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New Era THE MONTHLY YOUTH MAGAZINE OF THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS April 2013 Volume 43, Number 4

8 Temple Blessings 20 True Conversion

2 THE MESSAGE My First Temple Recommend Elder L. Tom Perry If we are always worthy of that rec- ommend and can truthfully answer the qualifying questions, we are on our way to the greatest gift the Lord has given us.

Lessons from Olives An Invitation to Church 5 Youth Voices: 24 28 Attending the Temple Youth share favorite memories of attending the temple.

€ 8 The Temple: I’m Going FEATURES There Someday Prophets teach us why we love to see the temple and long to go inside. 16 Growth in Fertile Soil: 30 Brothers and Sisters— Faithful Youth in Uganda Friends Forever Temple Facts, Stats, and See why faith and hope are grow- What’s so special about siblings? 10 ing in this African nation. Find out from a family in Indiana. Interesting Stories Info on temples around the world. 20 10 Ways to Know You 34 Why We Need the Book of Are Converted Mormon 49 Always Have the Temple in Here is what one young man found Four reasons the Book of Mormon Your Sights when he asked the question, “How is essential. President Thomas S. Monson do I know if I’m converted?” 36 Witnesses of the Book of 24 The Olive Mormon Get information and inspiration re- Join these 12 men and bear witness. lated to this very versatile fruit and how it’s used in the scriptures. 38 How Would You React? Real-life examples of how to “stop it.” 28 My Invitation to Salvation Invitations kept coming—to church, to activities. All it took was one yes. 42 Apostasy and Restoration Patterns of apostasy and restoration; discerning between truth and error. THE MESSAGE

TEMPLE RECOMMEND In addition to giving me the formal interview, Dad, who was my bishop, wanted to make it a learning experience for me.

will never forget my first temple recom- He passed the scriptures over to my side mend interview with my bishop as I was of the desk and asked me to read: “Thou Ipreparing to go to the temple for my own shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. Thou shalt endowments. The bishop was my father. not steal; neither commit adultery, nor kill, Every day we spent a lot of time together, nor do anything like unto it” (D&C 59:6). The and he could have interviewed me in our last sentence stuck in my mind. home, in the barn, in the field, in our car, or We then discussed what it meant to be By Elder in any convenient place. But Dad wanted morally clean. The discussion focused L. Tom Perry to make this a special occasion, one that I on cleanliness of thought. Our thoughts, Of the Quorum would remember. he said, usually develop into actions. If our of the Twelve Apostles One day I received a telephone call from thoughts remain clean and pure, we will the bishop’s office. Dad wanted to set up never commit acts that would prevent us an appointment with me for a temple rec- from holding a temple recommend. ommend interview. I thought this strange, Next, he picked up the scriptures and as he had never called before to set up an read the promise of the Lord related to the interview or an appointment with me. We Word of Wisdom (see D&C 89:18– arranged a time for a meeting in the bishop’s 21). We discussed the value of keeping our office. The appointed time came. When I physical bodies as healthy, wholesome homes arrived in his office, his desk was completely for our eternal spirits. The spirit of man should cleared, which was unusual, because nor- be housed in the cleanest tabernacle we can mally it would have been almost covered by build while we are here on earth. papers and books. Only the scriptures lay on Then my father handed the scriptures top of the desk. In addition to giving me the back to me to read: “Behold, there shall be a formal interview, Dad wanted to make it a record kept among you; and in it thou shalt learning experience for me. be called a seer, a translator, a prophet, an

2 New Era apostle of Jesus Christ, an elder of the church it is by obedience to that law upon which it through the will of God the Father, and the is predicated” (D&C 130:20–21). grace of your Lord Jesus Christ, We talked about the importance of being “Being inspired of the Holy Ghost to lay obedient to the law of the Lord and the the foundation thereof, and to build it up payment of tithes and offerings unto the most holy faith. . . . to Him as a test of our faith. “Wherefore, meaning the church, thou Finally, we turned to the scriptures shalt give heed unto all his words and com- and read: “The veil was taken from our mandments which he shall give unto you as minds, and the eyes of our understand- he receiveth them, walking in all holiness ing were opened. before me” (D&C 21:1–2, 4). We discussed the necessity of honoring and sustaining the prophet. We have been promised that the Lord will never let His prophet lead us astray. Here is a sure foundation on which we can build our lives. Next my dad read: “There is a law, irrevocably decreed in heaven before the foundations of this world, upon which all blessings are predicated— “And when we obtain

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April 2013 3 We talked about the eternal hope we have in the Atonement of our Lord and Savior, and how necessary it is that we partake of these sacred ordinances so we can receive the greatest gift He has given us, the gift of eternal life, life with Him. Dad filled out the temple recommend form and had me sign it, gave me a warm handshake, and congratulated me for being worthy to hold a current temple recommend. I left the office feeling exhilarated because I had passed one of the most important tests of my life. I had been deemed worthy to hold a temple recommend. I made a commitment to myself that I would always live worthy of holding a current temple recommend. “We saw the Lord standing upon the A temple recommend—a little piece of breastwork of the pulpit, before us; and paper—represents us and reflects our worthi- under his feet was a paved work of pure ness to receive the blessings of the temple. gold, in color like amber. May we always be worthy of holding a “His eyes were as a flame of fire; the hair temple recommend. May that be one of our of his head was white like the pure snow; objectives in life, to consistently and regularly his countenance shone above the brightness sit before our priesthood leader and declare our worthiness to have this tangible evidence that the Lord approves of the type of life A temple recommend—a little we are living and finds us worthy to enter His holy house. piece of paper—represents us and Learn the doctrines of the Lord. Live with reflects our worthiness to recieve faithful adherence to those principles that we know are right. It is a test for our lives to the blessings of the temple. carry us through. If we are always worthy of that recommend and can truthfully answer the qualifying questions, we are on our way of the sun; and his voice was as the sound to the greatest gift the Lord has given us. of the rushing of great waters, even the May the Lord bless us that we may firmly voice of Jehovah, saying: resolve to always be temple worthy. This is “I am the first and the last; I am he who the Lord’s work. He lives. God is our Eternal liveth, I am he who was slain; I am your Father, and Jesus is the Savior of the world. advocate with the Father” (D&C 110:1–4). Of that I bear solemn testimony. NE

4 New Era Youth share their testimonies of the temple and the lessons they have learned by going to the House of the Lord (see D&C 110:7).

Youth Voices Attending the Temple

n the April 2011 general conference, President Thomas S. Monson coun- seled, “My young friends who are in your teenage years, always have Ithe temple in your sights” (“The Holy Temple—a Beacon to the World,” Ensign, May 2011, 93). The New Era asked several youth to share the blessings they have received by going to the temple. Here are a few of their responses.

You Know You Are Doing a Great Thing Last year while visiting family in Wisconsin, my cousin and I went on a youth temple trip to the Nauvoo Illinois Temple and performed baptisms for the dead. We had a bunch of family names that we took to the temple. My grandma told us about one of our deceased ancestors. Grandma had a close relationship with her. I got to be baptized for this family member and other ancestors, and it was a really cool experience, because I could feel their presence and know they will have a chance to accept the work done for them. When I go to the temple, I know I’m doing a great thing. Seeing pictures of the temple makes me think that even though temples are all over the world, you do the same ordinances in each one and receive the same Spirit. I don’t think of any bad things there; only uplifting thoughts fill my mind in the temple. It is an amazing feeling to think of things you can do to help others.

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April 2013 5 All My Troubles Disappear My favorite temple experience was when I was first able to go to the temple. I went to the San Diego California Temple. Just being able to walk in, I felt that all of the troubles I was having at school Our Classmates Ask and elsewhere were about Our Temple Trips The temple closest to me is the Mesa Arizona Temple. Every month, my school has early- release days. Last year, my friends and I started a new tradition on early-release days where we would wear our Sunday clothes to school, go out for lunch, and then attend the temple to do baptisms for the dead. It’s definitely helped me gain a deeper understanding of the temple, of what it means, and of how important it is. Regularly visit- ing the temple has helped me feel the Spirit more often. It’s definitely brought my friends closer to one another. Also, a lot of our classmates ask about our temple trips because they notice that at least 10 of us always dress up for early-release days. This attention encourages other youth to go to the temple too. Another blessing has been attending the temple with a friend whose family is very against the Church. She was able to get her first limited-use recommend, and it has been neat to see the positive effect this has had on her life.

PHOTOGRAPHS BY MATTHEW JASON WARNER, WELDEN C. ANDERSEN, RICK FISHER, AND MATTHEW REIER AND COURTESY OF THE YOUTH WELDEN C. ANDERSEN, RICK FISHER, AND MATTHEW JASON WARNER, PHOTOGRAPHS BY MATTHEW Annalise K., Arizona, USA just gone. I felt at peace being in the temple. I was overcome with feelings of happiness. Being in the temple helped me focus on what I needed to do at church and in other duties. It was just so incredible to be able to go and get away from all the troubles I had. Kole E., California, USA I Can Help People SETTING TEMPLE GOALS Who Didn’t Have the Chance Every time I go to the Memphis lder Richard G. Scott of the Tennessee Temple, I like to get into EQuorum of the Twelve Apostles a spiritual mood. I like to imagine has said, “I encourage you to the people whom the ordinances are establish your own goal of how performed for. Sometimes there will frequently you will avail yourself be people who have been waiting of the ordinances offered in our for hundreds of years. Sometimes operating temples. What is there that I think I take my own baptism for is more important than attending granted; some people never had that and participating in the ordinances chance to learn about the gospel of the temple? What activity could and be baptized while they were on have a greater impact and provide earth. I think it’s great to be a part of more joy and profound happiness that work for them. I can help peo- than worshipping in the temple?” ple who didn’t have a chance to be (“How Can We Make the Most baptized on earth, and it is awesome of Temple Attendance?” New Era, that I’m able to help them. March 2012, 2). James N., Mississippi, USA You can set temple attendance goals for yourself. For example: • How often will you go? • How will you prepare yourself beforehand to get the most out of your temple experience? • Are there others you could invite? Setting and following goals will help make the temple a place of last- ing peace and happiness in your life.

April 2013 7 8 New Era s Latter-day Saint youth, you can receive from local priest- who have no means of advancing unless hood leaders a limited-use recommend to enter the house something is done in their behalf by of the Lord, “the most holy of any place of worship on the those on earth.” earth” (Bible Dictionary, “Temple”). Great blessings await you President Gordon B. Hinckley (1910–2008), “Closing Remarks,” Ensign, Nov. 2004, 105. there. Ponder the counsel of prophets and apostles on how to get there and on the joy of going. For answers to questions BLESSINGS FROM TEMPLE SERVICE on preparing to go to the temple, visit lds.org/go/43A. “The temple is a place where we can find peace. There GETTING TO THE TEMPLE we receive a renewed dedication to the gospel and a strengthened resolve to keep the commandments.” “My brothers and sisters, we have built temples through- President Thomas S. Monson, “Until We Meet Again,” Ensign, May 2009, 113. out the world and will continue to do so. To you who are “Temples are places of personal revelation. When I worthy and able to attend the temple, I would admonish have been weighed down by a problem or a difficulty, I you to go often.” have gone to the House of the Lord with a prayer in my President Thomas S. Monson, “Until We Meet Again,” Ensign, May 2009, 113. heart for answers. These answers have come in clear and “I have a suggestion: When a temple is conveniently unmistakable ways.” nearby, small things may interrupt your plans to go to the President Ezra Taft Benson (1899–1994), “What I Hope You Will Teach Your temple. Set specific goals, considering your circumstances, Children about the Temple,” Ensign, Aug. 1985, 8. of when you can and will participate in temple ordinances. “Through the earth’s long history, temple worship has Then do not allow anything to interfere with that plan.” been a significant part of the Saints’ worship, by which Elder Richard G. Scott, “Temple Worship: The Source of Strength and Power they show their desire to come closer to their Creator. The in Times of Need,” Ensign, May 2009, 43. temple was a place of learning for the Savior when He was “In all that you do, stay focused on the temple. In the on the earth; it was very much a part of His life. Temple temple you will receive the greatest of all the Lord’s bless- blessings are available once again in our day.” ings, including marriage for time and all eternity. Keeping President James E. Faust, Second Counselor in the First Presidency (1920– the standards in [For the Strength of Youth] will help you 2007), “The Restoration of All Things,” Ensign, May 2006, 67. be worthy to attend the temple, where you can perform “When you come to the temple you will love your fam- sacred ordinances for your ancestors now and make essen- ily with a deeper love than you have ever felt before. The tial covenants for yourself in the future.” temple is about families.” “Message to Youth from the First Presidency,” For the Strength of Youth Elder Richard H. Winkel of the Seventy (served from 1999 to 2006), “The (2011), ii. Temple Is about Families,” Ensign, Nov. 2006, 9.

A WAY TO SERVE “It is pleasing to the Lord for our youth to worthily go to the temple and perform vicarious baptism for those who did not have the opportunity to be baptized in life.” President Howard W. Hunter (1907–95), “The Great Symbol of Our Membership,” Ensign, Oct. 1994, 5. “Regular temple attendance is one of the simplest ways you can bless those who are waiting in the spirit world.” Elder David B. Haight of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles (1906–2004), “Personal Temple Worship,” Ensign, May 1993, 25. “Just as our Redeemer gave His life as a vicarious sacri- fice for all men, and in so doing became our Savior, even so we, in a small measure, when we engage in proxy work in the temple, become as saviors to those on the other side PHOTO ILLUSTRATIONS BY DAVID STOKER AND JON MOE BY DAVID PHOTO ILLUSTRATIONS

April 2013 9 INTERESTING STORIES FACTS, STATS,AND the firsttemple tohave anangel figure isplacedfacingeastward. Whenever possible theangelMoroni Second Coming(seeMatthew 24:27). Savior willcomefromtheeastat Matthew 24:31). the spreadingofgospel(see to hismouth, Moronisymbolizes Restoration. Byholdingthetrumpet of therolethatheplayed inthe thanworship rather respect because the endof1983). made ittheirgoaltovisitevery temple(26templeshadbeendedicatedby is very different from30years ago, whensomemembersoftheChurch could findifit were possibleto goonatouroftoday’s temples. 10 THE ANGELMORONI By SarahPetersen INTERESTING STORIES FACTS, STATS,AND

The originalNauvoo Temple was The scripturesstatethatthe The statueofMoroniisafigure New Era lifetime thenumberoftempleshasmorethandoubled. This renovation), 14underconstruction, and14announced. Inyour t theendof2012, therewere (1under 140templesinoperation 1 Hereareseveral interestingfacts, stats, andstoriesyou 2 did. ItseemedtomethatIcame Ievernearer toGodthananything ence withtheproject “brought me today. Dallinwrotethathisexperi - after Moroni statuesarepatterned a new design, onethatmostangel Dallinwastor Cyrus asked tocreate Lake Temple in1893, non-LDSsculp- book inhishand. pressedtohislipsanda with ahorn The angelappearedhorizontally it was designed asaweathervane. different fromtoday’s version because placed onthetop. This angelwas After the completion of the Salt thecompletion oftheSalt After

Oakland California. Arizona, HamiltonNew Zealand, and Laie Hawaii, CardstonAlberta, Mesa Moroni: St. George Utah, MantiUtah, havecurrently afigureoftheangel Apostle John(seeRevelation 14:6). everlasting gospelspoken ofby the a scroll. The scrollrepresentsthe temples whereMoroniisholding statue hasbeencreatedfor thesmaller does nothave atrumpet. also designedwithgoldplatesbut Monumentwas at theHillCumorah Mexico. The statueofMoroniplaced Jordan River Utah, andMexico City Washington D.C., SeattleWashington, ture thisstyle:LosAngelesCalifornia, the goldplates;onlyfive temples fea- designed tobeholding from heaven.” commune withangels know whatitmeansto In addition, seven temples donot A new designoftheangelMoroni Later, thestatuewas 3 4

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Halifax Nova Scotia Memphis Tennessee Nashville Tennessee Montreal Quebec

There have been four times when two temple dedications were performed on the same day. Regina Saskatchewan Reno Nevada Villahermosa Mexico San José Costa Rica

April 2013 11 TEMPLE STORIES Bern Switzerland Temple The Bern Switzerland Temple was the first temple built where English is not the main language. It was announced on July 1, 1952, and dedicated on September 11, 1955, but prophecies of this international temple were made several years before. In August 1906, President Joseph F. Smith visited Zurich, Switzerland, and predicted that “the time would come when temples to the Most High would be built in various countries of the world.” 5 At that time all four temples in operation were in Utah. Another prophecy was made by President Heber J. Grant in 1923: “I have no doubt in my mind that temples of the Lord will be erected in Europe, none whatever.” 6

Hong Kong China Temple In 1991 the First Presidency asked the Asia Area Presidency to begin searching for a temple site in Hong Kong. If the Church were to build a temple in Hong Kong, it would have to be built before July 1, 1997, which was Bern Switzerland Temple when the People’s Republic of China would resume gov- ernment control. President Gordon B. Hinckley (1910–2008) arrived in Hong Kong on July 25, 1992, to approve a site for the temple. After visiting six different locations, President Hinckley discussed his feelings with the local stake presi- dents and decided that none of the locations would work. At 6:45 a.m. President Hinckley called the Area Presidency and asked to meet in his hotel room at 8:00 a.m. After they arrived, President Hinckley “then shared, on a sheet of white paper, a detailed drawing. During the night, he had envisioned a building of about eight floors above ground, with the temple on the top floors and other functions housed on the lower floors. . . . This concept of multiple use, President Hinckley explained, would depart from tradition in that all other temples in the Church at that time were stand-alone buildings.” 7 President Hinckley returned to Salt Lake City and pre- sented the new design to the Temple Department. The architects saw an opportunity to expand the building and created a plan that would be nearly twice the size orig- inally designed by President Hinckley. The plans were completed and sent to Hong Kong for approval, but after Hong Kong China Temple negotiations with the officials, the building plans were

12 New Era Temples that have been dedicated Temples announced or under construction

denied. Remembering the experience they had earlier with President Hinckley’s first design, the Area Presidency immediately recommended that the Church return to his drawing. This plan quickly received approval, and the Church began construction on the temple. The Hong Kong China Temple was dedicated on May 26, 1996, by President Hinckley. NE Sarah Petersen lives in Utah, USA. “As part of the planned destiny of the

NOTES earth and its inhabitants, here our kindred 1. See temples​.lds​.org. May 23, 1998, 4 (http://​www​ dead are also to be redeemed. Families 2. See Wendy Kenney, “Looking .ldschurchnews​.com/​articles/​ Up to Moroni,” New Era, Nov. 31074/​Statue-of-Angel-Moroni- are to be sealed together for all eternity. 2009, 24–28. placed-on-top-of-temple​.html). A welding link is to be forged between 3. In “Angel Moroni Statues Atop 5. Marba C. Josephson, “A Temple the fathers and the children. In our time, Mormon Temples Are More Is Risen to Our Lord,” Improve­ Than Decoration,” http://​www​ ment Era, Sept. 1955, 686. a whole, complete, and perfect union of all dispensations, .mormonnewsroom​.org/​article/​ 6. Alberta Temple dedications keys, and powers is to be welded together. For these sacred angel-moroni-statues-atop- proceedings, 242, Church mormon-temples-are-more-than- History Library, Salt Lake City. purposes, holy temples now dot the earth.” decoration.​ 7. Monte J. Brough and John K. Elder Russell M. Nelson of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, 4. See Bill Boyle, “Statue of Carmack, “How the Hong Kong “The Creation,” Ensign, May 2000, 85. Angel Moroni placed on top Temple Came to Be,” Ensign, of temple,” Church News, Dec. 2006, 60.

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The Temple The QUESTIONS & ANSWERS & QUESTIONS of God and that we uphold high stan- lead a happy, healthy life without the BREAKING dards. We will avoid regrets. As we guilt of the sacred law broken. THE LAW OF CHASTITY obey our Heavenly Father, especially Robyn K., 13, Utah, USA CAUSES regarding this law, our life will be SERIOUS HARM happier here on earth and in the world Virtue and Chastity “Within the enduring to come. The Lord delights in covenant of marriage, the Lord permits Alyana G., 19, Philippines virtue and chastity, and husband and wife the expression of the everything should hap- sacred procreative powers in all their A Sacred Gift pen in its proper time. loveliness and beauty within the bounds He has set. . . . If the gift of procreation is taken lightly, The law of chastity is a “However, those intimate acts are this precious gift from God would be commandment from the Lord. Prayer forbidden by the Lord outside the treated like an ordinary thing. Giving and the companionship of the Spirit are enduring commitment of marriage a gift doesn’t feel as rewarding if the the perfect combination to know that because they undermine His purposes. person you gave it to doesn’t think it is being chaste is a blessing. Within the sacred covenant of marriage, special. One must always treat procre- Selene R., 18, Nicaragua such relationships are according to His ation sacredly; for we are all temples of plan. When experienced any other way, they are against His will. They cause God and should stay as clean and pure Within Marriage serious emotional and spiritual harm. as a temple. I would explain to my friend that Even though participants do not realize Jaron Z., 15, Idaho, USA breaking the law of chastity is a bad that is happening now, they will later. idea because the power of procreation Sexual immorality creates a barrier The Spirit with Us is made only for legally married cou- to the influence of the Holy Spirit.” When you stay clean ples. When we break the law of chas- Elder Richard G. Scott of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “Making the Right from sin, you will be so tity, we lose the Holy Ghost in our lives. Choices,” Ensign, Nov. 1994, 38. much happier and you Augustina A., 15, Ghana will be blessed. Our Video Help for Your Friends Consider sharing the short video “I bodies are like temples, NOTES 1. “The Family: A Proclamation to the World,” Choose to Be Pure” with your friend, where and Heavenly Father “doth not dwell Ensign, Nov. 2010, 129. young people from several religions tell in unholy temples” (Alma 7:21). So 2. For the Strength of Youth (2011), 35. why they choose to stay sexually pure. Visit lds.org/go/43C. when we stay clean from sin, the Spirit Responses are intended for help and perspective, not as official pronouncements of Church doctrine. can dwell with us. Maryann P., 14, Arkansas, USA UPCOMING QUESTION Important Questions Answer your friend’s question by asking “What should I do when Send your answer and photo by some questions: “What if your future May 15, 2013. spouse were watching you now?” All the a topic is brought up Go to newera.lds​ ​.org and click people I have heard about who have at school that goes “Submit Material.” broken the law of chastity have regret- You can also write to us at against newera@ldschurch​ .org​ ted it. “What if your future child asks if gospel or you have broken the law of chastity?” New Era, Q&A, topics at school teachings, 50 E. North Temple St., Rm. 2420 Your friend needs to learn how impor- Salt Lake City, UT 84150-0024, USA tant the law of chastity is now, before a such as abortion?” Responses may be edited for length son or daughter asks that question. You or clarity. need to keep yourself clean and pure to

April 2013 15 By Cindy Smith

GROWTH IN FERTILE SOIL: FAITHFUL YOUTH IN Uganda

UGANDA As they accept and live the gospel of Jesus Christ, youth in Uganda are seeing faith and hope grow all around them.

n the heart of East Africa, the beau- Raising a Banner, Like many young women in tiful country of Uganda is blessed Being an Example Uganda, Sandra walks more than a with rolling hills of sugar cane and The young women in one ward mile to church, helps clean the meet- PHOTOGRAPHS BY CINDY SMITH I banana trees—and with young people were inspired by the teachings of inghouse on Fridays, and attends sem- ready to accept and live the gospel Sister Elaine S. Dalton, Young Women inary on Saturdays. During the week, of Jesus Christ. general president, on virtue: “Now is she rises before 5:00 a.m. to read The first stake in Uganda was the time for each of us to arise and schoolbooks, and then she walks to organized in 2010. The Church is unfurl a banner to the world calling school, returning home after 6:00 p.m. growing rapidly, with many young for a return to virtue.” 1 The young She missed a year of school because men and young women in each women hiked a hill overlooking the of financial difficulties but faces her ward and branch. town and raised gold banners sym- challenges with a positive attitude: bolizing their pledge to be examples “The gospel has really helped me to of virtue. Together they sang “High on stay steadfast and immovable.” Uganda the Mountain Top” (Hymns, no. 5). Sandra is the only Church member These young women have raised in her home, but her parents support their personal standards of righteous- ness. Their obedience has strength- ened their testimonies and influenced others. Sister Dalton has said, “Never underestimate the power of your righ- teous influence.” 2 And like a banner, the example of these young women waves to all the world.

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April 2013 17 her Church service, such as helping was blessed to receive the missionaries when the ward cleaned the grounds in Uganda. As a refugee, she found of a local orphanage. Her family peace and protection in the gospel. On sees how the gospel has helped her Sundays she would bring her younger be strong, even when facing unre- siblings to church, as well as up to 10 solved problems. Reflecting on the other children who are not Church source of that strength, Sandra says, members. After the unexpected death Top: Youth attend a stake “When I go to church, I feel like I am of a family member, she returned to fireside together. putting on the armor of God” (see South Sudan, where she waits for the Above: Susan (center), Ephesians 6:11–17). Church to be established in her area. a refugee in Uganda, found peace in the gospel and A more recent convert, Susan, loves Both Susan and Sandra face chal- brought her siblings and the Church. Originally from South lenges, but they rely on God and enjoy other children to church. Center: The young Sudan, her family fled hardships and the fruits of living the gospel of Jesus women of this ward enjoy Christ (see Alma 32:6–8, 43). working on Personal Progress. Right: Dennis gave up Sacrificing to Serve a Mission a spot on a professional Young men in Uganda start playing soccer team to preach the soccer as small boys, using tightly gospel. He and the other young men in his priests bound branches for a ball. Ever since quorum sacrificed and he was very young, Dennis had a gift overcame challenges to for the sport, and his high school gave serve missions. Dennis him a scholarship to play for their team. After he completed high school, a professional team offered him pay, room, and board. It was a dream come true, but

18 New Era Dennis knew this would likely inter- Over several years, this team of young are already having a great influence. fere with his plans to go on a mission men has strengthened the whole The young men and women of later in the year. ward, and four of them, including Uganda are sacrificing the things of Dennis’s desire to do what his Dennis, received calls to the Kenya the world for blessings that will last Heavenly Father wanted him to do Nairobi Mission. forever. They have planted the seed of was so strong that he did not even They have followed the counsel of faith and are nourishing it with care want to be tempted to remain on the Elder David A. Bednar of the Quorum (see Alma 32:33–37). Like a tree filled of the Twelve Apostles to “become with fruit (see Alma 32:42), the youth missionaries long before you submit share the joy of the gospel in this your mission papers.” 3 They did so by fertile land. NE working together as a quorum, a team Cindy Smith lived in Uganda while her husband better than any other. worked there, and they now live in Utah, USA. All four missionaries overcame NOTES 1. Elaine S. Dalton, “A Return to Virtue,” challenges in order to serve. Ensign, Nov. 2008, 80. Wilberforce explains, “I was almost 2. Elaine S. Dalton, Ensign, Nov. 2008, 80. losing hope of going on a mission 3. David A. Bednar, “Becoming a Missionary,” Ensign, Nov. 2005, 45. [because of the costs], but then I read Matthew 6:19–20: ‘Lay not up for your- team when the time would arrive for selves treasures upon earth . . . but lay him to serve a mission. Many people up for yourselves treasures in heaven.’ questioned his choice, but Dennis is So with diligence and commitment, certain he made the right decision— I was able to accomplish my goal of for himself and others. “My two little serving a full-time mission. I love mis- brothers and my little sister were just sionary service. Nothing is better than baptized,” he says. “I never thought seeking first the kingdom of heaven.” my sister would hear the gospel. When I see God doing miracles in Hope for the Future my family, it gives me a bright hope The youth of Uganda are helping for my future.” build God’s kingdom here, with great In Dennis’s ward the young men hope for the future. Although there study Preach My Gospel each week. is no temple in East Africa, the youth They have become like a team, look forward to the time when they working closely with the full-time will marry in a distant temple. One missionaries and bringing friends to stake activity focused on preparing Sunday meetings and other activi- to enter the temple, and at the con- ties, including basketball and soccer clusion, a member of the stake presi- games during the week. The priests dency bore his testimony: “God loves have baptized friends and others they you. You are the future of the Church helped teach with the missionaries. in Uganda.” These righteous youth UGANDA ways to know you are

By Tyler Orton learned in priesthood meeting that one of the purposes When you are converted, you not only know what of the Aaronic Priesthood is to help us “become con- 1. you should do but you also desire to do the right verted to the gospel of Jesus Christ and live by its teach- things. It’s not enough to just avoid doing wrong because I 1 ings.” I was unsure of what it meant to “become converted you are afraid of getting caught or punished. When truly to the gospel of Jesus Christ.” I asked my parents and older converted, you really want to choose the right. siblings what they thought it meant, and together we dis- Another sign of becoming converted is that you cussed a number of ways you can see if you’re becoming 2. have no more desire to do wrong. The Anti-Nephi- converted. Lehies are a great example of this. When they were con- There are probably others, but here are 10 ways that we verted to the gospel of Christ, they “entered into a covenant came up with. Since conversion is a lifelong process, we with God to serve him and keep his commandments” don’t have to be perfect in each of these areas now, but (Mosiah 21:31). Like the Nephites taught by King Benjamin, they can help us know if we’re making progress. they had “no more disposition to do evil” (Mosiah 5:2).

20 New Era They became truly converted to the students were saying good-bye at his a crude joke or want to watch a gospel of Christ, and Satan’s tempta- graduation, several people shared dirty movie, you don’t go along with tions had no power over them. with him how amazed they were that it just because no one is watching; When you are converted, you he was able to resist peer pressure instead you stand up for what you 3. are more concerned about and be true to his standards. They believe. what God thinks than what others told him how much they looked up When you are converted, you think about you. At my school in to him because of it. He showed 5. are more kind and compas- Indonesia, students tend to drink a he was converted by resisting peer sionate in dealing with others. You lot. Sometimes it can be tempting to pressure. don’t judge or criticize or gossip. You go out partying when everyone else When converted, you try are more aware of others’ feelings, is doing it and making fun of you for 4. your best to live the gospel and it becomes natural to look for not going. My brother was invited to always—not just on Sundays or when ways to serve and help. If you are drink and party many times, but he it’s convenient but all the time. Your walking down the hall of your school never did—he stood up for what he actions don’t change depending on and someone drops his books, you believed. It was hard, and he spent whom you’re with or who might be don’t even have to think about what plenty of nights home alone. When watching you. When your peers tell to do. You automatically stop to help.

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A SURE WAY TO HAPPINESS “The Lord wants the members of His Church to be fully converted to His gospel. This is the only sure way to have spiritual safety now and 2. happiness forever.” To show that they would be Elder Donald L. Hallstrom of the true to their covenant to live Presidency of the Seventy, “Converted to His Gospel through His Church,” the gospel, the converted Ensign, May 2012, 15. Lamanites buried their weap- ons (see Alma 24). 6. BY DEL PARSON © IRI THEIR SWORDS, BY DEL PARSON © IRI; THE ANTI-NEPHI-LEHIES BURYING PHOTO ILLUSTRATIONS

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When you become con- 10. 10. verted, you have a strong desire to help others know the truth and happiness that you have found. A good example from the scriptures is Lehi’s dream, in which he had such a strong desire to share the delicious fruit of the tree of life with his family. When he partook of the fruit, his first thought was not to take more for himself but to look for his family so that they could also partake of the fruit and have the 9. same happiness (see 1 Nephi 8:12). In summary, you know you are becoming converted when you start to When you are converted, your I can attend church and focus on live the higher law, the gospel of Jesus 6. desire to pray increases and spiritual things and spend time with Christ. You live the spirit of the law as BY ROBIN LUCH © IRI you feel like you are really commu- my family!” well as the letter of the law. You live nicating with God when you pray. When converted, you keep the the gospel in all aspects of your life. You will always make time to pray 8. commandments and you don’t You live the gospel to its fullest, not no matter how you feel or what look for excuses, rationalize behavior, because you have to but because you is going on in your life. President or try to find gray areas. You don’t try want to. You are a happier and nicer Ezra Taft Benson (1899–1994) told to push the limits; you simply keep person, and you want to become the us, “If we do not feel like praying, the commandments because you person Heavenly Father wants you to then we should pray until we do feel know it is the better way. be. You want to be like Jesus Christ like praying.”2 When converted, you look and follow His example. When you When you become converted, 9. forward to paying your tithing. become that person, you have truly 7. you look forward to Sunday You view it as a privilege and feel that been converted. NE because it is the Sabbath. When 10 percent is not that much, especially Tyler Orton lives in Java, Indonesia. Sunday comes, instead of thinking, compared with the blessings and NOTES “Oh man, it’s a day that I can’t hang satisfaction you gain. These blessings 1. Handbook 2: Administering the Church out with my friends or go to the are worth much more than the money (2010), 8.1.3. 2. Ezra Taft Benson, “Pray Always,” Ensign, movies,” you think, “Great, a day that you paid. Feb. 1990, 4. © IRI; COINS ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/THINKSTOCK; LEHI’S VISION OF THE TREE LIFE, TOP: PHOTO ILLUSTRATION

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HARD WORK IS WELL

ILLUSTRATION BY DRAVOT & CARNEHAN; BACKGROUND IMAGE © THINKSTOCK BY DRAVOT ILLUSTRATION WORTHYou’ll be amazed at what you can accomplish IT if you keep trying. (See For the Strength of Youth [2011], 40–41.) Studying this versatile fruit can yield many insights into our Savior’s sacrifice.

• Olive trees can live a very long time. Some olive trees in the Near East are thought to be more than 2,000 years old. • If an olive tree is chopped Plant name: Olea europaea down, it does not die, but Plant type: evergreen, new shoots come up from angiosperm (flowering) the roots. Propagation: from softwood • Olive trees keep their cuttings or seeds leaves all year round. Process for extracting oil: • Olive oil was used cleaning, crushing, and pressing anciently for lamp oil, cooking oil, food, soap, religious ceremonies, and ointment for treating wounds. PHOTOGRAPHS BY ISTOCK/THINKSTOCK AND INGRAM PUBLISHING/THINKSTOCK; ANDERSON CHRIST IN GETHSEMANE BY HARRY

24 New Era “Then cometh Jesus with them unto a place called Gethsemane, and saith unto the disciples, Sit ye here, while I go and pray yonder.” Matthew 26:36.

Symbols of the Atonement “Olive trees are special in the Holy Land. The olive branch is universally regarded as a symbol of peace. This tree provides food, light, heat, lumber, ointments, and medicine. It is now, axis as it was then, crucial to life in Israel. It is not a deciduous tree, but everbearing—always green. Even if the tree is chopped down, life will spring from its roots, suggesting everlasting life. Jewish tradition often refers to the olive tree as the tree of life. To me it seems to prefigure the crushing stone Resurrection. “Jesus came to the base of the Mount of Olives to effect the handle first component of theAtonement. This He did at the Garden of Gethsemane. The word Gethsemane comes from two Hebrew roots: gath, meaning ‘press,’ and shemen, meaning ‘oil,’ especially that of the olive. “There olives had been pressed under the weight of great stone wheels to squeeze precious oil from the olives. So the Christ in the Garden of Gethsemane was literally pressed under the weight of the sins of the

world. He sweated great drops of blood—his life’s ‘oil’— groove which issued from every pore. (See Luke 22:44; D&C 19:18.) “. . . Remember, just as the body of the olive, which was pressed for the oil that gave light, so the Savior was pressed. From every pore oozed the lifeblood of our Redeemer. crushing basin Throughout the joyous days of your mission, when your cup of gladness runs over, remember His cup of bitterness which made it possible. And when sore trials come upon you, remember Gethsemane.” Elder Russell M. Nelson of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “Why This Holy Land?” Ensign, Dec. 1989, 17–18; emphasis added. PHOTOGRAPHS BY ISTOCK/THINKSTOCK AND INGRAM PUBLISHING/THINKSTOCK; BY HARRY ANDERSON CHRIST IN GETHSEMANE BY HARRY FOR THE STRENGTH OF YOUTH

What Is a TRUE FRIEND? By Elaine S. Dalton Young Women General President

he definition of a friend has have the ability to send your “friends” had lasting impact in my life. He said, changed in today’s technologi­ a message, but this is not the same “Friends are people who make it eas- Tcally connected world. Today thing as having a relationship with a ier to live the gospel of Jesus Christ.” 1 we may think we have many “friends.” person one on one. In this sense, seeking another person’s It is true: we do enjoy the ability to Sometimes our preoccupation is highest good is the essence of true be informed and to stay current with on having friends. Perhaps we should friendship. It is putting someone else what is happening in the lives of focus on being a friend. first. It is being strictly honest, loyal, many of our acquaintances as well as There are many definitions of what and chaste in every action. Perhaps it current and former friends and even it means to be a friend. I will never is the word commitment that unlocks people we have not met personally forget hearing Elder Robert D. Hales the real meaning of friendship. whom we call our friends. of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles When my daughter, Emi, was 15, In the context of social media, the speak about what it means to be a she made a decision about what kind term “friend” is often used to describe friend and the powerful influence of of friends she would seek. One morn- contacts rather than relationships. You friends in our lives. His definition has ing I noticed her copy of the Book of Mormon opened to Alma 48. She had marked the verses that describe Captain Moroni: “Moroni was a strong and a mighty man; he was a man of a perfect understanding. . . . Yea, and he was a man who was firm in the faith of Christ” (verses 11, 13). In the margin she had written, “I want to date and marry a man like Moroni.” As I watched Emi and the kind of young men she associated with and later dated when she turned 16, I could see that she was exemplifying those quali­ ties herself and helping others

26 New Era live up to their identity as sons of friend to others and to let your light God, priesthood holders, and future shine forth, your influence will bless fathers and leaders. the lives of many with whom you True friends influence those with associate. I know that as you focus whom they associate to “rise a little on being a friend to others, as higher [and] be a little better.” 2 You defined by prophets and the can help one another, particularly examples in the scriptures, young men, prepare for and serve you will be happy and honorable missions. You can help you will be an influence one another remain morally clean. for good in the world Your righteous influence and friend- and will one day ship can have an eternal effect not receive the glorious only on the lives of your associates promise mentioned but also on generations to come. in the scriptures about The Savior called His disciples His true friendship: “That friends. He said: same sociality which “This is my commandment, That ye exists among us here will love one another, as I have loved you. exist among us there, only “Greater love hath no man than it will be coupled with eter- this, that a man lay down his life nal glory” (D&C 130:2). NE

for his friends. NOTES “Ye are my friends, if ye do whatso- 1. Robert D. Hales, “This Is the Way; and There Is None Other ever I command you. Way” (Brigham Young University devotional address, Jan. 10, 1982), “Henceforth I call you not ser- speeches.byu.edu. vants; for the servant knoweth not 2. Gordon B. Hinckley, “The Quest for Excellence,” Ensign, Sept. what his lord doeth: but I have called 1999, 5. you friends; for all things that I have heard of my Father I have made known unto you” ( John 15:12–15; emphasis added). KEY IDEAS ABOUT As you live and share the gospel FRIENDSHIP of Jesus Christ, you will attract peo- “Choose friends who share your values ple to you who will want to be your so you can strengthen and encourage each other in living high standards. friend—not just a contact on a social “To have good friends, be a good media site but the kind of friend the friend. . . . Savior exemplified by His words and “As you seek to be a friend to others, His example. As you strive to be a do not compromise your standards.” For the Strength of Youth (2011), 16. PHOTO ILLUSTRATIONS © ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/FONIKUM AND BY LES NILSSON PHOTO ILLUSTRATIONS

April 2013 27 HOW I KNOW

My INVITATION to SALVATION

By Emerson José da Silva s a young man, I visited many denominations and was confused because each one taught different interpretations A of the scriptures. I did not feel good about the irreverence I found in some of them, so I gave up trying to find a church to attend. Several years later a friend of mine, Cleiton Lima, was baptized into The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He did not mention this to me even though we were good friends, but as time went by, I began to see changes in him. On Sundays I usually went to his house in the morning so we could play soccer, but I could never find him at home. This happened two or three Sundays in a row. Finally Cleiton told me that he could no longer play soccer on Sundays because he was honoring familiar with the Book of Mormon, He thought I was joking. But then the Lord’s day. I told him, “This church but I felt the Spirit of the Lord when he said, “If I call the elders, will you is making you crazy.” various Church members testified that meet with them?” I answered yes. Then Cleiton invited me to attend they know the Book of Mormon is I was taught by great elders. When church. I gave him an excuse because true, that this is the Church of Jesus I heard the message of the Restoration, I was still disenchanted with religion. Christ, and that Joseph Smith was a I had an even greater confirmation that For 10 months, Cleiton brought over prophet called by God. I had never I should be baptized. But I wanted to missionaries to teach me, but I always felt so good. I still did not want to know for myself the truthfulness of the excused myself or told them I was too meet with the missionaries, but that Book of Mormon. The elders marked busy. But he never gave up. testimony meeting touched me. Moroni 10:3–5 in my Book of Mormon One day in June, he invited me to The next week, Cleiton again and invited me to pray and ask God attend a Church dance. I teased him, invited me to go to church. I couldn’t if it is true. “Is there going to be free food and a because I had another obligation. I The next evening I remembered lot of girls?” Laughing, he said yes! could see the sadness in his face when that I had not yet read the Book of I have to admit that I was defeated I told him I didn’t know if I could go. Mormon. As I began to read, I felt a by my stomach. I visited the church However, on Sunday morning I very strong spirit. I prayed, and before and loved it. I was welcomed by awoke with a desire to go to church. I was finished, I knew that the Book everyone, I ate a lot, and I became I got up at 6:50, which was difficult of Mormon is true. I am grateful to

ILLUSTRATION BY ROGER MOTZKUS ILLUSTRATION interested in attending a meeting. for me, and I got ready and waited for God for having answered my prayer. When I arrived at church Cleiton to walk by. He was surprised I was baptized in July 2006. on Sunday, I met many when he saw me dressed and waiting. I later served as a missionary in the people and heard That Sunday the bishop taught about Brazil Cuiabá Mission, and my friend their testimonies. the priesthood. I felt the Spirit strongly Cleiton served in the Brazil Santa Maria I was not and had the impression that I should Mission. We did what Cleiton did for take the missionary lessons. By the me: invite people to come unto Christ end of the Aaronic Priesthood meeting, and help them receive the restored I knew that I was going to be baptized. gospel through exercising faith in Jesus When church ended, I Christ, repenting, being baptized, and told Cleiton, “I want to be receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost. baptized!” This truly is the way to salvation. Let us always invite our friends and relatives to learn of this gospel, for the Savior invited everyone when He said, “Come unto me” (Matthew 11:28). I know that this is the Church of Jesus Christ and that now is the time to invite everyone to come unto Him. NE Emerson José da Silva lives in Pernambuco, Brazil.

April 2013 29 Through gospel teachings and family associations, these brothers and sisters in rothers and Sisters—Indiana have learned friend- riends ship, service, and faith. orever

30 New Era By David A. Edwards Through gospel teachings Church Magazines and family associations, these brothers and sisters in aving brothers and sisters can Indiana have learned friend- have its ups and downs, but it certainly helps you learn some ship, service, and faith. H lessons and develop traits that will help later in life, such as friendship, patience, and service. One family of brothers and sis- ters in Indiana has learned those lessons well—and has had a lot of Lest you get the wrong impres- fun along the way. sion, Seth explains that there was a purpose to what was going on, but Fun with Family Friends something went awry. “That just hap- “It’s fun being a brother,” says pened once,” he says, “but my foot Seth V., 18. “I get to have friends did get stuck in the watermelon.” in the family.” “And then we tried vacuum- That feeling of friendship is echoed ing it to clean it up,” says Aubrey, by Aubrey, Janessa, and Tyler, his to more laughter. 15-year-old siblings, who are fra- All joking aside, these brothers ternal triplets. and sisters feel genuine joy and One important source of friendship comfort through the friendship and togetherness is family home eve- and service they experience in ning activities. After their family has a their relationships. spiritual lesson, they often engage in Tyler, who has cerebral palsy and fun—and rather lively—activities. Seth uses a wheelchair, says, “It’s very explains, “We often find things to do important to have friends with you, in the house, like carpet tag.” because they can help you through “Once we played a game sort of like hard times. My brothers and sisters soccer-hockey inside,” says Janessa. are my friends.” And Aubrey, remembering another Seth: “My future is based activity, simply says, “Jumping I’m planningaround on going on a mission. on a watermelon.” As everyone my testimony Later, I want to start laughs, she adds, “We sort . PHOTOGRAPHS BY DAVID A. EDWARDS; ILLUSTRATIONS BY PATRIC GERBER BY PATRIC ILLUSTRATIONS A. EDWARDS; PHOTOGRAPHS BY DAVID of exploded the watermelon.” and continue living a family

the gospel.”

April 2013 31 BUILD Service to Siblings helping his sisters with their Spanish LASTING These siblings all support each homework, as well as helping Tyler RELATION­SHIPS other in their various activities, such keep a busy schedule by taking him “Continue building as Aubrey’s marching band perfor- to school and Church events. lasting, loving mances, Janessa’s volleyball games, Priesthood service is something Seth relationships for all family members. Listen to one another, and Tyler’s soccer games. and Tyler enjoy. When Tyler became a be united, work together, play together, Tyler’s entry into the world of deacon, he was happy to able to pass pray together, study together. Live power soccer, which is a sport for the sacrament by adding an attach- celestial principles together, serve the people who use powered wheel- ment to his wheelchair so that people Lord together. . . . Never let golden chairs, is also a story of family service. could take the trays from him. Seth opportunities go by in your relation- There was no nearby team for Tyler says, “Priesthood service means a lot to ships with your family members that will help build eternal principles.” to play on until an Eagle Scout project me—preparing, blessing, and passing by his oldest brother, Matt, 20, made the sacrament to everyone, including Elder L. Tom Perry of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “Born of Goodly Parents,” it a reality for him a couple of years taking it to people who can’t make it to Ensign, May 1985, 23. ago. Matt organized their town’s church because they’re not able to get power soccer team, which participates out of the house.” in a league with teams from other cities. Their father coached the team, The Gospel as a Guide and Matt When they’re not together, these was an brothers and sisters try to be good Aubrey:faith “You to wantgrow, your so assistant friends to others by sharing the you needand the a relationshipgospel coach until Church’s standards and teachings with God.” he left on his with them. full-time mission. Janessa says that studying the scrip- Now Tyler and other tures helps, because “a scripture can power wheelchair stand out and help me through temp- users in their area can tations and trials. Or when my friends participate in an ask me questions about the Church, activity that helps I can refer back to the scripture and them develop skills and answer them and tell them about the character—all because one young Church and our standards.” man found a way to do something Trying to be a good example at all for his brother. times is important to Aubrey, because Of course, the day-to-day service “people are watching us all the time,” these siblings give each other is also she says. “They notice that we have rewarding. Aubrey and Janessa enjoy different standards from theirs. A boy helping and supporting each other in my biology class would always in their Young Women activities and refer to me as ‘the Mormon.’ Then one Personal Progress projects. Seth enjoys time he said, ‘Aubrey, you’re always

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“If your testimony is strong Janessa: and you’re living by in the the gospel future.” standards, it will be easier to resist temptation

so happy all the time. It’s different.’ enjoy seminary. Tyler says that In band I’m nicknamed the ‘Mormon “the best part for me is to baritone’ because I’m the only Church learn about the gospel.” member in my section. The others He also enjoys the sometimes stop cussing when I’m gathering of Latter-day with them, and sometimes they stop Saint youth that happens because I ask them to. But people are at school between the time watching you all the time.” early-morning seminary Seth has talked about religion with ends and school begins. “In one of his friends several times, and he the morning, we all have a little has given him a copy of the Book of spot everybody at school calls the Mormon. “He understands our Church ‘Mormon Place,’ where we all meet a little more, understands me more. At and talk. It’s cool,” says Tyler. least he has a Book of Mormon in case When he is with other people, he has more questions. Even after high Tyler also likes to help them by school, if we go our separate ways, he listening to them and talking with might run into it again and remember, them about difficulties they are and he might look into it more.” having. “I hope to help people with All of these brothers and sisters their problems,” he says. A More Perfect Perspective Though they admit they sometimes have disagreements and experience Tyler: “At school a lot of stuff the normal friction felt in most fam- ilies, these brothers and sisters also there’sthat challenges us, so we have to stand know that their belief in an eternal alone and protect ourselves.” family has affected how they regard each other and their relationships. Seth says, “Since we know our relationship is forever, we’re not going to hold any grudges, that’s for sure.” “In the Church we know that you can be with your family forever,” says Janessa, “and that makes every- thing different.” And the difference is easy to see when Seth, Aubrey, Janessa, and Tyler are together. The lessons they are learning in their family now will last them a lifetime—and beyond. NE

April 2013 33 Holy Bible

WHY WE NEED THE Book of Book of Mormon

Mormonome people may ask you why we need the Book of Mormon when we already have the TWO WITNESSES S “The Bible is one witness of Jesus Christ; the Book of Bible. In fact, Jesus Christ testified Mormon is another. Why is this second witness so crucial? that this would happen (see 2 Nephi The following illustration may help: How many straight 29:3). There are many reasons why lines can you draw through a single point on a piece of the Book of Mormon is important in paper? The answer is infinite. For a moment, suppose that our day (for example, see 2 Nephi single point represents the Bible and that hundreds of those straight lines 29:7–11). Here are just a few reasons drawn through that point represent different interpretations of the Bible why it’s essential. and that each of those interpretations represents a different church. “What happens, however, if on that piece of paper there is a second point representing the Book of Mormon? How many straight lines could Another Witness of Jesus Christ you draw between these two reference points: the Bible and the Book of The scriptures show us a pattern of Mormon? Only one. Only one interpretation of Christ’s doctrines survives using multiple witnesses to establish the testimony of these two witnesses. truth in Christ’s Church. The Book “Again and again the Book of Mormon acts as a confirming, clarifying, of Mormon adds a second witness unifying witness of the doctrines taught in the Bible.” to the Bible as a testimony of Christ. Elder Tad R. Callister of the Presidency of the Seventy, “The Book of Mormon—a Book from God,” Ensign, Nov. 2011, 75. Elder Mark E. Petersen (1900–84) of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles ILLUSTRATION BY BRYAN BEACH; VIDEO CAPTURE © 2001 IRI; PHOTOGRAPH BY ISTOCK/THINKSTOCK BY BRYAN ILLUSTRATION

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This Month’s Topic: The Apostasy and the Restoration

once said, “The chief reason we 1830, just 11 days after the Book of have the Book of Mormon is that in Mormon was first available for public the mouth of two or three witnesses sale on March 26, 1830. The Church shall all things be established. (See was not organized until its key- JOIN THE 2 Cor. 13:1.) We have the Bible; we stone scripture was available for its CONVERSATION also have the Book of Mormon. They members. constitute two voices—two volumes of scripture—from two widely sepa- A Blessing in Our Lives rated ancient peoples, both bearing Regarding the Book of Mormon, testimony to the divinity of the Lord Joseph Smith taught that “a man would Jesus Christ.”1 President Ezra Taft get nearer to God by abiding by its Benson (1899–1994) has added, “We precepts, than by any other book.”4 must not forget that the Lord Himself It has the power to change lives— provided the Book of Mormon as His including yours and those you share chief witness.”2 the Book of Mormon with. President Henry B. Eyring, First Counselor in The Fulness of the Gospel the First Presidency, has testified, “The We know that “plain and precious effect of the Book of Mormon on your things . . . have been taken away from” character, power, and courage to be a hroughout April, you’ll be study- the Bible throughout time (1 Nephi witness for God is certain. The doc- Ting about the Apostasy and the 13:40). The Book of Mormon clarifies trine and the valiant examples in that Restoration in your priesthood quorums Christ’s doctrine and brings the fulness book will lift, guide, and embolden and Young Women and Sunday School of the gospel to the earth once again you. . . . Prayerful study of the Book classes. The coming forth of the Book of (see 1 Nephi 13:38–41). For example, of Mormon will build faith in God the Mormon was an important part of the the Book of Mormon helps us know Father, in His Beloved Son, and in His Restoration. After reading this article, that baptism must be performed by gospel. It will build your faith in God’s think about how your life is different immersion (see 3 Nephi 11:26) and that prophets, ancient and modern. . . . It because you have the Book of Mormon. little children do not need to be bap- can draw you closer to God than any You could write down your feelings in tized (see Moroni 8:4–26). other book. It can change a life for the your journal. Consider sharing them better.”5 NE with others by testifying at home, at Central to the Restored Church NOTES church, on social media, or online at 1. Mark E. Petersen, “Evidence of Things Not Joseph Smith testified that the Seen,” Ensign, May 1978, 63. lds.org/go/43D. Book of Mormon is “the keystone of 2. The Teachings of Ezra Taft Benson (1988), 204. our religion.”3 Since we know this, 3. Joseph Smith, in the introduction to the Book of Mormon. it does not seem a coincidence that 4. Joseph Smith, in the introduction to the The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter- Book of Mormon. 5. Henry B. Eyring, “A Witness,” Ensign, Nov. day Saints was organized on April 6, 2011, 69–70. ILLUSTRATION BY BRYAN BEACH; VIDEO CAPTURE © 2001 IRI; PHOTOGRAPH BY ISTOCK/THINKSTOCK BY BRYAN ILLUSTRATION

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ur Heavenly Father uses You may not have seen the gold plates in An Apostle’s multiple witnesses to testify of person, but you can receive your own Testimony See Elder Jeffrey R. Holland truth (see 2 Corinthians 13:1). testimony of the Book of Mormon through testify of the Book of O The same is true with the Book of the Holy Ghost each time you read, study, Mormon in a short video at lds.org/go/43E. Mormon. At the beginning of the Book and pray (see Moroni 10:4–5). And then you of Mormon, we have the testimony of can add your witness of the Book of Mormon Joseph Smith, the Testimony of Three each time you bear your testimony of it. Witnesses, and the Testimony of Eight This month, consider sharing your Witnesses—12 voices coming together testimony with your family or friends, to testify that the Book of Mormon is writing it in the front of a copy of the Book the word of God and another testament of Mormon to give to someone, or recording of Jesus Christ. it at right and adding it to your journal.

36 New Era Testimony of Joseph Smith “I told the brethren that the My Testimony Book of Mormon was the most of the Book of Mormon correct of any book on earth, and the keystone of our religion, and a man would get nearer to God by abiding by its precepts, than by any other book.” Joseph Smith (in the introduction to the Book of Mormon)

Testimony of Three Witnesses “We, through the grace of God the Father, and our Lord Jesus Christ, have seen the plates which contain this record. . . . And we also know that they have been translated by the gift and power of God, for his voice hath declared it unto us; where- fore we know of a surety that the work is true.” Oliver Cowdery, David Whitmer, Martin Harris

Testimony of Eight Witnesses “Joseph Smith, Jun., the translator of this work, has shown unto us the plates of which hath been spoken, which have the appearance of gold; and as many of the leaves as the said Smith has translated we did handle with our hands; and we also saw the engravings thereon, all of which has the appearance of ancient work, and of curious workmanship. And this we bear record with Cut out and paste in your journal or in a copy of the Book of Mormon for a friend. words of soberness.” Christian Whitmer, Jacob Whitmer, Peter Whitmer Jr., John Whitmer, Hiram Page, Joseph Smith Sr., Hyrum Smith, Samuel H. Smith AN ANGEL SHOWING THE GOLD PLATES TO JOSEPH SMITH, OLIVER GITTINS; AN ANGEL SHOWING THE GOLD PLATES BY WELDEN C. ANDERSEN; JOSEPH SMITH JR., ALVIN PHOTO ILLUSTRATION © BY DALE KILBOURN WHITMER, © 1988 BY WILLIAM MAUGHAN; EIGHT WITNESSES VIEW THE BOOK OF MORMON PLATES, AND DAVID COWDERY, April 2013 37 How Would YOU You React?

You may have found yourself in some tough situations with gossiping, judging, and more. Learn what you can do when it happens.

By Mindy Raye Friedman Church Magazines Jessica moved into a new ward. Though she wasn’t unhappy, she didn’t smile much. Youth in her new ward misread her facial expressions and judged her because of them. By the end of her first Sunday, rumors Ignoring and Judging were already going around that Jessica was mean, and then people didn’t want to be her friend. What would you do? How would you fix the situation?

Ashley, the young woman TRY who told us this story, THIS decided to be Jessica’s friend. “I tried to get to know her, and I tried saying hi,” she says. “It made me feel really good when she smiled or started talking with me.” Eventually these two young women became friends. “I realized that Jessica is a great person, and now a lot of people love her. They MORE ONLINE: YOUTH VOICES just misjudged her at the begin- See what other youth have to say about this ning,” Ashley says. topic online at lds.org/go/43G.

38 New Era n the April 2012 general conference, President Dieter F. for God and His children” (“The Merciful Obtain Mercy,” Uchtdorf, Second Counselor in the First Presidency, said: Ensign, May 2012, 75). I“[The] topic of judging others could actually be taught How can you apply President Uchtdorf’s teachings to in a two-word sermon. When it comes to hating, gossip- your own life? Check out these examples of several Latter- ing, ignoring, ridiculing, holding grudges, or wanting to day Saint youth who shared their stories with the New Era cause harm, please apply the following: Stop it! It’s that (names have been changed). Then read or watch the full simple. We simply have to stop judging others and replace conference talk at lds​.org/​go/​43F and act on the promptings judgmental thoughts and feelings with a heart full of love you receive while doing so.

TRY After hearing President THIS Uchtdorf’s talk, Todd decided he Holding Grudges needed to forgive his friend and let things go (see D&C 64:9–11). Every time he saw Sam, he tried to Todd and Sam used to be good friends. Then they got be nice and act like nothing was wrong. in a couple of arguments. None of the arguments was over Eventually they both got over their big things, but they disagreed with each other and each feelings, forgave each other, and became thought the other person was wrong. It was hard for them good friends again. to let go of what happened. What should they do?

TAKE THE SELF-TEST My dear brothers and sisters, consider the following questions as a self-test: • Do you harbor a grudge against someone else? • Do you gossip, even when what you say may be true? • Do you exclude, push away, or punish others because of something they have done? • Do you secretly envy another? • Do you wish to cause harm to someone? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you may want to apply [a] two-word sermon . . . : stop it! Adapted from President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, Second Counselor in the First Presidency, “The Merciful Obtain Mercy,” Ensign, May 2012, 76.

April 2013 39 Gossiping Hating During her freshman year of high A young woman in Michelle’s ward had school, Crystal sat next to Samantha in made some bad decisions. She repented, but English class. She disliked Samantha people in her ward and school judged her because she felt overly annoyed by for her past mistakes. Wherever she went, the little things Samantha did. young woman’s reputation preceded her, and What should Crystal do? many people gossiped about things she had done and even things she hadn’t. What do you think Michelle should do? What would you do if this young woman were your friend? What if you heard the rumors? WHAT CAN TRY Here’s what hap WHAT CAN pened: Crystal started- TRY YOU DO? THIS THIS YOU DO? talking to the young If you find yourself in any woman and got to know Michelle decided she would of these situations, here are her. “She’s just the sweetest young be the young woman’s friend no mat- woman and so nice,” Crystal says. some things you can do: ter what people said about her. “I “Now we’re really good friends.  Get to know people think people just need to give her a For two months I just didn’t like instead of just listen- chance,” Michelle says. “I was lucky her, and then I realized how ing to what others to get to know her, and she is such a sweet she was. And I missed out say about them. lovely person. I think it’s unfair that on two months of knowing this people judge her before they even  Be nice to everyone. amazing person!” meet her. Once most people hear the  When friends gossip rumors, they don’t even want to be her or say bad things, ask friend. I think people just have to stop them to stop. Then spreading rumors.” change the subject.  Apologize when you’ve Cameron got braces during summer made a mistake. vacation. When he came back to school,  Forgive others for Ridiculing some of his friends starting picking on him things they’ve done. and calling him names behind his back.  Recognize that everyone What would you do if you were Cameron? What is different and that differ- if you were his friend? ences can be good.  Speak kind words. One of Cameron’s friends told the young  Serve the people TRY men to stop making fun of Cameron and then around you. THIS told Cameron that the others weren’t being  Remember that everyone very nice. Cameron confronted the young is a child of God. men and told them he didn’t think it was funny. They had thought it was a joke, but when they realized it hurt Cameron’s feelings,

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By Sara Israelsen-Hartley

trudged back from the bathroom, my stomach rumbling invitation of the Savior to come unto Him and be healed. and my head pounding. Falling back into bed, I grimaced. I read the chapter over and over, lingering on the phrase IFor the second time in two months, I was sick with a “all the multitude, with one accord, did go forth with their stomach virus. I had missed school classes and work. I could sick and their afflicted, . . . and he did heal them every one hear others having a good time and laughing in the kitchen, as they were brought forth unto him” (3 Nephi 17:9). but I was curled up in bed, feeling miserable. The Savior was opening His arms to me, inviting me I pulled the blankets tighter around me and turned to face to be healed, if not of the virus, then definitely of my frus- the wall. I was frustrated, but I didn’t know where to aim my tration at that moment. anger. It wasn’t my fault I got sick. The more I dwelt on Reading that chapter didn’t stop the stomach pains or the injustice of it all, the more upset I became. My headache, but that night the words of the Savior frustration turned into sadness, and I started cry- healed my heart. I was no longer bitter, ing. I just wanted the pain to go away. Hoping because I understood that this stomach for some type of encouragement, I reached virus, like other trials, was simply a fact for the scriptures and turned to 3 Nephi 17, of life. Heavenly Father knew I was sick, my reading for the day. I was amazed by and although He didn’t instantly cure the words of comfort found in verse 7: me, He reminded me of the individ- “Have ye any that are sick among you ual love and concern He feels for . . . or that are afflicted in any manner? each of His children. This love Bring them hither and I will heal is manifest through the gift of them, for I have compassion His Son, Jesus Christ, who upon you; my bowels are came to show us com- filled with mercy.” passion. As we soften I was still crying, but our hearts and come to I was no longer upset. the Savior with sufficient Instead of dwelling on faith, we can all receive

ILLUSTRATION BY DAVID MALAN BY DAVID ILLUSTRATION the pain, I focused on the His healing grace. NE Sara Israelsen-Hartley lives in Utah, USA.

I felt miserable. Where could OF BEING I find comfort? Sick Sick

April 2013 41 COME, FOLLOW ME

BE WISE ENOUGH TO LEARN THE LESSONS Patterns of Apostasy and Restoration OF THE PAST. This month, your Sunday lessons will focus on the Apostasy and Restoration (see lds.org/youth/learn). As you study, YOU DON’T remember that the pattern of apostasy and restoration has been HAVE TO SPEND TIME AS A repeated many times throughout history, with the gospel being restored through Noah, Abraham, Moses, Jesus Christ, and others. OR A Elder M. Russell Ballard of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles LAMAN LEMUEL discusses this pattern in “Learning the Lessons of the Past” at lds.org/go/43H. IN ORDER TO KNOW THAT IT’S He taught: “One of the great lessons of this historical pattern MUCH BETTER TO BE A is that our choices, both individually and collectively, do result in spiritual consequences for ourselves and for our posterity. . . . Each OR A one of you has to decide for yourself if you are going to ignore the NEPHI JACOB. past and suffer the painful mistakes and tragic pitfalls that have befallen previous generations” (Ensign, May 2009, 32–33). Consider how this pattern applies in your life as you read more of his talk (including the quote at right), and then be prepared to Elder M. Russell Ballard of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, share your thoughts in your Sunday lessons. April 2009 general conference

Navigating a Web of Information Impressions Apostasy occurs when individuals and societies fail to recognize THAT COME FROM and live by eternal truths. So in a world where media and the Internet provide an endless stream of information, it’s important to know how to discern between truth and error. Elder Walter F. González of the Presidency of the Seventy reminds us that God will help us know what is true through the Holy Ghost: “We access this celestial source when we do things such as reading the scriptures, hearkening to the living prophet, God and praying. It is also important to take time to be still (see WILL GIVE US D&C 101:16) and feel and follow the celestial promptings. When we do this, we will ‘feel and see’ [3 Nephi 18:25] things that cannot be learned with modern technology. . . . We will discern the truth, even when reading secular history or other topics” (“Learning

knowledge BACKGROUNDS BY ISTOCKPHOTO/THINKSTOCK THAT WE CANNOT GET BY with Our Hearts,” Ensign, Nov. 2012, 81; emphasis added). ANY OTHER MEANS. Share These Cards Online As you talk about the Apostasy and Restoration this month, consider using Elder Walter F. González of the Presidency of the Seventy, these cards in your classes and quorums, at family home evening, or with other October 2012 general conference youth on social media in preparation for your Sunday lessons. You can even hang them in your bedroom or locker to remind you about your gospel study through- 42 Liahona out the month. Download or share them online at lds.org/go/43I. THE EXTRA SMILE

“I call this smoothie 'The Gadianton' because it’s full of secret combinations.”

“I didn't know what a spiritual experience that would be; my driving instructor was praying the whole time.”

VAL CHADWICK BAGLEY

“Um . . . actually, Ashley, usually in these bishop interviews, I do the interviewing.” “Yes, interesting . . .” RICK + RYAN GOLDSBERRY

“Man, I just don’t get girls. I've rescued dozens of them on a number of game consoles, yet I can't get a real one to talk to me.” “Huh. Imagine that.”

RYAN STOKER

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April 2013 43 “All truthandknowledgeis 44 “I [express] commendation to “I [express]commendationto WHAT’S UP? “Constant Truths forChanging Think ofYouth What We Really Conference Quote from As our gospel knowledge As ourgospelknowledge Ann M. Dibb, second counselor Ann M. Dibb,secondcounselor gospel principlestoourlives. can understandhowtoapply our gospelknowledgesowe daily lives, wemustespecially constant distractions ofour Church are the very best Church aretheverybest know it.’” feel confidentinourtestimo- increases, wewillbeginto important, butamidstthe nies andbeabletostate, ‘I Times,” presidency, “IKnow It.ILive pay attention to increasing pay attentiontoincreasing Love It.” Ensign,Nov. 2012,10. all ofyou. Inthischallenging in theYoung Women general ever.” world, theyouthof President Thomas S.Monson,

New Era Ensign, May2005,19. C he moved on to higher ones he movedontohigherones peaks withsomepeers, andthen er’s equipment. tree inhisbackyardwithclimb- day andscalingamassivepine training, hebeganrunningevery to becomeamountaineer. For Instantly, Hunter knew he wanted on climbingMountEverest. father showedhimavideo Washington, USA. a 17-year-old youngmanfrom to thesameheightsasHunterS., course, notmanypeopletake it you evenasgrowolder. Of Conquering theMountain He started climbing smaller He startedclimbingsmaller Several yearsago, Hunter’s that often sticks with that oftenstickswith those childhoodjoys limbing treesisoneof do,” saysHunter. that thisiswhatI’msupposedto was born. “I felttheSpiritconfirm raising effort. “Climb forCasen” decided tomake hisclimbafund- to providemedicaltreatments. He needed allthehelptheycouldget Hunter knewCasen’s family disorder thathasnoknowncure. was bornwithararegenetic bigger problemtotackle. however, Hunterfoundaneven conditioning fortheattempt, some serioustraining. While (4,267 meters), thispeakrequires his goal. At over14,000feet climbing MountRainierbecame with hisdadandbrother. Soon, Not only did he successfully Not onlydidhesuccessfully A localbabynamedCasen commandments.” We needtoactuallykeep the closer relationshipwithChrist. can’t justsaythatwewant a things. With thegospel, we proper training, anddotheright faith, Ihadtoexercise, getthe training,” Huntersays. “As with Rainier withoutdoingany “I couldn’tjustclimbMount taineering tolivingthegospel. fund-raiser. certainly rallied, donatingtothe medical treatments. The public his goalof$10,000)forCasen’s raised $13,000(wellbeyond an accomplishedteam, buthe two longdaysofclimbingwith summit MountRainierafter Hunter comparesmoun-

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His Grace Is Sufficient Fire I want to thank you for Up the publishing “His Grace Is Machines evening they had cranked Erin C., a Laurel, was so Sufficient” in the August 2012 ou know you’re in for out over 600 pillowcases, impressed with the activity that issue. It made the Atonement a good service project all of which were donated to afterward she decided to launch so much more understandable Ywhen a facilities expert local charities. The young women her own pillowcase project for and applicable to me. I feel has to be consulted beforehand had an absolute blast. “It was those in need. Plus, “my love that my life has been changed. to make sure your intended fun sewing the pillowcases and and appreciation for [the Relief I wish I could go out and shout activities don’t knock out a fuse. imagining the reactions of the Society sisters] grew so much this message to the world! The combined young women children who would receive after this,” Erin says. “I can’t I already shared it on my from a stake in Nevada, USA, them,” says Kaelamae T., a wait to join Relief Society in a Facebook page and plan on had an ambitious goal: to create 14-year-old in attendance. few years.” telling all my friends about it. 100 pillowcases from scratch and Laura P., 18, Idaho, USA donate them to local charities, ranging from the children’s ward An Eternal Change PHOTOGRAPHS COURTESY OF PATTI PETERSON AND © ISTOCKPHOTO/THINKSTOCK PHOTOGRAPHS COURTESY OF PATTI in hospitals to homeless shelters. I enjoyed the story entitled As a bonus, they’d also learn “A Promise and a Prayer” sewing skills. in the July 2012 issue of the They certainly had strength New Era. I agree that the in numbers: 130 young women Book of Mormon can bring from their stake showed up for about a great and eternal the activity. In addition, they had change in our lives. It was a Relief Society sister assigned a very heartwarming and to teach and work with them spiritual story. Thank you. Matthew T., 14, one-on-one as they tackled the My Favorite Scripture California, USA big sewing project. D&C 24:8. “Be patient in afflictions, for thou The 130 sewing machines shalt have many; but endure them, for, lo, I am We love hearing from you, were spread out among four with thee, even unto the end of thy days.” whether it’s sending us a message or leaving a comment Church buildings, filling gymna- This scripture makes me feel good when online. Write to us by going to siums, stages, and lobbies in a I’m passing through a trial because it says, “I newera​.lds​.org and clicking strategic electrical arrangement am with thee, even unto the end of thy days.” “Submit Material.” Or leave a planned out by a facilities spe- This means to me that if I seek Him, Heavenly comment on any article at youth​ .lds​.org. cialist ahead of time. Father will always be with me unto the end of my life. As the night unfolded, the Alex O., 15, Chihuahua, Mexico You can also email us at young women soared past their newera@​ldschurch​.org or write to New Era, 50 E. North goal of 100 pillowcases almost Tell us about your favorite scripture in a paragraph or two. Send it to us, along with a photo, by going to newera​.lds​.org and Temple St., Rm. 2420, Salt Lake before the sewing machines had clicking “Submit Material.” City, UT 84150-0024, USA. warmed up. By the end of the PHOTOGRAPH COURTESY OF ALEX O.

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REMEMBERING THE REASON TO CELEBRATE n Easter Sunday we had a unique lesson in our Young Women class. We were Oeach given a paper to write down what happened during the days of the Savior’s last week in mortality. For the day of the Resurrection, we came together with all of the young women and listened to a narration of the final hours of the Savior’s life. As it neared the end, I stood up with several other young women to hold up portraits of the Savior. When I stood up, I noticed that Meghan, an autistic girl in our Laurel class, was crying. I asked a friend to take my place, and I went over to Meghan. After the presentation was over, Meghan began filling out the space on her paper to describe the Savior’s last day. As she finished, my heart was filled with love and humility as I read what she had written from her heart—simple, death is not the end (see 1 Corinthians innocent, and pure: “He will be 15:3–4, 12–22). We can live with PRAYING with us forever.” Christ forever. He loves us so much, OUT LOUD That is the reason we celebrate. and that is why He atoned for us. By We are grateful for the Atonement, repenting, by keeping the command- ately I have been falling into for Jesus Christ’s suffering, and for ments, by serving others, by being a “spiritual slump.” I had not the Resurrection. And it is what selfless and humble—just like Meghan been saying my prayers or happens because of these things is trying to be—we too can become Lreading the scriptures like I should. I that we should be truly grateful for. perfect and live with our Father in was also letting some of the negative Because He died for us, because of Heaven for eternity. attitudes from school affect how I was the Atonement, we will live again; Jerika N., Arizona, USA treating my family and how I judged

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things. Then, in the New Era, I saw was once driving arose to insult her. the scripture Doctrine and Covenants home with my friends “Why would she 19:28: “Thou shalt pray vocally as when someone­ care? She doesn’t well as in thy heart; yea, before the Ibrought up the subject even have to know,” I world as well as in secret, in public of girls and asked “Whom thought to myself. I just as well as in private.” I was curious do you like?” The young men listened for a moment. why we should pray vocally. I had in the front of the car had begun to “She is so weird,” one of the always known I should have a prayer mention names of young women, and guys said. in my heart, but I had never heard of then they asked me whom I liked. By this time I’d had enough. praying vocally besides at church or “I don’t really like anyone in that “You need to stop what you’re during family prayers. way,” I answered. saying and be nice to her!” I said. I was curious, and something told That’s when the name of a young “She has a really hard life, and insult- me I should pray out loud. The next woman whom I used to be good ing her even though she can’t hear day, when everyone else was gone friends with came up. They began you doesn’t make her life easier!” from the house and I was alone, I to mention her name and insult her. Silence filled the car. I felt so went up to my room to try it. I cleaned I immediately felt the temptation to alone, so strange. my area of the room so I could kneel insult her as well and to agree with When I got home, I thought and down and think of the Savior and my what they were saying. But I held my prayed about what had just hap- Father in Heaven. I started my prayer tongue. Slowly what they said got pened. I began to feel better, and by thanking Heavenly Father for my worse until I couldn’t take it anymore. then I felt really good about my blessings. Praying out loud was kind “Stop,” I said quietly. “She’s not decision to defend rather than of awkward at first, so I stumbled over that way at all. She’s nice when you belittle this young woman. my words and felt a little silly, only get to know her.” Robert K., Utah, USA hearing my voice. They didn’t listen and continued Editor’s note: For more on this topic, I repented for the little things and to insult her. Again the temptation see page 38. then opened my mind a little more and

ILLUSTRATION BY BRIAN CALL; PHOTOGRAPH © COMSTOCK.COM ILLUSTRATION started repenting for being disrespectful to my parents sometimes. As much as I keeping my mind and my heart clean how important the Atonement of didn’t want to admit it, I knew I hadn’t so I could be worthy to be an example our Savior Jesus Christ is. It is in His obeyed the Lord and was not keep- to others, and for not being as kind and name that we communicate with our ing His commandments to the best of loving to my family as they are to me. Heavenly Father as much as we want my abilities. I opened my mouth and Realizing all I had done, I began to cry. (see 3 Nephi 18:18–20). We can turn prayed for forgiveness more earnestly I felt warm inside. I knew the Lord had to Him whenever we need guidance, than I had ever done before. I asked forgiven me, I knew He loves me, and I help, or comfort. to be forgiven for all the times I had knew that He wants to comfort me and I know that my Father in Heaven not said my prayers because “I was too have me feel of His love. loves me and wants me to return tired” or “it was too late at night,” for I continued my vocal prayer and to Him. And I can—as long as the times I hadn’t read my scriptures thanked Him for the many blessings I just hold on. for the very same reasons, for not He has given me. I had realized just Natalia G., Connecticut, USA

April 2013 47 FROM CHURCH LEADERS

To reach, to teach, to touch bless the lives of others, remember the precious souls whom our Father the truth: “Whom God calls, By President has prepared for His message is a God qualifies.” NE Thomas S. Monson monumental task. Success is rarely sim- From an April 1987 general conference address. ple. Generally it is preceded by tears, HOW TO trials, trust, and testimony. Share Your Experiences Share your experiences about priesthood callings Servants of God take comfort from and read the experiences of other youth by going to SERVE IN the Master’s assurance: “I am with you lds​.org/​go/​43J. PRIESTHOOD alway” (Matthew 28:20). This magnifi­ cent promise sustains you brethren of the Aaronic Priesthood who are CALLINGS HOW HAVE YOU called to positions of leadership­ in APPLIED THIS? ave you ever pondered the the quorums of deacons, teachers, worth of a human soul? Have and priests. It encourages you in your “Knowing the Lord is on my side helps me you ever wondered concerning preparations to serve in the mission remember why I’m going on a mission: to H serve the Lord and bring others to our the potential which lies within field. It comforts you during those each of us? moments of discouragement, Savior, Jesus Christ. I know He won’t put me through anything I can’t I once attended a stake conference which come to all. handle while I’m on my mission.” where my former stake president “Wherefore, be not weary Dilan M., Utah, USA Paul C. Child turned to Doctrine and in well-doing,” says the Lord, “I try to remember that Covenants 18 and began to read: “for ye are laying the foundation through home “Remember the worth of of a great work. And out of teaching, I can souls is great in the sight of God” small things proceedeth help others get a (verse 10). that which is great. more complete President Child then asked, “What “Behold, the Lord understanding of is the worth of a human soul?” He requireth the heart and the gospel.” Devon K., avoided calling on a bishop, stake a willing mind” (D&C Utah, president, or high councilor for a 64:33–34). An abid- USA response. Instead, he selected the ing faith, a con- president of an elders quorum. stant trust, and The startled man remained silent a fervent desire for what seemed like an eternity and have always characterized then declared, “The worth of a human those who serve the Lord soul is its capacity to become with all their hearts. as God.” If any brethren within

All present pondered that reply. the sound of my voice feel BY ROBERT CASEY © IRI PHOTO ILLUSTRATION President Child proceeded with his unprepared, even incapa- message, but I continued to reflect ble of responding to a call on that inspired response. to serve, to sacrifice, to

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have the

in your SIGHTS

“My young friends who are in your teenage years, always have the temple in your sights. Do nothing which will keep you from entering its doors and partaking of the sacred and eternal blessings there.” President Thomas S. Monson, “The Holy Temple—a

PHOTOGRAPH BY DAVID STOKER PHOTOGRAPH BY DAVID Beacon to the World,” Ensign, May 2011, 93.

May 2013 49 WHAT'S ONLINE

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