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GLBT RESOURCE • CALGARY & EDMONTON 2 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 Established originally in January 1992 as Men For Men BBS by MFM Communications. Named changed to 12 GayCalgary.com in 1998. Stand alone company as of January 2004. First Issue of GayCalgary.com Magazine, November 2003. Name adjusted in November 2006 to GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine. Publisher Steve Polyak & Rob Diaz-Marino, [email protected] Table of Contents Editor Rob Diaz Marino, editor@gaycalgary. com 5 Something’s Gotta Give 8 Original Graphic Design Deviant Designs Letter from the Publisher Advertising Steve Polyak [email protected] 8 HENRYK Contributors Face To Face with HUSTON Steve Polyak, Rob Diaz-Marino, Jason Clevett, Jerome Voltero, Kevin Alderson, Benjamin 16 Hawkcliffe, Stephen Lock, Arthur McComish, 12 Fairy Tales 2007 Allison Brodowski , Linda “Huston” Eckess, Diverse Line Up Features Something for Everyone Caitlin Crawshow and the Gay and Lesbian Community of Calgary 14 Gay Pride Event Listing - Photographer Steve Polyak and Rob Diaz-Marino Calgary Videographer 15 Gay Pride Event Listing - Steve Polyak and Rob Diaz-Marino Please forward all inquiries to: Edmonton GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine Suite 100, 215 14th Avenue S.W. 16 Map & Event Listings Calgary, Alberta T2R 0M2 Find out what’s happening Phone (403) 543-6960 or toll free (888) 543-6960 23 The Future of Money Pennies Fax (403) 703-0685 New Owners Promise to Stay True to Legacy 60 E-mail [email protected] 24 Straight Allies Print Run Monthly, 12 times a year Masthead continued on page 4 25 Q Scopes “Take constructive criticism, Scorpio!” 26 Adult Film Review Cops, Limits, Dreams, and Bears 28 Q Puzzle “Hollywood Icons,” 29 Camp fYrefly
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4 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 Something’s Gotta Give Letter from the Publisher
mented that she did not see the value in reaching out to the By Rob Diaz-Marino clientele of Calgary’s gay bars because the people are “just a bunch of alcoholics and drug users.” Certainly the absence “Synergy” describes the effect where two or more of this closed-minded board member can only be an asset to things working in unison become greater than the a group that strives for acceptance and open-mindedness. sum of their parts. When you encounter a problem To dismiss an untouched cross section of people who could that is beyond your abilities, the solution is often to benefi t from your support services is folly, as much as it is team up with others that have a similar goal. This to believe that the bars are the only safe place for gay people to go. usually creates an entity – a team, or a community – that can pool its strengths, cover its weaknesses, I bring this up as a reminder to everyone the precari- and accomplish more in less time than any one per- ous balance of group dynamics. This topic is on my mind son could. because I am noticing an increasing number of gay groups struggling to serve their purpose, and not recognizing the But a team that can’t fi nd a way to work together has fact that they need the cooperation of others to get them the opposite effect. Members start to become a hindrance there. Some of these groups don’t realize that their internal to one another, and they come to the sad realization that turmoil is taking away from their purpose for existing; oth- they might get more done on their own. If that is the case it ers work like a well oiled machine, but still can’t reach their defeats the purpose of having a team - there is no point in goals. Both are equally unhappy, and wondering why. Each staying together. A team that magnifi es its weaknesses is one is sick to death of fi ghting, but they fold their arms and destined to fail, disband, and leave everyone dissatisfi ed that stubbornly say “if the other guys want peace, they can come nothing has changed. The individuals may continue try- to me and apologize.” Unfortunately the world cannot work ing to accomplish the goal on their own, but they are likely that way, because if nobody is willing to make the fi rst move wasting time and effort by duplicating their efforts. - take a leap of faith - then we reach a deadlock. In our community we have many different teams: busi- If it means being the fi rst one to apologize, even if you nesses, non-profi t groups, special interest clubs, sporting feel that they have done more to wrong you; if it means ac- teams, social groups, support groups, committees, bands, cepting an act of kindness in lieu of an explicit apology; if performing groups, cliques, friends, and the list goes on. it means biting your tongue and hearing them through to They all exist for different reasons, and similar groups can the end before trying to defend yourself; if it means giving vary within the same category depending on how successful them the benefi t of the doubt and a chance to correct things or cohesive they are. Of course the gay community itself can instead of automatically launching a counter attack; if it be considered a group in a broader sense…though with the means privately writing them a long letter to describe your problems we see at times, we worry about the direction this side of the story and why you are so angry; if it means read- group is heading. ing a long letter and putting yourself in their shoes to un- derstand why they are so angry; if it means agreeing to both The way I see it, a member is to a group what a group is start with a clean slate instead of dragging up mistakes from to the community. If members can’t work together, then the past – then why can’t we just do it? Conceding doesn’t there is no group. And similarly, if groups can’t work to- show weakness, apologizing doesn’t mean that you were the gether, then there is no community. A single group can no only one in the wrong, and receiving an apology often means more call itself the community than a single person can call you owe one in return. themselves a group. A community forms when two or more groups fi nd a way to work symbiotically with one another If the people and groups in the gay world want to stop and still maintain their autonomy. fi ghting and start being a cohesive, strong, prosperous, happy community, then something’s gotta give. In the One has to remember that not all people can work with meantime nothing is going to happen while everyone is wait- one another. It’s just a fact of life that personalities clash, ing for everyone else to change. time and resources are limited, politics and red-tape prevent us from meshing with one another. What results is the The Victim Card formation of several disjoint communities, each having a dif- These are cards we keep up our sleeve for times of injus- ferent and limited view of the greater picture – THE commu- tice: the gay card, the race card, and the gender card. They nity. The highly connected groups will have a broader view are used as a challenge, to point out that a person’s treat- than those that are orphaned, but nobody can ever hope ment of you, as a historically marginalized group, has come to have a complete one. To believe otherwise is to deny the about because of prejudice. It is NOT something to be taken existence of anything outside of your sphere of knowledge lightly however, because using it in inappropriate situations – basically to be closed-minded. can marginalize others, and even encourage prejudice in For example, at a recent annual general meeting for a individuals where prejudice did not exist before. non-profi t support group, an outgoing board member com- Jane works at a bank. She frequently shows up late for
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 5 work, spends an excessive amount of time chatting with rapher” for Lily Tomlin at the after-party following her stage her friends and family on the telephone, and recently she performance. Luckily we managed to get her to sign her half misfi led some paperwork that caused a large sum of a of the March magazine cover before she was whisked off. customer’s money to go missing. Jane doesn’t want to ac- Being the fi rst city to assemble this event, there were cept responsibility for her mistake, and shows no remorse naturally a couple of hitches. As the only local gay me- for the trouble that she has caused the bank and one of its dia sponsor, GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine pushed customers. Jane’s boss John would be fully justifi ed to fi re to publish an unoffi cial events guide, however the event her on these grounds. It has nothing to do with the fact that schedules were not available to us in time for press. In fact, she’s a woman – Mary is a valued employee at this bank. It the event schedules came out mere days before the events has nothing to do with the fact that she is Mexican; Luca themselves, and remained exclusive to the offi cial guides has made a few mistakes in the past, but she has apologized produced by the OutGames. and made certain that she is more careful. It has nothing to do with the fact that Jane is a Lesbian, because half of the This would have been fi ne, except many of the central gay staff at this bank are gay. businesses did not receive copies of these program guides until the week was mostly over, and little information was But purely out of spite, Jane plays the victim card. “I’m available on the offi cial OutGames website to compensate for only being fi red because and I’m a woman of color.” “John this. As a result, many people that wanted to be a part of is only fi ring me because I’m a Lesbian and I’m not inter- this historical event were left in the dark, and as their usual ested in sleeping with him to get a promotion.” “I’m sick of source of gay community information, we were the fi rst ones all these oppressive white males in upper management who to hear the complaints about it. We did our best to make only want to keep us Mexicans down.” sure those complaints reached the appropriate organizers, By Jane making all of these false accusations about why but there was little more that we could do. Those in charge she was fi red, she has crossed a line – a BIG line – and if of the OutGames have commented that, despite the number she is truly concerned about gender, race, and orientation of people who did not attend, the event still appears to have issues, she has just done the worst kind of damage possible broken even. However the offi cial numbers are yet to be to her cause. If Jane tells people that she was fi red because released. she is Mexican, when in actual fact she was fi red because Empress 31 Dyna Myte and Emperor 31 Wolfgang she, as an individual, is lazy and careless, then Jane has made history this month when they announced that their just implied that all Mexicans are lazy and careless. See fundraising efforts through the ISCCA over the past year how it works? had totaled over $40,000! This beats the Calgary Court’s Luca is due for a promotion, but Jane has just implied previously standing record of $28,000. Of this money, over that she had to sleep with John to get it – not because she is $10,000 has gone to the SHARP Foundation to support two a hard worker who deserves it. Little does Jane know that of Calgary’s AIDS Hospices. Fred Udey accepted a check for John’s wife is African-American, and being called a racist $10,000 on behalf of the Children’s Wish Foundation. The has sent him into deep turmoil as he questions whether it is remainder was divided between Artists for Quality of Life (in true or not. With such a question nagging in the back of his support of AIDS Calgary’s Positive Living Lunch Program), mind, John may actually start treating people of color dif- AGAPE Manor, and others. ferently, favoring them above white people, which is equally As we’ve already expressed so many times over the past unfair. month, we are extremely proud of Dyna Myte and Wolfgang. The point is that playing the victim card is like throwing In our protocol speech we wrote, “It would be an understate- Napalm – you may be targeting one person, but you have ment to say that you exceeded everyone’s expectations this little control of the peripheral damage. You most certainly year, especially since you surpassed even your own. But the will hurt people that you didn’t intend to, and it will leave success of your reign isn’t just measured by the amount of large, ugly scars. funds you raised for charity. It can also be seen in how your efforts rallied the community together for a common cause. Last Month Even if just for a moment, you made us all rise above the It would be an understatement to say that April was a politics and the hard feelings to bring about something good douzie. Between the week of OutGames events and the in the world. If we can all hold on to that moment, there is week of events surrounding the ISCCA Coronation, Steve hope for us yet.” and I probably had our hands fuller than they have ever Whoopsie! been in the past. I talked about the Dirty Bird Awards in my last publisher’s To get the April edition out in time for the OutGames we column, explaining how it seemed so long ago being at the pushed our press deadline a little earlier than normal. The very beginning of the month. Though I still remembered, Vagina Monologues happened at the end of March, so we unfortunately Steve completely missed publishing photos haven’t been able to talk about them or print photographs from the event. Thus, the photos are appearing in this until now. The event was another huge success – a great month’s magazine, with this sincere apology to the Calgary deal of fun and laughter for a good cause. This year our Eagle. Thanks for being such good sports about it! favorite vagina moniker was “The Wicked Wedge”. Also, last month’s article on Justin and David Bike Obviously the OutRights Conference, OutFest, and West- Canada for Kidney featured the wrong website address. The ern Cup XXV were a major accomplishment for Calgary. correct address is www.bikecanadaforkidney.com, where you Between the two of us, Steve and I were able to make it out to the majority of events and competitions, snapping photos of our thespians and athletes in action. We thought it was really neat that we ended up becoming the “offi cial photog- Continued on page 31
6 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 7 HENRYK Face To Face with HUSTON
By Linda “Huston” Eckess Individual | Spotlight This month Steve asked me if I had ever met Henryk who does hair and wigs for Stage West. day I am going to write a book about all the famous people I’ve worked with. She pulled a comb out of her He has been at Stage West over 25 years and purse and said, “Comb my worked with so many celebrities. A master of his wig a little…so you can say trade, I must say I was ashamed to admit that I you did mine too!” She is had yet to meet the infamous Henryk. So it was a one of the nicest people you great honor when he agreed to meet me. I grabbed could ever meet. my trusty assistant T, and together we sit down L: I don’t doubt that at face to face with Henryk Rajner. all. Tell me more! “I’ve been at Stage West since day one….Kira and I will H: We were sitting, eating, be there till the day we die,” he says. He pulls out a stack and I am with my lover of of personal photos and memorabilia, and to my delight we 15 years, he’s very hoity-to- begin to peruse picture after picture of him with renowned ity. You know, every knife thespians and Hollywood stars. in place…and me, I’m just a plain old country girl. As I had to ask, “You’ve worked with so many celebrities. I pick up the food with my fi ngers, I get the dirtiest look Any favorites?” from him. I looked at Dolly and said “Sorry I’m Polish.” “There’s something nice about everyone.” With that She grabbed the food with her long nails and said, “Thank said, he fl ips over a picture of himself with Dolly Parton God, I’m a Hillbilly!” and her sister Stella and admits …”here’s a favorite”. L: Did you ever see what Dolly Parton REALLY looks L: Dolly Parton? like? H: Yes! But I didn’t work with her. I worked with her H: When we went to Banff she never wore the wigs. No sister. Dolly was in town with her and I told Dolly, some one knew who she was. Without the wigs, with her own red hair, she has the biggest privacy. She can jump in her truck and go to a MacDonald’s and nobody knows who she is. He shows us more pictures, more celebrities, and then… L: There’s you with Sandy Dennis. That must have been something! She’s famous for - H: She won the Oscar for ”Who’s Afraid of Virgina Wolf”. She’s wild! As I catch my breath…. H: Here’s a picture of one of my favorites. JM J. Bull- ock. He’s great. You know, “Too Close for Comfort”. As he sees the look on my face he laughs. ”I worked with them all. Over 300.” Then, he passes me a picture of, unbeknownst to him, one of my personal favorites, Cloris Leachman! I’ve loved her since the days of Mary Tyler Moore, when she played Phyllis. L: WOW! What was she like to work with? H: She is very, very, what you call a perfectionist…you either do it right or you don’t do it at all. Many people
8 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 don’t like working with her, a doll. but I loved it .I worked with We excitedly rifl e through her twice. I went to visit some more photos and then her in Toronto when she I see my ”Greatest American was doing Showboat. She’s Hero”, William Katt. amazing! The only thing Cloris hated was when you H: Here’s me with two of called her Phyllis. ... my favorites. William Katt and the daughter of Bing LH: Why? Crosby. Mary Crosby. You HEN:I don’t know. I know her as ”The woman called her ”Clitoris”, ”Cli- who shot JR.”(Dallas) toris Cleechman”. When I L: What was she like? went to see her in ”Show- boat”, again, in Vancouver, H: She’s a sweetheart. We I left a note backstage and went to a restaurant and during the performance she almost died laughing, she kept giving me the ‘cause she says to me, ”Do Carol Burnett ear-tugging signal. As I go backstage, a guy you like mussels?” I said, ”only on the men.” comes up to me and says ”Are you the one that calls her Clitoris? She’s in the green room.“ As I look over at a pile of magazines with articles on Henryk, I see Alberta Report. As Henryk gives me a wink, he says, “I worked with 4 playmates too...and I had more tits than they did!” LH: No way! You were covered in Alberta Report, the most redneck magazine in all of Alberta? We all laugh our heads off., and he continues to amaze us with another Oscar gem. How many people can boast H: I almost died laughing. I couldn’t believe it myself. about meeting an Oscar winner, never mind working with And the idiot, if you read the article, wrote that I babysat two! for John Denver. I never met John Denver, I babysat for BOB Denver from Gilligan’s Island. H: Here’s a picture of me with George Segal, the other Oscar winner of “Who’s Afraid of Virgina Wolf”, with He follows with, “Linda, have you seen Dreamgirls?” No Christina Pickles from Friends (the mother of Ross and offence, but that’s like saying to me “Are the Kennedys Monica). gun shy?” Here’s a funny story of when I met Christina the very L: I love “Dreamgirls”! fi rst time. When I came to Canada, I was learning English H: Ok, here is the girl who wrote the book …Mary by watching Another World, and she was on it. She played Wilson of the Supremes. And that’s her in her original Iris’s biggest Supremes gown. People should know, Mary Wilson is rival, the Count- coming to Calgary, May 25th at the Silver Dollar. ess Elena. Do you remember that? Not to be outdone the very next picture was of him with an old time favorite. L: Of course! The Countess H: And here’s Elke Sommer, from the original Pink Pan- Elena dePoulig- ther. She’s amazing! She’s an artist. She paints. She has nac a television show in Europe called “Painting with Elke.” H: I’m sitting And she gave me two of her original paintings. For the in the rehearsal last ten years, every two years, she sends me her Christ- hall when they mas lithograph, and the last one she dedicated to GAY said “Henryk, Europe! Phenomenal. I’d like you to L: Have you ever been star struck by any of these celeb- meet Chris- rities? tina Pickles.” I said, “That’s not H: NO, as a matter of fact I’ve been told I make them Christina Pick- nervous…I ask them, “Can I ask you a personal ques- les. That’s the tion?” And they go “yeah, what is it?” I say…”Would you Countess Elena!!” still love me if I wasn’t such a sex symbol?” And it usually She just cracked breaks the ice. up laughing. We Just as I’m trying to get my composure back Henryk became friends asks, “Linda this picture? Who does she look like?” and to this day we send Christ- mas cards to each other. She’s Continued on page 27
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 9 10 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 11 FairyTales 2007 Diverse Line Up Features Something for Everyone
By Jason Clevett Preview | Theatre It seems the 9th edition of the annual Fairy Tales Film Festival is a year of change. Helmed by new however he was heavily in- Festival director Matt Salton, this year’s week long volved previously in the Reel Out Festival in Ontario. He event moves from the Downtown core to The Plaza takes over the reigns from Theatre in Kensington. Its 40 fi lms feature one of Brenda Lieberman, who the most diverse line ups in Festival history. coordinated the festival from ”There are more short fi lms in the festival this year then 2000 – 2006. there have been in a long time, because there were better ”Brenda did an excel- short fi lms and documentaries this year than features. The lent job and has directed selection committee has gotten together every few weeks Fairytales very ably. This to sit around for six or eight hours and watch movies that is the fi rst time that Fairy have been sent to us, that we have seen, or that we heard Tales has been helmed by about playing at other festivals around the world,” Salton someone who has fi t under said, while sipping coffee at a shop in Kensington a few the GLBT umbrella so it is blocks from The Plaza. “We do get a lot of movies that nice to have a queer person are cute, brainless guys with nothing interesting about programming the festival them, that are looking for love. You fi nish the fi lm and instead of one of our queer go ‘that was really about nothing but I liked looking at allies.” cute boys.’ A lot of directors program based on that. This year I thought let’s try and reverse that, and have some The change of venue also substance and then add the eye candy. We wanted to offer means leaving the primarily something different.” gay beltline; something that Salton is confi dent will also be an exciting change. Many This year also has a very international fl avor with fi lms local community groups such as Theatre Calgary, Axis from around the world, as well as the La Belle Province Contemporary Art, Quab Gallery and Inside Out Youth package made up of entirely French-Canadian short fi lms. Group are involved in presenting events. “We are celebrating our communities diversity this year ”We couldn’t reach the Uptown to book the festival. I live with more Trans-identifi ed fi lms, fi lms focusing on Bisexu- in Kensington and walk by there every day, so I spoke to als, and fi lms with Gays and Lesbians of color. We are the manager about booking it and there we were. I moved showing fi lms from Taiwan, The Philippines, Germany, here from Kingston, Ontario and was heavily involved France and Argentina. We are also focusing on offering in the Reel Out Festival there. It was very much a com- more fi lms featuring stronger women. I think we defi nitely munity-involved project with a small town feel that was succeeded in our opening gala fi lm Itty Bitty Titty Commit- tremendously successful. Having this year’s fi lm festival tee and our closing Gala fi lm The Gymnast.” in Kensington, which also has a very small town feel, and This is Salton’s fi rst year with the Fairy Tales festival, getting local organizations involved in the festival gives it that personal touch. It is an opportunity for people who have never been to the festival to come out and check it out.” The fi nal new addition to this year’s festival is the inclusion of fi lmmakers from across the country, who will attend screenings as well as participate in Fresh and Fearless panel, hosted by Michelle Wong. Thanks in part to a grant from the Canadian Council for the arts, artists such as bad-boy director Bruce LaBruce, video artist Pat Aylesworth, the multi talented Lukas Blakk, artist and interdisciplinary scholar Roewan Crowe, Native writer and director Adam Garnet Jones, Laura Ralph and award-win- ning short fi lm director Jamie Travis. As for the movies themselves, GayCalgary and Edmon- ton magazine was afforded a sneak preview of a few of
12 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 them, including opening night Gala fi lm Itty Bitty Titty Committee and closing night gala documentary Show Busi- ness. Both fi lms have their strengths and will appeal to different audiences. The fi rst fi lm focuses greatly on female empowerment and strength amongst a small group of women who want to change the world. The second takes a look at the process from rehearsals to the Tony Awards for four Broadway shows – Wicked, Avenue Q, Boy George’s Taboo, and Caroline, or Change. For any fan of Broadway this show is a must see! Also expected to grab some attention is the late night Guilty Pleasures Gay Grindhouse Double-Feature on May 26th at 11:00pm, which Salton is very excited about. ”We will be showing the gay zombie movie The Creatures from the Pink Lagoon as well as In The Blood about a guy coming out of the closet who gets visions of a serial killer when he gets aroused. It is hilarious and pretty campy, they did a great job with the fi lm and the guys are really good looking, but it’s not a serious thriller.” The full listing of fi lms is available with detailed descrip- tions on Fairy Tales’ website as well as an event listing here in GayCalgary and Edmonton magazine. There are a lot of great fi lms to see, so bargain hunters will want to take advantage of one of two festival packages. ”We are offering the Fabulous Five pack, which is a passport to any fi ve fi lms with the exclusion of the two opening gala fi lms, for $45,” Salton explained. “We will also have the package that offers all 15 festival packs for $99, which if you want to go to everything gives you six programs for free.” For nine years Fairy Tales has strived to awe, provoke thought and discussion, and most importantly entertain us. Salton’s enthusiasm is infectious and the line up this year strives once again to send its patrons out of the the- atre doors talking about another successful year of Fairy Tales. Fairy Tales Film Festival May 24th – May 31st, 2007 Primary Venue: The Plaza Theatre 1331 Kensington Road NW www.fairytalesfi lmfest.com
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 13 10pm-close, at Twisted Element (1006 11 Ave Street NW FAIRY TALES Friday, May 25th SW), Ticket stub holders for either Friday night film will be given priority before Midnight. (7pm) FAIRY TALES FANTASIES (7pm) ITTY BITTY TITTY COMMITTEE Thursday, May 24th Tonight we transport you into some pretty amazing OPENING GALA, POWER UP’s first feature film is realms of the imagination. We present seven redefining Grrrl power and deconstructing female (7-10pm) YOUTH SCREENWRITING Saturday, May 26th very unique visions of the world from the brilliant myths on beauty, the women of the ItTy BiTty TitTy WORKSHOP imaginations of nine very unique filmmakers. Enjoy Committee set out to prove that it doesn’t take SAIT Campus. If you’re between the ages of (7pm) FRISKY the flight! thirteen and twenty-five and ever thought you Double D’s to get people to notice you; all you “Established Queer Rebels Fighting Integration and really need is an expertise in anarchy!!! wanted to try writing a screenplay, for FUN or for Assimilation: Oxymoron or Chimera.” (9pm) THE PICTURE OF DORIAN GRAY potential profit, then this is the seminar for you! This is the classic tale of vanity written by Oscar (9pm) OUTING RILEY (7pm) TRANSPARENT Wilde updated and wildly adapted by AKA director Outing Riley is a humorous, well-written story of (7-10pm) FRESH & FEARLESS Pink or blue. Male or Female. Mommy or Daddy. Duncan Roy. Tickets $5 at the door. Emmedia. Canadian the ties that bind and the turmoil we face when we Categories that we all take for granted are broken Filmmakers redefining Queer in their own unique must be true to the ones we love the most – our apart in transparent, a documentary about 19 Tuesday, May 29th way. families. female-to-male transsexuals living in the United States who have given birth and, in all but a few (7pm) TRANS WORLD TALES (10pm) OPENING NIGHT GALA stories, gone on to raise their biological children. Following screening of Itty Bitty Titty Committee, (9pm) ETERNAL SUMMER (SHENG XIA (9pm) FAT GIRLS GUANG NIAN) Co presented by Miscellaneous Youth Network, The perfect date movie for the fag and his hag. Wednesday, May 30th (11pm) GUILTY PLEASURES GAY GRINDHOUSE (7pm) GENET WEDNESDAY Sex, violence, sleaze and mayhem! Loosen your Co-presented by Axis Contemporary Art (107, 100 morals and step inside The Plaza for some cheap – 7 Ave SW). thrills. 2 movies for the price of 1 at the Guilty Pleasures Gay Grindhouse. (9pm) LA BELLE PROVINCE Co presented by Quab Gallery (212- 100 7th Sunday, May 27th Avenue SW). (2pm) CAMP OUT Thursday, May 31st Co presented by Inside Out Youth Group. Hillhurst United Church. (7pm) THE GYMNAST
(7pm) FOUR MINUTES (VIER MINUTEN) (9pm) SHOW BUSINESS Traude Kruger (Monica Bleibtreu) is a bitter, elderly Co presented by Theatre Calgary. piano teacher with Nazi skeletons and a forbidden love story hidden deep within the recesses of her (11pm) CLOSING NIGHT GALA memory. Sponsored by Steam Whistle Brewery Following screening of Show Business (9:30pm) SEXUAL (DIS)ORIENTATION Location: Jupiter Resturant & Bar, 124 10th Street STORIES NW. PARTY AT JUPITER LOUNGE with ticket stub We follow the lives of characters that are not easily from Show Business! labelled gay, straight or bisexual. Co presented by Calgary Sexual Health Centre PRIDE CALGARY Monday, May 28th Friday, June 1st (6pm) CENTREPIECE GALA RECEPTION Sponsored by SteamWhistle Brewery (TBA) Pride Kick-off Party Prior to Fairy Tales Fantasies Pride begins with the official Pride Kick-Off events Location: Jupiter Restaurant & Bar, 124 10th party and continues with a celebration of arts and
14 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 cultural festivities, community events presented by Friday, June 29th SW) Pride Calgary in conjunction with local arts cultural EDMONTON PRIDE and community organizations. (6pm-9pm) Contestants & Grand Entry (10pm) The Last Stand Registration Calgary Eagle (424A 8th Ave SE) Friday, June 15th Valley View Hall, Symon’s Valley Ranch (Lower Friday, June 8th (TBA) Pride Kick-off Level) Kicking off Pride with the Annual Pride Awards and (10pm) Military Ball Reception and the raising of the Pride flag all at (8pm) Friday Night Cabaret Located at The Calgary Eagle this is an exhilarating ISCWR Coronation City Hall. uniform event packed with hot firemen, bare- Presented by ARGRA & Stuart Aikins Casting Inc. chested sailors and camouflaged soldiers. 8pm Rooster in a Hen House, 9pm Emerson Drive Thursday, May 24th Saturday, June 16th (9pm) InTown Show Sunday, June 10th Saturday, June 30th The Roost Nite club (10345-104 Street), Main PARADE DAY! Stage. Your donations greatly appreciated, so bring After Parade Party on Churchill Square. Includes (8am-10am) Pancake Breakfast (12pm) Pride Parade a handful of loonies and toonies. Show at 9pm, the Business and Community Group Fair, Family The Pride Parade will start at 8 St SW and head Protocol at 8pm. Fun area, live entertainment, food vendors and (9am) Contestants Meeting east along 8 Ave SW into Stephan Ave Walk, Beer Gardens. First time competitors must attend. Calgary’s Historical Main Street. Friday, May 25th (12pm-6pm) Street Gala at the Plaza (10am) Roping Events Sunday, June 17th Formerly known as the Street Festival, located (9pm) Out of Town Show at Olympic Plaza, the heart of Calgary’s Art (12pm) Grand Entry & Rodeo Events Woodies pub (11723-Jasper Ave.), Upstairs. (11am) Mayor’s Brunch Community. Entertainment with spectacular Your donations greatly appreciated, so bring a St. Andrews Centre. Tickets $30. Performers, Bands, DJ’s. The Family Zone, Vendors, (6:30pm) Dinner handful of loonies and toonies. Show at 9pm, Beer Garden and more. Doors at 5 pm and tickets must be purchased in Protocol at 8pm. advance. Monday, June 18th
Sunday, June 16th (9pm-2am) Bud Light Barn Burner Dance Saturday, May 26th (5pm-7pm) Pride in Transit Michael Phair will be hosting a reception along with (7pm) Xist 2007: Forbidden Fruit (5:30pm) Coronation Ball XXXII Edmonton Transit. An exhilarating evening of theatre, dance, and Saturday, July 1st Theme: Belle of the Ball A Southern Cotillion, We interpretation stage performances and music by the ain’t Just Blowin’ in The Wind. At Hellenic Hall, best house, disco and pop DJ’s. Location TBA. (8am-10am) Pancake Breakfast Edmonton, AB. Host Hotel - Comfort Inn & Suites. Thursday, June 21st
(10am) Roping Events EVM Concert: Forever Young Sunday, May 27th A Folk Music Hootenanny. Cloverdale Hall with the ARGRA (12pm) Grand Entry & Rodeo Events Bridge City Chorus of Saskatoon. (11am) Victory Brunch Thursday, June 28th (5pm) Doors open at the Driftwood Hall Prism Bar and Grill (10524-101 street), Enter in the back. Tickets $15.00. Help the new Empress Friday, June 22nd (8pm) Prairie Fire Warm-Up (8pm-2am) Awards Ceremony and Money begin her new year and eat good stuff too. Acts Of Pride Money Pennies Eatery & Bar (1742 – 10th Ave Pennies Happy Trails Dance An evening of Queer theatre, dance and all things SW) wonderful. At La Cite Francophone Theatre. (9pm) Wet Jockey Contest Monday, July 2nd Calgary Eagle (424A 8th Ave SE) Saturday, June 23rd (5pm) ARGRA’s Official Survivor Party PRIDE DANCE 2007 Money Pennies Eatery & Bar (1742 – 10th Ave
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 15 Events Listing Find out what’s happening
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gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 17 Golf - Contact [email protected], Or by their company AND its a FOOD DRIVE, so bring Calgary Sexual Health Centre Fake Mustache phone 276-8094 something that is non perishable so we can help 304, 301 14th Street NW Calgary’s ONLY Drag King Show out the Calgary Inter-Faith Food Bank! RSVP before (403) 283-5580 Soda Lounge: 211 - 12th Ave S.W. Lawn Bowling - For more information, please November 10th to [email protected] http://www.calgarysexualhealth.ca (403) 923-3953 contact Chris or Phil at lawnbowling@ Calgary Sexual Health Centre is a pro-choice http://www.miscyouth.com apollocalgary.com. Calgary Frontrunners Running Club organization that believes all people have the right [email protected] When: 9 am on Saturdays, Slow Pitch - Friday Nights - Slo Pitch League, Co-Ed and ability to make their own choices regarding A benefit show for the Miscellaneous Youth Network, Where: Update! Coffee Junkies -795 1 Avenue SW * Rec * Drop-In, Every Friday at 7:00pm - starts their sexual and reproductive health. Calgary Fake Mustache is guaranteed to please! Come see (no longer meeting at Eau Claire Y) May 11, 2007 (tentative – based on weather), Sexual Health Centre started as a volunteer based, our boys strut their stuff at Soda, the first Thursday What: Walkers and Runners between 5 km – 15 West Hillhurst Community Centre, 18 Street & 5 grassroots organization and has been providing of every month. $5 cover. $2 cover under 18. km from sub 5 min/km pace to 10 min/km pace. Avenue NW (East Field) comprehensive sexuality education and counselling Advance tickets available at Barbies Shop. Who: All are welcome - Typically about 15-20 men programs to the Calgary community since 1972. In Yoga - Winter Event. and women depending on the weather conditions All Ages show starts at 7:30. 18+ show starts the early 70’s, CBCA’s work focused on improving Contact: E-mail [email protected] or at 10:15. ARGRA – Alberta Rockies Gay Rodeo access to birth control and increasing support for call Tim at (403) 660-6125 Association women facing unplanned pregnancies. Since that Gay Prairie Alumni time Calgary Sexual Health Centre has evolved to Hotline: (403) 541-8140 Calgary Gay Fathers http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gayprairiealumni/ include a range of services to ensure that individuals http://www.argra.org [email protected] This group is for all gay/lesbian/transgendered are able to make informed choices about their alumni of Prairie Bible Institute and/or Prairie See our ad on page 2 and 66 http://www.geocities.com/calgaryfathers sexual and reproductive well being. Our programs High School in Three Hills, Alberta. It’s purpose ARGRA Dance Saturday May 26th, 2007 - We’re Peer support group for gay, bisexual and promote sexuality as a normal, positive and healthy is twofold: First, social -- to renew old friendships kicking up our heels in our new digs at the questioning fathers. Meeting twice a month part of life to be valued and respected. Currently and make new ones. Second -- to talk about Hillhurst-Sunnyside Community Centre. Join us the Calgary Sexual Health Centre offers education Calgary Humane Society our common experiences as gay people at a there (1320-5th Avenue NW) for a country-rockin’ and youth peer education programs, counselling See our ad on page 54 fundamentalist school. Any other questions, please good time! and groups for women who are questioning their (403) 250-4455 feel free to ask. Artists for the Quality of Life sexual orientation. http://www.calgaryhumane.ca Girl Friends (403) 890-1261 RU a lesbian, gay, bisexual, two-spirited or queer http://members.shaw.ca/girlfriends http://www.afqol.com Animal Adoptions and for Prevention of Cruelty to youth, ages 17-24? RU interested in helping make Animals Calgary a safer place for people of diverse sexual Saturday, May 12th - Taste Buds bi-monthly dinner See our ad on page 45 orientation? If UR, we are looking for dynamic event - Julio’s Barrio Mexican Restaurant - 7:00 Gala Awards Celebration & 2007 Launch Party, Sat. Calgary Men’s Chorus volunteers for our Anti-Homophobia Program. pm. Join us as we continue to “taste our way May 12th, 2007 at The Twisted Element (1006 See our ad on page 51 This program is intended to raise awareness around the globe” with a Mexican theme this time! 11th Ave SW) Cocktails at 7:00pm. Awards and (403) 262-6295 and understanding among students about the We chose Mexican in honour of the Cinco de Mayo Show at 8:00pm Hosted by the lovely Linda Huston http://www.calgarymenschorus.org experiences of lesbian, gay, bisexual, two spirited, holiday. Enjoy good food, beverages, music and of and dazzling Debi Leong! Rehearsals are held from 7:00 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. transgendered, queer and questioning youth. If course great company! Julio’s Barrio is located in A Tribute to StoneWall - Thurs. Jun 28th, 2007 at at the Old Y Centre for Community Organizations, you are interesting in sharing your experiences with Kensington at 101 - 10 Street NW (corner of 10th The Twisted Element (1006 11th Ave SW) Hosted located at 223 12 Avenue SW. other youth, and are available days, please call us Street & Memorial Drive). Underground parking by Entertainer 15 Mz. Toni! Calgary Networking Club at 283-5580 and ask for an Educator or contact is available next door and can be accessed off of [email protected].. November 2, 5:00-7:00pm Memorial Drive. If you are interested in checking Cut-a-Thon - Mon. September 3rd 10:00am to out their menu ahead of time, go to their website At Money Pennies (upstairs) Deer Park United Church and Wholeness 5:00pm at Tomkins Park (17th Ave, 8th Street), at www.juliosbarrio.com. Seating is limited for this 1742 - 10 Ave SW Centre Join us at Tomkins Park for the 4th Annual Donnie event. Please rsvp by Wednesday May 9th so we 77 Deerpoint Road SE - (403) 278-8263 Peters Memorial Cut-a-Thon! Get your hair cut to Calgary Networking Club (CNC) is back.... after a can try to accommodate everyone. help fundraise for the Positive Living Lunch program 5 year hiatus, CNC is meeting again in Calgary on http://www.dpuc.ca at AIDS Calgary. Entertainment for the whole the first Thursday of every month. The networking Worship Time - 10:00am Sundays Girlsgo Productions family, including DJs, Prizes, and more! Haircuts: meetings are open to all individuals who would Different Strokes (403) 510-2502 $20 for Adults, $10 for Children, $20 for Pets like to promote their businesses or who would like http://www.differentstrokescalgary.org http://www.girlsgo.ca to meet new people - no business affiliation is Swim Club. Event production and promotion in Alberta for Between Men and Between Men Online women. Check online for fun things to do! (403) 234-8973 necessary. Check website for current schedule Calgary Women’s Poker - Hosted by GIRLSGO http://www.glcsa.org/ CNC is for members of the LGBTQ community to Did You Say Bike? Productions, Thursday, May 31st @ 7:30pm Peer support, sexual health education for gay make new friends or business contacts. This group is YOU TOO CAN PEDAL YOUR ASS OFF! Riders or bisexual men, as well as those who may be not age or gender specific. Wanted - experience or no! Women’s Weekend Escape - Choose your adventure uncertain or questioning their sexuality. Discussions Come listen to our monthly guest speaker, have a in Fernie, BC, Friday, June 22nd to Sunday, June range from personal relationship or life issues, to snack, and enjoy talking with some new people. Come ride your bike with us and make new friends, 24th sexual health and well-being. Admission to the meeting is $5, or a yearly learn how to maitain your wheels, maybe even Camping with GIRLSGO - Two opportunities to Meetings at GLCSA Tuesdays 7:00pm to 9:00pm subscription pass can be bought for $25 (a 28% learn a few tricks, and best of all get fit! escape to a private, group campsite with other savings). If you have a GLCSA membership take Everyone welcome! Women. 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University of Calgary and those who love them, organize different social Calgary Networking Club (CNC) is a Gay & Lesbian Don’t Buy In Project http://www.ucalgary.ca/~glass activities, and market a positive image of big men. Community Services Association (GLCSA) event. http://www.dontbuyin.ca (403) 220-6394 Hope to See you soon... Food and venue sponsored by Money Pennies Bar This Calgary Police Service Initiative aims to Big men’s and Admirers Sunday Brunch @ 11am. and Eatery. encourage youth to working towards an inclusive Mother Tuckers ,345 10th Ave S.W., Calgary. A environment in which diversity is embraced in their social outing for bigger guys and those who enjoy schools and community.
18 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 GLCSA - Gay And Lesbian Community Services Tuesdays and Saturdays - Texas Lounge, 7:00pm The Positive Space Committee at Mount Royal Mother Tuckers, 345 10th Avenue S.W. Association 1 Shooters College works to raise awareness and challenge Do bears like to eat? Mo’ Tuckers is renown for its Wednesday - Twisted Element - TNT 7:00pm to the patterns of silence that continue to marginalize salad bar!!! Please R.S.V.P. Bob at trackscub@aol. #4, 1230A 17th Avenue SW 9:00pm lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans-gendered, two-spirited com by May 10. (403) 234-8973 Last Sunday of the Month - Texas Lounge, “Buca and queer (LGBTTQ) individuals. http://www.glcsa.org and a Slice” Monday, May 14 - Coffee Nite is Baaaacck!! Pride Calgary - 7:00pm at Good Earth Cafe, 1502 11th Street Peer Support and Crisis Line - Front-line help service Integrity Calgary (403) 262-3410 S.W. This is a great spot to hang out and make new for GLBT individuals and their family and friends, http://members.aol.com/DWFrancis/integrity.html http://www.pridecalgary.ca friends or renew last summers fling! At the very or anyone questioning their sexuality. Please click A transdenominational Christian fellowship under See our ad on page 67 least, come have a cup a joe! here for further information on our Peer Support the auspices of the Anglican Church, for gays, Program. Saturday, May 19 - Float Building Afternoon lesbians, bisexuals, and our friends. We have for Pride Rainbow Project - at Bobs Place, 1618 16th Street S.E. - 1:00pm 24-Hour Info Line - Calgary’s resource directory the moment stopped our monthly Eucharist on [email protected] Cutting, Pasting, Painting and other building will for information, events, business referrals, the second Sunday of the month at 7:00pm in http://www.priderainbowproject.com continue as efforts to get the float together continue. organizations and support for the GLBT community. St. Stephen’s Anglican Church (1121- 14 Avenue The Pride Rainbow Project was started in Fall 2003 Plan on building the platform and float pieces on S.W.): NO SERVICES TILL PRIDE Library - A great selection of resource books, fiction, by 4 youth of the Unitarian Church of Calgary. this day. All welcome to come and contribute. non-fiction, videos and everything in between, all St. Stephen’s Anglican Church is a very welcoming The Pride Rainbow Project is a project designed Saturday, May 19 - Volunteer Nite - Calgary Eagle, with a queer perspective. community that you may consider going to, to show support for same-sex marriage in Canada 424A 8th Avenue S.E. (this will be dependent on they worship every Sunday morning at 8:00 and elsewhere. It is a fabric rainbow banner Drop-In Center - A safe and supportive environment the weather on May long weekend.) Bears work as am (traditional prayer book service) and the approximately 5 feet wide, and the goal is to make for one-to-one peer counseling for many issues greeters at the Calgary Eagle. Please contact Bob at contemporary worship service at 10:30 am. it 3.2km (2 miles) long, in order to break the world surrounding family, coming out, homosexuality, [email protected] if you would like to volunteer. record (set by a group in Florida at 1.25 miles)! loneliness and other issues. Rainbow Community Church of Calgary meets at It contains the 6 colours of the pride flag: Red, T.B.A. - Movienite - Location - will be decided closer Hill Hurst United Church off (Kensington Close NW). Unity Pages - A service directory of GLBT or GLBT- Orange, Yellow, Green, Blue, and Purple. The project to event. Movies start at 7:00pm approx. Some They’re a GLBTQ etc. church (and straight folks are friendly businesses, organizations, and services is youth run, but anyone can help!. coming attractions include “Spiderman 3”, “Lucky welcome too!) that seeks to provide tools for the within Calgary. You”, “28 Weeks Later” and also The Gay and spiritual journey thorough developing a supportive Primetimers Calgary Lesbian Film Festival will all be playing the week Heading Out community. They are an interdenominational church E-mail: [email protected] of May 24-31. (403) 234-8973 in the Christian traditions with an evangelical and http://www.primetimerscalgary.com http://www.glcsa.org/ open flavour. Sundays at 4 PM. Pre-service prayer Saturday, May 26 - Float Building Afternoon - at Prime Timers Calgary is designed to foster social gathering at 3:30. Bobs Place, 1618 16th Street S.E. - 1:00pm Let’s Peer group for men who are looking for an interaction for its members through a variety of Build that Bear! Come on over and contribute to alternative social activity to the bar. Activities vary Knox United Church social, educational and recreational activities. It is this years RMB Pride Parade Entry. Volunteers will and are fun and entertaining. The group meets 506 - 4th Street S.W. • (403) 269-8382 open to all gay and bisexual men of any age and be needed to tie flowers onto the wire frame of our the 2nd and 4th Friday of every month from 7 pm http://www.knoxunited.ab.ca/ respects whatever degree of anonymity that each animal and other parts of the float. to 9 pm. member desires. Knox United Church is an all-inclusive church Saturday, May 26 - Bears Bar Nite - Calgary Eagle, HIV Peer Support Group located in downtown Calgary. A variety of facility Rainbow Community Church 424A 8th Avenue S.E. Bears head to the Calgary (403) 230-5832 rentals are also available for meetings, events and See our ad on page 53 Eagle to enjoy a beverage anytime after 10:00pm. [email protected] concerts. Hillhurst United Church 1227 Kensington Close N.W. Safety Under The Rainbow Illusions Calgary Worship Services Website: http://www.rainbowcommunitychurch.ca (403) 234-8973 Wednesdays - Communion Service 12:10 pm http://www.safetyrainbow.ca E-mail: [email protected] http://www.glcsa.org Sundays - 11:00 a.m. September to June Mission: To raise awareness and understanding of Sundays - 10:30 a.m. in summer July and August. The Rainbow Community Church is an all-inclusive Social group for Calgary and area transgender same-sex domestic violence and homophobic youth church. Everyone is welcome (and we mean it!). community members (cross dressers, transvestites, New Directions bullying. Services are held every Sunday afternoon at 4:00 drag kings and queens). Illusions provides a safe, (403) 234-8973 or [email protected] PM. Project Areas: discrete and welcoming atmosphere, in which http://www.glcsa.org/ transgendered people can meet others of like mind. Rocky Mountain Bears Partnerships – Create partnerships with like-minded Drop in peer-support group to provide support and Illusions offers discretion, acceptance, compassion http://www.rockymountainbears.com groups. Organize a meeting to discuss a province- resources for individuals who identify as transsexual and a safe place to express your gender. Cross- wide cross-sector entity addressing domestic or inter-sexed. The group meets every 3rd Friday of Friday, May 11 - Bears At Mothers - 7:00pm at dressing is the purpose of the group, but is not the month from 7 pm to 9 pm at GLCSA. mandatory. If you are transsexual, or know of someone who Inside Out is, please contact our office for information and (403) 234-8973 assistance. You are not alone! There is support! http://www.glcsa.org PFLAG Calgary Peer-facilitated youth group for GLBTQ ages 15-25. Meetings are held the last Saturday of each month. 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gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 19 violence and homophobic bullying. and volunteer for this monthly fundraiser. Held at Radio Show – Every second & forth Wednesday Sunday: 11am to 3pm the Bingo Dome we are always happy to have new from 9-10pm. Focus on sexuality; gay bisexual Training - Develop and pilot training modules that First Thursdays (the First Thursday of each month): faces join us. To volunteer call (403) 272-2912. lesbian trans gendered and straight issues here address GLBTT domestic violence and homophobic 10am to 8pm in Calgary and around the web. Listen on CJSW youth bullying. See the website or contact the office Travel Masters - Need a vacation?, Ed Smith at FM 90.9. Broadway Across Canada for information on the next training session. Travel Masters has agreed to donate 25% of http://www.broadwayacrosscanada.ca his profit from WestJet bookings to The SHARP Western Leather Federation Research – Conduct an enviro-scan of services and Foundation. So before you plan your next trip with Coffee Night – Wed, 8:30pm. At the Calgary Eagle. Jun. 19 -24, 2007 - Mamma Mia!, Southern support available to GLBTT family violence and WestJet, email Ed at TravelMasters Alberta Jubilee Auditorium abuse victims. Womynspace SHEQ Soulful Healing Ego Quest (403) 234-8973 or [email protected] A mother. A daughter. 3 possible dads. And a trip Directory – Publish a province-wide directory of (403) 234-8973 or [email protected] http://www.glcsa.org/ down the aisle you’ll never forget! Over 20 million services and supports addressing same-sex domestic http://www.glcsa.org/ people all around the world have fallen in love with violence and homophobic bullying. Peer social/support group for women providing an A workshop for women that want to be themselves evening of fun, bonding, discussion and activities. the characters, the story and the music that make Survey – Conduct a survey on how same-sex in a supportive, safe environment. It is a chance Meets every first and third Friday 7pm to 9pm at MAMMA MIA! The ultimate feel-good show! Writer domestic violence and homophobic bullying affects to grow and share their experiences related to GLCSA. Catherine Johnson’s sunny, funny tale unfolds on a GLBTT individuals. Contact the office if you would be women’s sexuality. Runs for a ten week period on Greek island paradise. On the eve of her wedding, Vigor Calgary willing to fill out this survey. Thursdays at 7pm. Call Trudy or Krista at 585- a daughter’s quest to discover the identity of her (403) 255-7004 father brings 3 men from her mother’s past back to Sharp Foundation 7437. To participate, please call the exclusive http://www.vigorcalgary.ca/ the island they last visited 20 years ago. The story- Phone: (403) 272-2912 SHEQ line at 585-7437 (you may leave a voice Violence in Gay Male Relationships (VIGOR) is a telling magic of ABBA’s timeless songs propels this E-mail: [email protected] message for Trudy or Krista) or leave your name committee of professionals dedicated to increasing enchanting tale of love, laughter and friendship, http://www.thesharpfoundation.com and a contact time/number with the Gay & Lesbian Community Services Association at 234-8973. the awareness of gay men’s domestic violence and and every night everyone’s having the time of their See our ad on page 58 the services available to them. lives! With more productions playing internationally Speak Sebastian than any other musical, MAMMA MIA! Is the “Yeah... What She Said!” SHARP Art Auction - May 24, 2007 , Join us at Art http://www.cjsw.com World’s No.1 Show Every Monday evening from 8:30-9:00pm Mode for an evening of fine art, wine and food. 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20 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 Theatre Junction Steamers 10 years do self-describe as being gay or bisexual. Edmonton Vocal Minority http://www.theatrejunction.com 9668 Jasper Avenue • (780) 422-2581 http://www.evmchoir.com Camp fYrefly Phone: 780-479-2038 Truck Gallery 46 Steamworks 11 See our ad on page 54 815 1st Street SW (Basement) • (403) 261-7702 See our ad on page 57 7-104 Department of Educational Policy Studies Free To Be volleyball http://www.truck.com 11745 Jasper Ave• (780) 451-5554 Faculty of Education, University of Alberta Amiskiwcy Academy, 101 Airport Rd. (near the http://www.buddysniteclub.ca/ Edmonton, Alberta, Canada T6G 2G5 downtown airport) Vertigo Mystery Theatre 34 http://www.fyrefly.ualberta.ca Every Wednesday and Thursday night, 8pm-10pm 161, 115 – 9 Ave SE • (403) 221-3708 http://www.vertigomysterytheatre.com Businesses Welcome GLBT players! 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(Please 10242 106th St • (780)423-5014 Phone chat room & talking classifieds for 18+ http://www.edmontonrba.org note that there is limited space on the intermediate Buddy’s Nite Club 6 Pride Construction Our primary focus is the provision of networking night) 11725 Jasper Ave • (780) 488-6636 (780) 239-9197 opportunities for gay, lesbian, bisexual and HIV Network Of Edmonton Society 3 Construction and Renovations transgendered (GLBT) owned or operated and 11456 Jasper Ave Prism Bar & Grill 8 GLBT-friendly businesses in the Edmonton region. 10524 101st St • (780) 990-0038 Community Groups and Membership is open to all kinds of entrepreneurs, http://www.hivedmonton.com http://www.prismbar.ca from tradespeople to professionals to commission Imperial Sovereign Court of the Wild Rose The Roost 9 Organizations salespeople. http://www.gayedmonton.org 10345 104th St • (780) 426-3150 The Edmonton Rainbow Business Association After http://www.theroostniteclub.com Buck Naked Boys Club (Edmonton) See our ad on page 10 and 55 Naturism club for men. Business Mixers. Held on the second Wednesday of Woody’s 12 every month 5:30 – 7:30 pm Meets the second Saturday of each month. Living Positive (Edmonton Persons Living with 11725 Jasper Ave • (780) 488-6557 (780) 471-6993 May 9 Woody’s, 11723 Jasper Ave, (780) 488- HIV Society) 2 http://www.bucknakedboys.ca 6557 (780) 488-5768 Bathhouse and Sauna’s Our club has been meeting continuously for over 10 Jun 13 Prism, 10524 – 101 St, (780) 990-0038 http://www.edmlivingpositive.ca Down Under Baths 7 years. The similar club in Calgary ceased to exist Edmonton STD 4 12224 Jasper Ave •(780) 482-7960 Providing confidential one-on-one peer support for several years ago. Naturism is being social while 11111 Jasper Ave http://www.gayedmonton.com/ everyone is naked, and it does not include sexual infected or affected individuals…. Internet support activity. Therefore participants do not need to be [email protected] gay, only male, but almost all participants over the gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 21 Northern Chaps Edmonton 95A St. and 111 Ave. Ph: (780) 488- Greek island paradise. On the eve of her wedding, Canadian Rainbow Health Coalition / Coalition http://www.northernchaps.com 3234 Contact: [email protected] (www.members. a daughter’s quest to discover the identity of her santé arc-en-ciel Canada shaw.ca/yuy ) father brings 3 men from her mother’s past back to P.O. Box / C.P. 3043 Northern Chaps is Edmonton’s original leather, the island they last visited 20 years ago. The story- Saskatoon SK Canada S7K 3S9 latex, fetish, uniform club. 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Is the http://www.santearc-en-ciel.ca Northern Chaps is a social group existing for the May 12th - May Dance and Silent Auction, Bellevue World’s No.1 Show Egale Canada purpose of providing a safe, accepting social climate Community Hall, 7308-112 Ave. 9 pm to 1 am. $5 #310, 396 Cooper to people interested in the leather/fetish/uniform for members, $10 for non-members. Ottawa, ON K2P 2H7 lifestyle. Lethbridge Listings 1-888-204-7777 toll free - Prime Timers GALA/LA - Gay and Lesbian Alliance of Northern Chaps believes that people should be Stephen Lock – Regional Co-Director (Male) Monthly Member Meetings at the Pride Centre of Lethbridge and Area free to express their individuality and to exercise Prairies/NWT/Nunavut Edmonton 95A St. and 111 Ave. Ph:488-3234 (403) 308-2893 (live on Mon. and Wed. evenings personal lifestyle choices without social constraint, (403) 708-5302 cell phone until 11 p.m.) to the extent that they do not interfere with the - Suit Up and Show Up Big Book Study http://www.egale.ca http://www.newgaylethbridge.ca freedoms of others. Saturdays at 12 noon. At Pride Centre [email protected] Monthly dances (Sept.-May) start Sept. 16 at In particular, Northern Chaps defends and pursues - Sick and tired of being sick and tired? Cocaine Egale Canada is the national advocacy and lobby Croatian hall Call for directions, or for information this belief on behalf of gay men and lesbian women Anonymous meeting organization for gay men, lesbians, bisexuals, on P-Flag, campus groups and monthly pot-luck who, through positive alternative lifestyles, seek to Thursdays 7-8pm CA Hotline 425-2715 trans-identified people and our families. dinners explore the boundaries of their sexuality, including Membership fees are pay-what-you-can, although - Youth Drop-in the use of certain associated dress, signs and pre-authorized monthly donors are encouraged (and Every Wednesday at 5:00pm symbols, and safe, sane and consensual behaviors. get a free Egale Canada t-shirt). Egale has several Open to all youth 25 years and under Red Deer Listings committees that meet by teleconference on a Pride Centre of Edmonton 1 Contact [email protected] or Affirm regular basis; membership on these is national with 95A St. and 111 Ave. • (780) 488-3234 call 488-3234 for more info. Composed of LGBTQ people, their friends, family members from every region of Canada. and allies. No religious affiliation necessary. - Bears Movie Night - Men’s HIV Support Group Activities include support, faith and social justice Bears club of Edmonton meets the last Sunday of Will be meeting on each second Monday of the discussions, film nights, and potlucks! Affirm Theatre and Art the month for movies 1- 6 pm in the TV room at the month. At the Pride Center, Edmonton Starting in Brothers TV meets the second Tuesday of the month at 7PM at Pride Centre of Edmonton 95A St. and 111 Ave. Ph: April, from 7pm to 9pm. See our ad on page 45 Sunnybrook United Church, (403) 347-6073. (780) 488-3234 - Parents Rock the World Workshops http://www.brotherstv.com - Trans Education/Support Group PFLAG Canada: Edmonton Chapter - Workshop Support and education for all transsexual, Series Tuesdays (Feb 7, March 7, April 4, May 2, National Listings OUTtv See our ad on page 56 transgendered, intersexed, two-spirited and June 6), Pride Centre (95A St. and 111 Ave.) 7:00 questioning individuals meets 1st and 3rd Sundays – 10:00 p.m. Ph: (780) 488-3234 Businesses http://www.outtv.ca Entre Nous of each month, 2-4 pm at the Pride Centre A series of workshops for Parents of Gay, Lesbian, If you would like to add your business or non-profit 1-866-467-5252 of Edmonton 95A St. and 111 Ave. Ph: (780) Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning children. group to the list above, please call (403) 543- http://www.entrenousnetwork.com 488-3234 Each session will feature a 30 – 45 minute 6960, or toll free 1 (888) 543-6960 or E-mail topic specific presentation, followed by a group - Sunday Night Mens Discussion Group Love and Pride [email protected]. You can add your discussion. Social time for sharing and networking Mens social and discussion group meets every Gay and Lesbian themed Jewelry information to the GayCalgary.com directory on the will follow at the end of each session. Call the Pride Sunday @ 7 pm at the Pride Centre of Edmonton http://www.loveandpride.ca website for free. Centre to register or for more details. 95A St. and 111 Ave. Ph: 488-3234, Contact: Rob Squirt GayCalgary.com endeavors to have the information Wells - [email protected] - GLBT Seniors Drop IN See our ad on page 70 Every Thursday Pride Centre (95A St. and 111 here as accurate as possible. Events and listings can - Saturday Movie Night Dating and hookups website Ave.), 2:00 pm – 4:00 pm change at any time so it is recommended that you Weekly movie nights, with themed movies and http://www.squirt.org The Pride Centre is thrilled to introduce a new check with the establishment before you head out. discussion afterwards at the Pride Centre of program serving our GLBT seniors. Hosted by Jeff Wega Video Edmonton 95A St. and 111 Ave. Ph: (780) 488- Bovee, contact the Centre at 488-3234 for more Adult DVD’s Non-Profit groups get free listings. Business receive 3234. from 2:00 to 5:00 info. http://www.wegavideo.ca a listing once an ad has been placed. The business - The HIV Positive Gay Men’s Group listing will last 1 year after the appear up to ad Drop in caring circle every Thursday, 1-4 pm @ 7- Community Groups and has been placed unless there is a GayCalgary.com Theatre and Art service located at that business. 9 pm in main area, at the Pride Centre of Edmonton Alberta Ballet 95A St. and 111 Ave. Ph: (780) 488-3234 http://www.albertaballet.com Organizations Facilitator: Mark, HIV Outreach The HIV positive Gay Men’s Group is a place for Broadway Across Canada Alberta Transgender Support and Activities gay men to come and share their feelings on http://www.broadwayacrosscanada.ca Group http://www.albertatrans.org how it is affecting their personal lives. This is a July 17 - 22, 2007 - Mamma Mia!, Northern personal private time for them to express how it has Alberta Jubilee Auditorium A nexus for transgendered persons, regadless of changed their outlook on life. As well to support and where they may be on the continuum. help each other dealing with being HIV positive. A mother. A daughter. 3 possible dads. And a trip Whatever is said in the room stays within the room. down the aisle you’ll never forget! Over 20 million Remember! You are not alone! people all around the world have fallen in love with the characters, the story and the music that make - Youth Understanding Youth MAMMA MIA! The ultimate feel-good show! Writer Youth support and social group meets every Catherine Johnson’s sunny, funny tale unfolds on a Saturday from 7 to 9 pm at the Pride Centre of
22 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 The Future of Money Pennies New Owners Promise to Stay True to Legacy
By Rob Diaz-Marino Business | Spotlight A lot has been happening at Money Pennies over the past year. Owners Lorrie and Michele have been rein- coming for Wing Nite on Wednesday nights, because now we’re going to have to pay for them!” vesting into their business to keep things fresh. After buying the building a few years ago, they proceeded to “Yeah, you’ll see us out,” says Lorrie. “We’ll probably be do renovations to add windows across the front of the out probably more than we’ve been before.” Michele contin- building, and have a number of other major structur- ued, “Because now we will be able to go and do things. It was really hard for us…our friends stopped asking us to do things al changes planned – an expanded kitchen out back, because we just weren’t available to do them. We’re letting and an expanded indoors area upstairs. Recently everyone know that our dance card is open after June 1st.” they bought a whole new set of tables and chairs for the restaurant. Although many Money Pennies patrons are familiar with Jason, his sister will be a new face. Lorrie and Michele are Which is why it came as such a shock earlier this month working to ensure she has a chance to mingle with their clien- when Lorrie and Michele sent out an E-mail to their close tele before the switch occurs. friends and business associates announcing their decision to “Right now Lizaine has actually come in and done some bar retire. They stated that the business would continue to be run shifts and some kitchen shifts. Jason’s taken some kitchen by their long-standing employee Jason Wheeler and his sister shifts as well. What we’re doing right now is a seamless tran- Lizaine. sition so that the customers can see Lizaine and Jason. …we GayCalgary.com sat down with the four of them to fi nd out want them to succeed,” says Michele. “Lizaine’s actually quite more. a bit like Lorrie, only Lizaine is a little bit funnier,” Michele joked. “I said that when I was 55 I would retire,” reiterated Lorrie. “A few months ago, Jason came to me and said, ‘If you’re go- “I’ve been in Calgary for 7 years,” said Lizaine. “I’m ing to sell the bar, would you let me know fi rst, and how much straight…but we’ve always supported Jason within our family. would you want.’ So I wrote down a little fi gure for him and Our parents are going to be helping out as well.” off he went, and off we went to buy furniture and continued “One of the big things that we’re continuing from Lorrie and working on the bar. Jason and Lizaine came to us with an of- Michele is that big family involvement,” added Jason. “Lorrie’s fer that made us say yeah, we can retire.” family was always very active down here, and my family is Lorrie and Michele will be turning over the business to Ja- similar.” son and Lizaine on June 1st this year. Jason and Lizaine’s dad has been president of PFlag in “I have worked here for 2 and a half years and I’ve made Edmonton since Jason came out. Their mom does one-on-one sure that I’ve learned a lot from them. So that’s a big part of counselling for new parents within the group. “They’ve been being able to continue the legacy that they’ve created,” says doing this for 13 years,” Jason commented. “They marched in Jason. “…We’re just going to continue and do what Lorrie and a Gay Pride Parade before I even saw one!” Michele have always done; stay with the times, stay up to date As for Lorrie and Michele, they continue looking toward and keep going. You don’t fi x something that’s not broken.” the future. Although they are selling their business, they will “They’re going to continue to work with the community,” continue to be partially involved as the landlords. The renova- adds Lorrie. Jason agrees, “That’s a big big part of our plan. tions they had planned are still slated to occur. …We’re honouring all of the commitments that they’ve made “We’re continuing with the expansion of Money Pennies. as a business, and we’ll grow from that.” …[the renovations] will go a little slower, probably over the Although Lorrie and Michele are giving up the restaurant/ next two years,” says Lorrie. bar business, they still plan to continue catering. “We have “We’re hoping that the community will continue to support always done catering out of this kitchen since we’ve been here, Money Pennies, nothing has changed except for the owners, so we’re looking forward to having a space where it’s just ca- and they’re really great people. …We weren’t actively looking tering – where I’m not cooking and catering at the same time,” to sell Money Pennies, and you have to know that. But Jason says Michele. They plan to take over the expanded kitchen and Lizaine have a passion and we like what we see.” area planned for behind Money Pennies until Jason is ready to expand into it. Money Pennies Eatery & Bar 1742 – 10th Avenue SW “So really you haven’t lost anything, you’ve gained another (403) 263-7411 facet in the community because we’ll have our catering com- http://www.money-pennies.com pany,” adds Lorrie. When asked if they will still be seen out in the gay commu- Farewell Party nity, Michele responded “Well, you know it’s going to be weird Friday June 1st at 8:00pm
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 23 Straight Allies
By Allison Brodowski Community | Spotlight Often in the gay community it seems we take for granted all the people around us who support reacted positively and supported her endeavors - even her boyfriend frequents shows and supports her by being a us, who have no other interest in the cause than steady camera man. the love of their friend, family member, or peer. Straight Allies in the community are often taken Moving to include straight allies in the sphere of queer can only be benefi cial, and takes nothing more than for granted. In the hopes of creating well deserved education. Gay Straight Alliance Clubs have been trying recognition for their effort, both GLASS (Gay and to promote this all over the United States, and the idea Lesbian Association of Students and Staff) and has been spreading up into Canada. Gay-Straight Alliance The Miscellaneous Youth Network have set out on clubs in Manitoba, Ontario, and Nova Scotia have set up endeavors to show their appreciation of those who websites and fought to get more gay books in libraries. The support queer causes and members of the com- success of a GSA club at a BC school drew headlines after a student committed suicide over homophobic bullying, munity in everyday life. proving the necessity for such a club to exist. GLASS’s Ally Program is run by the enthusiastic Court- Due to the separate school system still present in the ney, who is a dedicated volunteer that helps make the provinces of Newfoundland and Alberta, the creation of program a success. ”The ALLIES are a GLASS Project run such clubs would be legally banned in over half of the through the ALLY Subcommittee, and work in close part- schools in those proviences. However, the potential still nership with the Positive Space Campaign and the Sexual exists elsewhere. The ideas of tolereance, and peer support Harassment Offi ce,” read the pamphlets and posters pro- can serve to successfully educate the general public that moting the Ally Program. They cover topics such as goals may only know about the gay community what they have of the program, what can be accomplished by allies, and seen in mainstream news. answers to frequently asked questions. The ally program, which is working beside the peer support program, serves This method of education is extremely important to help to expand the ideals of working with a greater campus recognize and acknowledge the efforts of other minorities community to create equality, awareness and safe places that are often grouped together under the queer umbrella; for queerly identifi ed students and those who support such as trans-folk, intersexed individuals, two-spirited, them. and asexual communities who rarely get the spotlight in the greater queer struggle. The Miscellaneous Youth Network has been embarking on a lengthy project to create a recognizable symbol for Our strength is in our struggle to create true equality straight allies in order to better represent them within the amongst all of us in this world. By using the resources and community. A calling for submissions has brought hails support at hand within the straight-but-not-narrow com- of artwork from all over Canada. The judging has not yet munity, we are bound to reach that goal. taken place, but the winner will be announced this year at Pride with the hopes of the fi nal design being pinned on the Calgary police chief during the festivities. The original concept for the contest was the brain child of Laura Jillain and Niqolai Griffi n. They have been thrilled with the submissions over the past few months. Laura is straight herself, and an active member of the community through her work as secretary for Miscel- laneous Youth and as a regular performer at Fake Mus- tache. She has been performing drag since a fateful call for performers at the now passed on Detours nightclub. She found herself donning a mustache for the love of performing, found Fake Mustache a year of two later, and has continued to be active within the community since. Her performances have carried into her family life, as she performed ”Young at Heart” for her grandmother’s 90th birthday, bringing her to tears. Her family has always
24 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 Q Scopes “Take constructive criticism, Scorpio!”
By GayCalgary Staff Lifestyle | Astrology In mythology, Saturn castrated his father, Ura- nus, and tossed the genitals into the sea, where they ask questions and keep them on their toes. which will make it easier to focus on your duties arose as Venus. Saturn in Leo quincunx to Uranus in Pisces continues that struggle between invention/ rebellion and order/authority. The keys to reconcil- SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your bril- ing these principles are humility, respect for tradi- liantly creative impulses will be more effective if you can curb your rebellious streak and take constructive tion, and empathetic adaptation. criticism from experts and guidance from authorities. There are times to storm the barricades, but subversion is generally much more effective. ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Old pleasures late- ly seem more “old” than “pleasurable.” Take it as a sign of maturity and depth that you fi nd greater satisfac- SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): tion in productive activities. Volunteer work will offer greater Your usual love of adventure is under constraints rewards than you can imagine. lately. Improvements at home can help you to integrate and deepen the impact of lessons and experiences already enjoyed. “What have you learned?” leads to the question, “What can TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): You can have some you teach?” fabulous parties, but be very careful whom you invite into your home. You tend to bring home inventive and spiritually dynamic individuals, which sounds good - but lying CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): What’s drunks can fall into that category, too! your fetish? Discussing your darkest, nastiest desires with a trusted friend, a good “sister,” will help you get much clearer about what you really want. And when you know GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Your sign is famous what you really want, you’ll get it so much more easily! for talking, but you can be an excellent listener. Pay close attention to authority fi gures and subtle shifts in the chain of command. Measure your words carefully. Your two- AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): You may cents worth can be worth a lot more than that! resent your partner holding the purse strings tightly, but somebody has to. Your ideas about creative fi nanc- ing may be too creative for anyone’s good. If there’s anything CANCER (June 21 - July 22): New philosophical useful in them, those ideas will survive the scrutiny of a cooler perspectives can soften recent fi nancial challeng- head. es. Whether they facilitate acceptance, cultivate long-range vision, or even offer new opportunities, you will profi t from keeping an open mind. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Regular, steady exercise is good. Sudden shifts in the routine, es- pecially overexertion, can be dangerous. Discuss any changes LEO (July 23 - August 22): Be careful of overex- with a doctor or trainer. Being wacky at work can get you posure! Lurid, luscious secrets may be revealed whacked with harder work. Discuss any innovation with col- in places that could be damaging. There are people who want leagues fi rst! whatever you have to offer. Just pick your audience very care- fully, and always keep them wanting more!
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Your worries aren’t entirely unfounded, but they are largely exaggerated. Work with someone you trust to sort the real concerns from the paranoid fuss. This exercise could strength- en your relationship in ways you’d never thought possible.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): While con- sidering long-term goals and ideals, think also about your health. Be very careful now of allergic reactions to medications. Leave your prescriptions to the professionals, but
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 25 Adult Film Review Cops, Limits, Dreams, and Bears
By Jerome Voltero Review | Adult Male “Hard Cops 2” by Massive Studio, Courtesy of Priape playful groping, though unexpectedly they begin to wrestle on the slippery black mat below them. To date I don’t recall seeing A lot of pornos come and a porno that had guys playing around in one of these newfangled go, but when I saw this one I latex getups, so it was…informative to say the least. I say that instantly remembered how much with the evillest grin possible. I enjoyed the original Hard Cops fi lm. Who can resist the hyper- But don’t stop now! The next scenes have bondage and blind- macho Zak Speers in uniform, or folds and anal beads and such. Steve Cruz is a furry little bugger better yet, out of it. who is tied to chair, and simultaneously gets his dick sucked and his head shaved. Plenty of kink for everyone! They start it off with some vul- gar but sexy dialogue as Offi cer “In His Dreams” by Rascal Speers catches another police Video, Courtesy of Adult Depot offi cer with drug money from a major bust. He offers to split it Okay, so maybe fur is not your with Speers 60/40, but Speers thing – maybe you like your men decides to have his cake and eat smooth. If that’s the case then it too. this porno will be a lot more to your liking. Rascal exclusive For anyone not familiar with Zak Speers, he is an exceptionally Johnny Hazzard stars in this sexy muscle-bear, complete with tattoos, a pierced nipple, and fi lm, and his fi ve-o-clock shadow a thick PA. In this fi rst scene he makes pretty boy David Long is the most body hair you’ll see suck on him, but once he gets a load of the kid’s cock (it has to be above the waist on most guys… about 9 inches uncut), Speers is down on his knees swallowing it well, not counting armpits. like a pro. It’s sometimes baffl ing how a big dick can turn an obvi- ous top into a greedy bottom. As you probably guessed, this porno revolves around Hazzards The other stars of this fi lm are okay – reasonably muscular with sexual fantasies as he falls into a body hair and tattoos of their own - but Speers defi nitely stands deep sleep. The fi rst scene shows out as the alpha male. I recommend this one for anyone who is Luca DiCorso and Eddie Diaz get- turned on by the idea of tough-talking power-abusing, tattooed, ting fresh in an odd setting – the macho and furry crooked cops. wooden struts make me think they are on the inside of the walls. Maybe it’s meant to be surreal. “Limits” by Mustang Studio, Courtesy of Priape The next scene has two boyish-looking twinks, Chad Savage and TJ Young, playing around in a lounge with large blue-leather Wait a minute, I just saw Trey couches. They go through the gamut of kissing, dry-humping, Casteel in Hard Cops 2…now oral, rimming, and anal play. The music is very trance-induc- he’s on the cover of this one? ing, and the actors quite relaxed. Is there such thing as “ambient Looks like he’s back for a second porn”? round, but this time starring in a leather-themed fl ick. The next scene has another twinkish three-way, this time with a bleach-blonde beach boy, a slightly dorky looking brunette, and The fi rst scene has one of my a slightly asian-looking guy with a darker complexion. It all takes favorites, Jake Dakota, except place in front of a small snack I didn’t recognize him at all! concession stand, with a visible His goatee is trimmed down to rainbow lollipop and a bag of mere stubble and he is covered popcorn. in a layer of sweat as the scene begins. He is playing submissive At the end, Trent Atkins comes to leather daddy Brendan Davies, to join Hazzard in bed. Maybe down on his hands and knees it’s his fantasy, or maybe it’s re- servicing him and licking his boots. The whole time, rock music ally happening. Just be careful plays softly in the background as if coming from a radio in another Hazzard, I hear an all-Atkins diet room. Davies sits down on a spring mounted toilet-seat chair so can kill you! that Dakota can rim him, and later on they switch places so that Dakota can easily bounce up and down on Davies’ cock until he “When Bears Attack” by Ras- fi res a mammoth load. cal Video, Courtesy of Adult Depot But this porno isn’t just about leather, the next scene has Casteel playing around with Park Wiley – both of them in shining Poor Johnny Hazzard just latex wrestling suits. They start off tender enough with a little doesn’t get a break. Now he’s
26 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 getting attacked by big, burly, fl annel wearing country bears! HENRYK, Continued from page 9 Well, he kinda deserves it for driving out into the countryside and playing with himself on the back of his truck bed. If bears can With a patch on my left eye due to surgery, I say, “Ok, smell food from a mile away, then they can defi nitely smell his sorry, but as you can see I am working with only one eye.” fresh meat…and a freshly fi red load. Hazzard grabs his backpack and enters his cabin, forgetting “She’s a very famous person…” he prompts me. Thank the shirt that he used as a cum rag on his truck. It’s too late, the the powers that be, T jumps in - Streisand , Barbra Strei- bears have already caught his scent. Arpad Miklos, Cole Ryder, sand! ”You know Linda, the one you’ve always said you and Steve Cruz lurk through the forest in their jeans and red fl an- would crawl bare naked over 30 miles of broken glass just nel, their noses tilted to the air. They fi nd Hazzard’s truck and to smell the exhaust of the truck that takes her laundry Miklos has a sad look of yearning on his face that there is nobody away!” around. Not able to contain their horniness any more, the three bears turn on each other. Grrr! “Too much information, T,” I laugh. As night falls, more bears have gathered outside of Hazzard’s “That’s not Streisand…..that’s her sister,” says Hen- cabin, and the incessant scratching at the walls distracts him ryk. In unison we laugh and I say “Rosalind Kind”, fi nally from reading his book. He opens the door to fi nd Arpad Miklos, Blake Nolan, and Nick Marino waiting for him just outside. It is redeeming myself. a dramatic moment, with backlit smoke and everything – it made H: Yes, and I met Barbra Streisand , too. …And, Linda, me laugh and cry out of my penis at the same time! Hazzard looks about the same as I did; paralyzed with…”fear”. He has ample op- she was the exact opposite of Dolly… and I don’t want to portunity to shut the door, but the bears fi nally grab him. Soon, say anything more. Hazzard is hosting a 6-bear orgy, with him at the centre of it! As I’m wondering how to get the dirt about Babs out of Priape Calgary him, he turns to me and says… Canada’s Favorite Gay Store 1322, 17th Avenue SW – (403) 215-1800 H: Linda with you going through eye surgery I must tell http://www.priape.ca you, I too recently had eye surgery. My doctor said I can drive in two days and go back to work in two days, but for Adult Depot a week you can’t lift anything more than 5 pounds! I said, Over 2500 Gay Titles for Sale or Rent “then you’re going to have to send a nurse home with 1514B 14th Street SW – (403) 264-7399 me…so I can go to the bathroom!” 140 – 58th Ave SW – (403) 258-2777 [email protected] Jokes and laughter aside, I am so astonished to be in the presence of someone who has worked with the great- est show people, the best of the best - even Cyd Charise, and Ginger Rogers. So I had to ask who was his least favorite. H: Mickey Rooney! He’s a fucking jerk, a bigot. He said to me “Do you have any niggers working here? Do you have any faggots working here?” As I towered over him, I said “you have a problem with faggots?” He said “Nope!” And , I said “Good!” L: What’s your favorite city to work in? You’ve been all over the world. H: I like Calgary! Calgary’s my home! I’ve been offered a number of opportunities but I am at the age where you don’t need new enemies. I’m at the age, if I was to have a sex change, my fi rst name would have to be Ann and my last name would have to be Tique! Or my fi rst name would be Dyna and last name Saur. There’s even a bio on me that tells the story… “Did you hear that lately they found some new pyra- mids in Egypt? After a few years of digging around they fi nally broke in. They were amazed at all the jewelry, all the gold statues, and all the money lying around. They just stood there freaking out….until one mummy got up and started walking towards them.… They all got up and started screaming and running back and the mummy says, ’Don’t run away, don’t be afraid of me, I won’t hurt you. I just want to ask you one question. Is Henryk still working at Stage West?’” Thankfully for Calgary, the answer is YES!!
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 27 Q Puzzle “Hollywood Icons,”
By GayCalgary Staff Fun | Crosswords CLUE: crossword featuring a new take on a quote from Sunset Boulevard
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28 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 Camp fYrefly
By Caitlin Crawshaw Community|Spotlight Summer camp brings to mind thoughts of weenie roasts, canoeing and tearful goodbyes to parents – but for 17-year-old Patrick Dunn, camp has a very different meaning. For the last couple of years, Dunn has participated in Camp fYrefl y, an Edmonton camp for LGBTQ youth aged 12-25. The camp aims to teach leadership skills to empower youth to help themselves – and others –fi ght homophobia. It’s the largest camp of its kind in Canada. Dunn, who will attend the camp for the third time this July, says the camp has been an illuminating experience. “It was like pulling the blinds open in a dim room: I was suddenly exposed to all these people who were like me, and suddenly I realized that dim room wasn’t as empty as I’d previously thought,” he said. “I always felt so alone, whether it was at school - I was the only openly gay person in my entire school for about a year and a half - or at home, or queer youth connected, despite the social climates they may anywhere, really. [Camp] fYrefl y gave me a reason not to feel go back to when the camp is over. lonely anymore.” “That’s why we see so many people in the community Now in its fourth year, the camp was started by University organizations donating their time and fi nancial resources of Alberta education professor Dr. André Grace and educa- to help the camp, because they want to see the youth live tional policy studies PhD student Kris Wells. happy, successful lives,” said Wells. In a world where being gay is still stigmatizing and often He’s optimistic that things are changing, as community dangerous, the camp works to make youth aware of their support for the camp is growing. This year, Telus signed on rights. as the camp’s fi rst corporate sponsor. “Too often for sexual minority youth, they feel marginal- Ultimately, it’s the “phenomenal support” from organiza- ized and alienated...and we know the suicide rate is two tions and individuals that makes the camp possible. Wells to three times higher than their heterosexual peers,” said explains that Camp fYrefl y tries to keep costs low for camp- Wells. ers who hail from across the province and even parts of Canada. This is a sad statistic and must be changed says Wells, who hopes the camp will inspire campers to work on them- Of course, the LGBTQ community has understood the selves, so that they can make a difference in their commu- camp from its inception. “They get it, they get the message. nity. They intuitively get the power of the camp,” said Wells. “I think of the phrase that Ghandi uses – to paraphrase Many of the adult donors remark that the camp would’ve –be the change that you seek in the world. And I think that’s made a huge difference to their lives if it had existed when one of the mandates of the camp, to empower youth to be they were young, says Wells. But, by supporting the camp, that change,” said Wells. people are empowering the next generation of LGBTQ lead- ers. And while Canada – even Alberta – may be moving in a more progressive direction, youth regularly encounter hate, “It’s often said that homophobia is the last acceptable and need to develop a “resiliency tool box” to deal with ho- form of prejudice in our society, and that’s something these mophobia. youth are changing by being visible and being vocal.” “I’ll never forget the one youth in a session who said, ‘I For more information, or to contribute to the camp, check wish I’d known about the Charter of Rights and Freedoms out www.fyrefl y.ualberta.ca. and how it protected me when my teacher said I was going Camp fYrefl y to burn in hell,’” said Wells. Registration Deadline is June 15th, 2007 Two important resiliency factors are a sense of belonging Running August 2nd – 5th and attachment. Feeling like a part of something can keep www.fyrefl y.ualberta.ca
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 29 30 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 Stifling the Syphilis Outbreak
By AIDS Calgary Awareness Association Health |Advice Syphilis infection rates are steadily rising in Calgary and throughout Alberta and is specifi - References: cally a concern within the MSM (men who have 1) Alberta Health and Wellness. Retrieved April sex with men) community. According to Alberta 04, 2007 from http://www.gov.ab.ca/acn/200703/ Health and Wellness, over 200 cases of infectious 2114837853E7C-B959-29A4-3A5E50ACA420B304.html syphilis were identifi ed in the province last year; a 40% increase from the previous year [1]. Syphi- lis is a sexually transmitted infection that, if left untreated, can lead to serious consequences for the infected person. Symptoms: Syphilis may present different symptoms at all three stages of infection. The primary infectious stage may include a single painless sore (ulcer) or multiple painful ulcers in the genital area. Secondary infectious stages of syphilis may present as a generalized rash com- monly found on the palms of hands or soles of feet, and could be accompanied by fever and swollen glands. If left Something’s Gotta Give, Continued from page 9 untreated syphilis could develop into its latent stages can check on their progress over the next 4 months, and leading to serious complications including neurologi- even make donations. cal or cardiovascular damage. Also, syphilis may expose individuals to an increased risk of HIV infection through This Month sores or lesions present around genital areas and mu- Lorrie and Michele have announced that they are retir- cous membranes. ing as owners of Money Pennies, and already the rumor mill Prevention: Infectious syphilis is treatable with an- has grand stories of them moving to foreign countries and tibiotics. Infectious syphilis can be prevented through opening up a new “Dinero Pesos”. Well…no. We interviewed engaging in safer sexual practices including condom use them about their plans, and who the new owners will be. for anal and oral sex. Communicating with your partner, Find out more on page 23. negotiating safer sex practices, and getting tested for sex- After opening a new store location in Edmonton’s goth/ ually transmitted infections and HIV on a regular basis punk club New City, B&D Emporium has announced that are important in maintaining your sexual health. they are moving out of their old location below Express Video and Steamworks. The new location for their express Testing and Treatment: We encourage anyone who store is 10081 Jasper Ave. They will be having a liquidation suspects that they may be at risk for syphilis to contact sale until the old store closes on May 19th. their family doctor or the Calgary Health Region STD Clinic at (403) 944-7575, for a syphilis blood test and Calgary and Edmonton Pride follow up treatment if required. The STD Clinic provides GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine will once again be free syphilis testing and treatment and does not require publishing an Event Guide for Gay Pride in Calgary; how- identifi cation and/or an Alberta Health Card. ever, this year we will also be including event information for In addition to information on HIV/AIDS, the AIDS Edmonton as well! Calgary HEAT outreach program provides information Currently we are the only gay media sponsor of Gay Pride about syphilis to community members through commu- in either city. As such, our magazines will be available at nity outreach, online outreach, and educational materi- all Pride events and venues in both cities, as we cover these als and programs. For further information, contact AIDS events to their full extent. Calgary’s HEAT outreach program at (403) 508-2500 or If you’re looking rather to express your opinion, write a letter to via email at [email protected]. the publisher by E-mailing [email protected]. If you’ve got For further information on sexually transmitted infec- something good to say about someone or something, then that’s tions, or HIV/AIDS, you can also call the toll-free STI/ awesome! If you’ve got something bad to say about someone or HIV information Line 1-800-772 2437. something…well, just try to keep those claws sheathed!
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 31 No BUTTS About It “Below the Waist” Cancers Addressed by The Underwear Affair
By Stephen Lock Community | Spotlight Involving the community in the fi ght against disease has become common in recent years with high profi le “The route, which we are keeping secret until just before events around breast cancer and the AIDS walk. The the event, is a 10-kilometre run or a 5-kilometre walk,” says Scott. “So participants need to ensure proper footwear and Underwear Affair is hoping to bring this same profi le be comfortable. The only other restrictions we have is we ask to the more delicate issue of “below the waist” can- - for safety reasons - people not bring pets along, not do the cers. route in rollerblades or on skateboards. And while children are welcome of course, not to have kids in strollers, although Cancers such as colo-rectal, prostate, testicular, penile, we encourage people in wheelchairs to participate.” uterine, cervical, and bowel cancer, as well as bladder and kidney, are often seen as “taboo.” With the work celebrities, The stats around “below the waist cancers” are sobering: such as Bill Brooks, have done around prostate cancer, these In 2004, 1,515 Albertans were diagnosed with colo-rectal cancers are slowly coming out of the closet, as it were. cancer (856 were men and 659 were women). Of these, colo- rectal cancer accounts for 12.36 per cent of all Alberta cancer This year marks the fi rst year The Underwear Affair (June deaths. Prostate cancer accounted for 11.21 per cent of all 9th in Calgary, June 16th in Edmonton) is being held in Al- male cancer deaths in Alberta. Testicular cancer accounted berta, and has taken its inspiration from an event sponsored for 0.28 per cent of all Alberta male cancer deaths, and there by the BC Cancer Agency and the BC Cancer Foundation. were no stats on penile cancer. Stacey Scott, Director of Annual Giving with the Alberta In women, ovarian cancer accounted for 5.29 per cent of all Cancer Foundation, said one of the objectives is to highlight female cancer deaths in Alberta. In 2004, cervical cancer ac- not only what the various cancers are but to raise awareness counted for 1.45 per cent of all female cancer deaths. In the around prevention and screening procedures. same period, endometrium, or uterine cancer accounted for “With these sorts of cancers it’s always been kind of taboo 2.05 per cent of all female cancer deaths. to talk about them because they are in private areas of our Kidney cancer accounted for 2.49 per cent of all Alberta bodies and it’s embarrassing to talk about those areas,” she cancer deaths, and bladder cancer accounted for 2.37 per- said. cent. Not only is it embarrassing to talk about them but too often In total, “below the waist” cancers accounted for nearly 50 people are embarrassed to have the screening procedures per cent (49.86) of all cancer-related deaths in Alberta. Clear- done. Men, especially, tend to be uncomfortable going in ly, far more attention needs to be paid to these cancers. for the prostate exam simply because of what they believe it involves. “Fundraising is important, no doubt,” states Scott. “One in three Albertans is touched by cancer – either through a family “It’s actually a very simple and painless procedure,” Scott member, friend, or going through it themselves.” says, while sympathizing with the discomfort some men have over the idea of a doctor probing inside their anus to check To drive the point home even further, the Alberta Cancer the prostate. Foundation, which is the charitable arm (“we prefer to call it the charitable heart,” says Scott) of the Alberta Cancer Board, Women are not immune to the embarrassment or the will have information booths at both the actual event and at fear of discomfort, or even pain, especially when it comes to the EXPOsed After Party. cervical and uterine examinations. However, women’s health information has for many years stressed the need for annual While the identity of the entertainers at the EXPOsed Party pap smears and other such tests, whereas until recently there is also being kept secret for now, Scott promises it will be an has not been a corresponding emphasis on men’s exams. event to remember. “I can say there will be lots of great mu- sic, lots of great food, lots of great underwear and lots of great The Underwear Affair is designed to reduce the stigma of prizes,” she chuckles. talking about such cancers and to present the awareness in a non-threatening way. The Underwear Affair June 9th in Calgary “We want people to have as much fun as possible. Our June 16th in Edmonton thinking is, if someone is brave enough to run through the streets of Calgary and Edmonton in their underwear, hope- For more information… fully people will be brave enough to go in for screening,” says Calgary: (403) 269-3337 Scott. Edmonton: (780) 423-2220 Rules around what one can wear are quite relaxed. The www.uncoverthecure.org only restrictions are it has to be legal and it should be com- fortable.
32 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 Music Review Lesbians on Ecstasy and Global Groove
By Rob Diaz-Marino Review | Music “We Know You Know” by Lesbians on Ecstasy “Global Groove: Live” by DJ David Knapp After my initial amusement at the name of this group, I quickly I have reviewed a great deal realized the music is quite good! of groove CDs produced by They’ve produced a dance- Centaur music. The albums able album that is at moments are continuous-mixes, and a uplifting and at other moments “groove” is set by the fact that very dark, but all with a sense the pace of the songs through- of humor and fun that makes out the album is predictable. this group unique. Lesbians on Regrettably I have to say, in my Ecstasy are a sound force that opinion, this album is the weak- bridges the gap between electro/ est of the bunch – the groove is techno with punk rock, and occasional fl irtations with industrial a little too groovy, making for music. more of a rut. This is the group’s second album release, and though some It starts out with remixes of two well-known titles that are tracks aren’t as polished as those of more seasoned musicians, bound to grab any gay man’s attention. DJ Knapp’s own mix of there is still a certain allure to its roughness. It’s the kind of Ellis Miah’s “Not Ready to Make Nice” sounded exciting on paper, music that will make you wrinkle your nose and grin at the same but left a lot to be desired. To fi t the pace of the groove, the lyrics time. It’s grungy and grainy, making heavy use of low pitch are so time-squashed that they sound horrible, and his replace- electric guitars, sawtooth synths, and gritty vocals – dare I say, ment of the powerful instrumental bridge with a wimpy synth was ribbed for her pleasure! Even I couldn’t help getting swept up in just disappointing. The ensuing remix of “It’s Not Right But It’s its forbidden delight. Okay” was also a let down – aside from borrowing the vocals, it pays little homage to the original. Sisters in the Struggle was a great way to start the album off, and I instantly fell in love with the delicious maliciousness of The album hit rock bottom for me with “Party People”. The ca- “Party Time” – its long string of insults might have made me laugh, cophonous and monotonous synth-brass, the loud cries of an ob- but they still have an amazing poetry to them. noxious diva, and the simple yet poorly executed Spanish phrases make this song truly irritating. Though “Mortifi ed” wasn’t one of my favorites, I still appreciated the humor of producing what sounds like a campfi re jam session, On the other hand, the track “It’s My Life” was a splash of color but with profanity. in a fi eld of gray. Finally some melody to sink my teeth into! The subsequent track “Tonight” followed suit. Later on, “Be My Boy- Sedition was extremely dark and ominous, but they threw in friend” stood out above its neighbors with a very dramatic bridge phrases like “Here come the lesbians…they’re creeping down the mid-way through the song. At fi rst it sounds like the CD is mov- stairs,” to keep it fun. The voice of vocalist Fruity Frankie urges ing into a new song altogether as the cuts of low-pitch male choir the listener to “Play me backwards…play me backwards.” I concur vocals begin, but it gets back to the melody and lyrics from before. - the track sounds even more demented if you go through the trouble of playing it in reverse. In summary, I might buy this CD to complete my Global Groove collection, but on it’s own I would pass. If you enjoy tribal music This album is a must-buy for feminists and bad girls every- and melodic vocals that overlay mostly non-melodic rhythms and where, although I don’t see why men can’t buy it for some great synths, then your liking of this album will probably be the inverse techno and industrial beats! of mine.
Track List: Track List: 1) Sisters in the Struggle 1) Not Ready To Make Nice 2) Sedition 2) It’s Not Right But It’s Okay 3) The Cold Touch of Leather 3) The DJ Made Me Do It 4) Victoria’s Secret 4) Lost Yo Mind 5) We Won’t Give it Back 5) It’s My Life 6) Party Time (a womyn’s luv) 6) Tonight 7) Is this the Way? 7) Believe In Us 8) Alone in the Madness 8) Party People 9) It’s Practically Freedom 9) Make It Happen 10) Mortifi ed 10) Be My Boyfriend 11) Free My Love Available in Calgary at Sloth Records, Play Entertainment (Market 12) Your Love Is Lifting Me Higher Mall, TD Square), Megatunes, Indigo (Signal Hill), HMV (North Hill Mall, Southcentre, TD square, Chinook Centre, Market Mall). Buy this album Buy a copy of “Global Groove: Live” at any Priape store in Canada, or online at www.amazon.ca. For more information, visit www.lezziesonx. online at www.priape.com and www.queeropolis.com. com and www.alien8recordings.com.
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 33 Canadian Rockies International Rodeo
By Jason Clevett Community |Spotlight It is almost time to dust off your cowboy boots and fi nd the jeans that make your butt look best. The for volunteers and is always eager to fi nd new volunteers who bring with them new ideas, fresh energy and passion. For you 14th edition Bud Light Canadian Rockies Interna- readers who may be thinking of volunteering, please contact tional Rodeo will take place at Symon’s Valley Ranch us at [email protected] and we’ll get you signed up to help in Calgary from June 29th to July 30th, 2007. out.” As one of the most popular events on the Western Canadian “Sponsors are also very critical to our success. Their com- gay calendar, the challenge is up to the hard working board bined support helps keep our event ticket prices as affordable members and volunteers to continue to keep the Rodeo events as they are,” he continued. “By supporting our sponsors, folks fresh and exciting. are in fact supporting ARGRA. ARGRA realized a few years ago the extreme importance of maintaining and growing spon- ”That’s a question that we ask of ourselves every year. sorship relationships, which is why the board created a new Nothing happens by accident and we look at our event - from position of Director of Sponsorship; to bring a new level of start to end - each year in the summer as we plan for the fol- importance of sponsors to the minds of all ARGRA members, lowing year,” said sponsorship director Greg Holsworth. “We and to create a consistent experience for all sponsors when started planning for this year’s rodeo last year, just weeks they deal with ARGRA. We look at each sponsor as entering a after the 13th rodeo. We know we have a great formula for our long-term relationship with ARGRA.” rodeo weekend and we don’t really want to mess with that, but we do always look for ways to improve what we offer and This year’s event is also getting an additional publicity are constantly tweaking it.” boost from an unexpected source – the popular TV game show Deal or No Deal. Past ARGRA president and board member While Calgarians make up the largest part of the atten- Jamie Cumberland walked away from the Canadian version of dance, the Alberta Rockies Gay Rodeo Association focuses it’s the show earlier this year, $131,000 richer. He openly admit- marketing locally, as well as across Canada and internation- ted both his sexuality and his cowboy roots, which in turn ally. resulted in media exposure for ARGRA. ”We make a concerted effort to market to western Canada’s ”I was with Jamie when he won, as he’s a close friend of other large cities. Edmonton, of course is a huge market for mine. Jamie was able to do more for ARGRA, gay rodeo and us. We try and make an effort to get our rodeo into the minds the GBLT community in Calgary in a 30-minute game show of the community in Edmonton. Same goes for Vancou- than I think most folks realize. He was able to show a differ- ver and Winnipeg. We have also advertised in the past in ent face of Calgary to the rest of the country and he certainly Toronto, Ottawa, Montreal and Halifax. Last year, we were showed Calgary that yes, indeed, gay cowboys exist. We’re contacted by a gay and lesbian group of journalists from Ger- so proud of Jamie that the rest of the ARGRA rodeo commit- many, and over the past year our rodeo has been splashed all tee voted in favour of Jamie becoming this year’s rodeo Grand over the gay German media. This year, we have heard from Marshal, which is ARGRA’s highest honour.” a record number of Germans who are interested in coming to this year’s rodeo.” This year’s rodeo weekend promises to continue with traditional events like Bareback Bronc Riding; Barrel Rac- ARGRA is a non-profi t society, which can make it diffi cult ing; Breakaway Calf Roping; Bull Riding; Calf Roping on Foot; to stretch its marketing as far as they would like. They rely on Chute Dogging; Flag Racing; Pole Bending; Team Roping and strategic sponsorship relationships to have a national pres- Wild Steer Riding. They also include three “camp events” ence that they could otherwise not afford, and work proac- - Goat Dressing; Steer Decorating and The Wild Drag Race. tively with the media and sponsors. Holsworth explained why, Friday Night’s cabaret event features Canadian country band without these sponsors and volunteers, there would be no Emerson Drive. The attractive group of guys has experienced ARGRA or CRIR. a great deal of success including opening slots for country ”Wow, you know our volunteers and sponsors are both so music powerhouses Shania Twain and Toby Keith, among very important to us. ARGRA is 100% volunteer driven and others. we are nothing without our many, many volunteers. Some ”That’s really thanks to another of ARGRA’s long-time spon- are able to volunteer a few hours over the rodeo weekend, and sors and past Trustee, Stuart Aikins. Stuart Aikins Casting that’s great. Others volunteer at our monthly fundraising Inc. has been able to secure the best of Canadian Country & dances, and those folks are just as important. [There are] Western artists for a good number of years. We’ve had Julian those who are able to volunteer more help out at the rodeo Austin, Aaron Pritchett, Lace, Chris Cummings, Farmer’s committee level, which does entail more of a commitment. Daughters twice, and more. And this year we’re thrilled to And our Board of Directors all put in countless hours of vol- unteering. We draw on the experience, enthusiasm and pro- fessionalism of all our volunteers. ARGRA actively searches Continued on page 35
34 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 Remember Jim Alexander (1964 – 2007)
By Stephen Lock Review | Theatre Jim “Da Blond” Alexander was a unique indi- vidual in a community full of unique individuals. Canadian Rockies International Rodeo, Continued from page 34 Heavily involved in the Edmonton Leather and Bear communities, he was well-known through- host Emerson Drive. Yes, I’m sure there will be many hearts out Western Canada and down in the States for afl utter...including my own.” his boundless enthu- Other events include warm up parties on Thursday, June siasm and his abiding 28th at Money-Pennies, The Calgary Eagle and the Backlot, admiration and love for as well as pancake breakfasts, post-event parties and the his Leather and Bear ever-popular Saturday night dance. The largest GLBT dance in Alberta takes place in the main hall and is a chance to see brothers. faces you may not have seen in a long time. Jim sat on the Executive ”Our Saturday Bud Light Barn Burner Dance feels like of Northern Chaps, Edmon- a home-coming in many ways. We have upwards of 1500 ton’s Leather/Levi Club, in people at that dance, making it one of western Canada’s larg- 1991 and 1992. He was also est GBLT events in its own right. It’s THE night to party at a founding member, along the rodeo. Our DJ saves up special cuts of popular songs and with Michael Kurylo, of new songs too that he will debut on that night, so its not only Edmonton’s bear communi- the crowd. Its the music and the fact that you do run into so ty in 1993. It was originally many people, many of whom you’ve not seen since last year’s organized via the Beast BBS, dance.” which Michael ran from If you have never been to a gay rodeo, leave your expecta- 1993 to 1998. Jim was also tions at the gate and head down to the grounds. It truly is a a founding member of the unique experience fi lled with old and new friends, rodeo ac- Festival City Bears founded tion, fresh air and all in all, fi ve days of hootin’,hollerin’, and in 2003 and Edmonton Men In Leather Founded in 2006. one heck of a good time! One of Jim’s legacies will doubtlessly be his videography. ARGRA Presents He was often to be seen barreling around some Leather or The Canadian Rockies International Rodeo Bear function taping the event and having a great time do- June 29th – July 1st, 2007 ing it. He never met a man he didn’t fl irt with. Symon’s Valley Ranch www.argra.org Jim was involved with the early years of the International Bear Rendezvous in San Francisco doing video documen- taries for the event. Jim spent much of his years traveling to the States and other points in Canada promoting the Edmonton bear and leather communities. Jim’s commitment to the gay Leather community was deep. He believed Leathermen shared in a unique broth- erhood and he was always proud to be amongst those brothers. Jim died on April 17th, 2007 following two massive heart attacks, one while leaving a support group for those facing surgery, and another while enroute to the hospital. Jim leaves behind his mother, Patricia Alexander; broth- er, Don, and sisters Patty, Sherry, Susie, Fay and Laurie, along with his nieces, nephews and numerous other rela- tives and many, many friends and chosen brothers. He was predeceased by his father, Robert, his brother, Bob, and sister, Rosie.
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 35 Judy Shepard Matthew’s Mom Keeps Light Shining Bright
By Benjamin Hawkcliffe Individual | Spotlight For many members of the LGBT community, the relationship we have with our mothers may vary, but they are our Moms no matter what. With May being the month of Mother’s Day, it is a time for us to pay tribute to the women who gave us life and raised us. Judy Shepard won’t get to spend Mother’s Day with her eldest son. On October 6th, 1998, her gay son Matthew was attacked by Russell Henderson and Aaron McKinney and left tied to a fence to die in a remote area in Laramie, Wyo- ming. His passing from his injuries on October 12th and the subsequent trial of his assailants (both of whom are serving double-life sentances) brought gay rights and hate crimes to the forefront of the world’s focus. Nearly a decade later, Judy Shepard continues to keep her son’s spirit alive through work with the Matthew Shepard foundation, whose goal is to replace hate with understand- ing, compassion and acceptance. On April 5th, 2007, eight years to the day of Henderson’s sentencing, Shepard spoke as part of the OutRights Human Rights conference. Her 70-minute speaking engagement took its audience through a full range of emotions, from laughter as she shared anecdotes about her son, to heartbreak and tears when discussing his death. Shepard started by recounting the Impact Statement she read at the sentencing of Hender- precious son. I could tell by the cute little bump on the top son. of his left ear, and one of his eyes was partially open, I could see the clear blue color and who could mistake those long “I want to thank the court for this opportunity to talk black lashes. But the twinkle of life wasn’t there anymore. about Matt. I feel that I must try to share with you what And those braces. I could see through the tears those braces Matt’s life and death have meant to us. It is important that were unmistakably Matthews. We kissed his face, stroked it is revealed to you that Matt was a loving, vibrant, kind his arms, held his hands and talked to him. We wanted so young man. You need to see him as we do to understand desperately to let him know we were there. There was some our loss. However I am not sure we really understand it yet kind of response, he began to shake his arms and legs and ourselves. we thought he was aware of our presence. But no, it was an ”I love him and miss him more than I can express in this involuntary response to our touchings. I thought ‘how could statement. We shared so much: late night talks, politics, anyone feel so threatened by this tiny sweet child that they beliefs, theatre, good food and good conversation. He was my would do this to him?’” son, my fi rst born, and more. He was my friend, my confi - After a 6 day vigil, the Shepard family said farewell. dant and my constant reminder of how good life can be and ultimately how hurtful. I can never understand why anyone ”At 12:53am on Monday, October 12th, Matt was no lon- would want to hurt Matt, to act with such cruelty, such ger with us. We joined hands, wept, prayed over him and for complete disregard for another human being.” ourselves. There was a kind of relief that Matt was no longer suffering but also the realization that our suffering was just She continued, speaking of getting the call late at night, beginning. We were aware at this time that two men and informing her that Matthew had been assaulted and hospi- their girlfriends had been arrested and were in custody. It talized. She described the lengthy travel before fi nally being gave us hope that those responsible for Matt’s death would escorted to his hospital room. Even now, the pain as she receive due process and be punished.” described what they found radiated from her as she spoke. While Matt was in the hospital many people concerned “What we found was a motionless, unaware young man about him sent money to help defray medical costs. The with his head swathed in bandages and tubes everywhere Shepard family decided to use the money to make some- enabling his body to hold on to life. His face was swollen and thing positive come from something “so completely devoid of covered with stitches. I wasn’t even sure that this was Matt. humanity.” As we approached the bed I saw that this was, indeed, my
36 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 “We started the Matthew Shepard foundation in our hope that it would be helpful in encouraging acceptance and em- bracing diversity. It is one way we can honor our son. Matt is no longer with us because two men learned that it was ok to hate. Somehow, somewhere they received the message that the lives of the others don’t deserve the respect and honor as the lives of us. They were given the impression that society condones or is at least indifference toward violence towards the others. We have become a S-I-C society – Silent, Indifferent and Complacent. For all who ask what they can do for Matt and other victims of hate, my answer is this. Educate, educate, educate. Bring understanding when you say hate and ignorance, bring light where you see darkness. ”For so long the community has been quiet and willing to accept what society is willing to allow us to have. Those days are long gone. It is time we used our beautiful voices, all of us, to express our opinions and tell our stories.” After reading her statement, Judy applauded Canada for legalizing same sex marriage. She spoke of living in the US and the foundation’s fi ght for change to hate crime legisla- tion. She spoke of the difference between the administra- tions of Bill Clinton and George W. Bush. ”In many, many ways, not just the gay community [has felt that] the last six years [of the Bush administration] have been just torture for us. Bill Clinton, even though he basi- cally screwed us over with don’t ask, don’t tell, he kept us on the front page. He always spoke of us in a positive manner and that we deserved equal rights, that everything should be ours. He at least kept us in a positive view and we accom- plished something. What we learned with both the Clinton and Bush administration [is that] you can’t accomplish ev- erything from the top down, you have to meet in the middle and work grassroots campaigns and change minds. For some reason, Americans think that they work for their rep- resentatives for congress. That is not true, they work for us, we elect them to do what we ask them to do. They don’t do that because we don’t call them, tell them and express what our lives are like. We don’t tell our stories. No one knows who we are and that we are just as horny as they are.” This is where the majority of Judy Shepard’s message was. She encouraged everyone to speak out as themselves and tell their stories. Many straight members of society have misconceptions about gay people, and when they discover someone they are friends with and care about is gay, they discover that person is exactly the same as the rest of soci- ety - the only difference is who they love. ”Be just like them. If you don’t talk about it, you set your- self apart. You aren’t giving them credit or the opportunity to know all of you. You have to tell your stories, be who you are. Talk to your families and tell them who you are and what you go through every day or they will not know how to help you. Even when they know you are out and accept who you are, do you share anything else with them? Do you introduce them to your friends, or discuss the same kinds of things that your straight sibling does? The idea here is you are equal in every way. There is no reason to set you apart from anyone else in your community except who you love. At the end of the day does that really matter? No, it doesn’t.” The Matthew Shepard Foundation www.matthewsplace.com
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 37 Fundraising Photos ISCCA Victory Brunch at Twisted Element
Photos by Steve Polyak and Rob Diaz Marino of GayCalgary.com Magazine ISCCA Alaska Ice Water Party at the Calgary Eagle
ISCCA Voting at the Backlot
ISCCA Memories and Mayhem at the Backlot - Calgary
38 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 ISCCA In-Town Show at the Calgary Eagle ISCCA Out of Town Show at Twisted Element - Calgary
ISCCA Imperial Roast at the Texas Lounge - Calgary
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 39 ISCCA Coronation Ball - Calgary
40 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 ISCCA Tough Drag at Twisted Element - Calgary The Vagina Monologues - Calgary
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 41 Underwear Affair Fundraiser at the Calgary Eagle Fake Mustache Show at The Soda - Calgary
42 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 SIZZLE: EVM Cabaret at Catalyst - Edmonton (Photographed by Boy-o-Boy Photography)
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 43 The Cliks Queer Toronto Band Makes Waves
By Rob Diaz-Marino Interview | Music In November of last year I wrote a review of the Cliks then independently released album “Snake- house”. Much to my surprise, this month I received another copy of their CD through Warner Music, who recently picked up the album on their label. The band is comprised of Lucas Silveira (guitar/vo- cals), Morgan Doctor (drums), Nina Martinez (guitar) and Jen Benton (bass). As you may recall, Silveira was born female, but now identifi es as male. Silveira says the explo- sive CD “expresses everything about who I am, where I’ve come from and how this album came to be.” We sat down with the foursome at Money Pennies last month to fi nd out more about the band and their plans. “This band is a little different than a lot of other bands out there…because of the issues that it can bring to light. The way that people are seeing things now is really differ- ent. I mean, transgendered is not a new thing, and queer is not a new thing, but the way the world is receiving it is new. So in a way, we’re cutting edge, and it’s really fun to pletely,” Silveira explained. be a part of that whole thing,” said the group’s guitarist, Nina Martinez. Silveira’s decision to identify as male has helped to dis- tinguish the band, however the group sees it as an oppor- Bass player Jen Benton piped in, “I’m a session player tunity for society to observe just how much of a non-issue – that’s what I do for a living. So music is always a priority it becomes in the larger picture. for us. Our sexuality is so normalized in our lives. I think that’s what we bring to this project: completely normal- “We don’t use it to get attention, but it does get us at- izing everything and focusing more on the music. …The tention because people are looking for a story. I went to response is that it becomes normal out there.” South by Southwest and I happened to have an asthma attack on stage. Next thing you know, the story is about “It’s because we’re open about it. It’s not an issue, so it how many asthmatics are in the band. So then we be- has that normalizing effect,” adds Martinez. “We also don’t come…an asthma band,” recalls Silveira. “We’ve been go through interviews saying ‘no comment’; we don’t avoid really lucky. You know, we went into the music industry talking about that.” thinking we would get a lot of resistance and they’ve been “It’s not like we go out on stage and say ‘Hi, we’re a more than open and really supportive of what we’re doing.” queer band’, you know. We just play and we do music, “I think it’s like going through customs. You know, and it just happens that we are queer,” says Silveira. “If there are people who just attract a lot of trouble, and there somebody asks, then we just go ‘yeah’ - we answer. It are people that don’t. We just go through customs and doesn’t become this big secret, it doesn’t overwhelm the we’re like, we’re not the musicians you’re looking for,” says music. We are who we are, and we are people just like Doctor. “There’s some bands that…it’s part of their thing, everybody else.” that’s how they want to get attention. But that’s now how Though they have kept the same collection of songs we want to get attention.” since their independent release, this re-released album Silveira and the rest of the group are very transpar- has undergone some changes. ent when it comes to the issue of transgenderism. Their “It’s been remixed and remastered. There were a couple comfort in speaking about the topic is another way that of backups added. It sounds so much bigger now and they downplay taboo, break down assumptions, and help clearer. It was mastered by Howie Weinberg who worked people to understand. with Nirvana on Nevermind, so the difference is pretty “I’ve done top surgery, that’s it. I don’t take testoster- intense. The album that you reviewed before was the one because it will change my voice and I can’t take that independent version, and now we have the newly tweaked, chance. Unfortunately I’ve met too many trans guys who more fi nancially backed major label, which we love com- end up sounding a little froggy, and if they’re singers they
44 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 actually lose the complete ability to sing. You can be trained back into it but, I’ve been working on this voice my entire life and I don’t feel like going there. So my main priority is my music, that’s the choice I’ve made. It’s also made me realize that having a beard and hair on my body, and maybe a couple more muscles doesn’t exactly make me more male or less male than anybody else. It’s who I identify with up here,” Silveira points to his head. “I have to be [comfortable] because when I fi rst came out, it was like, either you do this or things go bad. It was kind of weird because my entire life I thought, especially as a musician, if I do this my career is in the shitters. Like, who the hell is going to want to sign a transgendered sing- er? And it was funny because as soon as I said I’m just going to be who I am and be happy for me and do what I need to do, that’s when everything just started happen- ing. …A lot of people were like ‘oh, this is a bit of a schtick that you have.’ No. You know, being transgendered is not a schtick, it’s who I decided to be. And yes it makes for a good story, but it has nothing to do with that, it has to do with the fact that I am who I am and that’s it.” The Cliks are currently playing as part of the True Col- ors Tour 2007, hosted by Margaret Cho and also featuring Cyndi Lauper, Rosie O’Donnell, The Gossip, and many more performers. For more information, visit their offi cial band site on MySpace.com. The Cliks www.myspace.com/theclicks
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 45 Are Queer Films Gods or Monsters?
By Kevin Alderson, Ph.D., R. Psych. Queer Quest As I sat a few days ago pondering what I would centage of gay men are like write about for this month’s column, publisher Steve Kevin Kline’s portrayal in the Polyak gave me the idea of tying the theme into the movie In and Out or character Fairy Tales Film Festival, running May 24th to May Jack in Will and Grace? How 31st, 2007 in Calgary (see www.fairytalesfi lmfest. about the trans man in Trans com). Consequently, this month Queer Quest focuses America who acts more like a drag queen than someone who on queer fests! is truly transgendered? What I have always wondered if the fi lm and music industries tragedy awaits older gay men create reality, or whether they merely report it. Both are who fawn over younger men obviously true. The fact that the American fi lm industry and and perhaps desire or, God its audiences tolerate aggression far better than sexuality in forbid, actually establish an movies is as much a statement of a society’s priorities as it intergenerational relationship? is a statement of continued indoctrination into this mindset. A recent example of death- through-loving-a-younger- The absence of gay male characters in mainstream fi lm man is found in Gods and was common before 1990 [1, 2], and when they were por- Monsters, and most other fi lms depicting intergenerational trayed, they were often presented in a very negative light. relationships have similar harsh endings. [7] Filmmakers need to read their viewers – unsurprisingly, gay and lesbian themed movies have customarily been produced Many movies based on true stories get the facts wrong – I by gay and lesbian individuals themselves, and they tar- guess that is why they leave it as based on a true story. The geted gay and lesbian audiences. [3] Since about 1990, gay movie Boys Don’t Cry is one such example where the movie themed movies have become increasingly mainstreamed and depicts two murders while in actuality three occurred on the blockbusters like Philadelphia, Brokeback Mountain, and night of December 31, 1993 in Nebraska. The trans individ- 300 have hit the screen. ual murdered was born Teena Brandon, and he reversed his name to Brandon Teena to be more consistent with his felt Lesbian characters in mainstream movies remain invisible gender. One description of the movie created the impression for the most part, however. When lesbian women are asked of “deception, lesbianism and murder. . . . [the description to respond to their representation in mainstream fi lms, most recreated] the traditional Hollywood ‘invert’ story where ho- respond with, “What representation?” Lesbian women also mosexuality is punishable by death, or possibly worse.” [8] tend to be stereotyped when they are portrayed, as in the movies Boys on the Side, Basic Instinct, Bitter Moon, Three of Quite a bit has been written about gay pornography, and Hearts, and Higher Learning. [4] writers celebrate both its desirable qualities (e.g., normal- izing gay sexual practices, teaching viewers new techniques) The mainstream (e.g., heterosexual white men and and those that are questionable (e.g., to what extent does women) are cautious in their indulgence of queer characters, viewing hard-bodied perfect men with large endowments however, and often the queer message is undermined in lead to body image disturbances and lower self-esteem?). [9] some way, either by minimizing the theme or by stereotyp- What can be said about any media that we turn to, whether ing it. About four dozen feature-length American movies it be fi lm, fi ction/nonfi ction writing, radio, television, and have been produced about HIV/AIDS during the 1980s and other art forms, is the following: 1990s, and the vast majority represent it as a gay disease that affects white males, [5] thereby creating the false im- 1. We are only seeing a glimpse of some version of reality pression that the white heterosexual majority is safe from – in truth, there are multiple truths by which people live out acquiring it. One writer criticized Brokeback Mountain as their lives. really being about bisexual men and not gay men, and that 2. The version we are seeing is distorted if we believe it ap- the homosexual sex scenes were offset by equally explicit plies to all people, or perhaps even most people. heterosexual ones. [6] The movie 300 minimized the homo- sexual aspect by focusing on the warriors’ incredible battle 3. Media both creates reality (creating new truths and fi c- talents and their love for women (also apparently promoting tions) and reports on reality (describing present truths and a bisexual propensity more than a homosexual one). fi ctions). The stereotypes of queer characters in movies and in 4. Descriptions of truth and fi ction can stick with us and made-for-television serials can be absolutely appalling. affect our behaviour toward others, whatever the source. Often done for comic relief and with intent to target het- erosexual audiences, the damage to people’s impressions As we enter into the world of celluloid as Fairy Tales of “what are queer folk like” continues. Really, what per- unfolds, remember to watch and listen critically. Especially
46 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 pay attention to the depiction of the queer individual(s) that 17. March on Washington (30 min.; c.1993) – Documen- the fi lm portrays and the message it is conveying about this tary of the March 1993, National March on Washington for person or this group. Each of us is living out a complex pat- LGBT/queer rights. tern of interactions and understandings within this particu- 18. Off the Straight & Narrow: Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals lar psychosocial-political-historical time. No one can truly do & Television (63 min.; c.1998) – An examination of queer im- justice to even this moment. ages on television. Below are several noncommercial fi lms and videos that 19. On Common Ground (104 min.; c.2000) – Examines take a queer theory perspective. Unlike earlier perspectives the joys and heartbreaks of the queer rights movement. regarding sexuality, queer theory works at taking apart iden- tity categories (like gay, lesbian, straight), thereby blurring 20. Out of the Past: The Struggle for Gay and Lesbian the boundaries that separate us. Queer theory also views Rights in America (70 min.; c.1997) – Profi les of individuals sexuality as changeable and naturally fl uid. [10] who shaped the queer rights movement. The following list of fi lms, videos, and the descriptive text 21. Paradise Bent: Boys will be Girls in Samoa (51 min.; that follows is quoted from a recent journal article [11]: c.1999) – Examination of transgender women in Samoa. 1. A.I.D.S.C.R.E.A.M. (6 min; c.1990) – Examines the de- 22. Paris is Burning (76 min.; c.1992) – Examination of sexualization of gay men as a result of AIDS. the African-American/Latino transgender pageant culture. 2. Anatomy of Desire (48 min; c.1995) – Analyzes how sci- 23. Plates (35 min.; c.1982) – Early look at discrimination entifi c inquiry has shaped debates around queer rights. against queers. 3. Before Stonewall: The Making of a Gay and Lesbian 24. Pride, Prejudice and Gay Politics (30 min.; c.1982) Community (89 min.; c.1984) – Examines queer history – An examination of queer politics in San Francisco. before 1969. 25. Queer Geography: Mapping Our Identities: Detailing 4. Black Hair and Black-eyed (9 min.; c.1994) – An ex- the Experiences of Four Queer Youth (12 min.; c.2001) – amination of the infl uences on Korean-American lesbian Portrait of queer youth identity by two high-school students. identity. 26. Straight for the Money: Interviews with Queer Sex 5. Black Is–Black Ain’t: A Personal Journey Through Black Workers (59 min.; c.1994) – An examination of lesbians Identity (98 min.; c.1995) – Looks at African-American queer working in the sex industry. identity. Dr. Alderson is an assistant professor of counselling psychology at the 6. Bright Eyes (85 min.; c.1986) – Looks at homosexuality University of Calgary who specializes in gay and lesbian studies. He also from three perspectives. maintains a private practice. He can be contacted by confidential email at [email protected], or by confidential voice mail at (403) 605-5234. 7. The Celluloid Closet (102 min.; c.1996) – Looks at the changing presentation of queer life in fi lm. References: 1) Coleman, E. (1981-82). Developmental stages of the coming out process. Journal 8. Cut Sleeve: Lesbians & Gays of Asian/Pacifi c Ancestry of Homosexuality, 7(2-3), 31-43. (24 min.; c.1993) – An examination of the lives of queers of 2) Kielwasser, A. P., & Wolf, M. A. (1993-94). Silence, difference, and annihilation: Asian Pacifi c Islander descent. Understanding the impact of mediated heterosexism on high school students. High School Journal, 77(1-2), 58-79. 9. Fated to Be Queer (25 min.; c.1992) – Documentary 3) Cover, R. (2000). First contact: Queer theory, sexual identity and “mainstream” regarding the lives of Filipino gay men. fi lm. International Journal of Sexuality & Gender Studies, 5(1), 71-89. 4) Dobinson, C., & Young, K. (2000). Popular cinema and lesbian interpretive strate- 10. Gay and Lesbian Images on Television: An Overview gies. Journal of Homosexuality, 40(2), 97-122. (89 min.; c.1998) – Analyzes images of queers on television. 5) Hart, K-P. R. (2002). Representing men with HIV/AIDS in American movies. The Journal of Men’s Studies, 11(1), 77-89. 11. History Lessons (70 min.; c. 2000) – Examines images 6) Brod, H. (2006) They’re bi shepherds, not gay cowboys: The misframing of Broke- of lesbians in popular media from the 19th century to the back Mountain. The Journal of Men’s Studies, 14(2), 252-253. present. 7) Yoakam, J. R. (2001). Gods or monsters: A critique of representations in fi lm and literature of relationships between older gay men and younger men. Journal of Gay & 12. Homophobia in the Media and Society: One Life to Live Lesbian Social Services: Issues in Practice, Policy & Research, 13(4), 65-80. and Beyond (90 min.; c.1993) – Discussion of homophobia 8) Willox, A. (2003). Branding Teena: (Mis)representations in the media. Sexualities, in the media at Massachusetts Institute of Technology. 6(3-4), 407-425 [quote from p. 408]. 9) Ellis, S. R., & Whitehead, B. W. (2004). Porn again: Some fi nal considerations. 13. Honored by the Moon (15 min.; c.1990) – A portrait Journal of Homosexuality, 47(3-4), 197-220. of queer life and identity in Native American traditional and 10) Gamson, J. (1995). Must identity movements self-destruct? A queer dilemma. modern culture. Social Problems, 42, 390-407. 14. I Got This Way from Eating Rice (45 min.; c.1999) 11) Elia, J. P., Swanson, C., & Goldberg, A. R. (2003). More queer: Resources on – Seven short documentaries in one examining queer Asian/ queer theory. Journal of Homosexuality, 45(2-4), 391-400. Pacifi c Islander lives. 15. It’s Elementary: Talking About Gay Issues in School (78 min.; c.1996) – Looks at the presentation of homosexual- ity in elementary education. 16. Khush (24 min.; c.1991) – Examines the lives of queer South Asians and those of South Asian decent.
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 47 Leaps and Bounds
By Arthur McComish Politics | Spotlight With the fi rst North American OutGames under its belt, Calgary has contributed to the ever-growing law and has the rights to equal protection and equal benefi t of number of fi rsts for the GLBT community in Canada. the law without discrimination.” Some would even go so far as to say that our ship has Moving on, it was right here in Alberta where the Charter arrived. With such achievements taking place, it is would be of good use again. The case of Vriend v. Alberta was hard to imagine how homosexuality was a criminal of- the next crucial case for the gay rights movement. Delwin fence only forty years ago. In fact, it is hard to imagine Vriend had been fi red from his teaching job at Kings College in Edmonton based on his sexual orientation. After an unsuc- a Canada without including the gay community as part cessful appeal to the Alberta human rights commission Vriend of its celebrated diversity. The reason why our past ended up in at the Supreme Court in Vriend v. Alberta. The appears to be so different from the present is the direct court came to the conclusion that the Alberta Human Rights result of living in the era of the Charter of Rights and Act violated the Charter by purposely not including sexual ori- Freedoms. entation, and should be remedied by including same sex in the Act. In retrospect, it was only because of the Charter that Del- On April 17th the Charter celebrated it 25th anniversary. win Vriend and every other gay person in Alberta could now be Like anything that is twenty-fi ve, the Charter holds a history protected in the same way as any heterosexual Albertan was. full of growing pains and questionable moments, but it also allowed for some very important moments that have propelled Having established more rights for our community, it was the rights of the gay community. And although there is a now time for gay lobbyists to take the Charter tennis match certain beauty in witnessing the closing of the gap between the into the twenty-fi rst century, and the next level, by serving an gay and straight cultures, there is also the need to recognize ace i.e. the legalization of gay marriage. However, the tennis the path that has brought emancipation. match quickly turned into an exhibition of dominos knocking each other down. Being fully aware of the power of the Charter, In the early 1980s gay rights in Canada were still few and and instead of putting up lengthy and expensive court battles, far between. On paper, rights primarily belonged to hetero- most provinces took it upon themselves to start to legalize gay sexual sections of society. However, buried within the legalese marriage. of the Charter lay two sections, sec.1 and sec.15, which would eventually prove to be the key elements to achieving equality With the provinces being proactive on gay marriage, the for queers. Sec.1 of the Charter is considered to be the judicial federal government knew it had to address the issue of gay override. The judicial override provides the judiciary the right marriage. Again it would be the Charter that would give guid- to overturn any law it deems as unconstitutional. Giving judg- ance to how this decision would play out. The issue of gay es this power was the fi rst foot in the door toward achieving marriage was still quite sensitive in 2004 when the government gay rights. Judges could be seen as more sympathetic toward would approach the Supreme Court with a reference question. the gay rights struggle as they would be more familiar with the The government wanted to know ahead of time what the court law not subject to the election polls. It was now up to gay lob- would say. Did the defi nition of marriage between one man byists like that of EGALE to prove that the rights of gay people and one woman violate the Charter? The court came beach were something that needed to be included in the Charter. with an answer of yes. The Supreme Court placed this sensi- tive issue back into the hands of our legislators who passed Within a ten-year period from the adoption of sec.15, the Bill C-38 158-153 on June 28th, 2005. Although it was the equality clause, a number of cases would reach the Supreme politicians who would give us the legal right to marry our loved Court of Canada. Cases like that of Mossop v. Canada, and ones, it was the accumulation of rights gained under the Char- Egan v. Canada would focus on the issue of spousal benefi ts, ter that would be the back up support for such politicians to which gay rights lobbyists would use sec.1 of the Charter to vote in favor of gay marriage. build precedence in the matter of gay rights. The implications of these cases were far reaching, for if the court decided that There are still legal barriers that the gay community faces. same sex couples were eligible for spousal benefi ts it would But for the most part being gay does not mean that you must implicitly recognize the validity of such relationships as if they be a victim of violence or discrimination, but rather, a person were like a marriage. This strategy may sound like putting who can get married, have a successful career and even openly the cart before the horse, and it was, but it worked and the participate in large events like the recent North American Supreme Court accepted the reasoning that same sex was OutGames. We can attribute all of these rights to the Charter, analogous with the characteristics of sec.15. and those who have used it in our favor. We must never be- come apathetic with our Charter. Instead, we should celebrate The importance of sexual orientation being considered its fi rst twenty-fi ve years with a continued allegiance, holding analogous with sec.15 of the Charter should never be underes- true to the vision of its father, Prime Minister Pierre Trudeau, timated. Sec.15 provides the necessary backdrop from which who aptly said, “Power only tires those who don’t exercise it.” most other gay rights have been achieved. Under section 15 of the Charter, “Every individual is equal before and under the
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By Stephen Lock Politics A recent international survey has indicated that grants and foreign workers, with 19 per cent saying they were 17 per cent of Canadians would not want a homo- not desirable neighbours, with Italy coming in close at 15.6 sexual living next door to them. per cent. The survey, entitled Love Thy Neighbour: How Much Bigotry Canada, long thought to be among the more liberal is there in Western Countries, was conducted by John Man- countries, indicated that 6.5 per cent of the 2,000 Canadi- gan, Professor of Economics at the University of Queensland ans surveyed would object to having a Muslim neighbour. in Australia and Vani Borooah, Professor of Applied Econom- Surprisingly, the survey also found that Americans were ics at the University of Ulster in Ireland. The survey asked re- more tolerant of Muslims than most Western countries. Not spondents whether they would object to having certain kinds surprisingly, that acceptance was not extended to lesbians or of people as neighbours. Over 32,000 people in 23 Western gay men. nations were surveyed. In the United States, 10.9% of people did not want a Mus- Homosexuals were more likely than any other group to be lim next door compared with an overall percentage of 14.5% shunned by a potential neighbour. Just over 17% of Ca- in western countries with the highest percentage being in nadians said they would not want a gay person living next Greece at 20.9%. door. Of the 2,048 Australians surveyed, 24.7 per cent said Canada, at 6.5 per cent was amongst the lowest, with many they didn’t want homosexuals as neighbours, while in New European countries, many considered to be liberal democra- Zealand, where 1,201 people were surveyed, 22.3 per cent cies, scoring much higher. Britain scored 14.1 per cent of the registered objections. population opposed to having Muslims next door; Belgium Those fi gures were exceeded by survey respondents in scored 19.8, while Norway and Finland scored 19.3 and 18.9 Portugal (25.6 per cent), Austria (26.7), Greece (26.8), the Re- per cent, respectively. The percentage of negative responses public of Ireland (27.5), and Italy (28.7), with Northern Ireland across all western countries averaged 14.5. being the highest (36 per cent). Canadians appear not to be quite as liberal as many of us The least prejudiced was Sweden, where only six per cent would like to think. Certainly having 17 per cent of the popu- said they would object. The overall average who were opposed lation being opposed to living next door to us should give us to having a homosexual neighbour in the countries surveyed pause. What does that pleasant but distant neighbour really was 19.6%, think about us? And would this antipathy to having us move into the neighbourhood spill over into harassment or even Other minorities fared somewhat better, with only 4.6 per violence directed against our persons and/or property? cent of Australians saying they were opposed to people of a different race, Jews or Muslims being their neighbours and In recent years, at least in the major centres of Canada and 4.5 per cent objecting to immigrants or foreign workers. In the US, there has been a gradual but steady move away from New Zealand, three per cent of those surveyed said they would living in “the village.” The Gaybourhood, The Ghetto, the Gay not like neighbours of a different race, while 5.4 per cent said Village – call it what you will – evolved throughout the 1970s they would object to immigrants or foreign workers next door. and 1980s as lesbians and gay men started building real com- munities and increasing our visibility. Northern Ireland also held the strongest views on immi-
50 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 Entire neigbhourhoods became known as “gay”; The Castro in San Francisco, West Hollywood in Los Angeles, The West End in Vancouver, St. Catherines in Montreal, and Church and Wellesley in Toronto. Here in Calgary, The Beltline, locat- ed between the CPR tracks and 17th Ave SW, while not quite a Village, for many years has been home to a high percentage of gay men, along with our clubs, cafes, shops, bathhouses, parks, and bars. As property taxes and rents skyrocketed, fewer and fewer could afford to live in “our” inner cities and usually now-gen- trifi ed neighbourhoods. We followed the mainstream trend of buying cheaper housing in the suburbs or otherwise spread- ing ourselves throughout the cities we lived in. Many heralded this as the dawning of a new age, where homosexuals weren’t confi ned to aging inner city neighbour- hoods but could live anywhere we damn well chose and be accepted. Now, it seems, we aren’t quite as welcome in those neighbourhoods as many of us thought. Whatever the faults of “the ghetto,” and there are those who believe there are several to be sure, such environs awarded us the certain level of security of knowing it was our turf, that we could go about our daily business without having to worry too much about the neighbours or disapproving looks if we appeared “too queer.” Gaybourhoods gave us a sense of belonging, of connectedness to our own that, I believe, is lack- ing when we are living amidst heterosexuals in suburbia (or elsewhere, for that matter). Life is diffi cult enough for many of us. If we feel ostracized or unwelcome in neighbourhoods, where ever they might be - if we are met with hostility or the cold shoulder by our neighbours, or 17 per cent of them - how can we feel secure and comfortable in our homes? There is much to be said for the creation and mainte- nance of queer space, and this includes carving out our own neighbourhoods. Various minorities before us have done so, thereby adding to the cosmopolitan fl avour of a city. Shop- ping in Little Italy, or going for Dim Sum in Chinatown, or whiling away the afternoon enjoying potato latkes and cream cheese blintzes in a Jewish Deli are experiences that add to living in a city. Mind you, I fully admit to a certain bias in favour of gay vil- lages (which to me would also include not just gay but LBTQ as well) and the various permutations such space creates. Such spaces are “ours.” This bias is reinforced knowing that 17 per cent of my fellow Canadians don’t really want me or my partner as neighbours. Maybe we should let them have their boring little neighbourhoods and expend our famous energy in creating our own space, and in the process help create a more vibrant, open and diverse city, as contradictory as that may sound. For a copy of the survey see: http://www.publicaffairs. ulster.ac.uk/podcasts/Bigotry.pdf Stephen Lock is a long time gay activist and free lance writer in Alberta. He is the former Secretary and co-director for Egale Canada in the Prairies/NWT/Nunavut Region, a founding member of the Sexuality and Gender Diversity Advisory Committee (aka Police Liaison Committee), and was the producer and host of a semi-monthly GLBTQ radio show, Speak Sebastian, for 14 years on CJSW FM 90.9 (currently on hiatus). He lives in Calgary with his partner of 26 years and their ‘fur child’, Joey, a Bishon-Cavalier Spaniel cross.
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By Contributors and Staff Letters Dear Editor, you, thank you!! A special thank you goes out to our friends What a difference a year makes! This was a banner year. at Gay Calgary and Edmonton magazine for their continued Why? Two people: Dyna Myte and Wolfgang! How fortunate support. were we to have such an incredible Empress and Emperor who gave more of themselves than anyone could imagine. It has been a great pleasure to reign in one of the greatest Have we ever seen such integrity and commitment to our cities in Canada, home to the Wildest Party Children. city? The culmination of our year is of course the upcoming Due to their exceptional leadership, the house of the 30th 32nd annual charity Coronation Ball happening at the Hel- reign of the ISCCA has set a supreme precedent. Talk about lenic Hall on the evening of Saturday, May 26, 2007. We giving back to the people; a record breaker for Calgary at would like to take this opportunity to invite everyone to join $40,000! As one of the blessed recipients, on behalf of the us for a fun fi lled evening of laughs, memories and a damn board, volunteers and all the wonderfully supportive friends good time. and sponsors of Artists for Quality of Life, may we say See you at the ball!! THANK YOU Dyna Myte and Wolfgang, for your generous donation and never-ending support of AFQOL. We remain With true respect and admiration, as Donnie Peters TMISM would say, “go with love” for you are loved. Emperor and Empress XXXI Chuck and Southern Linda “Huston” Eckess Executive Chair AFQOL Dear friends, College is out, and I’m back at The SHARP Foundation for my second summer as communications assistant. After Dear Editor, what was an incredibly busy school-year, an incredibly busy I want to thank everyone who checked their coat and exciting summer has arrived. and pants at the door at the Eagle on April 14th. I am Things have been moving at a fast pace at the Foundation. fundraising for the Alberta Cancer Foundation’s Underwear There are some new faces at the offi ce, some exciting events Affair 10km run on June 9th to help support fi nding a cure planned but most importantly, we have the community’s to cancers below the waist. continued support. Ron kept the bar warm to enable us to strut around in As this is only my second day back at the Foundation more comfort on what I hope to become a yearly event of since last year, I’m still getting re-oriented, yet I fi nd myself an underwear party at the Eagle. I want to thank all those overwhelmed with the generosity of our community. Most re- who helped with donating door prizes on that night: Priape cently, Empress Dyna Myte and Emperor Wolfgang donated Calgary (thanks Shane), Adult Depot on 16th Ave and 14th over $5000, pushing their donations over the past year Street SW (thanks Jerry), the Eagle of course, and many over the $10,000 mark. We cannot express enough thanks others helped along the way. to all the entertainers with the Imperial Sovereign Court of All in all, the event helped me raise over $400.00 and I’m the Chinook Arch. Special recognition to The Twisted Ele- still impressed with the turnout. Thanks again! ment and The Texas Lounge for providing the venue to host ISCCA’s fundraisers. James Barbas The Twisted Element has taken its own creative initia- tive. Cliff and RJ have purchased 10 mountain bikes, and Dear Editor, As our reign draws to a close we would like to take this opportunity to thank everyone who has come out to support ourselves, the XXXI reign and the charities we are support- ing this year. We could not have accomplished any of what we have without the continued help and support of the GLBT community and people like you. Thank you, thank-
gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 53 as of April 15, each Sunday a bike will be given away. You can have your chance to win one of these bikes by bring- ing Canadian Tire money, or a $2 donation to Twisted each Sunday until June 17th. All proceeds will go to The SHARP Foundation. We would like to thank Cliff and RJ for their generosity and their unique idea for supporting the Founda- tion. We would also like to take this opportunity to recognize our other dedicated supporters: Alberta Rockies Gay Rodeo Association, Money-Pennies Eatery & Bar, and The Calgary Eagle. Last, but certainly not least, we would like to thank GayCalgary.com for their continued support. Rob and Steve never hesitate to go above and beyond, helping us out when- ever possible. On behalf of everyone at The SHARP Foundation, I would like to express our sincere thanks to our supporters. It is because of you we are able to ensure our clients are receiv- ing care aimed at their individual physical, medical, psycho- social and spiritual needs. We look forward to seeing you all in the future.
Sincerely, A.J. Hrychuk Communications Assistant The SHARP Foundation
54 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #43, May 2007 Press Releases
By GayCalgary.com Staff Review |Business The SHARP Foundation & Art Mode Gallery present, “The Art of Hope” Cole. Throughout the event, local artist Dean Stanton will create a one-of-a-kind piece, to be auctioned off near the end April 25, 2007 of the evening. On May 24, 2007, The SHARP Foundation will host “The Tickets are $50, and available by calling (403) 272-2912. Art of Hope,” an auction of quality artwork, featuring artists Proceeds from the evening will go to providing care and sup- from the local community. Artists and supporters will bring port to residents at the Foundation’s two support homes. forth colour and support for individuals living with AIDS and HIV in Calgary. The SHARP Foundation (Society Housing AIDS/HIV Re- stricted Persons) is a Calgary-based charitable organization “The Foundation is extremely excited to bring together lo- providing a “Wholistic Continuum of Care” for individuals cal artists and supporters for what promises to be an enter- living with AIDS/HIV. Our two homes provide “wholistic” taining and benefi cial evening,” says Floyd Visser, executive care for our clients. This means each person we see receives director. care aimed at their individual physical, medical, psycho- The event will be held at the Art Mode Gallery, located on social and spiritual needs. We provide care at a cost of less the corner of 17th Avenue and 4th Street SW. Starting at than $100 per day per resident which is anywhere from half 5:30PM, attendees will be able to bid on several high-quality the cost of hospice care to 1/18 the cost of acute hospital art pieces, fi ne wines and exclusive “We All have AIDS” t- care. shirts, personally autographed by fashion designer Kenneth
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Photos by Steve Polyak and Rob Diaz-Marino of GayCalgary.com Magazine Drag Shows at Buddys - Edmonton
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