Kirk Matters Autumn 2018
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Parishes of Upper Tweeddale KIRK MATTERS AUTUMN 2018 CHURCH’S VISION STATEMENT IS “UBUNTU” THE ANSWER? The vision of the Church of Scotland is to be a Church which seeks to inspire the people of Scotland and beyond with the good news of Jesus Christ through enthusiastic worshipping, witnessing, nurturing and serving communities UPPER TWEEDDALE WEBSITE www.uppertweeddale.org.uk Charity No. SC0014617 SUNDAY SERVICES Tweedsmuir 10am Broughton 10am Stobo 11.30am Skirling 11.30am A letter from Tony Foley Cover Photo: Detail of Bench at Skirling War Memorial Photos by: Bob Hunter, Neil Robinson, Christine Parker, Peter Writing this letter at a time when we have our visitors from Malawi in our Parishes it Worthington seems appropriate to go with an African theme. An anthropologist, who was studying the Xhosa culture with a tribe in South Africa, was The Laurel Bank in Broughton talking to a group of children from the tribe. He suggested the following game to them. Tea Room Bistro Bar He placed a basket full of fresh fruits under a tree. He then organised a race and said Tel: 01899 830462 to the children that whoever reached the basket first in the race would be the winner of the basket of fruits. As he gave the signal to begin the race, the whole group of children held hands, and ran together and then sat down together and enjoyed the prize together. He asked them why they had done it that way, especially when there was the possibility that one of them could have been the winner and had the whole basket to themself. The children replied: " Ubuntu"-- how could one of us feel happy while the rest are sad and unhappy?” In Xhosa culture the word “Ubuntu” means: “I am, because we are." 3 I thought about “Ubuntu” recently while reading about the charity Childline, which has Things seen a steep rise in the number of children contacting the charity about loneliness. In fact in the last year the charity delivered over 4,000 counselling sessions just on loneliness. The What happened is, we grew lonely youngest person to call with the problem was just 10 years old. living among the things, so we gave the clock a face, What has prompted this increasing sense of loneliness among our young people? Some of the chair a back, the children said that watching their friends socialise without them on social media made the table four stout legs them feel friendless. I was surprised to discover that according to the Office for National which will never suffer fatigue. Statistics young people in the UK are more prone to feeling lonely than any other age group. Childline’s founder Dame Esther Rantzen recently said, "Loneliness needs to be taken We fitted our shoes with tongues seriously because it is potentially damaging to children's physical and mental health”. as smooth as our own and hung tongues inside bells Research by psychologists from the University of Pittsburgh suggests that more than two so we could listen hours of social media use a day doubled the chances of a young person experiencing to their emotional language, social isolation. It cites exposure to idealised representations of other people's lives as a prime cause of feelings of envy, inadequacy and isolation. One teenage boy told and because we loved graceful profiles Childline, "I see all my friends having a good time on social media and it gets me down, the pitcher received a lip, I feel like no one cares enough to invite me”. I don’t want to bash social media. Luddites the bottle a long, slender neck. like old king Canute never succeed in turning the tide of progress. It is possible that young people who initially felt socially isolated turned to social media. Or it could be that their Even what was beyond us use of social media somehow left them feeling isolated from the real world. was recast in our image; Whatever the cause of loneliness, the cure is literally staring us in the face every time we gave the country a heart, we look in the mirror. Loneliness is no respecter of age, gender or class and yet all of us the storm an eye, have it in us to ensure that nobody, literally nobody, need ever feel lonely so long as we are the cave a mouth around, all it takes is an invitation, a visit, a welcoming smile. ‘all so that we would not feel alone’. Emotions like loneliness, envy and feelings of inadequacy have an important role to play in life; they are big flashing signs that something needs to change. Maybe it is time we stopped staring at our screens and started looking into each other’s eyes, started talking to the person on the other side of the dinner table. Maybe it is time we stopped posing for idealised pictures and started engaging in real conversations with real people in our real neighbourhoods. Maybe what we need to nurture more of in Upper Tweeddale is the ethic of Ubuntu, “I am, because we are." I close with a reflective poem by Lisel Mueller called Things, that I think captures some of the essence of what ails us. Rev Tony Foley Some of our Malawian visitors and Fiona Burnett at the Scottish Parliament 4 5 WHAT HAS BEEN HAPPENING IN THE PARISHES Damage in Stobo Churchyard Cows in church chaos was the headline in the The Peebleshire and it even merited a mention in The Times when a herd of cows rampaged through Stobo Churchyard in March In April we received a letter from CrossReach, the Social Care arm of the Church of Scotland, thanking us for the stamps that had been contributed from various collecting points around the Parish. Mike Little Plumber Interior & Exterior Painting & Decorating Spray Painting Wallpaper Hanging Fully Insured Phone: 01896 870 655 or 07927 344 184 T: 07709323125 E: [email protected] 6 7 A service of thanksgiving was held in Broughton for the bounty of Later in May our Presbytery of Melrose and Peebles brought an lambs after a difficult season in these parishes where sheep farming Overture (petition) to the General Assembly in Edinburgh. The is so important. Very Rev Finlay Macdonald from Innerleithen and Isobel Hunter from Skirling asked the Church to look again at the 17th century Westminster Confession which reflects the anti-catholic feelings of its time, but which is still referred to today when ministers and elders are ordained. The overture was accepted by a wide margin of votes. Two attentive members of the congregation at the Lambing Service Christian Aid week in May saw the ever popular car boot sale in A cushion embroidered by Janet Hunter of our Upper Tweeddale Skirling and the even more popular teas in the village hall. This Guild won second prize in the 2018 Guild Convenor’s Challenge to event plus an envelope collection and a Sundae Sunday service in make a cushion reflecting the Guild’s theme for the next three years Tweedsmuir (definitely to be repeated) raised over £1,300 for the which is One journey, many roads. The cushion design was based charity. on the free hand maps of the Parish that were produced when some members of our congregations undertook a Future Focus programme in 2016. Over the last few months the Upper Tweeddale Churches have been looking at the possibility of selling the existing manse and buying a more suitable property. At the same time the Broughton congregation has been wondering about the suitability of Broughton Kirk for the present day and considering options. There is a short article about this in the current edition of The Community News and as things develop we will keep the community posted one way or another, and meantime your views are welcome and can be passed on through A busy Skirling Green, car boot sale Sundae toppings any of the contacts on the inside back cover of the magazine. 8 9 It was a warm, sunny summer’s evening with all hands on deck as we cleared an area of ground next to the school in preparation for PASTORAL UPDATE Broughton primary school’s new poly tunnel. You learn a lot about people when you work with them and we have some quality people Christenings in Broughton. A huge thank you to those parents and children who Christened at Skirling Kirk on 26th August 2018 turned out to help with the work. And a special note of thanks goes Grace Godfrey, born 3rd February 2018 out to Finlay Smith, our favourite local farmer, who helped to take Daughter of Anne and Wayne away all the rubbish from the site. We can’t wait to finally get this Sister of Annabelle and Charlotte tunnel up, which we hope will be by the end of September. Funerals We offer deepest sympathy to the families of those who have died recently assuring them of our prayers Funeral in Stobo Kirk on Friday 1st June 2018 Thomas Noel Goldie Crawford, aged 93 years Buried in Stobo Churchyard beside his beloved wife Barbara Died on 29th May 2018 At Mortonhall Crematorium on the 23rd July 2018 Margaret Russell, aged 81 years Formerly of Drumelzier Progress on the Polytunnell Died 15th July 2018 Unit 2, Lindsaylands Road Biggar ML126EQ Proprietor: N Curatolo All Works Guaranteed Domestic, Commercial & Electric Showers Industrial Installations House Rewires Security Lighting & Alarms Portable Appliance Testing SBSA Registered Self-Certifier Tel: 01899 220160 Moblie: 07860 750982 Fax: 01899 220160 Email: [email protected] Website: www.nacelectrics.com 10 11 A LIFETIME OF SERVICE One of the jobs that Betty and Jessie will be giving up after many years is cleaning the church, it is no surprise to learn that As of the end of September Betty and Jessie Eastland are re- as young girls they used to help their mother to do the same tiring as active elders in Skirling Kirk.