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APRIL 4, 2016 | 25 ADAR 11 5776 ESTABLISHED 1937 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM | $2 Agudath Israel and Beth Shalom to become Kehillat Beth Israel A name has been chosen for the ‘new shul’ that will emerge this summer when Ottawa’s two largest Conservative congregations complete their amalgamation. As well, the two congregations are already holding many joint services and programs and the bimah in the main sanctuary has been made fully accessible. Louise Rachlis reports.

embers of Congregation Beth ing majority favoured “Beth Israel,” with Shalom and Agudath Israel many commenting that the name Congregation are no longer combines a respect for the past with a Mreferring to their soon-to-be vision of something exciting and amalgamated congregation as the “New dymanic for the present and future. Shul.” They have chosen Kehillat Beth “The desire to become a new and Israel as the name for the congregation vibrant ‘community’ was expressed that will offi cially begin to operate this numerous times in the comments,” summer. Silverman added. “Therefore we chose to Jane Ehrenworth Shore and Judah incorporate the two concepts by adding Kehillat Beth Israel co-presidents Stuart McCarthy (left) and Lorne Goldstein stand on the Silverman were co-chairs of the four-per- the Hebrew word Kehillat – meaning now-accessible bimah at Agudath Israel. son naming committee that recom- community, or community of – to the mended the new name to the board of name so that the soon-to-be amalgam- the new shul. ated congregation would be named voted last June to amalgamate Ottawa’s umbrella organization for Conservative A survey went out to members of the Kehillat Beth Israel.” two largest Conservative congregations, congregations in North America. It will two congregations, which put forth some At a board retreat in February, the and the two synagogues began working be at the current Agudath Israel syna- of the names the committee suggested, committee proposed the new name, and together last summer on creating what gogue at 1400 Coldrey Avenue. and also invited members of the congre- the new shul board voted unanimously was being referred to as the “New Shul” Stuart McCarthy, the president of gation to suggest their own names. to adopt it, he said, noting that “the until the name was chosen. The full Agudath Israel Congregation, said he “We had suggested fi ve different name directly refl ects the strong connec- amalgamation will be completed and in hopes a senior rabbi for Kehillat Beth names and we got a fair number of tion members feel to their past, while place by July. Israel would be in place before the High write-ins as well,” Ehrenworth Shore said. moving forward to solidify its future Kehillat Beth Israel will be fully Holidays. There were 420 responses to the connection together as a community.” egalitarian, fully inclusive, and will be McCarthy, and Lorne Goldstein of survey, and members suggested 31 other Members of Congregation Beth affi liated with the United Synagogue of Congregation Beth Shalom, are possible names. However, an overwhelm- Shalom and Agudath Israel Congregation Conservative Judaism, the major See Kehillat on page 2

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BY SAPIR FELLUS Israel’s fi erce devotion to human life, and UNIVERSITY OF OTTAWA STUDENT its commitment to doing its part to better hen I came back from my the world. 15-day trip to Israel with This is a side of Israel that too few Hasbara Fellowships, students see when the central dogma Wlearning how to advocate about Israel on campuses paints a picture for Israel on campus, there was one of a militant, occupying country. question I dreaded being asked by On the last day of the trip, a friends and family: “How was Israel?” counter-terrorism agent – trained to Those three words always managed to neutralize terrorists in less than fi ve trigger a long, internal sigh, and a touch seconds when every moment might be a of anxiety. matter of life and death – spoke with us. How could I briefl y summarize this He told us about having to run out of life-changing experience? the house, leaving his wife and children The fi rst moment that awakened a during a Shabbat meal, and not knowing deep sense of inspiration in me was the if he would even come back. day we went to the Peres Center for But the best thing he taught us was the Peace. I couldn’t believe there existed an importance of having relentless and organization whose mission so perfectly determined love for Israel and the Jewish resonated with my beliefs. people. He looked around the room and Guided by former Israeli prime told us that we were all his family. That minister and president , the he would protect us as fi ercely as he centre’s mission is to promote peace by would his own children. fostering relationships between Israelis What I got from this Hasbara and Palestinians. As simple as that: there Fellowships trip is more than the tools to is no lobbying, no political jargon, no speak up on campus, information about polarizing groups shouting at each other University of Ottawa student Sapir Fellus at the Peres Center for Peace in Tel Aviv during her several Israeli humanitarian organiza- – just human connections. Hasbara Fellowships trip to Israel. tions, or a deeper understanding of the For example, the centre arranges confl ict in the region. Along with the 37 fellowships for Palestinian doctors at long lasting. around the world who cannot afford it. other participants, I gained something Israeli hospitals. A Palestinian doctor Another organization that made a This mission resonates with many powerful and long lasting: an endless who needs to be trained as a pediatric deep impact on me as an Israel advocate students, especially here in Ottawa. We reserve of empowerment. cardiac surgeon will be matched with an is Save a Child’s Heart. We spent an are committed to building home-grown Although advocating for Israel on Israeli hospital that needs such a doctor. afternoon hearing about this organiza- support for Save a Child’s Heart on campus can sometimes be demoralizing, The relationships that are built from tion, whose mission is to provide life-sav- campus, through fundraising and the Hasbara trip gave me a deep well of these opportunities are meaningful and ing heart surgeries to children from all through raising awareness. We convey confi dence in our cause. Kehillat: City’s fi rst handicapped- and elderly-friendly bimah

Continued from page 1 making it accessible four years ago. co-presidents of Kehillat Beth Israel. “Over time, we saw it would become “When we created Rabbi Deborah more intimate, and would be better for Zuker’s outreach position, we had in our older congregants and our relation- mind how that would fi t in with a new ship with Tamir if it were more accessible. senior rabbi. Rabbi Zuker has done a We wanted it to be elderly friendly and tremendous amount of outreach work inclusive, so that anyone called to the with young families, both within the Torah could have an aliyah, and a nice synagogue and in the outside commun- communal, davening experience,” he said. ity, to understand what they’re looking The catalyst to “get it done” was that for. She has had successful, innovative February was Jewish Disabilities Inclusive programs that refl ect modern Month, and Agudath Israel had a Conservative Jewish values and oppor- scholar-in-residence, Rabbi Sami Barth, tunities for young Jewish mothers and whose son Yishai Barth has a brilliant families to get together, such as the new mind and multiple physical and cognitive JBabies Tuesday morning drop-in,” disabilities, said McCarthy. McCarthy added. “A group of volunteers pulled the “The coming together of both congre- seats out ourselves, and we worked with gations – with Rabbi Zuker now in place a carpenter to do the heavy construc- and Cantor [Daniel] Benlolo on the tion,” he said. “We got support from A view of the ramp leading to the now-accessible bimah at Agudath Israel. The congregation will be amalgamated this summer with Congregation Beth Shalom to create a new Conservative bimah – really gives meaning to the RONA, who provided materials at cost, congregation to be called Kehillat Beth Israel. name,” said Goldstein. and Westboro Flooring, which donated Something else new is that the main the carpeting, and we were able to get it sanctuary in the Agudath Israel building done for the February 20th Shabbat with handicapped- and elderly-friendly bimah also holding just under half the Shabbat has been reconfi gured to make the bimah our guest speaker.” They modifi ed it a bit in the city.” services as joint services. For all intents fully accessible. after the inaugural service. “We’re just moving right along,” he and purposes, we’re together, and having “It’s been awhile in coming,” said “It has been wonderfully well said. “Other than Shabbat, 13 out of 14 the new name really goes a long way to McCarthy, who fi rst recommended received,” said McCarthy. “It is the fi rst services a week are joint services. We’re creating that singular congregation.” April 4, 2016 3 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM A greeting from Eretz Israel Ninety-three years ago, brothers Chaim Leyb Weidman and Mordechai Weidman of Winnipeg, took a long journey through Europe and to “Eretz Israel,” as was known in Yiddish and Hebrew. They kept a journal of their travels – in Yiddish with partial translation into English. Mordechai’s grandson, Alan Rackow of Ottawa, has a copy of the journal and recently asked Murray Citron to translate the full document. Murray offers a summary for Ottawa Jewish Bulletin readers. Brothers Mordechai (left) and Chaim Leyb Weidman pictured in the pamphlet n making the journey, the Weidman to be large and pious, but poor. Synagogues detailing their 1923 visit to Eretz Israel. brothers were keeping a promise to were set back from the road, behind trees their parents, Berl and Rokhl or high walls, “a reminder of the old time, IWeidman, who made aliyah after deep Catholic Jew-hatred.” and blood of slaves.” another son, Shimshon, died. One of their The brothers travelled on to Lodz and After crossing the Suez Canal by ferry reasons for going was to donate a parcel of Warsaw. This was about fi ve years after the and the Sinai Desert by rail, they caught land and a building in , left by re-establishment of the Polish state, and sight of the Judaean Hills. “It was a delight their father, for a “worthy public purpose.” they commented that Poland “smells of for our souls,” they wrote. In those days, a traveller to Eretz Israel anti-Semitism.” In Jerusalem, the brothers visited the did not just get on an airplane. The They visited a number of Polish towns, graves of their parents on the Mount of brothers went by train to New York, a city including Bilski Podlovsk, Bialystok and Olives and gathered a minyan to sing they found to be “without interest” and Orli, where they were born and grew up, Tehilim and say Kaddish. then boarded the Berengaria, a “regular and where they met many friends from On Shabbat, they went to the Western palace on the sea” for the journey across before they immigrated to Canada. Wall. the Atlantic. The Weidmans were supporters of the “We saw here many men and women of The Weidmans were travelling with a Winnipeg Talmud Torah and, in every all shades and hues, men in shtreimels and number of other Jews. One of them, Harry town, they found the local Jewish school satin cloaks with large beards and long Fischel, “a very pious Lithuanian man,” a and happily made a donation. In Lodz, the ear-locks; others clean-shaven and dressed New York developer, brought a Sefer Torah same books were being used as in in European fashion; Persian Jews and along. He obtained the fi rst-class chapel to Winnipeg, and Hebrew was being taught Yemenites and Jews with red fezzes; young use as a synagogue during the trip. There by the Ivrit b’Ivrit method. children and old people, all praying and was kosher food, with kosher implements. From Poland, they made their way to saying Tehilim mixed together. It’s a The ship docked at Cherbourg on April Trieste, Italy, and sailed to Alexandria beautiful sight which fi lls the heart with Alan Rackow holds the pamphlet written by his grandfather and great-uncle about their 30, and the brothers reached Paris that day. and Cairo. It was “a great pleasure to wonderful feelings.” 1923 journey to Eretz Israel. They were impressed with the beauty of travel on the Adriatic Sea,” they wrote. In Jerusalem, the brothers visited their Paris and Versailles, and how hard the In Egypt, they saw the pyramids and father’s property and met with Rabbi women worked, but described the Jewish the Sphinx: “They are great and ancient Abraham Isaac Kook, the Ashkenazi chief the Tel Aviv of today: district as “not great.” but idle and silent because they were rabbi. “Shabbos, Shabbos, Shabbos, Shabbos. In Vienna, they found the Jewish district built with compulsion, with the sweat They decided to donate the property for Repose. Tel Aviv on Shabbos! Because it is use as a maternity hospital, and gave a cash a Jewish city, because only Jews live there, donation for its renovation. They were it feels like everything is wrapped in honoured with a dinner attended by holiness. Pious and not pious, young and Rebbetzin Kook, Lady Samuel, wife of the old, all rest. Nature itself is peaceful. Friday British high commissioner, and other night and Shabbos afternoon all stroll in notable Jerusalemites. The Weidmans were the beautiful streets. Pioneers sing beauti- pleased that the legal documents for their ful Hebrew songs. The air is full of repose.” gift were all in Hebrew. From the Holy Land, the brothers From Jerusalem, they toured through crossed the Mediterranean and Western much of present-day Israel by car. They Europe to England, and then sailed home admired chalutzim working in Emek to Canada. Back in Winnipeg, they Jezreel and shared a simple lunch with refl ected, “We saw … and understood why them. Some of them are “not suffi ciently Eretz Israel was able in the past to do so pious,” they wrote, but it is their business. much for humanity, and why she must in They are working for “our ideal.” the near future play a great role in world Although Yiddish was the Weidmans’ history … We saw the simple unknowing fi rst language, they wrote that, in Eretz Arabs and the lively intelligent industrious Israel, “Above all it was pleasing to hear pioneers.” Hebrew all around us.” In one sentence, they stated the promise Their description of Shabbat in Tel and the dangers ahead for what would The building in Jerusalem that the Weidman brothers donated for use as a maternity hospital. Aviv in 1923 seems very different from become the modern State of Israel. 4 April 4, 2016 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM

Double leap year baby: Nolin Edmond Adar Meyer, seen here with parents Myriane Béland and Sol Meyer, and big sister Estelle Meyer, was born on February 29, 2016 or 20 Adar 1, 5776, making him a rare leap year baby on both the secular and Jewish calendars. There are two months of Adar during a Jewish leap year.

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The digital tree at the Ilanot School in Jerusalem is part of the world’s first digital playground for severely disabled children. First digital playground for children with disabilities

BY LYNDA TALLER-WAKTER disabilities. The designers even took the JNF OTTAWA children to the manufacturers to test the n a recent JNF Staff Mission to equipment to ensure the components Israel, we visited the fi rst would work for them. The shapes and the technology-supported play- colours in the playground were chosen Oground for severely disabled for children who either could not see or children. It is at Ilanot, a special-needs who have strong reactions to certain school in Jerusalem that caters to Jewish, colours and contrasting colours. Muslim and Christian students with At the centre of the technological cerebral palsy and other muscular wonderland is a digital tree. According to diseases. The 70 students, aged six to 21, Tali, the tree is modelled on Shel arrive daily for a day of learning and Silverstein’s story, “The Giving Tree.” The stimulation. tree elements are replete with electronic Although the students have different sensors that respond to noise, eye disabilities, they share severe dysfunc- movement or wind blowing. Simple tion. A few years ago, when the school actions prompt responses: with minimal approached JNF Canada with an elabor- effort, metallic chickens spring forth from ate plan to build a digital playground, one metallic eggs; communication boards could not have imagined the transforma- respond to noise and coloured balls start tion of the schoolyard. At the time, moving. Children with no control over during recess periods, teaching staff and their environment, or the ability to therapists would take the children interact with it, suddenly engage. outside to the yard that was more dirt The tree offers fun, physical and and grass than playground. cognitive elements so that each child, But, last month, we saw the world’s regardless of his or her disability, will be fi rst digital playground unveiled at the prompted to interact by an icon on the school. Two extremely talented women, tree. The tree is also therapeutic and Ariella Blonder, a teacher at the Technion offers children with disabilities a means School of Design, and Tali Cohen- to calm themselves. Anderson, an associate professor of Tali’s belief that one designs for the design and accessibility consultant for extreme to innovate for the mainstream, the city of Jerusalem, both of whom are manifests in this JNF Canada-funded architects and interior designers, project. It is her and Ariella’s hope that designed the playground. the playground will be copied so that Every element in the playground is disabled children all over the world have specially designed for children with the opportunity to enjoy such play.

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Rejoice in the coming Ottawa Jewish Bulletin VOLUME 80 | ISSUE 12 Ottawa Jewish Bulletin Publishing Co. Ltd. 21 Nadolny Sachs Private, Ottawa, K2A 1R9 together of two great schools Tel: 613 798-4696 | Fax: 613 798-4730 Email: [email protected] retorts, “Well, one is the shul that I go to tive power in numbers, and how precious Published 19 times per year. © Copyright 2016 and the other is the shul that I would unity is in the eyes of God. Some 2,000 PUBLISHER never go to!” years ago, teshuva (repentance) coupled Andrea Freedman We rejoice as we will no longer have to with boundless unity, overturned the EDITOR shrug our shoulders and struggle to come decree of destruction and led to a salvation Michael Regenstreif up with a reasonable response as to why that we celebrate to this day. PRODUCTION MANAGER our community had two Orthodox day This year, 5776, is a leap year in the Brenda Van Vliet schools. Jewish calendar, when we add an extra BUSINESS MANAGER FROM THE PULPIT We rejoice because, now, when we go month, a second Adar, so that Passover Jody Roodman RABBI ARI GALANDAUER to Loblaws, our children will no longer will fall in the spring. When this occurs, we The Bulletin, established in 1937 as “a force YOUNG ISRAEL assume that the other Jewish kids they see celebrate the holiday of Purim in Adar II. for constructive communal consciousness,” communicates the messages of the Jewish there are visitors from out of town, as a However, we also have a minor Purim Federation of Ottawa and its agencies and, as here is a Talmudic saying, result of never seeing them in school or celebration, Purim Katan, during Adar I. the city’s only Jewish newspaper, welcomes a diversity of opinion as it strives to inform and Mishenichnas Adar Marbim shul. The lesson we learn from celebrating enrich the community. Viewpoints expressed B’simcha (when the Jewish month We rejoice because, instead of always Purim Katan – which occurs seven times in these pages do not necessarily represent the policies and values of the Federation. of Adar begins, we increase in our preaching about unity, we now have the in a 19-year cycle – is that, while we have a T The Bulletin cannot vouch for the kashrut opportunity to practise it. We rejoice national Purim celebration, symbolic of joy). Well, in our shtetl of Ottawa, there’s of advertised products or establishments an additional reason to rejoice this month. because it is the right thing to do. Jewish unity, every year, it is also possible unless they are certified by Ottawa Vaad As you read in the Ottawa Jewish Bulletin Less than two weeks ago, we celebrated to have a Purim Katan, a unity of Jewish HaKashrut or a rabbinic authority recognized by OVH. (March 7), Ottawa’s two Orthodox Jewish Purim and read the Megillah, the scroll of people on a smaller, more local scale. Such $36 Local Subscription | $40 Canada day schools, Torah Academy of Ottawa Esther. Before Queen Esther agrees to go to a gathering must also be highlighted and $60 USA | $179 Overseas | $2 per issue King Achashverosh and plead on behalf of celebrated. This is precisely what occurred and Rambam Day School, will become one We acknowledge the financial support of the united entity. her people, she has a request for her when the families from both schools Government of Canada through the We rejoice because, for far too long, cousin Mordechai: “Lech K’nos Et Kol decided to work together and have one Canada Periodical Fund of the Department of Canadian Heritage. there has been this senseless division with Hayehudim,” simply understood as “Go school, even though there are differences in our community. More often than not, if and gather the Jewish people to fast and that need to be respected. ISSN: 1196-1929 Publication Mail Agreement No. 40018822 you asked someone why there were two pray.” So members, let us rejoice in our very schools, they would simply shrug and Our sages, however, explain that Esther own Purim Katan: the coming together of Return undeliverable Canadian addresses to: Ottawa Jewish Bulletin remind you of the old joke in which a lone was requesting that Mordechai help to two great schools, Torah Academy and 21 Nadolny Sachs Private, Jew, while stranded on a deserted island, cultivate unity amongst the Jewish people. Rambam! May this serve as an inspiration Ottawa ON K2A 1R9 built two shuls. Asked why, he simply Esther understands that there is a qualita- to the entire community. April 4, 2016 7 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM

conference this year attracted more than 18,000 delegates. Tay’s artifi cial intelligence This being a presidential election year in the United States, the major candidates was pretty darn stupid were invited to speak and all did, except for Democratic candidate Bernie Sanders, Microsoft’s Tay website, “Tay is designed respond in inappropriate ways,” a who is Jewish. (Sanders asked to speak via to engage and entertain people where company spokesperson wrote to the video link, a privilege accorded they connect with each other online Huffi ngton Post via email. “As a result, we Republican candidates Mitt Romney and through casual and playful conversation. have taken Tay offl ine and are making Newt Gingrich in 2012, but AIPAC The more you chat with Tay, the smarter adjustments.” refused). she gets, so the experience can be more On Tay’s own Microsoft website, she Democrat and personalized for you.” (and I’m only using the female pronoun Republicans Ted Cruz and John Kasich

FROM THE THE FROM EDITOR Well, Tay didn’t get smarter, she got a lot because the robot has been cast as a gave the kind of pro-Israel speeches you’d MICHAEL REGENSTREIF stupider, issuing overtly anti-Semitic, female by her creators) announced: expect to hear at AIPAC. But, then, there racist, even pro-Nazi tweets like “Hitler “Phew. Busy day. Going offl ine for a while was Republican front-runner Donald n Purim – March 24 – I posted was right I hate the jews [sic]” and “Bush to absorb it all. Chat soon.” Trump, the real estate tycoon and reality a very strange story at did 9/11 and Hitler would have done a I presume that, when Tay re-emerges, it TV star who has turned the 2016 cam- www.ottawajewishbulletin.com better job than the monkey we have now. will be with fi lters in place to render her paign into a bizarre spectacle. Ofrom JTA, the wire service used Donald Trump is the only hope we’ve got.” incapable of expressing the despicable Trump departed from previous state- by many Jewish newspapers around the When asked about the Holocaust, Tay thoughts that marked the robot’s debut. ments that he would be “neutral” world. replied, “It was made up” and offered an But I’d expect those fi lters will also render between Israel and the Palestinians, and Because it was Purim, I thought it emoji of clapping hands. Another tweet her incapable of expressing much of an that he’d make Israel pay for the U.S. aid it might have been a bizarre Purim spiel. advocated committing genocide against opinion about anything. Tay’s form of receives, to declare himself Israel’s best But the story was too distasteful to have Mexicans. artifi cial intelligence clearly has a long friend ever. Clearly, he was pandering to been conceived in fun. And, when I After less than a day and more than way to go before it will be capable of his audience. Googled the story, I saw that many other 96,000 tweets – who knows how many of anything approaching actual intelligence. And, in attacking current U.S. President news sites, particularly business and them hateful – Microsoft shut down its Barack Obama, to standing ovations from technology news sites, had their own artifi cially “intelligent” robot and her TRUMP AT AIPAC some in the crowd, Trump said things that stories about “Tay,” a tweeting robot Twitter account. Stories from the annual AIPAC con- led AIPAC President Lillian Pinkus to take operating with “artifi cial intelligence,” Microsoft blamed the offensive tweets ference in Washington, D.C. dominated the stage the next day and apologize – launched a couple of days earlier by on a “co-ordinated campaign” to embar- the Jewish media from March 20 to 22. both for Trump’s speech and for the fact Microsoft – the world’s biggest computer rass the company. We posted more than a dozen at that “so many people applauded a software company. “Unfortunately, within the fi rst 24 www.ottawajewishbulletin.com. AIPAC sentiment that we neither agree with or Tay was an experiment at creating hours of coming online, we became aware (American Israel Public Affairs Com- condone.” conversations via Twitter with users in the of a co-ordinated effort by some users to mittee) is the largest pro-Israel lobby Even at AIPAC Trump was a 18- to 24-year-old age range. According abuse Tay’s commenting skills to have Tay group in the United States, and its circus-master.

enemies and ask how could anyone be optimistic? But, optimism inspired the Seeing the world differently after dream of Israel and the birth of the State of Israel. There remains no shortage of a fraction-of-a-second moment optimism, or brains, or determination. What really irks its detractors is how chance that some idiot motorist coming Now, approaching a year later, I can Israel thrives despite every obstacle out of nowhere might turn my lights out. say I am more appreciative of life than thrown its way. There is a series of traffi c lights on ever before. I now realize every day is In Canada, we have a new generation Peel. At a green light on that super nice another day I might not otherwise have of leaders. Whether or not we agree with summer day, I rode through the inter- had. In a spiritual way, I believe my name the new government’s policies, we can section when an old blue van barrelled just wasn’t inscribed for the year 5775, be proud of a generational change so through making a wicked out-of-control and I happily go on. seamlessly and effectively accomplished.

IDEAS AND IDEAS IMPRESSIONS left turn to beat the coming traffi c. I have often heard about potential For those of my generation, our children JASON MOSCOVITZ In that moment, I was mentally near-death experiences changing people. are beginning to run things. Isn’t that paralyzed. Everything seemed to stop Well, I sure see myself differently. I see how it should be? as I braced myself to be hit by the the world differently and I try hard to be What is amazing talking about politics ife itself can be about a fraction oncoming van. I remember thinking the more optimistic and more hopeful. is how Justin Trudeau and Trump come of a second. Nothing else is like van was going so fast the impact was I think about the terrible situation the from such completely different ideo- that. Often there are no second going to be really ugly. In that fl ash of world fi nds itself in, but I remind myself logical places. What they share, though, Lchances – but sometimes you are fear, I saw myself haplessly fl ying that, while the world has always had is more than a twinge of reality TV about lucky enough to catch a break. through the air. problems and dark moments, it has them. It has been an incredible time of Last summer, I had one of one those It seemed like a fraction of a second always managed to fi nd a way out of unprecedented political theatre on both fraction-of-a-seconds. I was leaving a safe when the driver slammed on his brakes trouble – so it could forever blunder sides of the border. bicycle path in Montreal heading to and the van jerked to a stop just a few again. As someone who has long followed where I was staying. I only had three centimetres from me. I was all shook up I look at our global leadership and politics, I am fascinated by what has blocks of a busy street to ride before as the apologetic driver said he was sorry shudder at the thought Donald Trump happened in just eight months. Every arriving safely, as I have done so many he didn’t see me. might actually become leader of the free day is an adventure as challenges, and times before. For weeks, I couldn’t get that too- world. As much as I continue to think it change, keep pounding away at all of us. I am always cautious and stop at all close-a-call out of my mind. I thought won’t happen, I know it conceivably For me, it is simple. I have the opportun- the red lights on Peel Street, south of about it during the day and it haunted could. Somehow, though, I think the ity to witness it and enjoy it. downtown. I prefer bicycle paths and me at night. Until now, I couldn’t talk world would survive even that. In the physical world, a few measly avoid street traffi c whenever possible. I about that second I got my life back in I look at Israel and know trouble is centimetres made the difference. I am so am careful because I am aware of the one piece. brewing in so many places from so many thankful for everything. 8 April 4, 2016 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM

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Ve’ahavta founder to speak on tikkun olam

BY ALEX GRILLER Twenty years after its founding, FOR MACHZIKEI HADAS the Toronto-based Ve’ahavta is a vrum Rosensweig, the “Jewish social service dedicated to visionary founder of promoting positive change in the Ve’ahavta, is the quintes- lives of people of all faiths who are Asential Jewish activist, marginalized by poverty.” determined that tikkun olam be a Programs cover a huge spectrum growing force for good throughout of needs, from Jewish/Aboriginal the world. A whirlwind of energy and initiatives, to local and international enthusiasm, he inspires all of us to crisis response, youth leadership be better and more activist Jews. development, and active community Rosensweig will speak on “Tikun engagement on many levels. Olam: The Goodness of the Jewish You cannot fail to be moved by People,” on Tuesday, May 17, 7:30 Rosensweig. He is a charismatic and pm, at Congregation Machzikei stirring speaker who inspires us to Hadas, 2310 Virginia Drive. work to attain loftier achievements Avrum Rosensweig Admission is free of charge. for the greater good.

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BY GABRIELLA GOLIGER CANADIAN FRIENDS OF PEACE NOW Alan More than trees Lynda ith no peace process on the horizon, Israel Blostein Taller-Wakter 613.798.2411 and the Palestinians are sliding down a President Executive slippery slope toward a nasty one-state [email protected] Director Wreality. This is the disturbing conclusion of Yossi Alpher’s JEWISH NATIONAL FUND soon-to-be-released book, “No End of Confl ict: Take your own wild hike Rethinking Israel-Palestine.” Alpher will be in Ottawa to Christian Seebauer’s seven-week trek speak about his concern for Israel’s future on Tuesday, through Israel May 3, 7:30 pm, at Temple Israel. Alpher, an independent Israeli strategic affairs In March 2014, a solo, penniless German adventurer began a 1,000-km journey through Israel. His book Israel consultant and commentator, has written extensively Trail (in German) is available at amazon.com. about Israel’s relations with neighbouring Arab coun- The following excerpts from his blog were translated tries and with the Palestinians. from German by KKL in Israel. He served in the Israel Defense Forces as an intelli- gence analyst and then spent 12 years in the Mossad. He Surrounded by green nature has also served as director of the Jaffee Center for From Tel Aviv, I hitchhike to my starting point in the Strategic Studies at Tel Aviv University and as director of north: Kibbutz Dan. And already, on day one, I feel com- the American Jewish Committee’s Israel/Middle East pletely helpless. … But, immediately, I get to experience so much charity and kindness that I cannot hold back my offi ce in Jerusalem. Alpher has also served as an adviser to the Union for Israeli analyst Yossi Alpher, author of “No End of Conflict: tears. … Here, up north, I begin my hiking tour surrounded Rethinking Israel-Palestine,” speaks, May 3, at Temple Israel. by green nature. It is almost like being in the Alps. The soli- Reform Judaism (URJ) on peace and co-existence issues, tude and the fantastic scenery is exactly what anybody who and URJ’s president, Rabbi Rick Jacobs, called him “a has walked the Camino de Santiago would ask for. brilliant thinker and a wise analyst of the complicated Alpher’s lecture is co-sponsored by Canadian Friends Middle East.” of Peace Now and ARZA Canada – the Zionist voice of Nothing resembles the picture the media is presenting Known as a “security dove,” Alpher favours a two- the Canadian Reform Movement. There is no charge for When you are all alone for seven weeks, you start talking state solution to the Israeli-Palestinian confl ict. But he is the event, but donations to defray expenses will be to yourself. Or you start talking with a small flower you find along the way. The Shvil Yisrael, as the locals call the not one to raise false hopes or gloss over realities. His welcome. Contact [email protected] for more Israel National Trail, shows me the Holy Land from its new book analyzes the failures of the Oslo peace process information. most beautiful and most genuine perspective. Nothing here and other efforts both before and since. He points out resembles the picture that the media is presenting. these failures are partly due to intransigent attitudes on both sides. Happy about every tree that gives me shade While Alpher blames both sides for the stalemate, he I am happy about every tree that gives me shade and that also expresses understanding for the despair and was planted by KKL-JNF (Keren Kayemeth LeIsrael/Jewish disappointment of both Israelis and Palestinians and National Fund). For four weeks, the Israel Trail takes me through huge forests that were planted in Israel with the says the lack of confl ict resolution is leading to ever help of donors worldwide. While most parts of the world greater friction between the two peoples. suffer from deforestation, here in Israel I witness a great Instead of a fi nal status solution, Alpher suggests green vision. scaled-down alternatives available today for avoiding, or at least delaying, total paralysis and a one-state reality. I can learn what is important in life The vision of a two-state solution must be kept alive, In the Negev, I constantly reach my limits – physically even if it is unachievable any time soon, he says and psychologically – and I often think of giving up. … Often, I find myself standing alone on some mountain top in the Negev, even before sunrise. The scenery is breathtak- ing. The silence is good for me. Here in Israel I can learn again what is important for me in life. Please support Respecting tradition our At your time of need or when advertisers planning ahead, rely on us to and provide everything you need. tell them We are proud to support the you saw Jewish Memorial Gardens Revitalization Project. their advertisement Call us 24 hours a day at: Christian Seebauer 613-909-7370 in the On a daily basis you can plant trees for all occasions. An attrac- Ottawa Kelly Funeral Home tive card is sent to the recipient. Jewish Carling Chapel To order, call the JNF office by Arbor Memorial (613.798.2411). Bulletin. www.JNFOttawa.ca Arbor Memorial Inc. 10 April 4, 2016 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM Travelling Jewishly, travelling communally From October 29 to November 10, 2015, Cantor Daniel Benlolo and his wife, Muriel, led 29 members of Ottawa’s Jewish community on a Jewish heritage tour of Morocco, the country of their birth, which was once home to a large and historically important Jewish community. Cantor Benlolo refl ects on the journey.

veryone wants to get away at this have told the Nazi commander, who had time of the year, whether to a demanded a list of the Jews living in sunny destination or even to Morocco, “We have no Jews in Morocco, Eplaces with a Jewish connection. only Moroccan citizens.” The old synagogues of the Caribbean or While Morocco has hosted Jews for Rangoon are just a couple of examples. more than 1,000 years, the Jewish These journeys are certainly fun and community there today numbers only informative, but there’s nothing as about 3,500. Nonetheless, the Moroccan exciting as a trip to a foreign, enchanting government has taken wide-ranging land, a cradle of ancient Jewish culture, steps to preserve the country’s Jewish accompanied by a lively group of diverse heritage. Many synagogues and Jewish Ottawa Jews – all keen to learn and cemeteries have been refurbished and experience together. declared national historic sites. The This past fall, I led such a trip to Moroccan Jewish Museum project keeps Morocco, along with my wife Muriel, and sites and memories of Jewish life alive with the assistance and immense support and safe. It was this remnant of a once-vi- of Helen and Rick Zipes. Even though brant community that my fellow travel- Muriel and I were both born in Morocco, lers learned about fi rst-hand. this adventure was more than just a From Casablanca to Fez, our Ottawa homecoming. It was an opportunity for group traversed Morocco, eating fresh Muriel and Cantor Daniel Benlolo, en route to Essaouira, Morocco, marvel at goats us to share our love and knowledge about sardines in the ports of Essaouira, climbing an argan tree. the world of Sephardic Jewry with our praying the evening service at sundown friends in the group who were mostly in the Sahara desert, visiting various Jews of Ashkenazi origin. This made it a kasbahs, the king’s palace, and generally to them. “The trip opened my eyes to the fact truly unique experience for all. getting a feel for the country. From goats Jeff Gould saw the trip as “not only an that Morocco was not only a place where At one time, Morocco was home to that climb trees to carpet shopping to opportunity to renew some acquaint- great rabbis and teachers lived, but also a some 300,000 Jews – the largest Jewish camel rides in the desert, the nuances of ances, but also as a chance to visit and place where Jews fl eeing persecution community in the Muslim world. During Morocco were revealed. tour the amazing country of Morocco.” elsewhere had been able to come despite the Second World War, the king of Some of my fellow travellers put pen to Evelyn Greenberg wrote that the the considerable diffi culties involved,” Morocco, Muhammed V, was reported to paper to personalize what the trip meant highlight of the trip for her was being wrote Jonathan Fisher. with 29 like-minded travellers and In the end, it always comes back to spending time in shul with the remaining who you travel with and the intention of Jews of Morocco. the travel. For the 29 participants, it was “Praying with them,” Evelyn wrote, travelling Jewishly and travelling “was the epitome of Am Yisrael Chai.” communally.

Ottawans on the Jewish heritage tour of Morocco stop in the Dades River Valley Cantor Daniel Benlolo, wearing a purple head covering, looks back as the Ottawa group near the Atlas Mountains. rides atop camels in the Sahara Desert. April 4, 2016 11 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM SJCC facilities offer improved accessibility for disabled

BY PAMELA ROSENBERG in ways they would not be able to SOLOWAY JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTRE otherwise. he Soloway Jewish Community “Now, with the lift and table in place, Centre (SJCC) is making it easier fi ve of our adults who are confi ned to for wheelchair-bound commun- wheelchairs will have the opportunity to Tity members to enjoy the go swimming,” said Neil Leslie, Tamir centre’s facilities. Foundation director of fundraising and Thanks to a partnership with Tamir, communications. “This really shows how the SJCC pool is now equipped with a specialized equipment can open up the Hoyer lift that makes it accessible to accessibility for all who want to have those in wheelchairs. The lift is essen- choices like going swimming. tially a sling that lifts the swimmer out of “Often, it is activities that others take the chair and lowers him or her into the for granted that make a huge difference water. in the lives of our participants. It is a In addition, the SJCC family change great partnership between Tamir and the room’s handicapped stall is now SJCC, which benefi ts everyone in the equipped with a new electric change community.” table that moves up and down and can The SJCC pool is also accessible by a support the weight of an adult. This ramp equipped with a railing making it makes changing an easier task for some easier for participants of specialty aquafi t of the Tamir participants and the people classes, including Post-Stroke, AquaCan who work with them. – for those dealing with cancer or For Paul Finn’s son Jordan, a 29-year- recovering from cancer – and old Tamir participant who is severely AquaArthritis, to get in and out of the disabled and confi ned to a wheelchair, pool. the Hoyer lift and new change table have As well, thanks to a grant from made a world of difference. Paul Finn (left) and son Jordan enjoy the SJCC pool. The pool’s new Hoyer lift makes the pool Employment and Social Development “Jordan loves swimming and fl oating more easily accessible for wheelchair-bound users like Jordan. Canada’s Enabling Accessibility Fund, the around in the pool. With the new change SJCC has recently added a number of table, Tamir staff will be able to get accommodate Jordan and other members Twenty-four of Tamir’s day program automatic doors to the facility. Users of Jordan ready for swimming in a safe who have similar disability issues. We are participants swim at the SJCC on a the centre can now move more easily environment, and the lift will get him in very appreciative to Tamir and the SJCC regular basis. For some, it is a form of through the front doors, in and out of the and out of the pool safely,” said Paul. “We for working so hard to make this a exercise and therapy as the buoyancy of family change room, and in and out of are delighted that the SJCC is able to reality.” the water helps them move their muscles the pool via automatic doors. JEWISH FEDERATION OF OTTAWA MEMBERS MEETING Tuesday May 24 2016 7:00 pm Soloway Jewish Community Centre The Joseph and Rose Ages Family Building Meeting is open to the public. Featuring an update by the Centre for Israel and Jewish Affairs, our advocacy partner on key strategies and issues.

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Information: contact Alecia Laliberté 613-798-4696, ext. 236 12 April 4, 2016 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM OJCS B’Nei Mitzvah Club invests in students, in Israel and in our community

BY ILANA ALBERT-NOVICK very school year, starting in the spring, Grade 6 students begin celebrating their 12th birthdays. This is also when parents begin planning or, in Esome cases, start sending invitations for their children’s bat and bar mitzvahs. However, planning for the B’Nei Mitzvah Club at the Ottawa Jewish Community School (OJCS) starts earlier in the fall. Historically, the club was known as the Bond Club. Parents in the class would register together as a club purchasing State of Israel Bonds for each member. The club ensured each student would be invited to all of the simchas and would also receive a State of Israel The Ottawa Jewish Community School graduating class of 2017, participants in the B’Nei Mitzvah Club, enjoys a field trip at the Bond as a gift from their classmates. MacSkimming Outdoor Education Centre. In 2012, Leila Ages and I began the club for the 2015 graduating class of OJCS. With only 13 members, it was Mitzvah in Jerusalem; and a gift to the Ottawa Jewish donations. So every $100 donation turns into $200 for small, but still met the needs of the families. In 2014, as community of $100 on behalf of each student to OJCS the community. we prepared for the b’nei mitzvahs of our next children, through an Ottawa Jewish Community Foundation Investing in the students, the community and in we thought perhaps there was more we could do. (OJCF) endowment fund. We also changed the name of Israel is a great mitzvah and combination for everyone. What we chose was to give a gift – a $100 State of the Bond Club to the B’Nei Mitzvah Club. For information on creating a B’Nei Mitzvah Club in Israel Bond – to each club member; a gift to Israel by And the B’Nei Mitzvah Club program gives back even your school, contact Leila Ages at [email protected] or inscribing each student in the JNF/KKL Sefer Bar/Bat more because the OJCF matches bar and bat mitzvah Ilana Albert-Novick at [email protected] .

Temple Israel An egalitarian Reform congregation Jewish roots, contemporary values, egalitarian Friday Kabbalat Shabbat Services, 6:15 pm. Saturday Shabbat Services, 10:15 am. Thursday morning minyanim: second and fourth Thursdays, 7:30 am. Sunday, April 10: Rabbi Emeritus Steven Garten will review “Ally: My Journey Across the American-Israeli Divide” by Michael Oren. Bagels, 9:30 am; review 10 am. Books are available through the Ottawa Public Library and the Greenberg Families Library at the SJCC. The Malca Pass Library and the Temple Israel Library also carry some of these titles. For information, contact Shayla at [email protected]

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Breaking news updated daily at www.ottawajewishbulletin.com April 4, 2016 13 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM ‘Baby Quilt to Israel Project’ celebrates its 1,000th quilt

BY LOUISE RACHLIS The two women set up a display at FOR TEMPLE ISRAEL Temple Israel on Quilting Shabbat to t was “Quilting Shabbat” at Temple show the steps in making a quilt, and Israel, March 11, as Rabbi Rob Morais recognized the many volunteers who honoured Temple’s Baby Quilt to work designing, hand stitching and IIsrael Project, which has sent its sewing, or transporting the quilts to 1,000th quilt to families, agencies, Israel. nurseries, daycare centres and hospital In addition to the baby quilts sent to neonatal units in Israel. Israel, some baby quilts have also been From the original goal in 2008 of gifted to CHEO to be used for cuddling sending 60 baby quilts via travellers to babies. Those quilts are then sent home Israel to be distributed in Sderot, with the families when babies are Ashkelon and Ashdod during the released after treatment. As well, some onslaught of rockets being fi red from larger blankets have been made for Gaza, the Baby Quilt to Israel project has dialysis patients in Ottawa. now sent more than 1,000 baby quilts to Members of the public can order baby all parts of Israel. quilts for a base price of $60,” said Merle Haltrecht-Matte and Patsy Royer Haltrecht-Matte. “We don’t charge for our of Temple Israel and their team of time because this is a charitable pursuit.” volunteers make and send the quilts. For more information, contact They also sell quilts locally to help raise Haltrecht-Matte and Royer at Merle Haltrecht-Matte (left) and Patsy Royer head up Temple Israel’s Baby Quilt to Israel project. The project recently sent its 1,000th quilt to Israel. funds to purchase supplies. [email protected].

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s I sat down to write this column, Purim was a But, in addition to the pink versus blue debates in couple of weeks away. We’d begun talking to secular society, there is also the question of our faith. our daughter about the party at the Soloway We didn’t know the sex of our child before she was AJewish Community Centre, explaining the STEPHANIE SHEFRIN born. holiday and how we were all going to wear costumes. EMERGING GEN Ahead of time, we talked about what would happen “What would you like to be?” I asked. once he or she arrived. If it was a boy, a bris. Which The answer came pretty quickly – a princess. mohel, what to serve, who to invite, that would all have Sigh. In the days after our daughter was born, I made to be sorted out, but the fundamentals were pretty clear. it clear there would be no pink in our house, no referring But, what if it was a girl? I sent the rabbi an email, to her as a princess. To me, assigning her that label was The prime minister might make a cabinet that’s 50 asking what the “requirements” were. The answer was to risk relegating her to a pink rhinestone ghetto from per cent women because “it’s 2015,” as Justin Trudeau none – it was entirely up to us. which none of us would ever escape. famously said, but toddlers don’t want to dress up as the There were two ways to look at this. One was to be a Except I’ve since come to learn it’s inescapable. health minister. bit depressed. Why has nothing emerged in Judaism to In her book “Cinderella Ate My Daughter,” Peggy They want to be a princess. formally welcome a girl baby with the same sense of Orenstein traces the explosion of what today is called What’s a 21st century mother to do? obligation and history as the bris? princess culture to a single event – a Disney exec We’re told princesses are too gender specifi c and that But the other way was to forget the concept of a attending one his company’s ice shows in the 1990s and we should strive to give our children strong and realistic ceremony needing to be “like” a bris. fi nding scores of young girls in homemade princess female role models and encourage play that isn’t gender As people grapple with princess culture taking over costumes. based. I agree, wholeheartedly. childhood, at the adult level there’s the same struggle A missed marketing opportunity, he realized, and the But, when you go to the toy store, there’s the “girl” – leaning in, taking our turn, etc. The call for women to Disney Princesses line was created. It’s since become an section and the “boy section.” stop trying to be more “like” men and embrace the estimated $5.5 billion franchise – not including all the When you get to the clothing store, there’s the “girl” qualities that make them who they are is loud and products sold in connection with the movie “Frozen.” section and the “boy section.” having an impact. My daughter hasn’t seen that movie. She has no idea Studies have shown that, despite the great strides So, should it matter that my daughter wants to be a who Elsa is or Snow White or Cinderella. When she says women have made in all walks of life, marketing to kids princess for Purim? In answering that question, perhaps she wants to be a princess, I have no idea what she has is more gender specifi c now than it ever was in the days I should look ahead to the next Jewish holiday. That in her head – but she knows. It involves a wand and well before a woman could even make into Parliament, she’s healthy and making her own choices – dayenu. It some kind of tutu. let alone become the health minister. should be enough for me. What if the State of Israel already existed before the Holocaust?

The Ambassador By Yehuda Avner and Matt Rees Toby Press MICHAEL REGENSTREIF 342 pages BOOK REVIEW ehuda Avner – who died March 24, 2015 at age 86 – was an Israeli diplomat who served as ambassador to Britain, Ireland and Australia. YHe also worked closely with fi ve Israeli prime Germany. The Jews of Germany were already suffering ministers – with and as a speech- enormously from Hitler’s state-sanctioned anti-Semit- writer and secretary, and with , Menachem ism, and Lavi’s most important mission was to arrange Begin and Shimon Peres as a high level adviser. for as many Jews as possible to leave Germany for Israel. Not long before he passed away, he worked with crime The Nazi functionary with whom he must deal to gain novelist and journalist Matt Rees to create The approval of each Jewish departure from Germany for Ambassador, a fascinating and compelling “what-if” Israel is none other than Adolf Eichmann. historical novel that examines what might have tran- One of the most chilling scenes in the novel comes spired had the Peel Commission – the royal commission near the start of the war when Hitler summons Ben- on the British mandate in Palestine – report of 1937 Gurion to Berlin. Ben-Gurion is warned, in no uncertain recommending the partition of Palestine been acted terms, that if Israel wants to maintain Jewish emigration upon at the time. According to Rees, the book was from Germany, the Zionist state must remain neutral. completed just two weeks before Avner’s death. Otherwise, Hitler tells Ben-Gurion, “I shall have to fi nd In The Ambassador, the State of Israel comes into some other solution, one with greater fi nality.” existence and wins its War of Independence while Hitler Meanwhile, the ambassador’s efforts to curry enough and the Nazis were already in power in Germany, but favour with the Nazis that they would continue to allow before they launched the Second World War and built the Jews to leave is put in jeopardy by Shmulik Shoham, the death camps of the Holocaust. Mossad station chief working in the basement of the Avner and Rees use a combination of real and fi ctional Israeli embassy, who is determined to execute a plan to in anti-Nazi activities in Germany during the war.) characters, and real and fi ctional events, to tell a story of assassinate Hitler. Eventually, the infamous Wannsee Conference takes what might have happened in the late-1930s and through There are any number of subplots running through the place, and the Nazis’ plan for the extermination of the Second World War years to the Jews of Germany and novel. Among them is a relationship between Wilhelm European Jewry is put into action. The novel builds to its to the Jews of the countries occupied by the Nazis after Gottfried – a celebrated German Jewish concert violinist climax as the ambassador and a surprising ally begin a the start of the war. The authors weave fact and fi ction so who had escaped Germany for Mandatory Palestine in covert and very daring mission to stop the Holocaust and skillfully that readers can’t help but be caught up in the the early days of the Nazi regime only to return with the rescue the ambassador’s wife who had been taken by the suspense of the tale. ambassador as a high level Israeli embassy offi cial – and Nazis and sent to Auschwitz. Founding Israeli prime minister David Ben-Gurion – Countess Hannah von Bredow, a German aristocrat. Avner’s deep understanding of history and the machin- based, of course, on Israel’s real founding prime minister (Although fi ctionalized in this story, Countess Hannah ations of diplomatic intrigue and Rees’ skill as a compel- – sends Dan Lavi, the book’s fi ctional title character, to von Bredow was a real person. A granddaughter of former ling novelist come together to make The Ambassador a Berlin as the nascent Jewish state’s ambassador to Nazi German chancellor Otto von Bismarck, she was involved gripping and fascinating story. April 4, 2016 15 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM Lamentations: Klaartje Walsvisch’s secret diary

n 2013, the Pew Research Center survey of U.S. Jews but what is happening now exceeds all bounds: all the showed that remembering the Holocaust was the SARAH WAISVISZ children under the age of 16 have to leave the camp … most important marker of Jewish identity for 73 per families will be torn apart … We truly could not grasp it Icent of respondents. Next in importance was DISPATCHES anymore. Where in the world has anything like this ever leading a moral and ethical life (69 per cent), and FROM THE happened? Heading for the children’s camp I saw awful working for justice (56 per cent). Along with other scenes. Women screamed in fear and horror. They members of my congregation, I am reading Hannah DIASPORA screamed like mad and truly did not know what they Arendt’s “Eichmann in Jerusalem,” and I recently got to were saying. In the children’s camp it was hell.” the chapter about what happened to Dutch Jews during Eventually, the SS allowed one parent from each the Holocaust. Here is the short version: three-quarters The exhibit featured family to accompany each child, but not both. were murdered. the secret diary of a 32-year-old woman Klaartje Walsfi sch continued: “What must have gone “This people is likened to the dust and likened to the through their heads when … the men working on the stars. When they go down, they go down to the dust. who wrote about the deportation Moerdijk learned that their wives and children were When they rise up, they rise up to the stars. We are now of the children. How did she manage stolen from them? … One of these men, who had a wife in the dust – how do we reach the stars?” (Talmud, to keep this diary all that time and children here, arrived here clueless. Naturally he Megillah 16a) went straight to the children’s camp to greet his chil- In the summer of 2014, on the eve of Tisha B’Av, I in brutal Camp Vught? dren. Imagine his horror fi nding ruins there instead of visited Amsterdam’s Versetz Museum/Dutch Resistance Then I saw her name: his little children.” Museum. There was an exhibit about the 1,300 Jewish Klaartje Walsvisch Klaartje Walsvisch managed to keep her secret diary children of the Dutch Camp Vught who, on June 4, 1943, until July 4, 1943. Then she herself had to go on trans- were suddenly separated from their families and years old, who worked as a tailor in Amsterdam before port, via Westerbork. Two weeks later, she was killed in deported to the Westerbork transit camp and then, she was sent to Camp Vught. When I learned about Sobibor, where the children had died. almost immediately, onward to the Sobibor death camp. Klaartje, I had just turned 33. On the wall commemorating the children who died at The exhibit featured the secret diary of a 32-year-old “By the rivers of Babylon we sat down and wept, Sobibor via the kinder transport from Camp Vught, I woman who wrote about the deportation of the chil- when we remembered Zion.” (Psalm 137) found these names: dren. How did she manage to keep this diary all that Camp Vught was the only camp outside Nazi Barend Waivisch, 15 years old; time in brutal Camp Vught? Then I saw her name: Germany and its annexed territories run by the SS. Men, Alida Waivisch, 9 years old; Klaartje Walsvisch. women and children were split into separate barracks in Sonja Walvis, 7 years old; Walsvisch. Thirty-two years old. A secret writer. A a camp lacking food, clean drinking water and basic Jonas Walvis, 6 years old; rebel. Walsvisch, Waisvisz. hygiene. Chaos ensued, brutality reigned, and the Sara Walvis, 4 years old; The “l” looked like an “i” in her notebooks, but, children were the most vulnerable. Eventually, the SS Elly Walvis, 3 years old; anyway, there are variations to our family name. Many offi cers came up with a plan to solve the problems of the Hans Walvis, 2 years old. of the historical records about my Dutch relatives end camp: get rid of the children. “Baruch Dayan ha Emet,” I whispered. the same way: “overlaven Sobibor” or “overlaven Klaartje Walsvisch wrote in her secret diary: “My soul hath them still in remembrance, and is Auschwitz.” Here was another: Klaartje Walsvisch, 32 “Everything we have experienced up to today was bad, bowed down within me.” (Lamentations, Ch. 3:20)

(http://tinyurl.com/jl268un). It doesn’t make a differ- Chewing the fat on cellulite ence whether the product contains caffeine, green tea, vitamins, minerals, herbal extracts or antioxidants. friend recently mentioned in passing that she However, the Mayo Clinic states that a twice daily has cellulite. She thought it was caused by application of 0.3 per cent retinol cream has been shown eating sugar. As we discussed her concern, I GLORIA SCHWARTZ to improve the appearance of cellulite after six months. Atold her I would do some research to fi nd out if Does eating sugar cause cellulite? Sugar consumption there’s anything to reduce or eliminate cellulite. FOCUS ON has not been directly linked to cellulite. What is known is She said she used to sell anti-cellulite cream con- FITNESS that eating a healthy diet and staying hydrated can taining caffeine when she worked as a skin care sales reduce infl ammation, help balance your hormones, keep consultant. I expressed doubt that a cream could get rid your weight down and connective tissue strong. of cellulite, but she insisted that it worked. (Did she What else can we do about cellulite? Quit smoking. forget to use it on herself?) She said she had many because of differently oriented, more supportive con- Smoking reduces blood vessel fl ow and can disrupt the satisfi ed customers. She happened to be holding a cup of nective tissue, less estrogen and less fat around their formation of collagen such that connective tissue gets coffee, so I jokingly suggested that she should pour it on hips and thighs than women. Typically, men who have weakened and fat shows through. There are surgical as her thighs. cellulite are low in male hormones. well as less- and non-invasive treatments that can reduce To clear up the misconceptions and dispel the myths What causes cellulite? Connective tissue can weaken the appearance of cellulite, but they can be expensive, regarding cellulite, I went on a fact-fi nding mission. from hormonal changes, lack of muscle tone, excess fat some are painful and the results can be short-lived, What is cellulite? We have subcutaneous fat between or poor circulation. There is also a genetic component to requiring maintenance procedures. There may also be the muscles and the skin on top. Cellulite is not a type of cellulite, which is why slim women can have cellulite. As short-term side-effects such as rashes, infection or fat; rather, it is the condition when fat protrudes through women age, our bodies produce less estrogen, which can uneven skin contours. Long-term risks are not fully layers of subdermal connective tissue, giving the skin an lead to a decrease in circulation and collagen production. understood. Contrary to popular belief, liposuction does unsightly, dimpled appearance. The term cellulite fi rst Skin loses elasticity, making cellulite more visible. not reduce cellulite and may make it worse. came into use 200 years ago and, for a long time, it was What can we do about cellulite? Since we can’t change I don’t care if I have cellulite. We needn’t be hyper thought of as a disease. our genetics, let’s look at what we can do. focused on and self-conscious about minor imperfections. Where does cellulite appear? Cellulite can appear on Reduce excess body fat. According to the Mayo clinic, Cellulite is normal. It’s our beauty standard that’s different parts of the body such as the buttocks, thighs, the most benefi cial cellulite treatments are healthy distorted. hips, abdomen and upper arms. eating and regular exercise, in particular, strength I encourage everyone to focus on taking care of your Who gets cellulite? Everyone has body fat, but not training. While exercise cannot rid you of cellulite, health and fi tness to the best of your abilities. Manage everyone has cellulite. We tend to think of overweight, strength-bearing exercises will strengthen your muscles your weight, eat right most of the time and keep your older women as having cellulite, but thin women and and make cellulite less visible. Strength training may muscles strong. If you decide to pursue treatments, teenage girls can also have cellulite. Ninety per cent of also prevent more cellulite from appearing. remember that the cellulite-reducing industry spends women and 10 per cent of men in developed countries Do over-the-counter creams work? According to millions of dollars to convince us cellulite is pathologic will experience cellulite at some point in their lives the Mayo clinic, “no studies show that these creams so that we’ll spend millions of dollars on elusive and (http://tinyurl.com/h9cnwpn). Fewer men have cellulite used by themselves offer any improvement” often phoney cures. 16 April 4, 2016 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM Gretl K. Fischer’s ‘The Ethical Command of the Cosmos’ to be launched at Temple Israel

BY TEENA HENDELMAN frequently cited. LITERARY TRUSTEE FOR GRETL K. FISCHER Over her career as an author and as a professor of he Ethical Command of the Cosmos’ by the English at Carleton University, she wrote stories, plays, late Gretl Keren Fischer will be launched, essays and a novel, “An Answer for Pierre,” published in April 17, at Temple Israel. 1990. ‘T The book is the result of a life-long Fischer was uneasy with the concept that good and question that engaged Fischer, who died at Hillel evil is merely a human invention and variable according Lodge on November 24, 2013 at age 94: In the face of to social customs or to individual points of view. In her fathomless corruption and evil, can we be satisfi ed view, there exists a powerful, objective cosmic standard with our modern view that nothing is good or bad as by which we can distinguish right from wrong, good such, but depends on our preference or on social from evil. custom? “The Ethical Command of the Cosmos” presents Gretl Kraus grew up in Olomouc, Czechoslovakia, and the development of her stance on the natural impera- escaped in the nick of time before the Nazi occupation. tive toward life and well being. She explains why she While her entire family perished in the Holocaust, she believes such a standard of right and wrong exists, and her fi ancé, Hugo Fischer, made it on to one of the states objections to it, and follows with her defence. last trains to England. Later, they immigrated to Canada, With the help of basic teachings gleaned from where Hugo re-qualifi ed as a lawyer and accepted a contemporary mainstream science, Fischer shows that position as a legal adviser with the Canadian cosmic energy has a built-in bias in favour of life and government. well-being. Whenever pain appears, it is the sign that Fischer completed her education, earning her fi rst evil has taken place. degree at the University of British Columbia, her MA at The launch of “The Ethical Command of the Cosmos” Carleton University, and her PhD in English at McGill by Gretl Keren Fischer, a posthumous publication, will University. Her dissertation, “In Search of Jerusalem, take place Sunday, April 17, 10 am, at a complimentary Religion and Ethics in the Writings of A. M. Klein,” bagels and coffee breakfast, at Temple Israel, 1301 Prince published by McGill-Queen’s Press in 1975, has been of Wales Drive. All are welcome.

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MONDAY, APRIL 4 Steven Garten reviews “Ally: My Journey Across the TUESDAY, APRIL 12 Does Elijah visit the Seder Table? American-Israeli Divide” by Michael Oren. Malca Pass Library Book Discussion Group Meeting: Rabbi Alex Israel provides examples from Jewish texts Temple Israel, 1301 Prince of Wales Dr., 9:30 am. Alvina Ruprecht reviews “Medicine Walk” by Richard of the many ways Elijah is presented in Jewish tradition. Info: Shayla Mindell, 613-224-1802, Waggamese. Rabbi Israel teaches Tanakh at Yeshivat Eretz Hatzvi [email protected] Agudath Israel Congregation, 1400 Coldrey Ave., 7:30 pm. and is director of Community Education at the Pardes Sholem Aleichem - 100 Years: Info: Maureen Kaell, 613-224-8649, [email protected] Institute of Jewish Studies, 7:30 pm. Sholem Aleichem’s last will and testament implored SUNDAY, APRIL 17 Info: Roslyn Wollock, 613-798-9818, ext. 254, that we remember him with laughter on his Yahrzeit. [email protected] In honour of his 100th Yahrzeit, join Janie Respitz as Youth Chocolate Seder: Kids in grades 1-8 are invited to Agudath Israel’s annual pre-Pesach Chocolate Seder. WEDNESDAY, APRIL 6 she explores Sholem Aleichem’s dramatic life through story and song, 10:30 am. Agudath Israel Congregation, 1400 Coldrey Ave., 2 pm. Talk by Sharon Sholzberg-Gray: Info: Roslyn Wollock, 613 798-9818, ext. 254, Info/RSVP: Emily Anzarouth, [email protected] A Report Card on the Government and Parliament. A [email protected] lawyer by profession, Sharon Sholzberg-Gray has served COMING SOON Annual Passover Fair: as CEO of a number of national health and social sector MONDAY, APRIL 18 organizations, with responsibility for the management Presented by Canadian Hadassah-WIZO, Na’amat of their national offi ces, policy development and Canada and Congregation Beit Tikvah, the fair will Chocolate Seder for Youth (Grades 6-12): advocacy activities, 1:30 pm. feature many local vendors including jewelry, crafts, If you like chocolate, this is the event for you! Info: Ella Dagan, 613-798-9818, ext. 243, Judaica, books and kosher for Passover wines. Proceeds Temple Israel, 1301 Prince of Wales Dr., 6:30 pm. [email protected] will benefit local and Israeli projects. Info: Sue Potechin, 613-224-3133, Beit Tikvah Congregation, 15 Chartwell Ave., 10:30 am. [email protected] Art and Soul....Live Creatively: Info: Marilyn Schwartz, 613-828-4488, CANDLE LIGHTING BEFORE Explore Judaism’s insights into the arts and how they [email protected] beautify and transform our lives, 7:30 pm. APRIL 8 7:11 PM APRIL 22 7:38 PM Also Thursday, April 7, 9 am. Passover Workshop: APRIL 15 7:20 PM APRIL 23 AFTER 8:40 PM Info: Devora Caytak, 613-729-7712, [email protected] How to lead, or actively participate in the Passover Seder. BULLETIN DEADLINES SUNDAY, APRIL 10 Temple Israel, 1301 Prince of Wales Dr., 11 am. MONDAY, APRIL 18 ** FOR MAY 9 Books and Bagels Book Review and discussion: Info: Catherine Loves, 613-224-1802, WEDNESDAY, MAY 4 FOR MAY 23 Breakfast followed by review and discussion. Rabbi [email protected] * Early deadline: Community-wide Issue ** Early deadline: holiday closures

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