WEEKDAY SCHEDULE : Thursday: 6:35 a.m. Friday: 6:45 a.m. Parshat Nitzavim will begin 30 minutes before Shacharit each morning 5780 & Ma’ariv: Thursday: 6:25 p.m. 28 5779–2 5780 September 28-October 1, 2019 YOUTH DEPARTMENT Groups meet in the upstairs youth rooms FRIDAY Ages 3 through 4th grade: 9:30 a.m. Candle Lighting: 6:27 p.m. Tot with Morah Aliza 10:30 a.m. Mincha & Kabbalat Shabbat: 6:32 p.m. Repeat Kri’at Shema after: after 7:26 p.m. ​ BABYSITTING FOR HIGH HOLIDAYS

● All babysitting services begin at 8:30 a.m. SHABBAT DAY ● Children 6 months (or sitting independently) to 23 months will be in Early Minyan ( ANNEX ): 8:00 a.m. ​ ​ the uppermost youth room. Main Minyan (Main Sanctuary): 9:00 a.m. ● Children ages 2-3 will be in the larger youth room on the second Sof Z’man Kri’at Shema: 9:48 a.m.. ​ level. ● We will also have use of the social hall in the basement. It will be Mincha: 6:15 p.m. divided into 3 sections for the following ages: 3-4 year olds, 5-6year Maariv: 7:24 p.m. olds, and 6-11 year olds. Havdalah: 7:34 p.m. ● If you are unsure as to where your child’s room is, there will be a list of children’s names outside each door. KIDDUSH & SPONSORSHIPS ● All children must be in a babysitting room or with their parents in ● Early Minyan Kiddush sponsored by Gitty & Michael Bender ​ shul at all times. commemorating the yahrtzeit of Gitty’s father, Yechiel ben Elazar. ​ ​ ● Parents: you can stay in the babysitting rooms to transition your Shiur by Rabbi Martin Rosenseld on, “Defining Teshuvah.” ​ child, but please do not linger in the rooms to allow for other ● Main Shul Kiddush is sponsored by the Shul. ​ ​ ​ children to transition smoothly as well. ● Seudah Shlishit sponsored by the Shul. Dvar by Andy ​ ● If your child is brought to you during davening and wants to go Schultz. back to babysitting, it is the parent’s responsibility to escort the child ROSH HASHANAH 5780 back to babysitting and let the babysitter know that your child is SUNDAY, EREV ROSH HASHANAH back. Do not allow your child to wander in the shul unattended. Selichot & Shacharit: 7:15 a.m. ● There will be a special blowing for each babysitting room. ​ ​ (No bagels and Mishna shiur. ) Parents: please do not bring your children into the shul’s shofar ​ ​ Candle Lighting: 6:24 p.m. blowing since they will be having their own. Mincha & Ma’ariv: 6:29 p.m. ● Each child will be given a name tag when dropped off with their Dvar Torah by Rabbi Donath name and where their parents are sitting in shul. ● All food and drinks must be sent with your child and must be nut MONDAY, FIRST DAY OF ROSH HASHANAH free. Food will not be provided by the shul. Shacharit: 8:00 a.m. ● We will do our best to accommodate eating and napping schedules (Main Sanctuary): 10:30 a.m. but we cannot guarantee a strict adherence. You are welcome to Tashlich 5:00 p.m. send a blanket in with your child to assist with napping. There will Steve and Miriam Mittman invite the entire community to their home for not be any space for pack n plays within the shul. Tashlich at 4-34 2nd St. ● Children may not leave the group rooms on their own and must be Mincha: 6:15 p.m. picked up by their parents immediately after services. Shiur by Rabbi Schrier on “Uman joy or Brisker seriousness?” ● If you have any questions, please contact Shira Schwarz. Ma’ariv: 7:21 p.m. ● Toy Drive — We are in need of new and gently used toys before Candle Lighting & preparations for the 2nd day: not before 7:31 p.m. ​ ​ ​ Rosh HaShanah. Donations can be dropped off to the Diamonds at

10-13 Ellis Avenue. Text Chavi at 732-801-3294 that the items were TUESDAY, SECOND DAY OF ROSH HASHANAH dropped off. Visit dno.am/toydrive to see items donated or our Shacharit: 8:00 a.m. ​ ​ wishlist on Amazon at dno.am/toydrive/wishlist. Shofar Blowing (Main Sanctuary): 10:30 a.m. ​ ​ Pre-Mincha Shiur by Ora Schrier: “Contemporary Conversations” ANNOUNCEMENTS Mincha: 6:15 p.m. ● Welcome to Benjy and Shifra Leibowitz who are checking out the Shiur by Rabbi Schrier on “Fully Shomer Mitzvos and still a Heretic-the ​ community. surprising perspective of the Rambam in Hilchos Teshuvah” ● Mazal tov to Ari and Alyssa Ginsberg on the birth of a baby boy, Ma’ariv: 7:11 p.m. ​ and to big brother Sammy and big sister Liana! Havadala: 7:29 p.m. ● Refuah shleimah to Menachem Mendel ben Perl. ​ .We extend our condolences on the passing of Mr .ברוך דיין האמת ● WEDNESDAY, FAST OF GEDALIA beloved father of Susan Weintraub. The funeral ,ז''ל Eugene Leitman Fast Begins: 5:41 a.m. ​ ​ was today. Susan will be sitting Shiva today, Motzei Shabbos, & Selichot & Shacharit: 6:05 a.m. Sunday morning at her brother's house, 21 Celler Rd, Edison, NJ. Mincha, & Ma’ariv: 5:55 p.m. Susan can be reached on her cell phone: 646-591-3233. May the Ginsberg Bris after mincha mourners be comforted among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem. Fast Ends: 7:11 p.m. ● 8:00 a.m. minyan has been relocated to the Annex building next ​

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th th door. Thank you to Baruch Harris, Isaac Schwarz, Steve Mittman, ● The Paterson Shul: Federation Apartments 510 E. 27 ​ Street/12 ​ ​ ​ Harvey Schwartz, Noam Betesh, and the entire New Building Ave, Paterson, NJ. The Paterson Shul wishes Darchei Noam L’Shana committee for their tireless efforts preparing the space for the Tova, a Gezunt, Parnossa, Nachos, Mazal, Bracha, Hatzlacha, Refuos minyan. Thank you very much to the attendees of the 8:00 a.m. and Yeshuos and thanks those who help make the Paterson Minyan. minyan for your willingness, flexibility, and collaboration with the And a special thank you to Ofer Aharon for getting the new carpet location change. installed just in time for the new year! High Holiday schedule: th st ○ Monday, September 30 ​ & Tuesday, October 1 :​ Rosh Hashanah LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES ​ ​ Weekly shiurim are on hiatus until after the Chaggim. Minyanim 9a.m. th ● Contemporary Conversations, before Mincha: 2nd Day ○ Tuesday Night, October 8 :​ / services at NEW ​ ​ Rosh HaShana, Oct 12, and Nov 2 — A pre-Mincha series with Ora 6:30p.m. ​ ​ ​ th Schrier. Every shiur will center around an article that discusses a ○ Wednesday, October 9 :​ Yom Kippur Minyan beginning at 9a.m. ​ particular theme. Our first theme will be "The Other". We will begin Tashlich: Come out with the kids to the Great Falls of Paterson for ​ with Rav Soloveitchik's article on interfaith dialogue: Tashlich on Sunday, Oct. 6 at noon. Family-friendly and second "Confrontation". Articles will be made available in advance, tallest waterfalls only to Niagara, east of the Mississippi. Cast away pre-reading not required. your sins before Yom Kippur at the Great Falls of Paterson ● There will be a special pre Yom Kippur shiur this coming www.nps.gov/pagr/index.htm Address: 72 McBride Avenue, NEW ​ ​ Thursday night, Oct. 3rd given by Rabbi Akiva Weisinger at 8 p.m.. Paterson, NJ. Free street parking. For more info contact Refreshments to be served. [email protected] or visit www.PatersonShul.org for ​ ​ additional details. UPCOMING EVENTS ● Rav Moshe Tzvi Weinberg-”Returning to Hashem by Returning to ● Lulav & Etrog Sale—Orders Due Oct 6 — Pickup on Thursday, Each Other.” Motzei Shabbat, October 5, at 8:30 p.m., Congregation ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ October 10, 7:15 - 9:15 p.m., at Darchei Noam. Order your Lulav & Bnai Yeshurun. Co-sponsored by Project Ezrah and Congregation ​ Etrog sets starting at $40. Lulav & etrog sets, extra hadassim & Bnai Yeshurun. aravot, lulav bags, and more. Order online at dno.am/lulav. ● RCBC Kinus Teshuva. Sunday, Oct. 6. 8:00 a.m.-Selichot. 8:30 a.m. ​ ​ ​ ● Save the Date: Monday, , Oct 21 — Join -Shacharit. 9:20-10:30 a.m.-three mini-shiurim by Rabbi Yaakov NEW ​ ​ ​ Rabbi & Shira Donath at their home for refreshments on Shemini Neuburger, Dean Rachel Friedman and Rabbi Nathaniel Helfgot. Atzeret afternoon. Congregation Shaare Tefillah, 510 Claremont Ave., Teaneck. nd ● Kiddush —Please join the entire kahal at a ● Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey’s 22 ​ annual Mitzvah NEW ​ ​ ​ ​ festive Kiddush following Shacharit and Hakafot on Simchat Torah Day, Sunday, November 24 at 50 Eisenhower Drive in Paramus. ​ day. To sponsor at $36, email Abe Adler ([email protected]). Join Jewish Federation’s annual Mitzvah Day on Sunday, 11/24! All ​ ​ ● Sukkah Decorating, Sunday, Oct 6, 10–11:30 a.m. — Create ages welcome to take part in activities to benefit our local NEW ​ ​ ​ sukkah decorations & build edible ! $5/child or $10/family community and Israel. Sign up for the morning or afternoon session. max. RSVP so we know how many supplies to bring at Collection drives for the activities start now. Contact Beth Figman dno.am/sukkahdecorating. Payment also accepted at the door. |[email protected]|201 820-3947 for more information. ● Sukkah Hop, Tuesday, Second Day Sukkot, Oct 15 —All www.jfnnj.org/mitzvahday NEW ​ ​ ​ children & grandchildren welcome. In association with Shomrei ● YAD LEAH Clothing for Israel Dash for Dignity Run. Sunday, ​ Torah. Details coming soon. November 10, 8:00-11:00 a.m. at Overpeck Park – 5K Run, 1 Mile ● Simchat Torah Dinner & Children's Hakafot, Monday, Family Walk and Kids’ Dashes for ages 3-8. There will be activities NEW ​ ​ Shmini Atzeret, Oct 21 — Bring your own stuffed torah, flags, and for everyone – including face painting, inflatables, music and ​ ruach! Dinner ½ hr before Mincha and Hakafot after Mincha. breakfast! Register at www.yadleah.org/dash. Donors and ​ ​ ● Post-Hakafot Ice Pop Break, Tuesday, Simchat Torah, Oct 22 corporate sponsors welcome! For more information, please reach NEW ​ ​ — NO GROUPS simchat torah morning. After kol hanearim all the out to Shoshana Poloner at [email protected]. ​ ​ children are invited to the big group room for ice pops. ● The Fair Lawn Daf Yomi Chabura is looking to welcome some ​ more participants. If you are interested in joining the shiur, at SPECIAL NOTICES Shomrei Torah, please contact Dr. Zvi Loewy. ● Social Hall Chairs have been cleaned. Please refrain from placing ● Communities Confronting Substance Abuse. You Are Not Alone: ​ ​ any food or drinks on the chairs. Thank you for your cooperation. Support group for loved ones of those suffering from addiction and ● Stroller Parking — Please refrain from parking strollers in the Beit substance abuse. Meets every other Wednesday at 8:15 p.m. in ​ ​ ​ Midrash and, outside, leave a path to the side door for safety. Teaneck. Free of charge. For location and more info: ● CSS Security Team — Our CSS security team is active each Shabbat [email protected] ​ ​ ​ and Yom Tov. If you’d like to participate, please contact Adam ● Heichal HaTorah Open House. Heichal HaTorah invites all parents ​ Buchoff ([email protected]). to our Open House for Prospective Parents on Sunday, November 3, ​ ​ ● Vaccination Policy — Darchei Noam’s policy is that all children and 2019 at 7:00 PM at the yeshiva, 70 Sterling Place, Teaneck, NJ 07666. ​ adults must be current on their vaccines in order to enter the shul’s All 8th grade talmidim are invited to a Melava Malka for premises and participate in any shul activities, regardless of the Prospective Talmidim, Motzei Shabbat, November 9, 2019 at 8:30 location. p.m. at the yeshiva. Register at heichalhatorah.org ​ ● Darchei Noam is Nut Free —Please be mindful when bringing in ● RYNJ Open House, Sunday evening, November 3 at 7:00 p.m. ​ ​ any outside food or snacks into the building, including items Experience the warm environment created by RYNJ’s dynamic prepared by outside caterers. administration, top notch faculty and involved parent body. All ​ ● Amazon Smile—Support Darchei while you shop on Amazon Smile prospective parents are also invited to learn more about the RYNJ ​ ​ by designating us as your charity at dno.am/amazon. educational philosophy at parlor meetings in neighboring ​ ​ ● The Chesed Fund is a resource that provides urgently needed meals communities. Please register at rynj.org. For more information, ​ ​ ​ during shiva or illness. The fund needs your donations. Please contact Mrs. Tamar Kahn, Director of Admissions, at [email protected] contribute on the shul’s website or contact Marilyn Wilen. or 201.986.1414 x338. We welcome businesses and individuals to sponsor the bulletin. To sponsor, contact [email protected] COMMUNITY ANNOUNCEMENTS ​

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