and the date ing music. I quit going to school [and] cause it packs equal parts of power and of the concert, September 11th being she was quite upset until she started emotion into every chord. They have displayed on the marquee made locals to see our pictures in the magazines. been described in the media as “easily, a little uneasy. Yet Rayani admits he People would tell her about the band.” one of the most intense live bands ever, was not the least bit fazed. “The Boise, It was then she realized the enormity of their sound proves to be every bit as tri- Idaho concert was sold out. This is in Rayani’s career prospects as a musician. umphant as their name implies.” Speak- Boise, Idaho, incredible! People tried to “From that point which was years ago, ing on the evolution of their first album make news and made something out of she became very supportive of me, she’s How Strange, Innocence to their most nothing and that’s exactly what it was.” one of our biggest supporters. She loves recent Take Care, Take Care, Take Care Speaking one-on-one with Rayani, us and loves all the fellas and wishes us Rayani says, “The years [have brought] his awareness of his roots is obvious. well every time we go out.” maturity of honing in on our abilities “I’m glad I can be of this colour and The band formed in 1999, coincid- and knowing a better way to write a make a little bit of noise in the Western ing with their graduating from high song or orchestrate movement. Our world of music. You [more commonly] school. “We were going to make films. first record was that: very innocent. As hear that an Indian or Pakistanani fel- So we shot short films and wrote little we got older, we got a little smarter.” low musician [specializes in] Tabla, scripts, doing music on the side. We did The band has also dealt with their Sitar and Harmoniums, which are all one film as part of this Super 8 contest fair share of controversy involving their great instruments. To break into this [named for the type of film used] where name Explosions in the Sky. When western world with this colour skin you shot a short film with in-camera they set out on tour on September 10th, feels good. Good music and art doesn’t edits. The score for that was the very 2001, they like the rest of the world were have colour; it is itself.” first Explosions session.” in complete shock at how the following Given their background it seems day unfolded. Just like that, they were only natural their music is now regu- a band with an album called Those larly featured in Hollywood blockbust- Who Tell The Truth Shall Die, Those ers including Friday Night Lights, The Who Tell the Truth Shall Live Forever To break into this western world with this colour skin feels good. Good music and art ‘‘ doesn’t have colour; it is itself.,, SENATOR ATAULLAHJAN IN HER OWN WORDS By: Priya Kumar

Realtor by profes- grandfather and his father were old sion, an Artist by pas- friends. Part of their arrangement by sion and now Sena- request of her father, was that they tor by Parliamentary eventually return to Pakistan. “My appointment, Salma father was very keen that he did not Ataullahjan continues want any of his children overseas, so to remain humble to the roots that he had spoken to my husband about Ahave made her who she is today. Sena- returning” Her husband had promised tor Ataullahjan is not only the first Ca- their return and it was only then she nadian of Pakistani-Pushtun descent to was granted familial consent to leave enter the Senate, but she is also one of her homeland. just a handful of women to do so. I had Her time in Pakistan itself was the honour of sitting down with her to peaceful and serene despite the ongoing talk about her family’s history of activ- conflict with Afghanistan. She was born ism, her school days in Pakistan with in the early 1950s in Mardan in Khyber the late Benazir Bhutto, immigrating to Pakhtunkhwa Province, not far from the Canada and her thoughts on Pakistan’s Afghan border. As a result, around the current political landscape. time she emigrated, she witnessed a huge The Senator’s journey to becoming surge of an estimated 5 million refugees a Canadian began in 1980 as a young fleeing to Pakistan and the trouble that bride. Her new husband had previously arose when locals were not prepared to studied Engineering at the University handle the influx. Still, relative to now, of Michigan, but preferred Canada Mardan was very calm at the time. as a place to settle. Their marriage She welcomed her move from was arranged, swathed in Pakistani Pakistan to Canada because of her tradition; they had not previously familiarity with the country and known one another. However, her its customs. Her upbringing was a privileged one at an English boarding gan following the various political par- anyone because it would jeopardize school. In fact, the late Benazir Bhutto ties in her riding to become familiar her candidacy for the position, since was a fellow schoolmate. The Senator with the local system and got involved there were a few more people up for it. fondly recalled young Benazir— wherever she could. Away from the prying eyes of family, then known as Pinky— as quiet, The Senator began her career in the she signed the papers and sent them ambitious and very focused on her less-than-political world of real estate. back through her children. After some studies. Although in different classes, “When I came [to Canada] I was very time had passed and she hadn’t heard they celebrated birthdays and other keen to work and I had actually wanted back she recalls saying to her family childhood milestones together. to study medicine [but] my dad had that she was up for something really The school made for an idyllic said no the women in our family don’t wonderful in the government but she upbringing. She and fellow students work. So when I got married the first didn’t think she got it. Her children were regularly shown Canadian thing I did when I came here was want comforted her in saying, “Oh Ma, at films sent from the embassy. A long- to work, so I went and found a job in a least you were considered for it.” standing aspiration of hers was to school nearby. I wanted the Canadian A few days later she received “the” eventually see the Northern Lights in experience to be a working women.” call from Ottawa, telling her to check person. The Senator attests that her When in Canada, and away from her her email and that she should expect a school’s strict English- speaking policy father’s watchful eye, she wanted the call from Prime Minister Harper in the and western-style uniforms were full Canadian experience and found coming days. Due to flooding in Man- essential to her quick assimilation into a job at a local school. She soon be- itoba, this call was even further delayed Canadian culture. “We had to speak came pregnant with her first daughter but finally when the Prime Minister English the minute we came we were and decided to defer her burgeoning did call, all the anticipation subsided told to not speak any other language career to raise her on her own. In this to elation. They briefly spoke about so I did not have a language problem time, her hunger to be working was no her trips to Pakistan and how her life when I came to this country and I where near sated, so when Anushka en- would now change that she was being was familiar with wearing western tered Kindergarten she was advised by appointed to the Senate. Her daugh- clothes.” Although superficially she friends to look at Real Estate as a career ters and husband were sitting in the was able to deal with culture shock, she path. Because being a Realtor is flex- backyard when she shared the good had problems coming to terms with ible on hours, she was able to plan her news. She broke it to them minutes lat- the loneliness of living in the west. “I work schedule around caring for her er saying, “guys I got it!” Today when think for me the biggest culture shock daughter. Throughout her daughters’ she looks at Parliament she always has was being home alone. Being with my formative years she was very involved to remind herself, “Wow, I work there.” parents, you know how [Pakistani] with fundraising efforts in the com- Currently, she is working on an homes are, generally you have people munity and was approached by a friend Anti-Cyber Bullying initiative for the coming and going and there’s always who was an MP to further her public Human Rights Committee. She has someone there, so I think for me involvement. She eventually ran for of- been getting amazing feedback on the always being alone was a big thing. I fice in 2008 as the Conservative MP for project and has discovered that such remember keeping the TV on for 3 Mississauga- Brampton South—unfor- bullying is not limited to children; days at a time just so there would be tunately she lost to the Liberal candi- adults are becoming victims too. another voice, another human voice in date, but as the saying goes “when one She brought the issue to the Human the apartment.” door closes, a window opens.” Rights Committee in October under She attributes her political aspirations Senator Ataullahjan has always the urging of her daughters and feels to the environment she grew-up in. Be- been a deeply religious person in that they keep her connected to hot-button ing a part of a politically active family, she believes in a higher being and that topics to Canada’s youth. there was always loud opinionated dis- there is a plan for all of us. When this She says that being Senator is a job course in the house. She would not re- plan is put into motion, the impossible that she would do, without a doubt, for alize the implication such upbringing becomes possible. She was in Pakistan free. “I am honored to serve the coun- would have until adulthood. Her great- when she got a call from her daughter try that has given me so much” and granduncle Khan Abdul Ghaffer Khan saying that the Conservative Party was she is happy to give something back was spiritual leader and close friend of looking for her. “I thought because we in return. When asked if she would Mahatma Gandhi. Both are known for were a minority government [it must ever consider going back to Pakistan their non-violent opposition to British be] elections again. Then I received the to work in politics she has resolved that Rule in then-India. The Senator has al- call— they said there’s a vacancy [in the answer is “not right now.” As Sena- ways appreciated Gandhi’s quote, “My the Senate], would you be interested? tor, she feels her responsibilities are imperfections and failures are as much I just couldn’t believe it! I hadn’t here—further, going into politics there a blessing from God as my successes even thought that it would have been would require her to put her safety on and talents. I lay them both at His feet.” something that would be possible or the line not unlike her former class- Unlike her politically active forefathers, that I would even be considered. It mate Bhutto. To that she states, “We her priorities in Canada upon arrival really is the impossible dream.” It was were very, very saddened by [her pass- were to settle in and start a family. As 1:30AM in Pakistan when she got ing]. She did not deserve what hap- time went on however, she quickly be- the call, but she was asked not to tell pened to her.” Nobody did. FIT FOR A PRINCESSE Karishma Shahani tells PRIYA KUMAR about Growing Up Sindhi, Her Education in Monaco and How Her Handbag Label Fuses Luxury with Practicality,

umbai-based contemporary shapes and styles. It was to be the first letter of Shahani’s name. handbag label her time abroad that really cemented Besides being inspired by the French Princesse K has her design sensibilities by allowing Riviera, she is constantly making filled a niche her to understand the needs of various mental notes of inspirational objects in South Asian cultures. and themes for her collections. South fashion. Branded Although hard to believe, Shahani’s Asian history, colours and culture India’s latest “cross-over star” by Style. fashion career did not begin with to different forms of weaves she sees Mcom, Creative Director Karishma design. In her early-20s, she started- while traveling or walking through Shahani has built a fashion house out as a journalist at a local newspaper local markets have all played roles in on a foundation of international and eventually worked her way up her design process. Most importantly, training and experience. Her brand’s to contributor at ELLE India. While her handbags are always free of leather ethos revolves around producing an writing about fashion was stimulating, and fur, as she does not believe in the interesting mix of uniquely constructed she realized that instead of reporting killing of animals for the sake of style designs for the discerning woman with on other designers work and featuring and fashion. an innate understanding of style. their lines she wanted to create Most recently, Princesse K has products of her own. She opened a developed a brother brand called Lord Quite literally a citizen of the world, multi-designer store called Whym K, because Shahani did not see any fun Shahani is Sindhi in origin, but born to satisfy this aspiration. Whym was men’s accessories up to her standard in and raised in Mumbai. She heard a platform for young designers to South Asia. At the time, the segment many stories throughout her life about showcase their products and became consisted of dull black laptop bags, Sindh Province pre-independence. a favourite among fashion insiders. brown messengers and tomato-red While most of her design influence is She ran the operation for a year before totes. She wanted to add some zest based on what she has to these classic designs. seen growing up, she Her first collection barely attributes her “never veered at all from the usual say die” attitude to her shapes and styles, but for ancestral homeland. the upcoming designs she Belonging to an plans to play around with international Sindhi more patterns and textiles. family also allowed When asked what her her to gain sharp ultimate aspiration for business acumen. Princesse K is, Shahani She spent a year stated that she would studying in Monaco like to see it available where she learned in niche boutiques and about European online stores across luxury brands, the the world. This is well importance of their underway as her designs history and the quality can be purchased across and workmanship South Asia, Singapore, that goes into creating a luxury label. deciding to leave for Monaco to pursue Australia and via online portals such Being surrounded by the citizens of her Masters of Science in Luxury as Brandmile.com. Karishma Shahani Monaco, who quite literally exude Goods & Services. is certainly a name to watch—her luxury, she began to understand the In addition to being exposed to designs can currently be seen in action value of European luxury brands. She the upper tiers of the luxury world, in Bollywood’s latest blockbusters. Be brought this knowledge back with Shahani’s time in Monaco was behind sure to check for Princesse K on John her to Mumbai and infused it into her the inspiration for the label’s name. Abraham in Desi Boys and on Bipasha own brand. She also played around Princesse K was named after the Basu in Jodi Breakers. Not bad for the with traditional South Asian fabrics timeless style icon Grace Kelly, the one-time young, struggling Sindhi and embroideries to enhance the beautiful wife of the now late Prince journalist. design of each style, while maintaining Rainier. Incidentally, “K” also happens “PRINCESSE K WAS NAMED AFTER THE TIMELESS STYLE ICON GRACE KELLY”

“THE BEAUTIFUL WIFE OF THE NOW LATE PRINCE RAINIER.” STEEPED IN SRI LANKA’S CENTRAL HIGHLANDS By Robin Esrock hen ancient do, but tea when I want to relax. Since they support an incredible 1500 com- Arab traders the first leaf accidently fell into a Chi- munity projects, including childcare, discovered a nese Emperor’s boiling water, millions geriatric services, arts programs, coun- fertile, teardrop around the world enjoy their tea too. selling and even prisoner rehabilita- island in the The British planted coffee in colonial tion. The company provides free hous- Indian Ocean, Ceylon first, but it failed to take hold. ing, education and medical services for they called it Serendib. We still use Tea quality, on the other hand, is de- their tea estate workers. On the slopes, Wtheir word, serendipity, to describe the pendent on soil, climate and altitude. the mood is light, as the women chatter phenomenon of finding something All blended perfectly in the Central away, moving between rows of waist- valuable that was not expected. The Highlands, and Ceylon tea quickly high plants, gathering the tealeaves that word stuck in my mind as I drive into became a valuable global commodity. will find their way to 92 countries. Sri Lanka’s Central Highlands, pass- Certainly, I’ve never enjoyed a fresher At the nearby tea factory, I learn ing dense jungle, milky waterfalls, and cup of tea like the one waiting for me about the process of withering, rolling, playful monkeys. Locals smile and on the patio. The early morning sun fermenting and drying, and how leaves wave, exuding their distinctive cultural sparkled on the evergreen tea terraces, are classified and graded. Andrew ex- warmth, even as the temperature drops painted like layers into the hills. “What plains how to make the perfect cup of due to the rising altitude. By late after- are those yellow and blue specks mov- tea— water just to a boil, one spoon noon, the mountains turn into a rich ing around up there?” I ask my but- of tea per person, and one for the pot. carpet of manicured plants that roll ler. I’d never had a butler before, but I Never add sugar, which negates the smoothly with the hills. I had arrived could get used to it. “Those are the tea considerable health benefits, and only in the heartland of Sri Lanka’s most fa- pluckers, sir.” My education in tea was a dash of milk if required. We taste mous export: tea. about to begin. different grades, much like wine tast- My destination is Ceylon Tea Trails, While Tea Trails offers hiking, ing, letting the liquid roll around the a luxury bungalow resort originally mountain biking, tennis, a spa and tongue, and expelling mouthfuls into a built for the tea barons who ruled over croquet, most guests simply enjoy the spittoon. There’s still a lot to learn, but the estates. Owned and operated by opportunity to be at a working tea es- my appreciation for tea has deepened, Dilmah, one of the world’s largest tea tate, learning about the finest tea in the and no afternoon break will taste the brands, Ceylon Tea Trails is their love world. The estate’s guide is Andrew same again. letter to anyone with a passion for tea, Taylor, a friendly, quick-witted tea mas- Back at the Tienstin bungalow, tranquillity, hospitality, and the region ter and direct descendent of Sri Lanka’s named after the Chinese village from itself. The four bungalows, which re- first tea planter. We start in the fields, whence the tea seedlings came, a fine semble large country estates, are at where I learn how tea is plucked— mist rolls across the hills. I consume least 4km apart, serviced by butlers and always the desired two leaves and a my afternoon tea without sugar, en- private chefs, and encircled by gardens bud. Left alone, these plants would joying its aroma, strong flavour and that offer stunning views of mountains grow over 7m. The estate’s army of tea bright colour. I hear a gentle strum- and lakes. Entering the colonial Tien- pluckers consist of short, skinny ladies ming guitar in my head, inspired by a tsin Bungalow, originally built in 1888, wrapped in colourful saris, with a bas- former Tientsin guest, Paul Simon. In a is like stepping into another era—pol- ket balanced around their head. With country once scarred by war, I don’t be- ished wooden floors, high ceilings lightning fingers, they pluck up to lieve I’ve ever enjoyed such peace and and plush 4-poster beds. Uniformed 16kgs of tealeaves a day, paid according serenity. Finding something valuable staff wait with an evening cocktail in to weight. I ask one lady if I can give it not originally sought after? Serendipity a lounge that smells of old, expensive a try, which solicits a cackle of laughs. indeed. leather. Old, faded paintings of tea bar- The basket is heavy, already straining ons hang on the wall. I can’t shake the my neck, even though it’s relatively Vancouver-based Robin Esrock is the feeling that I’ve just intruded on a royal empty. I clumsily pluck away for a half co-host of the OLN/CityTV series Word escape. The fireplace is blazing, a re- hour, before deciding that it’s work best Travels. 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As the name implies, The from the reckless religious police, the importance of retaining hope Taliban Cricket Club is the no detail is spared. at all costs. Although a great sum- haunting and at times per- From page one it is evident mer read, the story was written ilous fictional story about Rukhsana’s ultimate goal is to flee after many years of in-depth re- her ancestral homeland that has search. Timeri M. Murari trav- Afghanistan’s temporary confined her to the house she grew elled to Kabul to speak with locals broken ban on sports and up in. Everything is in place for her about the situation. He carefully entertainment in an attempt exit—a soon-to-be fiancée is liv- wove fact with fiction to create to put together an official ing happily in America, a mother this story that details the frustra- cricket league. who is gravely ill with cancer has tion, loneliness and fear of every- almost passed and a contingent of day living Afghanis had to endure et in a mid-90’s war-torn close childhood companions have under the rule of the Taliban. Kabul, the novel follows already left. The only hitch in her The story brings together two the 24-year-old aspir- plan is her 16-year-old younger opposing trains of thought; one ing journalist Rukhsana. brother Jahan. He would be left in that all women are evil vices, put Precocious and ambi- this tyrannical society to fend for on earth to tempt and entrap men tious, the Taliban’s tight himself and she will not stand to and the other of a young, edu- Sreign over its people has no hold see this happen. cated journalist trying to get the on this daring, young ingénue. Fortuitously, the Taliban an- word out about the hardships of Although they have forced her by nounces a cricket tournament living in a modern-day Afghani- law to quit her job at the Kabul that that will send the winning stan. The Taliban Cricket Club Daily, she still manages to bra- team off to Pakistan for training sheds light on the lack of choices zenly fax wartime coverage to the (and a life of freedom). She, her women living in Kabul have and Hindustan Times in New Delhi, brother and closest cousins feel coupled with the threat of a ruth- chronicling the oppressions and this is their only way out and she less, trigger-happy ministry, fo- injustices the people of modern- defiantly agrees to teach them the cuses on the urgency of the hero- day Afghanistan face. From pub- game she loved so much while liv- ine’s audacious escape. Readers lic stoning, to the hardships of life ing in India as a student. will hold their breath along with as a woman trying to make ends The Taliban Cricket Club is a the protagonists until the novel’s meet in this patriarchal society to poignant story about the bond final word. the constant threat of punishment that holds a family together and BEAUTY BUZZ

For their Fall 2012 collection the always- creative OPI takes us on a journey to Deutschland! With a healthy mix of bolds and neutrals, OPI manages to hit the nail polish trends on the mark once again! We love all their Germany-inspired colours but our favourite is definitely German-icure!

Beauty Secrets SHE Swears By: My hair is a little embarrassing. Coming from an Asian background, where most, if not all, women have beauti- ful long, silky, straight hair, mine is the total opposite. I have medium-thick hair, and it is sometimes curly, often wavy, but not the type of wavy that most women strive to perfect. No, my hair is an utter disaster. But, like a shining knight, Moroc- canoil came to my rescue. I started using the oil serum in January 2012, and since then, the texture of my hair has made a remarkable transformation. It’s incredibly soft and silky—like how Asian hair is supposed to feel—and I fool most people into thinking my hair is naturally this amazing. I use Moroccanoil twice each time I style my hair; two squirts before I blow-dry, and half a squirt before I flat iron. Sometimes, when I don’t have time to style, I apply two squirts before finishing it off with mousse. Moroccanoil has truly turned my beauty regimen inside out. —Reporting by Myrtle Jurado HIJABI LIKE ME Two years ago Inas Kadri’s veil was ripped from her face while she shopped at the Sheridan Centre in Mississauga with her two young children. The niqab attack made international headlines and after all this time Kadri bravely opens up to SHE’s Saima Hasan about the unsettling experience and how it affected her life as a Muslim-Canadian woman.

hat is it that sep- lows me to fly below the radar of rie Cresswell suddenly approached arates being Ca- any potential religious bigots. The her and pulled off her niqab while nadian from any same cannot be said about Muslim yelling discriminatory slurs. Kadri other citizenship women who choose to express their says, “She was swearing at my reli- in the English- devotion to Islam by donning a hi- gion, she was swearing at my [head] speaking world? jab (head scarf) or niqab (face veil). cover, she was swearing at my pres- PerhapsW it’s Canada’s diversity, or the Recently, there have been a slew of ence here in Canada.” Over a year fact that Canada’s constitution pro- hate attacks on hijabis around the later in November 2011, Creswell tects multiculturalism as opposed world, some reported in England was charged with racially motivat- to national assimilation. Regardless and some in our very own backyard ed assault and pled guilty. She was of what sets Canada apart, cultural here in the Greater Toronto Area given a one year suspended sen- and religious freedom in this coun- and Kingston, Ontario. Now it’s up tence with 100 hours of community try is unparalleled the world over. to us as a society to educate one an- service, and apologised to Kadri in Yet, the post-9/11 era has ushered in other on our differences. court. Creswell was also mandated a new host of problems and discord As a correspondent for SHE, I had to educate herself by attending local attached to a burgeoning Islamo- the opportunity to do just that; I mosques. Despite the legal victory, phobia that continues to challenge spoke with two women who have Kadri has developed new insecuri- this harmony. Eleven years on, this experienced different forms of cul- ties and fears as she ventured out tension should have alleviated but tural harassment in violent and into the public sphere as part of her the reality of the situation is that non-violent ways. One such victim daily life. This is the true trauma anti-Muslim sentiments are more of a physical attack fueled by clear victims suffer through as a result of prevalent than ever. As a Pakistani- xenophobia was against Mississau- hate attacks—the trauma of psycho- Canadian woman of Muslim origin, ga’s Inas Kadri. Kadri was raised in logical effects for years to come. I often sense this discord first hand, a religious family and always knew After having time to reflect, Kadri especially during encounters with that wearing a niqab was something claims that this experience taught border control and airport security. she would embrace in her life as her many things about her place in Admittedly however, blatant xeno- an expression of her devout faith. Canada. “I understand that some phobia on the street aimed directly However, her choice to wear the people are not understanding of my at me is less of an everyday reality. niqab would not go unchallenged religion, even though it’s Canada,” I have begun to think that one fac- as she soon realised. she says despondently. “[My Niqab] tor in my relatively protected exis- In August 2010, Kadri was out does not need to be right for every- tence is the fact that I do not wear shopping at the Sheridan Centre one, as long as it’s right for me.” De- any discernible religious symbols, in Mississauga with her two young spite the unsettling incident, Kadri thus “passing” as a non-Muslim children (then 3 and 2 years old). A firmly maintains that her faith is South Asian. In essence, this al- surprise attacker named Rosema- stronger than ever. “What hap- pened did not bring me down. It is Choice emphasizes that Muslim Much like Kadri, Fatima empha- not my nature.” Many of us would women choose to cover themselves sizes that many people carry mis- not have this kind of conviction af- and are not coerced to do so. conceptions that niqabis and/or ter being attacked for being who we This sort of cultural insensitivity hijabis are unaware of their rights are but Kadri chooses to see it as an does not limit itself to the sprawling or are oppressed coerced into wear- opportunity to bring about a posi- metropolis of Toronto. Mahwash ing a covering by dominant males tive change in the world. Fatima is another Canadian Mus- in their household. We only need Kadri believes the root cause of lim woman living in Ottawa who to hear Fatima’s story to know that the issue lies in a lack of education chooses to wear a niqab, a choice the stereotype is in fact just that. and awareness. She claims that edu- she made much to her family’s cha- Ironically, Fatima claims that being cating people about her beliefs will grin, at the age of 20 after migrat- a Canadian woman allows her the hopefully prevent similar assaults ing to Canada. Fatima tells SHE freedom to practice her religion as on other Canadian Muslim women that her choice came after much she chooses; it was only when she like her. “Freedom does not mean consideration, speaking with other arrived in Canada from Pakistan to expose yourself, I can choose how educated niqabis (women who wear that she chose to wear the niqab. to identify myself…just as much as the niqab), and doing research into Unfortunately, we can see that this I have trust in people, they should the theological principles that sup- freedom also comes with sacrifices trust me.” She hopes Cresswell, her port it. Thankfully she has not ex- and challenges. Fatima wants the attacker, will learn to trust people of perienced an overt attack like Kadri general Canadian public to know different cultures and religions in but claims that the she has become that she as a niqabi is well aware the future and share her newfound accustomed to more subtle forms of of her rights and no one should as- wisdom with others around her. Islamophobia such as unwelcoming sume otherwise. She leaves us with Kadri’s noble optimism is admi- looks and being called names which a final thought; “People need to rable. She hopes to end the cycle are equally alienating. She recounts, start thinking that it is also an op- of discrimination by speaking out “I was told by a lady at the mall: pression to force someone to take about the many misconceptions ‘Hon, you are in Canada now, you off a piece of clothing on their body about Muslim women, especially don’t have to do this.’” She was ac- which they don’t want to expose”. those who wear a niqab. She tells tually very sweet but it’s like telling The stories of both Kadri and us that women like her are not all someone nicely that you don’t like Fatima force us to more closely ex- oppressed, some might be but the what she’s wearing. It kind of spoils amine our own biases resulting in the vast majority are not, despite the the day!” Fatima also says an aside spreading awareness through telling pervasive stereotypes. She leaves us that she has also experienced more their stories. We at SHE Canada hope with the key words, education and accepting reactions from non-Mus- that our country is one step closer to choice. Education is a key factor in lim women, which reinstates the the harmonious multicultural that decreasing discrimination in a mul- hope for a brighter, increasingly di- the world believes it to be. ticultural city such as Mississauga. verse future. FIGHTING THE CENSORSHIP OF REALITY Priya Kumar sits down with Ashvin Kumar to talk about his career off the beaten path typical filmmaking

shvin Kumar, Indian green light from the censorship board that sometimes these real situations can filmmaker and docu- to show it publically. His most recent be “stranger than fiction”. mentarian, has a style of film Inshallah, Kashmir, which tells the “You don’t really know what’s going portraying a story that story of the ongoing conflict in Kash- to happen, you don’t know what people has become well known mir over the past 20 years, through tes- are going to say, how they’re going to to audiences around the timonials, was released only online to say it,” Kumar said. “How the story took worldwide. While his films showcase avoid an encounter with the board. He shape, how it unfolds, all of that is hap- Ahis talent as a storyteller, Kumar admits officially released the full-length feature pening in front of us and I have to be that filmmaking was something he dis- on YouTube, a feat that no other film- there with the camera in the right place covered later in life. maker has accomplished before. at the right time to shoot it.” “Growing up at the age of 16, 17 I “We bypassed censorship in India Along with being in the right place didn’t know what I wanted to do, and because Inshallah, Football was banned at the right time, as a documentarian, then theatre came along and I decided there,” Kumar said. “I decided let’s just put Kumar must be careful to put personal that would be it. But film came much, it online.” opinions aside and focus on what is much later,” Kumar said. Kumar is no stranger to censor board actually happening in front of the lens. Kumar’s films have experienced inter- controversies. His alma mater The Doon Separating one’s biases from the scene in national success. Many have been part of School, an elite boys boarding school in front of you is a dilemma that filmmakers official selections to over 130 film festivals Dehradun, India, commissioned his 2010 face while working on a project, but including the British Academy of Film film Dazed in Doon in celebration of their Kumar is confident that he overcame this and Television Arts (BAFTA), he won 75th Anniversary. The school ultimately obstacle for Inshallah, Kashmir. first-prize in the Montreal Film Festival banned the film due to the excessive de- “I had to rigorously re-examine ev- and his works showcased at the Chicago piction of bullying at Doon. “The school erything that I hadn’t thought of [even Children’s Film Festival. Despite his prize- board complained to the Indian censor though] I had been told about the situa- winning success, Kumar has managed to board and they would not allow the film tion [in Kashmir],” he said. stay humble and grounded. to have a certificate,” he said. The way Kumar manages to maintain “I don’t have any particular interest While Kumar is aware of the contro- neutrality and depict political unrest in in the stuff that happens after the film versy his documentaries may cause, he his films has earned him several promi- leaves my editing table. And by that I feels that above all else getting the story nent awards. Kumar has gained the title of mean all of the awards, new reports and across in a truthful way is the most im- youngest Indian writer and director to be interviews,” Kumar said. “This kind of portant aspect to filmmaking. To view- nominated for an Academy Award Oscar stuff I just do because I have to do it, to ers who might be offended by his con- as well as the first Indian to be nominated be very honest.” tent, Kumar says they just have to deal at the European Film Academy. This independent filmmaker`s with the reality of the situation. Despite his popularity, Kumar ad- unique documentary style has attracted “I’m documenting,” Kumar said. “I didn’t mits he doesn’t measure the success of much attention and controversy from create the situation, I didn’t cause torture his work but rather the process of mak- the Indian censor board which banned [...] and things like that we don’t do that as ing a film. “Coming onset every morn- some of Kumar’s earlier films including filmmakers, we go there and try to under- ing and just being able to create some- Road to Ladakh starring Irrfan Khan stand why these things are happening.” thing that did not exist before [...] that’s (The Namesake, Slumdog Millionaire). It is those real life happenings that be- the most enjoyable part,” he said. His 2010 film titled Inshallah, Foot- come something Kumar looks for ball has only just recently received the when he is behind the camera and says -Copy by Chantelle Henriques 1 2 3 4 5

I didn’t create the situation, I didn’t cause torture; we don’t do that as filmmakers. ‘‘ we go there and try to understand why these things are happening ,,

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PHOTO CREDIT: GEORGE PIMENTEL tor guides, mentors, fuels and hous- each driven and perhaps slightly Tes the various hands and minds of competitive, motivate and inspire Canada’s fashion future. TFI is a one another. one of a kind, not-for-profit center The TFI New Labels competition, for entrepreneurship. This year, the which has taken place yearly since Incubator celebrated its 25th year 1992, is the organization’s most of operation. At the Incubator’s newsworthy event. New Labels is a helm is Susan Langdon, a former boot camp for designers, who work designer with 30 years of industry to create a marketable, yet memo- experience. Langdon navigates the rable collection to show in front treacherous waters of government of thousands of consumers, buyers legislation, fighting for the expan- and fashion media representatives. sion and support of manufacturing The highly coveted first prize is the and design in Canada. Suzanne Rogers Award for Best The Incubator, located on Toron- New Label, a cash award of $25,000, to’s waterfront, preaches a “thrive a 24/7 studio at TFI and a feature in and survive” motto, offering many a top Canadian fashion magazine. resources to start-up fashion busi- Winning this prestigious award can nesses necessary for long-term pro- be a life changing, career-altering fessional success. TFI boasts an im- experience. This year, New Labels pressive list of mentors, including coincides with the Incubators 25th David Dixon, an Incubator alum, anniversary, a black tie fund raising and one of Canada’s most celebrat- gala was held at the Royal Ontario ed fashion designers, and Wendy Museum’s Crystal, where Edmon- Wong, designer of House of Spy ton’s Sid Neigum took home the top and costume designer for TV’s Glee. prize for his streamlined, unisex Mentorship on collection cohesion looks. and line aesthetic are available to all The remarkable thing about TFI members. Legal and accounting ad- is that it not only nurtures individ- vice is also readily accessible. Need ual talent and creativity, it pumps further proof that TFI is a recipe for revenue back into the Canadian re- success? Labels JUMA and NADA tail economy. Copied by 33 coun- have both enjoyed fashion week tries in the last 25 years Toronto’s success, Pina Ferlisi, a former TFI Incubator returns twelve dollars for member is now the creative direc- every dollar it receives in funding, tor of McQ, Alexander McQueen’s offering countless jobs and revenue diffusion line. opportunities for domestic retail- The Toronto Fashion Incubator ers. The often frivolous and un- offers two types of membership. predictable world of fashion has, An outreach member pays a small thanks to TFI, become a rich source yearly fee—a fee that is even lower of economic progress. for students—that offers access to Although the Toronto Fashion mentorship and counseling, busi- Incubator seems like everything a ness planning resources and is able young aspiring fashion novice may to partake in seminars and exclu- need for success, the first ingredi- sive industry events. The Incuba- ent remains talent, something TFI tor’s Resident members, ten in all, cannot provide. When the intuition pay a monthly fee, and in return, and skill of a budding designer receive studio space at below mar- meets the power and influence of ket value, a wide array of industrial TFI, great things can and do hap- machinery, and the same precious pen. Each year brings new promise mentoring hours to help them de- to the Canadian fashion scene. “LISA is a fantastic reader. She accurately pinpoints where you’re at and where you’re heading. She’s direct and to the point. She HOROSCOPES provides clarity where there is indecision.“ -- Joelle, BC

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HOT FASHION IMPORT Anu Raina Sits Down with Contributing Editor S. M. Kamran Zaidi from Toronto, Canada to Discuss Her Meteoric Rise in Western Fashion

orn in Kashmir, Anu Working with many traditional and Florals are front-and-center in the Raina lived a bewitch- contemporary printing techniques, season appropriate collection. Each ing childhood in the she has flawlessly fused the two. piece creates a breezy silhouette snow covered hills. She “When something catches my while remaining form-fitting and describes growing up as attention, it kind of becomes youthful. “a little journal of inno- intuitive and obsessive. I start Anu has made such an impact cent adventures. We lived very close by drawing free hand, tie-dyeing on Toronto’s fashion scene that the Bto nature. My thoughts and life ex- small piecs of fabrics, sewing them, FDCC (Fashion Design Council periences play a great role in my de- coloring and manipulating them of Canada) President Robin Kay sign process.” Not all was as it should till I get an interesting surface. I branded her “one of the hottest have been in Anu’s fairytale land—as often end up accumulating a whole upcoming designers.” Anu’s bi- war broke out amongst the natives bunch of artwork. The toughest annual shows are not to be missed of Kashmir she and her family were part is editing which I often find by fashion insiders. This Kashmiri forced to relocate. “There was al- difficult—you tend to get attached mother of two has come a long way ways a sense of loss of homeland and to your work.” from her days of sliding down the scattered friendships which strongly She is extremely intuitive when snowy hills of Kashmir on dinner influenced my color palette. It was it comes to using the right print plates borrowed from her mother’s pretty dark for a long time.” technique with a specific design. kitchen. Her spectacular foray into This influence of darkness is cer- Although her Fall/Winter 2011 the international fashion scene has tainly perceptible in her Fall/Winter collection included many dark secured her a place amongst Can- 2011 collection. Mysterious and ethe- palettes of onyx, rust and ivory ada’s top designers. However, she real, Anu uses layering techniques of with paisley patters and print does not forget to credit her past as various fabrics to complete her looks. from ancient scriptures, her most being the driving force behind her More than a fashion designer, she re- recent collection is its antithesis. work—when asked what her great- fers to herself as a “textile designer.” For Spring/Summer 2012 Anu est inspiration is when designing She perfected her techniques at To- has incorporated similar print her collections, she simply responds ronto’s Sheridan College, where she techniques using a rainbow of “my life journeys.” learned Silk Screening, Digital Print- colours, predominantly various ing and working with Natural and shades of pinks and purples. The -Copy by Priya Kumar

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WARDROBE ESSENTIALS It’s one thing to have your own personal sense of style—everyone has one—but how can you ensure you still look professional in the workplace without compromising that style? We’ve all heard that first impressions are crucial. Thus, having a few key elements in your wardrobe will ensure you’re prepared for any occasion. Here are a few wardrobe must-haves, and some tips to safeguard your individual style:

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If a union between two aristocratic as men do, especially domestically. you’re going for a business casual men; in medieval Europe, two Female professionals are more look, the trick is to work with one siblings may be married when common now than ever, and with key piece; jeans with a blazer, or a valuable property was in danger; the incline of successful women, a pair of dress pants with a nice dress young couples in modern man’s need to be the sole provider shirt. Start off with one investment revolutionary Iran were able to ask for his family should be on a piece and work your way up from for a marriage permit, or a sigheh, decline as well. Being successful there. Eventually, you’ll be able to which entitled them to a twenty- is important to most people, not put together outfits with no effort four hour pass allowing them to just for men, and it certainly at all. 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WHAT FAIRY TALES ARE MADE OF Photography by: Steve Rhodes

How does India’s Centuries Old Jaipuri Royal Family Handle the Pressure of Holding their Titles in the World’s Largest Democracy? Associate Editor PRIYA KUMAR speaks with Princess Diya Kumari about her passion for educating youth, visiting Toronto and raising a son who has already ascended the throne at the tender age of 13 as Maharaja of Jaipur

n the second weekend of June in 2012, the As the Princess came of age, Rajasthan’s Rajput chieftains city of Toronto was issued a smog adviso- held their breath in anticipation for whom she would select ry with a UV index of 9. The winds were as her betrothed. As the lone scionette of the illustrious barely blowing from the west, there wasn’t 900-year-old Kacchawa ruling dynasty, the fate of the clan a cloud in the sky and the hot air seemed solely rested on this union. Noble families across the great to cling to anything it touched. It was the state of Rajasthan clamored for the royal family’s attention. Operfect day to sit under a tree and watch a polo match of There were whispers a few Kashmiri princes were in the regal proportions just outside the city. running as the most likely suitors, besting Rajputs with the There was a time during the British Raj when it was wildly bluest of blood. However, Diya’s final decision would rock popular for India’s elite to attend the “season.” During the Indian high society to its core. winter months, the upper crust of society would bounce In the last week of July 1997, the royal family announced around from event to event with the purpose of seeing 25-year-old Diya was to wed her childhood sweetheart of 9 and being seen. This would happen mainly in and around years, Narendra Singh Rajawat, also 25. Given his less than Calcutta, whose Calcutta Club is the oldest existing Polo noble lineage—he was born to a modest family and had club in the world. Attending sporting events as social outings worked at the City Palace as a cashier—the union set off such as Polo matches, known as the “Sport of Kings,” was shockwaves amongst the social elite across South Asia and commonplace in those days. People were thrilled to get left many wondering how such a relationship was even able together during the golden age of Polo. The ladies were to transpire. Aided and abetted by the Princess’ ladies in especially excited to come out in the latest couture, eat the waiting and other aides-de-camp who empathized with her most decadent of food wile sipping the finest of drinks. bird cage of an existence, one could go so far as to call Disney’s Fast-forward several decades and oceans to here and now Aladdin—sans the magic lamp, three wishes and animal at the Toronto Polo Club’s Alliston facility in Egbert, Ontario. incarnates—an allegory for their star-crossed romance. Maharaj Narendra Singh of Jaipur is leading the Royal Jaipur AS THE LONE SCIONETTE OF THE ILLUSTRIOUS 900-YEAR-OLD KACCHAWA RULING DYNASTY, THE FATE OF THE CLAN SOLELY RESTED ON THIS UNION. Noble families across the great state of Rajasthan clamored for the royal family’s attention.

A Forbidden Love Polo Team on horseback in an exhibition game against the Toronto Polo Club. Other esteemed guests include Chuck ow was it that a well-traveled, multi-lingual, Weaver, the U.S. Polo Association Chairman playing for sophisticated, royal glamazon was able to fall Toronto, Maharaja Padmanabh Singh and famed Indian for the small-town, boy-next-door? A source couturier J.J. Valaya as spectators, with the match itself close to the palace once said, “no one was being officiated by HRH Princess Diya Kumari of Jaipur. good enough for Diya. Not the local chieftain’s Coming from a long lineage of esteemed polo players, the boys, not the bright beautiful men she was Princess could not be more appropriate to do the throw-in Hallowed to see but not come out of her fish-bowl to meet and commencing the match. be with.” Her every move was put under a magnifying glass. Only staffers were exempt from this scrutiny and eventually A Little Princess one became her first and only paramour. He served as her orn in 1971 with a platinum spoon in her escort during harmless activities such as shopping, visiting mouth to the now late Maharaja Bhawani Singh girlfriends and going to movies. While they were out, other and Maharani Padmini Devi both of Jaipur, staff members would turn a blind eye to give the young Rajkumari Diya Kumari refused from the couple some precious time together. beginning to sit back on her royal pedigree. She This said time soon cost the young lovers—as soon as led the charmed childhood one might expect the Maharani caught wind of their bond she gave the boy of a princess of royal blood. As a young girl she studied at marching orders. He was sent to work in a far-off village B putting miles between the two. Yet somehow their romance, the prestigious Modern School in New Delhi followed by her grandmother’s prep school Maharani Gayatri Devi Girls’ by now Jaipur’s worst kept secret, continued to evolve with the Public School in Jaipur. By 18, she was in the UK pursing assistance of the Princess’ cooperative and discreet staff. It has a degree in Decorative Arts. Impeccably groomed by the been said the whole charade almost came apart at the seams palace, the young Princess was set to fill the void in India’s when her beau had a motorcycle accident returning home to social stratosphere left by the legendary Maharani Gayatri his village. Helpful passersby looking through his wallet for Devi, whose personal memoir A Princess Remembers identification, chanced upon letters with the royal insignia and remains on bestseller’s lists across the world to this day. a picture of the Princess herself. Immediately word was sent back to the City Palace that a member of the royal circle had been injured. Hush money, contacts and reputation snuffed out the impending scandal—yet the romance continued. Their wedding was the plebian equivalent of a hush-hush elopement. To avoid the offended Rajputs, who threatened excommunication of the royal family, the affair was shifted from Jaipur to New Delhi. The ceremony itself was held before a cozy 200 guests that comprised mainly of relatives and close family friends. With the rumor mill still grinding away, Princess Diya Kumari’s father, Maharaja Bhawani Singhji was pressured by family elders including siblings and cousins to adopt a male nephew to carry-on the family legacy. Such a tradition was not uncommon among the Jaipurs. His own father was adopted into his role as clan patriarch. The Maharaja’s own birth marked the first time in two generations that a natural heir was born and so many bottles of champagne were opened in celebration, his English nurse bestowed him with the name “Bubbles;” a name his personal and familial consorts would call him his whole life. Perhaps it was this reason he refused to take heed to his siblings’ pleas. As time went on, Princess Diya too would bear a son. And in the grand tradition of the Jaipuri royal family, Maharaja Bhawani Singh adopted the boy as his own. Raj- kumar Padmanabh Singh was born on May 22nd, 1999. By 2002 after a lengthy adoption ceremony, the then toddler was officially next in line for the throne. HE EXCLUSIVELY TOLD THE SHE TEAM THAT HE LOVES VISITING TORONTO AND ESPECIALLY ENJOYS CANADA’S WONDERLAND . Apparently he has a particular panache for rollercoasters and other midway rides.

A Modern Day Boy King

n April of 2011, the same week William wed Kate in front of an audience of one billion, a less glitterati- attended royal ceremony, albeit of equal significance, was taking place in Jaipur. Maharaja Bhawani Singh had passed away at the age of 79 on April 16th and the then 12-year-old Rajkumar Padmanabh Singh Iperformed his sonly duty by lighting the funeral pyre. He was then blessed by a number of Hindu priests in an elaborate coronation ceremony before leading a procession of military guards to the City Palace. Other than the crown, the pre-teen also inherited a Rs. 1,000 crore ($250 million USD) fortune, familial lawsuits equivalent to half as much and the City Palace that includes 30 acres, several thousands of suites, courtyards, museums and elephant stables. The young Maharaja currently studies at the exclusive prep school Mayo College in Ajmer where he is in Grade 9. In spite of the intensity of household politics that will rest on his shoulders alone in the coming years, the adolescent displays interests that any 13-year-old might. He exclusively told the

SHE team that he loves visiting Toronto and especially enjoys girls, co-ed because that’s how it is nowadays. [However], Canada’s Wonderland (Toronto’s world-renowned amuse- we give preference to girls when it comes to admissions. ment park in Vaughan). Apparently he has a particular pa- Sometimes even the second girl child is given free admission.” nache for rollercoasters and other midway rides. Her educational mandate is closely in line with that of her Grandmother’s. According to UNFPA (United Nations Give a man a fish, feed him for a day. Population Fund) the literacy rate in India for male children Teach a man to fish, feed him for a lifetime. over the age of 7 in 2011 was 82%, while for female children it was a mere 65%. Princess Diya Kumari aims is to turn these lthough the young Maharaja has a life-long figures around by the next generation. vocation that will keep him busy for the fore- seeable future, the Jaipurs are well aware of the The Big O power of education. When the late Princess Gayatri Devi married HH Maharaja Sawai arlier this year fellow educational pioneer Man Singh in her early 20s, she started the Oprah Winfrey, who founded a successful AMaharani Gayatri Devi Girls’ Public School in Jaipur to allow Girls’ school in South Africa for deserving, daughters of the nobility to study in a nurturing environment yet underprivileged young ladies, visited as opposed to being in purdah (separated from the oppo- the royal couple at the City Palace. She was site sex and hidden under a curtain-like cover) as tradition ushered through the front gates by a parade dictated. Many M.G.D. old girls went on to attend esteemed Eof Rajasthani musicians, regally decorated elephants, universities across the world and make significant contribu- camels and of course the royal family themselves. On video, tions to the fields of science, engineering and the arts. It is said Winfrey’s face is joyfully astounded with the eclectic sights that when Princess Gayatri Devi was in search of a founding and sounds. When asked about the experience of hosting the Principle for her school, she unexpectedly came across Miss celebrated talk show host who has seen and done everything, Lillian G. Lutter. Miss Lutter had previously been teaching 8 the Princess said Oprah “connected with everyone she met. students in Burma (present day Myanmar). During wartime, She had something personal and something relevant to say she managed to lead these pupils through treacherous jungles to each person.” and mountains to safety across the Indian border. She did not Poignantly, we felt the same way about speaking with the Prin- suffer even one casualty and became a living legend in educa- cess herself. Radiating poise and elegance, she is the quintessen- tion during the British Raj due to her bravery. tial royal one would expect. However, her profound interest in With such an established institution to draw experience school and shaping the minds of today’s youth is what sets her from, Princess Diya Kumari was happy to follow in her apart. Under her patronage, she has also gone beyond the bor- revered grandmother’s footsteps and open up two schools of her own. Speaking with the SHE team one-on-one the ders of education to invest in tourism, culture and hospitality in Princess explained “one is a Montessori school in the palace Rajasthan. By promoting her home state on the world stage, she [called The Palace School] that goes up to Grade 7 and the is setting her subjects up for generations of prosperity. Without a other is [a regular private school called] Maharaja Sawai doubt Princess Diya Kumari is the people’s princess— a people Bhawani Singh School (MSBSS).” With these schools she she has taken on the responsibility of educating for a thriving fu- hopes to provide students with a co-educational environment ture in a new India. to prepare them for life in a new India; “they’re for boys and 2

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1. Oprah Winfrey on her visit to Jaipur with the royal family in early 2012 2. A young class at The Palace School, Princess Diya Kumari’s Montessory 3. The City Palace at Night 4. Princess Diya Kumari at home in Jaipur 5. The Royal Family of Jaipur (left to right) Maharaj Padmanabh Singh, HRH Padmini Devi, Rajkumari Gauravi Kumari, Maharaja Sawai Bhawani Singhji, HRH Princess Diya Kumari, Maharaj Narendra Singh, Rajkumar Laksh Raj Singh Kumar

5 THE ROYAL JAIPUR POLO CHALLENGE By: Frances Du rom the very beginning, forth, desperately trying to get a leg up the exhibition game on the opposition. Horses jostled one between the Jaipur Royal another as the ball was sent flying down Polo Team and the the field. Sticks sliced through the grass Toronto Polo Club (TPC) flattened down by the constant, almost at the picturesque rural rhythmic beat of hooves. Onlookers Fsetting of the TPC’s Alliston facilities watched as the sun bore down on the in Egbert, Ontario was incredibly sweat-soaked players who did not seem fast-paced, as both teams wasted to tire even after several long minutes of no time in displaying their superior continuous play. skill and dedication to the sport. As This hypnotic tug of war for power was the home team advanced down the finally cut short in the most dramatic fash- field—practically flying on their dark ion. In the dying seconds of the match, the thoroughbreds—the visitors, led by Royal Jaipur Polo Team capitalized on the Maharaj Narendra Singh, continually home team’s sloppy pass. Narendra Singh changed the flow of the game with well- redirected the ball through the goal line, executed back shots, sending the ball and watched it sail smoothly through the in the opposite direction. The piercing red posts. The crowd erupted into cheers. sound of the mallet head striking the Although the visitors won 6-5, both ball could be heard all the way from teams had cause for celebration as the the spectators corner shielded with a afternoon festivities were concluded giant white tent. The guests of honor, with an elegant award ceremony that Princess Diya Kumari, along with her doled out individual trophies to all of the son Maharaja Padmanabh Singh of participating players. Most notably, the Jaipur, sat in the front row. Despite veteran polo player Chuck Weaver (and the excellent show, the princess wore chairman for the U.S. Polo Association) an inscrutable expression behind her for the home team garnered warm large stylish sunglasses.By the second applause from the audience as a way to chukker, the Jaipur Royal Polo Team led acknowledge his major contributions to by 4-0 after a succession of spectacular the game. Princess Diya Kumari presented goals orchestrated by the deft hands of the awards herself and graciously took Uday Kalan, Ransher Singh, Manu Pal photos with all of the players. Godara and Dig Vijay Singh. Victory, however, would not come easily as The Basics of Polo… the Toronto Polo Team rallied back, Two teams composed of four players play the showing a great deal of character and game. Their shirt numbers indicate the position drive, tying the game 5-5 by the end they play (e.g. number 1 plays offense, number 4 of the fourth chukker due to a series plays defense, number 2 & 3 are usually the most of unfortunate penalties committed by experienced players). Mallets are used to strike the the opposition polo ball so it can advance across the field towards Despite the scorching heat, the designated goal posts. To prevent injury in (afternoon temperatures rose to nearly this high paced game, the “right of way” rule was 40 degrees at one point) and the fact instated to make sure that the last player who that this was a friendly exhibition touched the ball is the only person who can follow match, both teams played as if the the ball’s direction of travel. Any other player stakes were sky-high during the last few cannot cross this imaginary line. While the match minutes of the game. Only the voice is broken up into six periods or “chukkers” which of the commentator could be heard last up to 7 minutes each, there is no stoppage in as spectators were on the edge of their play unless it is due to penalties or injury. seats watching the teams rally back and

House of Valaya Gala

As evening fell on downtown To- ronto, the who’s who of Toronto’s South Asian community gath- ered at the elegant Liberty Grand to celebrate they day’s exciting Royal Jaipur Polo Challenge. Organized by Eventivity, the gala was attended by renowned fashion designer Princess Diya Kumari, her son Maharaja Pad- manabh Singh of Jaipur and Ma- haraj Narendra Singh, and J.J. Valaya who’s House of Valaya collection was on display in an after dinner runway extravagan- za. Overall, the night was a spec- tacular end to an exciting week- end of polo, royalty and fashion Toronto is not soon to forget. --Reporting by Liz Guber THE OLYMPIAN DIARIES Arjan Bhullar Shows Associate Editor Priya Kumar what it takes to become an Olympic Level Athlete Vying for the Gold

efore the September issue went to print in July, the 2012 Olympic Games were looming in the not-so-distant future, and the world was turning its attention to London for the third time in the history of the legendary games. While we as Canadians have many reasons take pride in our country’s athletes, it is the South Asian community that will be es- pecially attentive this year. Arjan Bhullar (26) is the first athlete of South BAsian origin to compete for Canada in wrestling at the Olympic level. Wrestling is one of the few sports that have been a part of the Olympics since ancient times, 708 BC to be exact. For ancient Greeks, wrestling was the penultimate sport of brawn and brains. Plato was considered an early champion of the sport while Homer recorded the matches as an early sportswriter. The sport was considered the ancient Olympics’ marquee event. More than two millennia later in London, Bhullar is ready to take the world stage of wrestling with a vengeance, hot on the heels of his Commonwealth Games Gold Medal win in New Delhi, India in 2010. Coming from a family that nurtured his talent—Bhullar’s father Avtar was a top wrestler in Punjab, India decades ago—he took his first steps on the wrestling mat of their home gym. SHE Canada had the opportunity to speak with the elite athlete born and raised in Richmond, BC, one month before the greatest competition of his life. Your family has a long legacy of par- a wolf now. I’ve had to be a lot tougher in India regarding the substandard ticipating in wrestling. How have mentally and physically. In every aspect athlete quarters. As a Canadian ath- they nurtured and encouraged your I have to be better because there are lete competing, how did you and the talent? What role do your parents in no easy opponents. You almost have other athletes find it? particular play in your career? to wrestle mistake–free now because if It was awesome, I even talked to the They’ve supported me in every aspect of you make one mistake, the other guy other people that were there, but every- my life, and any [direction] I wanted to go, is that good, and he’ll capitalize on it. one was happy, there was no complaint. they supported that. When I was younger, It can be hard to recover. So you have there were a few other sports as well, but to wrestle a perfect match. Everything You are the first South Asian Cana- as I grew older, I decided to go into wres- has to be in line, whereas before I could dian to wrestle in the Olympics. Tell tling. That was my main area of focus and be a little more careless or rely on my us about the process to qualify for the their main area of support. It obviously physical gifts to get my win, but now 2012 London games. came naturally, because my father and my not so much. But that’s what makes Well in terms of overcoming, I just fell uncle—they wrestled. Plus especially at it fun, is that level of competition. If I short in 2008, but I was really young then, that age, my teenage years, my dad and I was competing against easy opponents, 21 or 22 [years old]. But deep down in- were pretty close and beyond that. When I wouldn’t like it. It wouldn’t test my side I always knew it was my destiny to I went to university, and started doing my limits and push me beyond [them]. get to the Olympics. I think I’m going to own thing and grew more into a man, I What sacrifices have you made as an win a medal for my country. I have that became closer to my mom. elite athlete to compete against the belief inside of me. I was hurt after not Although you are of Sikh origin, your best in the world? qualifying [for Beijing], I was pretty dev- father came to Vancouver at a young We’re amateur wrestlers, we’ve put in astated, but I kept that inside of me and I The level of competition has been a lot tougher and there aren’t too many sheep left. I like to call them sheep. EVERYONE’S A WOLF NOW. age—how did your family end up set- work just like professional athletes, but let that drive me for four years. Yeah, I just tling in Canada? And then how did we don’t get paid like professional ath- worked and worked to get it done and it wrestling factor into your father’s life? letes, so that’s one sacrifice, Aside from feels amazing. My grandpa actually came over first. He that, throughout my life I’ve always put came by himself and lived a really hard wrestling before everything else. For What is the order of events for you life. He was around sawdust his whole life example, in high school all these events during the Games? and was allergic to it, but did what he had were a big deal, like prom and I had a My competitors and I weight-in on Au- to for his family. My dad was pretty young wrestling match the day of my prom, so gust 10th— after which we will receive when he came over and went to high I had to pick, prom or go wrestle. I’ve our draws and figure out our bracket school here, as did my mom. He took had that [happen] a few times, birth- to see who’s going to wrestle who— a liking to wrestling, and never looked days, parties, that type of stuff growing and compete on August 11th. We will back, pretty much stuck with that. He up. Always had to keep my priorities compete from morning until evening trained in Canada, and he liked to travel straight, and I’ve continued to do the (roughly 4 to 5 bouts) and find out who to India and compete there. same thing. the best in the world is. We will be com- peting at the ExCel Center, London. How did you find the transition from How did you feel when you won Gold the youth championships to the world in the Commonwealth games held Our interview came to a close with championships? And can you explain in New Delhi last year? Tell us about Bhullar mentioning that after the how your strategy has evolved? your final match in your own words. Olympic Opening Ceremony he and Well to tell you the truth, there’s a lot It was good. First and foremost it felt his teammates will be bustled away more hype about the sport, the bigger good beating that guy [India’s Jaginder from the intensity of London, waiting Kumar] because he beat me before. He their turn to compete. Allowing them the tournament and the older you get beat me within that year, and he beat [and the more intense the competition me in Vancouver, on home turf, so that to stay focused and not crumble under becomes]. But you know, a match is a was my main goal, to beat him. Aside the pressure of the whole world watch- match and a tournament is a tourna- from that it made it that much sweeter, ing their every move, they would have ment. I’ve been doing it my whole life; I had my family out there and a lot of been rejuvenated and ready to take on it’s just different circumstances now. If supporters. And beating the hometown the top opponents in the world. It will you get caught up in all that, you’ll add favorite in the final round of competition, be with great pride and excitement it was awesome, it was a good feeling and I that SHE and the rest of Canada will a lot more pressure on yourself, so I try was happy with the maple leaf on the high not to. It’s still one mat, and one oppo- stage and walking around the stadium be cheering Bhullar on an ocean away nent, guy vs. guy, same rules, same stuff. with the flag. come August 11th. 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CONTRIBUTORS

Yafa Sakkejha Tara Elizabeth Steve Rhodes Sakkejha is a Palestinian who was born in Writer, ‘Inspired by Life’, page Based in Toronto, Steve Rhodes has been Toronto, Canada. She currently runs the Photo credit: Kyle Scheib photographing for advertising and edito- House of Verona, a health retreat com- rial clients, as well as private commissions, pany in Collingwood, Ontario. She also is Tara Elizabeth is a freelance writer, actor, for the past ten years. Clients include Style a partner at Beneplan, a customer-owned and model residing in Toronto. After at Home, LCBO and Nestle. health insurance company. She became landing a job at a Toronto magazine she passionate about health when she met a got discovered by some local photogra- whole community in Toronto of people phers to model. Acting soon followed who successfully reversed diabetes, mood and she was lucky enough to hone her disorders such as depression, and other skills at Pro Actor’s Lab in Toronto. You diseases through advanced nutrition. can see her feature film debut in the indie film ‘Divine Enmity’.

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Priya Kumar Liz Guber Nicole Alvarez Associate Editor Fashion Assistant Art Layout Coordinator Kumar joined the SHE family in January Recent fashion school grad with an 2012 as a Contributing Columnist for the overflowing wardrobe Guber keeps SHE Pakistani Edition. She brings a wealth of readers up to date on both Canadian and international fashion/beauty experience international fashion. Look out for her to the table, having previously worked at coverage of JUMA’s collection showing at Vogue India in Mumbai and Blackbook New York Fashion Week and the Toronto Magazine in New York. Her cover story Fashion Incubator’s 25th Anniversary Gala. “What Fairy Tales are Made of” on Prin- cess Diya Kumari’s life, love and family history is one not to be missed.

Robin Esrock PRECIOUS BY MAIRA BRINGS THE PAKISTANI JEWELLERY DESIGN TRADITION TO TORONTO

aira Mahmood be- her love of the craft would eventually Creative Director lieves when it comes develop into a career. Maira Mahmood to creativity, there are After spending her formative years goes one-on-one no limits. Born into in Pakistan, Maira immigrated to Can- with Canadian a family with a strong ada after marrying her now husband. heritage of jewelry de- After taking some time to acclimatize, Contributing sign,M she spent most of her childhood in she immediately started designing Editor S. M. Faisalabad, Pakistan. Among her fondest again and began working on new col- Kamran Zaidi memories of growing up in Pakistan in- lections. Her favourite aspect of be- clude dining out at traditional Pakistani ing a dual citizen is having the best of and Features lunch homes with her family almost every both worlds. She loves the Canadian Columnist Priya night. Maira was an inquisitive child and lifestyle but still loves being associated Kumar to discuss a self-proclaimed daddy’s girl—it was with Pakistan. When she launched her her father’s influence that drove her into collection in 2009, she brought a flare Pakistani jewellery a career of jewellry design as he too is es- to the Canadian jewellery marketplace design in Canada tablished in the industry. Intrigued with that was previously lacking. She feels the Pakistani design tradition at a young her pieces have been well received lo- age, Maira learned the craft of turning a cally due to the sheer distance between simple piece of metal into a work of art. “I North America and the Far East. To used to draw designs on paper but now I Maira’s clientele, distance has certainly feel very excited when I actually make made the heart grow fonder. Exotic them” she says. She always hoped that and ethereal, Maira’s range of jewellery includes precious and semi-precious Bollywood’s glitz and glamour before stones. Alongside her collections, the awards ceremony itself. Maira also works exclusively with her Maira’s expertise lies in using tra- clients to create customized pieces. Her ditional jewellery craftsmanship tech- designs range from cutting-edge con- niques because she feels it is more flex- temporary to timelessly traditional— ible to work with. Her goal has always whichever the style, Precious by Maira been to create something that her cli- can be passed on for generations. She ents will cherish. Keeping her clients believes creating pieces for all ages happy by crafting her most beautiful and occasions is the fun part of jew- work is her number one priority. As ellery design. Maira works to launch for advice to emerging jewellery de- new themed collections almost every signers, she encourages them to not month. Recently, she has favoured the get discouraged. Every business takes influence of Egyptian and Islamic Art. time to flourish. To all aspiring jew- This past summer, Precious by ellery designers, she concludes “make Maira had the opportunity to partici- your passion your occupation, and pate in IIFA (International Indian Film then dedicate yourself to it!” Awards). She was the jewellery designer selected to display her latest collection on —Copy by Priya Kumar the runway at the Samsara show. Hosted Maira Mahmood (left) and Lisa Ray (right) by actress Lisa Ray (Water, Bollywood/ [email protected] Hollywood), Samsara was a display of +1 647 295 8111 RITU KUMAR UNVEILS HER PANCHVASTRA COUTURE COLLECTION IN NEW DELHI Canadian Contributing Editor S. M. Kamran Zaidi offers his take on the designer’s manifestation of an age-old myth

nown as the empress of and darkness. Purity was represented theater and film to give the characters South Asian fashion, Ritu by hues of white and peach, while se- meaning to its contemporary audience. Kumar did not disappoint duction was depicted by all shades of For such a grand show, four leg- with her latest couture burgundy. Swayamvar, or the Palace endary Bollywood actresses of past collection titled Panchv- of Illusions segment, displayed the and present walked the ramp as show- astra. Literally translating opulence of Swarovski crystals embel- stoppers—Sushmita Sen, Kirron Kher, Kto “five threads” in Sanskrit, the collection lishing the garments. Exile, counter in- Dia Mirza and Seema Biswas each revolves around the appeared in a dif- five heroines in the ferent segment. Mahabharata. For Kumar speaks of you non-history buffs her show stating out there, the Ma- that “Panchvastra habarata is one of two is a collection with Sanskrit epics written a rare synthesis of in the 4th century fashion, craft and BC in South Asia, inspiration. The cos- the other being the tumes have a rich Ramayana. feel, which emanate Known as one of from India’s oldest the longest mytholo- and richest crafts gies every written, the researched over the Mahabarata tells the last 45 years. What tale of five women— adds a newer dimen- Ganga,Draupadi, sion to the collec- Kunti, Amba and tion is the more Gandhari—as they contemporary yet face trials and tribu- aesthetically sound lations that have interpretation of served as religious Dia Mirza, Kirron Kher, Anita Ratnam, Seema Biswas and Sushmita Sen with Ritu Kumar the same idiom by allegories for centu- Amrish Kumar, [my ries. Kumar’s collection is her interpreta- tuitively, was denoted by a rainbow of son]. This takes the collection from vintage tion of each woman’s plight and their inner bright traditional colours like fuchsia, costume to an aspirational younger of- strength to prevail. orange and gold. Finally, the most dra- fering giving it a rare synergy recreated Gota, a type of metallic embellish- matic pieces in black, gold and indigo for a newer generation.” What a synergy it ment, is predominant in the collec- were representative of darkness. is; Kumar’s collections never fail to dazzle. tion. Lenghas, anarkalis, phulkaris The show was held on February 2nd and saris are front and center. The at luxurious The Aman in partnership —Copy by Priya Kumar collection is split into five with each with American Express. The relation- segment representing the disposition ship between Kumar and the financial Ritu Kumar of each woman including themes such giant has spanned decades. The presen- C-32 E Street, Block 4, as purity, seduction, swayamvar, exile tation employed various uses of textile, Clifton, Karachi (92-21)3-581-0540