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Established originally in January 1992 as Men For Men BBS by MFM 5 Reflecting on 5 Years Communications. Named changed to Letter from the Publisher GayCalgary.com in 1998. Stand alone company as of January 2004. First Issue of GayCalgary.com Magazine, November 9 An ISCCA Update 2003. Name adjusted in November 2006 to Catching Up with the Court GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine. 5 Publisher Steve Polyak & Rob Diaz-Marino, 11 Exposure Festival [email protected] Edmonton Celebrates the Spectrum of Queer Expression Editor Rob Diaz Marino, [email protected] 16 Original Graphic Design Deviant Designs 12 A Calgarian In Toronto Advertising Whither the Gayborhood? Steve Polyak [email protected] Contributors 16 Map & Event Listings Steve Polyak, Rob Diaz-Marino, Jason Find out what’s happening Clevett, Andrew Collins, Jerome Voltero, Stephen Lock, Jack Fertig, Romeo San 23 The Vatican’s Anti- Vicente, Felice Newman, Evan Kayne, Mark Randall, Matt Salton, Mercedes Allen, Joan Homosexual Agenda Hilty, Dave Brousseau, Kevin Alderson, James S. M. Demers, Linda Eckess, Amanda 25 Q Scopes Chapman, Antonio Bavaro, Glen Hanson & “Get a checkup, Virgo!” Allan Neuwirth, and the Gay and Lesbian Community of Calgary and Edmonton 26 Adult Film Review Photographer Double Standard, Roman’s Holiday, Jock Tease, Brother’s Reunion Steve Polyak and Rob Diaz-Marino Videographer 28 Deep Inside Hollywood Steve Polyak and Rob Diaz-Marino New Projects For Ben Stiller and Portia de Rossi Please forward all inquiries to: GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine 29 Whole Lesbian Sex Suite 403, 215 14th Avenue S.W. Anal Pleasure, Part 1: There’s Something About a Tongue... Calgary, Alberta T2R 0M2 Phone (403) 543-6960 or toll free (888) 30 A Year in the Calgary Cares Centre 543-6960 9 Fax (403) 703-0685 31 Hairspray E-mail [email protected] Coming of Age Musical Comes to Jubilee Auditoriums Print Run Monthly, 12 times a year 33 A Couple of Guys 11 Masthead continued on page 6 34 Bitter Girl 35 Toys for Tots 2008 38 Open Versus Closed (Monogamous) Relationships Are Both Viable?

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41 Fundraising Photos 48 Hump Wednesdays at the Marquee Room A Queer Night in a Straight Bar! Continued from page 5 49 “Jayson” Turns 25 Copies Printed Monthly, 10,000 copies. Distribution points up to 200 points in 50 Transgender in the Genes? Calgary, largest number of distribution points for any Gay publication in Calgary. Up to 150 points in Edmonton, largest 51 Letters to the Editor number of distribution points for any Gay publication in Edmonton. Also distributed 52 Out of Town coast to coast across Canada in select Bloomington, Indiana locations in Toronto, Vancouver, Montreal, Regina, Saskatoon, Winnipeg, and other 54 Music Review places across Canada and the United States. Please call us if you would like to 31 Delta, Solange, GlobalGroove Live 4, L.P. and Bryn Christoper be a distribution point. 57 A Midsummer Night’s Dream Distributed by Gallant Distributions (Calgary), Clark’s Distribution (Edmonton), Shakespeare comes to Edmonton Canada Post (rest of Canada and USA) and by GayCalgary.com 58 Dyke to Diva III Deadline for Ad Bookings 25th of the month Annual Competition Returns to Prism Lounge (unless otherwise stated) 59 Turner Valley Deadline for Ad copy 28th of the month (unless otherwise stated) What a Cougar-licious Idea! Legal Council Courtney Sebree Aarbo, 60 Remembrances and Reflection Barristers and Solicitors Printers North Hill News 61 A Film Fairy’s Guide to War and This Issue Cover All covers from November Remembrance 2003 to October 2008. DVDs Worth remembering on November 11th The opinions expressed in this magazine are not necessarily those of GayCalgary.com or 67 Chelsea Boys the contributors of the magazine. People photographed or interviewed, 35 72 Queer Eye - Calgary and Edmonton writers, advertisers, contributors and Community Events this Month anyone else involved with this publication are not necessarily gay, lesbian, bi, 76 Classified Ads bi-curious or trans gendered. They can be December straight people that are gay friendly. No part of the publication may be reprinted 2008 Press without the expressed permission of the Deadlines editor-in-chief. Copyright 2008 AAdd SpaceSpace BookingBooking - WWednesday,ednesday, NovemberNovember 26th26th Member of 22008008 Canadian Gay & Lesbian Chamber AAdd SubmissionSubmission - of Commerce FFriday,riday, NovemberNovember 29th29th 20082008

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6 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 Reflecting on 5 Years Letter from the Publisher

Steve was running the Men By Rob Diaz-Marino, MSc. for Men Terminals only at Boyztown, but we started Like virtually everyone, there are times when I have branching out and ap- wondered about the future and tried to imagine proaching the other bars to where I’ll be several years down the line. What I’ve see if we might be able to often done is set a mental checkpoint – held onto a expand our market. vivid memory of my state of mind as I am looking I remember my fi rst game forward. That way when that moment I’m envision- of pool at the Calgary Eagle, ing fi nally comes, I can look back and feel a connec- and how one of the own- tion to who I was…and in an odd way, who I was ers helped us construct the wooden boxes to house the can feel a connection to who I become. MFM terminals; meeting Lo- When our magazine started, I wondered what things would rie Murphy at Money Pennies be like when our milestone 5th anniversary rolled around. for the fi rst time, and how Though we’ve kept our happy faces on over the years, the she struck me as a motherly truth is that we’ve been through a lot of hardship running fi gure; getting our fi rst tour the magazine. One thing that I never imagined was how hard of Goliaths and the Texas we would have to fi ght to still be standing here after all this Lounge; sitting down for a time – and I’m not talking about the usual trials and tribula- plate of ground beef covered tions of running a business. Like many GLBT businesses, nachos on our fi rst visit to we have faced some extraordinary challenges. the Verge; briefl y popping in to Rooks, a little fearful of The Battles its reputation; momentarily For as long as I’ve known him, Steve has had a passion visiting popping into the for getting involved and making things happen. What drives Midnight Café; and meeting him is not the potential for fame and attention – I know this the crew at Detours. because he is happy to remain behind the scenes; it’s not a Things came to a head desire for power or control - he is happy to step away after at Boyztown. It astonished helping others reach their own goals. His driving force is to me how the people who be a part of the solution, and his reward is to share those accepted Steve’s help with benefi ts with others. open arms would shut the This lead him to start working with the Calgary gay bars, door on him the minute he which he had been doing for quite some time before I came asked for something reason- into the scene. I arrived at a time when Steve was working able in return, and I’m pretty almost exclusively with Boyztown and the Rekroom. It may sure this prompted them to be a shock to hear, but for the fi rst little while my idea of begin looking for an excuse Calgary’s gay community consisted only of Boyztown as the to get rid of him. This move good guys, Detours as the bad guys, and the rumored “other came as a disproportionate bars” entirely insignifi cant to the struggle. reaction to a comment Steve made, after it was distorted Steve’s desire to help out sometimes rubs people the in high school fashion and wrong way – offering a solution implies that something can tattled to an owner. Instead be improved, which implies that something might be wrong, of dwelling on the situation, I and that can be too much for some to handle. At the time made sure we moved on. Detours was the next best fi t; they didn’t demand our undivided attention so we were able to maintain a solid working relationship with the other bars. The manager of Detours at the time, Mark Gabruch, was kind and appreciative of our help – he had a genuine concern for the success of the bar,

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 7 though he too had to fi ght Steve wrote the publisher’s column, and a number of the ar- to make this happen. One ticles. My only involvement was designing ads for The Verge, major obstacle Detours Money Pennies, and the Calgary Eagle. We launched it at the faced was that they were Taboo Sex Show (then known as the Everything To Do With being boycotted by the gay Sex show) and have had a booth there annually ever since. media at the time – back then only one gay publica- Looking back on those fi rst editions, our grass roots were tion had a local presence. defi nitely showing! We didn’t set out with the magazine to This boycott was allegedly make a great deal of money (though with any business that due to a misunderstand- is an inevitable and indeed necessary side effect). As long as ing: some Detours patrons our costs were covered, and we had a little bit of profi t to rea- had placed a memorial sonably compensate ourselves and our writers for the time ad for a drag queen that and effort spent, then we were hitting our target. had passed away, and Steve’s motivation was the same as always, to be part of Detours was expected to the solution, and mine was to help him realize that. We were foot the bill, which they primarily out to combat the isolation and lack of awareness hadn’t agreed to do - so between the pockets of GLBT people in the city, many of effectively, Detours had no whom didn’t even realize how many others were out there. advertising outlet to use But this was made impossible by the business politics, within the community. destructive gossip, and a few tyrants who thrived in this cli- In addition to that fact, many Calgary businesses felt re- mate of ignorance. So the simple job of delivering a message luctant to follow a publication that had all but abandoned its became a matter of diffusing a minefi eld. roots. It left a market wide open for someone to start up a lo- We were smart to stay on the moral high-ground right from cal gay paper, and the consensus among the local businesses the beginning. It would have been so easy to lie and cheat was that GayCalgary was in the best position to do it. Our to get ahead, but a solid foundation can only be built on website already had the infrastructure and the support of the honesty and trust – both with our advertisers and our read- community, having been built up over the course of 10 years. ers. Indeed from watching other businesses, we occasionally As I later, so elegantly described it in an interview with CBC saw how a foundation of lies could be yanked out from under Radio, “we fi lled a gap that needed fi lling.” them without warning. So although Steve still had hard feel- Getting the magazine started was a race against time, and ings toward Boyztown, we covered their events and allowed amazingly Steve was able to pull the fi rst edition together them to share in the benefi ts of the magazine to a point from scratch in the period of only a month! He and his best (anything more, we had to reserve for paying advertisers). In friend had already brainstormed the magazine concept long fact, Boyztown was the cover article for the very next edition. ago, so it was mainly a matter of following the plan. Mak- And in this manner we became the fi rst publication for a long ing it happen was a family effort, with his brother’s fi ancée time to provide a complete and unbiased picture of Calgary’s creating the layout templates, and his sister starting out GLBT community. By putting our personal feelings aside, we as the editor under a pseudonym. The seed money for were able to transcend the politics, and eventually Boyztown this endeavor was supposed to come from a $4000 website would work with us again – even appreciate what we were project, but with only a few weeks to go, the jerk that had doing. In fact, this new brand of fairness and impartiality in contracted Steve refused to pay the bill and ran off with all publishing gave us the edge we needed in order to defend our of Steve’s hard work. Despite that disaster, and thanks to right to exist during the coming trials. our handful of advertisers that came on board immediately, The magazine’s fi rst two years were an uphill battle as the fi rst edition broke even. We are told that a magazine not we struggled to distinguish ourselves and get the magazine losing money on its fi rst edition is virtually unheard of in the involved within the whole gay scene. We started discovering publishing industry, but for us it was merely proof of how that the GLBT community had its share of warlords that felt desperately GayCalgary Magazine was needed at the time. increasingly threatened by our presence. Soon we found that Bianca La Bouche graced our fi rst cover. It was 24 pages, several non-profi t groups were being forbidden from accept- featured 8 articles, and 3 pages of photos from 5 events. ing sponsorship from us, or dealing with us in any capacity. It seems outrageous that we would have to fi ght to help, but that is exactly what it became – there was no working alongside one particular business that refused to release their choke-hold on this city. It took years of good-faith offerings, casual conversations and formal meetings to fi nally get some of these groups to realize this practice of sponsorship exclu- sivity was not in their own best interests – and besides, why on earth would national sponsorship be in confl ict with local sponsorship anyway? Despite this business making their feelings toward us clear by attempting to remove or obscure our logo whenever it appeared on a non-profi t ad, we assured the non-profi t groups that if we were allowed to sponsor them we would place no restrictions on who else they could deal with as long as it was done fairly and equally. To date, our policy on that has not changed. This was just one instance where GayCalgary not only had to worry about running its own business, but also setting a Continued on Page 36 8 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 An ISCCA Update Catching Up with the Court

By Rob Diaz-Marino Community | Spotlight November marks the half-way point for the reign of Calgary’s Emperor and Empress, so it was time to track down current reigning Empress 32 Nina Tron and Emperor 32 Michael Myte for an informal progress report. But fi rst, recalling how Empress Nina Tron encountered some interesting challenges when campaigning to become Em- press earlier this year, we asked her boy alter-ego Arin Chilton to refl ect on his experiences. “It wasn’t as much of a battle as some would make it out to be,” he said. “In every campaign there are people who want you to win, and then there are people that don’t want you to win. In this case there were some pretty loud people that didn’t want me to win, and it only encouraged me to make sure the people that did want me to win got out and voted.” Shortly after coronation, Emperor 32 Ashley Carmichael had to step down, and Mike Esbeth explained how things came about for him to be fi lling the role as Emperor in her stead. “When Ashley was elected as Emperor, she obviously wanted to have a great year. She had to step down due to health concerns. Within the organization’s process of elevation, if one of the titles is unwilling or unable to fi nish their term, the title underneath is moved up. As far as I know, there was a small option of saying no I’m not ready or prepared to do this. …But I wanted to be there for Nina, and not to have to put a burden on another past monarch that has just stepped “[Fred] is an active member of their organization as well as down. I felt that it was my responsibility to step up to the ours,” explained Chilton. “It’s good because he has a connec- plate and give Nina the best year that I could with support for tion to that organization, and can get the [fundraising materi- her, and…for Ashley to be proud of what was accomplished, als] that we need, so it’s nice having such a close relationship because she will always be the 32nd Elected Emperor even with a charity.” though she won’t be on the college of monarchs.” A challenge the ISCCA has faced during this reign is the This year the ISCCA happens to have representation in inaccessibility of a fundraising venue that was once available the Upper House from one of their longstanding charities of to past reigns. choice, the Children’s Wish Foundation. “We’re primarily still working with the venues that have always stood by the court no matter what,” Chilton assured us. “They’re the loyal sponsors of this organization – they have always supported us and we support them in turn. It really hasn’t affected us at all, to tell you the truth…we’re having a meeting in a week and we should know a better total, but we’re hovering around $25,000 now and we’re at the halfway mark, so it looks good.” Perhaps this bump in the road is smoothed over by increased fundraising efforts outside of the city. Recently the court raised an impressive $3000 for the Children’s Wish Foundation at Cougars bar in Turner Valley. Said Chilton, “It came through Debbie Leong who does business with the owner of Cougars. They had been talking about it for some time, and it came to be when Justine moved back. …So through

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By Rob Diaz-Marino Event | Spotlight Exposure, Edmonton’s Queer Arts and Culture Festival, launched just last year. Its overwhelming success has brought it back once again for what organizers hope to make an annual occurrence. The festival lasts nine days, and covers a huge array and virtually all disciplines of arts and queer culture, kicking off with the 17th annual Loud & Queer Cabaret produced by Guys in Disguise and Work- shop West Theatre. The two evenings showcasing queer theatre, music, poetry and dance are hosted by Edmonton diva, Darrin Hagen. The festival runs from Friday November 14th, and ends on Saturday the 22nd. The festival was an initiative of Michael Phair, who is best known in Edmonton as ﬁ ve term City Councilor. With an

E-mail in early spring, Phair was able to rally together a committee in less than a month that would be responsible for organizing this event; twenty fi ve volunteers collaborating with queer arts and culture organizations, venues, and queer artists, brought to life this new addition to Edmon- ton’s cultural scene. The festival will be highlighted by events covering such themes such as human rights, transexuality, queer youth and homosexual history. It will also span a number of different mediums, including fi lm, photography, painting, poetry and spoken word, music, performing arts, with discussion panels and more. Presentations will include international personalities such as the legendary and infl uential artist AA Bronson (formerly Continued on Page 56 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 11 A Calgarian In Toronto Whither the Gayborhood?

By Evan Kayne Community In both Calgary and Edmonton, people lament the lack of a centralized gay neighborhood like what To- ronto has. However, is Toronto’s gay village becoming a victim of our struggles and successes in gaining acceptance? On a recent visit to Canada’s largest city I wondered if the Church Wellesley neighborhood would survive, and if Albertans could benefi t from having a village - or at least better support in our cities out west. These islands of tolerance and diversity were fostered in the years when you couldn’t be openly gay. This attitude is something Dean Odorico of Woody’s Bar on Church Street remem- bers from his youth in Toronto. “When I was young, you went to a gay bar because you weren’t welcome in other places”. Ed Velasquez, Manager of Priape in Toronto added: “the village was a safe haven…that’s where gay men went because there was power in numbers”. That feeling of “a safe haven” is still there on Church Street. As I walked around, even on a cool October months after Pride, I felt I could make a pass at 90% of the men with no problem. It’s rare you get the same level of on the whole has become more progressive and accepting of comfort in Alberta. gay men and lesbians. Is there still that need for the ghetto? Ryan Tartaglio, assistant manager of Priape, agrees. A na- What is the gay or lesbian resident of Toronto doing today? tive Calgarian, Ryan moved to Toronto 4 years ago. He left They are assimilating and are being accepted as part of because he didn’t feel as safe – as illustrated by an incident the greater community. As well, gay culture is transitioning, prior to his departure. “I was walking downtown late at night. according to Velasquez. “We’re redefi ning what it means to Some guys approached me and my boyfriend and we had to be gay...all those years previous we fought for gay rights and throw ourselves into oncoming traffi c just to get away from equality. Now we’re at a point where we have it. What do you them.” Tartaglio felt Calgary lacked a safe spot where all the do when you don’t have to fi ght as hard? There’s nothing that businesses, organizations, and like-minded queer citizens is really binding people – before there were issues of getting could congregate, so meeting people and being openly gay accepted, or wanting to fi nd other people like yourself…so while retaining a degree of safety was not possible. you went to the village. Now we have the rights, there isn’t the Safety and acceptance does come easier in larger cities with need for that backup. The empowerment is happening much a centralized gay village, yet in the past 5-10 years, our society earlier. We’re seeing teenagers coming out more frequently, because there’s more people on television (showing) how normal it is in any community.” Gay as normal is not just happening in Toronto. Much has been made of the gay village’s retreat from their glory days in cities across North America. Furthermore, there is the impact of the internet. You can create your own global village with accepting gay and lesbian friends from around the world, to help you realize you are not alone - you can live out a normal, average life. And “normal” to the gay community increasingly means achieving the dream of meeting the man or woman of your dreams, and then moving out to white picket fence suburbia and having 2.4 cats/dogs (or in some cases, kids). A gay village is usually set in an urban surrounding, and some may feel you can’t have your suburban dream in the middle of a city. There’s also the attitude attached to being in the village, which, according to Toronto city Councilor Kyle Rae, can be a turn-off. “There is a relentlessness to the gay culture. I meet Continued on Page 40 12 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 13 14 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 15 Events Listing Find out what’s happening

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gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 17 Smashing! at St. Martha School (6020 4th Avenue your feet with your legs straight is just humanly for GLBT individuals and their family and friends, or message for Trudy or Krista) or leave your name NE), Wednesdays, 7:00 - 9:00 pm, Oct. 8 to Dec. impossible? For the second year, Ki Essentials is anyone questioning their sexuality. and a contact time/number with the Gay & Lesbian 10, Jan. 7 to Apr. 1. Fees: Per session: $4 for Apollo offering an exclusive yoga class to Apollo members Community Services Association at 234-8973. Library - A great selection of resource books, fiction, member, $5 for non-members. Season’s pass $75. and friends. This class comprises of weekly 90- non-fiction, videos and everything in between, all - Womynspace minute sessions that focus on basic poses and Curling - The 18th season of Apollo Curling will with a queer perspective. Peer social/support group for women providing an proper alignment, and are conducted in a fun and begin on October 18, 2008, with the same general evening of fun, bonding, discussion and activities. supportive environment. This is a multi-level yet Drop-In Center - A safe and supportive environment format as last year. Games are at the North Hill Meets every first and third Friday 7pm to 9pm at beginner friendly class. No previous experience for one-to-one peer counseling for many issues Curling Club (1201 - 2 Street N.W.) with two draws GLCSA. is required. Registration fee: $126.00 (for all surrounding family, coming out, homosexuality, on Saturdays: 2:20 p.m. and 4:30 p.m. sessions plus two free passes to Ki Essentials), loneliness and other issues. Deer Park United Church and Wholeness Sunday Intermediate/Competitive Volleyball - YWCA Apollo membership is required. Mat rental: $1.00, Centre - Between Men and Between Men Online (320, 5th Avenue SE, Calgary). Join us weekly from Dates: 10 weeks, starting April 14, 2008, Time: 77 Deerpoint Road SE - (403) 278-8263 Peer support, sexual health education for gay 4:15pm – 6:30pm. In the Fall season will last from 7:45 - 9:15 pm. Please note no classes Victoria http://www.dpuc.ca or bisexual men, as well as those who may be Sep. 7 to Dec. 14 - no volleyball on Oct. 12. This Day. Drop-ins for this class are offered on a first- Worship Time - 10:00am Sundays uncertain or questioning their sexuality. Discussions is for experienced players. You can sign up for the come-first-serve basis. Space is limited so please range from personal relationship or life issues, to Different Strokes season or drop-in. For more info, go to our website check ahead of time. Cost for drop-in is $15 for sexual health and well-being. Meetings at GLCSA http://www.differentstrokescalgary.org at www.apollocalgary.com/apollo/volleyball. Apollo members. Tuesdays 7:00pm to 9:00pm Swim Practice. Sundays and Thursdays, 6-7pm. Friday Recreational Volleyball - Langevin School ARGRA – Alberta Rockies Gay Rodeo - Calgary Networking Club SAIT pool (1301 - 16th Ave NW). Free parking (107, 6A Street NE, Calgary). Join us for a casual Association is available in lot P1, immediately below the volleyball game from 7pm to 9pm every Friday. Hotline: (403) 541-8140 • http://www.argra.org Calgary Networking Club (CNC) is back.... after a campus centre. Remember to bring your parking In the Fall, we will play from Sep. 12 to Dec. 12 5 year hiatus, CNC is meeting again in Calgary on ticket with you to be validated. Different Strokes A License to Groove - November 15th, 2008. the first Thursday of every month. The networking - no voleyball on Oct. 10, Nov. 21, Nov. 28. All Cowboy Formal, Tux & Gowns optional. Kick up Calgary accommodates both recreational and are welcome. This is for all skill levels, including meetings are open to all individuals who would competitive swimmers. Coaching is offered to assist your heels with Fantastic Music, Great Drink Prices, like to promote their businesses or who would like recreational players and beginners. You can sign Late Night Buffet and Fun, Fun, Fun! with technique and fitness development. However, up for the season or drop-in. For more info, go to to meet new people - no business affiliation is swimming at one’s own pace and comfort level is our website at www.apollocalgary.com/apollo/ Artists for the Quality of Life necessary. always encouraged. Swimmers will need to bring volleyball. (403) 890-1261 • http://www.afqol.com - Heading Out a swimsuit and towel. Goggles and a swim cap Cabin Fever Peer group for men who are looking for an are highly recommended although not required. Rainbow Riders Bowling League - Let’s 10 Pin 3RD THURSDAY every month, featuring UberHot alternative social activity to the bar. Activities vary You can bring your own lock for the locker room. Bowlerama, 2916 5 Avenue NE, Wednesdays, 7PM resident Nikki B Nottie. Held at the Calgary Eagle and are fun and entertaining. The group meets It is recommended that valuables be left at home (Sept 3, 2008 - March 4, 2009). COST: Nightly the 2nd and 4th Friday of every month from 7 pm or brought with you on the pool deck. After swim - $17.00/night ($12.50 for lineage; $4.50 in prize Calgary Gay Fathers to 9 pm. practice is a nice cool down in the hot tub where money) and shoe rental is $2.50 Register at Let’s [email protected] announcements will be made. Usually team Bowl on September 3, at 6:45pm. http://www.geocities.com/calgaryfathers - Illusions Calgary members will go for dinner after practice and Social group for Calgary and area transgender Calgary Frontrunners - Saturdays at 9am. Coffee Peer support group for gay, bisexual and everyone is welcome. community members (cross dressers, transvestites, Junkies (7th Street and 1st Avenue SW). Distance questioning fathers. Meeting twice a month drag kings and queens). Illusions provides a safe, Mardi Gras Dance - Sat February 28th, 2009. varies. 8km-15km. Runners from 6 minute/mile to Calgary Men’s Chorus discrete and welcoming atmosphere, in which Hillhurst-Sunnyside Community Association, 1320 9+ minute miles. During the summer we attempt http://www.calgarymenschorus.org transgendered people can meet others of like mind. 5th Avenue NW. This is great fun! Get decked out to have evening runs during the week. Our Saturday Illusions offers discretion, acceptance, compassion in your best Mardi Gras attire and come and join the runs are always at 9am year round. For more Do you like to sing? Come out and join the Calgary and a safe place to express your gender. Cross- swim team for a night of Mardi Gras dancing and information, contact Tim at (403) 660-6125 or Men’s Chorus. Rehearsals take place weekly on dressing is the purpose of the group, but is not entertainment. The venue will be unrecognizable e-mail [email protected]. Also, don’t Tuesday nights from 7 pm to 9:30 pm at the Old Y mandatory. when it’s transformed to New Orleans Mardi Gras. forget to choose running as one of your interests in Centre for Community Organizations, located at 223 Annual Western Cup Swim Meet - Fri April 10th, your www.MyApollo.org profile to ensure you are 12 Avenue SW. - Inside Out 2009, 10am-2pm. Talisman Recreation Centre, kept up-to-date! Peer-facilitated youth group for GLBTQ ages 15-25. A Christmas Carol - Saturday, December 20, 2008 2225 Macleod Tr SW. A fun sprint meet. Although The group aims to let youth know they are not Outdoor Pursuits - This winter we will be downhill at 8:00 pm. Rozsa Centre, University of Calgary. this is a Swim Alberta sanctioned meet, we alone, and to connect them with their peers. Every and crosscountry skiing and snowshoeing and a Duality - Saturday, June 20, 2009 at 8:00 pm. emphasize fun! You don’t have to be an expert Monday, 7 pm to 9pm at GLCSA. It is a funky and whole bunch more. Rozsa Centre, University of Calgary swimmer to come out and compete and have fun! safe environment with a variety of resources and Golf - Contact [email protected],. Calgary Sexual Health Centre activities. Don’t Buy In Project 304, 301 14th Street NW • (403) 283-5580 http://www.dontbuyin.ca Lawn Bowling - For more information, please - New Directions http://www.calgarysexualhealth.ca This Calgary Police Service Initiative aims to contact Chris or Phil at lawnbowling@ Drop in peer-support group to provide support and Calgary Sexual Health Centre is a pro-choice encourage youth to working towards an inclusive apollocalgary.com. resources for individuals who identify as transsexual organization that believes all people have the right environment in which diversity is embraced in their or inter-sexed. The group meets every 3rd Friday of Apollo Slow Pitch - takes place from Friday, May 9, and ability to make their own choices regarding schools and community. the month from 7 pm to 9 pm at GLCSA. 2008 until the end of August at the West Hillhurst their sexual and reproductive health. Calgary Fake Mustache Community Centre (18th Street and 5th Avenue Sexual Health Centre started as a volunteer based, If you are transsexual, or know of someone who Calgary’s ONLY Drag King Show NW, East Field), from 7:00 - 9:00 pm. grassroots organization and has been providing is, please contact our office for information and Soda Lounge: 211 - 12th Ave S.W. comprehensive sexuality education and counselling assistance. You are not alone! There is support! Apollo Tennis - Thursday evenings from 7 pm to 9 (403) 923-3953 programs to the Calgary community since 1972. pm at West Hillhurst Racquet Centre from May 17th - SHEQ Soulful Healing Ego Quest http://www.miscyouth.com to September 13th. The address is 1940 6 Ave NW. A workshop for women that want to be themselves [email protected] Calgary Outlink Formerly know as GLCSA It is weather dependent, therefore we won’t play in a supportive, safe environment. It is a chance A benefit show for the Miscellaneous Youth Network, - Gay And Lesbian Community Services in either strong wind or rain. The fees are $3 for to grow and share their experiences related to Fake Mustache is guaranteed to please! Come see Association 1 Apollo members and $5 for non members . Pop and women’s sexuality. Runs for a ten week period on our boys strut their stuff at Soda, the first Thursday #4, 1230A 17th Avenue SW • (403) 234-8973 water is $1 each. Thursdays at 7pm. Call Trudy or Krista at 585- of every month. $5 cover. $2 cover under 18. http://www.calgaryoutlink.com 7437. To participate, please call the exclusive Advance tickets available at Barbies Shop. All Ages Yoga - Have you always wondered about yoga? Peer Support and Crisis Line - Front-line help service SHEQ line at 585-7437 (you may leave a voice show starts at 7:30. 18+ show starts at 10:15. What really is down-dog? Do you think touching

18 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 Annual General Meeting. November 29th, 1pm. SW 8:00 Pride Rainbow Project Rocky Mountain Bears Calgary Outlink, #4, 1230A 17th Avenue SW. This Birds of a Feather...A FLOCKING good Reason to [email protected] http://www.rockymountainbears.com is an open invitation event to all members of the Give - Thanksgiving Drag Show, At Money-Pennies, http://www.priderainbowproject.com Safety Under The Rainbow GBLQQTT communities. Come out to show support 9:00pm The Pride Rainbow Project was started in Fall 2003 http://www.safetyrainbow.ca for this youth focused organization. We’re shifting Princesses Gone Wild!!! - Saturday, November 8 at by 4 youth of the Unitarian Church of Calgary. to a governing board and looking for community Mission: To raise awareness and understanding of 9:00pm. Money Pennies (1724 10th Ave SW) The Pride Rainbow Project is a project designed members with not-for-profit experience to fill the same-sex domestic violence and homophobic youth Turnabout - November 16, 9pm. Calgary Eagle, to show support for same-sex marriage in Canada positions. bullying. 424a 8th Avenue SE, Calgary. Drag Switch Night... and elsewhere. It is a fabric rainbow banner Gay Prairie Alumni DAMN THIS IS GONNA BE SCARY! approximately 5 feet wide, and the goal is to make Sharp Foundation http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gayprairiealumni/ Shooters at Eagle - November 7th & 21st, it 3.2km (2 miles) long, in order to break the world Phone: (403) 272-2912 This group is for all gay/lesbian/transgendered 11:00pm. 424a 8th Ave SE record (set by a group in Florida at 1.25 miles)! [email protected] alumni of Prairie Bible Institute and/or Prairie It contains the 6 colours of the pride flag: Red, http://www.thesharpfoundation.com High School in Three Hills, Alberta. It’s purpose Princesses Gone Wild Drag Show - November 8th, Orange, Yellow, Green, Blue, and Purple. The project Travel Masters - Need a vacation?, Ed Smith at is twofold: First, social -- to renew old friendships 9pm. Money Pennies, 1742 10th Ave SW is youth run, but anyone can help!. Travel Masters has agreed to donate 25% of and make new ones. Second -- to talk about Taboo Sex Show - November 14th-16th. Stampede Primetimers Calgary his profit from WestJet bookings to The SHARP our common experiences as gay people at a Roundup Centtre [email protected] Foundation. So before you plan your next trip with fundamentalist school. Any other questions, please Celebration of World AIDS Day - November 30th. http://www.primetimerscalgary.com WestJet, email Ed at TravelMasters feel free to ask. Money Pennies, 1742 10th Ave SW. Kickoff 5pm, Prime Timers Calgary is designed to foster social Urban Sex Gay Readers Book Club Drag Show 10pm. interaction for its members through a variety of http://www.cjsw.com Interested in poetry, prose & literature? Want to All monies raised go to Charity: Agape Manor, social, educational and recreational activities. It is meet like-minded gay men? Then come to our Beswick House, HIV Peer Support, Artists for Quality Radio Show – Every Wednesday from 9-10pm. open to all gay and bisexual men of any age and meeting at Good Earth Cafe, 1502 - 11th Street SW of Life, Children’s Wish Foundation Focus on sexuality; gay bisexual lesbian trans respects whatever degree of anonymity that each at 7:30pm the last Tuesday of each month. gendered and straight issues here in Calgary and Knox United Church member desires. around the web. Listen on CJSW FM 90.9. Girl Friends 506 - 4th Street S.W. • (403) 269-8382 Saturday Coffee - November 1st, 8th, 15th, 22nd, http://members.shaw.ca/girlfriends http://www.knoxunited.ab.ca/ 29th. Midtown Co-op 1130–11 Ave SW. Meets Western Canada Bigmen and Admirers http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ Games Night - Sat, November 22nd @ 7pm. Knox United Church is an all-inclusive church at 10am. WesternCanadaBigmenGroup/ Tuscany Club (212 Tuscany Way NW).Back by located in downtown Calgary. A variety of facility Monthly Gathering at MPs - November 2nd, 4pm [email protected] popular demand is our second annual Games Night. rentals are also available for meetings, events and Free Pool at the Eagle - November 5th, 12th, Join us for an evening of cards, poker and board concerts. 19th, 26th Vigor Calgary games. Don’t worry if you haven’t played many Worship Services “Gems of Broadway” - November 7th-9th. (403) 255-7004 games before. We’ve arranged for some wonderful http://www.vigorcalgary.ca/ womyn to coach new players on the rules of the Wednesdays - Communion Service 12:10 pm Presented by the Silver Star Revue at the University games. Snacks and non-alcoholic drinks will be Sundays - 11:00 a.m. September to June Theatre. For times and tickets contact the ticket Violence in Gay Male Relationships (VIGOR) is a provided. This will be an alcohol free event. If you Sundays - 10:30 a.m. in summer July and August. office at 403-220-7202. committee of professionals dedicated to increasing Pumphouse Theatre: “Godspell” - November 11th, the awareness of gay men’s domestic violence and any special dietary needs, please let us know so Mystique 7:30pm. Tickets $12, call 403-263-0079. Meet at the services available to them. that we can try to accommodate you. The cost is Coffee Night. Last Saturday of every month, 7:30pm MoneyPennies for dinner before the theatre. $10 per person, payable at the event. Please RSVP until 10ish. Good Earth Cafe (1502 11th Street “Yeah... What She Said!” by Thursday, November 20th so we can ensure we SW). Mystique is primarily a Lesbian group for ARGRA Dance - Hillhurst Sunnyside Community Every Monday evening from 8:30-9:00pm have enough food and drinks. women 30 and up but all are welcome. For more Hall. 1320 - 5th Ave NW CJSW 90.9 FM Holiday Dinner and Gift Exchange - Sat, December info please email [email protected] Vertigo: “The Mousetrap” - November 16th, [email protected] 13th @ 7pm, Tony Roma’s (6712 MacLeod 6:30pm. Director’s performance, $10. Should be YouthSafe Trail SE). Join GirlFriends for our 5th annual NETWORKS there on time to be assured seating. http://www.youthsafe.net Taste Buds Holiday dinner & gift exchange. We (403) 293-3356 Card Night at Harvey & Tony’s - November 18th. have once again reserved our own room at Tony A social, cultural, and service organization for Alberta’s website for youth with sex-and-gender Meet at MoneyPennies for their Tuesday Night Roma’s restaurant. It should make for an intimate the mature minded and “Plus 40” gay, lesbian, differences. Youthsafe.net lists the resources, Special before cards. If you would like to attend evening of fun and holiday cheer. The reservation bisexual, and transgendered individuals seeking to information and services to help youth find safe and please give them a call at 547-9129. is under “GirlFriends”. If you are interested in meet with others at age-appropriate activities within caring spaces in Alberta. apositive, safe, non-threatening and nurturing checking out their menu ahead of time, go to Queers on Campus, (Formerly GLASS) environment. their website. Participation in the gift exchange is 279R Student Union Club Spaces Restaurants optional - anyone who brings a gift will receive a Positive Space Committee at Mount Royal University of Calgary Calgary Eagle Inc. 4 gift. Recommended value a gift is $10 maximum. College http://www.ucalgary.ca/~glass 424a - 8 Ave SE • (403) 263-5847 Please RSVP by December 10th so we can try to 4825 Mount Royal Gate SW (403) 220-6394 http://www.calgaryeagle.com accommodate everyone. Phone: 403-440-6383 Coffee Night. Every Tuesday, 7pm. 2nd Cup Money-Pennies 9 Girlsgroove http://www.mtroyal.ca/positivespace (Kensington) [email protected] 1742 - 10 Ave SW • (403) 263-7411 http://www.girlsgroove.ca Rainbow Community Church HIV Peer Support Group The Positive Space Committee at Mount Royal Hillhurst United Church Theatre and Art (403) 230-5832 College works to raise awareness and challenge 1227 Kensington Close N.W. Alberta Ballet [email protected] the patterns of silence that continue to marginalize http://www.rainbowcommunitychurch.ca http://www.albertaballet.com lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans-gendered, two-spirited [email protected] ISCCA – Imperial Sovereign Court of the and queer (LGBTTQ) individuals. ATP, Alberta Theatre Projects 36 Chinook Arch The Rainbow Community Church is an all-inclusive Phone: (403) 294-7402 http://www.iscca.ca Pride Calgary church. Everyone is welcome (and we mean it!). http://www.ATPlive.com (403) 262-3410 • http://www.pridecalgary.ca Services are held every Sunday afternoon at 4:00 Tuesday - Shooter at Texas Lounge 308b 17ave PM. AXIS Contemporary Art SW 8:00 107, 100 – 7 Ave. SW • (403) 262-3356 Saturday Shooters at Texas Lounge 308b 17 ave [email protected]

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 19 Broadway Across Canada Buddy’s Nite Club 6 Community Groups and Our primary focus is the provision of networking http://www.broadwayacrosscanada.ca 11725 Jasper Ave • (780) 488-6636 opportunities for gay, lesbian, bisexual and http://www.buddysedmonton.com Organizations transgendered (GLBT) owned or operated and Fairytales International Gay & Lesbian Film GLBT-friendly businesses in the Edmonton region. PLAY Nightclub 13 Festival Membership is open to all kinds of entrepreneurs, 10220 103 Street • 780-497-7529 Beef Bear Bash http://www.fairytalesfilmfest.com from tradespeople to professionals to commission [email protected] www.bearbeef.org salespeople. Lisa Hienricks (Artist) 43 http://www.playnightclub.ca Bar Night Art Central, lower level, 100 7th Ave SW The Edmonton Rainbow Business Association After Prism Bar & Grill 8 Buck Naked Boys Club (Edmonton) http://www.creamydreamy.com Business Mixers. Held on the second Wednesday of 10524 101st St • (780) 990-0038 Naturism club for men. every month 5:30 – 7:30 pm One Yellow Rabbit 35 http://www.prismbar.ca Meets the second Saturday of each month. Big Secret Theatre – EPCOR CENTRE for the (780) 471-6993 November 11, 2008 - Garage Burger Bar (10244- The Roost (Now Closed) 9 Performing Arts • (403) 299-8888 http://www.bucknakedboys.ca 106 Street) http://www.oyr.org 10345 104th St • (780) 426-3150 Our club has been meeting continuously for over 10 Annual General Meeting - December 9, 2008. Four Woody’s 12 Pumphouse Theatre 37 years. The similar club in Calgary ceased to exist Points Sheraton - Edmonton South. 7230 Argyll 11725 Jasper Ave • (780) 488-6557 2140 Pumphouse Avenue SW • (403) 263-0079 several years ago. Naturism is being social while Road. Garden Court Restaurant meeting room. http://www.pumphousetheatres.ca everyone is naked, and it does not include sexual Meet & Greet 5:30 - 6:00, AGM 6:00 - 7:30. Stagewest Bathhouse and Sauna’s activity. Therefore participants do not need to be Networking Mixer to follow Down Under Baths 7 gay, only male, but almost all participants over the 727 42 Avenue SE • (403) 243-6642 Edmonton STD 4 http://www.stagewestcalgary.com 12224 Jasper Ave •(780) 482-7960 years do self-describe as being gay or bisexual. http://www.gayedmonton.com/ 11111 Jasper Ave Camp fYrefly Theatre Junction Edmonton Vocal Minority Steamers 10 7-104 Department of Educational Policy Studies http://www.theatrejunction.com http://www.evmchoir.com 9668 Jasper Avenue • (780) 422-2581 Faculty of Education, University of Alberta Phone: 780-479-2038 Vertigo Mystery Theatre 34 Edmonton, Alberta, Canada T6G 2G5 161, 115 – 9 Ave SE • (403) 221-3708 Steamworks 11 11745 Jasper Ave• (780) 451-5554 http://www.fyrefly.ualberta.ca Loud & Queer Cabaret - November 15th, 7:30pm. http://www.vertigomysterytheatre.com La Cité Francophone. 8627 91 Street http://www.steamworksedmonton.com/ Edmonton Pride Week Society http://www.prideedmonton.org Transgender Day of Remembrance - November 20th, 7pm. Enterprise Square 10230 Jasper Avenue Edmonton Listings Businesses Pride Week 2009 - Age of Aqueerius, June 12 to Bars and Clubs Cruiseline 21, 2009 World AIDS Day Vigil - December 1st, Time TBA. (780) 413-7122 trial code 3500 Citadel Theatre, Rice Lobby. 9828 101A Avenue Boots Bar and Lounge 5 ERBA - Edmonton Rainbow Business http://www.cruiseline.ca 10242 106th St • (780)423-5014 Association Free To Be volleyball Phone chat room & talking classifieds for 18+ http://www.bootsbar.ca/ #3379, 11215 Jasper Avenue • 780-429-5014 Amiskiwcy Academy, 101 Airport Rd. (near the http://www.edmontonrba.org downtown airport) Every Wednesday and Thursday night, 8pm-10pm. Wednesday night recreational

20 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 level: All players and skill levels welcome. Contact 95A St. and 111 Ave. Ph: 488-3234, Contact: Rob 3234 for more info.” Team Edmonton Marc for more information: padremark@hotmail. Wells - [email protected] - Men’s HIV Support Group http://www.teamedmonton.ca com, Tel: (780) 445-0365. Thursday night - Youth Understanding Youth Will be meeting on each second Monday of the Members are invited to attend and help determine intermediate level: Coaching and drills provided. the board for the next term. If you are interested in Contact Alex for more information: flipside@telus. Youth support and social group meets every month. At the Pride Center, Edmonton Starting in Saturday from 7 to 9 pm at the Pride Centre of April, from 7pm to 9pm. running for the board or getting involved in some net, Tel: (780) 424-9984. (Please note that there of the committees, please contact us. For more is limited space on the intermediate night) Edmonton 95A St. and 111 Ave. Ph: (780) 488- - GLBT Seniors Drop IN 3234 Contact: [email protected] (www.members. information about the meeting or volunteering, HIV Network Of Edmonton Society 3 shaw.ca/yuy ) Every Tuesdays and Thursdays from 1-4pm Pride please contact [email protected] Centre (95A St. and 111 Ave.), The Pride Centre 11456 Jasper Ave - Womonspace BADMINTON - Women’s Drop-In Recreational http://www.hivedmonton.com is thrilled to introduce a new program serving our Badminton, The season runs from October 3 (780) 482-1794. • [email protected] GLBT seniors. Hosted by Jeff Bovee, contact the 2007 through March 19 2008. badminton@ Imperial Sovereign Court of the Wild Rose www.gaycanada.com/womonspace Centre at 488-3234 for more info. teamedmonton.ca http://www.gayedmonton.org A non-profit lesbian organization established for PURE BALLROOM DANCING - The Beginner Ballroom Toys for Tots - November 28th, 10pm-12am. Prism Edmonton and surrounding areas. Organized http://www.pureedmonton.com program is designed for people who have no Bar & Grill activities include: licenced non-smoking dances; [email protected] previous dance instruction and have the desire coffee houses; family events; games nights; golf 10524 101st Street. A toy drive for those children Pure:Stephan to gain confidence on the social dance floor. tournaments; and more. Memberships available, less fortunate. Please bring a new unwrapped toy Sat. September 20th, Doors at 9pm The Beginner program focuses on the four most which also includes confidential bi-monthly or donation. Special guest hosts Dee Luv and Mz. PLAY Nightclub (10220 – 103 Street) common social dances, Waltz, Jive, Foxtrot and Rhonda. Newsletters. Rumba. If you can do these four dances, you can Robertson-Wesley United Church Festive Dinner and Dance - December 13th, 7pm- dance the night away at most social events! You ISCWR Twisted Christmas - December 6th, 10pm- 10209 123 St. NW 12am. Prism Bar & Grill 8:30pm. Bellevue Community Hall. Dance to follow. will learn how to do the basic steps and two to (780) 482-1587 three patterns in each dance. You will learn to 10524 101st Street. Ever listened to the Twisted Please join us for our annual turkey dinner including http://www.rwuc.org • [email protected] recognize when to use these dances, and you will Christmas CD’s? Join the ISCWR and watch your all the fixin’s you would normally expect! We have Worship Sunday morning at 10:30 am. People of learn basic technique, like frame and posture. favorite performers bring some Christmas cheer with rehired the same caterer as last year and once again all sexual orientations welcome. Join us for Soul *Students may take level 2 upon completion of crazy Christmas Songs. promise you a delectable meal. Tickets are $25 for members and $30 for non-members (includes OUTing, an LGBT-focused alternative worship, the beginner course. *All gender combinations of Miss Mary Christmas Pageant - December 13th, admission to the dance). Tickets will be available on the third Sunday of each month at 7:00 PM. dancers are welcome. *Partners are not required. 10pm-2am. Boots Bar and Lounge, 10242 November 15th to December 6th at: Earth’s General Other LGBT events include a monthly book club Absolute Beginner Session Dates: September 21st 106th Street. Join the current reigning Miss Store (10832 – 82 Avenue) and Prism Bar & Grill and a bi-monthly film night. As a caring spiritual - November 30th, January 18th - March 29th, Mary Christmas Ivonna Diamonds for a night of (10524 – 101 Street). Or make arrangements community, we’d love to have you join us! April 19th - July 5th. Sundays 7:30-8:30pm at fundraising and christmas cheer! The kick off to our to purchase tickets by leaving a message on the Foot Notes Dance Studio 9708-45 Avenue NW. Christmas season brings with it the crowning of a Womonspace line: 780-482-1794. Dinner tickets new Miss Mary Christmas! will not be available for purchase at the door, but Edmonton Illusions Social Club you can join the dance at 9:00. The Edmonton Illusions Social Club meets the - Prime Timers second Thursday of each month at Boots Bar&Grill, 10242-106St, Edmonton. For info go to http:// (EPT) is a group of older gay men and their groups.yahoo.com/group/edmonton_illusions/ or admirers who come from diverse backgrounds but call 780-387-3343. have common social interests. We meet on the second Sunday of most months at the Unitarian Northern Chaps Church of Edmonton (10804 - 119th Street) at http://www.northernchaps.com 2:30 pm for a social period, a short business meeting and then either a guest speaker, discussion Northern Chaps is Edmonton’s original leather, panel, or a potluck supper. Special interest groups latex, fetish, uniform club. We have been in meet for other social activities throughout the existence officially since 1987 but have been in month. In July and August we have a BBQ or picnic existence originally around 1982 in Edmonton, in lieu of a meeting and in December it’s replaced Alberta, Canada. Everyone is welcome to join or with a Christmas party. EPT is affiliated with Prime attend events Timers World Wide. If you would like to know more Pride Centre of Edmonton 1 about our group, email [email protected], 95A St. and 111 Ave. • (780) 488-3234 visit http://www.primetimersww.org/edmonton/, or attend a monthly meeting. - Bears Movie Night - Suit Up and Show Up Group Bears club of Edmonton meets the last Sunday of the month for movies 1- 6 pm in the TV room at the Big Book Study of Alcoholics Anonymous. Saturdays Pride Centre of Edmonton 95A St. and 111 Ave. Ph: at 12 noon. At Pride Centre (780) 488-3234 - Sick and tired of being sick and tired? - Trans Education/Support Group Escape Cocaine. Thursdays 7-8pm @ the Pride Support and education for all transsexual, Centre. transgendered, intersexed, two-spirited and - YouthSpace questioning individuals meets 1st and 3rd Sundays An after-school drop-in program for gay, lesbian, of each month, 2-4 pm at the Pride Centre bisexual, trans-identified, queer, questioning and of Edmonton 95A St. and 111 Ave. Ph: (780) allied (GLBTQQ&A) youth under 25. 488-3234 Open Tuesday to Friday 3:00pm-7:00pm and - Sunday Night Mens Discussion Group Saturday 2:00pm-7:00pm Located at the Pride Mens social and discussion group meets every Centre of Edmonton 9540 - 111 Avenue Contact Sunday @ 7 pm at the Pride Centre of Edmonton [email protected] or 488-

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 21 $149.00 +GST / 10 weeks. To register call: October 9 at Amiskiwaciy Academy located at 101 Prism Bar & Grill 8 (780)469-3281. Airport Road. The intermediate night is scheduled 10524 101st St • (780) 990-0038 Red Deer Listings BOOTCAMP - The group meets at the Oliver for Thursday nights from 8-10pm. For more http://www.prismbar.ca Affirm Community Hall from 7-8:15 pm every Monday information about intermediate volleyball, contact: Composed of LGBTQ people, their friends, family and Thursday night. The hall is located at 10326 [email protected]. Theatre and Art and allies. No religious affiliation necessary. -118 Street. There is no bootcamp on September RECREATIONAL VOLLEYBALL - Tuesday Nights, 8pm Alberta Ballet Activities include support, faith and social justice 1st for the long weekend. Bootcamp will run to 10pm. Mother Teresa School (9008 - 105A http://www.albertaballet.com discussions, film nights, and potlucks! Affirm biweekly outdoors until the end of September. In Avenue). Drop-In $4.00, Full Season $60.00 meets the second Tuesday of the month at 7PM at Broadway Across Canada October bootcamp will move indoors and be held ($2.50/game), Half Season $35.00 ($2.91/game) Sunnybrook United Church, (403) 347-6073. http://www.broadwayacrosscanada.ca on Monday nights. For more information about DROP-IN GYMNASTICS - Have you ever had bootcamp, email [email protected] the urge to swing on the bar or bounce on the Exposure, Edmonton’s Queer Arts and Culture National Listings BOWLING Northern Titans Bowling resumes on trampoline? Gymnastics is for adults too! Why not Festival Saturday September 29. Every Saturday 5 to 7pm, drop in Tuesday and Thursday evenings between http://www.exposurefestival.ca/ Businesses GATEWAY LANES at #100 3414 Gateway Blvd 8:00-10:00 p.m. and see for yourself? As adults, November 14th - 22nd, 2008 - 9 Days of Queer in ATM Service Solutions $15.00 per person. 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22 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 The Vatican’s Anti-Homosexual Agenda

By Stephen Lock Politics The Vatican certainly is no friend of the GLBTQ community; this comes as no surprise to anyone. The document in which this is set out is apparently in The Holy Roman Catholic Church is almost by defi - response to the sexual abuse scandals that have rocked the Church in recent years. The Vatican and various dioceses nition a rigid hierarchy, slow to let go of ideas - let came under heavy criticism for doing so little or, in some alone dogma - and its views on sexuality are fi rmly instances, actively protecting priests involved in the abuses rooted in the Middle Ages, or at least the 19th Cen- by moving them to other parishes or dioceses. tury. When it comes to homosexuality, the learned The Vatican has said the early detection of “sometimes clerics who toil away in the bureaucracy of the Holy pathological” psychological defects in candidates before they See, never mind the thousands of diocesan and par- are ordained as priests would help avoid “tragic consequenc- ish priests, really don’t seem to “get it.” Not just the es.” priestly bureaucrats, but the entire hierarchy seems Vatican offi cials stated during a news conference that the to have diffi culty understanding the subtleties of tests would not be obligatory and decided on a case-by-case human sexuality and certainly the subtleties of ho- basis, such as when seminaries needed to ensure a semi- mosexuality. This blind spot around homosexuality narian was, in fact, suitable for the priesthood. Such tests (as well as bisexuality, lesbianism, and transsexual- would be administered by a psychologist or psychothera- ity/transgenderism) reaches all the way up to the pist and would aim to detect what the document describes papacy. as “grave immaturity” and “imbalances” in the candidate’s personality. These would It should be remembered the current Pope was once include “strong affective Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger, head of the Congregation for the dependencies, notable lack of Doctrine of the Faith (AKA the “department” in charge of The freedom in relations, exces- Inquisition) who in more than one offi cial document labeled sive rigidity of character, lack homosexuality as “intrinsically disordered” and “contrary to of loyalty, uncertain sexual God’s plan.” identity, and deep-seated homosexual tendencies...” Following the liberalizing of the Church after Vatican II under Pope John XXIII, homosexuality, while still seen as I have no idea what a disorder, was not in and of itself sinful; only the practice “strong affective depen- of it was a sin. If a gay man or lesbian was celibate, the dencies” means or what a Church accepted them, or so the theory went. “notable lack of freedom in relations” might be. Cer- Even under the papacy of John Paul II, one of the more tainly anyone who aspires conservative popes in recent history, the state of being ho- to be a priest, or any of the mosexual was not a sin; only homosexual behaviour was. other “helping professions” It was within that understanding that a friend of mine should have an openness to sought entrance to a variety of monasteries over the years. their character and a certain He understood theology and he understood the views and “warmth”, so I quite under- practices of the Church. He genuinely felt a vocation not stand the diffi culty with “ri- just for the priesthood but to live his life as a monk. He gidity of character.” That the saw little or no confl ict between being an openly gay man hierarchy into which such a and his desire to live a religious life in a religious commu- person is entering is extreme- nity. He fi rmly held to the belief that he could, within the ly rigid does rather make the canons (laws) of Mother Church be an openly gay celibate requirement against rigid- priest and monk. But he was repeatedly tossed out of every ity seem somewhat...I don’t single community he sought to join. The toll this took on his know...ironic? I suppose the psyche, to say nothing of his attachment to the Church, was Church wants a personal- severe. ity type that is malleable to its way of being and not The Vatican is now calling for candidates to the priest- someone so rigid as to fi ght hood to undergo psychological testing in order to, accord- them every step of the way. ing to a recent Reuters article posted by Philip Pullella from They dealt with that back in Vatican City, “screen out heterosexuals unable to control the 15th Century with some their sexual urges and men with strong homosexual tenden- upstart German monk called cies.” gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 23 Martin Luther, and look where that lead.... the feet of homosexual men. Of course, it is not surprising given the recent history of The priests involved in the abuse were, fi rst and foremost, the Church that the Vatican also stated it was “not enough abusers; sexual orientation really had nothing to do with it. to be sure (a candidate for the priesthood) is capable of Secondly, not all those involved in the scandal were what abstaining from sexual activity,” but that seminary rectors I would call homosexual in orientation, although certainly would also need to “evaluate his sexual orientation.” some were - and particularly closeted due to the environment and culture of the Church. One could safely assume a Ahhh...there’s the rub, so to speak. Again, Holy Mother certain degree of self-loathing as well, given the teachings of Church is kicking Her homosexual sons up the you-know- the very Church they were trained and lived to promote. what, and/or in the you-know-where. It’s no longer good enough to be homosexual but celibate and have a vocation; It might be worthwhile to note at this juncture that there now The Holy Roman Catholic Church doesn’t even want is a difference between “being homosexual” and “being gay.” celibate gay men as priests. If you have “tendencies” you The terms are not always synonymous. All gay men are are out, period. Forget that a comfortably and openly gay homosexual, but not all homosexuals are gay, gay being an (albeit celibate) priest would bring a wealth of compassion identity while homosexual is the orientation. This is where and caring and love and talent to his vocation. Nope. Not the Vatican continuously misses the point. In the Vatican interested. Oh, sure, the Church will accept heterosexual view, “homosexual” means deviant sex with other males (the men no problem - unless of course they turn out not to be act of sex alone is deviant, but the fact it is with another able to control their sexual urges. Homosexual men, appar- man compounds the severity). In the eyes of the Holy See ently, don’t even get that much consideration. I guess Rome you are going to be unable to control yourself around the fi gures we queers can’t control ourselves. boys in your parish. Homosexuality equals boy-raper. Getting back to the Church’s somewhat superfi cial and Wouldn’t it be amazing if the Roman Catholic Church unsophisticated understanding of homosexuality, it has welcomed and celebrated homosexuality, instead of placing always confused pedophilia (a sexual attraction to children, a blanket of dread, shame, repression and suppression over of whatever gender) and hebephilia (a sexual attraction to something as beautiful and self-affi rming as the love and teenage boys) with homosexuality (a sexual and affection at- appreciation one man can have for another? (And, yes, I be- traction to members of one’s own sex). Out of this ignorance lieve that can also include the desire of one man for another - and I use the word in its truest sense of ‘not understand- or others.) ing’ rather than its common defi nition of consciously nasty Celibate or not, that’s not really the issue - though I have - came the laying of blame over the sexual abuse scandal at issues with enforced celibacy, but that is probably a whole other column! If the Church still insisted on celibacy but was open to celebrating human sexuality in all its forms, I could deal with that. But the Church is slow to change. It has held anti-sex beliefs for a millennium and shows no signs of re-evaluating its position any time soon. And when it does adopt modern ideas and methods, it goes in the wrong direction as is evidenced by the use of psychological tests (which, like IQ tests, are not terribly reliable and highly subjective) to weed out individuals who happen to be homosexual, but could be otherwise totally compatible with the priesthood. There is another biblical image that comes to mind here...that of the Scapegoat. The Tribes of Israel would symbolically transfer all their sins to a goat and release it into the desert, carrying their sins and transgressions with it. When the goat perished in the desolation of the desert, so too would their sins perish. In the modern sense, being a scapegoat has come to mean someone or something that gets blamed for some wrong or misdeed when, in fact, that individual had nothing to do with the situation. The Church is using homosexuals and by extension the gay community, as its scapegoat. It is heaping the whole sex abuse scandal upon us. As a spokesperson from SNAP, a US-based group for survivors of sexual abuse, said, “Catholic offi cials continue to fi xate on the offenders and ignore the larger problem: the church’s virtually unchanged culture of secrecy and unchecked power in the hierarchy. These broader factors are deeply rooted in the church and contribute heavily to extensive and ongoing clergy sex abuse and cover-up.”

24 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 Q Scopes “Get a checkup, Virgo!”

By Jack Fertig Lifestyle | Astrology From Scorpio, the Sun is triggering those outer planets that have been hovering in mutual aspect. petitive, which can feed a sense of anxiety. A simple, direct The sexual challenges are only half the fun. Watch talk with your baby is best. Trying something new at work can also boost your self-esteem. out for bizarre egotistical outbursts. Everyone’s under complicated stresses. Stay quietly true to yourself and you’ll be three steps ahead. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): At the gym, competing with anyone but yourself is dangerous. A friend’s criticism of your housekeeping is out ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Keep your sex of line, but accept it as a challenge to make some changes. life as private as you can. You can get points for the effort and for staying in good humor as secrets will SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): leak. A friend will turn out to be a jealous rival; keeping What comes out of your mouth surprises even the friendship may be a challenge. you. Meditation helps to keep you out of trouble; journal- ing and writing poetry do, too. But that sort of poetry is TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Try to be more strictly therapeutic, and needn’t be shared with friends. adaptable making plans with friends. Let your partner, or one friend in particular make the choices. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): You’re especially hard to please right now, so try to fi nd Arguments at home can cause no end of satisfaction in pleasing others and being co-operative. trouble, and money is a particularly sensitive issue. Try to accept criticism graciously. Get out and spend time (not GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): It’s tough balanc- money!) with your friends, and let off steam there. ing domestic duties with urges to get out and explore. Browsing at exotic import shops - just for inspi- AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): You ration - is one way to put the two together. Let your hard may need some professional help in dealing work speak for itself. It’s getting more notice than you with fi nancial problems. A less formal consultation with realize. someone in a position of authority may suffi ce. Competi- tion to look good gets expensive. Self-acceptance is easier CANCER (June 21 - July 22): New, creative on the psyche and the wallet. ideas, shrewdly applied to your work, will boost your career. Consider how you balance career goals PISCES (February 19 - March 19): “Keeping with more intimate needs, which will in turn feed those up with the Joneses” is a waste of energy and novel ideas. Try to steer playful urges away from Eros and money. If you must compete, try instead to be more spiri- toward intellect. tual and farsighted. Don’t let a new relationship become anything more than a fun fl ing - unless you really want LEO (July 23 - August 22): Having the party your life to be all about perpetual drama! at your place will incur surprise expenses, but what you gain in the process should be well worth it. Make Jack Fertig, a professional sure all is clear with your partner and/or roommates fi rst. astrologer since 1977, is based in San Francisco. He can be VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Get a reached for consultations at 415- checkup, especially for STDs. That and other 864-8302, through his website medical problems that may have been lurking are easier at http://www.starjack.com to spot now. Everyone has a bitchy side. Yours is ruthless right now. Be careful where you let it out!

LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Your partner’s efforts at fun may be unduly com-

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 25 Adult Film Review Double Standard, Roman’s Holiday, Jock Tease, Brother’s Reunion

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gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 27 Deep Inside Hollywood New Projects For Ben Stiller and Portia de Rossi

By Romeo San Vicente Celebrity | Gossip Elton John and Ben Stiller Sing about AIDS forget that Stiller is coming off the smash hit Tropic Thunder, Remember in Team which managed to fi nd laughs in any number of unlikely, America when they paro- touchy subjects. If this thing ever gets off the ground, Romeo died Rent by including a can’t wait to see it. musical number called “Everybody’s Got AIDS”? De Rossi Joins Better Off Ted Looks like what was once It’s been a busy year for Portia de Rossi, between her story- just a piece of satire may book wedding with Ellen DeGeneres and the constant rumors now be coming to fruition. about an Arrested Development movie. Now it looks like the Sir Elton John says he’s Aussie actress will be returning to television in an ABC mid- collaborating with Ben season replacement sitcom called Better Off Ted. De Rossi Stiller on a movie musical plays Veronica, the severely coiffed boss at Veridian Technolo- about a Broadway singing- gies, a research and development fi rm known for its ground- and-dancing star who dis- breaking inventions and somewhat questionable business covers he’s got AIDS, and ethics. The show focuses on the titular Ted (Jay Harrington of then has to go home and Desperate Housewives), one of Veronica’s employees. Better explain the situation to his Off Ted’s creator, Victor Fresco, brings impressive comedy cre- wife and kids. And in case you were wondering, John insists dentials to the table as one of the driving forces behind that it’s a comedy. It sounds a little dubious, sure, but don’t and My Name is Earl. Look for Ted on your TiVo in early 2009. Kevin Smith to Have a Close Encounter When it comes to gay issues, Romeo thinks that Kevin Smith is one of the coolest straight dudes on the planet; the comedy auteur loves to include gay and lesbian characters while goofi ng on queer sex just as much as he does on all the hetero kinds. So strap on your astronaut suit, because Smith is about to leave orbit. The man behind Clerks and Zack and Miri Make a Porno recently announced that he’s planning a father-son comedy set in outer space. No word yet on what specifi c gay humor the fi lm will have, but since it’s Smith, we can almost certainly predict that there will be some. Before blasting off, Smith will make his fi rst horror movie, Red State, about an unhinged, Fred Phelps-ish fundamentalist. Amy Sedaris Returns to the Tube If you were a fan of Strangers with Candy, the polymor- phously perverse sitcom starring Amy Sedaris as rapacious bisexual “user, boozer, and loser” Jerri Blank, you’ll be excited to hear this news. Sedaris and her Candy collaborator Paul Dinello have just signed a deal with 20th Century Fox TV for a new comedy series that Sedaris will write and create. She’ll also star on the new show, which will be partially scripted but will also allow Second City alum Sedaris - sister of gay essayist David and BFF of queer designer Todd Oldham - to improv. No word yet on what the sure- to-be-outrageous sitcom will actually be about, but Sedaris and Dinello will shop it around to networks before the end of the year, with hopes of winding up on cable. Romeo San Vicente once met a stranger with candy. They wound up living together for three years.

28 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 Whole Lesbian Sex Anal Pleasure, Part 1: There’s Something About a Tongue...

By Felice Newman Lesbian | Sexuality There’s something about the texture of a tongue on delicate tissue and lips sucking on moist mem- Between her vagina and anus sits a small area of con- branes. I’m not talking about cunnilingus, though nective tissue, the perineum. Don’t slight her perineum. A lot of women like pressure here during penetration, and that’s nice, too. I’m talking rimming, or analingus licking or nibbling during rimming. - that is, oral-anal sex. Tickle the hairs around her anus with the tip of your The anus is both musty and sensitive, offering a delicate tongue. earthiness. It’s responsive, contracting and inviting as it puckers and opens with arousal. The rich nerve endings of Lightly circle her anus, or lay your soft tongue fl at the anus combined with the soft, wet heat of tongue and against her anus and rub against the opening. lips provide for an extremely erotic array of sensations. Flick your tongue rapidly against her opening. Why would you want to tongue your partner’s anus? Try slipping an unlubed condom into your mouth, roll it Because she’s so receptive to stimulation there, because over your tongue, and penetrate your partner as deeply as rimming makes her squirm, and because the earthy taste you desire. (Be aware that this works as a safer-sex tech- and smell make you feel so primal - and perhaps because nique only if you keep your lips away from her exposed it’s such a big taboo. membranes.) What does having a tongue there do for you? Well, the Grab a glove and some water-based lube, to combine subtle sensations can’t be compared to anything else. Per- rimming with vaginal penetration or clitoral stimulation. haps because the anus receives so little sexual consideration, it’s especially sensitive to erotic attention. The soft, Or you can replace your tongue with fi ngers. Once puckered mouth of your anus is ripe for play. you’ve rimmed your sweetie into a state of bliss, she may beg you for something, harder, longer, thicker - well, you Do you feel ambivalent about having a lover’s tongue in get the idea. Rimming is a delicious warm-up to anal your butt? You’re not alone. Offering your anus up to your penetration, which many women say leads to their most partner’s lips is a powerful statement of self-acceptance. intense orgasms. And that, my friends, is the subject of You may love your body. You may love your broad back another column. and plush thighs, well-defi ned muscles, or lean boyish Felice Newman is a founding publisher of Cleis Press and the torso. But do you love your butt? Honey, once you discover author of “The Whole Lesbian Sex Book: A Passionate Guide for All the pleasures of anal eroticism, you’ll realize that your butt of Us.” Visit her at www.cleispress.com. Her book is also available in certainly loves you. Calgary at A Little More Interesting. You may worry that your butt is too big, too fl abby, or too hairy (you can shave the area around your anus for a smooth feel). You may worry that you smell or taste bad, or that your lover will fi nd feces there. If you’re concerned about cleanliness, you can shower, use dental dams or other barriers, or have an enema before sex. There are usually small traces of fecal matter in the anus and rectum, so it’s possible to transmit hepatitis A, bacteria, or parasites through unprotected anal-oral contact. You can get a vaccine for Hep A (unlike Hep B and Hep C, for which there are none), and you can use latex barriers to prevent transmission of STIs and contact with feces. Licking her clitoris after rimming can lead to vaginal infections because bacteria from the anus may be carried by your tongue into her vagina. Always use a new barrier when you switch from rimming to cunnilingus. Here are some very basic tips for budding analinguists: Gently nibble her inner thighs and buttocks. Lick up and down her butt crack.

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 29 A Year in the Calgary Cares Centre

By Amanda Chapman Community | Spotlight In the fall of 2007, AIDS Calgary Awareness As- sociation relocated to a non-profi t complex at 16th Street and 10th Avenue in southwest Calgary. After a year in our new home we would like to take some time to refl ect on our successes and our ongoing commitment to the community. Our new location has allowed for several improvements to our service offerings, with the most signifi cant being the opening of the Calgary Cares Centre, which houses all of our client support and outreach programs. The building itself bears the name Calgary Cares Centre, which reduces barriers to access due to stigma. Other benefi ts of the new location include: visitor parking, wheelchair accessible and gender neutral bathrooms, a full kitchen for our weekly nutrition programs, client computer/internet access, and easy access via public transportation.

The new Calgary Cares Centre allows us to offer bet- Our new, larger space has allowed us to expand this ter services to people living with HIV/AIDS. We provide a program. This year we would like to increase the num- welcoming community centre format that allows clients ber of hampers we deliver by 40%. The need for hampers living with HIV to socialize and access support, counsel- grows every year and we are collecting donations to reach ling, food, computer/phone, community information, our goal of $16,000 to support our hamper program. You emergency winter clothing, free vitamins, and other items. can support our efforts by making a donation online at Every Friday we utilize our kitchen and large eating area to aidscalgary.org. If you prefer to give the gift of time, you provide a nutritious meal or snack and the opportunity to can also get involved by volunteering as a delivery driver. make peer connections. For more information on these and other programs of- We continue to dedicate speciﬁ c resources to the HIV fered at the Calgary Cares Centre please visit our website, prevention and education needs of gay men and men who contact us AIDS Calgary have sex with men (MSM) through our HEAT (HIV Educa- tion and Awareness Today) program. The HEAT Outreach Calgary Cares Centre Worker provides weekly outreach at GLBT bars, venues, #110, 1603 10th Avenue SW and events. Outreach includes HIV/STI and safer sex edu- (403) 508-2500 cation, distribution of informational publications speciﬁ - [email protected] cally designed for gay men, and free condoms and other safer sex supplies. In the last year, the HEAT program Amanda Chapman is the Communications Analyst for AIDS has distributed over 14,000 free condoms and conducted Calgary Awareness Association. She can be reached by the Calgary 83 outreach sessions at GLBT bars/events and 43 online Cares Centre phone number at extension 120. outreach sessions. The work we do from the Calgary Cares Centre is supported by a team of dedicated staff and volunteers. We are always recruiting program volunteers to assist our HEAT worker in promoting HIV/AIDS education through community and online outreach. If you would like to support the work we do at the Cal- gary Cares Centre there are many ways for you to get involved. As we approach the holiday season, we are gearing up for our annual Holiday Hamper program. This program provides free hampers of food and personal care items for clients living with HIV/AIDS.

30 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 Hairspray Coming of Age Musical Comes to Jubilee Auditoriums

By Jason Clevett Preview | Theatre Movie musicals have regained popularity in recent years. However, as much fun as it is to watch movies such as RENT, Mamma Mia and Chicago on the big screen, nothing quite compares to seeing a live stage production. Such is the case with Hairspray. The fi lm adaptation, featuring an all star cast including John Travolta in drag, was a smash hit in the summer of 2007. Fans of the movie will get the chance to experience the show live in Edmonton from November 11th to 16th, and in Calgary from November 25th to 30th. Hairspray is based in John Walter’s 1988 fi lm, focusing on the injustices of American society in the 1960’s, which starred Rikki Lake as Tracy Turnbladt! Set in 1962 in Balti- more, Hairspray is the story of plump teenager Tracy Turn- bald, whose dream is to dance on local television program The Corny Collins Show. When her dreams come true and she lands a role, Tracy is transformed from social outcast to sudden star! But she must use her newfound power to vanquish the reigning Teen Queen, win the affections of TThehe ccastast ooff tthehe nnationalational ttourour ooff HHairsprayairspray heartthrob Link Larkin and racially integrate a TV network - all without denting her ‘do! As is tradition, the role of Tracy’s Mom Edna is played What is the appeal of Hairspray? It varies. Some love the in drag, on this tour by Jerry O’Boyle who has played the 60’s R&B infused soundtrack that will have you tapping role in over 100 cities. The rest of the cast is fi lled out by your feet and humming along. Others are taken with the talented and attractive performers who are sure to wow you spectacular choreography (choreographed by Edmonton’s on stage. Danny Austin) and costumes. At its heart however, Hair- The Broadway production opened in 2002 and won eight spray refl ects on a piece of all of us. Many have at some of its 13 Tony nominations. The Broadway production clos- point felt like a social outcast, wanted to be popular, been es in January 2009, so this may be your one shot to see this judged by the colour of our skin, our sexuality, our choice of critically acclaimed musical spectacular for yourself. clothing etc. Tracy’s character speaks to the underdog that we are at times, and can’t help but root for. Hairspray In Edmonton November 11th - 16th at the Northern Alberta Jubilee Auditorium. In Calgary November 25th - 30th at the Southern Alberta Jubilee Auditorium. Tickets at Ticketmaster. www.hairsprayontour.com

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By James S.M. Demers Community | Event In the hustle and bustle of Christmas time we often forget those who are left behind by circumstance. When low-income families are struggling to survive in this boomtown, affording a happy Christmas can be too much to ask. But it is an incredibly rewarding feeling to bring Christmas back to a child, especially when the whole family can be happy because of it. Toys for Tots is one such event that helps make Christ- mas miracles happen for children who might otherwise miss out. Dr. Richard Denny has been organizing the event for the past 13 years, and will be held for its seventh year at Money Pennies. The event was inspired by a similar project that he was involved with when living in Toronto. He held his ﬁ rst Calgary incarnation at his own home in 1994, and things would get quite crowded with around 50 friends and family members

in attendance - it was a success, and it has continued to be ever since. Participation is very simple - bring a toy down with you, add it to the pile, and enjoy an evening of holiday cheer and atmosphere. Denny says that sometimes people are inspired to even bring three or four toys! This year’s event will fea- ture the musical styling of Toni Vere, a local folk musician, with lots of other entertainment and great food. After the last event, Country Furniture donated a truck to transport the toys to their destination at the Native Women’s Shelter and the YWCA, to be given out to those families in need. Even if you are unable to attend that particular evening, donations are accepted at Money Pennies starting at the beginning of December. Cash donations are also accepted at the event in lieu of a toy. Put a smile on a child’s face this year, feel good about yourself and demonstrate what Christmas is really about: giving. Toys for Tots Sunday, December 7th from 3-7pm Money Pennies (1742 10th Avenue SW) www.money-pennies.com

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 35 Letter from the Publisher - From Page 8 in Calgary and Edmonton. It’s good to see that even without physical gay villages, our cities still have a sense of a bigger new standard. In a way, it became our mission to level the picture beyond the walls of any single bar or business. playing fi eld so that GLBT businesses in Calgary no longer felt pressured to resort to shady tactics in order to survive. Our policy of being impartial seemed to naturally carry us We hoped that we were laying a foundation for a brighter beyond a magazine just for gay men. Today we have gay, future for everyone, not just ourselves. This was not the last lesbian, bi, and trans writers who involve the magazine in time we would cross sabers with a warlord, or work around circles that we as gay men would not normally be a part of. one to get our job done. It has been especially touching when, because of the magazine’s openness to these communities, Steve and I have been At one point it became necessary for Steve to sit as a direc- welcomed to cross the boundaries and visit sometimes very tor on the board of a particular non-profi t group that was in private groups. While it’s all very well having an acronym the middle of a nasty tug-of-war, where a number of directors that implies we are all in the same boat, it feels like we have had a vested interest in controlling the group. Steve tried to helped bring people actual proof of that unity. regulate that a fair bidding process be done when selecting event venues and sponsors, but a number of directors pre- Another area where we have concentrated a lot of effort ferred to use their position to bias the group toward utilizing for the last half-decade has been the charity, non-profi t, and their own businesses above all others – a confl ict of interest. volunteer scene. Unfortunately we don’t have buckets full of The resistance to breaking this practice was overwhelming, money to hand over, but money alone won’t make an organi- and Steve unable to condone the actions of the board, ten- zation tick – that is why we’ve found a number of other ways dered his resignation. But we didn’t give up – we continued to give. Advertising sponsorship has been a large part of it, to work with the group from the outside which left our foot in where we donate the value of an ad spot to help get the word the door to pressure them to change. In time, they did. out for an event; the premise being that the more people who attend, the more successful the fundraising efforts are It was exceedingly clear that Calgary’s straight world was likely to be. This was a crucial element of the magazine’s bent on maintaining the illusion that GLBT people didn’t ex- plan right from the beginning – not just to support the top 3 ist. While the name of our magazine describes perfectly what groups, but be available to all groups big and small. we are, it also left us open to a shocking amount of prejudice. We started with over 200 distribution locations in Calgary, To date, we are happy to remain active members of many before it was whittled down to its current number. The loca- non-profi t groups but we do not allow ourselves to take on tions themselves seldom had a problem with the magazine director positions or infl uence group decisions, where a until the odd homophobe patron systematically threatened confl ict of interest might arise. While we are here to offer or terrorized them until we were removed. Many locations our support, we also recognize that groups must be allowed refused to bow to this pressure, so one of those individuals to develop on their own if they hope to mature into a stable took it upon himself to sneak away with entire stacks of our entity. We also watch to ensure other businesses respect magazine, and other gay publications, to trash them before the autonomy of the non-profi t groups so that past disasters anyone could pick them up. We were not comfortable living cannot be repeated. below the rainbow ceiling, so while some of the other affected Furthermore, we haven’t let those few bad apples in the publications appeared to do nothing but count these missing straight community sour us. We recognize that if we one copies toward their pick-up rates, we took the time out of our day hope to be accepted by these people, it’s important not busy schedule to actually do something about it – to make it to turn our backs on them, even if some do need a good kick known that this sort of behavior was not acceptable. We fi led every now and then. GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine police reports, and actively involved the businesses that were has made inroads to becoming visible and accepted in the being targeted. Though the offender wasn’t arrested by the mainstream. One particular sign of the changing times was police, one of the locations gave him the scare of his life and our accreditation at the Junos earlier this year, right along- he hasn’t caused us mischief since! side mainstream publications like the Calgary Herald, Cal- In more recent times we were dangerously close to falling gary Sun, FFWD, etc. For a publication of our size, we have back into old habits with Calgary’s newest gay bar, but a interviewed an amazing line-up of celebrities (not to mention healthy kick in the butt from the community helped us snap the Mayors of Calgary and Edmonton) who show no aversion out of it. The situation demonstrated why it is so danger- to talking with gay media. For our anniversary editions, we ous for the magazine to take sides beyond our own personal regularly receive letters of congratulation from politicians at feelings, as the act of stepping back from this relationship all levels of government, gay or straight, who subscribe to our probably did far more damage than if we had simply kept our magazine each month. They tell us how they use it to help distance all along. them understand a section of their constituents from whom they might otherwise be isolated. So yes, when I came on as a publisher of GayCalgary Magazine, I had no clue what I was getting myself into – no But at the heart of it all, our single biggest triumph is that idea how much we would have to fi ght to keep a simple, we have built a sustainable business out of an altruistic sincere, and helpful community resource alive. Adversity desire to be a part of the solution; that despite the cynics and will either strengthen your resolve, or scar you to distortion. nay-sayers, the homophobes, the warlords, tyrants and tools We can’t be all gone because we defi nitely still appreciate the thereof - fi ve years later GayCalgary and Edmonton Maga- little triumphs in the community just about every month that zine is here, stronger than ever, setting trends that publica- make it all worthwhile. tions and websites across Canada are following, serving its purpose better than it ever has, with no shortage of ideas to The Victories bring Calgary, Edmonton, and Alberta even further. And speaking of the word “community”, there was a time The Thanks I seldom heard it leave anyone’s lips. Now it’s the catch phrase, indispensable for describing the GLBT+ identity here Though Steve and I are recognized as the faces of

36 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine, there is a lot more to bias, we decided it best to leave the investigation to a third “we, GayCalgary” than just the two of us. Those who write party. We contacted Jill Croteau from Global News, knowing for us rarely get to hear the praise that they deserve for the her experience with undercover investigation news articles. amazing work that they pull off every month. She ran the story, whereupon our suspicions were confi rmed even further. In particular, Jason Clevett has been with us for longer than I’ve been publisher! His dedication has saved us count- Considering our membership was coming up for renewal, less times when other writers have been unavailable. His we had several sit down meetings with Tourism Calgary, and passion for writing has been instrumental in maintaining allowed them two months to prove to us that the situation the quality and quantity of articles that we offer, and he has was being properly dealt with. But it was clear that the orga- made things happen for this magazine that we didn’t think nization had no idea where to lay the blame for the maga- were possible. zines not being present despite explicit instructions for them to be displayed. In spite of their good intentions, we had to Stephen Lock has been with us since day one. His political look at it from a business perspective where we had paid for columns have kept us informed, and explained the nuances a service that was being delivered in a diminished form from of situations that we might otherwise not understand. Along other Tourism Calgary members in the same standing. With with monthly columns from Kevin Alderson, and Mercedes no offer of compensation, and no recourse allowed if prob- Allen’s, these three writers ensure that GayCalgary offers an lems continued in the future, we have allowed our member- intelligent and educational component every month. ship to lapse until a reasonable solution can be agreed upon. Regular writers and contributors Dallas Barnes, James November 2008 Demers, Linda Huston, and Evan Kayne dedicate their time most months to bring us other articles of interest. We’re Aside from us, a number of other businesses are also excited to have Matt Salton just last month take over our celebrating their anniversaries this month. In Calgary, the regular movie review column, as well as new additions of Ted Twisted Element is turning 4; in Edmonton, Boots Bar & Kerr and Antonio Bavaro! Our thanks also go out to all oth- Lounge is turning a whopping 29, making them the longest ers who have taken the time to contribute to the magazine, standing gay bar in Alberta! Congratulations to both of you! past and present; with sadness, this also includes Nico Hof- ferd who passed away in July of last year. Edmontonians have Exposure Festival to look forward to this month (pg. 11), as well as the 3rd Annual Dyke to Diva We also have to thank long-standing advertisers still with competition (pg. 58). us today, like the Calgary Eagle, Money Pennies, Backlot, the Texas Lounge, Goliaths, Priape, Courtney Aarbo, Cruiseline Look for GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine at the Taboo (Pink Triangle Press) and many many others. A magazine Sex Show this month, in both Calgary and Edmonton – we’ve cannot run on determination alone, and they have ensured stepped things up a little this year, so come by and pay us a that the resources we need are available to us, and in turn, visit! In general, there will be a lot more booths for the GLBT the groups that we support. crowd than in previous years. Look for booths from Priape, A Little More Interesting, Barbies Shop, Wares and Wear, and Last but not least, we can’t go without recognizing Don more! Turgeon (a former owner of the Rekroom) for his help with many other miscellaneous tasks that are necessary to make As always, World AIDS Day happens on December 1st, the magazine tick, including distribution and transportation. so take this night to remember those who have died from Though I know we sometimes try his patience when we have HIV/AIDS and do your part to preserve and enrich the lives a million stops to make. of those still affected by the disease. …and of course, you for reading us! For more event information, visit our online events calendar at: http://www.gaycalgary.com/events Tourism Calgary We want to hear what YOU have to say about the topics in this article, We’re not out of the woods just yet – there are a number of and any other articles in our magazine. Visit the chat forums at www. struggles still going on today. gaycalgary.com and write your heart out! Or write us a letter to the publisher by E-mailing [email protected], and we may publish or Even just recently we had to confront Tourism Calgary respond to it in the magazine! after paying two years for a service we apparently weren’t getting. Out of curiosity we did spot checks at the Calgary Tower and the Calgary International Airport and on several occasions, and were disappointed to fi nd our magazines were missing. We reported these occurrences to Tourism Calgary, and were informed that they had been solved. Talking to employees at the Calgary Tower, we were aware of outside forces trying to interfere with the distribution of the magazine at these tourism centers, which made us check more frequently. When we continued to fi nd our magazines missing at the Airport, our reports elevated to complaints. It was extremely important to ensure the magazines were accessible to those who may not be comfortable outing themselves to Tourism Calgary employees, when it appeared uncertain that they had any information of that nature to offer. Out of the blue a former employee from the Calgary Airport tourism center came forward with allegations of unfi tting employee behavior, and it seemed to fi t the bill. To check our

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 37 Open Versus Closed (Monogamous) Relationships Are Both Viable?

By Kevin Alderson, Ph.D., R. Psych. Queer Quest During the more than 15 years I have been out, monogamous, (b) 48 couples I have met many gay couples who have developed were open, and (c) 33 couples different relationship styles. I have myself negoti- were monogamous with out- ated both open and closed relationships, many times side sex (broken agreement). wondering “which is better,” and if one is superior When the relationship quality in any sense, “why is it better?” My personal and of groups was compared, there were no differences between professional experience has left me thinking that groups (a) and (b). Group both are viable options, but I haven’t had my own (c) was found to have less notions validated in any scientifi c way. Science – in relationship quality, but only terms of psychology – means that what we profess is when the sexual “cheating” oc- based on the outcome of what we know from studies curred more than a year ear- of large samples of people, or from smaller samples lier. Furthermore, there was of individuals who have been interviewed and/or no diminution of relationship quality between those who observed. discussed their broken fi delity This month’s quest is about exploring what we know with their partners and those who didn’t. The researcher about open versus closed relationships. Before delving concluded that in accordance with previous fi ndings, “many into this, I want everyone to know from the outset that the men separate sex from love and prize sexual variety.” research tells us that at any given time, between 40 and 80 Don’t let me give you the impression that openness percent of lesbians are in steady relationships and likewise and monogamy are without confl ict in gay male relation- between 40 and 60 percent of gay men. [1] Furthermore, ships, however. A study based on interviews with 11 gay when compared to heterosexual couples, gay and lesbian male couples in New Zealand [6] found that although their couples are just as much in love and just as satisfi ed with sample had conventional (i.e., valuing monogamy) notions their relationships, [2] and whew, we are just as well ad- of relationships, most of them believed monogamy was not justed psychologically too! [3] sustainable and their relationships were characterized by One large-scale study concerning relationship stability anxiety around infi delity. Furthermore, they were reluctant reported a break-up rate of 4%, 14%, 13%, and 18% for het- to disclose outside sexual activity or to even discuss having erosexual married couples, heterosexual cohabiting cou- an open relationship with their partners. ples, gay male cohabiting couples, and cohabiting lesbian Researchers do not know the exact percentage of gay men couples, respectively, over an 18 month period. [4] Consider- who are in open relationships. One national American study ing this study was American and predated the legalization of from 1994 found that 10% stated they were in open relation- same-sex marriage throughout Canada, it appears that our ships, [7] whereas a 1992 British study found 56.3% were relationships are as stable as that of heterosexuals. Re- in open relationships. [8] Still another American study from search has also suggested that gay and lesbian relationships 1984 found that all of the 156 gay male couples that partici- may have certain advantages over heterosexual ones, but pated, each together for over fi ve years, were in non-monog- reviewing these fi ndings will need to await a future article. amous relationships. [9] Clearly more current research has Now that the viability of our relationships – whatever form shown that both monogamy and non-monogamy are options they take – has been established, let’s move onto looking at for couples, and when outside sex is permitted or when it open versus closed relationships. As a beginning caveat, I occurs without the partner’s awareness, it does not neces- was unable to secure research done with lesbian couples, sarily mean that the gay couple is in trouble. although I am certainly aware that some lesbians do have Gay male couples who chose monogamy do so because open relationships with their partners. I cannot, however, in they perceive monogamy to be synonymous with commit- good faith comment on them without having research at my ment and intimacy. They also report that it avoids jealousy disposal. It does appear that there is a dearth of research in from entering into their relationship and eradicates a fear of this area - it would no doubt make an interesting thesis or HIV infection. [10] Gay male couples who chose non-monog- dissertation for a graduate student to undertake! amy do so because they value personal and sexual freedom, A 2004 study [5] surveyed gay male couples who had been and some of them believe that outside sex has a positive together for at least a year, and who were currently cohabit- impact on their relationship. [11] ing. The 121 couples who responded were divided into three Most coupled gay men who have negotiated outside sexual groups based on each partner’s responses (they completed experiences establish guidelines that safeguard their pri- these separate from each other): (a) 40 couples were strictly mary relationship. [12] How do they do this? Here are a few

38 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 examples of what has been negotiated by some couples: • Only have outside sex when travelling. • Only see the same person once or twice. • Only engage in threesomes so that both you and your partner are involved. • Practice safer sex with outside partners. • For those who cohabitate, don’t bring anyone home for sex – do it elsewhere. • Tell the outsider that you are in a relationship, and if an emotional connection begins to develop, don’t see the person again. Bottom line is this: if you want to have an open relationship from the outset, or you decide you want this once you have already entered into a relationship, discuss it with your partner. I assume you are with him or her because you truly value this individual – if that is not the case, you really need to look at what is still holding the two of you together. As- suming you do cherish your partner, he or she deserves the very best from you. There is really no place for dishonesty in an intimate relationship, and as you probably already know, outside sexual activity can put your partner at undeserved risk for contracting sexually transmitted diseases from you. Many gay coupled men actually like the idea of allowing outside sexual activity, so don’t be afraid to discuss it openly. If your partner doesn’t want to go there, and you do, this is the kind of conﬂ ict that is sometimes good reason to move on. One of the nice things about being gay is that we often maintain friendships with ex-lovers, so you don’t have to give up the person just because you have given up the sex. Dr. Alderson is an associate professor of counselling psychology at the University of Calgary who specializes in gay and lesbian studies. He also maintains a private practice. He can be contacted by confidential email at [email protected], or by confidential voice mail at 605- 5234.

References: 1. Bohan, J. S. (1996). Psychology and sexual orientation: Coming to terms. New York: Routledge. 2. Ibid 3. Kurdek, L. A. (2004). Are gay and lesbian cohabiting couples really different from heterosexual married couples? Journal of Marriage and Family, 66, 880-900. 4. Ibid 5. LaSala, M. C. (2004). Extradyadic sex and gay male couples: Compar- ing monogamous and nonmonogamous relationships. Families in Society, 85, 405-412. 6. Worth, H., Reid, A., & McMillan, K. (2002). Somewhere over the rainbow: Love, trust, and monogamy in gay relationships. Journal of Sociology, 38, 237-253. 7. Bryant, S., & Demian. (1994). Relationship characteristics of American gay and lesbian couples: Findings from a national survey. Journal of Gay and Lesbian Social Services, 1, 101-117. 8. Hickson, F. C., Davies, P. M., Hunt, A. J., Weatherburn, P., McManus, T. J., & Coxon, A. P. (1992). Maintenance of open gay relationships: Some strategies for protection against HIV. AIDS Care, 4, 409-419. 9. McWhirter, D., & Mattison. (1984). The male couple: How relationships develop. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice Hall. 10. LaSala, M. C. (2004). Monogamy of the heart: Extradyadic sex and gay male couples. Journal of Gay and Lesbian Social Services, 17, 1-24. 11. Ibid.

12. Ibid.

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 39 A Calgarian In Toronto - From Page 12 to return to rent control, but even under the Liberals, they’ve not budged. people who say ‘I just can’t take it anymore’. It’s the constant sexual hype and games. The bitchy repartee…some people Then there are the changes this successful neighborhood grow out of that, some people don’t.” Being in the village 24/7 has on commercial space. This is another frustration for city strengthens the cliques within the community – something the council in Toronto. “In my opinion,” said Rae, “part of the next generation, represented by Tartaglio, still sees. What do problem is that having a liquor license is almost equivalent you do if you grow out of the bitchiness, and the need to only to having a printing press for money. There is a perception in hang around bears/dykes on bikes/drag queens / leather- the mind of property owners of Church Street retail proper- men / twinkies / lipstick lesbians etc? You’ll feel the need to ties that they can maximize their rents by leveraging licensed escape from a neighbourhood perpetuating these cliques. establishments onto Church Street…the rents are becoming so jacked up because of the expectation of being able to make Escape is what’s happening. Much like ethnic communi- money hand over fi st with a liquor license.” Rae worries be- ties where the fi rst generation lived in their own ghettos only cause the rents in the neighborhood are going so high they are to see the next generation freely disperse throughout the city, driving out the grocers, the coffee shops, the funky clothing the same is happening to gay men and lesbians in Toronto. “I stores who can’t pull in as much money but who helped give think a lot of gay men have fi gured out that segregation isn’t the area the feeling of a market street. This atmosphere can- really helping out our cause” said Tartaglio. Councilor Rae not be maintained if the street only has bars. sees it as an attitudinal change. “Gays and Lesbians are now able to live just about anywhere. Church & Wellesley used to However, there have been steps taken to solidify the at- be a ghetto, now it’s a village. It used to be a safe place. We no mosphere of the village so it’s recognized as a gay historic longer need that. I now see couples walking up Yonge Street, neighborhood. As Velasquez put it, “I think it’s very important I see them in Parkdale, Riverdale, Leslieville…there are gay we recognize our history so that now and in the future this couples buying property…our culture has radically changed will always be known as a landmark and the gay village. As from that of ten years ago.” a culture we have to fi nd a way to house the people and the businesses that have created the identity of who we are.” Be- Besides the escape to the ‘burbs, another worry an estab- sides the rainbow fl ags, there is the Alexander Wood statue at lished gay village faces is gentrifi cation. Historically, the neigh- the corner of Church and Alexander. There was also the estab- borhood surrounding Church and Wellesley had affordable low lishment of the Church Wellesley Business Improvement Area. income housing; it was an area no one else wanted. Members This organization took ten years to be established, but there is of our community moved in and fi xed up the living spaces. fi nally the feeling the BIA refl ects the needs of the street, and When Maple Leaf Gardens shut down in the late 1990s, busi- therefore the needs of the residents who are depending on that nesses catering to the Gardens and its clientele closed up as commercial strip. well. The result was more space on the street for Gay businesses who completed the clean-up of the neighborhood on Now, before you accuse me of viewing the Toronto commu- the commercial side. In turn, this made the area a desirable nity with rose-coloured glasses, I’m aware they probably have place to live…and suddenly residential and commercial rents infi ghting amongst themselves too. That being said, I suspect went skywards. we don’t have to worry about the gay village fading away in Toronto. Yet I returned home and wondered what can we do Toronto’s gay village success then becomes a bit of a li- here in Alberta for our own communities? ability. On the residential side, the city has done what it could to keep some rental housing in the neighborhood, said The question I posed to various Torontonians was whether Rae. “What we’ve been able to do is add more housing to the Calgary needs to create a similar, physical gay community neighborhood without undermining the rental stock. Most of located in one spot. The consensus was that, while physi- the new condos are on what used to be surface parking lots cal areas and buildings helped strengthen the ties, the real or on commercial properties. There hasn’t been any loss of mortar helping to create a strong gay community in Toronto rentals. We’ve got more gay and lesbian couples moving into was the willingness of businesses and organizations to work home ownership in condos.” Unfortunately, under the Mike together. The village is no longer as central to gay life – people Harris provincial government, rules were changed to allow for are free to move out to other areas because of the evolution vacancy de-control. City council repeatedly asked the province and acceptance of society as a whole. Alberta is a province that had to be dragged kicking and screaming into accepting gay rights, who threatened to try to opt out of gay marriage. Same-sex couples still may not feel safe walking hand-in-hand in our cities. We live in an economic situation where there is no low cost housing or commercial properties because they’ve been sold out to make more condos. Then in our own queer community, people play king of the hill, saying “you better obey what I say or you ain’t part of my group”. I don’t know, I see progress, yet we need more. A gay business association would be a start. We may not have a physical village, but damn it, why can’t we harness that mythic Alberta maverick ornery spirit and put Toronto to shame - instead of being known as Texas North? I don’t have the answers, and god knows I’ve done my share of being self- ish at times – however, I do know in some ways we are falling behind. Maybe getting everyone holding hands and singing “Kumbaya” is a simplistic approach. But doesn’t it make a better solution than bitching and fi ghting, and wouldn’t it provide a better, lasting gay heritage for our own cities?

40 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 Fundraising Photos A Green Affair at Prism - Edmonton Photos by GayCalgary Staff

AIDS Calgary AGM - Calgary Pride Calgary AGM - Calgary

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 41 Amateur Drag King Contest at Prism - Edmonton Amateur Drag Queen Contest at Boots - Edmonton

ISCWR Pasta Night at Boots - Edmonton

42 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 Womonspace Dance - Edmonton

ARGRA Monthly Dance - Calgary

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 43 ISCCA Fundraisers at Calgary Eagle, MPs, Texas Lounge and Cougars (Turner Valley)

Skaryoke Fundraiser at Texas Lounge - Calgary

44 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 Dyke to Diva Launch at Prism - Edmonton

AIDS Fundraiser at Buddys - Edmonton

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 45 A Prom Night to Dismember at Marquee Room - Calgary

Witches Bitches and Brew at Boots - Edmonton

46 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 47 Hump Wednesdays at the Marquee Room A Queer Night in a Straight Bar!

By Dallas Barnes Event | Spotlight Time to get a head start on the weekend! The Marquee Room is now proud to host HUMP Wednes- day, a night dedicated to the queer community. Just like any other night at the bar, the Marquee Room brings in fantastic DJ’s for a weekly night of drink and dance. The Marquee Room, located directly above the Uptown Stage and Screen Theatre in downtown Calgary, is an alternative bar that has been operating for two years, showcasing the talent of multi-genre local bands. With an established fan base already, The Marquee Room is looking to add other communities to their diverse crowd. Jonathan Marshall and Blake O’Brien own the Marquee Room and the Uptown Stage and Screen. They have been active queer community supporters with their consistent showing of queer fi lms in the theatre. Patrick MacEachern, formerly of A Bar Named Sue, and Lorrie Matheson a constant in the Calgary Music Scene are the men in charge of the Marquee Room. before. HUMP Wednesday organizer JP Rousseau came to the Marketing and Development Coordinator Juliet Burgess Marquee Room with the concept. This event originated at a is very excited about the success of HUMP Wednesday. bar in Montreal - “a queer night in a straight bar.” He was “The opening night was a big success, with us teetering a huge fan of the Marquee Room, and extremely frustrated on room capacity all night. We’ve since hosted an Electro with the current Calgary queer bar scene. This idea had night, and our Halloween event where all the proceeds immediate appeal to the Management Team as it promoted went to CJSW 90.9FM’s Queer programming. FairyTales the “openness and acceptance this place has always had.” Gay & Lesbian Film Festival sponsored the night by deco- rating and encouraging zombie prom-style attire.” After a month of scheduling local talent like as CJSW’s Sideshow Sid and DJ Neighbour from Homebreakin’ Burgess also affi rms that The Marquee Room “is a versa- Records, HUMP Wednesday premiered on October 15th, tile space where people can drink, dance, view local art on and was a major hit, and the remaining two Wednesdays a monthly rotation, and just relax. We pride ourselves on in October have continued to draw crowds. Many patrons the creation of HUMP, and hope people respond to it with have been asking why this type of event has not happened as much enthusiasm as we here already have.” The Marquee Room hosts the event every week, and more information is always available online about what is happening or who is playing on any particular night. The Marquee Room is the fi rst straight bar in Calgary to ever host a queer night. It is a fantastic venue that this team has worked hard to bring us. We owe it to them to check it out – besides, what else do you have to do on a Wednesday night? HUMP Wednesday The Marquee Room 612 8 Avenue SW 2nd Floor, Uptown Stage and Screen (403) 265-0123 www.theuptown.com.

48 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 “Jayson” Turns 25

By James S.M. Demers Book | Review Comic book plots have always been an opportunity to give a metaphorical voice to minorities from lives through humour of politics has been extremely all walks of life. X-Men, The Incredible Hulk, Bat- important in breaking through man and Spiderman are all examples of this phe- the metaphors and exposing nomenon. X –Men especially, has always induced queer culture to comic reader- grins from the queer community as the characters ship. discover they have special powers with the onset of Ground breaking works puberty, which isolate them from the rest of society. such as Dykes to Watch Out For, Strangers in Paradise, While improving the fashion sense of straight men ev- A.U.N.T.I.E, and Chelsea Boys erywhere, and inspiring underground vogue culture do not hitting the main stream has have quite the same effect as manipulating metal with one’s helped to fl esh out queer mind or walking through walls, they are interesting take son culture in a new medium. growing up knowing you are different; they give readers the With every issue providing a opportunity to experience the loneliness and frustration that different focus, from queer accompanies living outside the bounds of popular cultural family life to politics to adult comics to educational coming out conceptions. stories, the angles are endless. The opportunity for queer comic writers to document their The success and longevity of Queer comics come thanks to the dedicated writers, publishing companies, and independent store owners who have fought to retain the original content in a visible medium, despite constant attacks from the government, Christian coalitions and right wing censorship. Jayson is one such comic that is celebrating 25 years of misadventures. The brain child of Jeff Krell, who began the comic in 1983, has made appearances in Philadelphia Gay News, Gay Comix, and Meatmen with the syndicated strip. The characters that colour this world are Jayson and his loyal best female friend Arena Stage, the cross dressing queen Robyn Ricketts, and Jayson’s previously puritan mother Ber- tha – she breaks with the norm and vehemently defends her son’s sexual orientation, with the point of a pitch fork in some cases. While relying on stereotypes works for the comic within these four characters, it grows tiresome as the story expands to other characters in the Jayson universe: a washed up closeted gay movie star, sperm hungry lesbian power lawyer, and religious fanatic farmers. Jayson has its moments and provides the intended light- hearted fl uff with a queer theme. The largely non-political strip does handle some interesting issues: skimming the surface of the gay porn industry, closet fame, self hating gay justifi cations, gender variance and parental motivations. Jay- son exposes the serious issues that surround queer life and sensibility without delving in to the heavier issues. Pick up one of Krells graphic novels for a relaxing read, and support queer comics and their freedom to explore queer themes. Jayson Goes to Hollywood http://www.ignite-ent.com

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 49 Transgender in the Genes?

By Mercedes Allen Trans Identity By this time you may have already heard the news - it broke only days before press time. Mainstream at play. I’d also tend to believe that this unpredictability of genetics also means that while one person may develop as a media don’t seem to be interested in dignifying it, classic surgically-oriented transsexual, another may experi- but coverage is still widespread, albeit with very few ence things to a lesser degree, and be more comfortable as a commentators and news agencies putting all the cross-dresser, expressing dual genders or being gender-queer. facts and facets in one basket. However, the current study doesn’t say that: only transsexuals in transition were accepted as volunteers; cross-dressers and On Monday, October 12th, researchers participating in others were not involved in the study, so we still don’t know. an international study from Melbourne, Australia and Los Either way, what we don’t want is for these types of discover- Angeles, California announced that they’ve found a correlation ies to become exclusive determinants of treatment. In other between a variation in the androgen receptor gene and male- words, this girl can transition because she has the elongated to-female transsexuality. This follows a lesser-known study androgen receptor gene, but this one can’t because we haven’t done last June in Vienna, Austria, which identifi ed a specifi c found anything that might cause her to be transsexual, yet. gene variant common in female-to-male transsexuals but un- Findings like this can just as easily be used to invalidate common in natal females. The Melbourne / Los Angeles study people as validate them. is the largest of its kind to date, with 112 transwomen and a control group of 250 natal males being tested. Also, one study does not equal evidence. This will need to be replicated by others and tested with various other ele- Although this is an extremely signifi cant fi nding for the ments taken into account, in order to be developed further. transgender community, it is not the Holy Grail, and some of It is a start, a piece of the puzzle. Also, many transsexuals the facts need to be separated from the speculative extremes have been pushing to have transsexuality (“Gender Identity being disseminated. When the magazine Science published Disorder”) delisted as a psychiatric issue and categorized as a an article in 1993 about the discovery of a “gay gene,” the medical issue - although this is a relatively small discovery, it research had only begun - since then, several genes have been may provide direction for science to do exactly that. spotlighted and the studies continue today. Even so, the possibility of a genetic link to homosexuality has changed very lit- What this means to the transgender community, of course, tle in the hearts and minds of the conservative western world is that it helps make the case for broader acceptance, al- - discoveries such as this are not the end of a struggle, but the though it is a little bit dubious to say that anyone has to be beginning. What this study does is give a larger sample study “validated” by medical discoveries. Even so, transgender peo- to verify earlier studies, demonstrating that there are probably ple, especially transsexuals, depend on the medical system - it biological factors at play regarding transsexuality. certainly doesn’t hurt if those medical professionals gradually move toward a better understanding of the biological model of First, the specifi cs of the recent study: researchers found transsexuality, and shift away from the psychiatric model that that a higher than typical number of transsexual volunteers may grow more restrictive and stigmatizing in coming years... (i.e. not all; plus, some males in the control group exhibited a although riding the process of change of any sort does tend to similar development, with no transsexuality as a consequence) be a little rough at times. Additionally, what it can provide to tended to have a lengthened androgen receptor gene. It is be- many who are struggling with self-acceptance is valuable. lieved that this likely caused a decrease in testosterone levels in the brain during development, causing incomplete mas- This news has also caused some to speculate about the culinization. Being that human development tends toward possibility that this discovery might later be used in a trend the female (XX) unless genetic triggers tell the body otherwise toward eugenics. This is not as farfetched as it sounds, as (XY), this would result in at least some female brain develop- some of the follow-ups to Rev. Albert Mohler’s “Is Your Baby ment. This would seem to lend causality to fi ndings by Zhou Gay? What If You Could Change It?” article, last year. Still, et al. in 1995 and Kruijver et al. in 2000 that demonstrated that is a question for the future. I would hope society would general structural differences in brain development between have evolved past its terror of diversity somewhat by then. males and females; that transsexuals’ brains tended to more The Transgender Day of Remembrance is being com- closely resemble those of the gender to which they identifi ed, memorated on Thursday, November 20th in Edmonton (Old rather than their birth sex. These differences are very slight, Hudson’s Bay Building, 10230 Jasper Ave., 7:00pm), and but enough to generate questions. Saturday November 22nd in Calgary (Old YWCA Centre, 223 Putting this into perspective, there probably isn’t a single - 12 Ave. SW, 1:00). Please join us. “trans gene,” but perhaps a number of them, similar to the ”Mercedes Allen is a writer who blogs at http://dentedbluemercedes. study of homosexuality. There may also be other routes out- wordpress.com/, has been featured on bilerico.com, PageOneQ and oth- side of genetics (studies are still being done on Endocrine Dis- ers, and has also developed the website at AlbertaTrans.org as a resource rupting Chemicals like DES, for example). And characteristic for transgender information and support.” of genes in general, having a specifi c gene will not automati- cally make one trans, there are always other biological factors

50 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 Letters to the Editor

By GayCalgary Staff & Contributors Letters Dear Editor, The Alberta Rockies Gay Rodeo Association would like to We would like to send a heartfelt thank you out to everyone congratulate Gay Calgary and Edmonton magazine on your who attended and participated in the ISCCA’s ground-break- 5th anniversary. Your magazine and website are a great ing charity drag show at Cougars Sports Bar in Turner Valley, source of information for the Gay community and a set a high AB on October 25th. standard for other businesses in our community to strive The show, organized by Laurie (Cougar’s owner) and Debi toward. Leong and produced by Justine Tyme and Fred Udey, raised ARGRA is very happy to be afﬁ liated with Gay Calgary and approximately $3000.00 for the Children’s Wish Foundation. Edmonton and appreciate your support and sponsorship as We would like to thank Laurie for providing her space to the well as your support of other non-proﬁ t organizations and the ISCCA and for being open to new ideas of entertainment. It is professionalism that you demonstrate in all of your work. also amazing to be more transparent as an organization to the province as a whole, gay, straight and everyone else. We look forward to many more successful years and a long relationship with Steve and Rob and your outstanding maga- Thank you again to everyone who helped make this event a zine. success! Sincerely, Sincerely, ARGRA Board of Directors TMISMs Emperor 32 Michael Myte and Empress 32 Nina Tron

Dear Editor, A Nurse Practitioner just came by to visit her mom who sits next to me in my offi ce. She was the NP that fi rst gave life to my little boy, Andrew and whom we got to know quite well during our stay in the NICU. She was with us when Andrew passed away. We were talking about my fundraising and the chairs we’re going to get for the unit. I mentioned that I will be at the hospital selling my pom poms on the 31st. She asked if I was going to be dressed up and I said yes. (Up until now, she really had no idea I was “Marni” the Empress) She laughed and said one day, she was walking a colleague’s offi ce and noticed a magazine on her desk. She fl ipped through the pages not really getting why such a magazine would be in the NICU. She phoned her colleague to tease her to which she replied, “Take another look.” When she got to the story about me it all clicked. She thought it was great! I don’t know how the magazine got there but I thought you would really appreciate knowing that these articles get noticed even way outside of the community. I can’t thank you enough again for all of your efforts in supporting my reign and my fundraising efforts.

Sincerely, HMISM Empress 33 Marni Gras

Dear Editor,

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52 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 Bloomington is also the home of the Tibetan Cultural Cen- rants in town, including the Bakehouse, which serves tasty ter, which includes the nation’s only Tibetan monastery. The American fare - including exceptional brunches on weekends Tibetans operate three restaurants in town, the Snow Lion, - and has outdoor seating overlooking Courthouse Square. which serves outstanding Tibetan and pan-Asian cuisine; Cafe Django, which serves light fare and often has live mu- If you have time or you’re a serious fan of architecture, sic; and Little Tibet, which also presents authentic Tibetan consider the short but highly rewarding excursion east to fare. Ethnic food is a specialty in this city, and you’ll fi nd a the architecturally prominent town of Columbus. You’ll fi nd concentration of especially noteworthy options along the 400 a number of spots for biking, boating, and hiking along the block of East 4th Street, just west of campus. Little Tibet is way. The drive east on Rte. 46 passes through beautiful along this block, as are eateries serving Indian, Thai, Turk- countryside that’s hilly and lushly forested, with several state ish, Italian, and Chinese food. parks. This is the sort of terrain that country drives seem made for, where you’ll fi nd the occasional ice cream shop or Bloomington’s most esteemed restaurant is Farm, a fanci- farm stand to break up the drive, and little else. fully decorated spot downtown fi lled with vintage-farmhouse accessories but serving quite modern food - you might start It takes just under an hour to reach Columbus, one of the with Anguillian-style tuna ceviche with coconut water and most architecturally ambitious towns in America (in 1991 the white-balsamic vinegar, followed by coffee-rubbed bison American Institute of Architects ranked this small city the rib-eye with truffl e-mushroom grits. Save room for a slice of 6th most important U.S. city in terms of architectural quality red-velvet cake with blood-orange sorbet. and innovation, following only Chicago, New York, Washing- ton, San Francisco, and Boston). Downtown is dotted with Another fi ne option is the Limestone Grille, which is no- provocative structures, some successful, some not - it’s re- table for its art-fi lled dining room and a huge mural carved markable to walk it and observe the contrasts of historic and of limestone - this elegant spot serves upscale American contemporary buildings. cuisine, from hefty steaks to grilled lamb chops with olive oil, rosemary, and Israeli couscous. As much fun for sipping It all started in 1942 when a local business leader com- stouts and ales as for digging in to platters of hearty oys- missioned Eliel Saarinen to build the First Christian Church. ters, clams, stews, steaks, and burgers, the Irish Lion ranks Since then the likes of Richard Meier, I.M. Pei, Kevin Roche, among the area’s favorite restaurants. Robert Venturi, and many more luminaries have added their own buildings. And don’t overlook the countless beautifully Bloomington Bagel Co. has some of the best bagels around; preserved historic buildings, many dating back to the mid- try the asiago with olive cream cheese spread and you’ll 19th century. Two-hour guided tours leave from the visitor understand the appeal. For the city’s juiciest and sloppi- center daily (twice on Sat.). Columbus also has a substantial est burgers, head to Opie Taylor’s. Trojan Horse is a highly number of outlet shops, antiques and crafts boutiques, and regarded Greek/American restaurant that students have other retail diversions. been frequenting for years. And Laughing Planet presents a delectable assortment of tasty world-beat foods, from hefty If you’re interested in spending the night, consider hip Cal-style burritos to veggie burgers. Hotel Indigo Columbus Architectural Center, a new outpost of the moderately priced, design-driven brand that’s been Bloomington has one gay bar, Uncle Elizabeth’s, which steadily developing a strong following among GLBT travelers. moved into a newer and more pleasant space in 2008. It’s The sleek mid-rise hotel is right downtown, close to many of your typical college-town hangout, drawing a mix of students the town’s signifi cant buildings. Rooms are bright and airy and locals. Another good bet for socializing is Rachael’s Cafe, and have such creature comforts as CD players, DVD play- a cheery coffeehouse that’s very popular with the GLBT set ers, and free Wi-Fi. On the ground and is open until 9 p.m. most nights. The Friday open-mike level, you can fi nish off a day of gatherings are especially popular. exploring with a meal at the hotel’s whimsically decorated Phi Bar and You can choose from a number of chain motels and hotels Restaurant, which serves superb in Bloomington, plus a couple of stand-out B&Bs. Bear in American fare. mind that securing a room is tough on fall and winter weekends, when college football and basketball are in full swing. Andrew Collins is the author of Fodor’s For its central location, attractive lobby lounge, and well- Gay Guide to the USA and eight ad- equipped, contemporary rooms, the Hilton Garden Inn makes ditional travel guides. an excellent choice. Courthouse Square is just a couple of blocks away from the Hilton, whose amenities include a pool, fi tness center, and business center. A particularly good but highly sought-after option is the Indiana Memorial Union - the nation’s largest student union contains an upscale 187- room hotel with attractive rooms. An added bonus, the huge IU Bookstore is just downstairs in case you need a little read- The Little Black Book Scholars Inn Bakehouse (812-331-6029, www.scholarsinn.com/BtownBakehouse). Bloomington Bagel Co. ing material before bed, and there are numerous restaurants (812-333-4653, www.bbcbagel.com). Bloomington Farmers Market (812-349-3700, www.bloomington.in.gov). to choose from. Bloomington/Monroe County Convention & Visitors Bureau (866-333-0088, www.visitbloomington.com; gay/lesbian travel site, www.visitgaybloomington.com). Cafe Django (812-335-1297). Caveat Emptor (812-332-9995). The romantic, 24-room Grant Street Inn dates to the 1880s Columbus Visitor Center (812-378-2622 or 800-468-6564, www.columbus.in.us). Farm (812-323-0002, www. and is fi lled with period antiques; some suites have whirlpool farm-bloomington.com). Grant Street Inn (812-334-2353 or 800-328-4350, www.grantstinn.com). Hilton Garden tubs and fi replaces. It’s just four blocks from Courthouse Inn (812-331-1335, www.hiltongardeninn.com). Hotel Indigo Columbus Architectural Center (877-270-1392, Square. Another very charming, gay-friendly option is the www.hotelindigo.com). Indiana Memorial Union Hotel (812-856-6381 or 800-209-8145, www.imu.indiana. Scholars Inn, a stately 19th-century brick mansion whose six edu). Irish Lion (812-336-9076, www.irishlion.com). Laughing Planet Cafe (812-323-2233). Limestone Grille romantic rooms are done with vintage furnishings and have (812-335-8110, www.limestonegrille.com). Little Tibet (812-331-0122, www.anyetsangs.com). Opie Taylor’s (812- 333-7287). Rachael’s Cafe (812-330-1882). Scholars Inn (812-332-1892 or 800-765-3466, www.scholarsinn. TVs and VCRs, and comfy king-size beds. A lavish full break- com/BedBreakfast). Snow Lion (812-336-0835). Trojan Horse (812-332-1101, www.thetrojanhorse.com). Uncle fast is included. The same owners run a couple of restau- Elizabeth’s (812-331-0060).

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 53 Music Review Delta, Solange, GlobalGroove Live 4, L.P. and Bryn Christoper

By Rob Diaz-Marino Review | Music Music Preview: L.P. Now here’s an odd looking ber “Believe Again”. “I’ve always had a really good ear for a girl with an uncommonly pow- great song that appeals to a lot of people,” says Goodrem. “I erful voice. We were given the wanted to make sure I had something special. ‘Believe Again’ pleasure of previewing a collec- was the one that turned the corner, it inspired the whole al- tion of 3 singles from this rock bum.” It is followed by her single “In This Life”, which became singer’s third album, which is a number one hit on Australian radio. It’s a very confi dent due to be released in January piece with a non-stop melodic rush, fl ipping between its of 2009. troubled verses and the joyful, life-affi rming chorus. The most radio-friendly of The lyrics of “God Laughs” really got me. They speak to the bunch was “Good With You”, with a hook that sticks in the unpredictability of life, and how the only control we have your head. For L.P., her songs are all about the drama. “I is whether we choose to let go. She sings “When we’re busy want them to be mini operas. You can never be too dramatic.” makin’ our plans, God laughs / We’re all walkin’ on quicksand What could be more dramatic than sparking a bidding war / When we think that we understand, God laughs.” I also between several major CD labels? Her fi rst two albums earned particularly enjoyed “You Will Only Break My Heart” with its her a contingent of fi ercely loyal fans, and now she hopes to quirky, bouncy disco-style melody that undergoes peculiar reach out to the masses. You can fi nd out more about this changes in key. It’s the oddball of the lot, and a welcome artist and her upcoming album by visiting: www.lprock.com break from its overly perfect siblings. “One Day” offers one Music Preview: Bryn Christopher last fun and catchy song before the slow and sentimental clos- Bryn faced hardship as a ing track, “Angels in the Room”. child, growing up the product Says Goodrem, “This album has strong themes about going of an interracial couple. “I through hard times but, instead of being a victim, standing up could defi nitely have ended and being counted. It’s good to focus on what life has to offer, up in a very different place if fi nd things that mean something to you. It’s pop music. It’s I’d given in to the bullies. You meant to be fun, magic, something you can relate to.” either beat them or join them.” This only fuelled his desire to “SoL-AngeL and the Hadley Street be a successful singer, and go Dreams” by Solange against the grain. My fi rst instinct was to pro- nounce the name with a Ger- Drawing inspiration from childhood idols Otis Redding, man tongue, literally translated Mavrin Gaye and Stevie Wonder, this emerging artist deliv- “So Long”, but the fi rst track ers some pretty amazing, passionate, and bluesy vocals. His quickly demonstrated that it is single, “The Quest” was featured on the season fi nale of Grey’s actually pronounced like the Anatomy, and was inspired by his brother’s experiences in French word “Orange”. Prepare Iraq. It is a very dark and powerful piece with choral backup, yourself for another relaxed and an ensemble of organ, brass, bass and percussion – made and groovy Soul/R&B album, to sound like an old record with subtle crackling sounds. with a sound straight out of the Bryn’s debut album is due to be released in January 2009, 1960’s and 1970’s – Solange and more information can be found at: www.brynchristopher. compares it to The Supremes, The Marvelettes, Dustry Spring- com fi eld and Minnie Riperton. Just listen to the funky guitars, echoed trumpets, mellow xylophones, and you’ll understand. “Delta” by Delta Goodrem In some circles she’s known “When hearing the album, I hope the listener is taken back as Australia’s best kept secret. to a time when music was melodic, sweet, and soulful. When Her 2003 debut album, “In- music was less provocative and came from a place of inspira- nocent Eyes” is one of only a tion and storytelling. I hope to have followers with an intel- handful of albums to sell over ligent ear and that are willing to take a risk.” a million copies in Australia This is Solange’s second album, her fi rst released at an age – one in every 20 Australians of only 16! Since then she has taken the time to start a family own one! So an amateur before getting back to her dream – a dream of which her father Goodrem is not – perhaps “pop was an integral part. The album title draws from her father’s goddess” is a more accurate vision to build a recording compound for her in a vacant lot on term. Hadley Street in downtown Houston. The album starts out with the epic and inspirational num-

54 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 You might need to already be a fan of this genre to fully appreciate the CD, because aside from a small handful of songs I was left pretty cold. The very last track, “I Decided, Pt. 2” is a catchy dance remix of the somewhat bland “I Decided, Pt. 1”. I would say this track is my favorite, but that would be cheating. So next best for me was “Sandcastle Disco”, which probably has the widest appeal. “Dancing in the Dark” was also kind of fun and upbeat, and “Cosmic Journey” had a certain psychedelic appeal, taking a strange but exciting turn in the second half of the song. Solange makes great music for a relaxed evening, but how about a little more energy… “GlobalGroove: Live 4” by DJ Scotty K. If club music is more your thing, you’ve probably skipped right to this review anyway. Centaur Music is a force to be reckoned with when it comes to getting your ﬁ x of dance groove, and this is the fourth CD in their Live series. This time they’ve enlisted the talent of DJ Scotty K., whose claim to fame is being the original DJ on the Ellen Degeneres show. “I was thrilled and excited when I was asked to work on a compilation for Centaur,” says Scotty K. “I make it a goal to provide music that makes people feel elevated and makes them feel happy to be alive. I wanted to keep the entire feel of the CD fun, fresh and familiar while putting my own signature sound and mark on it.” I found that the CD got off to an awesome start with some great melodic dance pieces like “Falling For You” and “Cry For You”. I also really liked DJ Scotty K’s remake of Linkin Park’s mega hit “Shadow Of The Day” – all wonderful rhythms with just the right amount of instrumentation to keep an uplifting mood. But shortly afterward, it slipped into the type of hardcore groove that I’m not particularly fond of – yes, it may keep your body moving to the beat, but it seems to numb your mind. The vocals are backed only by minimalistic counterpoints, leaving a somewhat barren sound. For instance, I was excited to see there was a remix of “I Kissed A Girl” (a song I quite like) but discovered that DJ Scotty K tore out the melody, slowed the tempo, and all that was left were Katy Perry’s time-stretched lyrics set to the same monotonous rhythm as the last song. What a shame. My conclusion: the Album is perfect if you want to lose yourself, but not so great if you like to express yourself.

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 55 Exposure Fesitval - From Page 11 tinational troops, all the while the media was aware of his of General Idea), writer/poet Eli Clare, peace activist James homosexuality but cooperated in keeping it secret. Loney, Vancouver fi lmmaker Gwen Haworth, video artist Wayne Yung, alongside local artists like printmaker Anthea • Writer Jocelyn Brown will share her research on Black, playwright Jonathan Seinen, writer Jocelyn Brown, Edmonton’s fi rst female councilor Margaret Crang who was and Calgary performance artist Wednesday Lupypciw. involved in an RCMP sting surrounding a “ring of homosexuals operating between Vancouver and Edmonton” at an Some more event highlights: event called Alleged Depraved Individuals: Edmonton’s queer • Transgender Day of Remembrance, an evening featuring scandal of ‘42. the poetry of Eli Clare, the voices of Edmonton Vocal Minor- • You Sleigh Me is an all ages, family event – a one hour ity and members of Edmonton’s Transgender community family sleigh ride at Fort Edmonton Park in partnership with honouring the memory of trans identifi ed people who have PFLAG: Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays. passed away due to stigma, discrimination and violence. • A beach themed dance, entitled No Pants Dance Party, • TRANSgressions, a visual arts exhibition of three promises to knock your socks off not to mention your pants transgender artists, Mercedes Allen, Denby Jorgensen, and (so don’t even bother wearing them). It features local musi- Chris Buffalo, and SCREENING THE T, will both pay tribute cians Blind Tiger, Tiger, Micro Bot, You’re An Acorn, and Mo to the transgender community. Lefever as Brian Wilson. • The Art Gallery of Alberta (AGA) will play home to You • Visual arts presentations include: Wayne Yung 1000 Are Here: A queer youth art exhibit, an exhibit exploring Flowers and Travis McEwen I Bet They Can Tell Just By ideas around location, geography and a sense of self in rela- Looking at Latitude 53; Hot Topic vs. Wednesday Lupyp- tion to growing up queer. ciw with The Ladies in the Back Room featuring Wednesday • Coffee with James, Prisoner in Iraq: Experiences of a Gay, Lupypciw, Kirsten McCrea, and Corissa O’Donnell at The Christian, Peace Activist will undoubtedly be a moving and Artery; Sarah Race Live a Bit More at Naked Cyber Café insightful lecture by James Loney, a Canadian peace activist and Espresso Bar; jackson photografi x Abstract Nudes at 29 who was kidnapped by Iraqi insurgents. He was held for 118 Armstrong; days before being freed in a clandestine operation by mul- • Bathhouse, will be a special one night only event on Tuesday, November 18th, whereby 20 artists will transform local bathhouse Steamworks into an orgy of art, commen- tary, inclusion and exploration. Exposure 2008 will conclude in high style with NOIR, a party to explore your dark side at the Starlight Room. Come dressed in your night-time fi nest, masked or not - it promises to be an unforgettable, otherworldly event with proceeds from ticket sales to support Exposure 2009. So this month, head out and expose yourself to all that Exposure has to offer! Exposure: Edmonton’s Queer Arts and Culture Festival Sponsored by GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine Nov 14th to 22nd, 2008 Edmonton, AB See their ad on page 64. www.exposurefestival.ca

56 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 A Midsummer Night’s Dream Shakespeare comes to Edmonton

By Dallas Barnes Theatre | Review The Alberta Ballet has outdone itself once again. In its continuation of its Shakespearean cycle, The missioned to be an accompaniment to the performance. This overture is performed by the Edmonton Symphony Orchestra. Alberta Ballet presents one of Shakespeare’s most The sound and musicality is tremendous. loved works, A Midsummer Night’s Dream at The Northern Alberta Jubilee Auditorium in Edmonton Christopher Wheeldon, choreographer of the play and the founder of Morphoses/The Wheeldon Company, has the “goal on November 7th and 8th. This performance will of introducing a new spirit of innovation to classical ballet.” be sure to bewitch you as it combines impressive Mission accomplished. There are few performances that can performances with an amazingly crafted backdrop captivate such a wide audience. and an impeccable score by Mendelssohn from the The Alberta Ballet is looking forward to an incredible Edmonton Symphony Orchestra. season. Up next is The Nutcracker in December and then the A Midsummer Night’s Dream is a romantic comedy writ- unique Joni Mitchell’s The Fiddle and the Drum. Visit the often by William Shakespeare between 1594 and 1596. It tells fi cial Alberta Ballet website for more information. the story of the interlocking plots of four young Athenians The Alberta Ballet all searching for love. Hermia, the Duke of Athens daughter, A Midsummer Night’s Dream has been chosen by her father to marry Demetrius. Rejecting Northern Alberta Institute of Technology this arrangement, Hermia elopes with her true love Lysander November 7th and 8th, 2008 and escapes to the forest. Helena, Hermia’s best friend, who www.albertaballet.com is in love with Demetrius, tells Demetrius the news in hopes on winning him over. Not to be outwitted, Demetrius follows Hermia and Lysander into the forest, and Helena follows. Hermia, Lysander, Demetrius, and Helena are now subject to the antics of the fairies that dwell in the forest. The King of Fairies, Oberon and his wife Titiana are in disagreement. With the assistance of the mischievous Puck, they retrieve the juice of a magical fl ower to make Titiana fall in love with the vilest creature in the forest, in order to teach her a lesson. Puck obeys the King, but in his absentmindedness, mistakes identi- ties of individuals and inadvertently infl icts a comedy of errors amongst inhabitants and visitors of the forest. The cast of this performance are spectacular. Once again, the highlight of A Midsummer’s Night Dream is the tremendous talent of Yukichi Hattori, who plays Puck. Not only is his dancing a mix of acrobatics and grace, his stage presence leaves one unable to take one’s eyes off of him. He effortlessly embodies all the comedy and fi endishness that Puck is. Each dancer, in fact, looks similarly fl uid in their part. Each performer graces the stage with an ethereal form that is so ap- plicable to a Utopian world that makes up the play. Their talent and comedic timing only adds to the story, while their costumes and backdrop solidify it. Felix Mendelssohn composed an overture inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream in 1826. In 1843 his work was offi cially com-

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 57 Dyke to Diva III Annual Competition Returns to Prism Lounge

By Antonio Bavaro Event | Spotlight Edmonton, the river city, has many a dyke along its verdant North Saskatchewan River valley. The beloved riverboat, the Edmonton Queen, is an enduring symbol for Divas here; from Millie Woods to Beverley Crest. On a normal day these two enti- ties, the Dyke and the Diva, co-exist; yet they rarely mingle in the same social circles. But what happens when one crashes into the other at breakneck speed? A pan-glamorous annual charitable community drag show at Prism’s Lounge - that’s what! “Dyke to Diva” has become quite the success since its start 3 years ago. The pageant-like event, where butch and lipstick lezzies alike are transformed into glittering gay glamour girls by their drag queen sisters, attracts all types of people from within the GLBTQ community to raise funds for charity. “This is an awesome opportunity for the Queens and the 4 years ago to help build kids’ confi dence and help them to Court to become part of Prism and the lesbian community as come out of their shells through various workshops, group a whole,” says Prism co-owner Deborah Chymyshyn. “The gift activities, guest speakers, artistic expression and counseling. of a drag mom and the mentorship they provide really helps The weekend camp has grown to serve queer youth under 25 the dykes feel at ease and have fun with the process.” from all across the country, receiving much recognition and And what a process! After the grueling hours of make-up many accolades since its start. I had the pleasure of partici- application, wigs, hairspray, push-up bras, pantyhose and pating twice in the camp to talk about drag and perform a killer heels, these otherwise sensibly dressed women feel the little bit for them; I was so happy to see such concerned and true pain a drag queen must endure every time she dons her creative youth together in a positive space, sharing ideas, gay apparel. learning about and from each other. Camp fYrefl y will start again at the end of July. I remember when I helped out with Dyke to Diva II in 2006 as a drag mom with my daughter, Karen. The rehearsing This year’s contestants are called Jo, Kim, and Tig; but seemed to be the toughest part, as I forced her way out of her if you want to fi nd out their drag names, you’ll just have to comfort zones in regards to what she looked like, her cloth- come to Prism Lounge on November 18th. Leah Way and ing and the way she moved. From sexy butch to sultry bitch, Prism co-owner Tracie Smith (AKA Wilma Fingerdo) are host- that’s how we liked to put it. She ended up feeling really ing, and perhaps we will have appearances from Dyke Diva great about her sexy girly body and enjoyed the cleavage that II, Tina (AKA Glamazon) and Diva I, Terri. I hope they do occurred as a result of her trying something fun and new. because this year they’re doing things a little different, with We bonded and realized that each other’s lives weren’t as ste- a lingerie contest, and local ale maker Alley Kat Brewery is reotypical as we would have thought previous to us meeting having a taste test! I suggest the apricot beer with the pussy during this crazy gender-bender-twisting event. on the front. Seriously divine. Events like D2D are important because we make good Doors open at 7 o’clock, just in case you want to show up friends and enjoy good times together, by celebrating each early to experience their famous fi nger licking good wings. other as a whole community; whether you’re an audience This not-to-miss show starts at 10pm and all of the $8 cover member, a trangendered lesbian judge of Inuit descent, a goes to Camp fYrefl y. drag queen who uses power tools to make head dresses, a Dyke to Diva sexy librarian lesbian who just discovered that she actually November 18th enjoys wearing pumps, or an overly dressed straight girl- Door at 7pm, show at 10pm friend. We realize how many things we have in common and Cover: $8 learn about the things we might not otherwise experience. And we can all agree that having fun in the name of char- Prism Lounge ity is the best way to spend a night at a gay bar - other than 10524 101 Street, Edmonton your 18th birthday, where I’m sure most of us can’t remem- (780) 990-0038 ber that night anymore for different reasons. This year, the www.prismbar.ca deserving cause is Camp fYrefl y, the youth retreat created

58 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 Turner Valley What a Cougar-licious Idea!

By freelance photojournalist Linda Eckess View From A Broad Only Debi Leong, The Ultima Guardian history I swear I can smell altercation at 500 paces… Angel for all of Alberta, I’m thinking, where’s the could put together back up? Who should it a successful charity be but the man dog him- event in the middle self, Emperor Dion Boink. of redneck country. I look around some more It was at a bar in and there’s Scott Holman Turner Valley, once making sure the girls are ﬁ ne, and Cory keeping a bowling alley, now six…so, no worries. called…are you ready for this…COUGARS! Justine Tyme is simply The event was held to the best! After working the room with incredible raise money for Char- repartee, she opens with ity (Children’s Wish Reba. She immediately Foundation) with the grabbed the entire room’s best of the best drag attention – and when I queens from across say entire room I really Canada! mean it! She dashes right through the room to the Me wanting to enjoy myself meant I shouldn’t do the 1 pool tables in the back…lying in the middle of the table, hour drive out to Tranny Valley on my own, so I get my everyone had to pay attention!! buddy Brad (Bradonna) to “drive miss Linda.” We kidnap GayCalgary’s Rob while hubby Steve’s in the big E, and go to The crowd enjoyed Dolly, Cher, Liza, Bette and so much the event in all of Alberta that Saturday night. Think about more. We all witnessed what high impact female illusionists it: drag queens, small-town roughnecks, young chicks, and and impersonators have to offer. young twinkie boys with attitude – all in one bar at the same The gay community sometimes takes the art of charity time! fundraising for granted, especially when such amazing tal- By the time we arrived, the main hall was already packed ent can be experienced for FREE! But the queens use this with people: men and women, in some cases husbands and talent to make a difference in providing care, humanity and wives. Lori and the Cougars staff made sure they were taken quality of life for their immediate community - maybe for care of, right at their tables, so that the guys wouldn’t have their friends, their loved ones (past and present), in some to worry about dropping cases even themselves. Regardless the reason, they pull it their keys! off! The ﬁ rst thing both Whether you are gay, straight, or straight-to-bed, chil- Rob and I laughed about dren are the future! So it’s especially tragic when kids are was that, in Calgary, we stricken with terminal illness before they really get to live. aren’t often graced by a Calgary’s court, the ISCCA, has been giving graciously to show like this - hosted by The Children’s Wish Fund for 29 years! This longstanding Justine Tyme, with Eartha relationship is thanks to the determination of the infamous Quake, Dyna Myte, Bianca Barry “Ross” Doe who fought hard for charities to accept la Bouche, Empress Nina charity funds from the gay community, and the continuing Tron, the infamous twins generosity of every reign afterward. Laura and Tara, and the In this case, they raised $3000, which gives making a dif- delicious Roxy Diva from ference a whole new meaning. But that’s just a view from a Saskatchewan (more (cougar-licious) broad! talent than Saskatoon and Regina together can For more photos of the ball visit Facebook/Linda Eckess handle). With my rock and roll

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 59 Remembrances and Reflection

By Mark Randall Advice | Health During the lead up to this month’s article I found myself seeking a way to connect signifi cant events and the feeling that there was no future or hope for me and the many others living with HIV and AIDS. I remember hiding that impact me greatly during the coming two and withdrawing from my friends, family and community in an months under a common theme. Each of these effort to keep the secret and just wait for the eventuality the events involves the remembrance and honouring of doctors had given me. Today I am here to be both grateful and those who have battled and been lost, and those still thankful to all those who have been lost to HIV and AIDS, to caught in the battles that exist today. This is also a those who played guinea pigs in clinical trials for the development of new drugs for others living with HIV, to the drug com- time for me to remember, refl ect upon and celebrate panies who have developed new treatments to allow us to live the 20th anniversary of my HIV diagnosis. These are longer and somewhat healthier lives; and lastly to my friends, each very different battles yet each has resulted in family and partner who are at my side always no matter what losses that seem so unnecessary to those directly comes next. impacted, or to those watching powerless as it hap- Not everyone living with HIV and AIDS is as lucky as me to pens right before their eyes. have all of these supports and treatments helping them to live longer and more productive lives. That is a battle that contin- I grew up a child in the military where my dad was being ues today and with the help of many more brave individuals posted every two or three years to new and, at times, not so it is my hope we will see this come to a time where isolation, exciting places. I have been fortunate enough to travel and fear and stigmas are no longer barriers. The common theme meet many different people, cultures and beliefs from around to this article for me will simply be one of “Remembrances the world and across our own great country. and Refl ections” for those who have fought and been lost. It is this upbringing that has always given me a deep con- Their sacrifi ces, losses and memories must be honoured and nection to that military background with a strong understand- remembered for their heroism in the face of overwhelming ing and respect for Remembrance Day, November 11th; what odds, and their abilities to make the ultimate sacrifi ce for the it stands for and, for those who have fought from World War 1 betterment of us all. to the confl icts we see unfolding today. I may not always agree It is my hope you will take this time to refl ect on what you with the reasons for our soldiers being in a combat situation. have today, remember what it has cost and how it was paid I have, however, always supported our military wherever they for. Thank and remember them all with respect, honour and may be deployed. Without their courage, determination and dignity. great losses we would not have a world that for all its fl aws, still allows us the privilege of living in a free and democratic If you are planning an event for AIDS Awareness Week or society. World AIDS Day and would like to promote it on a World AIDS Day events calendar, please forward the information, dates, It is this same courage, determination and great loss that contact persons and numbers to [email protected] also has me remembering World AIDS Day, December 1st and for inclusion. the many people I know, have known, and sadly will never get the chance to know, due to being taken by HIV infection and various AIDS illnesses during these past 25 years. It is fright- ening for me to know that we have been battling an infection affecting people globally for so long, and at times it appears we are no closer to defeating it than we were in the beginning. On the positive side and as a result of the battles by many before me; HIV has now moved into the realm of “chronic illness” where with proper medications, access to health care, housing, supports and nutrition, people are living longer than ever imagined in the beginning of the HIV epidemic. Ensuring that access to these basic human rights is met and provided to everyone in need continues to be the greatest battle in creating a good quality of life for persons living with HIV/AIDS and the communities they live in. This is also a time for me to refl ect upon the time I was fi rst told I was HIV positive and, according to my doctor at the time, I would likely not live more than 5 years; the last two being those of deteriorating health, severe illnesses and eventual passing. I remember “Diagnosis Day” November 7th, 1988

60 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 A Film Fairy’s Guide to War and Remembrance DVDs Worth remembering on November 11th

By Matt Salton Review | Movie There’s a terrifi c fi lm classic we all know and love that deals with brains, heart, courage and fallen receives the audio diaries of heroes in a fi eld of poppies. It’s called The Wizard his grandfather (Sir Ian McK- ellan) which drives the nar- of Oz and hot damn if it’s not near and dear to our rative back to WWII France heart. War movie enthusiasts share that same detailing poignant moments intensity towards cinematic stories that disguise Pip’s grandfather (Brendan themselves as meaningful tributes to our fallen Fletcher) faced involving a dy- heroes but, in many cases, are merely an excuse to ing soldier and courting Thea Gill’s chanteuse character. blow things up and make you feel more like a man. These macho, swaggering behemoth tributes to Worth Remembering: For all testosterone can be a turn-off to the more sensitive the wrong reasons. This fi lm was made with obvious good viewer, but your dedicated fi lm fairy has trudged intentions with strong actors through the trenches to hunt you down some DVDs (but in the wrong movie) that for which you can proudly strap on a poppy. also includes Carly Pope and Alan Cumming but it For A Lost Soldier (1992) was clearly misdirected from The War: WWII pre-production phase with poor casting choices, a bombastic musical score by the Vancouver Symphony orchestra and The Good Guys: Canada. over-written dialogue. Allied Canadian soldier Walt Cook (Andrew Kelley). Europa Europa (1990) The War: WWII The Bad Guys: Nazi Germany and Conservative Advocates for The Good Guys: Salomon Censorship. Perel (Marco Hofschneider) as a young Polish Jew with one The Battle: Set during the helluva story worth telling! Allied liberation of The Neth- erlands, this fi lm based on The Bad Guys: Nazi Germany. the autobiography by Rudi van Danzi tiptoes through The Battle: Agnieszka Holland the tulips of statutory rape in brings to the screen the incred- some people’s eyes. The story ible true story of a young boy revolves around 13 year old Je- with good looks, a chameleon- roem (Maarten Smit) who meets a strapping, Canadian soldier like charisma, and a penchant named Walt who isn’t just content to liberate a country, but for other languages, who uses feels the need to liberate Jeroem’s boy cherry. his talents to survive the Nazi occupation by posing as one of Worth Remembering: You’ve got to give a gutsy country like them. Solomon’s adventures The Netherlands credit for making a gorgeous looking fi lm include fi ghting off the advances of Nazi Offi cer Kellerman (An- about man-boy love. This coming from a nation whose most dre Welms), enrollment in the Hitler School for Youth where famous folklore involves sticking a fi nger in a dike. Despite he must daily tie back his foreskin for risk of being discovered the subject matter, the relationship is told with elegance and in the showers. He falls in love with a pretty, Aryan, German restraint, leaving the viewer to draw their own conclusions, girl (played by Julie Delphy looking like one of the Village of which is what many in the right-wing circles chose to do with the Damned children) who has a very suspicious mother that massive demonstrations and boycotts of the fi lm. may be the key to Salomon’s downfall. Eighteen (2004) Worth Remembering: Yes! For anyone who feels like you’re The War: WWII having a bad hair day, rent Europa Europa and see how your week is measuring up in comparison. The Good Guys: Canada Where Eagles Dare (1968) The Bad Guys: The Casting Department The War: WWII The Battle: The fi lm fl ashes back and forth between modern The Good Guys: Great Britain and the U.S.A (Clint Eastwood day Vancouver where a seemingly 30 year old actor (Paul thrown in for good measure) Anthony) plays an 18 year old troubled mess named Pip. He

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 61 The Bad Guys: Nazi Germany The Good Guys: Chris Taylor (seeing a trend here?) (Charlie Sheen) and his platoon of American GIs with the ex- The Battle: Ooh this is a dilly ception of…. of an action fl ick you can watch with your dad, your mechanic, The Bad Guys: Sgt. Barnes your contractor, or any of your (Tom Berenger) the leader of other straight macho-shithead the platoon who is the defi ni- friends. You can sit back and tion of damaged goods. enjoy this one without remorse because this particular story is The Battle: Oliver Stone deliv- not based on fact, but on pure ers a powerful depiction of the unadulterated pulp fi ction. horrors of a war that no one Special undercover agents (lead was ever supposed to win, from by Liz Taylor’s favorite husband the point of view of the soldiers Richard Burton) pose as Nazi on the front lines. Offi cers and parachute into Worth Remembering: War the Alps to rescue a captured is hell. Period. It’s not about American General held in a glory, it’s about ugly, bloody, seemingly impregnable fortress (aren’t they all?). It’s not just grisly misery. The message is worth the price of rental alone. Burton and Eastwood (looking a fair bit like Ben Affl eck in his younger years) - the movie allows the girls to play too! Mary The Fog of War (2003) Ure and Ingrid Pitt are Allied agents posing as sexy beer sling- The War: WWII, The Korean ing frauleins. War, The Bay of Pigs, Viet- nam…. Worth Remembering: Action-packed from beginning to end, twists and turns, double-crosses, and Nazi soldiers who speak The Good Guys: Former to one another with British accents. No wonder it was so easy Secretary of Defense Robert S. for Burton to fi t in. McNamara Bent (1997) The Bad Guys: Former Sec- The War: WWII retary of Defense Robert S. McNamara The Good Guys: The free- wheeling, care-free gay German The Battle: Errol Morris is the populace. undisputed king of the documentary and he doesn’t hold The Bad Guys: Guess who? back with what essentially is a The Battle: Prior to the Nazi confessional from the man be- regime there was a renais- hind some of America’s biggest sance, in particular in Berlin, military attacks on the globe. Germany, where gay men and McNamara narrates his journey as if you were sitting in his their culture was loud and living room from childhood until his current status at 85. It is proud. Enter Hitler and that a fascinating look at the philosophy of war. world was shattered com- Worth Remembering: You will never get a better sense of why pletely. The fi lm focuses on we fi ght than by watching this must-see documentary of the gay playboy Max (Clive Owen) man who knew best. who lives the fast life much to the chagrin of his much more Mrs. Miniver (1942) reserved boyfriend Rudy (Brian Webber). The couple are de- The War: WWII tained by the Nazis and later shipped off to the concentration The Good Guys: The people of camps where Max manages to fi nagle his way out of wearing Great Britain the dreaded pink triangle, which all homosexuals are made to wear, and were arguably treated worse than the yellow star The Bad Guys: Germany wearing Jews. During Max’s ordeal, he meets and falls in love with pink triangle-donning Horst (Lothaire Bluteau) and The Battle: Greer Garson plays through their hardships, Max learns to accept his fate along Mrs. Miniver, an average mid- with others fatally marked with the pink triangle in a devastat- dle-class wife and mother living ing climax. in a quiet, pristine English village where their biggest crisis Worth Remembering: Fictionalized accounts of the Nazi is who will win the annual atrocities to the homosexual community don’t get any bet- fl ower show. The Minniver’s ter than this. Also worth checking out is the documentary family life is idyllic with their Paragraph 175 by Academy-award winning fi lmmakers Rob his-and-hers beds, the happy Epstein and Jeffrey Friedman. For anyone who doesn’t un- housekeepers, two precocious derstand the struggles we’ve faced through history, rent either toddlers and a pretentious one of these gems and invite your enemies over for coffee and but oh-so pretty teenaged son a movie. Vin (played strangely by Garson’s future husband Richard “rhymes with fey” Ney). The scene-stealing Dame May Whitty Platoon (1986) plays the village stuffy bitch, Lady Weldon, and the lovely The- The War: Vietnam

62 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 resa Wright plays her sweet niece Carol who becomes engaged An ISCCA Update - From Page 9 to Vin Minniver at the dawn of war, portending to a tragic love affair, only not the way you might expect. When war breaks Children’s Wish, and Debbie Leong and Justine…it came to- out, we witness what the British people suffered through with gether fl awlessly as far as I’m concerned.” Esbeth added that their famous stiff upper lips and courage under pressure. there is a possibility another Turner Valley show will happen Worth Remembering: The fi lm received 12 Oscar nomina- this upcoming April, spearheaded by Hellon Heels. tions and won half of them, including Best Picture. Keep the The ISCCA is indeed blessed with the support of a number tissues close by though, this one is a tear-jerker right around of big-name drag queens, including a few that have recently the time the annual fl ower show gets underway. Then again, returned to Calgary. fl ower shows always make me weep. “They have been a part of this city and its culture for a lot Matt Salton is the festival director of the Fairy Tales International Gay longer than I have, so it’s nice to see that support is still there & Lesbian Film Festival in Calgary. He can be reached for comment at – that they’re there to support the organization no matter [email protected] what. …I think timing is everything in this case (that’s for Movie rental courtesy of Zip.ca. Online DVD rentals carrying a huge you Justine). It just so happened that Justine and Terry were selection of GLBT themed DVD’s as well as standard brand new releases, moving back, and both of them are very strong individuals in TV shows, classics and more. No Late Fees, No Due Dates, and 72,000 their sense of community and support, and they look to not Titles. http://www.zip.ca necessarily get involved with the politics, but get involved with solutions.” Chilton also showered praise on Dyna Myte, who was named Entertainer of the year for this reign. He explained how she and her Emperor continue to actively participate in the ISCCA. “[Dyna had] one of the most excellent reigns that this city has seen. She’s moved on to also become this city’s Heir Apparent, which is our connection to San Diego through the international Court system. …So that’s a big honour. Plus we also have Wolfgang who is a member of Parliament, and his job is to review and revise the whole system in itself, and he’s an excellent person for this job.” The ISCCA has a large component of fundraising nights that occur on a weekly or monthly basis. They host special shows every 3rd Sunday of the month at the Calgary Eagle, and every 2nd Saturday at Money Pennies; they sell shooters on Tuesdays and Saturdays at the Texas Lounge, and every 2nd Friday at the Calgary Eagle alongside of coat check. Their regular Barbecue fundraisers have now ended due to the change in season – although this is their mainstay at Backlot, Chilton says they hope to have something new at Backlot around Christmas time. Some upcoming special events include a Sunday show during World Aids Day weekend, a Crowns for Kids show at the beginning of December, and a booth sponsored by GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine at the Taboo Exhibition and Sex Show (in Calgary from Novem- ber 14th to 16th). “I’m out of town in Regina for their investitures, but Michael will be [at Taboo]. We’re selling [teddy bears] and also Court pins as a fundraiser. The bears are coming with me to Regina as well.” Esbeth adds that the teddy bears are selling for $15 each, toward charity of course. Esbeth left us with some fi nal thoughts. “I really thank the community for their support, and GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine for all the things they do for us above and beyond the call of duty. At the end of the day, without the support of the community and the city – everybody that’s involved – this organization is only a name.” The Imperial Sovereign Court of the Chinook Arch www.iscca.ca

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Photos by GayCalgary Staff Women in the Round at MPs - Calgary Outgames 2009 Meeting at Backlot - Calgary

Kinky Flea Market - Calgary

Women in the Round at Prism - Edmonton

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 69 Long Weekend Drag Show at Buddys - Edmonton

Bollywood at Buddys - Edmonton Cruiseline Night at Buddys - Edmonton

70 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 Bear Bash at Boots - Edmonton Stardust Lounge at Boots - Edmonton

A Very Dirty Bird Evening at Calgary Eagle

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 71 Military Night at Play - Edmonton LOVE Weekend at Play - Edmonton

Exposure Festival Launch - Edmonton

72 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 Backlot 12th Anniversary Party - Calgary

gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 73 Halloween in Calgary, taken at the Backlot, Calgary Eagle, Money-Pennies and the Grand Theatre

74 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #61, November 2008 Halloween in Edmonton, taken at Boots, Buddy’s, Play, Prism and Woody’s

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