November 10, 2017 | Volume XV, Issue 14 Day of Remembrance By Monte Ephraim held each year to me- respect. Chase Brexton Health Care morialize those who Observances Details about Baltimore’s memori- Each year on November 20th, communi- were killed due to an- set for al events, a collaboration between the ties around the world pause for Transgen- ti-transgender hatred First Unitarian Church of Baltimore, der Day of Remembrance, an opportunity or prejudice. Not every Nov. 20th Baltimore Transgender Alliance, and to honor and memorialize individuals who person listed during the Transgender Response Team, were lost their lives to anti-transgender violence. Day of Remembrance self-identified as still being determined at press time. For In Baltimore, the day’s schedule in- transgender, but each were a victim of vi- the most up-to-date information, visit Tdor- cludes the Trans March of Resilience to olence based on bias against transgender baltimore.weebly.com. City Hall, and the annual vigil and reading people. Most of those lost died from brutal What should a transgender person of the names at the First Unitarian Church and degrading violence. Their names are do if they are a victim of a crime? in downtown Baltimore. read aloud at remembrance vigils over the No one should feel like they can’t report We asked Deb Dunn, trans health co- entire nation. a crime committed against them, and if you ordinator at Chase Brexton Health Care, The purpose of the Transgender Day of are in a dangerous situation, you want to for more details about Transgender Day of Remembrance is to raise public awareness make sure that it isn’t getting worse. How- Remembrance. of hate crimes against transgender people, ever, transgender individuals can be very Why is Transgender Day of Remem- honor the lives of transgender people who afraid to ask for help or make a police re- brance such an important occasion? might otherwise be forgotten, and allow al- port, which is why the Baltimore City Of- Deb Dunn, trans health coordinator at Chase Transgender Day of Remembrance is lies, friends and family to express love and —continued on page 14 Brexton Health Care Punishing Disease: Branding People with HIV as Criminals by Mark S. King ing Disease, Hoppe tackles HIV criminaliza- system puts people in jail with the intent of infecting others is Sociologist Trevor Hoppe is a man with tion, one of the most polarizing issues in the who have not harmed any- Out of control largely a myth. And it’s a storyline that his finger on the pulse of gay sexual politics, LGBT community. one (actual transmission anti-sex laws a conservative justice system is will- a topic he has written about for years. In his HIV criminalization refers to the pros- does not need to occur for ing to perpetuate, because they don’t latest buook, Punish- ecution of people living with HIV, often someone to be charged threaten believe gay men, much less people using a rationale that runs counter to the with a crime). In many cas- everyone: Panel with HIV, should be having sex at all. facts about risk and transmission. It is es, HIV positive people who Officials are more than willing to pros- Trevor Hoppe most widely known for HIV non-disclo- used a condom or were un- discussion, ecute under these laws – or by using dissects sure statutes (which make it a crime for detectable are serving jail Nov. 15th, other charges where non-disclosure irrational fear & a person with HIV not to disclose their time for non-disclosure. laws do not exist, such as murder, as- loathing around HIV positive status to sexual partners), “I think the key thing 7:30 pm at sault, and even bioterrorism. HIV but it also includes people who re- for gay men to understand Far too often, these convictions ceive heightened charges or sentenc- is that most people prose- Red Emma’s are the product of simple ignorance es for other crimes because they are cuted under these laws do and fear, if not outright homophobia HIV positive (a simply assault charge not resemble the boogie man in their heads,” and racism. against a person with HIV, for in- Hoppe told Baltimore OUTLoud. “These are “These prosecutions reflect a broader stance, can be increased to attempt- people who either used a condom or were punitive attitude towards sex that Americans ed murder). on treatment or, in some cases like in Ten- think is deviant,” said Hoppe. “That includes In Punishing Disease, author nessee, spit on a police officer.” any sex that people living with HIV have with Hoppe examines the prosecution of In other words, the narrative of crazed their partners. Most Americans can’t imagine people with HIV and why the legal HIV positive people roaming the countryside —continued on page 13 Chase Brexton & Co-Publishers Jim Becker • Jim Williams [email protected]

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The Hood College Queer Student Trans Day of Union and the Frederick Center will host a TDoR program at Marx Center at Hood College (401 Rosemont Avenue, Freder- Remembrance ick) on Monday, November 20th from 7 to 9 pm. They invite the community and cam- pus to join to commemorate TDoR with ● Elder Law & Resilience speakers and light refreshments. ● Estate Planning Details of the annual Transgender Day of Remembrance Candlelight Vigil and Me- ● Family Law Events morial in Baltimore are forthcoming. The ● Guardianship event traditionally includes an interfaith Monday, November 20th will mark the 19th service, vigil, and reading of the names of ● Mediation annual observance of the Transgender those lost around the world ● Medicaid Planning & Qualification Day of Remem- in the past year, and names ● Personal Injury brance (TDoR), of Marylanders lost over the where, friends, past quarter century. The ● Probate loved ones and allies event is sponsored by the ● Veteran's Benefits gather to remember Transgender Response all those who have Team. For more info go to ● LGBTQIA Matters died because of hate Tdorbaltimore.weebly.com and violence direct- or contact Jean-Michel Call ERA Law Group Today ed at trans and other Brevelle, event coordina- (410) 919-1790, or visit us at gender non-conform- tor, at [email protected]. t 1997 Annapolis Exchange Pkwy, ing people. The day will offer op- Suite 300, Annapolis, MD 21401 portunities to mourn and reflect upon the lives lost in the previous year, as well as to celebrate and honor the people who have Valerie E. Anias, Esq. been lost, and the lives they lived. Focus: Suicide, [email protected] In November 1998, the murders of trans women Channelle Pickett and Rita Hester in Boston inspired a local candlelight vigil Nov 18th and the creation of the international TDoR, now observed in dozens of countries and International Survivors of Suicide Loss GET PREPPED ON PrEP: hundreds of cities providing opportunities Day is the one day a year when people af- to share grief and anger, appreciate the fected by suicide loss gather in their local A TOWN HALL MEETING ON lives and gifts of those lost, and commit to communities to find comfort and gain un- work towards trans-inclusive social justice. derstanding as they share stories of heal- HIV PREVENTION & PRE-EXPOSURE PROPHYLAXIS For more info, visit Tdor.info. ing and hope. Survivor Day was created by Join us to learn about the latest exciting news on HIV Prevention & PrEP The seventh annual Montgomery an act of Congress in 1999 and since then for men who have sex with men and for transgender people. County TDoR event will be held 4 to 6 has been sponsored and supported by the Tell us what you think and feel about HIV Prevention & PrEP. pm at the Montgomery County Executive American Foundation for Suicide Preven- Office Building (101 Monroe Street, Rock- tion (AFSP). In 2016 there were over 350 ville). The event will include speakers and locally organized events held throughout DATE: November 15th music, a candlelight vigil, and a reception the US, and around the world. The AFSP with food and resources. ASL interpreta- Maryland Chapter will host 10 events tion upon request. More info at Bit.ly/2ziP- across the State (see locations below). TIME: 6:30 p.m. to 8 p.m. fCG and Mocopridecenter.org/tdor.html. This year’s gatherings will include a The third annual Transgender March screening of AFSP’s compelling documen- LOCATION: The Waxter Center of Resilience (TMoR), is a nationally orga- tary The Journey: A Story of Healing and nized day of protest led by trans people of Hope, and the follow-up featurette, The 1000 Cathedral Street at Eager Street color to promote justice and equality for all Journey Revisited. For many loss survi- Baltimore, MD 21201 trans people in the face of daily discrimi- vors, attending a Survivor Day event is an nation and violence. The TMoR seeks to opportunity to discover that they are not Food and refreshments will be provided raise awareness of the anti-trans violence alone in their experience of losing some- faced daily by gender variant people, and one they know and love to suicide. For to foster solidarity. The march will begin those who are unable to attend a Survivor Hosted by at 5:30 pm at the Ynot Lot (4 West North Day event in person, AFSP hosts a Survi- AIDS Action Baltimore Avenue, Baltimore). The march will be fol- vor Day program online at afsp.org/Survi- Sponsored by vorDay. To learn more about International lowed by a community dinner with musi- Chase Brexton Health Care, Center for Black Equity-Baltimore, GLCCB, cal performances, poetry, and free food. Survivors of Suicide Loss Day, visit Afsp. The event is sponsored by the Baltimore org, call 202-770-8973 or email kolbrich@ Johns Hopkins Center for AIDS Research & REACH Initiative, Transgender Alliance. For event updates afsp.org for further details. Supported by funding from Gilead Sciences, Inc. and info, visit Bit.ly/2h9I9Wg. —continued on page 4

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Select Chase Brexton Health Care patients deemed most in need may be eligible for digital breast cancer screenings through a mobile mammography van to be located at the Chase Brexton Mount Vernon Center on September 28th. The screenings are provided in partnership with Lackawan- na Mobile X-Ray and the Susan G. Komen Foundation. Breast can- cer is the second most common cancer in women, and mammograms are capable of finding it up to three years before it can be felt. The Center for Disease Control recommends mammograms every two years for women age 50 and older who are at average risk for breast cancer. The staff of Chase Brexton encour- ages their patients to remember that ear- ly detection saves lives! Any patient who feels they may quality should contact their Chase Brexton provider or call 410-837- 2050 for more info. t news // LOCAL

—continued from page 3 voirs, only to reappear at some point after If you know of anyone who is having Local Survivor Day events in Maryland antiretroviral treatment is ended. In fact, or has had PReP issues that are now re- will be held on Saturday, November 18th: research on near-cure patients, such as solved, please steer them toward this Annapolis – Broadneck Branch Li- Boston Patient B and the Mississippi Baby, event. Hearing from people who have had brary (1275 Green Holly Drive) from 10 am show that HIV can persist in latent form for problems and how they were resolved may to 2 pm. years, and then resume replication. help others. Berlin – Zenna Wellness Studio (10 Dr. Siliciano’s cure approach is a Food and refreshments will be provid- South Main Street), from 10 am to 1 pm. “shock and cure strategy’, that involves ed. Feel free to bring your friends. Centreville – Compass Regional Hos- flushing the HIV cells from their latent Know Your Status Free Ball – Bring pice (255 Comet Drive) from 10 am to 2:30 reservoir, and then killing those activated good vibes and bring it at the “Eighth An- pm. cells. Several drugs are being researched nual Know Your Status Free Ball and Con- Ellicott City – Howard County Miller in this area, but so far without success. ference: Prevention, Sex, Rock ’n’ Roll,” Library (9421 Frederick Road), 1 to 4:30 Currently Dr. Siliciano and his team are on November 18th from 4 pm to midnight Spark Baltimore, 8 Market Place). Lunch is pm. working to develop and assay test to show at the Baltimore Convention Center (1 not provided. Frederick – Frederick Mental Health the reversal of latency using patient cells. West Pratt Street, Baltimore). Enter the Whether you are a business leader, Association (226 South Jefferson Street) To obtain the cells necessary for this re- Convention Center at Charles and Pratt neighbor, service provider, parent, or just from 11 am to 3 pm. search, they require a large number of pa- Streets. The conference time is to be an- curious, learn about the needs and expe- Germantown – Montgomery College tients willing to undergo a process called nounced. Doors open at 4 pm and the ball riences of LGBTQ youth in school. During Germantown, Bioscience Education Cen- leukapheresis, through which the cells are begins at 7. the session we will discuss data, issues, ter (20200 Observation Drive) from 11 am removed from the study participants’ blood. The ball will feature commentators Icon opportunities and solutions. to 3 pm. It is important to note that this research is Jack Mizrahi, Precious Ebony, and Leg- Space is limited. Please only RSVP if Hagerstown – More info at Afsp.org/ not likely to directly benefit the health of you plan to attend,at Bit.ly/2j6bfds. Our survivor_day/hagerstown-maryland. participants. To find out more information offices are located inside of Spark Bal- Leonardtown – Saint Mary’s Coun- and to volunteer for this research, call Sub- timore, a co-working space in the Power ty Health Department (21580 Peabody ul Beg at 410-955-7757. Plant. Visit this site for parking options: Street) from 1 to 5 pm. “Dr. Bob Siliciano, one of the foremost Parkingpanda.com/spark-baltimore-park- Towson – at Towson University Coun- researchers in this fascinating field, gave ing. For questions message at Facebook. seling Center (Ward & West Building, 8000 an excellent presentation,” said AAB’s endary Mook Mizrahil, with DJ Byrell the com/GLSENMaryland or e-mail chapter@ t York Road), noon to 4 pm. founder and president Lynda Dee. “We Great from New York. There are four grand glsenmaryland.org. t want to be sure the Baltimore HIV com- prize categories and 12 regular prize cate- munity is aware of cutting edge research, gories. All people competing for an award including the many research and ethical must wear a red ribbon in support of those challenges we face in this arena.” that have been affected by HIV/AIDS. No HIV Cure Forum: AAB hosts a monthly HIV education fighting, weapons, drugs or alcohol are al- Holiday Help for meeting on topics such as HIV prevention lowed! and treatment once a month at the Waxter For more info visit Bit.ly/2hND7zu or Help the Center as part of their New Horizons pro- 443-690-5044or Baltimorestatusupdate. the Homeless gram. Contact them at 410-837-2437 or vis- com. it Aidsactionbaltimore.org for more info. t The ball is hosted by the Baltimore City This holiday season, help the homeless! Research Effort Health Department, with special thanks to Baltimore Cranksgiving – Cranksgiving the Baltimore Ballroom Coalition and Uni- is a national event that combines bike rid- Want to participate in research focused on versity of Maryland STAR TRACK. t ing and giving back. This scavenger hunt flushing out HIV from reservoirs deep in / food drive, set for Saturday, November the body? Read on… PrEP Town Hall 18th, is hosted by Bikemore. They will On October 25th, AIDS Action Balti- send teams of riders across the city to col- more (AAB), in conjunction with the DARE lect food items to benefit Moveable Feast. Community Advisory Board, hosted an & Status Ball LGBTQ Youth in Basically, it’s all about food for people in “HIV Cure Forum” with Dr. Bob Siliciano, need and riding bikes with friends, new of Johns Hopkins, one of the foremost re- PrEP Town Hall – “Get Prepped on PrEP: and old. searchers in HIV cure research. A Town Hall Meeting on HIV Prevention Schools: Registration begins at 12:30 pm at The basis of Dr. Siliciano’s research, is & Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis” is set for Peabody Heights Brewery (401 East 30th focused on destroying the HIV virus hid- Wednesday, November 15th, from 6:30 to Street, Baltimore). The biking food scav- ing in latent reservoirs in the body. Each 8 pm at the Waxter Center (1000 Cathe- Lunch & Learn enger hunt begins at 2 pm and ends at 4, person has a set of memory CD4 T-cells, dral Street, Baltimore). They invite you to back at the brewery. The event will be fol- and a set of activated naïve CD4 T-cells, join them to learn about the latest exciting Bring your lunch and your questions, to lowed by awards and an after party. This is copies of the memory cells. news on HIV prevention and PrEP for men the introductory session of the “Brown Bag a rain-or-shine event. Generally, the HIV virus infects and kills who have sex with men and for transgen- Series,” informal lunchtime conversations The event is free, but organizers do the activated copies of the memory cells, der people. Say what you think and feel. hosted by Gay, , Straight Educa- ask that everyone brings $10 to $15 to help however it is believed that a few memory First there will be a slide presentation, tion Network – Maryland (GLSEN), that will purchase food items on the list. How much CD4 T-cells become infected with the vi- and then the remainder of the evening is provide an entry-level overview of what’s you spend is up to you. rus, forming a latent, inactive reservoir. a panel of people currently on PrEP. Top- going on in Baltimore schools regarding RSVP at Bit.ly/2zid91b so organizers While people living with HIV who are ics include any impediments to PrEP use LGBT youth in K-12 education. It’s hap- can anticipate the number of riders. If you undetectable are unable to transmit the what’s needing to be done to resolve com- pening Wednesday, November 15th, from don’t have a team of three or four riders, virus, the virus remains hidden in reser- munity issues. 12:30 to 1:45 pm at the GLSEN offices (at they will help you match up with other riders 4 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD NOVember 10, 2017 • baltimoreoutloud.com news // LOCAL beyond the beltway the day of the event, or you can post on the es. Their goal is to also help provide ward- compiled by Jim Becker Facebook event page to find other riders to robe needs that will help keep those in need team up with. warm during the winter. Fed judge blocks Morgan takes To sponsor the event with cash or priz- Their desire is to create a shopping ex- es, e-mail [email protected]. To volunteer perience for the homeless without charging Trump’s trans part in HRC or if you have questions, e-mail danielle@ them anything. They are asking for your bikemore.net. Learn more about Moveable donations of lightly worn apparel for men, military ban historically Feast at Mfeast.org. women, and kids. They are seeking tops, 4th Annual Thanksgiving Dinner for bottoms, coats, jackets, gloves, blankets, Washington, DC – President Donald black colleges the Homeless – B & Dee’s Baltimore Love etc., to provide for those in their time of Trump’s Twitter-originated ban on trans- will host their fourth annual Thanksgiving need. gender military members has suffered a summit Dinner for the Homeless on Saturday, No- For other drop-off locations contact major setback. US District Judge Colleen vember 18th at 2 pm until the food runs out. Adrien Leach at 443-475-6811, or adrien- Kollar-Kotelly ruled on October 30th that Washington, DC – On November 3rd, The event is sponsored by over 20 commu- [email protected] or fashionablychic- the August directive barring transgender the (HRC) Foun- nity partners and will be held at 420 Falls- [email protected]. The deadline for all drop individuals from serving in the military en- dation, the educational arm of the epony- way in Baltimore. offs is November 15th. courages “inherent inequality.” She partial- mous campaign group, welcomed student This is an all-ages event. Families are Oh Give Thanks – On Thursday, No- ly granted an injunction requested by the activists from Morgan State University, encouraged to participate. Last year a re- vember 23rd from 1 to 5 p.m., Joy Baltimore National Center for Lesbian Rights and Bowie State University, the University of cord number of over 1,000 people were fed. will host their “Oh Give Thanks,” a place to GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders, Maryland Eastern Shore, and other his- They are accepting volunteers, supplies go for Thanksgiving dinner, at the GLCCB who are leading a suit against the direc- torically black colleges and universities and food donations to support the event, in- (2530 North Charles Street, Baltimore). tive. The judge’s ruling halts the ban as the (HBCUs) for a three-day leadership sum- cluding food, soft drinks, personal hygiene Youth ages 13 to 24 of all and suit moves forward. In issuing her ruling, mit designed to foster campus environ- items, winter clothing, blankets and coats. LGBTQ people and families of all ages who the judge noted that the transgender plain- ments that are welcoming and affirming to More info at Bit.ly/2yCW5mU. have experienced homelessness and don’t tiffs NCLR and GLAD represent are “likely LGBTQ people. At the event, the second annual Holi- have a place to go are invited to join them. to succeed” in proving their claim that the “We’re thrilled to welcome these stu- days For the Homeless: A Winter Survival The event will include food, music, enter- ban violates trans individuals’ constitution- dent leaders to HRC for our 12th annual Drive, hosted by B & Dee’s Baltimore Love tainment and fun. Free toiletries, coats, and al right to due process. HBCU summit,” said HRC’s Leslie Hall. will launch and continue through February haircuts will be provided. “This is a complete victory for our plain- “The commitment and dedication demon- 9th. They will be joining up with case man- They are currently seeking volunteers, tiffs and all transgender servicemembers, strated by these fierce advocates is inspir- agers at Chase Brexton Health Care to host donations, supplies, sponsors, a DJ and who are now once again able to serve ing, and we look forward to having them the Winter Survival Drive for the homeless. entertainers. To support the event, con- on equal terms and without the threat of return to their campuses with a renewed Donations can be dropped off on No- tact Lonnie Walker at 443-522-8553 or being discharged,” NCLR Legal Director If you like to write and have an interest [email protected]. More info at Bit. Shannon Minter said in a statement. “We vember 18th at the Fourth Annual Thanks- in local news, theater and the arts, food, giving Dinner for the Homeless. Donations ly/2iB7PM2. are grateful to the court for recognizing can also be dropped off to Case Manage- Lunch Patrol: Thanksgiving Left- the gravity of these issues and putting a LGBTQ history, doing interviews, ment, third floor, in care of Andy Zipay, at overs Edition – On Sunday November 26th stop to this dangerous policy, which has Baltimore OUTloud might be the place Chase Brexton (1111 North Charles Street, at noon, B & Dee’s Baltimore Love will host wreaked havoc in the lives of transgender for you. Baltimore), Monday through Thursday from their monthly Lunch Patrol, guest-hosted by servicemembers and their families.” 8 am to 8 pm, and Fridays from 8 am to 5 Fourth Meal, at the Weinberg Housing and “This court saw straight through the We are looking for writers to share with pm. Resource Center (620 Fallsway, Baltimore). smokescreen the government tried to cre- their LGBTQ community. They will accept new or gently used Lunch Patrol is an event in Baltimore ate to hide the bias and prejudice behind In Baltimore and surrounding areas blankets and coats for men, women, and held on the last Sunday of every month. Trump’s change in military policy,” added including Hagerstown, Frederick, children of all ages. They also need tents, Their goal is to provide brown bag lunch- GLAD’s Jennifer Levi. sleeping bags, tarps, winter hats, gloves, es to those in need throughout Baltimore. The ruling also called into question the Asbury Park NJ and Rehoboth Beach, socks, umbrellas, and hand and feet warm- For this event they will provide the best part validity of using social media to commu- and any area we reach. ers. Due to space restrictions, they are of the Thanksgiving dinner… the leftovers! nicate federal policy; Trump announced unable to accept donations beyond these Save the turkey, stuffing, and cranberry his intent to ban trans servicemembers For more information contact items. sauce, and even the sweet potato pie that through Twitter in July before issuing a for- commitment to fighting for equality and in- Mary Taylor 410-802-1310, Donations will be distributed during their grandma made, as they will be needed to mal directive. The decision was announced clusion. I am truly excited that we have the or e-mail her at monthly Lunch Patrol events. November serve lunch to those in need in Baltimore. “without any of the formality or deliberative opportunity to come together, learn from [email protected] 26th, December 31st, January 28th, and Volunteers and donations needed. processes that generally accompany the each other, and increase our strength as February 25th. More info at http://bit.ly/2hb4v9Q. t development and announcement of major advocates for the LGBTQ community.” she can fill you in with all the details. policy changes that will gravely affect the For more than a decade, the HRC has During the Fourth Annual Thanksgiving Hope to see you in the paper! Dinner for the Homeless, #SurviveHunger lives of many Americans,” the judge wrote. held an annual summit for LGBTQ student will present their “Stylishly Vintage and the While Trump wrote on social media that leaders from many of the nation’s histor- Fashionably Chic Tour Clothing Closet.” the move came after consultation with mili- ically black institutions. This year, the 41 Survive Hunger is an extended cam- tary leaders, the judge determined that “all attendees represent 23 HBCUs from ten paign that seeks to physically, emotional- of the reasons proffered by the president states: In addition to Morgan and Bowie, ly and, spiritually nourish those that have for excluding transgender individuals from the other schools represented included suffered trauma due to severe life circum- the military in this case were not merely Albany State University, Bethune-Cook- stances, such as homelessness, poverty, unsupported, but were actually contradict- man University, Claflin University, Dillard and battery. They understand the art of ed by the studies, conclusions and judg- University, Fayetteville State University, fashion and how it makes an individual feel ment of the military itself.” ( Hampton University, Howard University, better in the midst of financial circumstanc- Gay News – Jen Colletta at Epgn.com) —continued on page 9

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD NOVember 10, 2017 • baltimoreoutloud.com t 5 WHAT IS GENVOYA®? GENVOYA does not GENVOYA is a 1-pill, once-a-day prescription medicine used • Kidney problems, including kidney failure. Your healthcare to treat HIV-1 in people 12 years and older who weigh at least provider should do blood and urine tests to check your kidneys. cure HIV-1 or AIDS. 77 pounds. It can either be used in people who are starting If you develop new or worse kidney problems, they may tell you to HIV-1 treatment and have never taken HIV-1 medicines before, stop taking GENVOYA. or people who are replacing their current HIV-1 medicines • Too much lactic acid in your blood (lactic acidosis), which is a serious and whose healthcare provider determines they meet certain but rare medical emergency that can lead to death. Tell your healthcare requirements. These include having an undetectable viral load provider right away if you get these symptoms: weakness or being (less than 50 copies/mL) for 6 months or more on their current more tired than usual, unusual muscle pain, being short of breath or fast HIV-1 treatment. GENVOYA combines 4 medicines into 1 pill breathing, stomach pain with nausea and vomiting, cold or blue hands taken once a day with food. GENVOYA is a complete HIV-1 and feet, feel dizzy or lightheaded, or a fast or abnormal heartbeat. treatment and should not be used with other HIV-1 medicines. • Severe liver problems, which in rare cases can lead to death. Tell GENVOYA does not cure HIV-1 or AIDS. To control HIV-1 your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: skin infection and decrease HIV-related illnesses, you must keep or the white part of your eyes turns yellow, dark “tea-colored” urine, taking GENVOYA. Ask your healthcare provider if you have light-colored stools, loss of appetite for several days or longer, nausea, questions about how to reduce the risk of HIV-1 to or stomach-area pain. others. Always practice safer sex and use condoms to lower the The most common side effect of GENVOYA is nausea. Tell your chance of sexual contact with body fl uids. Never reuse or share healthcare provider if you have any side effects that bother you or needles or other items that have body fl uids on them. don’t go away. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION What should I tell my healthcare provider before taking GENVOYA? What is the most important information I should know about GENVOYA? • All your health problems. Be sure to tell your healthcare provider if you have or have had any kidney or liver problems, GENVOYA may cause serious side effects: including hepatitis virus infection. • Worsening of hepatitis B (HBV) infection. GENVOYA is not approved to treat HBV. If you have both HIV-1 and HBV and • All the medicines you take, including prescription and stop taking GENVOYA, your HBV may suddenly get worse. over-the-counter medicines, vitamins, and herbal supplements. Do not stop taking GENVOYA without fi rst talking to your Other medicines may affect how GENVOYA works. Keep a list healthcare provider, as they will need to monitor your health. of all your medicines and show it to your healthcare provider and pharmacist. Ask your healthcare provider if it is safe to take Who should not take GENVOYA? GENVOYA with all of your other medicines. Do not take GENVOYA if you take: • If you take antacids. Take antacids at least 2 hours before or • after you take GENVOYA. SHOW YOUR Certain prescription medicines for other conditions. It is important to ask your healthcare provider or pharmacist about • If you are pregnant or plan to become pregnant. It is not known medicines that should not be taken with GENVOYA. Do not if GENVOYA can harm your unborn baby. Tell your healthcare start a new medicine without telling your healthcare provider. provider if you become pregnant while taking GENVOYA. • The herbal supplement St. John’s wort. • If you are breastfeeding (nursing) or plan to breastfeed. Do • Any other medicines to treat HIV-1 infection. not breastfeed. HIV-1 can be passed to the baby in breast milk. What are the other possible side effects of GENVOYA? You are encouraged to report negative side effects of POWERTake care of what matters most—you. GENVOYA is a 1-pill, once-a-day complete Serious side effects of GENVOYA may also include: prescription drugs to the FDA. Visit www.fda.gov/medwatch, HIV-1 treatment for people who are either new to treatment or people whose healthcare or call 1-800-FDA-1088. • Changes in your immune system. Your immune system may get provider determines they can replace their current HIV-1 medicines with GENVOYA. stronger and begin to fi ght infections. Tell your healthcare provider Please see Important Facts about GENVOYA, including if you have any new symptoms after you start taking GENVOYA. important warnings, on the following page.

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—continued from page 6 writes in the Huffington Post, that “what sounds like a good law in a twenty-second Saying Kevin Johnson C. Smith University, Morehouse sound bite sometimes turns out to be less College, North Carolina Agricultural and clear when one digs below the surface. Spacey is a Technical State University, North Carolina Such is the case with International Me- Central University, Philander Smith Col- gan’s Law, which President Obama signed ‘pedophile’ is lege, Savannah State University, Southern into law. The stated rationale for Interna- University, Southern University at New Or- tional Megan’s Law is twofold: (1) Individ- wrong and leans, Spelman College, Stillman College, uals who have offended against a child Tuskegee University, University of Arkan- pose an extremely high risk of reoffend- dangerous sas at Pine Bluff, and University of the Dis- ing, and (2) Megan’s Law will stop them trict of Columbia. from doing so. The first premise (danger- New Haven, Connecticut – Yale Uni- The HRC’s HBCU Project was found- ousness) is demonstrably false. Study versity Associate Professor Joseph Fischel ed to support LGBTQ students at HBCUs after study has shown that sex offenders chastises the mainstream gay community by providing resources and trainings to actually have a low recidivism rate.” And in Slate.com for its reaction to the alle- advance affirming and supportive college Jacob Sullim points out on Reason.com, gations that “House of Cards” star Kevin campuses. The program is supported by “Instead of focusing on people who have Spacey may have made unwanted sexual the David Bohnett Foundation and the Co- demonstrated a propensity to commit such advances in 1986 toward then 14-year-old ca-Cola Foundation. For the last 12 years, crimes, the IML casts a wide net that cov- actor Anthony Rapp. Kevin Spacey – McCarthy-era blacklisting all the HBCU Project has hosted an annual ers offenders who have never assaulted a Fischel notes, “everyone loves to hate over again? HBCU Leadership Summit to train and pre- child, let alone traveled to another coun- a pedophile, even if they’ve made him up.” pare student leaders and administrators to try for that purpose The Americans whose He then points out that nothing about the Braiding queerness into his apology sent advocate for LGBTQ inclusion and safety. passports will brand them as international alleged incident justifies labeling Spacey gay pundits into a sanctimonious tizzy…. (Seattle Gay News at Sgn.org) child molesters include people convict- a pedophile and that by jumping on that Queers have accrued enough social and ed of misdemeanors as well as felonies, bandwagon, “Gay pundits’ overblown pro- political clout that we need not react with people who committed their offenses as tests of disgust at Spacey support the very unthinking revulsion to other queers, as minors, people who were convicted de- structure of pedophile sex panic – the hy- straights did to us. We can acknowledge, Scarlet Letter cades ago and have never reoffended, perventilating reduction of queerness to as Spacey himself did, that he screwed up people who as teenagers had consensu- child abuse – that they are trying to fend astonishingly and that he may have dam- to be placed on al sex with other teenagers, and people off.” aged the young Rapp. Yet refusing or mis- who committed noncontact offenses such Fischel adds, “To be clear, under no reading his apology, like refusing or disbe- sex offenders’ as sexting, streaking, public urination, clinical diagnostic I know of does a drunk- lieving his queerness, performs a phobia and looking at child pornography.” Read en, aggressive, and deeply stupid pass at of simplification and misrecognition with passports more at the links that follow. (The Dobbs a teenager qualify as pedophilia. Indeed, which we are all too familiar – a phobia we Wire – Bill Dobbs and The Associated one working definition of pedophilia is ‘on- should, however difficult the effort, resist Washington, DC – A controversial new Press at Apnews.com/44f22ca8245441f- going sexual attraction to prepubertal chil- reiterating. t (Slate.com – Joseph Fisch- federal law is one step closer to full imple- 9993ca76b894b8919/Child-sex-offenders- dren … who are generally age 13 years or el at Slate.com/blogs/outward/2017/11/01/ mentation. As soon as Homeland Security to-be-named-as-such-in-US-passports, younger.’” how_calling_kevin_spacey_a_pedophile_ prepares a list of people subject to Inter- Reason.com – Jacob Sullum at Reason. Fischel makes clear that he is not de- hurts_the_gay_community.html) national Megan’s Law (IML), the US State com/archives/2017/11/01/scarlet-letter- fending Spacey’s alleged unwanted ad- [Editor’s Note: Since Rapp went department will begin putting permanent passports-are-unjust-and and Huffington vances but he criticizes the community’s public, others have come forward and de- marks on their passports. For those on the Post – Tamara Rice Lave at The Huffing- quick retreat into moral panic. scribed what they viewed as assaultive, list, current passports will be revoked and ton Posy at Huffingtonpost.com/tamara- “Let me be as clear as possible that inappropriate or uncomfortable sexual ad- new ones issued with a “unique identifier” rice-lave/international-megans-law-_b_ Spacey’s alleged conduct, imposing him- vances by Spacey when they were in their that has been likened to a “scarlet letter.” 9513242.html) self unwanted on a 14-year-old boy, is in late teens or young men. Also, last week a Such treatment of US citizens is likely un- no way defensible,” he writes, “nor is clos- former production assistant for “House of precedented – searches have not turned eted queerness an excuse that authorizes Cards” told CNN that Spacey put his hand up anything similar in this country’s history. bad behavior…. However, we can con- down the man’s pants without his consent. The State Department has just re- demn the alleged events of Rapp’s story – J.B.] vealed the message to be emblazoned without falling into the trap of fueling moral inside new passports: “The bearer was panic around the specter of the pedophile. convicted of a sex offense against a minor, And in its pitchfork-and-torches response, These news notes have been compiled, and is a covered sex offender pursuant to that’s exactly what the gay community is with permission, from the online version 22 United States Code Section 212b(c)(l).” doing. It used to be straights who ‘pedo- of various newspapers and other web In addition to scarlet letter passports, In- philed’ gays to deny them civil rights and sites. We thank these publications for ternational Megan’s Law, “makes it a crime, social inclusion. Now we apparently pe- allowing us to bring you their news sto- for the first time, for a sex offender to trav- dophile our own for moral purification and ries. Usually the reports have been sig- el abroad without giving 21 days advance self-satisfaction.” nificantly edited and you can read the notice so that law enforcement has ade- Fischel says that by now the gay com- full story by going to the web site men- quate time to vet the traveler and warn the munity should be stronger, more nuanced. tioned following the item. Comments destination country, if needed,” according “The scary thing, in the eyes of the main- are strictly the opinions of Jim Becker to Rep. Chris Smith, IML’s Congressional stream movement, is that Spacey used his and not of Baltimore OUTloud or Pride sponsor. apology as an opportunity to come out, to Media. Law Professor Tamara Rice Lave, Try to live your life wearing that announce that he “live[s] as a gay man.” BALTIMORE OUTLOUD NOVember 10, 2017 • baltimoreoutloud.com t 9 VoiceVoice ofof thethe CenterCenter fidential Case Management service where End of the Year Giving Campaign folks can receive onsite one-on-one sessions with one of our Peer Navigators. Our Peer Navigators use our network of city and state- -Become a GLCCB Supporter wide resources to assist those in search of housing, healthcare, or other services. Ad- By Mimi Demissew amazing work that we are providing for years folks each month? The money that you donate ditionally, we offer other programs such as Tis the Season of Giving and this year, to come. For instance did you know that the to the GLCCB goes towards the Center fulfill- Giovanni’s Room Poetry Workshop and Open we at the Center, are asking you, our commu- GLCCB currently serves around 800 people a ing its mission. More importantly, as a Center Mic. Giovanni’s room is the only LGBTQ open nity, for a big give. Help us continue all of the month and that we are striving to reach more we anticipate to loose close to $400,000 in mic in the city and it works hand-in-hand to government grant funding. I suppose one can provide a safe and affirming space for artists say that this should come to no surprise giv- of all levels and all genres to build their skills en the current political climate. Yet, we can’t and bodies of work. Some other programs in- sit back and do nothing. Especially when the clude the Shawnna Alexander Helping Hands bulk of this money goes towards programs Clothing Closet, where we open the Center to that directly aim to uplift our communities. For the community every fourth Monday of each instance a large part of the GLCCB’s work fo- month. Folks enter the space to receive a cuses on reducing the number of people living lovely “shopping” experience to peruse racks with HIV/AIDS and new HIV/AIDS infection of clothing that folks can take for free and end rates among men who have sex with men their experience with a free meal at the Cen- (MSM). This is especially important in Balti- ter. more and Central Maryland considering our The Center has more programs, which communities have the highest infection rates you can find on our website, but it would be re- in the nation. miss of me not to mention our youth program, But what else does the GLCCB do and Youth Against Oppression. The GLCCB is why is it important to give to the Center? The dedicated to uplifting and empowering area GLCCB provides an affirming space, plat- youth (ages 14-21) who identify as members forms for free expression, and resources for of the SGL/LGBTQ community. Youth Against healthier living. We have around 40 addition- Oppression (YAO) provides a safe and affirm- al partner-facilitated programs that operate ing space for youth to learn and grow as well monthly at our center. You can find an up-to- as be connected to opportunities, support, date list of all of our programs on our website. and resources. Some of these programs include Alcoholics During this giving season please con- Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous. We sider donating to the GLCCB and becoming also have various affirming groups that meet a GLCCB supporter. We can accept your do- the needs of the various sectors within the en- nations on our website, by mailed check, or tire LGBT spectrum such as the mankind proj- you can drop at our Center 2530 N. Charles st ect, a group for masculine identifying men or Third floor and drop off your gift. Being a GL- Sisters of Pride, a group for women who love CCB supporter is not limited money; you can women to meet, share ideas and socialize. also donate your time and become a GLCCB In addition to our partner programs the volunteer. There are many ways to support GLCCB offers direct services. One of the your Center and we ask that you keep us in most important of these is our free and con- mind this holiday season.

10 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD NOVember 10, 2017 • baltimoreoutloud.com THE LATEST UPDATES FROM THE GAY, LESBIAN, BISEXUAL, AND TRANSGENDER COMMUNITY CENTER OF BALTIMORE AND CENTRAL MARYLAND

Events Calendar: November 2017 Sundays Mondays Tuesdays Wednesdays Thursdays Fridays Saturdays 11/10 11/11 11/12 11/13 10/14 11/15 11/16 -Black Men’s Xchange -Alcoholics -Narcotics Anonymous -Teen Art Group -Giovanni’s Room -FreeState Justice -Youth Against Oppres- 6:30pm – 10:00pm Anonymous 11:00am-1:00pm 5:00pm-7:00pm Poetry Workshop Legal Clinic sion -TAG Outreach 5:00pm-8:00pm -Gentle Mindful Yoga 6:30pm-8:30pm ($5) 3:00pm-5:00pm 4:30pm-6:30pm 12:00am-4:00am 3:30pm-4:45pm ($10) 11/20 -SILhouette -Free & Confidential -Peculiar Blerd League 11/18 -Helping Hands Cloth- 7:30pm-9:30pm HIV Testing 6:00pm-9:00pm 11/17 Alcoholics Anonymous 11/19 ing Closet 6:30pm-8:30pm -Baltimore Trans Mas- -City on the Rise 5:00pm-8:00pm -Narcotics Anonymous 1:00pm-5:00pm 11/21 -The Mankind Project culine Alliance 5:30pm-7:00pm 11:00am-1:00pm -Teen Art Group -Pink Lady Dance 6:30pm-8:30pm 6:30pm-9:00pm 11/25 -Gentle Mindful Yoga 5:00pm-7:00pm 6:00pm-9:00pm -Sexual Compulsives -Get Smart with iChat Alcoholics Anonymous 3:30pm-4:45pm ($10) Anonymous 7:00pm-9:00pm 11/24 5:00pm-8:00pm 7:00p-8:00pm -Black Men’s Xchange -Trans Baltimore 11/23 6:30pm – 10:00pm 7:00pm-9:00pm -Joy Baltimore Thanks- -TAG Outreach giving Dinner 12:00am-4:00am 11/22 1:00pm-5:00pm -Free & Confidential HIV Testing 6:30pm-8:30pm -The Mankind Project 6:30pm-8:30pm -Vogue Practice 6:30pm-9:30pm Anti-Racism Framework-Sexual Compulsives Anonymous JOY Baltimore 1st Annual By Kenneth Morrison allowed us to work around it rather 7:00p-8:00pmthan dis- cover how we ourselves (regardless of race) “Oh Give Thanks” Celebration A few years ago Jabari Lyles, the President and or our organizations help sustain it. of GLCCB and Director of GLSEN Maryland, GLCCB is intentionally transparent and By Lonnie Walker led the GLCCB into adopting an anti-racism public with our own progress in uprooting framework for how we serve sexual and gen- racism from our policies and practices. This The holiday season is upon us, and many are starting to make their plans. Who is buy- der minorities in Baltimore. This framework includes public discussions during board ing the turkey? Who is making the yams? At whose house are we eating? has shaped our activities, our policies, our pri- meetings, culturally affirming events, and bold For the unseen – the homeless, displaced and runaway youth, where do they go orities, and our board and staff. Sadly, it has changes of inclusiveness to Baltimore PRIDE! to celebrate the also negatively impacted our donor base and Next month we will be inviting all leaders from holidays? Who shares their table with them to give thanks together? Following in support from the white LGBTQ Community. LGBTQ organizations in the greater Baltimore the example of Baltimore’s own, Ms. Bea Gaddy, who made it her purpose to not leave One would assume when providing services area to join us for a multi-day anti-racism anyone without a place to go for Thanksgiving, JOY Baltimore is driven to continue her in a city that is 65% black it is common to have training to encourage similar boldness in ad- legacy. an anti-racism lens and approach to how you dressing and uprooting racism and privilege in This Thanksgiving Day, November 23, 2017, JOY Baltimore will be hosting their work, but sadly, those of us who seek out ser- their own organizations. 1st Annual “Oh Give Thanks” Dinner for homeless, displaced, and runaway youth ages vices and or collaborate with LGBTQ “friend- We have also made this training a re- 13-24. They are invited to an afternoon of free food, fun, music and entertainment, ly” organizations know that is not the case. quirement for anyone volunteering for the giveaways and free toys. Participants will have access to vital resources, free haircuts, Racism, defined as prejudice and insti- Baltimore Pride Planning Committee. We are coats, and toiletries. tutional power has created a fortress of white embarrassed that it has taken the “The Cen- JOY Baltimore could not have put this event together without their generous spon- privilege. This white privilege has established ter” 40 years to recognize our own role in sus- sors: Terry McNair from Element Fleet, GLCCB for donating their space for the event, the normalization of white men as leaders and taining racism and deepening the gaps and Creating Dreams for providing catering, Kora Lee’s for providing all the desserts, Club gatekeepers, the dismissal of black talent and trauma that impacts the most marginalized of Bunns, other community and private sponsors for their liberal donations, and a host of skill, the minimization of voice from people of our community. But we are hopeful in knowing volunteers. color, the glass ceiling that keeps black people that our change can be a blue print for other The event will be held from 1pm to 5pm at GLCCB, 2530 N. Charles Street, 3rd in the role of outreach worker and rarely direc- organizations as well. Floor, Baltimore, MD 21218. JOY Baltimore would like to be a blessing to the youth who tor and much more. Unlike much of America, attends the event. We are still in need of gift cards of any amount (Visa, Walmart, Target, racism is not homophobic or transphobic. It is or any supermarket) for us to gift those attending the event. To donate, call (443) 522- very much at home in the LGBTQ community. 8553 or email [email protected]. Its ability to make people uncomfortable has

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aire with the intellectual curiosity the size of for the 0.01% of the richest Americans. rent ruling administration of the United States a pin become the leader of the land. And a A year ago as news of the Trump vic- of America wants us back in the closet. It’s vice presidential nominee who was a fierce tory set in, we in the gay, lesbian, bisexual just that simple. And Donald Trump has fully anti-gay crusader and proponent of and transgender communities hoped to be pivoted from just not wanting to know (It [ho- Pointing conversion therapy. This would not mosexuality] is just “not my thing,” he once happen, we thought. said) to actively embracing the Pencian far- it Out A year later to the week, I trav- right destructive agenda. By Sage Piper eled to Ashburn, Virginia – with Trump’s utterances portray white straight another band of women, fewer in Americans as besieged, put upon, on the number and less optimistic it is defensive against and in danger of being true, but tireless in determined re- usurped by the “others” trespassing among What a Difference sistance. We came to canvas for us, i.e. those “less-than-us.” These less- a Democratic candidate for gov- than-us make America not great, and they a Year Makes ernor, Ralph Northam, who faced actually show the gall and effrontery to want Republican opponent Ed Gilles- to live their fullest lives and demand all the pie – cookie-cutter Trumpian sur- rights and progress that entails. The nerve of A year ago this week, I set out with a band rogate – who has brandished the these inferiors and freaks, the Trump team of fierce and determined woman, gay and president’s incendiary politics of feels, don’t they know their place? Can’t they straight, to tackle the steep hills of Pittsburgh racially and culturally tinged appeals to lure spared the worst of the new presi- hightail it back into the shadows, so we can and canvas for Hillary Clinton for president. conservative republican voters to the polls in dent’s inflammatory rhetoric and brutal mar- get on with the business of making America We were tireless and optimistic, even as the the Old Dominion State. ginalization. After all, he was never virally Great Again? “How times have changed,” yards stretched out before us outside in the None other than the Gay-Hater-In-Chief, or rabidly anti-gay, even made a couple of Trump said last month at the anti-LGBT Pittsburgh suburbs blanketed with Trump- Mike Pence, had campaigned with Gillepsie feeble gestures towards us during the cam- 2017 Values Voter Summit. “But you know Pence signs and random doors (of identified just days ago. These men openly run on plat- paign. what, now they’re changing back again. Just democratic-leaning voters) slammed in our forms of fear, hate and division which ban But literally hours into his presidency that remember that.” faces. pro-immigrant “sanctuary cities,” mourn the first January Friday, all content on LGBT civil Instead of acknowledging, embracing, But we each had an underlying belief that loss of American history with Confederate rights was brutally removed from the White and celebrating the nation’s multicultural it could not be this bad everywhere, that we statues’ removals, seek to cut health care House website. In February he rescinded diversity, this president encourages straight as a country were not going to let an amoral, benefits for millions of women, children, and protections for trans- white fear and hatred bullying, narcissistic racist misogynist billion- seniors while boosting corporate tax breaks gender students on “We each had an by linking all the “oth- their use of restrooms ers” to larger terrors in public schools. In underlying belief that – crime, terrorism, March he revoked economic collapse, protections for LGBT we were not going to limited employment workers against dis- let an amoral, bullying, opportunities, poor crimination in hiring schools, and the and employment. narcissistic racist sanctity of the Amer- Next came the drop- ican flag and the ping of the federal billionaire with the American myth. He lawsuit over North intellectual curiosity stokes anxiety by Carolina’s statewide dividing the country prohibition on LGBT the size of a pin become into “us” and “them.” equality. Then the So far no one in his bombshell that the the leader of the land.” own party has had US military would not the guts to call out “accept or allow” transgender individuals to and renounce this president, except a cou-

grandcentralclub.com serve “in any capacity.” ple of senators who have decided to leave • More recently Trump issued an execu- the arena. tive order underlining his commitment to “re- So we do what we can, which means, ligious freedom,” which set Attorney General this month, canvassing on the streets of Jeff Sessions to work busily scribbling infor- Virginia. Taking a break for a caffeine run to mative guidtelines. “Just last week, based Starbucks, we overheard a conversation be- on my executive action, the Department of tween the manager and a regular customer. 410-752-7133

1001 N Charles St, Baltimore, MD 21201 Baltimore, St, 1001 N Charles Justice issued a new guidance to all federal The former, a thirty-something West African agencies to ensure that no religious group American immigrant spoke about her current is ever targeted under my administration, it schedule – working full time while pursuing won’t happen,” Trump trumpeted. her public justice degree with plans to then Human Right’s Campaign President take the LSATs and become a lawyer. Star- Chad Griffin has decried the unremitting bucks is paying for her school, she said, as- efforts “by Trump and Mike Pence to undo suring the regular that she was not leaving our progress and LGBTQ people her job anytime soon. back into the closet by using our lives as This, I thought, is what makes America political pawns.” great. t This is the heart of the matter. The cur-

12 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD NOVember 10, 2017 • baltimoreoutloud.com Thinking OUTloud // mark my words Thinking OUTloud With Pence a Lapdog, is a Punishing Disease: Branding People with HIV as Criminals that information getting out there and being Trump Impeachment —continued from page 1 used against them.” As part of his book tour for Punishing While everyone in the West Wing tries to having sex with someone Disease, Hoppe will appear at Even Worse? influence Trump to produce change in their di- who is living with HIV, and Red Emma’s on Wednesday, No- rection, Pence is the only one who has a long thus assume that anyone vember 15th, at 7:30 pm. He will list in the win column. In fact, he has won more who does must not have be joined by Tyrone Hanley of By Mark Segal policy issues in the White House than Trump been told of their status.” the National Center for Lesbian Is it not obvious by now who is controlling himself has won with Congress. Here’s just a Although Hoppe Rights and Vanessa Johnson of President Donald Trump and his anti-LGBT partial list of wins for Pence: points out that most pros- the Positive Women’s Network in crusade? Vice President Mike Pence, who • Ban on trans people in the military (being ecutions have hetero- a panel discussion led by HIV ad- made a national name for himself as governor addressed in the courts) sexual defendants (and vocate and blogger Mark S. King. of Indiana by pushing “religious-liberty” laws • Attorney general issues directive to all they are typically men The event is free atnd open to the to allow citizens to ignore LGBT rights for reli- departments on religion freedom. and women of color), gay public. gious reasons. That’s not to mention anti-trans • Attorney general issues guidance that men are often arrested Hoppe published another legislation he supported, and his backing of LGBT discrimination will no longer be consid- and sometimes play an book earlier this year, The War on conversion therapy – all of which Pence sees ered discrimination based on sex. active role in bringing up Sex, a collection of essays edited as his contribution to the moral fiber of Ameri- • Trump uses “religious exemptions” to charges. It only takes one by Hoppe and David M. Halperin, ca, and his legacy. restrict health-care access, a direct attack on ex-boyfriend with an ax to which dissected how American By sheer elimination, one can see how women and transgender Americans. grind to claim his former law and culture have attacked the program of ridding the government of any • Secretary of Education Betsy DeVos is- partner never disclosed his status to start a the sexual proclivities of anyone behaving sign of LGBT rights is one of Pence’s aims. sues a statement that nondiscrimination pro- process that cannot be reversed once cooler outside the norms set out by our famously Pence and former presidential adviser Steve tections in federal-education laws should be heads prevail. uptight society. The War on Sex approaches Bannon were influential in the naming of far- addressed at the state and local levels. “Many gay men with HIV live in fear that its topic from a social justice point of view, right Republicans whom Trump chose to lead • The Trump administration reverses fed- their partners will prosecute them, even if investigating how the social and legal conse- his administration. Trump, who was and is an eral guidelines that allowed students to use they do disclose,” said Hoppe. “Ironically, I quences of sex have become a weapon “of outsider, knew almost none of those he nom- facilities consistent with their . think this leads some people to choose not social control, adjudication, and, ultimately, inated, while Pence had been a Washington • CIA Director Mike Pompeo cancels a to disclose because they’re worried about oppression.” t insider from his days as a Congressman and planned speech at the CIA about diversity and had a network of connections to anti-LGBT or- LGBT rights to be given by Judy and Dennis ganizations on which he could call. Shepard. Pence has championed the restriction • UN Secretary Nikki Haley votes against of LGBT and women’s rights. No one else in a measure that condemns capital punishment the West Wing feels as strongly, and no one for LGBT people. else in the West Wing on that level marches • The Trump administration proposed a in such lock step and with such blind obedi- budget that slashes funding for programs crit- ence to Trump as Pence does. It’s almost ical to the LGBT community, including Medic- like a dog sniffing the behind of another dog aid, Planned Parenthood, and the Centers for it likes. Okay, let’s put it out there: There is no Disease Control’s HIV and AIDS programs. other person so primed to kiss Trump’s ass That is quite a record of victories in only at any given point than Pence. Hence, Trump ten months. There is no other figure in the tosses him his favorite treat – the rollback of West Wing who has consistently had his or LGBT and women’s rights, as Pence begs on her agenda signed off on and moved. Pence Boosting empowerment and breaking the bonds all fours. is wagging Trump’s tail. There is no better way to illustrate this than “Resist” is a holy word, but in doing so, of homophobia, racism, and stigma in same the ban of transgender people in the military, you’re not just resisting Trump. Resisting only gender-loving (SGL) men in Baltimore City which saw a victory this week as it was struck Trump is very dangerous. Many have shouted down by a court. for a Trump impeachment. That would make • NETWORKING Few understand how this started. Senate Pence president. A better plan is to block Every 1st Wednesday and House members eager to overturn an Trump at every level, or as best as possible • HIV EDUCATION Obama-era rule allowing trans people in the for the next three years, then hopefully beat military tried to find a way to do so by using him in an election. 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device. Your wedding is not the time to de- Getting the pend on the integrity of an internet con- nection. Wedding Tip number two: Have a backup of your You Want playlist on another device. Things happen. David Egan Tip number three: Bring your charger and plug your device into the wall. This is no time to depend on battery life! Assign someone who is not in your Wedding wedding party to manage your device and the sound system. The most important DIY Tips times for manually cueing up music are the times that you and your wedding party are There are lots of great ways to save money busy doing things in front of your guests. on your wedding by doing things yourself. However, if dancing is important to The trade-off of money and convenience you, go for a DJ or a band. DJs and bands for time and effort can be a good one that take the pulse of the dance floor constant- builds camaraderie and gives you genuine ly and adjust the music accordingly. They joy in the doing. know how to get people up and dancing First, a caveat: If you’re a dead- in the first place and keep them that way. line-driven person like me, especially one They drive the mood and the energy of the who struggles with procrastination (also reception. It’s money well spent. like me), think twice before taking on a Alcohol – Many venues and caterers big or complicated DIY project for your will allow you to provide your own alcohol. wedding. The closer you You bring it to your venue get to your wedding, the or have it delivered during more there is to do. What set-up time, and take what looked like a simple, fun remains home with you at project 12 months ago the end of your reception. can become a stress-in- The big advantage of this ducing, screaming bur- is the return privilege. den in the last few weeks Some shops, like The before your wedding. Wine Source and Wells Now that we have that Discount Liquors in Bal- out of the way, here are timore, to name two, will StartStart YourYour NewNew LifeLife WithWith some great ways to do it allow you to return un- yourself, have fun, and save money. used, unopened product. TheThe PerfectPerfect SoundtrackSoundtrack Decor – Lots of couples do some or Hauling alcohol around involves a lot all of their own decor. Before you begin, be of schlepping. It’s heavy, bulky, and there True Harmony Events is an elite group of DJs and wedding planning realistic with yourself about your skills and tends to be a lot of it. Having a cart or hand professionals that break the mold; We love music and we love being your time. It’s easy to look at that Pinterest truck or your younger sibling’s little red a part of people's lives. centerpiece with all of those parts assem- wagon can make the work go faster and We plan events and weddings that take the event to another level bled just so and say, “I can do that!” It’s easier. This is a fine time to engage your and people to another place. quite another to do it for as many guests attendants, who get to be useful as well as decorative! Our team is unrivaled in music knowledge, each one with tables as you’re likely to have, and to have the time to set it all up on your wedding Set-up and break-down – Many wed- a specialty. There is not a style of music around that we don't day. ding venues require same-day load-in and have in our catalog of more than a million songs. A big way to save decor money is to load-out. Be prepared to deliver and set From music to planning, our team is specialized in planning minimize cut flowers. Use potted plants, everything up during set-up time, which is the perfect event. candles, photographs in frames, and other usually the two or three hours before your From start to finish or day-of coordination we have you covered! low-cost centerpieces. I tell couples that wedding. Plan to remove it all immediately candles go a long way. after your reception. Pro tip: Massed anything looks great. So, if you’re DIY-inclined and have the Candles, candle lanterns, blooms, piles of time, doing things yourself can be fun, used books, whatever. create wonderful shared experiences, and Reception music – If you have a talk- save money. and-visit crowd that really doesn’t care Next time: creating a great wedding about dancing, creating a playlist with ceremony. t DJ/MC DANCE LIGHTS UPLIGHTS background music is perfect. Your iDe- David L. Egan is the proprietor and steward vice with a rented or house amplifier and of Chase Court, a wedding and event venue 202-798-6544 • trueharmonydjs.com/lgbt.html speaker system is just fine, and saves an in downtown Baltimore. Visit Chasecourt.com, Consultations are free and available 7 days a week. easy thousand dollars. and follow ChaseCourtWeddingVenue on Ins- Pro tip: Download your playlist to your tagram and Facebook. 16 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD NOVember 10, 2017 • baltimoreoutloud.com Spiritual Directory

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that really says “Sure, I can handle a massive I loved Guardians of the Galaxy because it Marvel superhero movie that needs a major was new and different from the previous Mar- shot in the arm.” That gamble has paid off. vel movies. Vol. 2 was good but a little “every- Finally the Thor Thor: Ragnarok finds our hero imprisoned thing and the kitchen sink” overkill. Thankfully Thor: by the fire demon Surtur, two years after the Thor: Ragnarok is more like the first GotG Battle of Sokovia, while searching for the In- with a story that is action-packed, some dra- Ragnarok finity Stones. This whole scene sets the tone ma, and a lot of well-crafted humor. I dare Movie We All for the rest of the movie because we see that say this may be even funnier than GotG. The delivers Thor (and Chris Hemsworth) has some great Thor series has now done a complete 180 and proved Mar- comic timing, especially in the delivery of his and everyone is having a ball. Hemsworth, vel could, in the dialog. Bat- Hiddleston and Ruffalo have some great co- Wanted right hands, do a comedy (and let’s not forget medic chemistry, and being Ant-Man did lean a bit more towards the co- by Chuck Duncan medic side) that was even more bright and I’ve enjoyed the Marvel superhero movies colorful than the previous films in the MCU. Production over the years, but many have noted that With that film’s success, someone at Marvel values the studio seems to be stuck in a rut with had the bright idea to go full out GotG with to die for their films, following the same template over the third Thor movie, a series that desperate- and over again. To be fair, there have been ly needed a boost after two deadly serious some great films (particularly the first two outings that have probably been the least fa- Captain America movies) in the Marvel Cin- vorites of the fans. People like Thor but there ematic Universe, but so far there have been was always something missing from the solo no real stakes because we know the heroes movies, some real heart. That is until now. are going to be back for another adventure. Marvel made a huge gamble by entrusting And while the DC films from Warner Brothers Thor: Ragnarok to three writers whose ex- have been criticized for being too unrelenting- perience encompasses the Agent Carter se- ly dark and violent, the Marvel films have kept ries, and several animated Marvel and Star tling his things bright and colorful, but outside of a little Wars series, and Taika Waititi, the director of way out of that situation and back to humor here and there, these films have been smaller scale fare such as What We Do In the Asgard (where he makes a spectacular en- more humorous than serious affairs as well. Shadows, Hunt for the Wilderpeople and the trance accompanied by a brilliant sight gag), dramatic, Cate Blanchett gets to chew the Until Guardians of the Galaxy came along TV series The Inbetweeners. Nothing there Thor finds Odin enjoying a production depict- scenery without coming off as ridiculous. ing Loki’s brave sacrifice to save their home Hela is a great villain and Blanchett looks fan- world (and look closely at the three actors tastic. It’s wonderful to see her doing a bit of playing Thor, Loki and Odin). Of course, Loki camp while still being a major threat to Thor is not dead (he’s disguised as Odin) and Odin and Asgard. And Jeff Goldblum does exactly is back on earth in a retirement home where what Jeff Goldblum does best. Loki stashed him. Except the building has Thor: Ragnarok also has some stunning been torn down, but they locate him with the production design from the physical to the help of another Marvel character and discov- digital sets, and everything is photographed er that Ragnarok – the end of their world – is to perfection. There is one scene showing us coming. Courtesy of their sister Hela (Cate the battle of the Valkrie against Hela that looks Blanchett), the God of Death. She’s so pow- like a Renaissance painting come to life in gor- erful that she even destroyed Thor’s hammer. geous slow motion. It really is a breathtaking Come down to The Rowan Tree Thor and Loki don’t exactly see eye to scene. Director Waititi, who has honed his craft Friday November 17th and join the eye so it’s unclear if Loki will join Thor in bat- in comedy, proves that he can handle a large- tling Hela but before they can do anything, scale film with an eye to detail and a pace that Cowboys of KSGRA help raise money for they are knocked out of the Bifrost Bridge and never bogs down, even when the story has end up on the planet Sakaar, which is ruled to take a breath when some new characters Chase Brexton's Gender Joy Program. by the Grandmaster (Jeff Goldblum), with are introduced and need to be brought up to Pick -up your naked Cowboy calendar while you are here! whom Loki has somehow already managed speed on what’s happening. At two hours and to align himself. When Thor arrives, he’s ten minutes, the movie never feels overly long. Proud Sponsor of KSGRA forced to participate in a gladiatorial compe- It feels perfectly timed, in fact. I was thinking I tition against the Grandmaster’s champion, could have enjoyed even more of this movie, the Hulk (who has been hulked out for the last but it’s perfection just as it is. And of course two years and likes it). The two engage in a there is a mid-credit scene that audiences will CALL OUT TO ALL THE STAGECOACH FAMILY stunning battle, and Thor needs to convince be debating, and a final post-credit scene that Time to dust off the hat and polish the boots Hulk to return to his old self so they can get gives the Grandmaster one more hilarious mo- Friday night November 17th The Rowan Tree is having back to Asgard. Thor is also counting on the ment for audiences to savor. a reunion for all the Stagecoach Family. help of the Valkyrie (Tessa Thompson) who Thor: Ragnarok is pure entertainment STOP BY HAVE A DRINK, SING A SONG, AND CATCH UP! brought him to the Grandmaster to do the from start to finish, and it certainly falls into right thing and do battle with Hela once again my top five Marvel movies of all time. Let’s (the last time they fought, she was the only hope Marvel puts Waititi at the helm of the 1633 South Charles Street • 410-468-0550 Valkyrie to survive). Will Thor and his ragtag next Thor adventure and perhaps some other team be able to vanquish Hela? You’ll have to Marvel properties. t find out for yourself. 18 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD NOVember 10, 2017 • baltimoreoutloud.com Lively Arts // Out on Stage // between the covers Lion King Roars into Baltimore Lampoon Hits Bullseye By Frankie Kujawa helps you to study the mechanics By Brynn Devereaux skip over the deranged old-white- “The Circle of Life” lifts Disney musical of the puppet,”he says. “It’s built Parodying someone outland- Alec guy moments we’ve been watch- Charm City to soaring to move the way the animal would ish and unbalanced is a diffi- ing for years. heights this month as the provides move. Therefore, you get in it and cult task, but Alec Baldwin and Baldwin’s The book is strong when cov- The Lion King national you become the animal. The de- Kurt Anderson were ready for ering the election through the first tour embarks on its three- relief from tail and the movement allows you the challenge. Running with new book hundred days in office. So much week run this November at lying kings, to fall right into it.” the success of Baldwin’s Pres- sends up has happened over the past year the Hippodrome Theatre. The Lion King appeals to ident Trump impersonation on that readers may experience a Roaring into Baltimore, scheming all age groups, McKenzie says. Saturday Night Live, Baldwin Trump – as little PTSD and say, “That hap- the beloved Disney classic “There are so many life lessons and Anderson partnered up to pened in March? It feels like will have audiences spell- presidents present in both the movie and the write You Can’t Spell America if tragic farce three years ago.” Events from the bound. Baltimore OUT- Broadway show. You can watch Without Me: The Really Tre- summer and fall are not as bold loud recently chatted with Christopher L the shows repeatedly, and each time you’re mendous Inside Story of My could be and can feel McKenzie, Jr., swing and dance captain for going to get a new lesson. There are so Fantastic First Year as Presi- a little flat, the production. many lessons provided by both the primary dent Donald J. Trump – a satire made funny! but this is “I have the blessed opportunity to play characters and the ensemble. There’s just of Trump’s first year in office. a challenge multiple roles through my role as swing,” not one specific lesson that the audiences For those who have seen Baldwin’s in writing a parody of McKenzie began. The humble, Miami-na- will take away from the show. It’s very mul- performances, it is easy to guess what’s in something that chang- tive plays a zebra, a bird soloist, giraffe tifaceted.” the book. There are plenty of Ivanka Trump es every single day. and gazelle throughout the piece. “I play For McKenzie, whose struggle began jokes, cracks on White House staffers, A favorite part for different animals with different movements with being born with spinal meningitis then comparisons of other world leaders, and everyone will be the throughout the show. It’s very fun!” being misdiagnosed with autism at the age digs at the “fake news.” The authors don’t photos. Alec Baldwin McKenzie impressed that the perfor- of six, being able to travel around the world rely on these jokes for laughs, but know it acts as Trump in dif- mance is so much more than just what audi- and experience this show in the wouldn’t be a true Trump parody without ferent situations: play- capacity as them. ing with toys in the Alec dance captain In the book, “Trump” says, “I’m going to oval office, playing golf, Baldwin A man of tell you things they don’t want me to say as and doing a little “Hannity many roles: is amazing. Christopher L “This show is president, not in the speeches or the press and Chill” (as Ivanka calls it). They are hi- McKenzie, Jr. just absolute- conferences or even on Twitter – and I can larious and an over-the-top treat. ly life chang- do that here because I’m not writing as the The saying goes, “If you don’t laugh, ing. Everyone president, okay, but as Donald Trump, just you’ll cry.” The past year in politics has is so great another American citizen who also hap- been trying, and Baldwin and Anderson at what they pens to be president, so…freedom of ex- inject humor into the day-to-day political do. This cast pression, First Amendment, totally honest, insanity. t is fantastic. no holds barred, The show the whole truth, inspires us nothing but the to continue truth, all for you to strive and and us, the great keep go- American peo- ing to make ple.” each show This is true – the best we for the most part. can make The writers do a it.” McKenzie added great job of em- ences will see and hear. “This show that not just within the performance of the ulating Trump’s is about what you feel throughout. You’re show, but lessons permeate to the cast’s cadence. There going to feel more spirit, an ethereal up- real lives, as well. are just enough WishingWishing YouYou andand YourYour lift from what’s going on in this world. The “It inspires us within the cast to do more pauses, short volume of the expression throughout this with our individual talents, too. Just like phrases,, and FamilyFamily aa HappyHappy && performance in unbelievable. It’s a blend of the character of Simba, who lost his father, standard Trump- Balinese puppetry and African mask-mak- I lost my own father two years ago. This words to paint ing. Since The Lion King draws on diverse show hits home, and the growth that I see a picture for the SafeSafe Thanksgiving!Thanksgiving! cultural experiences the performance in- from where I started to where I am now is reader, but not so vites everyone to experience this one big overwhelming. much as to make party and celebration of life.” “The show has inspired me to feel that unreadable. How- As both dance captain and swing play- this moment in time is where the universe ever, they seem ing so many animals characters, McKen- has put me and this is where I’m supposed to play it safe by zie spent hours studying videos and vis- to be. The show has inspired me to em- illustrating Trump iting zoos to understand his character’s brace this with open arms and that I’m go- as a delusional puppetry movements. “The creative team ing to continue to inspire and grow.” t simpleton and

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zie Scott) comes across like the kid sister of St. be a compliment because unforgettable songs Your Winter LGBTQ Playlist Vincent and Mitski. Sure, there were hints on such as “I Want More Life,” “Abandoned Prop- Sprinter, including the song “Cowboy Guilt.” But erty,” and “Like We Used To.” By Gregg Shapiro duced by Clive Davis and Babyface, the disc metamorphosis is complete for Torres on Three Benefiting the Tegan and Sara Founda- This winter of 2017/2018, whether you’re all features Mathis’ singular renditions of Leonard Futures, as is obvious on songs including the tion, whose mission is “fighting for economic bundled up and trudging through snow and ice Cohen’s “Hallelujah,” A Great Big World’s “Say title track, “Tongue Slap Your Brains Out,” “Hel- justice, health and representation for LGBTQ or wearing board shorts and soaking up the Something,” Adele’s “Hello,” Pharrell’s “Happy,” en in the Woods,” “Greener Stretch,” “Concrete girls and women,” the various artists The Con sun at the beach or pool, remember that music and the Josh Groban hit “You Raise Me Up,” to Ganesha,” “Bad Baby Pie,” and the near-epic X: Covers (Vapor / Warner Brothers) features makes everything better. mention a few. electronic “To be Given a Body.” There is an ad- an all-star cast of artists commemorating the Before Linda Perry became the Grammy With her new Cuban-spiced album An ditional accessibility to Torres’ music on a song tenth anniversary of Tegan and Sara’s 2007 al- Award-winning hit songwriter/record producer American in Havana (Susanwerner.com), such as “Righteous Woman.” bum The Con. As is often the case with covers/ and wife of Sara Gilbert, she was the dread- singer / songwriter Susan Werner proves once Whereas Baker’s Sprained Ankle was a tribute albums, The Con X: Covers is a little locked lead singer of the blues-rocking band again that there aren’t any musical genres she’s mostly acoustic guitar and vocal affair, Turn uneven, but less so than others of its ilk. First 4 Non Blondes. There’s not much on 4 Non unable to master. Having established herself in Out the Lights (Matador / 6131) is more sump- and foremost, there is healthy representation Blondes’ 1992 debut album Bigger, Better, the folk world, Werner turned her attention cab- tuous. Fleshed out with piano, strings, wood- by LGBTQ artists including MUNA (“Relief Faster, More (Interscope / UMe), newly reis- aret/ jazz on I Can’t Be New, modern liberal winds and brass, and the guitars are plugged Next to Me”), Mykki Blanco (“Knife Going In”) sued on 180-gram vinyl, to indicate that Perry spirituality on The Gospel Truth, contemporary in, adding to the radiance of the music. Even and Shamir (“Like O, Like H”). There are also was capable of writing hits such as “Beautiful” classical on Classics and country on Kicking the Baker’s vocals have a luminescence. delightful surprises including performances by and “Get the Party Started” for Christina Aguil- Beehive and Hayseed. “1955 Chevy Bel Air” If there’s any justice, Jeff Heiskell, former Ryan Adams (“Back in Your Head”), City and era and P!nk, respectively. In fact, the album’s brings all of her songwriting chops, including front-man of The Judybats, will get the rec- Colour (“Hop A Plane”), Sara Bareilles (“Floor- lone massive hit single, “What’s Up,” qualified 4 her ability to pen marvelous lyrics, to the fore. ognition he has long deserved. The openly plan”), and devout Christian artist Hayley Wil- Non Blondes for one-hit-wonder status. “Dear “Havana Moon” is swoon-worthy, “Cortadito” gay front-man of the aforementioned Tennes- liams of Paramore (“Nineteen”). Mr. President,” another of the Perry-penned puts her fantastic sense of humor on display see-based band, a group that benefited from A pair of bisexual divas have new albums. tunes on the album, is the other highlight. and “Stray Dogs” invites listeners to salsa to the popularity of the college rock and alterna- The new and improved Miley Cyrus, freed Now in his seventh decade as a record- their heart’s content. tive music scenes, releasing four major-label from the bonds of Disney and its affiliate Hol- ing artist, the remarkable 82-year-old Johnny Since the release of their respective 2015 albums, has been recording as Heiskell since lywood Records label, defied the odds and Mathis returns with The Great New American albums, the second for Torres and the first for putting out 2007’s Soundtrack for an Aneu- emerged as a respectable (if slightly off-kil- Songbook (Columbia). Throughout his career, Julien Baker, both artists have undergone mu- rism. The new Heiskell disc Emotional Terror- ter) artist on 2013’s Bangerz. Four years lat- Mathis gained a reputation for being a top-notch sical transformations on their follow-up discs. ism (Heiskellmusic.com) is as haunting at the er, Cyrus returns with Younger Now (RCA), interpreter of other people’s songs. Co-pro- On Three Futures (4AD), Torres (aka Macken- title and cover image suggest. That’s meant to her most mature and assured effort to date. Just listen to the powerful “Inspired” as proof. “She’s Not Him” sounds like Joanne-era Lady Gaga, while Cyrus dares to venture into in- die-pop territory on the title cut and “I Would Die For You.” Halsey doesn’t completely abandon the electro-pop style that helped to establish her popularity on her second album Hopeless Fountain Kingdom (Astralwerks). However, she definitely sounds like she’s determined to expand her musical palette on songs including “Devil In Me,” “Sorry,” “Lie,” and “Angel On Fire.” UK-based lesbian singer/songwriter Susie Wilkins rocks like nobody’s business on her new four-track EP She Got Me Good (Su- We offer a siewilkins.com). Titular opener kicks things 20% off off on a blistering note and “Fall To Pieces” discount for all area lightens up the rock level. “Far Away” adds students with valid student ID. a gospel choir to the proceedings to get its message across. Tuesday-Thursday No matter where you are this season, we from open to 4 p.m. all need to laugh (especially during the reign of Trump). Fabulous, “gay as hell” comedian Solomon Georgio nails it on Homonegro Any first time client Superior (Comedy Central). An African im- migrant, who “can say whatever the hell” he 20% off also wants, because he’s “black and gay.” He takes us through the history of his name, his family’s 2801 Huntingdon Ave. immigration story, fashion faux pas, coming Baltimore, MD ~ 21211 out at 18 to the world and his parents, culture Phone: 410.646.8115 clashes, porn stashes, society, homophobia www.fringebaltimore.com and racism, his boyfriend, being “a profession- al homosexual,” straight men, and fisting, all the while making us think as we laugh. t

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School student, went to federal court and won the right to take Paul Guilbert to the Providence | Party On high school prom. In 1983, the Rhode Is- land Alliance for Lesbian and Gay Civil by David Placher A river runs Rights was established and it started an or- Traveling to Provi- through it ganized push for anti-discrimination laws. In dence, Rhode Island, August 1985, Rhode Island Gov. Edward D. from Baltimore is easy DiPrete issued an executive order banning and very affordable. discrimination Several discount air- At any good against gays lines fly to Boston, and lesbians in and from Boston’s party, no man’s state govern- airport the Silver Line ment. In 1995, (public bus that runs an island. Rhode Island partly underground Gov. Lincoln C. like a subway) goes to Neither is Almond signed South Station, a train an anti-dis- station, where Amtrak Rhode Island! crimination bill offers tickets to Prov- making Rhode idence for as little as Island the ninth state to ban discrimination $14. Providence is on the basis of . In No- the capital of Rhode vember 2002, David N. Cicilline was elect- meet before going to the clubs. Providence Island, the smallest ed as the first openly gay mayor of Provi- Eagle (Providenceeagle.com), a popular state. Providence is war, Providence’s economy expanded to dence. On March 21st, 2016, Cumberland gay bar in the New England area, is a great geographically very compact because it manufacturing machinery, tools, jewelry, became the first public school district in place to meet and socialize. Throughout was developed prior to the automobile. It and textiles. However, Providence began to Rhode Island to have a formal policy pro- the week, it offers several nightly events. is a densely populated city with a beautiful see a decline in its population around 1920 tecting transgender students. Ego Providence (Egopvd.com) is an ener- river walkway in the middle that separates as industries shut down, notably textiles. getic gay bar that has a dance floor part of the city from areas where higher The Great Depression, a devastating hurri- and regular events. The Dark Lady education institutions are located. Brown cane in 1938, construction of highways, and is a gay bar that has a spacious University, the Rhode Island School of De- a national trend for suburbanization contrib- lounge with drag shows, retro danc- sign, and Johnson and Wales University uted to the city’s decline. Providence was es, go-go dancers, and karaoke. are located in Providence. Although there resurrected around 1970 with investment It has theme nights and is a great are many things to love about Providence, and new construction, including numerous place to meet before clubbing. The condo projects, hotels, and office buildings. Mirabar (Mirabar.com) is a fun gay Started For decades, Providence had the dance club and bar that has great it all world’s widest bridge and it obscured the music. It has a younger crowd, but Moshassuck and Woonasquatucket rivers that should not discourage anyone that snake through the city. In the 1990s, from going. Times Square – With Providence being a city eputedly the very the bridge was redesigned to make it much that is close to Baltimore and easy intergalactic belly smaller, so the two rivers could be exposed. to visit, a weekend trip there is the button! Today, those two rivers are edged by beau- tiful walkways, park benches, trees, and perfect mini vacation. For more a series of Venetian bridges. WaterPlace information on LGBT activities in Park, as the area is called today, is the Providence has several places for the Providence, Rhode Island, contact the location where Rhode Island’s world-re- LGBT community. The Stable is a great Rhode Island LGBTQ Center at rilgbtqcen- t nowned WaterFire show takes place. The community gay bar with friendly bartend- [email protected]. Providence River Boat Company offers ers that offer several beers great and affordable boat tours of the riv- on tap. It has seating out- Power ers (Providenceriverboat.com). The tour is side for people that want center highly recommended. to socialize with- Providence’s first out background gay nightclub opened bar noise. It also in 1972 by Bob Thi- has events al- the three that standout are its history, its beault. Prior to that most every night, WaterPlace Park, and its LGBT progressive Thibeault owned an- including theme movements. other nightclub where events. Alley Cat, Providence was founded in 1636 by he allowed same-sex a great gay bar Roger Williams, who fled Massachusetts dancing. On May that is located in because of religious persecution. In the 30th, 1980, Rhode the middle of all mid-1770s, the British government levied Island grabbed the the “hot spots,” unpopular taxes on Providence’s industries, nation’s attention be- offers a relaxing leading many residents to participate in the cause Aaron Fricke, environment and bloody American Revolution. Following the a Cumberland High is a great place to BALTIMORE OUTLOUD NOVember 10, 2017 • baltimoreoutloud.com t 21 What is TRUVADA for PrEP? Who should not take TRUVADA for PrEP? TRUVADA for PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) is a prescription medicine that is used Do not take TRUVADA for PrEP if you: together with safer sex practices to help reduce the risk of getting HIV-1 through sex. ® Already have HIV-1 infection or if you do not know your HIV-1 status. If This use is only for HIV-negative adults who are at high risk of getting HIV-1. To help you are HIV-1 positive, you need to take other medicines with TRUVADA to treat determine your risk of getting HIV-1, talk openly with your healthcare provider about HIV-1. TRUVADA by itself is not a complete treatment for HIV-1. If you have HIV-1 your sexual health. and take only TRUVADA, your HIV-1 may become harder to treat over time. Ask your healthcare provider if you have questions about how to prevent getting HIV. ® Also take certain medicines to treat hepatitis B infection. Always practice safer sex and use condoms to lower the chance of sexual contact with What are the other possible side effects of TRUVADA for PrEP? body fl uids. Never reuse or share needles or other items that have body fl uids on them. Serious side effects of TRUVADA may also include: IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION ® Kidney problems, including kidney failure. Your healthcare provider may do What is the most important information I should know about blood tests to check your kidneys before and during treatment with TRUVADA. TRUVADA for PrEP? If you develop kidney problems, your healthcare provider may tell you to stop taking TRUVADA. Before taking TRUVADA for PrEP: ® Too much lactic acid in your blood (lactic acidosis), which is a serious but ® You must be HIV-negative before you start taking TRUVADA for PrEP. You must rare medical emergency that can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider get tested to make sure that you do not already have HIV-1. Do not take TRUVADA right away if you get these symptoms: weakness or being more tired than usual, to reduce the risk of getting HIV-1 unless you are confi rmed to be HIV-negative. unusual muscle pain, being short of breath or fast breathing, stomach pain with ® Many HIV-1 tests can miss HIV-1 infection in a person who has recently nausea and vomiting, cold or blue hands and feet, feel dizzy or lightheaded, or a become infected. If you have fl u-like symptoms, you could have recently become fast or abnormal heartbeat. infected with HIV-1. Tell your healthcare provider if you had a fl u-like illness within ® Severe liver problems, which in rare cases can lead to death. Tell your the last month before starting or at any time while taking TRUVADA for PrEP. healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: skin or the white part Symptoms of new HIV-1 infection include tiredness, fever, joint or muscle aches, of your eyes turns yellow, dark “tea-colored” urine, light-colored stools, loss of headache, sore throat, vomiting, diarrhea, rash, night sweats, and/or enlarged appetite for several days or longer, nausea, or stomach-area pain. lymph nodes in the neck or groin. ® Bone problems, including bone pain, softening, or thinning, which may lead to While taking TRUVADA for PrEP: fractures. Your healthcare provider may do tests to check your bones. ® You must continue to use safer sex practices. Just taking TRUVADA for PrEP Common side effects in people taking TRUVADA for PrEP are stomach-area may not keep you from getting HIV-1. (abdomen) pain, headache, and decreased weight. Tell your healthcare provider if We're open, ® You must stay HIV-negative to keep taking TRUVADA for PrEP: you have any side effects that bother you or do not go away. ® Get tested for HIV-1 at least every 3 months. What should I tell my healthcare provider before taking ® If you think you were exposed to HIV-1, tell your healthcare provider right away. TRUVADA for PrEP? ® To further help reduce your risk of getting HIV-1: ® All your health problems. Be sure to tell your healthcare provider if you have or not unprepared. ® Know your HIV status and the HIV status of your partners. have had any kidney, bone, or liver problems, including hepatitis. ® Get tested for other sexually transmitted infections. Other infections make it ® If you are pregnant or plan to become pregnant. It is not known if We know who we are. And we make choices that fi t our lives. easier for HIV to infect you. TRUVADA can harm your unborn baby. If you become pregnant while taking ® Get information and support to help reduce risky sexual behavior, such as TRUVADA for PrEP, talk to your healthcare provider to decide if you should having fewer sex partners. keep taking TRUVADA. TRUVADA for PrEP™ is a once-daily prescription medicine that ® Do not miss any doses of TRUVADA. Missing doses may increase your risk of ® If you are breastfeeding (nursing) or plan to breastfeed. Do not breastfeed. If can help reduce the risk of getting HIV-1 when taken every day getting HIV-1 infection. you become HIV-positive, HIV can be passed to the baby in breast milk. ® If you do become HIV-1 positive, you need more medicine than TRUVADA ® All the medicines you take, including prescription and over-the-counter and used together with safer sex practices. alone to treat HIV-1. TRUVADA by itself is not a complete treatment for HIV-1. If medicines, vitamins, and herbal supplements. TRUVADA may interact with you have HIV-1 and take only TRUVADA, your HIV-1 may become harder to treat other medicines. Keep a list of all your medicines and show it to your healthcare ® TRUVADA for PrEP is only for adults who are at high risk of getting HIVthrough sex. over time. provider and pharmacist when you get a new medicine. TRUVADA can cause serious side effects: ® If you take certain other medicines with TRUVADA, your healthcare provider ® You must be HIV-negative before you start taking TRUVADA for PrEP. may need to check you more often or change your dose. These medicines ® Worsening of hepatitis B (HBV) infection. TRUVADA is not approved to treat HBV. include certain medicines to treat hepatitis C (HCV) infection. If you have HBV and stop taking TRUVADA, your HBV may suddenly get worse. Do Ask your doctor about your risk of getting HIV-1 infection not stop taking TRUVADA without fi rst talking to your healthcare provider, as they You are encouraged to report negative side effects of prescription drugs to the will need to monitor your health. FDA. Visit www.FDA.gov/medwatch, or call 1-800-FDA-1088. and if TRUVADA for PrEP may be right for you.

Please see Important Facts about TRUVADA for PrEP including important warnings on the following page. Learn more at truvada.com

22 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD NOVember 10, 2017 • baltimoreoutloud.com TVDC0153_PrEP_B_9-875x9.6_BaltimoreOutloud_Apt_p1.indd 1-2 7/27/17 4:01 PM What is TRUVADA for PrEP? Who should not take TRUVADA for PrEP? TRUVADA for PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) is a prescription medicine that is used Do not take TRUVADA for PrEP if you: together with safer sex practices to help reduce the risk of getting HIV-1 through sex. ® Already have HIV-1 infection or if you do not know your HIV-1 status. If This use is only for HIV-negative adults who are at high risk of getting HIV-1. To help you are HIV-1 positive, you need to take other medicines with TRUVADA to treat determine your risk of getting HIV-1, talk openly with your healthcare provider about HIV-1. TRUVADA by itself is not a complete treatment for HIV-1. If you have HIV-1 your sexual health. and take only TRUVADA, your HIV-1 may become harder to treat over time. Ask your healthcare provider if you have questions about how to prevent getting HIV. ® Also take certain medicines to treat hepatitis B infection. Always practice safer sex and use condoms to lower the chance of sexual contact with What are the other possible side effects of TRUVADA for PrEP? body fl uids. Never reuse or share needles or other items that have body fl uids on them. Serious side effects of TRUVADA may also include: IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION ® Kidney problems, including kidney failure. Your healthcare provider may do What is the most important information I should know about blood tests to check your kidneys before and during treatment with TRUVADA. TRUVADA for PrEP? If you develop kidney problems, your healthcare provider may tell you to stop taking TRUVADA. Before taking TRUVADA for PrEP: ® Too much lactic acid in your blood (lactic acidosis), which is a serious but ® You must be HIV-negative before you start taking TRUVADA for PrEP. You must rare medical emergency that can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider get tested to make sure that you do not already have HIV-1. Do not take TRUVADA right away if you get these symptoms: weakness or being more tired than usual, to reduce the risk of getting HIV-1 unless you are confi rmed to be HIV-negative. unusual muscle pain, being short of breath or fast breathing, stomach pain with ® Many HIV-1 tests can miss HIV-1 infection in a person who has recently nausea and vomiting, cold or blue hands and feet, feel dizzy or lightheaded, or a become infected. If you have fl u-like symptoms, you could have recently become fast or abnormal heartbeat. infected with HIV-1. Tell your healthcare provider if you had a fl u-like illness within ® Severe liver problems, which in rare cases can lead to death. Tell your the last month before starting or at any time while taking TRUVADA for PrEP. healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: skin or the white part Symptoms of new HIV-1 infection include tiredness, fever, joint or muscle aches, of your eyes turns yellow, dark “tea-colored” urine, light-colored stools, loss of headache, sore throat, vomiting, diarrhea, rash, night sweats, and/or enlarged appetite for several days or longer, nausea, or stomach-area pain. lymph nodes in the neck or groin. ® Bone problems, including bone pain, softening, or thinning, which may lead to While taking TRUVADA for PrEP: fractures. Your healthcare provider may do tests to check your bones. ® You must continue to use safer sex practices. Just taking TRUVADA for PrEP Common side effects in people taking TRUVADA for PrEP are stomach-area may not keep you from getting HIV-1. (abdomen) pain, headache, and decreased weight. Tell your healthcare provider if We're open, ® You must stay HIV-negative to keep taking TRUVADA for PrEP: you have any side effects that bother you or do not go away. ® Get tested for HIV-1 at least every 3 months. What should I tell my healthcare provider before taking ® If you think you were exposed to HIV-1, tell your healthcare provider right away. TRUVADA for PrEP? ® To further help reduce your risk of getting HIV-1: ® All your health problems. Be sure to tell your healthcare provider if you have or not unprepared. ® Know your HIV status and the HIV status of your partners. have had any kidney, bone, or liver problems, including hepatitis. ® Get tested for other sexually transmitted infections. Other infections make it ® If you are pregnant or plan to become pregnant. It is not known if We know who we are. And we make choices that fi t our lives. easier for HIV to infect you. TRUVADA can harm your unborn baby. If you become pregnant while taking ® Get information and support to help reduce risky sexual behavior, such as TRUVADA for PrEP, talk to your healthcare provider to decide if you should having fewer sex partners. keep taking TRUVADA. TRUVADA for PrEP™ is a once-daily prescription medicine that ® Do not miss any doses of TRUVADA. Missing doses may increase your risk of ® If you are breastfeeding (nursing) or plan to breastfeed. Do not breastfeed. If can help reduce the risk of getting HIV-1 when taken every day getting HIV-1 infection. you become HIV-positive, HIV can be passed to the baby in breast milk. ® If you do become HIV-1 positive, you need more medicine than TRUVADA ® All the medicines you take, including prescription and over-the-counter and used together with safer sex practices. alone to treat HIV-1. TRUVADA by itself is not a complete treatment for HIV-1. If medicines, vitamins, and herbal supplements. TRUVADA may interact with you have HIV-1 and take only TRUVADA, your HIV-1 may become harder to treat other medicines. Keep a list of all your medicines and show it to your healthcare ® TRUVADA for PrEP is only for adults who are at high risk of getting HIVthrough sex. over time. provider and pharmacist when you get a new medicine. TRUVADA can cause serious side effects: ® If you take certain other medicines with TRUVADA, your healthcare provider ® You must be HIV-negative before you start taking TRUVADA for PrEP. may need to check you more often or change your dose. These medicines ® Worsening of hepatitis B (HBV) infection. TRUVADA is not approved to treat HBV. include certain medicines to treat hepatitis C (HCV) infection. If you have HBV and stop taking TRUVADA, your HBV may suddenly get worse. Do Ask your doctor about your risk of getting HIV-1 infection not stop taking TRUVADA without fi rst talking to your healthcare provider, as they You are encouraged to report negative side effects of prescription drugs to the will need to monitor your health. FDA. Visit www.FDA.gov/medwatch, or call 1-800-FDA-1088. and if TRUVADA for PrEP may be right for you.

Please see Important Facts about TRUVADA for PrEP including important warnings on the following page. Learn more at truvada.com

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD NOVember 10, 2017 • baltimoreoutloud.com t 23 TVDC0153_PrEP_B_9-875x9.6_BaltimoreOutloud_Apt_p1.indd 1-2 7/27/17 4:01 PM IMPORTANT FACTS This is only a brief summary of important information about taking TRUVADA for PrEPTM (pre-exposure prophylaxis) to help reduce the (tru-VAH-dah) risk of getting HIV-1 infection. This does not replace talking to your healthcare provider about your medicine.

MOST IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT POSSIBLE SIDE EFFECTS OF TRUVADA FOR PrEP TRUVADA FOR PrEP TRUVADA can cause serious side effects, including: Before starting TRUVADA for PrEP: • Those in the “Most Important Information About TRUVADA for PrEP” section. • You must be HIV-1 negative. You must get tested to make sure that you do not already • New or worse kidney problems, including kidney failure. have HIV-1. Do not take TRUVADA for PrEP to reduce the risk of getting HIV-1 unless you are • Too much lactic acid in your blood (lactic acidosis), which is a serious but rare medical emergency confirmed to be HIV-1 negative. that can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: weakness or being more tired than usual, unusual muscle pain, being short of breath or fast breathing, stomach • Many HIV-1 tests can miss HIV-1 infection in a person who has recently become pain with nausea and vomiting, cold or blue hands and feet, feel dizzy or lightheaded, or a fast or Symptoms of new HIV-1 infection include flu-like symptoms, tiredness, fever, joint or infected. abnormal heartbeat. muscle aches, headache, sore throat, vomiting, diarrhea, rash, night sweats, and/or enlarged • Severe liver problems, which in rare cases can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away lymph nodes in the neck or groin. Tell your healthcare provider if you have had a flu-like illness if you get these symptoms: skin or the white part of your eyes turns yellow, dark “tea-colored” urine, within the last month before starting TRUVADA for PrEP. light-colored stools, loss of appetite for several days or longer, nausea, or stomach-area pain. While taking TRUVADA for PrEP: • Bone problems. • You must continue to use safer sex practices. Just taking TRUVADA for PrEP may not Common side effects in people taking TRUVADA for PrEP include stomach-area (abdomen) pain, keep you from getting HIV-1. headache, and decreased weight. • You must stay HIV-negative to keep taking TRUVADA for PrEP.Get tested for HIV-1 at least These are not all the possible side effects of TRUVADA. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you every 3 months while taking TRUVADA for PrEP. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you have any new symptoms while taking TRUVADA for PrEP. think you were exposed to HIV-1 or have a flu-like illness while taking TRUVADA for PrEP. Your healthcare provider will need to do tests to monitor your health before and during • If you do become HIV-1 positive, you need more medicine than TRUVADA alone to treatment with TRUVADA for PrEP. treat HIV-1. If you have HIV-1 and take only TRUVADA, your HIV-1 may become harder to treat over time. • See the “How To Further Reduce Your Risk” section for more information. BEFORE TAKING TRUVADA FOR PrEP TRUVADA may cause serious side effects, including: Tell your healthcare provider if you: • Have or have had any kidney, bone, or liver problems, including hepatitis. • Worsening of hepatitis B (HBV) infection. TRUVADA is not approved to treat HBV. If you • Have any other medical conditions. have HBV, your HBV may suddenly get worse if you stop taking TRUVADA. Do not stop taking • Are pregnant or plan to become pregnant. TRUVADA without first talking to your healthcare provider, as they will need to check your health • Are breastfeeding (nursing) or plan to breastfeed. Do not breastfeed. If you become HIV-positive, HIV regularly for several months. can pass to the baby in breast milk. Tell your healthcare provider about all the medicines you take: ABOUT TRUVADA FOR PrEP • Keep a list that includes all prescription and over-the-counter medicines, vitamins, and herbal TRUVADA for PrEP is a prescription medicine used together with safer sex practices to help supplements, and show it to your healthcare provider and pharmacist. reduce the risk of getting HIV-1 through sex. 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Parenting OUTloud Rev. Kelly Crenshaw Dealing with he demands ice cream, too. If he’s playing Severe Mental a game, he wants to play a different one. If he’s watching television, it’s never on the Illness right show. Whatever he doesn’t have is So, I urge you to be thoughtful when you what he wants. Whenever I wasn’t home, I’d see that out of control child at the grocery panic if the phone rang. Sometimes, it was store. I’ll bet his parents have some long and The majority of parents are lucky. Most of us the police at our door because he’d run away difficult days. Or, when a child asks the same never know what it’s like to live with a men- again and they were bringing him home. question over and over. Maybe that kid is de- tally ill child. Even among those who have Sometimes, it was one of the kids who was family members who suffer from mental ill- scared because Michael was starting to get “That kid is a prisoner much as anyone. That kid is a prisoner in ness, most of those cases are not severe. anxious. And, his anxiety moments always his own mind. He gets anxious and doesn’t Many of our children have mental illness led to a violent outburst. in his own mind. He know why. He makes strange decisions and in some form or another. Unfortunately, it’s I think the worst part of raising a men- justifies them with strange statements. He is the result of living through childhood trauma. tally ill child is the judgement we get from gets anxious and the one who needs our acceptance. I’ve talked about some it before. It’s not other parents. I belong to an online support doesn’t know why. And, so do his parents and family mem- pretty and it’s not easy, group and the bers. They’re the one on the front lines. but it’s been a preva- folks there He makes strange They’re the ones who have the sleepless lent part of our lives for are always nights or the anxiety filled days. They’re the more than 20 years. complaining decisions and justifies ones who have to cancel family events be- Two months ago, about the them with strange cause the loved one is having a particularly one of our adult sons judgement – bad day. Believe me! I’ve been there. was sent, against his from family, statements. He is the Be kind and understanding, knowing that will, to a psychiatric from friends, no matter what, those parents are doing the hospital. His name from complete one who needs our very best job they know how to do. And, un- is Michael and in his strangers. It acceptance.” less you walk a mile in their shoes, you have attempt to cope with doesn’t matter. no idea how hard it might be. t his many anxieties The comments Rev. Kelly Crenshaw is the mom of 16 and paranoias, he are harsh and velopmentally challenged or has processing adopted kids, two biological kids, guardian has become violent. meant to hurt. issues that make it hard to retain information. of one baby girl and foster mom of dozens. In reality, I guess With my But, even more, I ask you to be kind to that Some are lesbian, some gay, some straight, he’s always been vi- sick kids, I weird kid – we all know at least one. There’s and some bisexual. Kelly founded a K-12 olent. Even as a little found that ab- always that kid who is going to be teased at day school where kids could have a safe, child, it would often solute structure school, sit alone at lunch, and not have any- bully-free environment for learning. She is take two or three was easier for one to hang with on a Saturday afternoon. co-owner of a counselling agency that works grownups to restrain them to handle That kid deserves love and affection as with children and their families. him when he became mad. than any other His body is covered with self-inflicted reality. My mother would accuse me of being If you like to write and have an interest in local news, theater and the arts, scars. When he gets angry, he bites himself too strict, but she didn’t live with the crazi- food, LGBTQ history, doing interviews, Baltimore OUTloud or scratches his face. Sometimes, he picks ness at home. She’d see the kids for a cou- up a stick or tool and tries to stab himself. He ple of hours. I had to live with it. She didn’t might be the place for you. bangs his head on the ground or hits himself understand. with objects. And, if anyone tries to stop him, Unfortunately, many parents of mental- We are looking for writers to share with their LGBTQ community. he attacks them, too. It can be pretty scary ly ill children, we struggle with the loss of In Baltimore and surrounding areas including Hagerstown, to witness, much less participate in. The fi- friendship and estrangement from family Frederick, Asbury Park NJ and Rehoboth Beach, and any area we reach. nal straw came when he started attacking members. People judge the way we parent without provocation. So sadly, he had to go our children and, frankly, they judge our chil- For more information contact Mary Taylor 410-802-1310, somewhere that could keep him and those dren. They don’t understand why these kids around him safe. make the decisions they do, so they criticize or e-mail her at [email protected] Having him at home is difficult, even them. They don’t want my kids to play with she can fill you in with all the details. when he isn’t attacking himself or some- their kids. Even the ones who have kids with one else. He begs and whines. Nothing is their own set of issues, don’t want to add my Hope to see you in the paper! ever good enough for him. If he gets cake, kids’ issues to their reality.

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Then the allegations of sexual miscon- duct against Harvey Weinstein and, later, Kevin Spacey, made the headlines. I wrote Brian’s about this and the #metoo campaign in my Brain last article, as well as RAINN, an organiza- Brian George Hose tion dedicated to helping those affected by sexual violence. You see, Tori Amos has been an instrumental part of RAINN since its inception, serving as a the first nation- Risky al spokesperson and dedicating time and resources over the years. Tori has been KSGRA is Selling the 2018 Business very open about her experience as a sur- vivor, which in turn has helped a number Cowboy WANTED Calendar I spend a lot of time and energy avoiding of her fans seek help and feel less alone. risky situations. I always look both ways Having found strength in Tori’s music and Each calendar is $20 with a portion of the proceeds going before crossing the street; I don’t drive message myself, I decided to pick up my directly to KSGRA. These would make great holiday gifts fast; I wear sensible shoes. needles and get to work. Maybe this makes me bor- Project T407 I decided that if I was go- for the cowboy in your family! ing, but it also keeps me safe ing to do this, I had to do it and, for the most part, happy. and Tori Amos right. This meant I created Calendars can be purchased at the following places and times: I think a lot of us fall into this an original design, but had Friday, November 17: 7pm-Midnight, Rowan Tree pattern as we get older, which to guess measurements and 633 S Charles St, Baltimore, MD 21230 is why when we do anything out of the ordi- proportions. It was simultaneously exhila- nary it’s a cause for celebration. On these rating and nerve-wracking. What if it didn’t occasions we remember that in trying to fit? What if it fit too well and just made me Saturday, November 18: 8pm-Midnight, Baltimore Eagle keep things consistent by avoiding lows, seem that much creepier? What if I didn’t 2022 N Charles St, Baltimore, MD 21218 we also sometimes miss out on the highs. even get to give it to her? But also, what This week I’m writing about a risk I did if I did get the chance and she loved it? I Saturday, November 25: 8pm-Midnight, 704 Lounge take. That risk goes by the name T407, decided the possible pros outweighed the 704 3rd Street, Harrisburg, PA 17101 and I’ve spent the last week bringing it to cons and dedicated all my free time to knit- life. You see, T407 is a sweater, a gift I ting. Friday, December 8: 8pm-Midnight, Leons/Steampunk Alley decided to make for Tori It took longer than Amos a few weeks expected, and I pulled 227 W Chase St, Baltimore, MD 21201 ago when I bought two all-nighters to fin- a ticket to her solo ish in time for the con- Saturday, December 9: 8pm-Midnight, Grand Central concert in Washing- cert. In fact, I finished 1001 N Charles St, Baltimore, MD 21201 ton, DC. at exactly 4:07 am the If you’re think- morning of the concert, ing I’m a little nut- hence T407. When I There will be a calendar signing and country night on November ty, you’re not alone. arrived at the venue I 25 at 704 Lounge in Harrisburg. Come and meet the models of Even as I came up took T407 to security with the idea for T407 and asked if there was the cowboy calendar, learn some line dancing, kick-up your heals I knew it was risky. a policy or procedure on the dance oor and support KSGRA. There will also be several First of all, knitting a for giving gifts. After sweater requires a sig- a quick meeting and basket raes and buckles for sale and some goat dressing. nificant commitment of examination, they 2018 “Cowboy WANTED” fundraiser calendar is a fully nude male time, which was already deemed the sweat- fantasy calendar. All proceeds benet KSGRA. short. Secondly, imag- er safe and took it ine a stranger gifting backstage before you with a hand-made, the show. You can reserve or purchase your calendar online at: customized sweater. You That was the http://www.ksgra.org would likely be pleased last time I saw by the effort, but also a T407 in person. Part ... In which bit leary. I mean, who the author of me wonders if Tori ever re- does something like that? Either a nice, fears he ceived it and, if so, what she well-meaning person or a nice, well-mean- has a stitch thought of it. I also wonder ing person in need of psychiatric help and loose what to think of myself. Was I an explanation of personal boundaries. well-meaning? Yes. Creepy? So, even as I set to work designing and Possibly. Was it worth it? Yes. knitting T407, I was asking myself, “Is this Even if it all went wrong, I’m glad I did

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view process.) “Glenn Belcher, a and Mr. Connecticut tidotes about her parents attending leather COMMAND’s an- Leather 2017 Scoo- events and only did one musical number. nual leather week- veteran who suffers by. Mr. GNI Leather She brought down the house with her per- Leather end began on Friday, from PTSD, gave a 2015 Dave Barnett formance of Chicago’s “When You’re Good Line November 3rd with served as den daddy to Mama.” The only other entertainment Rodney Burger a 7 pm cocktail par- moving speech about and the job of judges’ was provided by local musician Eric D’Ales- ty at the Hotel Indigo boy went to Mid-At- sandro, who appeared onstage clad only in sponsored by past his journey from lantic Drummerboy a jockstrap, which was auctioned off to a Mr. Maryland Leather not wanting to go 2016 Pup Indigo. member of the audience with the proceeds Mr. titleholders followed Also keeping the going to Brother Help Thyself. The jock was by an 8 pm cocktail out of the house to contest rolling along removed onstage and Eric then proceed hour sponsored by being onstage as a was tally master Paul to play a beautiful and haunting version of Maryland the ShipMates Club of Treadway and stage “Somewhere Over the Rainbow” on his violin Baltimore. A short bar contestant.” manager Margaret while nude. (That performance required lots crawl to Leon’s and a Irene. of heart, brains, and nerve and the audience meet-and-greet party at Grand Central com- Contestants were introduced onstage in could easily see what he must have gotten Leather 2018 is... pleted the evening. I was very pleased that barware (unscored) and had already been from the wizard!) COMMAND, whose home bar is the Balti- judged offstage during an interview with the After the introduction of a group of past more Eagle, with many members working judges which included points for communi- Mr. Maryland Leather titleholders, Mr. Mary- Brendan Patrick, a health-care professional there, included other local LGBT watering ty service. They competed onstage in jock/ land Leather 2017 Pup Orpheus gave his and popular Baltimore Eagle bartender, was holes in their weekend agenda. It is so im- physique, formal leather image and gave a step-aside speech that compared his title selected the 27th Mr. Maryland Leather ti- portant that we support our LGBT friendly short speech. Olympic scoring that results in year to wearing a pup tail. “It is pleasurable, tleholder on Saturday, November 4th at the establishments in these difficult times. The the highest and lowest judges’ scores being but not without commitment.” I must say that annual Mr. Maryland Leather Contest pro- meet-and-greet at Grand Central was host- tossed was not used in this contest. There I had my doubts about Pup Orpheus when duced by COMMAND MC at the Baltimore ed by the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence was also no onstage question. Contestants he was selected last year, but I must applaud Eagle. First runner-up and also recipient and included a brief onstage introduction of spoke on a variety of topics. Glenn Belcher him for an outstanding year as Mr. Maryland of the Brotherhood Award was Daddy Rob the six contestants by COMMAND MC vice who is a retired veteran who suffers from Leather. I hope that next year I will be just as Cwiklowski, a member of COMMAND MC, president Christopher Council. This was one PTSD and was never without his faithful proud of Mr. Maryland Leather 2018 Bren- and 2nd runner-up was awarded to Jason of the better organized Mr. Maryland Leath- emotional support dog gave a very moving dan Patrick. Clark-Fox, a member of COMMAND MC. er Contest in years right down to the fine speech about his journey from not wanting After the contest, COMMAND hosted a Also competing were COMMAND pledge details, like contestants wearing contestant to go out of the house to being onstage as a dinner at The Nest above the Baltimore Ea- Glenn Belcher and COMMAND pledge numbers from the very start. This made it contestant for Mr. Maryland Leather and stat- gle that featured roast beef, pork, and sea- Samuel Goldstein. (It should be noted that very easy for everyone to meet and greet ed, “You don’t need to medicate in order to food and was quite delicious. A dance at the a 6th contestant was introduced earlier in the contestants. participate.” Rob spoke of the brotherhood of Baltimore Eagle and an after party at 1722 the weekend but that contestant did not ad- I was also delighted when it was an- COMMAND MC and urged the audience to completed the evening. The Mr. Maryland vance to the onstage contest after the inter- nounced several months ago that this year’s join adding, “I’m Daddy Rob and I’m here to Leather weekend concluded on Sunday Mr. Maryland Leather Con- recruit you.” Samuel and Jason both spoke morning with a brunch at Flavor in Mount test would be emceed by In- of their personal discovery of the leather Vernon. ternational Ms. Leather 2016 community and in another heartfelt speech As 2017 comes to a close, we now know Lascivious Jane. This Miss Brendan told of his emotional struggle with who will be representing Maryland at Inter- Philadelphia Leather title- alcohol addiction. national Mr. Leather 2018 in Chicago in May. holder and popular burlesque The contest also moved very quickly this Next up is the Mr. D.C. Eagle 2018 Contest performer has been delighting year because there was not a lot of extra on Saturday, November 18th at 9 pm. Who audiences all over the coun- speeches or filler entertainment. Lascivious will represent Washington, DC, at IML? Mr. try. She did a fantastic job as Jane told several short but very amusing an- DC Eagle 2018 is … (stay tuned!). t Mistress of Ceremonies (or, as she likes to call it, “femme- cee“) and I hope that COM- MAND doesn’t wait to sign Law Office of David M. Lutz, P.A. her up for next year. There was also a great judging •Auto Accidents •Workers’ Compensation panel: Mr. Maryland Leather 2016 Eli Onyx, •Personal Injury •DUI/DWI Mr. Maryland Mr. Michigan Leather 2018 Leather 2017 is... Brendan Kenn Kenne- •Criminal Defense •Traffic Court Patrick, a dy, Ms. Woods health-care Leather 2017 Se Habla Español professional and popular Alyssa Durnien, 1901 Fleet Street Baltimore, MD 21231 Baltimore Mr. New Jersey Phone: 410-558-3700 (English) 410-299-2898(Español) Eagle Leather 2017 E-mail: [email protected] www.lawlutz.com bartender Rich Farias,

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IMPORTANT PATIENT INFORMATION This is only a summary. See complete Prescribing Information at Mytesi.com or by calling 1-844-722-8256. This does not take the place of talking with your doctor about your medical condition or treatment. What Is Mytesi? Mytesi is a prescription medicine used to improve symptoms of noninfectious diarrhea (diarrhea not caused by a bacterial, viral, or parasitic infection) in adults living with HIV/AIDS on ART. Do Not Take Mytesi if you have diarrhea caused by an infection. Before you start Mytesi, your doctor and you should make sure your diarrhea is not caused by an infection (such as bacteria, virus, or parasite). Possible Side Effects of Mytesi Include: • Upper respiratory tract infection (sinus, nose, and throat infection) • Bronchitis (swelling in the tubes that carry air to and from your lungs) • Cough • Flatulence (gas) • Increased bilirubin (a waste product when red blood cells break down) For a full list of side effects, please talk to your doctor. Tell your doctor if you have any side effect that bothers you or does not go away. You are encouraged to report negative side effects of prescription drugs to the FDA. Visit www.fda.gov/medwatch or Tired of planning your life around diarrhea? call 1-800-FDA-1088. Should I Take Mytesi If I Am: Pregnant or Planning to Become Pregnant? • Studies in animals show that Mytesi could harm an unborn baby or affect the ability to become pregnant Enough is Enough • There are no studies in pregnant women taking Mytesi • This drug should only be used during pregnancy if clearly needed Get relief. Pure and simple. Ask your doctor about Mytesi. A Nursing Mother? • It is not known whether Mytesi is passed through human breast milk Mytesi (crofelemer): • If you are nursing, you should tell your doctor before starting Mytesi • Is the only medicine FDA-approved to relieve diarrhea in people with HIV • Your doctor will help you to decide whether to stop nursing or to stop • Treats diarrhea differently by normalizing the flow of water in the GI tract taking Mytesi Under 18 or Over 65 Years of Age? • Has the same or fewer side effects as placebo in clinical studies • Mytesi has not been studied in children under 18 years of age • Comes from a tree sustainably harvested in the Amazon Rainforest • Mytesi studies did not include many people over the age of 65. So it is not clear if this age group will respond differently. Talk to your doctor to What is Mytesi? find out if Mytesi is right for you Mytesi is a prescription medicine that helps relieve symptoms of diarrhea not caused by What Should I Know About Taking Mytesi an infection (noninfectious) in adults living with HIV/AIDS on antiretroviral therapy (ART). With Other Medicines? If you are taking any prescription or over-the-counter medicine, herbal Important Safety Information supplements, or vitamins, tell your doctor before starting Mytesi. Mytesi is not approved to treat infectious diarrhea (diarrhea caused by bacteria, a virus, What If I Have More Questions About Mytesi? or a parasite). Before starting you on Mytesi, your healthcare provider will first be sure that you For more information, please see the full Prescribing Information at do not have infectious diarrhea. Otherwise, there is a risk you would not receive the right medicine Mytesi.com or speak to your doctor or pharmacist. and your infection could get worse. In clinical studies, the most common side effects that occurred To report side effects or make a product complaint or for additional information, call 1-844-722-8256. more often than with placebo were upper respiratory tract (sinus, nose, and throat) infection (5.7%), bronchitis (3.9%), cough (3.5%), flatulence (3.1%), and increased bilirubin (3.1%). Rx Only For Copay Savings Card and Manufactured by Patheon, Inc. Patient Assistance, see Mytesi.com for Napo Pharmaceuticals, Inc. , CA 94105 Copyright © Napo Pharmaceuticals, Inc. Mytesi comes from the Croton lechleri tree harvested Please see complete Prescribing Information at Mytesi.com. in South America.

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