Wickham Parish Magazine July & August 2021 Wickham Parish Magazine July & August 2021
The Parish Church of St Nicholas Wickham PO17 6HR (The United Benefice of St Nicholas, Wickham and St John the Baptist, Shedfield) www.stnicholaswickham.org.uk The Rector Assistant Curate The Revd Jane Isaac The Rectory, The Revd Dr Ruth Howlett-Shipley Southwick Road, Wickham, PO17 6HR 01329 280 905 01329 835 295
Associate Priest The Revd Juliet Montague The Vicarage, 52, Brooklyn Close, Waltham Chase, SO32 2RZ 01489 895 012
Members of the ministry team can be contacted by email via the parish Office [email protected]
Churchwardens; Caretaker Magazine Editorial Team Mr Fred Crosskey Mr Ron Burt Mr John Landaw (Editor) [email protected] 5, Mill Lane, Wickham Mr Den Boylan, Mrs Sabrina 01329 609 161 01329 833 751 Gwynn, Mrs Sheila Campbell, John Mr Gerry Banks Farrow(photogapher), [email protected] Distribution; Mr Robert Goulson 01329 833 037 Church Flowers [email protected] Mrs Jane Buckle 01329 833 299 Parish Administrator/PCC 01329 832 517 Roman Way, Tanfield Lane, Secretary Wickham, PO17 5NN Mrs Jane Goulson Advertising; Mrs Sue Pittam [email protected] Mothers' Union (Branch Leader) [email protected] 01329 833 299 Sabrina Gwynn Roman Way, Tanfield Lane, Tel: 01329 233637 Wickham, PO17 5NN Email: [email protected] Methodist Church Minister; The Revd Joseph Tembo Honorary PCC Treasurer 01329 833 518 Mrs Di Frost Friends of St Nicholas Church Mr John Landaw [email protected] Roman Catholic Church [email protected] 01329 832 633 Fr Bruce Barnes 01329 830 088 The Laurels, Mayles Lane 02380 273 882 Wickham, PO17 5ND Church Room Bookings Park Place Centre Verger/Sacristan Mrs Jane Goulson Franciscan Sisters Mrs Rosemary Simpson [email protected] Winchester Road, Wickham 01329 512 629 01329 833 299 01329 833 043 Roman Way, Tanfield Lane, Chaplain; Fr Andrew McMahon Choir Trainer Wickham, PO17 5NN Sunday Mass 9:00am Mrs Valerie Shuttleworth 01329 833 805 01329 835 233 Parish Magazine; Copy Mr John Landaw Wessex Jamaat Bell Ringers [email protected] Mr Abbas Rahim (Hon. Secretary) Greg Painter 01329 830 088 [email protected] [email protected] 1, Church View, School Rd 07753 813075
2 Wickham Parish Magazine July & August 2021 Editorial Newcomers to Wickham may for full details. has a dedicated, self appointed not be aware that the village On a more serious note, please team of litter and detritus hosts an annual Village Fete. It read the alarming submission pickers, to whom we are truly is usually held (weather from The Village Agent re grateful. permitting) in the grounds of ‘Beware of Scams and Cold ‘Beverley’, a private house, Callers’, p18. Please, be alert. For a small rural community, beside St Nicholas Church Wickham is blessed with an every June but due to this Wickham Community Land amazing collection of year’s Covid restrictions has Trust is to purchase ten new restaurants, pubs, cafes, been deferred until September. properties on the Wykeham eateries and takeaways. These It s a splendid affair and boasts Vale development. The houses businesses have seen the worst many of the traditional features will be advertised for rent by of the lockdown and some have of fetes and includes music, people with strong Wickham struggled to survive. They are dancing, food and a great deal connections. P54 for details. now reopened for business, so of fun. Something for everyone, let us give them our support do come. The easing of lockdown and the and custom to help bring them (eventual) arrival of summer back to life...... it is your civic It is reassuring to know that as brought in flocks of trippers and duty to gather your family and lockdown eases, so the village tourists to the village and friends and go into the village comes back to life and The surroundings areas. For the and enjoy yourselves! Wickham Community Centre is most part, they were a welcome DB. again a focal point of activities, sight and have set the tills providing sporting and social ringing. Sadly, not all treated facilities that some of us had our village with the respect it forgotten about...... pages 16-17 deserves. Thankfully, Wickham
Woodpecker by Dave Wilkinson
More Wildlife in Wickham
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Parish Letter - Revd Ruth When I agreed to write this normal. article I had hoped that I would be commenting that we were But for others the ‘new normal’ free from the restrictions around is going to be very different the coronavirus - but we aren’t from that which went before. quite there yet! Having said that For those who have lost loved there is now light at the end of ones during the pandemic the tunnel. The rollout of the (whether to covid or to other vaccination has been causes), for those who are phenomenal and it is wonderful suffering from long- covid and to know that all adults are now those who have had vital being offered the vaccine. treatment delayed due to last year we have come to pressures on the NHS it is not After so long when we could appreciate just how special possible just to go back to the only mix with our own small weddings can be – even old normal. household or support bubble it with the mandatory face is fantastic that we are now able Just as some people are coverings. But we can’t forget excited to see society coming to carefully meet other people. just how many couples have Although we are still advised to back to normal there will be had to rearrange their plans on others who are still very scared. meet outside where possible, numerous occasions and how on those days when the There will be many people who disrupted their planning has can’t wait for large gatherings to weather seems to have been – one couple have had to forgotten that it is supposed to resume but there will also be change the date of their those who can’t yet face that, be summer, it is great we can wedding four times! now meet up to six other people who are still scared to go inside. What a joy it has been to As we slowly and gradually outside their own home. As a be able to speak to people in move to the ‘new normal’ I society we are going to need to real life and not just as a box on wonder what that will look like? encompass both sides – and all a screen. Humans are made to I would like to think that it was those who sit somewhere in the be relational and for many one in which the spirit of the middle. We are going to need to people the isolation of the last first lockdown continued; where learn to be considerate of months has been very hard. volunteers came forward in others in a new and different droves to help those in our way as we all try to navigate the During the first lockdown you society who were isolated and ‘new normal’. will remember that all churches vulnerable, for the people who were required to close their But this isn’t the first time that greeted us from the other side the world had been asked to doors but since the end of the of the road when we went on first lockdown a year ago the embrace a new normal. Much our daily walk and genuinely of the teaching of Jesus was ministry team and the seemed to mean it when they churchwardens have worked based on turning the old normal said ‘how are you?’, for those upside down. He told us that hard to keep our churches open who stood on their driveways as much as possible whilst the first shall be last and the and clapped for the carers, for last shall be first. He told us that maintaining a covid-secure the gratitude paid to the environment. The church is the meek and the poor are essential workers, the bin men, blessed. He taught us about a open for private prayer the shop workers etc. who kept everyday and over the last new normal. So as we start to society running….. But have we navigate our new, post-covid months we have enjoyed already forgotten all this? welcoming people back to normal I hope that we can Sunday services and it is Some people will be looking remember those positive ideas wonderful to see more people forward to getting back to doing from the first lockdown and feeling brave enough to join us. all the things that they did work toward a ‘new normal’ that before we discovered the words reflects all that Jesus teaches This month we have held our ‘covid-19’, ‘lockdown’ and us. first weddings since the latest ‘social distancing’. They are lockdown which have been excited about the ‘new normal’ joyous occasions and over the which will be just like the old
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Green vestments gifted to St Nicholas Church by the family of the late Brian Warwick
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Revd Jane Isaac’s update on church life during the pandemic*
Isn’t it good to have printed trace requirements continue to parish magazines again! And be in place. I’m very grateful to even better, having the my ministry team colleagues magazines online as well and the volunteers who remain means that they’re reaching a as committed as ever to whole new readership online via keeping the churches open, the church websites. Thank Covid-secure and as welcoming you on behalf of all our readers as we can make them given the in both parishes to the editors, ongoing restrictions. magazine committees, contributors, distributors and Online services: For those of advertisers – longstanding and on the church websites, village you who aren’t yet quite new – for making the Facebook pages and on the comfortable about being out magazines happen month by noticeboards outside both and about again, for the time month. churches and in Wickham being, the popular suite of Church opening: I’m delighted Square. More details of Being Church at Home services to be able to let you know that Sunday services will be will continue every week, St John the Baptist, Shedfield available in the September accessible online or in an easy- and St Nicholas, Wickham are edition of the parish magazines, to-print-out format. A printed able to remain open for private along with the return of the copy of the weekly Sunday prayer during the week and for church diary listings which I service can be delivered to you services on Sunday: know so many of you enjoy and if you aren’t able to access it appreciate. If you would like to online: just get in touch with the Private prayer: Every day receive the weekly eBulletin ministry team (details on the between 10.00 am–4.00 pm. mailing, please do get in touch inside front cover of this Come in – the door is open with the parish administrators magazine). wide! – and spend some quiet (their contact details are on the time in this cool, comforting, inside front cover of your When will Lunch Club and special space, light a candle magazine). other groups be getting and enjoy the stillness. One underway again? Some of our visitor told me that she could The ministry team and regular groups have put feel the prayer in the air. churchwardens are continuing together a schedule of outdoor to review the speed at which we and/or Zoom meetings, others Sunday worship: I’m writing this come out of lockdown have made the decision to wait only a couple of days after the restrictions and widen the until September before meeting Prime Minister announced that variety of services available in up again: please be reassured the anticipated ending of the light of national Church of that your group leaders will be lockdown on June 21st wouldn’t England, diocesan and in touch with all the information now be happening, so it would Government guidance. you need as soon as they be unwise to commit to any Detailed information about this possibly can. published schedule of services guidance can be found on the Revd Juliet and Revd Ruth join just now! Whilst we wait for as Church of England website me in sending you our love and clear a possible steer on social (churchofengland.org/ all good wishes, distancing and other coronavirus) and the Diocese of restrictions, my intention is to Portsmouth’s coronavirus Jane ease us gently into a regular pages(portsmouth.anglican.org/ *Written on 16 June 2021 – Sunday worship pattern, whilst coronavirus). continuing the joint benefice please be aware that government and Church of worship service every week at Please be aware that despite England regulations and 10.00 am, alternating between the easing of lockdown, face guidelines may have been St John the Baptist Church, coverings must still be worn in changed or amended by the Shedfield and St Nicholas, church at all times and that time you read this. Wickham. Details are available social distancing and track and
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reaching, with many smaller towns being affected. Public spaces where exploitation may be most visible to the public are County Lines parks, supermarkets, transport, controlled by another banks and online environments individual? Have you heard the expression like gaming platforms and social • Accompanied by “county lines”? It is a form of media. individuals who are older than modern slavery. Do you know who Mothers Union members are them? the victims are, how they are caught • Seen begging in a public up and why they can’t escape? working with the Clewer Initiative to raise awareness. space? County lines is fast becoming Hampshire Constabulary If something doesn't feel right, one of the most prevalent forms coordinated a week of action don't wait, report it of modern slavery in the UK. recently to tackle county lines Call the police on 101 or 999 in Drugs gangs make huge profits drug dealing and the associated an emergency from exploiting the most exploitation of vulnerable You can also report to the vulnerable - usually, children people. Officers identified and police online. Only report your and young people - who are safeguarded 17 children as concerns when it is safe for you targeted, groomed, manipulated vulnerable to county lines to do so, even if this is after the and coerced into drug trafficking exploitation. event that your concerns initially and distribution. arose. Do not attempt to Sadly, the very nature of county intervene yourself. Children are not the Text the British Transport Police lines - using children and young problem on 61016 people to move drugs out of If you are on a train, you can cities and into smaller towns This may sound obvious but text the British Transport Police. and communities - means that it only recently has there been Information on routes of travel, is happening all around the some recognition of the fact that addresses, appearance, and country in communities of all a child caught up in county lines behaviour of a child can all help types. is a victim of exploitation. Often to protect young people. they are treated as criminals, Children as young as seven Call Crimestoppers on 0800 not victims. Fortunately, are targeted 555 111 attitudes are changing. If you have information on child Young people aged 14-17 are However, gender, age, ethnicity exploitation and abuse or most likely to be targeted by and background can still affect suspect it may be happening criminal groups but there are how professionals respond to but want to remain completely reports of seven-year-olds children. anonymous, you can contact being groomed into county the independent charity lines. Primary school children County lines is visible Crimestoppers online or on the are seen as easy targets County lines operations are phone. because they're less likely to often hard to spot, but the signs get caught. The grooming might are visible. We could all be in a Call the NSPCC on 0808 800 start with them being asked to position to stop it. 5000 'keep watch' but it soon Is a child or young person: The NSPCC helpline is staffed escalates to them being forced • Travelling alone, by trained professionals who to stash weapons, money, or particularly in school hours, late can provide expert advice and become drug couriers. at night or frequently? support if you’re concerned • Looking lost or in County lines is everywhere about a child. unfamiliar surroundings? Young people can and should Just because county lines may • Anxious, frightened, live a life free of exploitation. not get the coverage of other angry or displaying other Together we can help protect societal issues, it doesn’t mean behaviours that make you children from criminals and it’s a small problem. In fact, worried about them? abusers so that they are free to most police forces across the • In possession of more live a childhood of optimism and country have reported county than one phone? lines activity in their area and • Carrying lots of cash? hope. they say the violence is getting • Potentially under the worse. It’s not just a ‘big city’ influence of drugs or alcohol? problem’. County lines is far • Being instructed or Sabrina Gwynn
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the world around you. It is When you slow down you talk amazing what you see when with people and leave space to Pete Bangs you slow down and look and listen to what they are saying. Methodist Pioneer listen. When we slowed down and talked with our son and Missioner Last week we were away on listened, we learned he was holiday and we had a full week having problems at school. planned. It was, essentially, When we slowed down and ‘I know why I believe’? going to be one of those paid attention my wife and I holidays you need a holiday to realised we had different So My wife took a sideways recover from. However, within expectations of a holiday and step (or maybe it was a the first two days both my wife found a compromise. Slowing promotion, 18 months in and and I had accidents that slowed down can bring incredible I’m still not sure) in her work for us down and made us change benefits. Friends of ours retired the NHS. She is now our plans to something more a year ago and have been living responsible for supporting the leisurely. Although I love being on a narrow boat. Someone mental and emotional well- in the countryside I’m not wildly said to the husband “That must being of some 6,500 staff who knowledgeable about it but be hard if you fallout” to which are largely struggling after 15 hobbling on a sore ankle gave he replied “We haven’t fallen months of dealing with Covid. me the time to look more out, we’ve fallen in.” Apart from She works with counsellors and closely at things. So instead of being an incredibly cute thing to the hospital chaplaincy and wildflowers I saw Scarlet say it also, to me, showed the deals in things like mindfulness, Pimpernel, Kingcup, value of slowing down. Strong Mental Health helplines and Columbine, Common Spotted bonds are made stronger. meditation. Orchid and Smooth Hawksbeard. Instead of bugs I Perhaps this is why walking and Inevitably some of this stuff gets saw Longhorn Inquisitor pilgrimages are seeing such a talked about and I know far Beetles, Ashy Mining Bees, resurgence, perhaps we are all more now about Mental Health Hawthorne Shield Bugs and sick of going faster and faster First Aid, Ignatian meditation, white tailed and buff tailed and finding less and less joy. journaling and mindfulness and bumblebees. Slowing down Maybe it’s time to aim for that I’ve been particularly impressed gives us a chance to appreciate closeness Jesus found with the last of those, the rich diversity of the world spending three years walking, mindfulness. Mindfulness, in its around us but there’s more than talking and eating with a small simplest form, is about slowing that. It gives us a chance to group of friends. That sounds down and being more aware of really connect with people too. heavenly indeed.
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other Chilled Art artists over the last few Chilled Art weeks has been brilliant. We always have so much to discuss and share, plus it makes us all so keen to produce new work and learn from each other.
Once again we have a varied selection of works, from Val's very pretty depiction of Santorini, Liz's Resting Wolf, Chris's Grandchildren and Dog on the Meon Valley Trail (she was delighted to What a delight to be back at our see them wonderful venue, the Wickham Centre chatting together is just perfect! Catching up with the like friends...), then there is Sara's dramatic Parrot in Flight, Lyn's Signpost in the Countryside,
Malcolm's colourful Steam Engine and my Baby Elephant.
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WINE!
bottles please for the ‘Water into Wine’ stall at the church fete in the grounds of Beverley, on Saturday 4th September.
The stall would like any contributions of full bottles of wine, but also any empty, clear, screw top bottles as well, please.
Any contributions can be left on the cupboard in the north transept of the church, Or contact me 07709 273014, [email protected]
Thank you, Christine Cannadine
Cheers
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