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juLY 2015/tammuz--Av 5775 a publication of United jewish federation of Volume 17, Number 6 Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien Young Israel Welcomes Back to School Shop Ready New Rabbi to Roll! Young Israel of Stamford “Rabbi Kohl has spent his Meryl Japha and Jane Levene can’t clothing and school supplies have been announced the appoint- time in the rabbinate creat- believe how much difference a year purchased and plans are in place for ment of Rabbi Eli Kohl as its ing relationships, studying makes. The co-founders of the Back to the inaugural event, which will occur new rabbi, effective August with community members, School Shop were wondering last year on Sunday, August 9. “We couldn’t be 1. Rabbi Kohl and his wife, and helping to foster vibrant, if they could pull it off. They wanted to more excited about how this has come Naomi, come to Stamford dynamic, and growing com- create a new event in Stamford where together,” said Levene. from Mount Kisco, NY, where munities,” said Greg Teitel, financially disadvantaged children Japha and Levene said they were Rabbi Kohl was the rabbi of president of the synagogue. could “shop for” their own new school thrilled with the breadth of support the Mount Kisco Hebrew “With his easygoing nature, clothes, coats, sneakers, backpacks they’ve received from the Stamford com- Congregation and also served warm personality and engag- and school supplies at no charge in a munity. Early on, they presented their as part of the pastoral care ing teaching style, he has department store environment created idea to the UJF Board of Directors, which team at Northern Westches- helped community members just for them. “We wanted every child agreed to bring the program under ter Hospital. He previously Rabbi Eli Kohl find a place to call home.” to feel the excitement of getting ready its umbrella, providing administrative served for seven years as the He has been invited to to go back to school. Without basic support that made the program viable. rabbi of the Orthodox community speak in Jewish communities across the clothing and school supplies it’s hard The Stamford Public School system also at the University of Maryland. Rabbi Northeast to talk about current events to have the confidence necessary for jumped on board, making an elemen- Kohl will also assume a position at Bi- and issues facing the future growth academic success,” says Japha. tary school available for the event, and Cultural Day School at the start of the of Jewish life. When asked about his And one year later, volunteers have allowing its social workers to choose the next academic year. See “Rabbi” on page 3 been recruited, funds have been raised, See “School” on page 2 “Tikkun Olam Makers” Turn JCC Annual Run/Walk Technology into Solutions for Benefits JumpStart Program People with Disabilities By Nancy Schulman and the race will start at 9:30 am. More than 450 people of all ages The event raises funds for JumpStart, By Maayan Jaffe project of the Reut Institute and ROI are expected to run, walk, sprint and the Jewish Community Center’s pre- JNS.org Community, is bringing together strate- stroll their way through the eighth school program for young children From cyber-security to medicine to gic thinkers, engineers, designers, and annual “Give a Child a JumpStart with special needs. agriculture, Israeli innovators are com- project managers to solve unmet social 5K/10K Run/Walk and Family Fun JumpStart is the only program of ing up with ideas that make life safer, challenges in disadvantaged communi- Day.” The event is sponsored by The its kind serving families in the Greater easier and more efficient. These cre- ties. TOM is built on six core values: Herbert and Sarah M. Gibor Chari- Fairfield County area. The program ations, in turn, simultaneously fund the scalability, community integration, col- table Foundation, Auslander Kasin- follows the pattern of a typical nursery Jewish state and yield profits for their laborative competition, affordability, dorf Group/Keller Williams Realty school classroom, offering social and overseas investors. A new organization smart development and innovation. and the Dorf and Gotler families, and educational experiences in a group set- is taking this entrepreneurial ecosystem In March, TOM held its second is presented by The Center Women ting for children who typically require to a new level, merging technologi- “make-a-thon” in Tel Aviv (an event of the Stamford Jewish Community one-on-one services at home. Money cal savvy with tikkun olam (the Jewish dubbed TOM: TLV), partnering with Center. Now a Labor Day tradition raised from the Run/Walk will go value of repairing the world) to solve the Ruderman Family Foundation in Stamford, the Run/Walk will be toward the program’s general operat- societal needs. to harness cutting-edge technology held on Monday, September 7, rain ing costs, including new equipment, Tikkun Olam Makers (or TOM), a See “Technology” on page 18 or shine. Check-in will begin at 9 am See “JumpStart” on page 2

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Women’s Philanthropy Spring Dinner Celebrates and Remembers Past United Jewish Federation Presidents Nancy Mimoun (far left) and Shoshana Dweck (far right) joined current UJF President Ellen Weber (second from left) in welcoming Joan Lunden, speaker for the Women’s Philanthropy Spring Dinner held on May 20 at Temple Sinai. The evening was dedicated in memory of Penny Horowitz, z’l, former Women’s Philanthropy president. (Photos by Aviva Maller Photography) See page 9 for more photos from the event. 2 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ july 2015 july 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 3 CEO Message community news Joan’s Life Lesson Number Three By James A. Cohen challenges, or opportunities, Ms. Lunden learned campuses, the increasing numbers of the unaffili- JHSC Appoints New Head of School At UJF’s Women’s Philan- to “Just Say Yes.” ated, or the safety of Jews in Europe – so each and The Board of Trustees and Head of years of experience as a Jewish educator identify the school’s next leader, the Search Commit- thropy Spring Dinner on May Why is this answer, which is so antithetical to Nancy every one of us needs to do our fair share to make School Search Committee for The Jewish and administrator, having served as as- tee and the Board of Trustees have endorsed Rabbi 20, guest speaker Joan Lunden Reagan’s 1980s outcry “Just Say No,” so important in certain that these issues are dealt with sensibly, col- High School of Connecticut announced sistant principal at the Northwest Yeshiva Paul’s candidacy. shared many of her “life lessons,” 2015? I think the answer is quite simple. Oftentimes, lectively and effectively. that they have appointed Rabbi Elisha High School, associate head of school at “His intelligence, warmth, passion and outstanding which have guided her over in a world with overwhelming choice, overscheduled Ms. Lunden shared with her audience how when a Paul as the next head of school, effec- the RASG Hebrew Academy and head of record of accomplishment made it clear that Rabbi the years. Each lesson has value schoolchildren and 24-hour news, the easiest way to professional opportunity presented itself, even if she tive July 1. school at the Yeshiva Atlanta (Atlanta Jew- Paul has the essential qualities and characteristics for each and everyone one of cope is to opt out. The way to deal with the daily din was scared, she always said, “yes,” because she had the Currently the head of school at Sulam, ish Academy) High School. “In each of his necessary to lead JHSC masterfully through the us – men, women and children the world seems to generate is to shut it out and not ambition and the determination to succeed. We have a kindergarten-12 Jewish school for di- positions, he provided outstanding leader- school’s next phase. He is deeply committed to alike. (As one of the few men make choices at all. the ambition. We have the determination. We know verse learners located on the campus of ship in all aspects of day school life,” said JHSC’s mission and vision, and is a strong believer in the room that evening, I can As Jews, or certainly as Jews who care about what we have to do. So the next time you are asked to the Berman Academy in Rockville, MD, Randie Weseley, president of the Board. in meeting the individual needs of each student,” say in all honesty that she would James Cohen, the future of our community, we cannot afford to volunteer at any of the wonderful Jewish organizations Rabbi Paul has been called as an engag- Search Committee members said they said Weseley. have been inspirational for any UJF CEO go down that path. Saying no will have unaccept- in town, or to give a little more so that more people ing leader and visionary educator. Rabbi Rabbi Elisha Paul were deeply impressed by Rabbi Paul’s Rabbi Paul is thrilled at the opportunity to lead audience.) But one of the lessons struck me as par- able consequences. We face too many challenges can be served and sit at the table of prosperity, follow Paul holds a master’s degree in education professional experience combined with our school: “I am honored and excited to become ticularly important in today’s world. When faced with – whether it be the rise of antisemitism on college Joan Lunden’s example. “Say Yes!” administration from Seattle Pacific University and a his profound understanding of how today’s students JHSC’s next head of school. In its relatively short doctoral certificate in Jewish educational leadership learn, lead and serve in an increasingly complex and existence, JHSC has already set itself apart as an JumpStart Continued from page 1 from Boston Hebrew College. He has more than 20 interconnected world. Following a national search to excellent educational institution, steeped in Jew- ish values and Jewish life, and providing students staff development, maintenance of the boundless ister by Saturday, August 1, is $30 per adult/$15 per available at www.stamfordjcc.org or by calling 203- with all of the skills they will need to succeed as playground, special events and scholarships. child ages 6-18. For those who register after August 322-7900 for more information. Families and local leaders in their chosen fields and, equally, if not The Run/Walk will leave from the JCC, located at 1, the cost is $36 per adult/$18 per child ages 6 to businesses can also support the JumpStart program Young Israel Sizzling Summer Series more importantly, leaders of our community. I 1035 Newfield Ave., and take participants through the 18. Children 5 and under are free. by becoming sponsors of the communitywide event. While summer is a slow pro- Taragin completed a B.A. look forward to meeting all of the students, their Pepper Ridge section of Stamford, a family-friendly In addition, the JCC is collaborating with St. Information on sponsorship levels is available by gramming season for some or- and M.A. in Tanach and Talmud families and, of course, spending time with the route favored by local runners. Participants doing Francis Episcopal Church to present an Interfaith contacting the JCC. In addition, registration and ganizations, there will be plenty at Bar-Ilan University. She is stellar faculty so we can all work together to build the 5K will complete the route one time; those doing Road Race Series. “Miles for a Mission 5K Run/ sponsorship forms are available on the website for of adult education classes at currently pursuing her Ph.D. upon JHSC’s successes.” the 10K will complete it twice. Strollers are welcome Walk and Dogapalooza!” will be held on Sunday, download, and completed forms can be mailed or Young Israel of Stamford, as in Tanach while teaching at and there will be water stations along the way. For September 27, at 11 am. Participants with the dropped off at the JCC. part of the synagogue’s an- Midreshet Lindenbaum. She the safety of all participants and to satisfy insurance fastest combined time for both races will receive All proceeds go directly to the JumpStart nual Sizzling Summer Series also teaches collegiates and requirements, no bikes, skates, scooters or animals a prize at Miles for a Mission. Register at any time program. Deadlines for in Stamford. adults at MaTaN, Migdal Oz, are permitted. There will be many family activities for both races and receive the early registration The Jewish Community Center is a recipient agency of Rabbi Jeremy Wieder of Ye- Sha’alvim for Women, Lander’s after the event. discount for both. United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan shiva University will conduct a College and the Women’s Beit The event is certified by U.S.A. Track and Field, and Online registration for the JCC Run/Walk is and Darien. articles four-part series on Wednesday Midrash in Efrat and Ramat The deadlines for the next three issues of the the run portion of the race is professionally timed. evenings titled “What Does Ju- Rabbi Jeremy Wieder Shani Taragin Shilo. Taragin is a graduate of new jewish voice are: The fee to enter the Run/Walk, for those who reg- Continued from page 1 daism Say About….” On July 8, Nishmat’s Keren Ariel Program Monday, July 27...... September School his topic will be “Saving the Life of a Non-Jew.” On for certification as a halachic advisor in issues of fam- Monday, August 31...... October children most in need of this program. with compassion for other children who are less July 15, he will cover the subject of “Gender Roles.” ily purity law. She lectures and leads Tanach tours Monday, September 21...... November candle lighting The co-founders said one of the most touching fortunate. This was definitely a highlight of our year On July 22, Rabbi Wieder will discuss the topic of throughout Israel, and serves on the local religious Send New Jewish Voice article submissions to aspects of the support that Back to School Shop so far,” exclaimed Japha. “Abortion.” Finally, on July 29, Rabbi Wieder will council dealing with issues of Jewish law and educa- Sandy Golove at [email protected] marked “Stamford has received has been the support received from The Back to School Shop’s inaugural event speak about “Vigilante Justice.” tion. Taragin also heads the Beit Midrash Program Voice” in the subject line. Expect an acknowledge- times children in the community. “The first grant we will serve more than 100 kindergarten-fifth grade Rabbi Wieder is a rosh yeshiva at the Rabbi Isaac during summers at Camp Moshava. ment; please re-send if you do not receive one. received was due to a grant application that a 16- children. To find more information about the Elchanan Theological Seminary of Yeshiva University. For more information about the summer pro- June 19...... 8:11 pm year-old Stamford teenager made to a foundation program or to make a donation, visit www.ujf.org/ June 26...... 8:13 pm He holds the Gwendolyn and Joseph Straus Chair in grams, contact Feldstein at michaelgfeldstein@ that encourages middle and high school students backtoschoolshop, or follow it on Facebook at www. Talmud. Rabbi Wieder was one of the first Americans gmail.com. July 3...... 8:12 pm to get involved in philanthropy,” said Levene. “He facebook.com/backtoschoolshop. to win the International Bible Contest, and later July 10...... 8:10 pm was so excited when his application resulted in both graduated summa cum laude from Yeshiva College a grant and a personal donation from a foundation in 1991. He also received an M.S. in American Jewish Rabbi Continued from page 1 July 17...... 8:06 pm board member.” history from the Bernard Revel Graduate School of new role at Young Israel of Stamford, Rabbi Kohl July 24...... 8:01 pm And recently the Jewish Community Center Sara Jewish Studies. In 2005, he received a Ph.D. in He- was very enthusiastic: “I am excited and humbled Walker Nursery School children chose Back to July 31...... 7:54 pm brew and Judaic studies at New York University. Rabbi to have been chosen to serve as the rabbi of Young School Shop as one of the causes they would support August 7...... 7:46 pm Wieder has been called a prolific scholar; more than Israel. I am looking forward to infusing my optimism, with their tzedakah. Anne Liss Johnson, managing 500 of his lectures on Judaism have been captured energy and Torah knowledge into the Stamford Jew- August 14...... 7:36 pm director of the nursery school, said, “When I heard on media and available online. ish community.” August 21...... 7:26 pm a presentation about the Back to School Shop, I Michael Feldstein, who is chairing the program, Rabbi Kohl grew up in Brooklyn, NY. After attend- thought it would be a perfect fit with our theme of August 28...... 7:16 pm said, “We are extremely excited to bring Rabbi ing Yeshivat Hakotel in Jerusalem, he continued on to chesed, or kindness. We explained to the children September 4...... 7:04 pm Wieder to the Stamford community for this series. Yeshiva University. He completed his rabbinic studies that not everyone is able to get new school clothing Rabbi Wieder is a scholar par excellence and he is at RIETS at YU while simultaneously spending three September 11...... 6:53 pm and supplies, and that through their tzedakah, they extremely qualified to tackle these difficult subjects years studying in the Marcos and Adina Katz Kollel September 13...... 6:49 pm are able to help other children in our community in Jewish law.” program. He also completed advanced training to- have access to these things.” September 14...... after 7:47 pm On Shabbat weekend, August 7-8, Young Israel ward a certificate from Machon Puah in reproductive On May 28, Japha and Levene were on hand to September 18...... 6:41 pm will host Shani Taragin, a crowd favorite who will be health and halachah. His wife completed her B.A. in accept the donation and thank the children person- Jewish Community Center Sara Walker Nursery School appearing for the fourth summer in a row at Young psychology at Stern College for Women and received ally. “What a joy to see these young children filled students Harrison Stoogenke and Ellie Stroum, and their Israel. She will be speaking three times on Saturday an M.S.W. in social work from YU’s Wurzweiler School. teacher, Irene Okun, added their classrooms’ tzedakah – a sermon, a post-kiddush talk and a class in the She also completed her coursework toward her M.A. money to the box. The nursery school classes chose to donate afternoon between afternoon and evening services. in Jewish education from the Azrieli School at YU. their money to the Back to School Shop, the new program All three of her talks will focus on the theme of “All Rabbi Kohl and his wife have three children, Yisrael THE 2015-2016 UJF that provides economically disadvantaged children in Jews are responsible for one another.” (age 7), Shira (age 5) and Elana (age 3). the Stamford community with brand new clothing and school supplies. KURIANSKY TEEN Most insurance accepted with no out-of-pocket expense for check-ups* *As long as you are eligible, have met all deductibles, have bene ts remaining and your plan is UCR or equivalent. TZEDAKAH CORPS THERAPY BEYOND WALLS WHAT: A teen A New Model in erapy Dental Care Kids philanthropy project with Healing Trauma, Relationships real-world consequences. and Eating Disorders Open 7 Days A Week! 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ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 4 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ july 2015 july 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 5 CAMOS to Host Shabbaton for Prospective Residents JCC Annual Meeting CAMOS (Committee to Advance Modern Ortho- for the community, but many of CAMOS committee Shabbaton as possible. “The best way to sell Stamford The Jewish Community Center’s an- This year’s meeting was highlighted by doxy in Stamford) is organizing its second annual members felt that a Shabbaton is the best way to draw as a place to live is to allow prospective residents to nual meeting on May 14 was a celebration the announcement of plans for the JCC’s Shabbaton, to be held on Saturday, August 22, for people to visit. The CAMOS Shabbaton Committee meet other like-minded families who are happy living of the Center’s lay leaders and volunteers. 100th anniversary in 2016. those families who are considering a move to the consists of Kate Frommer Cik, Elaine Finkelstein, here,” said Feldstein. At left: JCC President Jeff Stamford community. Jessica Kfare, Abigail Kurtz, Miriam Sperber and Feldstein also pointed to the presence of four ko- Goldblum brought the 2015 “Last year’s Shabbaton was a huge success,” said Alisa Weisser. sher eateries as “a very positive development” in the annual meeting to a close. Michael Feldstein, who founded the CAMOS effort In April, CAMOS organized an exhibit at the Or- Jewish community, which help make Stamford a more several years ago. “Eleven families visited, one family thodox Union’s Job and Relocation Fair in New York attractive place for an observant family to live. is moving here this summer, and two others are seri- City, which generated more than 100 leads. “Many of Anyone who knows of an observant family who ously exploring a move. We hope we can build on the people we met at the fair are definitely interested might be interested in moving to Stamford and At right: Marni Amsellem the success of the first Shabbaton, and attract others in visiting for a Shabbat,” said Feldstein. attending the Shabbaton, or who might benefit accepted the Center Woman to visit... and eventually move here.” As part of the Shabbaton, the committee plans to from the services that CAMOS provides, should of the Year Award, presented In the past, CAMOS has hosted a Summer Sunday have a get-together in the park, and involve as many have them contact Feldstein at michaelgfeldstein@ each year to an outstanding in Stamford event for families looking to get a feel of the members of the Stamford community in the gmail.com. volunteer by The Center Chabad Stamford’s Green House Grows Women of the JCC. By Taly Farber morahs that live and work here seek to positively in the “Transform The Annex Campaign.” By the Anybody driving down High Ridge Road may be impact the lives of the children they teach and the time of press, it is hoped that transformation will familiar with the sight of the small green house sit- programs they run, and then move on to other parts be complete. ting on Chabad Stamford’s property. It’s called the of the world and seek to enrich the lives of their For more information about the Chabad Stam- “annex” and its purpose is to house the different new communities. ford’s annex, contact morahleah@chabadstamford. teachers, or “morahs,” who come to Stamford to work Previous annex alumni now run Chabads in ar- org or 203-324-2223, ext. 418. at Chabad, Gan Yeladim Early Childhood Center eas such as Rochester, NY, in colleges such as Tufts and the Friendship Circle. Initially, the young morahs University, in Tzfat (Israel) and China, as well as the were housed in Rabbi Yisrael and Morah Vivi Deren’s remote island of Mauritius. home. In subsequent years, they have been staying Says current annex resident and teacher Dabrushie A Remarkable in the “green house.” Liberow, “ Working in Stamford, and the warmth of For more than 20 years, young women have come the community, is an experience that will stay with from Costa Rica, Argentina and England in order me for a lifetime.” Kindness to train, teach, learn and enrich the lives of local The annex is currently undergoing a facelift with By Elissa Kaplan and Peter Lilienthal Executive Committee members responsible for the planning of the JCC’s centennial year, th community members. After their teaching years new windows, siding and roofing having been updated Diana Bletter, a National which will include 100 anniversary celebrations, a capital campaign and hosting of here are over, many move to other communities to to help it be more structurally sound and ready to Jewish Book Award finalist, the 2016 JCC Maccabi Games and ArtsFest in Stamford. L-r: Eric Koehler, JCC CEO; take those skills learned at Chabad Stamford and take on the next set of morahs. Chabad thanks the first-prize winner of Family Rachel Rothman, JCC Maccabi Games and ArtsFest director; Jeff Goldblum, JCC president; implement them in Chabads all over the world. The community members who stepped up to participate Circle Magazine’s 2011 Fiction Maxine Freilich, Centennial Committee co-chair; Rich Vogel, Centennial Committee co- Contest, and contributor to The chair; Jeannie Kriftcher, JCC Maccabi Games and ArtsFest co-chair; and Michael Gold, New York Times, The Wall Street JCC Maccabi Games and ArtsFest co-chair. (Photos by Aviva Maller) JournaL, Huffington Post and nd Commentary Magazine, will The 92 Street Y Comes to Stamford discuss her book, “A Remark- In a brand new partnership, The Palace Theater and the Stamford Jewish able Kindness,” on Thursday, Community Center have announced a collaboration with New York’s 92nd St. Y August 20, as part of the Jewish “Talks” series, which will include live-streamed broadcasts as well as “in-person” Historical Society of Fairfield Diana Bletter speakers that will be held at The Palace during the year. The talks will focus on County’s August “Bonus” Program. It will be held the best in thought, literature, current events and the arts. at the Darien Library, 1441 Post Rd., Darien, with The initial program was held on April 21 at the Palace Theater, and featured refreshments following the program. It is free and New York Times columnist David Brooks, who was live streamed in from the 92nd open to the public. Street Y. At the Brooks event, attendees viewed the lecture on a large screen in Bletter’s recently published novel is the story of real time – and were even able to ask questions after the program was over. four American women, who have made aliyah to On May 19, Ronald Keaton and Tricia McDermott of the off-Broadway hit Israel. The setting is the seaside village of Peleg. “Churchill” appeared live at the Palace Theater to discuss the making of the The time is 2006, just before the Lebanon War, play, and the challenges of bringing a larger than life figure such as Winston which Hezbollah and Israel fought for 34 days. Churchill to the stage. The four women lead very different lives. Lauren On June 9, Dr. Ruth Westheimer appeared at the Palace Theater through a is a nurse, married to an Israeli doctor. Emily is live stream, and discussed her secrets of living a full and meaningful life. She divorced and seeking adventure. Aviva, who has recently published a new book, “The Doctor Is In: Dr. Ruth on Love, Life, and been in Israel for years, was in Intelligence, and Joie de Vivre.” then married, settled down and raised a family in The organizers of the project hope to be able to choose programs with the Israel. Rachel, originally from Wyoming, is a young, broadest appeal to the Stamford community, with a focus on literature, current fervent college graduate. The four women come events and the arts. together as part of a burial society, chevra kadisha, Other programs will be announced soon. For more information, contact The to wash, dress and prepare women from the village Palace Theater at 203-3254466. for burial. The ritual of tahara, the final burial rite, and the outbreak of the Lebanon War bring these four diverse women together in a common cause. Through this ritual associated with death, the women find life, strength and resilience. The novel tells the story of how each woman’s life is transformed. According to Janice Steinberg, author of “The Tin Horse, “”Bletter brings this quartet of complex, gutsy, smart, passionate women to life with rare delicacy and depth... Loss and endings are part of this novel’s rich fabric. Gracefully written scenes... such respect and tenderness.” Bletter has written two other books: “The Invisible Thread: A Portrait of Jewish American Women,” with photographs by Lori Grinker, and a memoir, “The Mom Who Took off on Her Motorcycle.” She also maintains a blog about “writing and living – your best chapter.” Bletter grew up on Long Island and attended Cornell University. Then, she moved to Paris and Rome. Currently, she lives in a small beach village in northern Israel with her husband and their six Your ad will make news! children, plus an adopted Ethiopian daughter. For information on advertising, contact She is active in a Christian-Druze-Jewish-Muslim women’s group. Like the characters in her novel, Bonnie Rozen at (800)779-7896, ext. 244 Bletter is a member her local chevra kadisha, the burial circle in her community. or [email protected] For more information or to get answers about the program, contact Marcie Schoenfeld at 203-359-9148 or [email protected]. For additional information, visit website http://jhsfc-ct.org. The Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County is a recipient agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater facebook.com/stamfordFederation, Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. Visit www.ujf.org, Ê or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 6 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ july 2015 july 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 7 bits and pieces JEEP* tracks: musings on By Sandy Golove Field, Jenny Fishman, Marlene Gatz, Jewish Senior Services Home Care Celebrates 10 Years To submit infor- Wendy Handler, Jacob Herz, Denise Ten years ago, the Jewish Home In 2010, medical home contributions of the Fried- Home Health Services of Connecticut, mation to Bits and Rafailov, Nofie Rosovsky, Carlie So- education and engagement in Fairfield began providing private care was added as a Medicare- man and Chaifetz families, Visiting Nurse Services of Southern Pieces, call 321- caransky, Alissa Joy Wool and Stephanie duty home care services in the com- certified service, providing a who are committed to en- Connecticut and hospice manager for 1373, ext. 107, or Zelazny – JCC Center Volunteers of the The Balancing Act munity. “Recognizing the need in our host of services to individuals suring the community has VNA Care Network and Hospice in Ded- e-mail me at sandy@ Year Awards community we wanted to offer this after hospital discharges or access to these services. All ham, MA. Most recently, she served as ujf.org. Brian Kriftcher – JCC Hyacinthe By Cantor Marcia also the essential “I.” I am in the Torah, service to seniors and families as an homebound. The two ser- three programs have grown hospice director at Masonicare Home MAZEL TOV TO and Harold Hoffman Humanitarian Lane and I have the right – no, the sacred extension of the services we provided vices worked in conjunction both separately and together, Health and Hospice. She holds a B.S. GROWING FAMILIES: Award As the summer obligation – to claim the Torah. And at the Jewish Home,” commented An- providing private duty aides, serving thousands of clients. degree in nursing and an M.B.A. Over Belinda and Ephraim Akyuz on the Temple Beth El: approaches, I’m “I” am constantly changing. The “I” drew H. Banoff, president and CEO, skilled nursing, social work This year, Jewish Senior the past 10 years, Friedman Home birth of a son, Charles Efraim; grand- Judy Schneiderman – TBE Sister- looking for my stack who interacts with Torah is different who developed the business model and physical, occupational Services announced Doreen Care and Chaifetz Family Hospice have parents are Johanna and Selim Akyuz. hood Rose Rosner Award of books to read, or from one year to the next. for the program. The program has and speech therapy. Again, Brown-Wade has been ap- served thousands of clients in their Doreen Brown-Wade Aliza and Chazan Rafael Bokow on MAZEL TOV TO B’NAI MITZVAH: for a course to take. My other obligation is to learn from been called a great success and, as the in 2012, services expanded pointed director of Home houses, apartments, or assisted living the birth of a son; grandparents are Jewels Harrison, son of Mary and Like many of you, those who have gone before me. That need for compassionate and quality to include hospice for end Care and Hospice. Brown- residences throughout Fairfield and Gital and Rabbi Avigdor Bokow and David Harrison I don’t harbor the is, I can’t be an interpreter of Torah care continued to grow, the program of life care. Friedman Home Care and Wade has served as administrator of New Haven counties. Margie and Larry Nussbaum. Justin Kaplan, son of Elizabeth and idea that “school” is only for kids! I am in a vacuum. I can’t be ignorant of the expanded as well. Chaifetz Family Hospice reflect the Hillary Jassey and Adam Eidelberg Seth Kaplan eternally excited about learning. Hebrew and claim to have something to on the birth of a daughter, Hazel Rose Morgana Knopoff, daughter of Jill For the past couple of years, I’ve share about the text just because I feel Eidelberg; grandmother is Elayne and Alejandro Knopoff been on the roster of rabbis and can- one way or another. My life experiences JHSFC and National History Jassey. Zachary Schaff, grandson of Frances tors who writes divrei Torah – Torah are informed by my studies, which in Elder Abuse Prevention Natania and Dmitry Ostrovsky on Schaff commentaries – for my seminary, the turn are filtered through my day-to- the birth of a son. Charlie Wallace, son of Angelique Academy for Jewish Religion. Every six day encounters. I am Torah, given at Day Lindsay and Peter Rosen on the birth and Adam Wallace weeks, I look at the upcoming Torah Sinai, but given new every day. One of Symposium Since 2013, the Jewish Historical Movement and Satisfying Inquiring of a son, Jack Benjamin Rosen; grand- CONDOLENCES TO: portion with an eye to writing some- my favorite expressions about Torah This spring, Jewish Senior Services at UConn Health Center’s Center on Society of Fairfield County has been Minds for Half a Century.” Fairfield parents are Dan and Sabrina Benjamin; Marshall Ackerman on the loss of his thing that actually has a new point of is from the Mishnah: eyn kemach, eyn organized “The Role of Culture in Aging; Amanda Aaron, T.R.D., R.M., awarding prizes in conjunction with Woods Middle School students great-grandparents are Sondra and Jack mother, Dorothy Ackerman. view, something interesting to impart! Torah. The literal meaning is “no flour, the Prevention of Elder Abuse” sym- director of life enrichment and resident the yearly themes of National History Maggie Limone and Caroline Lauf Barocas and Vicky Benjamin. Lee Brauer and Samuel Brauer, Jen- It’s an interesting challenge because, no Torah,” but it’s really shorthand for posium sponsored by the Coalition advocate with Hebrew HealthCare; Day. To be eligible for these awards, were awarded the Connecticut State Daniella and Dawa Sherpa on the nifer Brauer and Nathan Brauer on as we know, Torah has been around, “you can’t have the study if you don’t for Abuse Prevention of the Elderly Jennifer Glick, R.N., LMSW, director Connecticut students in grades six-12 NHD prize for their performance, birth of a daughter; grandparents and the loss of his wife and their mother, more or less in the form that we have earn a living.” And the response is, (or CAPE).The symposium, held at of older adult services at the Connecti- had to incorporate Jewish history/ “Emma Goldman.” Ilana Schwartz and Richard Schwartz. Rima Brauer. it, for more than 2,000 years, and “Eyn Torah, eyn kemach.” You can’t just UConn Stamford, was attended by cut Department of Mental Health and heritage and/or a Jewish personality All of the winning entries will be Jill Shiffman Sax and Alex Sax on Karen Farber on the loss of her people have been commenting on it be a work-a-holic. You have to have healthcare and social services profes- Addiction Services; and Lirio Negroni, into their entry. available for viewing at the Jewish His- the birth of a daughter, Samantha Jay mother, Marilyn Meckler. for that long. Wiser people than I have balance in life. sionals from around the state; the Ph.D., M.S.W., associate professor at This year’s NHD theme was “Lead- torical Society’s archives. Sax; grandparents are Claire Shiffman Ruth Fox on the loss of her brother, examined every letter, every word, every Still, it’s hard to remember balance event highlighted unique aspects and UConn School of Social Work. ership and Legacy in History.” Three JHSFC intends to continue spon- Brenner and Donald Brenner, Harriet Marvin (Mendel) Gottlieb. mark, every ornamental “thorn” at the when you have deadlines to meet. needs of minority and marginalized Jewish Senior Services’ Center for prizes were awarded in celebration soring National History Day prizes in and Chuck Sax, and Barb and Ted Peter Kempner on the loss of his top of every letter, every mysterious That’s why there’s summer: To remind older adults, and taught attendees Elder Abuse Prevention in Fairfield of JHSFC’s 30th anniversary. Varun conjunction with National History Day. Shiffman. mother, Nancy Stone. blob above a letter and even the white us that without the work, you can’t have how to be culturally aware when work- opened in 2007 to empower victims Aggarwal, of the Talcott Mountain Fairfield County teachers of public, Chaya and Rav Matityahu Shochet Libby Libo on the loss of her hus- spaces in the scroll. How could I pos- a vacation, but, without some time off, ing with diverse populations. through safe haven and services, and School in Avon, received the Celebra- private and religious schools will be on the birth of a son; grandparents are band, Dr. Hersh Libo. sibly find something new to say, much time to learn something new, or read Featured speakers included Mi- champion safer communities for older tion Award for his essay “Unwavering contacted with information about each Judy and Jeff Cahn. Madeline Mann and Pamela Mann less to impart to others for inspiration or swim, you can’t keep working. So chael Ego, Ph.D., professor of human adults. The Center is the first of its kind Resolve: the Life, Leadership and yearly theme and the requirements Nicole and Marcos Torres on the on the loss of their father, Milton or enlightenment? I’m making my summer reading list, development and family studies and to serve frail elderly in Connecticut. Legacy of Golda Meir and Her Fight for eligibility. Resources are available birth of a daughter, Violet Aria Rose Mann. Part of the secret of having some- taking an on-line course and hoping Asian American studies at UConn; Anyone who knows of a person who may for Zionism.” Alexandra Bergman, in the historical society’s archives and Torres; grandparents are Cym and Meta Willis on the loss of her sister, thing to say has to do with understand- to re-charge my batteries. Lisa Barry, Ph.D., M.P.H., a chronic be a victim of elder abuse should call of AITE in Stamford, received the library for students. Complete details Bernard Edwards; great-grandmother Riva Jean Mandel. ing that the Written Torah is actually Happy summer! disease epidemiologist, gerontologist 203-396-1097 or e-mail elderabusepre- 2015 Fairfield County award for her will also be available on the JHSFC is Anita (Kandi) Wasserman. Correction: Robert Wechsler on the both fixed and mutable. The fixed, *JEEP=Jewish Education and and assistant professor of psychiatry [email protected] for assistance. essay “Barbara Walters: Pioneering a website (www.jhsfc-ct-org). MAZEL TOV TO: loss of his wife, Barbara Wechsler; chil- immutable part has to do with the let- Engagement Project of United Jewish Netanel Friedenberg on his gradu- dren are Jeffrey Wechsler and Matthew ters, markings and spaces on the scroll. Federation ation with honors from Washington Wechsler. Those are matters of law and tradition, Cantor Marcia Lane is UJF’s director of University; mother is Doris Pinhas and may not be altered. But there is education and engagement. Friedenberg; grandmother is Judy Bragin. Rabbi Eli Kohl as the new rabbi of Klei Kodesh Young Israel of Stamford. MAZEL TOV ON YEAR END AWARDS: A monthly column from our clergy Bi-cultural Day School Annual Din- ner Honorees: Robert Abrams – Alumni Award When July 4 and Shabbat Coincide Yospa Lieberman – Jane Shoztic By Rabbi Joshua 1) We begin the Shabbat with not for our Jewish community for rabbis, Memorial Award Hammerman two, but three candles. The third is to congregations and organizations. We Maria and Glenn Reicin – Guests This year, Inde- be lit by remote control from a safe rabbis have been delighted to welcome of Honor pendence Day co- vantage point at least 100 feet away. Jim Cohen and his brand of inclusive Sarah Rich – Young Leadership incides with Shab- 2) At the Sabbath meal, two chal- partnership. Award bat. I’ve done some lot are served, each with apple pie Over these two years, that partner- Chabad – Commitment to the Stam- research to see what filling. ship has borne fruit in a number of ford Community: Jewish practices are 3) Cookouts are allowed, as long as the areas, most notably in our successful Shira Nerenberg, Doris Warmflash in order, and came charcoals are lit before sunset and the first “Shabbat Across Stamford,” which and Ellen Weber across a little known rabbinic source food is prepared beforehand. In other will now be followed up with an even Jewish Community Center: related to “Ethics of the Fathers,” words, cookouts are not allowed. greater one next March. We’ve also seen Marni Amsellem – JCC Center called “Ethics of the Uncles.” There I 4) It is customary to sing “Adon an increase in cooperation between the Woman of the Year Award found the following, attributed to “Dod Olam” to the tune of “Yankee Doodle Jewish communities of Fairfield County Beth Baer, Jenn Corbin, Madeline Sh’muel,” or “Sam, the Uncle.” Dandy.” – we need to continue that process. And 5) When reciting the Amidah, instead we’ve seen an infusion of new talent and of facing Jerusalem, we face Washing- energy as Stamford has grown. UJF Tribute Cards are a wonderful way to connect with your ton, DC. Or if Joe Lieberman is in town, For the past two years, Limmud New family and friends and mark any occasion while supporting the we simply face him. York has chosen Stamford as its host 6) When walking around with the venue, and we are increasingly being extraordinary work of UJF. To send a tribute, go to www.ujf.org. Torah, it is customary for the cantor and noticed by our Jewish neighbors to the rabbi to do a do-si-do with the president, south. As I wrote in welcoming them singing “Turkey in the Straw.” here: “The kind of inclusiveness that 7) At the beginning of the Torah Limmud accomplishes once a year, we do  Do you LOVE to read? reading, the gabbai (sexton) shouts, all the time. It’s fitting that the Diaspora’s “Play Ball” and the reader takes the yad most concentrated Jewish urban center  Do you LOVE to be around children? (pointer) and tries to knock a knish is taking its annual Jew-pallooza out to  Are you looking for a WAY to contribute? out of the park. the periphery. The welcome rebirth of 8) The popular Shabbat afternoon urban Jewish life does not have to mark Join our corps of 125 volunteers as a READING PARTNER! dish known as cholent, featuring the death knell of suburbia – especially simmering vegetables and chunks of when that suburb can itself become a Please contact: Marlyn Agatstein, Director of Reading Partners meat, is pureed so that all the items mini-core, taking on some of the more at [email protected] or 203-321-1373 x115 blend together and then simmered in salient qualities of urbanization while United Jewish Federation a melting pot. remaining eminently livable.” of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien 9) NASCAR runs the “Shabbat 500.” There is so much to be proud of, B77 TB7G7 Precisely at sundown, all the drivers as we look to the future of Jewish get out of their cars and run for the Stamford. finish line. *Klei kodesh: sacred vessel; also used As of this writing, my two-year term as to indicate rabbis and cantors chair of the Board of Rabbis comes to Rabbi Joshua Hammerman is the a close. It has been a time of transition spiritual leader at Temple Beth El. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 8 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ july 2015 july 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 9 Reading Partners on the Move! Joan Lunden Inspires Local Women Reading Partners announced that Westover need and a small team of four was developed. of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. On May 20, more than 200 women from the Magnet Elementary School joined its partner- Agatstein contacted Amy Neer, Title I reading Call Agatstein at 203-321-1373, ext. 115, or Jewish communities of Stamford, Darien and New ship in April and now all 12 Stamford elementary teacher at Westover School, who quickly put to- e-mail her at [email protected] for more Canaan gathered to celebrate the work of United schools participate in the program. In the fall of gether the remaining pieces for the program. As information. Jewish Federation, whose mission is to support the 1999, 13 volunteers started the program by read- Neer reported, “The program was implemented Jewish community locally, in Israel and around the ing with children at Julia A. Stark and Springdale successfully and seamlessly. The teachers have world. Lorraine Kweskin, Women’s Philanthropy Elementary Schools. Over the years, one by one, been supportive and can see how valuable this New Around Town president, sought to inspire the group by educat- the other elementary schools have joined the program is. The students look forward to being ing them about the 3 SQUARE program that feeds program, which helps children who need a boost picked up by their tutor every week. I can’t wait Matt Feinberg – Director of Operations, hungry children in the Stamford School District and in reading skills. to start this program again in the fall!” Congregation Agudath Sholom “Chapter Two,” which engages women who are empty “I am thrilled that this opportunity arose, rather Right around the corner from Westover School, Congregation Agudath Sholom nesters and/or retirees. Event Chairs Sissy and Elissa unexpectedly, and now we can say we have the chance the Boys and Girls Club of Stamford experienced welcomes Matt Feinberg as its new Stein spoke about UJF’s relationship to Israel and to serve all the children in Stamford,” reported Marlyn its best year yet with Reading Partners. Last fall, a director of operations. A Stam- the importance of supporting the organization. Many Agatstein, director of Reading Partners. teen volunteer from Greenwich Academy contacted ford-native, he is the second of considered the highlight of the evening listening to The school volunteer teams are assembled Agatstein and asked if there was an opportunity to four children of Karen and Bruce past “Good Morning America” host Joan Lunden, early in the school year and start serving the read at an after-school program. Even though there (z’l) Feinberg. After graduating who spoke about tikkun olam (repairing the world) children after the Jewish holidays. Each school was already a Westhill High teen presence at the from King Low-Heywood Thomas, and her struggles with breast cancer. has a volunteer team leader who works with the club, Agatstein felt this was another opportunity to Matt attended the University of See “Women” on page 12 Joan Lunden held all 200 attendees captivated with her story. (Photos by Aviva Maller Photography) school’s staff liaison to match students and pres- bring in young people as volunteers and mentors. Florida, where he obtained both a ent an in-school orientation. When it came to She started a relationship with the administration at B.S. in finance and an M.B.A. After Agatstein’s attention that an opportunity might the Academy and in January, a group of seven teens working several years in finance Matt Feinberg be available at Westover, she was unsure if the started volunteering at the Boys and Girls Club. The in Jacksonville, FL, Matt and his program could have any benefit starting in April teens said they were hooked and brought in two more wife, Nikki, decided to relocate back to Stamford. and if she could assemble a team that late in the friends to volunteer. By the end of the school year, He said he is thrilled to be back in his hometown, year. A few seasoned volunteers answered the the program had enlisted 20 teens from Westhill and working in the Jewish community. Greenwich Academy. “We are excited to add Matt to our leadership “Reading is basic, it is an important key to life. team at Agudath! We value our membership greatly, There is nothing quite as satisfying as seeing the and Matt will be focused on ensuring that the day-to- smile on a child’s face when they’ve successfully day operations at our synagogue run smoothly and read a favorite passage from a book or can relate to ensuring the highest level of member engagement a story they’re reading,” said Agatstein. “Consider and satisfaction. Matt possesses a wonderful spirit and Front row (l-r): Sheila Romanowitz, Arlene Kay, Sue Harinstein, Gari Dansky, Dorothy giving one hour a week to join Reading Partners can-do attitude, and we look forward to building our Zeide, Karen Denker and Amy Bloomenthal. Back row: Janice Rosenstock, Lori Tobin and bring that smile to ‘your’ kid’s face when they shul community together, with God’s help, for many L-r: Barbara Field, Edith Samers, Susan Mark and Grecia Gross. and Judy Jacobson. make progress.” years,” says CAS Rabbi Daniel Cohen. The Herbert and Sarah M. Gibor Reading Partners Program is sponsored by the United Jewish Federation Amy Ritell – Interim Education Director, Temple Sinai Amy Ritell will join Temple L-r: Reading Partners volunteers Jim Benjamin, Carolyn Sinai as interim education direc- Bonheim and Thomas McEvoy joined Westover staff liaison tor for the year beginning on Amy Neer at Westover Magnet Elementary School. July 1. Ritell is a longtime Jewish educator and mother of two, who loves to cook and enjoys music of all genres. She and her husband, Jeff, reside in Ridgefield. Ritell has been the education direc- tor at Temple Shearith Israel of Ridgefield for 14 years, developing Amy Ritell family and special education programs. In addition L-r: Devra Jaffe Berkowitz, Joan Lunden and Rachel to her duties as director, she has taught religious L-r: Sissy Stein, Joan Lunden and Elissa Stein L-r: Lisa Manheim, Lori Gilbert and Emily Wirgin Dayan school in both Ridgefield and Mount Kisco for 20 years. Working in the Jewish community runs in her blood, having grown up attending a Hebrew school where her mother served as educational director for 36 years. The end of year party at the Stamford Boys and Girls Club was called a success – 27 children who went through the program received Certificates of Accomplishment and a mazel tov to area summer reading book. Westhill teens in attendance helped read “Happy Birthday to You” by Dr. Seuss. professionals Bi-Cultural’s Michal Smart Wins PJ Library at National Education Award Michal Smart, director of Jewish Fam Barnes and Noble studies at Bi-Cultural Day School, D New ily Eve has recently won an Excellence in L-r: Joan Lunden and Stephne Behrend YL nt Jewish Education award from the Harold Grinspoon Foundation. The winning floral arrangement was from The Harold Grinspoon Foun- Palmer’s Market of Darien, designer is Traci Shefcyk. Save dation selected 33 educators the across North America to receive Date awards for Excellence in Jewish Education. A panel of leaders in education has named six of the Michal Smart 33 as North American Awardees, including Smart. Join Us for the The Foundation chose the candidates from a broad Young Leadership Division’s spectrum of ideologies, traditions and educational settings. Each professional educator was evaluated on their skills to meaningfully engage students and families, with proven abilities on combining tradi- New Family Even tional and creative approaches to teaching, including Thank you to all the florists who participated and donated flowers Sunday, September 27 integration of Jewish and secular studies, collabora- for the Annual Spring Women’s Philanthropy Dinner: tion among generations and a focus on Jewish values. Flowers and Flowers A meet and greet for new families With this award, Smart will receive many educational Gary Z in the greater Stamford community... opportunities, including mentorship, attendance at Christine Bloom of Hedge Mrs. Blooms a great opportunity for parents to mingle a national conference and a stipend for professional Nobu of Stamford while children enjoy a fun activity! On May 17, United Jewish Federation and the PJ Library development and programmatic enhancement. P Rogers & Co. kicked off a week-long book fair with a whole day of “Our educators play a vital role in expanding Jew- Light refreshments will be served Peter’s Wholesale Florist storytelling, glitter tattoos and songs at the Barnes and ish identity by promoting Jewish values and inspiring (dietary laws observed) Springdale Florist and Garden Center Noble store in Stamford Town Center. UJF Reading Partners students to grow in their Judaism,” said Jackie Her- Whole Foods Suggested for new families in the last 18 months. Director Marlyn Agatstein and clown Gail G. Trell greeted man, principal and head of school at Bi-Cultural. For more information or to RSVP, kids and parents who came by. PJ Library Coordinator “They nurture spirits, enliven minds and provide a please contact Sharon Franklin at Marcia Lane supplied stories and songs. L-r: Agatstein and Jewish lens through which to make the most of every [email protected] or 203-321-1373, x109 Trell (standing) with siblings Pablo Solares and Monica day, and we couldn’t be more proud of Michal for Solares (sitting). winning this prestigious award.” ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 10 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ july 2015 july 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 11

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Thanks to your gift, 2,000 Jewish youth attend the Ronald S. Lauder Foundation/JDC International Camp at Szarvas, Hungary every Summer. 12 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ july 2015 july 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 13 Women Continued from page 9 Bi-Cultural Celebration Dinner The attendees represent half a raised more than $8,500 that night May 17 was called an especially fes- Robert Abrams (Alumni Award), Yospa million dollars in philanthropy that thanks to a silent and live auction. tive day for Bi-Cultural Day School. In Lieberman (Jane Shoztic Memorial helps the Greater Stamford Jewish To learn more about UJF, visit www. addition to its being Yom Yerushalayim Award) and James Matheny (Com- community and, in addition, helped ujf.org. (Jerusalem Day), more than 400 par- munity Service Award). The evening, ents, faculty and community members co-chaired by Stella and Isaac Cohen gathered together at the Stamford Hil- and Jill and Mitchell Kaplan, included ton Hotel to celebrate the school. music, dining and dancing to celebrate Several members of the community the school’s year in achievement. were honored including Maria and Bi-Cultural Day School is a recipient Glenn Reicin (the guests of honor), agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater Sarah Rich (Young Leadership Award), Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. L-r: Ronni Mandel and Stephanie Goldpin L-r: Tracey Aaron and Sue Yellen Bi-Cultural Races for L-r: Founding Principal Walter Shuchatowitz (“Mr. S.”), Stamford Mayor David Martin, President of the Board of Trustees Robert Zitter and Principal and Head of School Jackie Education Herman (Photo by Michelle Gordon)

L-r: Myrna Sessa, Brenda Piskin, Marsha Colten, Lori Tobin, Maya Todrin and Alex At right, l-r: Andrew Reicin and Isaac Bergman. Reicin helped to honor their parents, guests of honor Glenn and Maria Reicin. (Photo by Michelle Gordon) Robin Madan and Jill Kaplan L-r: Leah Shemtov and Jackie Herman

L-r: Marsha Colten and Michael On May 7, Bi-Cultural Day School celebrated the holiday of Lag B’Omer with its Race for L-r: Lorraine Kweskin and Joan Lunden Horowitz Education event. In its second year at Bi-Cultural, the Race for Education is a national fund-raising effort open to schools throughout the country. Chairs Jessica Bradley and Jenny Fuchs and the Parents Association organized the event as friends and family were invited to participate and cheer on students, from pre-kindergarten through eighth grade. In total, Race for Education raised more than $25,000 for Bi-Cultural. L-r: Taylor Newman-White, Eytan Israel and Rabbi Shakked Parhi participated in Bi-Cultural’s L-r: Dinner Co-Chairs Mitchell and Jill Kaplan and Stella and Isaac Cohen (Photo by Race for Education fund-raising event. Michelle Gordon) FAMILY CENTRAL jULY/auGUST/SEPTEMBER 2015 BIRTH through PRESCHOOL GRADES K-8

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Tiny Treasures – Nurturing the Seeds Name The Newspaper Contest! 4 months to 3 years old. Wednesdays, June 24 and July 1 • 9:15-10:15 am at Gan Ye- GRADES 9-12 ladim. Fee: $90 for 10 weeks / $15 drop in class. Fun, interactive, hands on activities led WHEN MOSES WENT TO MOUNT SINAI by Nechama Hordiner. RSVP to [email protected]. BBYO For Grades 8-12. Every 2nd Monday • 7:00-9:00 pm at The J. Information: BBYO Re- HE FOUND THE NEW JEWISH VOICE gional Office (203) 389-2127 or [email protected] www.cvrbbyo.net. Leviticus AZA (Boys) & Tikvah BBG (Girls). SHABBAT FRIENDSHIP CIRCLE For volunteers in Grades 9-12 at Chabad. Information: Malya Shmotkin at 203-329- For information about Shabbat services, call the individual synagogues 0015 #414, [email protected] or www.friendshipct.com JEWISH STUDENT CONNECTION For Grades 9 – 12. Tuesdays • 2:15 pm at Stamford High School or Thursdays • 2:15 pm at Westhill High School. 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By Julie Lapin The students constructed a wall of hope on which On May 19, the sunny weather seemed to match Being that the event was just days before Shavuot, Carmel Academy has rallied to raise funds for the they wrote words of hope and prayer for the children the mood of the participants in the Friendship the holiday when Jews celebrate the receiving of the earthquake-ravaged country of Nepal. Immediately of Nepal. Each student also made a Nepalese prayer Circle’s End of Year BBQ and Family Celebration. Torah, a Torah stand was set up. People were able following the first earthquake in late April, Carmel’s flag that will be given to the Nepalese Consulate. More than 300 people of all ages and abilities came to see the process of how tefillin are made and were students launched #TikkuNepal, a fund-raising and “We hope the flags make it to some of the victims together at Scalzi Park of Stamford, to celebrate able to take ink and quill and write their own Hebrew awareness initiative that has sparked the involvement of the earthquake so they will be able to see there another year of friendships, programs and growth name on real parchment. of the entire school community. is a Jewish community in Greenwich, CT, at Carmel at the Friendship Circle. For many, the highlight of the event came in the “There was an immediate call to action when the Academy, that is thinking about those who were lost Families of individuals with special needs and their form of a “Game Show,” hosted by Hollyrock Enter- news broke,” said Erica Sokoloff, Carmel’s director and people in need,” Rothstein said. teen volunteers flocked to the park where they got to tainment. Between the hula hooping competition, of Jewish life. “The concept of #TikkuNepal is based “The enthusiasm about the cause was contagious,” said enjoy a barbecue as their kids ran off to participate in Simon Says contests and the trivia questions, the on the Jewish value of tikkun olam, which means to fix Sokoloff. “Classroom teachers began integrating tzedakah the activities. In addition to the sports activities laid contestants and members of the audience laughed or repair the world. Our students took the initiative into their lessons. For example, as part of a second-grade out in the large field by sports instructor Filipo Caro, and said they enjoyed the suspense. Friendship Circle volunteer Rebecca Rakowitz and her friend, and ran with the cause. “ math lesson about money, each student collected one the children and their buddies took part in activities See “Circle” on page 15 Zoe Rothchild, had a grand time at the end of year barbecue. The school joined forces with the American Jewish of each coin to realize they added up to 41 cents. The Joint Distribution Committee (or JDC) and created students donated the money to the cause and learned a fund-raising link for Carmel Academy. Students about the value of coins, as well as the impact each small Carmel first-graders showed their school pride and support July/August/September 2015 created awareness videos, posted signs throughout contribution makes to the greater goal.” for #TikkuNepal at the school’s Lag B’Omer Field Day. L-r: campus and dedicated their schoolwide Lag B’Omer Students organized their own fund-raisers, and Maya Brill, Kayla Erickson and Arielle Seligmann. field day to the campaign. During the field day, stu- close to 150 parents and students attended the Car- Support for Those in Need dents wore matching shirts featuring the flags from mel Academy PA Council Lag B’Omer picnic, which mates, raising close to $550 in one afternoon. “It COUNSELING, MEDIATION & CRISIS DIVORCE & BEREAVEMENT Nepal, Israel and United States. dedicated a fund-raising activity for the campaign. was something that was easy for us to do and that will “We not only focused on the fund-raising aspect of Fifth-grader Dani Loren organized a lemonade hopefully be helpful to Nepal,” Loren said. JFS For Children/ Adolescents Diagnosed With ADD/ADHD JFS Bereavement Support Group the needs of the Nepalese people, but we also tried stand in his neighborhood with several of his class- “I am so proud of our students’ desire to live our Wednesday afternoons. Finding Your Focus with Dr. Lee Combrinck-Graham Tuesdays at 10:30 am. Free of charge. Are you searching for a safe haven to to find ways to bring it into our overall consciousness middot (values) and, in turn, to feel the sense of em- MD. Service includes psychiatric evaluation, review of previous evaluations, explore your thoughts and feelings about grief? JFS provides an environment at school,” said Isaiah Rothstein, Carmel Academy’s powerment that they, too, can make a difference,” family assessment, on-going support, and medication management. Qualifies of emotional, physical and spiritual support. For more information, contact spiritual educator. said Head of School Nora Anderson. for insurance reimbursement. For more information, contact Eve Moskowitz at Rosemarie Delia at 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. Carmel Academy is a recipient agency of United 203-9211-4161 or [email protected]. Parent Education Program (PEP) Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and JFS College Counseling State-mandated workshop for divorcing parents with children at JFS Stamford. Darien. Need help navigating the college admission and application process? Fee is $125 per person. Call for date and to register at 203-324-3167. Qualified, experienced assistance provided by Claire D. Friedlander, JFS College Consultant. Competitive fees. For more information, contact Claire JFS Focus on K.I.D.S. Continued from page 14 For divorced or separated parents experiencing high conflict around parenting Circle Friedlander at (203- 921-4161 or [email protected]. decisions. Teaches both parents strategies for communicating in a non-hostile manner. Throughout the program, the feelings of friend- JFS Community and Family Mediation Services For more information, contact Erika Garcia at (203) 921-4161 or [email protected]. ship, joy and companionship were tangible. “I thought it was pretty amazing to see how many people are a Use third party mediator to help families/individuals resolve conflict. Nominal JFS Divorce Support Group in Stamford fees - available on a sliding scale. Resolve conflicts such as unsatisfactory part of the Friendship Circle,” said volunteer Shanon Mondays from 7-8 pm in Stamford. Fee: $10/session or $50/entire 6 sessions. For adults purchase or repair, landlord dispute, neighbor conflicts, issues with children, Kessler. “It was heartwarming to see how smoothly all who would like to discuss all aspects of separation and divorce, JFS will provide a marital partners and divorce. For information, contact Eve Moskowitz at 203- Carmel eighth-graders during the school’s Lag B’Omer of the participants – with various abilities – blended support group in the JFS Stamford office, 733 Summer St., 6th Floor. You must register 9211-4161 or [email protected]. #TikkuNepal Field Day, wearing their team shirts together. It felt so natural!” to attend by contacting Rebekah Kanefsky at [email protected] or call 203-921-4161. JFS Counseling highlighting the fund-raising campaign. L-r: Lielle Sirlin, For more information on the Friendship Circle, Qualified, licensed professionals provide counseling and psychotherapy to JFS Divorce Support Group in Westport Carmel Academy third-grader Emmy Brennan held flags Josh Pollack, Eliza Loewenberg, Stav Chasnoff, Carly visit FriendshipCT.com or e-mail Malya@Friend- individuals, children, adolescents, families, couples and groups. For emotional Tuesdays from 7-8 pm in Westport. Fee: $10/session or $50/entire 6 sessions. For adults sending good wishes and hope to the people of Nepal. Marinstein and Danielle Feit. shipCT.com. support while unemployed, see Life Transitions below. Affordable fees, who would like to discuss all aspects of separation and divorce, JFS will provide a based on income; no one is “turned away”. Insurance accepted. For more support group in the JFS Westport office, 431 Post Road E. Suite 11. You must register to information, contact JFS at 203 921-4161. attend by contacting Kylie Rothman at [email protected] or call 203-921-4161. July/August 2015 JFS Individuals / Families in Crisis SUPPORT Comprehensive services. Assistance with basic necessities, housing, medical, social, legal and financial matters. Fees based on ability to pay. For more information, BETSY’S BUDDIES contact: Rebekah Kanefsky at 203- 921-4161 #128 or [email protected]. One-on-one friendly visits between volunteers and home-bound members of PLEASESenior NOTE SPRING/SUMMER Adult VENUE CHANGE: Happenings the local community. For more information, contact Nechama Hordiner at 203-3CHABAD or [email protected] • The JCC Retired Men’s Club moves to Temple Sinai from Monday, June 22 through August 10 and returns CARING FOR SENIORS to the JCC on Monday, August 17. “NEW” Brain Fitness Program JFS Caregiver Support Group Trained volunteers will work with clients in early stage dementia or • The JCC Senior Adults Program moves to Temple Sinai from Tuesday, June 23 through Friday, August 14 Sundays at 5:00 pm with facilitator, Rona Wall, LCSW at JFS Westport, 431 Alzheimer’s in the client’s home. An aide or family member will be present. and returns to the JCC on Tuesday. August 18. Post Road E. Fee: $10 per session. An open forum to provide support and help The Brain Fitness initiative will last for 10 weeks for each client. If you are in dealing with the difficulties and stresses of caring for two generations. For interested in being trained as a volunteer, or for more information, contact The J ( JCC) Social Senior Program more information or to register, contact Rebekah Kanefsky at 203-921-4161 or Caroline Temlock Teichman at [email protected]. [email protected]. Tuesdays, Thursdays & Fridays at The J (JCC). FOR MORE JCC MORNING MOVIE MATINEE FOR SENIOR ADULTS. JFS Caregiver Support Group JFS Home Companions & Certified Nursing Assistants Sundays at 5 pm at JFS Westport. An open forum to provide support and help INFORMATION OR RESERVATIONS ON ANY SENIOR Fridays at 10 am. Coffee and a movie on a large screen TV. Trained aides assist seniors with daily activities, chores, and socialization. in dealing with the difficulties and stresses of caring for two generations. PROGRAMMING, CONTACT Connie Cirillo Freeman at Free to all seniors. Services provided hourly, daily or up to 24/7. For more information, contact Fee: $10/session or $50 for fix sessions. Facilitator: Rona Wall, LCSW. For more 203-487-0983 or [email protected] Tuesday JCC RETIRED MEN’S CLUB JFS Home Companion at 203- 921-4161. information or to register, please contact Rebekah Kanefsky at 203-461-9161 or through Friday. Programs vary by day of the week. All welcome. email [email protected]. Mondays, 10-1 pm. 10-11 am (members only); invited speak- JFS Residential Cleaning Transportation available for Stamford residents. Employ professionally trained individuals to clean your home and at the same JFS Kosher Food Pantry er at 11 am (open). Every meeting is followed by a soup-and- time help support Jewish Family Service. Rates lower or competitive than Non-perishable staples for those in need. Donations welcomed. For more BIRTHDAY LUNCHEONS sandwich lunch and a bridge game after the meal. Reservations other service providers. For more information, contact Jodi Maxner at 203- information, contact JFS at 203-921-4161. Monthly. Tuesdays, June 30, July 28, August 25 • 12-1 pm. required by Tuesday afternoon for the following Monday. Lunch 921-4161 or [email protected]. Let’s Talk $3 suggested donation. Reservations required. Fee: $3 suggested donation. Jewish Senior Services Thursdays, 11 am at the Stamford JCC. Free. Meet new people or deepen your BLOOD PRESSURE SCREENING Jewish Senior Services is one of the premiere providers of senior care in Con- friendship with those you already know. Engage in meaningful conversation about a JULY 4 HOLIDAY LUNCHEON necticut serving clients at their two Fairfield locations and in clients’ homes wide variety of topics that are important in our lives. Topics may range from how to Tuesday, July 7, August 4 from 9:45-11:15 am. Thursday, July 2 • 12-1 pm. $3 suggested donation. throughout Fairfield and New Haven Counties. Their 5-star skilled nursing and live a fulfilling life, creating healthy relationships, savoring our cherished memories, No appointment necessary. FREE. Reservations required. short term rehabilitation facility has been serving the community for over 40 to embracing changing life circumstances. All will be encouraged to express their CHAIR EXERCISE FOR SENIORS years with an unparalleled level of quality and personalized care. Other servic- feelings and experiences related to the themes that emerge in a safe and supportive LIFE ENHANCEMENT CLASSES es provided include home care, hospice, day services, advocacy and education, environment. Led by Kylie Rothman from Jewish Family Service, free of charge. For Tuesdays & Thursdays from 10:15-11am. Energetic chair Tuesdays & Thursdays from 11-11:45 am. Classes designed to and long term care protection. To find out more about the many services of more information, contact Connie Cirillo Freeman, Director of Senior Adult Services exercise class using weights and balls. FREE to all Seniors. entertain, educate and enrich. Jewish Senior Services, please call 203-365-6400 or visit www.jseniors.org. at Stamford JCC at 203-487-0983 or [email protected]. Games & Gab Aging Gracefully. Common-age related health issues with EMPLOYMENT & TRAINING Mondays, Tuesdays, Thursdays from 1-3 pm & Fridays from practical advice on how to support each other in aging gracefully 1-2 pm. Bring your game of choice - bridge, Scrabble, canasta Current Events and Timely Topics. Informal conversations and JFS Computer Training Courses talks with various speakers about what’s going on in Stamford, Variety of courses - all levels, individuals or small groups. Nominal fee. For more information, contact Ilene Locker at 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. and more. Information: Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or [email protected]. All are welcome. FREE. as well as national and international events and timely topics. JFS Life Transitions Our Stories on Thursdays. Hear one-of-a-kind stories about Wednesdays at 11:30 am. Support group for the unemployed at Stamford JFS office. Discuss concerns and issues related to job loss and alternative solutions for career HOT KOSHER LUNCH for older adults (60+) satisfaction. Supported by both JFS Counseling and Employment & Training Departments. For Information/Register: Rosemarie Delia 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. Tuesdays, Thursdays & Fridays from 12-1 pm. Suggested the lives, experiences, occupations or pastimes of JCC senior program participants. Free to all seniors. JFS Seniors2Work donation: $3 for lunch and $1 each way for transportation. Job Bank for age 50+. Lower Fairfield employers can list full/part time jobs for dedicated, skilled mature workers. No fees. For more information, contact Ilene Reservations are required for both lunch and transportation. Lunch Seniors in Song. Sing along with old favorites, Yiddish to Broadway Locker or Jodi Maxner at 203-921-4161 or www.seniors2work.org reservations: call Tuesday by noon for Friday lunch. Call Friday by noon SHABBAT WITH OR BERGER – JCC ISRAELI SHALIACH. FOR MORE INFORMATION / ADDRESSES: for Tuesday & Thursday lunches. Call every Monday to make/confirm Fridays from 11:30 am-12 pm. Discussions on Israel prior to FRIENDSHIP CIRCLE: Mayla Shmotkin • [email protected] reservations for the week. Cancellations: call as soon as possible. Shabbat lunch JCC OR THE J: JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER: 1035 Newfield Ave, Stamford • 203-322-7900 • www.stamfordjcc.org JFS: Jewish Family Service: (203) 921-4161; Stamford office: 733 Summer Street, Suite 602; Westport office: 431 Post Road East, Suite 11. www.ctjfs.org ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 16 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ july 2015 july 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 17 Mensch on a Bench Is There a Doctor in the Carmel Students Seek to Help Endangered Birds On May 4, the UJF Rothschild Society Carmel Academy’s students are held a business networking event at the House? hoping to have some feathered SoundWaters Educational Center, a friends visit campus. The students historic house at the Cove Island Park United Jewish Federation’s new Hospital in Jerusalem.” Co-chairs of the erected wren boxes, which were con- in Stamford. The evening featured a Maimonides medical affinity group event were Silver, Dr. Kayla Mazer and Dr. structed by Carmel families during a program by Neal Hoffman, inventor held its premier event on May 12 in Leon Hanna. The event was presented Parent Association Council outing at of Mensch on a Bench. Hoffman’s Stamford at the office of Dr. Marc Silver. in partnership with the Stamford chap- Audubon Greenwich. lecture included the story of how he Dr. Sigmund Karasch of Boston’s Mas- ter of Hadassah. A thank you was given As part of a science unit, Carmel’s created his Chanukah toy and book, sachusetts General Hospital spoke about to Rhonda Greif, Stamford Hadassah sixth-graders learned that house and about his experience taking his his experience working with both Arab president, for her aid in planning the wrens, which are native to the area, product to shelves across the country and Israeli children in a lecture titled event. For more information, contact are losing their homes and habitats. after being featured on ABC’s television “A Slice of Peace: The Experience of an Sharon Franklin at 203-321-1373, ext. After looking at the requirements of show “Shark Tank.” American Doctor Working at Hadassah 109, or [email protected]. food and safety for these birds, the Carmel Academy sixth-grader Daniel Kesler Guests in the business community students installed the wren boxes (right) put up a wren box on the school’s also had a chance to enjoy refresh- throughout campus in hopes of at- campus with the help of Carmel parent ments, network and schmooze. Chairs Hersh Batkin and Janet Welkovich, event tracting the birds. They will watch for Michal Frankel and staff member Alex of the event were Hersh Batkin and co-chairs signs that the wrens have started to Hamm Jr. Janet Welkovich. build nests. Carmel is now a certified For more information about the contact Sharon Franklin at 203-321- nest watch location. of United Jewish Federation of Greater Rothschild Society, the business affin- 1373, ext. 109, or e-mail at sharon@ Carmel Academy is a recipient agency Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. ity group of United Jewish Federation, ujf.org. Carmel Runners Shine at L-r: Carmel Academy sixth-graders Josh Beder, Joshua Geffner, Rebecca Katz and Mimi Chapman scouted out a campus location to place wren boxes in the hopes of attracting Cross Country Race birds that are at risk of losing their natural habitats. Carmel Students Named L-r: Dr. Ora Burstein, Dr. Sigmund Karasch and Dr. Shara Israel Winners in Stock Market Game Two Carmel Academy seventh-graders were named second-place winners in the Middle School division of the statewide 2015 Stock Market L-r: Remi Rosenberg (YLD board member), Neil Hoffman, Peter Wolly (YLD board member) Game. Sammy Shiff (left) and Ben Benson (right) and Jeff Manheim created a team portfolio that yielded a 2.41 percent return above S&P 500 growth. Sponsored by Carmel Academy’s Cross Country Team finished its season, winning several ribbons at the the Securities Industry and Financial Markets Fairchester Athletic Association’s championship race. Carmel Academy’s varsity runners Association, the simulated investment game came away with several ribbon winners. Sixth-grader Leah Brill finished the season promotes skills in business, economics, math, L-r: Roz Fleisher, Madeline Field, Connie Cirillo Freeman, Dr. Sigmund Karasch, Rhonda winning second place in her division; fifth-graders Talia Orbach and Liora Safer won research and critical thinking. The two students, Greif (Stamford Hadassah president), Joyce Backman, Allison Greenbaum and Elaine third and fifth place ribbons respectively in their division; and sixth-grader Ezra Ament along with their teacher Jonathan Holub, were Finkelstein. took the fourth place ribbon in his division. L-r: Carmel Academy’s Cross Country runners invited to attend the Stock Market Game Program – Brill, Orbach, Safer and Ament – are shown with their winning ribbons at the Fairchester Awards Ceremony in May at The Hartford Athletic Association’s Championship meet. Courant headquarters. What’s On for Adults July, August/September 2015 OPEN EVENTS - ONGOING OPEN EVENTS L-r: Adrienne Silberman, Eileen Springer (UJF board member), Neal Hoffman with his Beginners’ Torah Study with Melissa Cohavi Hadassah Book Club Mensch on a Bench and Emily Wirgin (YLD president) L-r: Dr. Kayla Mazer, Dr. Leon Hanna, Dr. Sigmund Karasch and Dr. Marc Silver Fridays, 12-1 pm at Temple Sinai. FREE. Learn about the Torah, its law, its stories Wednesday, July 15 • 7:15 pm • Location TBE.“Brewster” by Marc Slouka. For and the ancient people. Bring lunch. further information or RSVP: [email protected] or 203-829-9341. Bible Study with Rabbi Eugene Borowitz A Remarkable Kindness Saturdays, 9 am at Temple Sinai. Share in Shabbat and study Torah. FREE. Thursday, Aug 20 • 7 pm with Diana Bletter at the Darien Library. Refreshments Adult Volunteer Opportunities Games & Gab at the J following the program. Free and open to the public. Diana Bietter’s novel traces Mondays, Tuesdays, Thursdays & Fridays, 1- 3 pm. Bring your game of choice - the lives of four American women who are part of a unique Jewish tradition in JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER (JCC) bridge, Scrabble, canasta and more. For information: Connie Cirillo Freeman at their coastal village in Northern Israel: they prepare and dress women for burial, 203-487-0983 or [email protected]. All are welcome. FREE. Kosher Lunch Program for Seniors. Help set up and serve as they grow in friendship and marriages, learn to accept death and to appreci- ate the sorrows and wonders of life. The program is co-sponsored by the Jewish HOT Kosher lunch to seniors. Tuesdays, Thursdays & Tefillin Club For men and kids. Every Sunday • 8-9 am at Chabad. Wrap Tefillin, say Shema, share some words of Torah and inspiration and bond over bagels and lox breakfast. Historical Society of Fairfield County and the Darien Library, 1441 Post Road. Fridays at the JCC. For more information or reservation: Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or cfreeman@ JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY OF Torah and Tea at Chabad The Boston Girl For Men and Women. Tuesdays • 11 am-12pm at Chabad Loft Café. Fee: $5.00 per class. Wednesday, Sept. 2 • 7 pm with Anita Diamant , author of The Red Tent and stamfordjcc.org FAIRFIELD COUNTY (JHS) For information: Leah Shemtov at 203-324-2223 or [email protected] Day After Night at the Bennett Library. Refreshments following the program. JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE (JFS) Harry Rosenbaum Judaica Library. At the JCC. Cover 2 Free and open to the public. Anita Diamant presents her “unforgettable novel” hour slot (or more) once a week. You’ll be trained on the OPEN EVENTS about family ties and values, friendship and feminism told through the eyes of Drivers needed to deliver food from the Kosher Food Pantry computer system and the arrangement of books in the HOT KOSHER LUNCH for older adults (60+) a young Jewish woman growing up in Boston in the early twentieth century. to individuals in the community. For information: Rebekah library. Call 203-487-0957. Tuesdays, Thursdays & Fridays from 12-1 pm. Suggested donation: $3 for lunch and Eighty-five-year-old Addie Baum is The Boston Girl, born in 1900 who tells the Kanefsky at 203-921-4161 or [email protected] story of her life to her twenty-two-year-old granddaughter, who has asked Help protect the pieces of our Jewish history: Do you enjoy $1 each way for transportation. Reservations are required for both lunch and trans- portation. For lunch reservations, call Tuesday by noon for Friday lunch. Call Friday by her “How did you get to be the woman you are today?” The program is co- finding out about our region’s early Jewish settlers? Do you noon for Tuesday and Thursday lunches. Call every Monday to make/confirm reserva- sponsored by the Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County and the Harry UJF’s READING PARTNERS want to help Jewish organizations retain their history and tions for the week. For cancellations, call as soon as possible. Bennett Library, 115 Vine Road. Read one-on-one with Stamford public school children. documents? Call 203-359-2196. One hour a week, mornings or afternoons. 12 elementary FOR MORE INFORMATION/ADDRESSES: schools and 2 community centers. Training, literacy focused BI-CULTURAL DAY SCHOOL (BCDS): 2186 High Ridge Road, Stamford • (203) 329-2186 • www.bcds.org workshops and support network provided. Contact Marlyn CHABAD: 770 High Ridge Road, Stamford • 203-3-CHABAD #418 • Leah Shemtov: [email protected] • www.chabadhousestamford.org Agatstein 203-321-1373 x115 or [email protected]. FRIENDSHIP CIRCLE: (203) 329-0015 X414 • [email protected] or www.friendshipct.com FOR MORE INFORMATION / ADDRESSES: JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER (JCC OR THE J): 1035 Newfield Ave, Stamford • 203-322-7900 • www.stamfordjcc.org JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE (JFS): 733 Summer Street, Stamford • (203) 921-4161 • www.ctjfs.org JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER (JCC OR THE J): 1035 Newfield Ave, Stamford • 203-322-7900 • www.stamfordjcc.org TEMPLE BETH EL (TBE): 350 Roxbury Road, Stamford • (203) 322-6401 #306 • [email protected] • www.tbe.org JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE (JFS): 733 Summer Street, Stamford • (203) 921-4161 • www.ctjfs.org TEMPLE SINAI (TS): 458 Lakeside Drive, Stamford • (203) 322-1649 • www.templesinaistamford.org UNITED JEWISH FEDERATION OF GREATER STAMFORD, NEW CANAAN AND DARIEN (UJF): 1035 Newfield Avenue, Suite 200, Stamford • UNITED JEWISH FEDERATION OF GREATER STAMFORD, NEW CANAAN AND DARIEN (UJF): 1035 Newfield Avenue, Suite 200, Stamford • (203) 321-1373 • www.ujf.org (203) 321-1373 • www.ujf.org ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 18 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ july 2015 july 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 19 JWC celebrates Lag B’Omer and Honors Community JFS Kosher Food Pantry Adds a Freezer By Rebekah Kanefsky Women Jewish Family Service is purchasing a freezer, On May 6, Jewish Women Connected ping, the main cooking demonstration thanks to the generosity of the JCC Greenwich Teen from Chabad Stamford held its annual was presented by Reyna Simnegar, the Action Committee. The teens raised $700 toward the Lag B’Omer event, this year titled “Jew- author of “Persian Food from the Non- At left: Leah Schechter, purchase of a freezer for the Kosher Food Pantry. ish Cuisine from Around the World Persian Bride.” Doris Warmflash, Shira assistant director of JCC The food pantry clients currently benefit from and Around the Corner.” Featuring Nerenberg and Ellen Weber were also Greenwich, with JCC shelf-stable, non-perishable food items, as well as the tastes of kosher chefs, bloggers and honored for their work and commit- Greenwich Teen Action a once-monthly Fresh Produce Day event for fresh foodies, and offering boutique shop- ment to the Stamford community. Committee members (names produce, eggs, breads, meat and dairy. With the withheld), held a check addition of a freezer, the pantry can store freezer- for Jewish Family Service. safe, perishable food items in order to enhance the The funds will be used to existing food offerings for clients. purchase a new freezer for the In addition, the pantry has received food dona- Kosher Food Pantry at JFS in tions from Mike’s Center Café and Bakery and Six Stamford. Thirteen Restaurant as part of an initiative to “rescue L-r: Honorees Doris Warmflash and Shira Nerenberg, Chabad Stamford Co-director Leah food.” Rather than throwing away food items that Shemtov and honoree Ellen Weber (Photo by Liat Feller) are still completely edible at the end of the day, but can no longer be sold in the store, the restaurants donate them to the JFS Kosher Food Pantry. These donations can now be stored in the freezer on an ongoing basis in the pantry rather than once a month Super Sunday Tzedakah Contest at the Fresh Produce Day event. In addition, as JFS gears up for its High Holidays food collection drive in September 2015, the freezer Winners Enjoy Pizza! will provide the flexibility for donors to offer perish- able and non-perishable food donations. JFS will fulfill its mission with less waste, increased nutrition and At right: The third- continued tzedakah within the community. L-r: Inna Novikova, Violet Tehrani, presenter Reyna Simnegar and Miriam Lehrer Sperber graders in Beth Fritz’s Those who might be interested in donating food (Photo by Taly Farber) L-r: Rita Chimes, Camille Warmflash and Dallice Lazarus (Photo by Dabrushie Liberow) class at Bi-Cultural and household items to the JFS Kosher Food Pantry, Day School said they or are aware of someone in the community who might Technology Continued from page 1 were excited to have benefit from these services, should call 203-921-4161 their pizza party in early or e-mail [email protected]. panies are often able only to invest which Player 1 turns his head. If the to design affordable aids for people June. The class won the Jewish Family Service is a recipient agency of United Jewish in projects with strong demand that player moves right, a red light turns with disabilities. The goal was to cre- pizza by raising the most Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. are marketable to the masses. People on, while a yellow light is activated by ate solutions that increase integration money for Super Sunday Rebekah Kanefsky is the JFS case manager. with intellectual and developmental a move to the left, and so on. Player and inclusion. “The event was a direct out of all the classes disabilities often have unique needs. 2 must mimic Player 1. As the players meeting ground for people with special in the Stamford area The solutions must be tailored to the engage, the color sequences get longer needs and the people with the ability schools. United Jewish individual, which takes time and money. and more difficult. Now, Greenberg to help solve [their challenges],” TOM Federation of Greater “We are not a technology company and is in touch with one of Israel’s major Founding Director Arnon Zamir says of Stamford, New Canaan we do not aim to be one. We are con- hospitals for youths with disabilities the 72-hour program, which produced and Darien’s annual nectors,” Zamir tells JNS.org. to determine if this is something 25 technological prototypes. The system developed at a Tikkun Olam Super Sunday raised Eran Tamir, an employee at IBM that could be further developed and Zamir explains that for-profit com- Makers “make-a-thon” allows people who more than $300,000, Israel whose son Guy has cerebral palsy, brought to market. are paralyzed from the neck down to turn thanks to the help of took part in the recent make-a-thon and Tomer Daniel works in the Wi-Fi pages in a book. (Photo courtesy of ZOA all the children who The New Jewish Voice describes TOM as “a miracle.” When division at Intel Israel. At night, “I build Productions) participated in the “The New Jewish Voice” (USPS #189) is published monthly by the Tamir arrived at TOM: TLV, he was stuff,” Daniel says. contest. United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and swept away by the powerful teams that Daniel got involved in the maker Daniel says that when it comes to us- Darien Inc., 1035 Newfield Ave., Stamford, CT 06905-2521. stayed and worked until midnight, or community a few years ago, entering ing technology for tikkun olam, expertise www.ujf.org for updates and donations even dawn. The next day, which hap- make-a-thon/hack-a-thon contests on is not a barrier to entry. “You don’t have Ellen Weber...... President pened to be Israeli Election Day, he weekends and evenings. He says he to be an engineer, you don’t have to James A. Cohen...... Chief Executive Officer brought Guy. The makers took time created several gimmicks, including a build stuff,” he says. “Some people are ® good with their hands, some with their Advisory Committee to get to know Guy and to understand PAC-MAN helmet that players wear to Deadline: August 7 5776 minds. The greatest teams are those Meryl Gordon...... Chair him. One group, led by industrial direct the joystick, using their heads. (September Rosh Hashanah issue) Meryl Japha, Nancy Schulman, Sue Yellen composed of people with golden hands, designer Nurit Greenberg, invented “You nod left, down, up, right, and the Once again this year, The New a prototype specifically for Guy. They PAC-MAN moves,” Daniel says. “It is so golden minds, and golden eyes.” Jewish Voice is inviting its readers and Reporter Group Staff call it “GidiGuy.” funny, it only moves when you open TOM’s Zamir notes that the organi- local organizations to extend New Year’s greetings to the community by The Reporter Group edits and publishes The New Jewish Voice. purchasing a New Year’s greeting ad, which will appear in our September issue. Rabbi Rachel Esserman...... Executive Editor Greenberg says her team was and close your mouth, too. But this is zation has already held a competition You may choose from the designs, messages and sizes shown here - more Diana Sochor...... Layout Editor charged with developing a game for something that is smart, but useless.” in Brazil, and that he is in contact with are available. You may also choose your own message, as long as it fits Michael Nassberg...... Assistant Editor 11 other countries about running these into the space of the greeting you select. (Custom designs available upon children with special needs to be able to But TOM, says Daniel, is “smart and request.) The price of the small greeting is $18 (styles B and E), the medium Jenn DePersis...... Production Coordinator play and interact on an equal level with useful. It is helping people.” programs. TOM: NY is planned for New one is $36 (style A and D) and the largest one (style G, not shown) is $72. Alaina Cardarelli...... Graphic Artist mainstream youths. Guy, for example, Daniel and his team created another York in March 2016. Even Kosovo has To ensure that your greeting is published or for more information on Bonnie Rozen...... Advertising Representative additional styles, sizes & designs, please contact Bonnie Rozen at Kathy Brown...... Bookkeeper cannot use his hands, so the solution helmet during the TOM competition. expressed interest in the initiative. In 1-800-779-7896, ext. 244 or [email protected]. Checks can centered on his most easily-moved body This one assists a blind person in this way, says Zamir, TOM can help be made payable to The Reporter and sent to: The New Jewish Voice, 500 Opinions part: his head. navigating his home. Using sensors like Israel be “a light unto the nations.” Clubhouse Rd., Vestal, NY 13850. The views expressed in editorials and opinion pieces Zamir says he sees the TOM model, Style A - $36 • Actual Size: 3.2222” x 1.975” are those of each author and not necessarily the views Greenberg’s team, which consisted the ones in a cell phone, it gauges the of the United Jewish Federation. of a mechanical engineer, economic distance between a person and walls much like the TEDxTalks, as something consultant, architect and others, de- or other objects, keeping the blind that can be replicated elsewhere with- Letters out the direct involvement of TOM’s The New Jewish Voice welcomes letters on subjects of signed a game similar to “Simon Says,” person safer from harm. “We tested interest to the Jewish community. All letters must be using sensors and colored lights. The it on ourselves. That was really neat,” Israel-based team. TOM is in the pro- signed and include a phone number. The editor may system recognizes the direction in Daniel tells JNS.org. cess of building a website, which will withhold the name upon request. house information about the organi-

Kashruth zational concept, but also images and We are not responsible for the Kashruth of any assembly directions for the prototypes advertiser’s product or establishment. the competitions have produced. This Style B - $18 In Connecticut, nearly one child in five is hungry or food insecure and does not get enough food out- way, companies might see solutions they Actual Size: 3.2222” x 1.975” How to reach the editor: want to explore taking from prototype side of the free meal programs provided by the public schools. Women’s Philanthropy of the Jewish Mail: Sandy Golove to market. Alternatively, a visitor to the Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien is joining other programs throughout the 1035 Newfield Ave. - Suite 200 website might consider replicating one country to do something about this situation in our own backyards. Stamford, CT 06905-2521 of the innovations for a family member E-mail: [email protected] or friend in need. Fax: (203) 322-3277 TOM is considering focusing its Style E - $18 Your support helps 3 SQUARE provide elementary school-age children identified as “in need” with a Phone: (203) 321-1373, ext. 107 next make-a-thon on solutions for the Actual Size: 1.5278” x 1.975” bag of food each Friday to sustain them through the weekend. Most of these children are chronically Send article submissions via e-mail to elderly, according to Zamir. “I always hungry and don’t have regular access to food. Sandy Golove at [email protected] say that if each person could give one marked “Stamford Voice” in the subject minute to another person, our world line. Expect an acknowledgement; would be a better place,” says IBM’s For further information, please contact Rebekah Raz at [email protected]. please re-send if you do not receive one. Tamir. “I don’t think this is something AUG. 7 deadline How to reach that could have started in any other the advertising country, but Israel.” Representative: Maayan Jaffe is former editor-in-chief Phone: 1-800-779-7896, ext. 244 of the Baltimore Jewish Times and a Style D - $36 • Actual Size: 3.2222” x 1.975” Subscription Information: Kansas-based freelance writer. Reach her Phone: (203) 321-1373 ext. 107 at [email protected] or follow her on Twitter, @MaayanJaffe. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 20 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ july 2015