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Kerry Generates Controversy Ignoring Threats of Impeachment, the subject of war crimes and violence and that the administration “[does] not on His Iran Statements Livni Meets with PA Officials against women in confl ict zones. A dip- have illusions about how diffi cult it will TIP—An interview between Yahoo! Walla! News revealed last week that lomatic source who was present even re- be to close those gaps” in order to reach News and Secretary of State John Kerry Justice Minister Tzipi Livni ignored back- vealed to Walla! photo evidence proving a comprehensive deal by the time that generated a fi restorm of controversy, along lash from last month’s meeting with Pal- Livni spoke to the PA offi cial. Palestini- the July 20 deadline set by the interim with a series of retractions and clarifi ca- estinian Authority (PA) offi cials and has an Arab sources stated that it was highly Joint Plan of Action (JPA) passes. Negoti- tions from various Obama administration again met with Hamas-Fatah “unity gov- probably that the Justice Minister would ations have in recent weeks reportedly offi cials after Kerry seemed to imply to in- ernment” representatives in London. meet with PA Chairman Mahmoud Ab- stumbled over issues ranging from ura- terviewer Katie Couric that he was open to Several senior PA offi cials told the Israeli bas at some point over the next several nium enrichment capacity to Tehran’s re- cooperating militarily with Iran to halt an daily that Livni has, in fact, been in con- weeks. Livni’s offi ce has not responded fusal to come clean over past military di- ongoing Iraqi offensive by the Islamic State stant contact with government minis- to requests for comment. mensions (PMDs) of its nuclear program. in Iraq and the Levant (ISIS). Asked wheth- ters, mainly by telephone. Over the past Among the sticking points facing ne- er he could see the U.S. “cooperating with several weeks, the Minister has alleged- Hitting the P5+1 Goals for July gotiators this week will be the amount Iran militarily” against the Al Qaeda off- ly spoken to “intelligence chief” Majed 20 Is Tougher Than Thought of centrifuges and the stockpile of en- shoot, Kerry responded “I wouldn’t rule Faraj, head of the negotiating team Saeb TIP—As talks between Iran and the riched uranium that the Iranians will be out anything that would be constructive Erekat and high-ranking Fatah offi cial Ji- P5+1 global powers resumed this week allowed to maintain, as well as the fate to” a range of possibilities and conditions. bril Rajoub. In her latest meeting, Livni in Vienna, the Los Angeles Times pub- of the Islamic republic’s heavy water pro- A number of think tanks in DC, commen- spoke with PA “Foreign Minister” Riyad lished comments from one senior State duction facility at Arak. tators and editorials reacted negatively to al-Maliki on the sidelines of an interna- Department offi cial stating that ”signif- the idea. tional conference held in London on icant gaps” remain between the parties Klinghoffer Will Not Be Broadcast By the Met The New York Times reported earlier in the week that The Metropolitan Op- era has cancelled plans to simulcast John Adams’s “The Death of Klinghoffer” this fall to cinemas around the world, “draw- ing praise from some Jewish groups who object to the opera, but laments from the work’s fans and a warning from its composer that the decision promotes ‘in- tolerance.’” The opera is a musical reen- actment of the hijacking of the Achille Lauro, a cruise ship, and Leon Klinghof- fer, who was in a wheelchair, was mur- dered by members of the Palestinian Liberation Front. The Met canceled its planned Nov. 15 transmission of “Kling- hoffer” to movie theaters and a radio broadcast after discussions with the An- ti-Defamation League. The league praised the Met’s decision, saying that “while the The Top Musicians opera itself is not antisemitic, there is a concern the opera could be used in for- eign countries to stir up anti-Israel sen- timents or as a vehicle to promote an- ti-Semitism.” Adams denounced the The Utmost Professionalism decision. In a statement he said, “My op- era accords great dignity to the memory of Leon and Marilyn Klinghoffer, and it roundly condemns his brutal murder. It The Most Satisfied Customers acknowledges the dreams and the griev- ances of not only the Israeli but also the Palestinian people, and in no form con- dones or promotes violence, terrorism or anti-Semitism.” Adams said the can- cellation was “a deeply regrettable deci- sion and goes far beyond issues of ‘artis- tic freedom,’ and ends in promoting the same kind of intolerance that the opera’s detractors claim to be preventing.” AARON Fyvush Finkel Documentary TEITELBAUM in the Works Because the music Broadway house manager and musi- ORCHESTRA & cian Joe Traina will produce a full-length feature documentary on the life and PRODUCTIONS times of stage, screen and TV actor Fy- makes the event... vush Finkel. Cory Green will direct. Fin- 718.256.7200 kel, who just performed in the National Yiddish Theatre Folksbiene’s 100th Gala, 917.335.4144 a tribute to Fiddler on the Roof, was a 50-year veteran of the Yiddish theatre whose career received a shot in the arm in his early 70s when he became a regu- lar on CBS’ “Picket Fences.” In 2000 he landed a role on the series “Boston Pub- lic.” Finkel later stepped into the role of Mr. Mushnik in the Off-Broadway musi- cal Little Shop of Horrors. Those to be in- terviewed for the fi lm include Theodore Bikel, Yiddish National Theatre artistic director Zalmen Mlotek, lyricist Sheldon &&&" " $$" "$" À Harnick and actor/director Austin Pend- leton.
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U.S. Captures Benghazi ditional friends in the Middle East. For For the Saudis, Iran already represents an an egalitarian utopia and vowed to root Suspect in Secret Raid the Arabs, the fear is that the deal with existential threat even without nuclear out the modern Westernized lifestyles of Al-Monitor.com—U.S. Special Op- come at their expense, with the United weapons. The Saudis, Emiratis, and oth- Iran’s cosmopolitans So how have some erations forces have captured the al- States increasingly seeing Iran as a part- ers see an aggressive Iranian pursuit of people become so rich? Hard-line clerical leged ringleader of the terrorist attacks ner. For the Israelis, the worry is that we regional hegemony. From a Saudi stand- leaders, together with the Islamic Revo- in Benghazi in a secret raid in Libya, the will conclude a deal that leaves the Ira- point, the Iranians are encircling them— lutionary Guards Corps, have engineered fi rst time one of the accused perpetra- nians as a threshold nuclear state, capa- seeking to gain dominance in, and the a system where it is largely they, their tors of the 2012 assault has been appre- ble of breaking out to nuclear weapons ability to threaten them overtly and cov- family members and their loyal cronies hended, according to U.S. offi cials. The at a time when we might be distracted ertly from, Bahrain, Iraq, Syria, Lebanon, who prosper. The corps runs large parts offi cials said Ahmed Abu Khattala was by another international crisis. I still be- and Yemen.” of the economy. Since 2006, it has been captured over the weekend by American lieve the prospects of an agreement are awarded at least 11,000 development pro- troops working alongside the FBI and is probably less than the 50% fi gure Pres- In Iran, Clerical Rule, jects, from construction and aerospace now in U.S. custody “in a secure location ident Obama cited late last year. Basic Luxury Lifestyle to oil and gas. In addition, according to outside Libya.” Khattala was apprehend- conceptual gaps remain, with the Irani- The New York Times reports that the the Heritage Foundation, “The hard-line ed near Benghazi. ans still believing that their limited of- nouveaux-riches in Tehran drive Por- clerical establishment has gained great fers of transparency should be suffi cient sches, Ferraris and Maseratis and live in wealth through control of tax-exempt Pope Francis Takes a Break to satisfy our concerns about the peace- multimillion-dollar luxury apartments. foundations that dominate many eco- The Daily Beast reports that the Pon- ful character of their nuclear program. 35 years after a revolution that promised nomic sectors.” tiff has not been feeling 100% since his return from the Middle East. “No one can argue that Pope Francis deserves a little break. Since taking offi ce in March 2013, the 77-year-old Argentinian has been on the move almost non-stop greeting his adoring public and reforming the Vati- can’s many troubled institutions. But an announcement by the Vatican’s news service on Monday that the pope will be drastically curtailing his schedule by sus- SALE pending his popular Wednesday audi- ences in July and skipping his daily Mass at the Casa Santa Marta, where he lives, has many in Rome wondering if the pope is really OK.” The Beast noted that the Buy 1 Get 1 Pontiff has but one long, has been push- ing hard, and has the attitude that how- ever things work out, so be it. German Study to Determine if Anti-Zionism is Antisemitism 50% OFF TheTower.org reports that the German government plans to conduct a study on the relationship between anti-Zionism and antisemitism. The Jerusalem Post ob- tained a copy of letter sent from an advis- er of German’s President Joachim Gauck 50% off equal or lesser value to the Simon Wiesenthal Center. The let- ter, by Gauck’s senior diplomatic and for- eign policy adviser, Ambassador Heinz- on select stock Peter Behr, came in response to a request sent last month by Wiesenthal Center associate dean Rabbi Abraham Cooper, who has been demanding such studies in correspondence with several Europe- an leaders. Jim Keegstra, Canadian Mishelyne’s Fashions Holocaust Denier, Dead at 80 The Canadian Press reports that Jim Keegstra, 80, a Holocaust denying high school teacher, mechanic, and mayor of Eckville, Alta., whose prosecution for the willful promotion of hatred went all the way to the Supreme Court of Cana- da, is dead. Keegstra was obsessed with 885 Teaneck Road The Protocols of the Elders of Zion, but learned the hard way that the controver- Teaneck, NJ sial Holocaust Denial law was upheld as a fair limit on free speech. His lawyer 201-862-9595 said the conviction ruined Keegstra’s life. He spent the years before his death as the custodian of an apartment building. The cause of death was an enlarged heart after a prolonged illness, according to his Sun & Mon: Closed son, Darren Keegstra. Tues to Thurs: 9:30-6 Regional Implications of a Nuclear Deal with Iran Fri: 9:30-5 Washington—Amb. Dennis Ross told the Senate Foreign Relations Commit- Sat: 9:30-6 tee on June 12, 2014, “America’s readi- ness to negotiate a deal with the Islam- ic Republic on its nuclear program is a www.m-fashions.com source of deep concern among our tra-
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he had taken refuge. According to him, over other parts of Mosul. They didn’t join ri groups.’ I don’t think they will be work- “Sunni Project” the way to confront ISIS should not be ISIS, but ISIS is the largest [group] among ing together.’’ through yet another sectarian interven- them. The lead actor on the fi rst day was In that case, should we dismiss sugges- Needed to fi ght tion, but with a Sunni approach. The an- ISIS, but on Thursday [June 12] ISIS issued tions that Duri and the Baathist are play- tidote to ISIS is not Shiism, but Sunnism, a declaration it called the Medina docu- ing roles? Many people believe Baathists ISIS, Says Mosul he believes. Nujaifi has given up any hope ment. This document said no group oth- are using ISIS. According to Nujaifi , “No, of Baghdad restoring order to the country er than ISIS will be allowed to operate and they [ISIS and Baathists] both had roles. Governor and is now counting on the Kurdistan Re- that they will fi ght [those who do].” When soldiers deserted, these groups took gional Government (KRG). I heard a great deal of speculation from over their turf, but that doesn’t mean they CONTINUED FROM P. 1 I began the interview with the most the people I spoke with on the way to Mo- have joined ranks with ISIS. ISIS and the critical questions: Who captured Mosul — sul. One soldier said, “Behind ISIS is Izzed Baathists are on different tracks. They are other even without the end of Nouri al- ISIS or local tribes? Can we say ISIS is the Ibrahim al-Duri, Saddam Hussein’s num- not the same and can’t be.” Maliki’s rule over Iraq. This is the view of leading actor? Nujaifi replied, “First, ISIS ber two man, Baathists and Saddam’s sol- About the support ISIS has received Atheel Nujaifi , the governor of Mosul, who captured some districts of Mosul. When diers.” Nujaifi dismissed this assertion. “I from tribes and Islamic groups, Nujaifi fl ed the ISIS takeover. He told Al-Monitor the Iraqi soldiers abandoned their posts don’t think so. I read a statement by Izzed said, “They can get money and manpow- that a re-enactment of the Syrian scenar- and ran off, some tribes and various re- al-Duri when he said they will fi ght all Sa- er support from some tribal members, but io is not far off. sistance groups that had fought against favi [Iranian] and takfi ri groups. We know not from tribal leaders. I have no informa- I spoke with Nujaifi in Erbil, where the American occupation after 2003 took he is referring to ISIS when he says ‘takfi - tion about tribes cooperating with ISIS.” The question I ask most these days is how was it possible for an organization like ISIS to put down such strong roots SUITS in a city with a rich diversity of religious sects and ethnicities that had peaceful- ly coexisted. 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we pray and learn.” MTA and Central (Yeshiva University’s chaperones, or teachers I am allowing Kidnapped “My shul have been saying tehillim High School for Girls). She explained to accompany them. They don’t go an- every day and everyone still at school that since the boys stay late at yeshiva ywhere—are not allowed to go any- Boys: Our Local is saying tehillim as soon as they fi nish on Thursday night, they sleep there and where—without supervision. They have their fi nals,” Burg said. go home in the morning on Friday to one free Shabbat to go to their own Connections Rabbi Taubes shared that the Rab- their families. family, but have to be picked up and binical Council of Bergen County spon- Rosenberg said that security at the dropped off by family. Adults sign them CONTINUED FROM P. 1 sored a number of tehillim sessions in school is very tight. Makor Chaim is in and out,” Rosenberg said. shuls all around Bergen County this past physically located on Kibbutz Kfar Etzi- “I felt very safe when I was there,” “I wasn’t close with them but I recog- Sunday, and most shuls continue to say on. There is security around the kibbutz, said Burg. “We did have our share of nized who it was when I saw the pictures,” tehillim after each minyan. They will a security guard at the entrance and lockdown drills. Sometime they said, said Aryeh Burg, 17, an MTA rising senior continue to do so, he said. fences around the yeshiva and codes ‘We’re just going to stay inside, someone from Bergenfi eld who exchanged at Ma- In regard to the safety situation at to get in and out of the dormitory area. may have come too close to the gate.’” kor Chaim last year. Burg shared that he the yeshiva, “All the boys going to that There are more guards at night, she said. but I always felt very safe. “We knew we has spoken with many of his friends at the yeshiva live in the dorms,” said Tova “All the boys who participate in our were surrounded by Arab villages, but school in recent days. “Makor Chaim itself Rosenberg, director of exchange pro- program—in Gush Etzion and in New no one there feels really threatened by is a close knit family and they feel like they grams and Hebrew language at both York—don’t go anywhere without staff anything,” he said. have lost brothers. It’s someone who they have spent their entire high school career with, who they spend their entire day with. Part of their family unit is missing,” he said. “They have that warm kind of yeshiva, where everybody knows everyone. Even though there are a few hundred students Weddings, and it’s an elite school, it’s a heimish place,” said Rabbi Michael Taubes, Rosh Yeshiva of MTA. Taubes has visited Makor Chaim a number of times, and said that while there are not currently any Bergen Bar/Bat Mitzvahs County rabbeim on the faculty, a son- in-law of YU Rosh Yeshiva Rabbi Moshe Tendler is a rebbe there. Makor Chaim and MTA have been Our solid operating their elite exchange program for the past six years. Between ten and twelve MTA students are selected on a INVENTORY competitive basis each year to exchange at Makor Chaim. Szafranski shared that and years of he has been organizing numerous learn- ing events and tehillim groups around Teaneck and has been in touch with his EXPERIENCE friends at Makor Chaim. “They appreci- ate the support immensely and encour- guarantee your aged me (and everyone) to keep up and advance our efforts. One I Skyped with said: “Amidst all of the tears, Yeshiva has EVENT'S been fi lled with an avira of hope, we feel all of your prayer and Torah coming through the doors of the beit midrash as SUCCESS! Community Rallies to 10% OFF #BringBackOurBoys over 3 bttls of By JLBC Staff Yeshiva students Gilad Shaar, 16; Nafta- Scotch or Bourbon li Frenkel, 16; and Eyal Yifrach, 19, have Excluding sale items been missing since late Thursday or Friday, With coupon only. Expires 8/01/14 and were last seen around Gush Etzion, ac- cording to the Israel Defense Forces. They are feared kidnapped by Hamas terrorists. The IDF has launched Operation Brother’s Keeper to fi nd them and bring them home. At presstime, we continue to daven for their swift rescue. Please join us. Their He- brew names are Gilad Michoel ben Bat Galim, Yaakov Naftali ben Rachel Devorah, and Eyal ben Iris Teshura. The Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey announced a Bring Back Our Boys Solidarity Rally, which took place at Yeshi- vat Noam on Thursday, June 19th, at 8pm. A Facebook page, https://www.face- (NEXT TO DOUGIE’S AND CHOPSTIX) book.com/BringBackOurBoysNow, and Twitter campaign, https://twitter.com/ BringBackIL, is available for more news, and people are asked to use the following Open Sunday 12 PM till 9PM hashtags in their social media interactions: #EyalGiladNaftali, #BringBackOurBoys, Mon. - Thurs. 10 AM till 9 PM #OperationBrothersKeeper, and #Virtu- Friday 9 AM till 6 PM CONTINUED ON P. 14
201-371-3212 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBC.COM June 19, 2014 • 21 Sivan 5774 11 NEWS PA Has Zero Control of Hamas
IP—The New York Times last Thursday sional moves to block aid to the Fatah-Ha- evidence continued to emerge—acknowl- Veteran Arab affairs reporter Avi Issacharoff Tconveyed remarks from Palestinian Au- mas government. The 1998 Wye Accords edged by the Americans, by the Israelis, and has since that condemnation published a thority (PA) Prime Minister Rami Hamdal- obligate the PA to “establish and vigorous- by Fatah offi cials themselves —that the ter- series of articles quoting Abbas’s allies con- lah—who sits atop the newly formed cabi- ly and continuously implement a systemat- ror group was linked to last Thursday’s ab- veying open anger and promises of retribu- net agreed to by the rival Hamas and Fatah ic program for the collection and appropri- duction of three Israeli teenagers traveling tion. factions—admitting that his unity govern- ate handling” of any weapons in the Gaza through the West Bank. The crisis comes A Monday afternoon article contained ment has functionally zero control over Strip except those permitted by the earli- just a few weeks after Abbas inked a uni- accusations that ‘Hamas was trying to un- the Hamas-dominated Gaza Strip, part of er 1995 Oslo II agreements [PDF]. That trea- ty pact with Hamas leaders under which dermine the relative peace in the West Bank an interview that was published on the ty in turn sharply limits the kinds of arms they agreed to the formation of a consen- and foment unrest against both Israel and same day that 88 senators dispatched a let- that government security forces are al- sus government that would have jurisdic- the Palestinian Authority’ and that ‘Hamas ter to President Barack Obama demand- lowed to possess, and Hamas’s forces and tion over both the Hamas-dominated Gaza will pay a steep price for the kidnapping... ing that the PA be monitored for compli- missile arsenal fall far beyond that scope. Strip and over Fatah-controlled portions in the form of punitive steps with which ance with among other things its treaty The Thursday New York Times article de- of the West Bank. The subsequent forma- the PA plans to target Hamas in Gaza.’ A sto- obligations to Israel. The letter [PDF] refer- scribed Hamdallah as having “repeated po- tion of the new cabinet generated substan- ry published by Issacharoff a few hours lat- enced black-letter U.S. legislation banning litical platitudes about Palestinian unity, tial controversy and cost Abbas and his er confi rmed Hamas’s involvement in the assistance to any government over which but offered no practical program to deliver international supporters signifi cant polit- abductions and quoted a Fatah source in- Hamas exercises an undue infl uence, and it.” The language in the Wye Accords obli- ical and diplomatic capital, but eventual- sisting that Hamas had promised not to en- blasted the terror group for its “refusal to gating Ramallah to disarm Hamas and inte- ly Western governments—including the gage in violent operations as a condition meet recognized international demands: grate its forces, which is applicable in “are- Obama administration—had decided to for the unity pact. The same source em- recognition of Israel, renunciation of ter- as under Palestinian jurisdiction,” does not continue supporting Ramallah. Washing- phasized that “if it becomes clear that Ha- ror, and acceptance of previous Israel-PLO seem to allow the PA to ignore its obliga- ton had in particular worked closely with mas is responsible for the kidnapping and agreements.” tions in cases where implementing the re- PA offi cials to avoid running afoul of U.S. breached the agreement, that would mark The convergence of the two dynam- quired “systematic program” would be real- laws restricting aid to governments that in- the crossing of a red line from our point of ics—PA impotence in the Gaza Strip and ly inconvienent or challenging. clude Hamas. Fatah fi gures are now said to view, and we could not maintain the recon- deepening congressional calls for scruti- Offi cials from the Fatah faction of Pales- be seething over what they consider to be ciliation status quo.” A day later Issacharoff ny—may prove problematic for Hamdal- tinian Authority (PA) President Mahmoud something between recklessness and be- published an article seemingly confi rming lah and for PA President Mahmoud Abbas Abbas have spent recent days openly lash- trayal on the part of Hamas. Abbas public- that Fatah had taken steps to roll back the as they scramble to circumvent congres- ing out against the rival Hamas faction as ly condemned the abductions on Monday. reconciliation.
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By Anne Phyllis Pinzow manized and murdered at the word of a ty- portant for it (the Memorial) to be in Te- Teaneck has a very large Jewish population rant. aneck. I’m hopeful we can fi nd common by percentage and many people have rel- eaneck—Clarence W. Brett Park is an The memorial of as yet undetermined ground to make this memorial happen… atives or are descendants of survivors. We Tundeveloped historic site where once proportions would be placed near the We’re open to ideas of where they want to wanted a place to go and meditate and sort stood the home of a slave owner and Tory north side of Brett Park’s parking lot on Riv- have it and if we can fi nd consensus we can of connect.” enemy of the American Revolution, Dr. er Road—away from the trees, the nature move forward.” Prince said a Tolerance Center muse- Abraham Van Buskirk. He lived and hid pathways and the Hackensack River—so Steve Fox, whose father, a survivor, um and study center had been the original there while waiting for the Americans to that people when passing by will remem- died two years ago, is co-chair of THCC, a plan, utilizing a boat house in disrepair that retreat from the British forces to whom he ber, or wonder, and through curiosity learn sub-committee of the Jewish Community sits on the previous site considered, Andre- rendered essential services, “being a loyal- of those who were murdered in concentra- Council. He said the group is focused now as Park, just a short distance north of Brett ist of greatest merit who served through- tion camps prior and during World War II. on where to place the memorial and is Park. However the deed to the Township re- out the whole war with zeal and fi delity,” Everyone interviewed by JLBC was unit- awaiting Teaneck Council approval before stricts that park for recreational purposes. according to testimony by British General ed in their desire to see a Holocaust Memo- coming up with designs and budgets. How- In an email, Robin Katz of Palisades Charles Cornwallis. rial in Teaneck though their differing issues ever it will be built only with private funds Park, said that while she supports a Hol- This place, where tyranny killed hun- concerning an appropriate location has and donations. ocaust Memorial, she believes the THCC dreds of Americans via treachery, coward- brought wide spread media attention. Co-chair, Bruce Prince, said the idea of a should be wary of what can come later, ice and the need to dehumanize another Teaneck Mayor, Mohammed Ha- memorial came about because of the pass- with more memorials being proposed as people, is the site where the Teaneck Holo- meeduddin, said a presentation is being ing of so many of the survivors of the Hol- other groups equate the suffering of their caust Commemoration Committee (THCC), made to the Township Council on June 24 ocaust. “We want to do this while some of people with those who were the subject is proposing to place a memorial to mil- to see if it’s feasible to place the Memori- them are still alive to help us create a me- lions of people who were betrayed, dehu- al on the site of Brett Park. “I think it’s im- morial that would be fi tting and suitable. CONTINUED ON P. 14 Palestinian Offi cial: Hamas is Behind Kidnappings
By TheTower.org Staff ings between Fatah and Hamas, and would possibility of the Hamas-Abbas deal gain- party-affi liated personalities,” Faaborg-An- render their unity agreement null and void. ing international respectability, EU Ambas- dersen said. “We consider Hamas a terrorist alestinian Authority intelligence has as- The offi cial, who spoke on condition of sador to Israel Lars Faaborg-Andersen dis- organization and we have no dealings with Psessed that Hamas is behind the kidnap- anonymity, also said that the assessment in tanced himself from a call for the breakup it. But Hamas, Islamic Jihad and other ter- ping of three Israeli teens, The Times of Is- Palestinian intelligence is that Hamas, or a of the new Palestinian government the Eu- rorist groups do not have representatives rael reported, citing a Palestinian offi cial. faction within Hamas, was responsible for ropeans gave their backing to only weeks sitting in this government.” This assessment is in line with both the the kidnappings Thursday night of Eyal Yi- ago. Israel maintains Hamas’ terror activities conclusions reached by Israel and a state- frach, Gil-ad Shaar and Naftali Frankel. “We don’t think this unacceptable kid- of late were not merely restricted to the ab- ment by U.S. Secretary of State John Kerry. Despite the growing consensus on Ha- napping is something that the technocrat- duction. Terrorists fi red numerous rock- The offi cial said that the kidnapping mas’ involvement, as well as the possibility ic government can be held responsible for, ets from Hamas-controlled Gaza over the would mark a breach of the understand- that this will signifi cantly undermine the because [the government] consists of non- last couple of days.
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um, memorial and educational center can to get away from the world, and enjoy na- Holocaust be created.” ture. “You want your kids to ask questions. Another reason said Karp is that the That’s why we have memorials, as constant Memorial Project Friends of the Hackensack River Greenway reminders.” don’t want to see anything built, regardless As someone who himself enjoys, what to be Presented of its size and purpose along the River be- he said are the incredible parks and walk- cause of the run-off and pollution caused ways throughout the state of New Jersey, to Council by impermeable surfaces. Burg said memorials have to be where peo- Fox said in answer that in designing the ple will see them, not tucked away. “I don’t This Week sudden interest in public memorials.” memorial and possible walkways to it, the think it’s going to be the type of thing that’s Richard Karp, President of Friends of environment will be of major concern. over the top. It will be a conversation top- CONTINUED FROM P. 13 the Hackensack River Greenway has other Rabbi Steven Burg, the eastern director ic.” concerns. Jewish himself, he also wants to of the Simon Wiesenthal Center & Muse- Burg said, “We’re reaching the tail end of a planned genocide and systematically see a Holocaust Memorial but not in Brett um of Tolerance in New York City, favors of lifespan of survivors of the Holocaust… murdered. She pointed to the controver- Park primarily because it’s an historic site. a memorial over a museum. A resident of It’s important to put these things in place sy surrounding the memorials to the Kore- “It’s where the largest battle of the Revo- Bergenfi eld, he has been advising the THCC before they all leave us and be there for the an Comfort Women—who were sexually lutionary War was fought,” where Wash- on the Memorial and was invited to aid in dedication to see that people can carry on enslaved during World War II by the Jap- ington’s army escaped to Morristown and the presentation to the Township to put their message.” anese—that sit on public property in Pal- there prevailed. the memorial in a broader context. To do this, part of the memorial will be isades Park and Fort Lee. There is also a A second objection is that he sees this “Chances are if you go to a museum bricks or stones, inscribed with the names Holocaust Memorial at the County Court memorial as addressing only a single group once a year, that’s a lot. Many times people of Holocaust victims which can be dedicat- House in Hackensack. while “of the 17 million killed in the con- go to a museum once in their life. A memo- ed in exchange for donations, “so people Neither Fox nor Prince deemed this as centration camps, six million were Jews rial is really there as a constant reminder can take their children or grandchildren,” a concern. “Using public land for memori- but there were Slavs, Polish, homosexuals, of things that occurred and a constant re- said Burg. als is a time honored tradition all over the Catholics, Protestant dissidents, socialists minder that we should not repeat the horri- Fox and Prince urge residents to come world,” said Fox and spoke of a memorial and Communists.” ble things that happened in our past.” make their voices heard at the meeting to Martin Luther King going up on Bergen He wants a memorial but said it should He said when asked if it was appropri- next Thursday at the Teaneck Municipal County property. “We are not sparking a be on private land, “where a proper muse- ate to put it in a park where people want Building. It is called for 7:30 p.m.
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201-371-3212 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBC.COM June 19, 2014 • 21 Sivan 5774 15 LOCAL NEWS Schaer, Johnson & Vainieri Huttle Bill to Protect Holocaust Reparations Advances in Assembly
RENTON—An Assembly panel on Thurs- restitution, protecting these reparations is committed against humanity by the Na- included the establishment of an $800 mil- Tday advanced legislation sponsored by the least we can do.” zis,” said Johnson (D-Bergen). “But for many lion settlement fund designed to provide Assembly Democrats Gary Schaer, Gordon Specifi cally, the bill (A-1041) stipulates surviving families, this is all they have and restitution to Holocaust victims and their Johnson and Valerie Vainieri Huttle to pro- that, except for child support payment or- should be protected at all costs.” survivors for money illegally obtained from tect monetary reparations received by Hol- ders, monetary reparations designated for “As the dust has settled on this sorrow- Swiss banks by the Nazi regime. The Claims ocaust survivors from being seized. or received by a Holocaust survivor of Nazi ful chapter in history, certain things must Resolution Tribunal has received over “The physical and moral atrocities com- persecution from any governmental source be treated as sacred and this is one of 32,000 claims from Nazi victims or their mitted during World War II were com- or victim assistance source shall be exempt them,” said Vainieri Huttle (D-Bergen). “This heirs to assets deposited in Swiss banks in pounded by monetary grievances that from all claims of creditors and from levy, is the right thing to do for the many fam- the period before and after World War II. stretched on for decades,” said Schaer (D- execution, attachment, or other legal pro- ilies who only have monetary reparations At about the same time, the Internation- Bergen/Passaic). “Given the extraordinary cesses. to serve as justice in the end.” al Commission on Holocaust Era Insurance lengths many Holocaust victims or surviv- “Monetary reparations are a relative- In 2000, a global settlement agreement Claims established a program to settle in- ing relatives have gone through to receive ly small pittance for the enormous crimes and plan of distribution was ratifi ed which surance claims never paid to Holocaust vic- tims or their heirs. Recently, Holocaust sur- vivors or their heirs have begun to receive reparations payments from the funds es- tablished for this purpose. It is estimated that approximately 4,500 Holocaust survi- vors live in New Jersey. Because these funds represent repara- tions for money improperly seized or with- held, the sponsors hope to ensure that they are not further diminished by remaining subject to creditor or other claims. The bill also exempts these funds from estate recoveries under the Medicaid pro- gram. Under State and federal Medicaid law, a state must seek recovery from the estate of the deceased Medicaid recipient for all services received when the recipient was 55 years of age or older, such as nurs- ing home services, home and community- based services and related hospital and pre- scription drug services. Federal law exempts Holocaust repara- tions payments as assets/resources for the purposes of determining eligibility for Med- icaid as long as the payments are “separate- ly identifi able,” that is, maintained in a sep- arate account. Any interest or dividends earned on the reparation payments, how- ever, are not exempt from Medicaid’s calcu- lation of income and assets/resources. This bill would continue the exempt status of the reparations payments upon the death of the Medicaid recipient by providing that they are not part of the Medicaid recipient’s es- tate and, therefore, not subject to recovery in an estate proceeding of a Medicaid recipient. The measure was approved by the As- sembly Judiciary Committee and now awaits consideration by the full Assembly. “Celebrate Israel Parade” Winners azel tov to all of our participants in Mthe 2014 marching group contest. The independent judges and committee mem- bers had a hard time deciding as so many groups looked great on 5th Ave. Winners were chosen from those who also adhered to all the contest rules as well. And here they are: our 1st, 2nd and 3rd place winners for 2014: First Place: Rosenbaum Yeshiva of North Jersey Prize: Free Registration for 2015 Pa- rade Second Place: Tie between Yeshivat Noam and Jewish Foundation School Prize: $500 credit for both groups to- wards 2015 Parade Registration Third Place: Bi-Cultural Day School Prize: $250 credit towards 2015 Pa- rade
16 June 19, 2014 • 21 Sivan 5774 201-371-3212 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBC.COM LOCAL NEWS Zahal Shalom, Disabled IDF Vets Hosted by Bergen Families
By Stephen Tencer ner/fundraiser at Temple Beth Rishon in trip there. They can expect to be welcomed tively new to the program. Others have Wyckoff. Sunday is devoted to a Farewell as whole-heartedly by their Israeli veterans done it for several years. One hostess qvells sraeli veterans being hosted by Zahal Sha- Brunch at the Glen Rock Jewish Center, fol- as they did the vets in Bergen County. in all the veterans calling her Ma. Ilom of Bergen County this week had a lowed by departure from Newark Airport. During these two weeks, both the Israe- The Israelis are hosted all-expenses- wonderful time. Zahal Shalom is an interna- After that, the veterans, from all over Is- lis and their hosts and buddies leave every- paid. These expenses are funded by indi- tional program started by a group of Jewish rael, will be able to go home and tell family day life and concerns behind. Many host vidual contributions. Saturday night, June families from Geneva, Switzerland shortly and friends about their adventure, and may- families make the period a kind of vaca- 21st at 7:30 is the Zahal Shalom fundraiser after the Six-Day War. It has run for 23 years be have a chance to rest. If they are like pre- tion, taking time off of work, and taking and farewell dinner at Temple Beth Rishon, in Bergen County. Working with Beit Halo- vious delegations, at least some will make the kids out of school at the end of the year 585 Russell Avenue, Wyckoff. Admission is chem, it brings groups of Israeli disabled vet- a point of getting together in Israel. And to enjoy a group trip to an interesting sight. $65 for a buffet dinner that includes beer erans to spend two weeks with local host some of the hosts will travel to Israel some- Everyone wants to hug everyone else all and wine. If you can’t make the dinner, families, go sightseeing together, and party. time during the year to perhaps celebrate an the time. There are many circles of bonds; you can make a donation by sending your Each vet is also assigned a local bud- occasion and to visit with their new mish- those among the Israelis, those among the check to Scott Krim, 527 Old Post Road, dy family, and other volunteers help out pacha members. These vets may be their Americans, and most of all among mem- Wyckoff, NJ 07481. Volunteer hosts are al- in a variety of ways. All trips start at Tem- only family in Israel, and inspire their fi rst bers of both groups. Some hosts are rela- ways welcome to join. ple Israel in Ridgewood. They include all the Israelis and at least as many hosts and buddies, and some of their children. After a couple of days everyone feels like they are one big happy family. The vets, of all ages, both male and female, are all mobile, welcoming, and enjoying the camaraderie among themselves and with their hosts. JLBC fi rst joined them last Wednes- day on their tour of the Museum of Nat- ural History and their cruise on the Circle Line. The highlight of the former was the Israeli picnic lunch enjoyed in an arbore- al nook in Central Park. The highlight of the latter was getting group pictures with Lady Liberty behind you, preferably with her face forward. The veterans and their hosts and buddies were having too much fun schmoozing to pay much attention to the ship’s guide. With that atmosphere and the roar of the engines, JLBC had diffi culty engaging the veterans in lengthy conversa- tions, but was made to feel very welcome by all of them. The ten veterans had started their vis- it on Sunday, June 8, being picked up at Newark Airport by the Executive Com- mittee. This organization has a commit- tee for everything, so the hectic two-week program runs quite smoothly all the time. That night each moved into their host fam- ily’s home and shared dinner with them. The fi rst Monday’s all-day tour of Manhat- tan included the 9/11 Memorial, Rockefel- ler Center, the Top of the Rock, St. Patrick’s Cathedral, and walking along 5th Avenue. Tuesday was spent at the Metropolitan Mu- seum and the Central Park Zoo. On Thurs- day, they toured Strawberry Fields and Times Square, where they saw “Mamma Mia” at the Wintergarden. Friday was set aside for carpooling to the Paramus malls until 4 p.m.. Saturday afternoon was spent at the home of one of the host families. Sunday was left open, so they could recu- perate from all the activities of week one. On Monday, June 16, the IDF vets were bussed to Washington, DC to tour the Lin- coln, Vietnam, and Korean Memorials. Overnight they stayed at the Savoy Hotel and were treated to dinner at an Italian restaurant. The next morning they made a brief stop at the White House and then toured the Capitol, including lunch in the Senate Dining Room with a representative of Sen. Ben Cardin of Maryland. Dinner was at a French bistro. Wednesday morn- ing was spent at Mount Vernon, and the af- ternoon was spent riding back to Bergen County. Thursday was spent luxuriating on the beach in Long Branch. Friday they are scheduled to tour Madame Tussaud’s Wax Museum and then walk around the High Line. Shabbat will be another free day spent with hosts and/or buddies. Saturday evening there will be a gala celebration din-
201-371-3212 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBC.COM June 19, 2014 • 21 Sivan 5774 17 RESTITUTION ISSUES Austria Is About to Send This Jew to Jail for Making a Restitution Claim. Why?
By Peter S. Green/www.tabletmag.com clung to the idea that they, too, had been “and thus unlawfully enrich himself.” victims of Nazi aggression, and the govern- Templ says he never made any asser- n April 4, Stephan Templ, a Jewish, ment was slow to begin the process of resti- tions that his mother had no siblings and O53-year-old architectural historian, was tution. While some property was returned in any event had no responsibility to name supposed to report to an Austrian prison to or compensated for in the aftermath of the other heirs but rather only to show Aus- spend the next three years in jail. His crime: war, it wasn’t until 2000—55 years after the tria’s restitution panel that his mother’s helping his mother, a Holocaust survivor, re- end of the Third Reich—that Austria for- claim was legitimate. “This scandalous claim her share of a 19th-century hospital mally agreed to set up a system to manage court rules that they should get the Fürth off Vienna’s Ringstrasse that was seized by the return of Nazi-looted property still held building back again,” Templ told me in a tel- the Nazis from a relative in 1938. According by the state to Holocaust survivors and the ephone interview last week. “That’s just Ar- to the three-judge panel that convicted him heirs of those who had perished and to yanizing it all over again.” last April, Templ—who has written exten- compensate slave laborers. Even those who disagree with Templ’s sively about Austria’s poor record of provid- The Fürths had no children, so under belief that the court held special animus ing restitution for Nazi-looted art and prop- Austrian law their property went to the rel- for him because of his earlier work high- erty—himself deliberately defrauded the atives of his parents and their descendants. lighting Austria’s poor record on restitution state of what one judge insisted was Aus- Stephan Templ in front of the Fürth In 2003, a claim to return the building to say something went amiss in Templ’s case. tria’s right to recover a piece of the proceeds. Sanatorium in Vienna. (Tina Walzer) the Fürths’ heirs was rejected by the Aus- “I don’t share the view that it’s something Last month, Austria’s Supreme Court up- trian government, which argued that a 1966 personal against Stephan,” said Blimlinger, held Templ’s conviction. Now Templ’s last protect Austrian bureaucrats who’ve made payment to a government restitution fund who is now rector of Vienna’s Academy of recourse is an appeal of his sentence to the a deal with what he calls “the private Hol- had settled the matter. Fine Arts. “He’s caught in the wheels of the European Court of Justice in Luxembourg. ocaust business” of lawyers, bankers, nota- In 2005, Templ learned that his moth- bureaucracy of the courts.” The decision, which came three years after ries, and genealogists who take generous er was a potential heir to the Fürth proper- The Austrian restitution system is de- a state restitution panel returned the hos- commissions for brokering the return of ty after a Vienna lawyer retained by Hoern- signed to trip up the heirs who seek belat- pital property to 39 heirs, including Tem- looted property to generations of heirs. (I er Bank, a German institution that fi nances ed justice, says E. Randol Schoenberg, a Los pl’s mother Helene, has left observers per- met Templ more than 20 years ago, while searches for missing heirs in exchange for Angeles-based attorney who went to the plexed and underscores Austria’s stumbling working as a correspondent in Central and a share of restituted property, announced U.S. Supreme Court to force the Austrian effort to face its Nazi past. Eastern Europe, and he has been a source a claim was being made on behalf of nine government to return a group of paintings, The verdict upended the usual order of of information over the years on a range other heirs. Templ, whose family’s proper- including a gold-leafed portrait by Gustav business surrounding Holocaust restitu- of subjects from the history of 20th-centu- ty in pre-War Czechoslovakia was seized Klimt, to the heirs of Holocaust victims. “If tion proceedings, making a claimant—in ry architecture to the ownership of Holo- fi rst by the Nazis and again by the coun- your car is stolen you go to the police to get this case, Templ—responsible for fi nding caust-looted artworks.) try’s Communist regime, is a descendent of it back,” Schoenberg said in an interview. heirs and criminally liable for failing to do “The main problem is the misunder- Fürth’s grandparents on his maternal side. “There was never any offi cial agency desig- so. What makes Templ’s case even more cu- standing that the Republic of Austria is He fi led a claim on behalf of his mother, nated to help Jews get their property back.” rious is that it hinges on the idea that Aus- some kind of victim in this whole affair,” Helene Templ, whose share turned out to be Templ also notes the original claim tria has a legitimate ownership claim in a said Eva Blimlinger, the former director of worth more than a million euros, or about fi led in 2003 by a group of attorneys, nota- property everyone agrees was stolen from the Austrian Republic’s Historical Commis- $1.5 million. In his paperwork, Templ didn’t ries, and a genealogist hired by the Hoern- Jews, despite a landmark treaty signed with sion, which handled the search for looted mention his mother’s estranged sister, Elis- er Bank left out not just Templ’s aunt and the United States in 2000 that compelled property still in government hands. “There abeth Kretschmer, was also an heir to the mother but several dozen other relatives, the state to return any looted property still is no damage to the Republic of Austria.” estate. Prosecutor Kurt Hankiewicz argued some of whom Templ has since tracked in government hands to its legitimate own- The private hospital at Schmidgasse 14 in charging Templ that by failing to name down in Berlin and New York. Ultimately, ers or their heirs. was known as the Sanatorium Fürth, after Kretschmer as a potential heir, Templ cheat- the bank fi led a list of 38 heirs, which did Templ believes he is being singled its owner, Dr. Lothar Fürth, a Jew who con- ed not his aunt, but rather the Republic of not include either of the sisters. Yet none out for political reasons. In 2001, he and verted to Christianity. In 1938, the building Austria. The argument is Kafkaesque: Had of those claimants, nor the bank’s genealo- his partner, Tina Walzer, wrote a book was seized by the Nazis, who forced both Kretschmer been awarded a share in the es- gist, notary, or attorney were charged with called Unser Wien—Our Vienna—that de- Fürth and his wife to scrub the sidewalks tate, Hankiewicz reasoned, and chosen not fraud as Templ was. tailed the history and ownership of some in front of the building. Unable to bear the to claim it, the share would have reverted to “I don’t see how it’s his responsibili- 350 prominent buildings, landmarks, and humiliation, they committed suicide a few the state. But the state, under the American ty,” said one attorney reviewing the case. businesses that had been Aryanized after weeks later, injecting themselves with poi- agreement, isn’t allowed to own any prop- “The burden shouldn’t be on the claim- the Anschluss. The book put many Austri- son in an operating room. “We have had erty confi scated from Jews. Furthermore, ant, it should be on the state.” And even if ans on notice that Nazi-era theft and post- enough,” Fürth wrote in a suicide note. Kretschmer said in a deposition that she somehow Templ did have a responsibility war re-appropriation of looted Jewish prop- The building served as the U.S. Consu- never would have renounced her claim to to name his aunt, it “isn’t something that erty was not a buried issue and earned the late in Vienna from 1945 until 2007, when the property in favor of the state in any case. should be a criminal matter against him. It pair the front-page headline “A New Cam- the building was vacated in preparation The ruling in Templ’s case, written by a ought to be resolved in the family or in a paign Against Austria” in the mass-circula- for returning it to the heirs. While Ger- judge named Sonja Weis, said Templ should civil court proceeding in Austria.” tion tabloid Kronen Zeitung. many paid reparations to Holocaust vic- have known his aunt was an heir and that Visit www.tabletmag.com “Now I believe this is a vendetta against tims as early as the 1950s, and the neigh- he’d illegally left her out of his claim. Tem- me,” Templ said in an interview with the boring Czech Republic by the mid-1990s pl, Weis wrote in her ruling, “consistent- Peter S. Green covered Central and Eastern Europe for German newspaper Frankfurter Allgemeine had returned much of the property loot- ly concealed” his aunt’s existence in order more than a decade. He now lives and works in New Zeitung. He claims the court is trying to ed by Communists and Nazis, Austrians to increase his mother’s share of the estate York City. His Twitter feed is @PeterGreenNews. NEWS Jewish Women’s Archive Announces Revamped Website
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18 June 19, 2014 • 21 Sivan 5774 201-371-3212 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBC.COM NEWS Green Hevra Releases Study NORPAC Hosted Senator on Jewish Environmental Field Mark Udall (D-CO) in NYC he Green Hevra, a network of Jewish ORPAC Board Member Jack Rosen re- and missile attacks period.” Tenvironmental initiatives, has released Ncently hosted Senator Mark Udall at a In NYC, Udall reiterated his support the Green Hevra Report 2014, a study ex- pro-Israel event in Manhattan. After fi ve for Israel’s Iron Dome missile defense sys- ploring the growth, scale, focus, and chal- terms representing lenges facing today’s Jewish environmen- Colorado’s 2nd Con- tal fi eld. gressional District, This report, created by the Jewish en- Mark Udall was vironmental movement, assesses 124 Jew- elected to the U.S. ish environmental initiatives to clarify Senate in 2008. In and communicate the state of the fi eld. the Senate, Udall How has the Jewish environmental fi eld serves on three grown in the last decade? In what regions committees, in- are Jewish environmental initiatives most cluding Armed Ser- active? How many individuals do they vices, Energy and reach? What is the average budget of Jew- Natural Resourc- ish environmental initiatives in North es, and the Select (l-r) Jack Rosen (host), Senator Mark Udall, Jacob Chen, and Shang America, and how are they staffed? What Committee on In- Dai. challenges are faced by this young and telligence. Through growing new movement in Jewish life? his different positions, Udall has worked to tem, and pointed to the Iron Dome’s suc- For example, the report fi nds that: strengthen the U.S.-Israel relationship. cessful interception of over 400 incoming • Almost three-quarters of Jewish envi- As a member of the Select Committee Hamas and Hezbollah missiles as a testa- ronmental initiatives are focusing on on Intelligence, Udall was one of four sen- ment to its signifi cance. Udall also advo- education, while signifi cantly fewer Opportunity: A National Study on Immer- ators in a bipartisan delegation that trave- cated the importance of the U.S.-Israel organizations focus their attention on sive Jewish Outdoor, Food, and Environ- led to Israel. In Israel, the senators got a Strategic Partnership Act (S.462), a bill he environmental improvements in Jew- mental Education (JOFEE), which assessed fi rst-hand look at the country’s Iron Dome cosponsors, which expands U.S.-Israel co- ish institutions, grant-making, or advo- the impact on Jewish education outcomes missile defense system. After returning, operation and designates Israel as a Major cacy. from a specifi c set of immersive programs Udall said, “I visited an iron dome barri- Strategic Partner of the U.S. • The Jewish environmental fi eld in- taking place within the Jewish outdoor, er and I can tell you that iron dome works Senator Charles Schumer (D-NY) was cludes over 200,000 participants each food, and environmental education fi elds. and it saves lives. I’m going to keep us- also in attendance at the event for Udall year, and reaches nearly 700,000 read- The new report takes a more comprehen- ing my [Strategic Forces Subcommittee] in NYC. Schumer confi dently endorsed ers with its communications materials. sive view of Jewish environmental organi- chairmanship to make sure that those Senator Udall as an important supporter • The total budget reported for the fi eld zations, assessing the nature of this grow- programs hold strong…and as long as I’m of a strong U.S.-Israel relationship. was approximately $24 million. ing fi eld, and providing a new set of data the chair of that subcommittee, Israel will Senator Mark Udall is running for ree- This report complements and adds to for practitioners, funders, and researchers not be held hostage to terrorist, rocket, lection in the upcoming 2014 election. the information base created by Seeds of to understand the fi eld as a whole.
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201-371-3212 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBC.COM June 19, 2014 • 21 Sivan 5774 19 LOCAL NEWS Sports Restaurant/Grill to Open in Teaneck
By JLBC Staff Said Gellis, “This is a family restaurant. fi gure out what might be kosher enough We are looking to create a family friend- to eat without feeling socially awkward.” eaneck—A kosher sports restaurant/ ly kosher and safe environment for any- At the Doghouse, “Observant Jews can get Tgrill called the Teaneck Doghouse is set one who wants a place to go.” In response the Manhattan business/bonding experi- to open on Palisade Avenue near Teaneck’s to the complaints, Gellis said, “None of the ence in a kosher format. And lots of locals restaurant row in early July, next door to half dozen complaints or concerns were who work from home, or work for fi rms ETC Steakhouse. One of the Doghouse’s brought up to the management to be dis- in Hackensack and around the area, need four managing partners, Jonathan Gellis, cussed, and these people were relying on a place where they can feel comfortable in- said he’s excited to offer county residents blog posts and rumors with inaccurate in- viting people from all walks of life to talk a sports-oriented family eatery, featuring 28 formation.” business. Now they can bring them to us,” TV’s where families can enjoy typical gas- Gellis is confi dent the restaurant will Gellis said. tro-pub fare: a variety of specialty hot dogs, succeed. He told JLBC that the time of day Gellis notes a number of West Coast- pulled BBQ brisket, hamburgers, grilled and will determine the atmosphere. The restau- ers and Jews from all over the country have fried chicken, as well as steak entrees and rant will open for business/shopper lunch- settled in the area and want to watch Cen- meatball sandwiches—a perfect place for a es, alcohol-free, from about 11:30 to 3 p.m., tral and West Coast games, which air late sports fan’s birthday party. when they will start serving beer, wine night on this coast. He says, they want to As JLBC went to press, the Doghouse tion because he disapproves of the entire and cocktails. It goes without saying that cheer and watch with friends without was set to be certifi ed by the Orthodox concept, especially when it is located with- no one underage will be served, customers waking the family. For that convenience, Union. The Rabbinical Council of Bergen in walking distance of a number of yeshiva will be carded, and all of New Jersey’s strin- Doghouse will be open through 1:00 a.m. County invited the OU to give the hashga- day schools and high schools. Others also gent liquor licensing laws will be upheld. Sunday through Thursday, will have ab- cha, because it has more experience with said they believe alcohol should only be “In today’s business world, people like breviated hours on Fridays, and on Motzei places that serve food and alcohol. The pro- consumed when performing a mitzvah. An- to do business while enjoying the infor- Shabbos will be open from one hour after cess was approved, but a member of the other issue raised was the potential of caus- mal atmosphere of a sports eatery. Often, Shabbos until 1 a.m. community petitioned the OU, and sent ing problems with Shalom Bayis, because many of our neighbors have to go out with At press time, the Orthodox Union was out an eblast to motivate people to de- the men would have a hangout to go to in- business friends and co-workers, and wor- set to meet and reconsider the granting of mand that the OU remove their certifi ca- stead of staying home. ry about the kashrut of the place, trying to a hashgacha and the protestors complaints. “Keeping Kids Safe” • Project S.A.R.A.H. Has Solutions
By Elyse Hansford light on the silent abuse and help bring cy is presently working aggressively with clarity to the many daily challenges, is- area day camps. Project S.A.R.A.H teaches, eaneck—In an age of decadence, immor- sues and risks facing some in our com- builds awareness and fundamental train- Tal behavior and instant communication, munity. “We encourage open dialogue. ing emphasizing the various types of do- are you armed with the knowledge neces- Prevention is key,” said Elke Stein, LCSW, mestic abuse. “We provide basic skills and sary to identify a predatory situation? Do Director of Violence and Domestic Abuse offer training to sensitize camp counse- you have the basic skills to identify the nu- at Project S.A.R.A.H., which services Ber- lors, becoming part an integral part of a ances of abuse, molestation and bullying? gen and Passaic counties and is located in camp’s staff orientation at the beginning “There is a heighted awareness. Parents are Clifton. of and sometimes even in the middle of much more anxious, about something in- Supporting children and families facing the summer,” says East. “whatever they appropriate happening. They have higher extraordinary diffi culties is what they do, need.” expectations. They are expecting camps to but that support manifests in many ways They are also active in many yeshivot be more accountable about the measures and takes many forms. “In our fi reside under the alienu program, which is anoth- they have put in place to keep their kids chats we speak to parents directly in a par- er variation of the dedicated service offered safe,” says Esther East LCSW, Director of and elsewhere. The workshops are free of lor setting, we share solutions and give tips. to prevent, make strides, educate and em- Jewish Family Services. charge designed to educate parents, kids, We empower parents, giving them skills, a power every member of the community. Project S.A.R.A.H. a state wide domes- schools and camps. The project leads in- tool a way to begin speaking to their chil- Available as a resource to anyone, anytime tic violence and sexual abuse project for formative, interactive workshops tailored dren,” says Stein. simply call Project S.A.R.A.H at 972-777-7638 Jewish families, is facilitating workshops specifi cally to each audience. They share A resource for several area yeshivot, x154 for more information or go online to to educate and keep children safe at camp age appropriate information that sheds both for students and teachers, the agen- http://projectsarah.org . NEWSBRIEFS
Syria’s Oldest Synagogue, ants of the Jewish owners of a depart- resolutions based on national origin be- cus, the border with Lebanon, the Syri- Destroyed by Assad ment store chain that was seized by Na- cause of the “tensions between students an coast, and communication lines in be- The Daily Beast reports that the Syrian zis with an additional 50 million euros related to foreign confl icts should be tween—through the city and province of Army forces fl attened the over 400-year- ($68 million), The Associated Press re- managed in a healthy and collaborative Homs. Unable to impose its allies’ con- old Eliyahu Hanabi Synagogue in Damas- ported. The Schocken’s chain of stores manner rather than be exacerbated.” Ad- trol over large swathes of Sunni-domi- cus last month. Shlomo Bolts, an offi - in the Saxony region was seized by the ditionally, the resolution noted that BDS nated areas in Syria and Iraq, a hegem- cial at the Syrian American Council and a Nazis in the 1930s. The descendants, who campaigns could result in students being onic Tehran may prefer fragmentation, Jew of Syrian ancestry, said: “This is hard- reside in Israel and the U.S., were al- targeted based on their nationality and allowing it to dominate digestible com- ly the only place of worship to be de- ready paid 15 million euros for one of the lead to “disrespectful bias, hostility, hate, ponents of disintegrating Arab states. stroyed by the Assad regime. The Umm seized buildings in the 1990s. One of the or harassment.” al-Zinar Church [in Homs, that locals say buildings that held one of the family’s Yair Lapid: Birthright “Saved A dates back to the fi rst centuries of Chris- stores, built in the city of Chemnitz by Dysfunction of Arab States Puts Generation” of Young Jews tianity], the [1,400-year-old] Khalid Ibn architect Erich Mendelsohn in 1930, now Stress on Colonial Borders JNS.org—Israeli Finance Minister Yair Walid Mosque, and countless other irre- houses the German State Museum of Ar- UAE-The National reports that in the Lapid said that the Taglit-Birthright Israel placeable cultural sites are now lost.” Ac- chaeology. past week, two prominent Arab fi gures program, which provides free 10-day trips tivists estimate that at least 33 church- expressed doubt that Syria would remain to Israel for Jews ages 18-26, “saved a gen- es and hundreds of mosques have been Anti-BDS Student Resolution as it was, with its war into its fourth year. eration” of young Jews. “We were on our destroyed by the Assad regime since the Passes at Western Washington U. Lebanese politician Walid Jumblatt told way to losing a generation of young Jews start of the Syrian civil war, as well as six JNS.org—Associated Students of AP: “We are still at the beginning of the around on the world,” Lapid said at a fare- UNESCO World Heritage Sites. Western Washington University (ASW- war in Syria. In the long term, the map of well ceremony for Birthright co-founder WU) became the fi rst North American the Middle East will be redrawn.” Mean- Michael Steinhardt, held at Hebrew Uni- Nazi Seizure of Stores university student government to pass a while, the former UN envoy to Syria, versity in Jerusalem, Israel Hayom report- Garners Jewish Family proactive resolution against the anti-Is- Lakhdar Brahimi, declared to Der Spiegel ed. Steinhardt is stepping down from his $68 Million Judgment rael Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions that Syria would “become another Soma- position as co-chairman of Birthright, 15 JNS.org—A court in Berlin ordered (BDS) movement. In a 7-0 vote, ASWWU lia. Iran wants to consolidate the Syrian years after founding the organization to- Germany to compensate the descend- resolved that it would not consider BDS regime’s hold over “vital Syria”—Damas- gether with Charles Bronfman.
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have only kosher items for sale. However, and Rosenfeld have also discussed putting station in New Jersey (the station sells die- Kosher 2 Go! On there will still be some pre-packaged non- up a tent on the side of the station during sel) before hitting the New York State Thru- kosher items for sale that will be in a clear- the summer to accommodate a daily Min- way. In addition to the made-to-order food Rte. 17 North ly marked section of the mini mart. cha minyan. offerings and the pre-packaged foods, we’ll Ebbie Ashabi, the owner of the Ramsey Rosenfeld visited the Lakewood Exxon also be selling fresh pizzas-to-go that travel- CONTINUED FROM P. 1 Exxon, knows the owner of a Lakewood as well as a gas station in Monsey known ers can take home and heat up in the oven.” Exxon that offers kosher food and he de- for its Thursday night chulent and kugel Rosenfeld recommends that people food with the ease that other travelers ex- cided to do the same in Ramsey. He has before beginning work on the Ramsey Ko- planning their tips to the country keep in perience at virtually any other gas station agreed to change over all of the milk for the sher 2 Go. Rosenfeld admits, “I know Ram- mind that Ramsey Kosher 2 Go is an ideal along the highway. Visitors will be able to coffee to cholov yisroel and he’s now carry- sey is not Lakewood or Monsey, but there place to stop to fi ll up on gas, use the facil- purchase fresh kosher items made to order ing Kleins Natural, Mehadrin, and other ko- are enough people traveling on Route 17 ities, and stock up on kosher food. He can’t such as personalized pizza pies, sandwich- sher brands in the freezer cases. In fact, all to make this work. Certainly we’re going vouch for the math, but he does say that it’s es, and make your own salads. If they don’t of the dairy products in Kosher 2 Go will to attract those people going to the coun- about the midpoint between Flatbush and have the time to wait, they can pick some- be cholov yisroel and all breads will be pas try for the weekend, and those who drive South Fallsburg. thing up from the (also freshly made) pre- yisroel. Ashabi also plans on stocking the to Woodbury Commons and those who Down the road Rosenfeld may also sell packaged kosher sandwiches, salads, and periodicals rack with Jewish publications make the drive every day, but we’ll also get food for Shabbos, but for now you can def- sushi. such as the Jewish Link of Bergen County those drivers, especially truck drivers, who initely stop in for chulent and kugel on Teaneck resident Elliot Rosenfeld will and other newspapers and magazines. He want to take advantage of the last Exxon Thursday nights. be operating Kosher 2 Go. Rosenfeld is no stranger to food prep or running food es- tablishments. He’s been in the pizza busi- ness in Teaneck and Elizabeth for 14 years. He is also the food services provider for several school lunch programs and camps, is a caterer, and operates a café inside the Scotch Plains JCC. Rosenfeld told the JLBC, “I think the increase in food establish- ments being in gas stations has clearly in- creased. Gas stations are no longer just a place to get gas. The beauty of this gas sta- tion mini-mart is that I have a full kosher kitchen where I will be able to make fresh food to order every day.” SALE! All food sold at Kosher 2 Go will be pareve or dairy. Food prepared on site will be under the rabbinical supervision of Rab- bi Zushe Yosef Blech from Monsey. All the QUALITY BRANDS GREAT PRICES grab and go snacks will be under various ko- & SELECTION sher certifi cations. The goal is to ultimately
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201-371-3212 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBC.COM June 19, 2014 • 21 Sivan 5774 21 LOCAL NEWS Local MTA Student Philip Meyer Teaches CPR to 100 Students and Faculty
ew York, NY—Marsha Stern Talmudical the Heartsaver CPR AED course, through Legislation to make CPR training a re- NAcademy (MTA)/Yeshiva University High the Arista National Honor Society. He is co- quirement for a high school diploma is School for Boys student Philip Meyer, of Te- president of the MTA Arista Chapter. Meyer pending in the New York State Legislature; aneck, New Jersey, led a training in CPR, au- is also a certifi ed and licensed Emergency 16 states already have such a requirement. tomated external defi brillator (AED) use Medical Technician, a facilitator of Family “It’s reasonable to argue that failure to and the Heimlich maneuver for more than and Friends, and Heartsaver – Bloodborn be prepared for a life-threatening situation 100 MTA students and faculty this May. Pathogens as well as basic life support in- would, if one occurs, cause the unprepared The course covered chest compressions, structor with the American Heart Asso- person to violate the mitzvah of lo taamod breathing through mouth-to-mouth and in- ciation (AHA). In addition, he is an active al dam re’echa [don’t stand idly by your termediary devices, and AED use. Working member of the Bogota First Aid squad. neighbor’s blood],” said Murray Sragow, di- in small groups, Meyer taught the course “As my senior year in high school came rector of college guidance at MTA. “Thanks repeatedly throughout the month of May to an end, I saw how much I have gained to Philip Meyer, a large group of MTA stu- so that he could closely monitor each in- from MTA and I felt like I needed to give dents and faculty can now be confi dent dividual to help them gain skills and confi - back somehow,” said Meyer. “I am very in- that they will not violate this mitzvah if the dence in their ability to make a difference terested in medicine and this felt like the case arises.” in a life-threatening situation. Participants perfect way to continue on that road while After studying in Israel next year, Mey- received AHA certifi cation after passing a giving back to the school. The need for CPR er will attend the Jay and Jeannie Schotten- test at the course’s conclusion. can happen anytime so it is very important stein Honors Program at Yeshiva Universi- Philip Meyer (r) teaching a fellow MTA Meyer offered the course, a module of that people know what to do.” ty. student CPR Moriah Presents Names, Not Numbers
By Bracha Schwartz camps, and liberation. Interspersed with the interviews are photos and maps to give eaneck—In 1942, Sol Goldstein, a Jew- context. A soundtrack of music, with some Tish kid from Baltimore, enlisted in the original compositions, added another layer army. He had experienced his share of anti- of professionalism. The fi lm includes visu- semitism growing up, like kids calling him als of the students behind the camera and “a dirty Jew.” But he was totally unprepared some audio of their questions, reinforcing for what he saw when his unit entered the the premise that students are doing the Buchenwald concentration camp. Seventy work and not simply observing. years later, as he tells his story on fi lm to In an interview prior to the event, Abby a group of 8th-grade students from the Mo- Herschmann, sponsor, parent coordinator, riah School of Englewood who are inter- mentor, and the initiator of “Names, Not viewing him, his voice trembles with rage, Numbers” at Moriah, said that as they were his expression shows his incredulity, and planning this year’s fi lm they wondered his words only hint at the devastation he Dr. Robert Alter and Judith Kallman.Libby and Israel Lulinsky, Karen and Judah Strulowitz. how they could top last year’s amazing sto- witnessed. ries. “All the survivors are incredible,” Her- It is the race to put the memories of viewing with the help of a parent mentor. For the survivors, participating in schmann said. “The stories are all differ- Holocaust survivors into a permanent re- Jeannette Friedman, editor of The Jewish “Names, Not Numbers” was bittersweet. “It ent.” cord before time runs out that is fueling Link, gave the students a workshop on in- was diffi cult to relive the experience,” said An unusual aspect of this year’s fi lm programs like “Names, Not Numbers.” Now terview techniques and fi lmmaker Sandra Ira (Israel) Lulinski, who was interviewed was the meeting of participants Sol Gold- in its second year at Moriah, “Names, Not Stacic taught them camera work and edit- by his grandson Judah Strulowitz. He had stein, who liberated Buchenwald, and Dr. Numbers,” is a yearlong, extra-curricular ing. Dr. Prager motivated the students by talked before about his experience as a par- Moshe Avital, who survived the camp. In activity for 8th-grade students that teaches stressing the importance of what they were tisan during the Holocaust to family and the fi lm, Dr. Avital reads a letter to Gold- them about the Holocaust and then coach- doing. “I said to them, you have the pow- friends and in an interview by Yad Vashem, stein that he composed on behalf of all the es them to interview survivors and pro- er to bring forth the stories,” he told the au- but not publicly. I realized that I knew of survivors, thanking him and the United duce a fi lm under the direction of educa- dience. him from a book, Falling Leaves by Isaac States for liberating them. In a further con- tional and industry specialists. Names, Not The dinner was a beautiful counter- Aron, the father of a friend of mine, who nection, Rabbi J.J. Schacter of Yeshiva Uni- Numbers 2014 had its premiere Monday, point to the fi lm’s sadness. The survivors was with him in the partisans’ brigade. versity, whose father was a chaplain and June 9, for over 800 people at Keter Torah basked in the love and admiration of fam- Lulinski shared this story with me: As a conducted the fi rst Rosh Hashana service in Teaneck. Before the fi lm was shown, Mo- ily and community, soaking up honor in- little boy, he and his father, and a few other in Buchenwald after liberation, attended riah hosted a dinner for 250 including the stead of degradation, being feted instead partisans, including Aron and his sister Jen- the fi lm and met the men. students who participated and their fami- of starved. The affection the students had nie Simpkin, were allowed into a Christian Other survivors interviewed in the fi lm lies, the parent mentors who assisted the for the men and women they interviewed home for an hour to warm up from the bit- are: Helen Kugelmas, a member of the Biel- students, survivors and their families, sur- showed in hugs and smiles—some stu- ter cold outside. They were hiding on top ski partisans; Sara Wolinsky, who survived vivors who participated last year, and invit- dents were interviewing their grandpar- of the oven, which was very hot, and he by being hidden in a barn by the Banetka ed guests from the community. ents. was crying. They heard Germans passing by family, recognized as Righteous Gentiles by In his introductory remarks at the event, While many of the students have fam- and had to be completely silent. Jennie put Yad Vashem; Helga Stern, who was arrested Dr. Elliot Prager, Principal of the Moriah ily members who were in the Holocaust, her hand over his mouth to keep him qui- with her parents trying to cross the French School, quoted Rabbi Jonathan Sacks who others had no knowledge but wanted to et. “It saved my life,” he said. When I told border from Belgium, and ultimately sent to said that “history is a story; memory is my learn more. Hyatt Aranoff told me, “We this story to my friend she was very happy. concentration camps until liberated by the story.” Memories are what the survivors have no Holocaust survivors in our family Her aunt Jennie, who passed away last year, American army; Judith Kallman, who wrote shared with the students, giving them a per- and I was excited to learn. Dr Prager made always thought he never believed her that her autobiography, A Candle in the Heart; Jo- sonal and meaningful connection to the it easy, showing us the many steps, many she did it to save him. seph Orbach, who was in a part of Poland history of the Holocaust. Dr. Prager told the parts to the learning.” Hannah Wechsler, who was in last under Soviet rule and sent to Siberia; Sonia audience that in the opening meeting at the Gabe Mehler said he wasn’t sure about year’s fi lm, enthusiastically told me how Kaner, protected by Father Celis, a Righteous beginning of the year, he told the students joining at fi rst. “I knew there would be dis- much “Names, Not Numbers” meant to her. Gentile, and then placed with another fam- they would be learning an “unsanitized, no turbing things, but it was amazing,” he “This project is important for future gener- ily so she didn’t know she was Jewish until holds barred” version of the Holocaust with said. “I came home and told my parents the ations,” she said. “The kids really care and her brother and sisters came for her; and Eli a large time commitment—every Wednes- whole story.” want to learn. They have respect for the Stern, a survivor of several camps until he day after school—and they shouldn’t partic- Sarah Lieberman said the project helped people they interview. And Dr. Prager is re- was liberated by the British at Bergen-Belson. ipate if they thought it would be too diffi - her learn more about her great-grandmoth- ally in touch with the children.” Dr. Prager hopes Moriah will be able to cult. He spends three months teaching the er. “She didn’t tell us too much before she The fi lm presents the interviews to tell continue “Names, Not Numbers,” although history of the Holocaust and the students died,” Sarah said. “I thought hearing other a chronology of events: life before the war, funding is always a challenge. He said, “Our break into groups to research the biogra- people’s stories would shed light on hers. how the Nazis created and then liquidat- goal is to do this until the very last survi- phies of the survivors they will be inter- And it did.” ed the ghettos, life—and death—in the vor.”
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Rabbi Menachem Leibtag at YU’s Summer Learning Netivot Shalom and Beth Aaron Returns to Rinat ongregation Netivot Sha- gation Beth Aaron, 950 Queen By Elizabeth Kratz of the Ten Martyrs in order to connect Clom will be hosting world- Anne Road, Teaneck. with and reenact the theme of the day on renowned scholar, Rabbi Rabbi Leibtag, founder eaneck—Yeshiva University’s popu- which it is being recited. Menachem Leibtag, on Shab- of The Tanach Study Center Tlar annual summer learning program The second speaker is Mrs. Nechama bat, on June 28th. His fi rst shi- [www.tanach.org], is one of in Bergen County will take place at Con- Price, a local Yoetzet Halacha who is a not- ur will follow the Torah read- the pioneers of Jewish edu- gregation Rinat Yisrael on three succes- ed Tanach lecturer as a member of the fac- ing during shachrit and is cation on the Internet. He sive Mondays: July 14, 21, and 28, 2014. The ulty at Stern College for Women. Her lec- entitled: The Number Seven is known for his weekly es- event, which last year garnered an im- ture series is called “Heroes and Villains in in Chumash, and its Connec- says on Parshat ha’Shavua pressive 90 community participants, wel- Tanach,” and will occur from 10:45 to 11:45 tion to the Laws of Tumah. and audio podcasts on the Shachrit begins at 8:45 am. books of Neviim. Rabbi His second lesson is im- Leibtag has been a “rebbe” at mediately following service (after Kiddu- Yeshivat Har Etzion for over 30 years. He sh) and is entitled: The Tragedies in Sefer also teaches at Yeshivat Shaalavim and Bamidbar: Punishment or Consequence? Midreshet Lindenbaum. He also routine- The entire community is invited to attend. ly lectures around the globe, primarily as On Shabbat evening, Rabbi Leibtag will a Scholar-in-Residence in communities speak at 7:10 p.m. on “Moshe and the Rock: in North America, and is a regular guest A Sin or a Sign?” and at 8:30 p.m. on “How lecturer for Jewish students on universi- Chumash Explains the Siddur,” at Congre- ty campuses. Touro and OU Announce Lander Scholarships
even outstanding high school gradu- College,” noting that NCSY also offers schol- Rabbi Jeremy Wieder Yoetzet Halacha Nechama Price Sates from across the nation were select- arship assistance that enables these excep- ed to receive the prestigious Sarah Rivkah tional future leaders to attend school in Is- comes both men and women, as well as a.m. following Rabbi Wieder’s presenta- and Dr. Bernard Lander Scholarship given rael prior to enrolling in one of the Lander mature high school students, said Neha- tions. jointly by Touro College and NCSY, the in- Colleges. ma Cohen, the event’s organizer. Mrs. Price’s series will analyze many ternational youth program of the Orthodox Marion Stoltz-Loike, Dean of LCW/The Following last year’s exciting scholars of the heroes and villains of Tanach, in- Union. The recipients are: Emma O’Quin of Anna Ruth and Mark Hasten School, com- Rabbi Allen Schwartz and Mrs. C.B. Ne- cluding the sins of famous heroes like the Tacoma, WA; Caitlyn Franks of Baltimore; mented on the meaningful bond that exists ugroschl, the fi rst of this summer’s two Avot, Imahot, David, Shlomo, and others. Jamie Epstein of Memphis; Mariah Barber between OU’s NCSY and Touro College. “Year lecturers is Rabbi Jeremy Wieder, a rosh Participants will discover important les- of Eugene, OR; Nicki Feerst of Long Beach, after year, it is hardly a surprise that a large yeshiva at the Rabbi Isaac Elchanan The- sons by analyzing the difference between NY; Sara Lederer of Bergenfi eld, NJ, and portion of our student leadership comes ological Seminary and the Joseph and peshuto shel mikra and Chazal’s interpre- Natasha Zucker of Minneapolis, MN. from the ranks of NCSY. This well refl ects Gwendolyn Straus Chair in Talmud. His tation of the deeds of famous villains, Touro College, which has long enjoyed the unmatched emphasis that NCSY places lecture series is called “The Ten Martyrs in such as Yishmael, Esav, and Lavan. Mrs. a close working relationship with the Or- on empowering and inspiring the next gen- Liturgy,” and will occur from 9:30 to 10:30 Price will discuss how Chazal understood thodox Union, offers scholarships to out- eration of Jewish communal leadership.” a.m. on each of the three Mondays. Rab- neutral personalities against the backdrop standing NCSY graduates who choose to NCSY International Director Rabbi Mi- bi Wieder holds a Ph.D. in Judaic Studies of the abstract text. attend one of Touro’s Lander Colleges in cah Greenland said that each scholarship from New York University. Registration is required. Both classes New York City – Lander College for Men recipient’s “commitment to continued per- The stories of the Ten Martyrs are are offered for a fee of $90. Register on- in Queens, Lander College for Women/ sonal growth and pursuit of academic ex- found in a number of places in the liter- line at yu.edu/bergenlearn The Anna Ruth and Mark Hasten School in cellence is refl ected in her welcome deci- ature of Chazal and memorialized in Jew- For more information about the pro- Manhattan, and Lander College of Arts and sion to attend Touro’s Lander College for ish liturgy on both Tisha B’av (Arzei HaLe- gram and sponsorship opportunities, Sciences in Flatbush. Women.” vanon) and Yom Kippur (Eileh Ezkerah). please contact Nehama Cohen, Assistant The scholarships, in memory of Touro’s Dr. Bernard Lander served as president Rabbi Wieder will share how each of Director, Community Partnerships at Founding President Dr. Bernard Lander, of Touro for almost 40 years, until his pass- these two piyyutim recounts the stories [email protected] (212-960-5400 x6350). zt”l, and his wife Sarah Rivkah, were an- ing on February 8, 2010 at the age of 94. He nounced by Touro President and CEO Dr. built Touro from a fl edgling institution Alan Kadish and Orthodox Union President with only 35 students in 1971 to an educa- Martin Nachimson. tional powerhouse with more than 18,000 Rabbi Yitz chak Etshalom to Speak “Dr. Lander always insisted that Touro undergraduate and graduate students offer scholarship opportunities to out- across the United States, Israel, Germany, at Congregation Shomrei Emunah standing NCSY leaders,” Dr. Kadish said. France, and Russia, making Touro the larg- “We have presented over $2 million in such est not-for-profi t independent institution nglewood— Rabbi Merivah” on Parashat Chu- scholarships over the years, and it is only of higher and professional education un- EYitzchak Etshalom, a mas- kat; “Bilam’s Wild Ride” on appropriate that these scholarships bear der Jewish auspices. Touro and its affi liates ter teacher and popular lec- Parashat Ballak; and “Intro- Dr. Lander’s name and the name of his be- offer superior yeshiva and other Torah ed- turer worldwide, will be the ducing the ‘New School of loved wife, Sarah Rivkah.” ucational opportunities, along with a myr- scholar-in-residence at Con- Orthodox Tanach Study’— Mr. Nachimson added, “These scholar- iad of undergraduate, graduate, and pro- gregation Shomrei Emunah or is it?” ships represent yet another signifi cant link fessional degree programs for the general in Englewood on Shabbos, Rabbi Etshalom serves between the Orthodox Union and Touro population. June 28, 2014. Rabbi Etsh- on the faculties of the Ye- alom will be speaking be- shiva of Los Angeles, the fore Mussaf, during a special Simon Wiesenthal Center, Rabbi Aharon Dovid Gancz to paid luncheon, and during and chairs the Bible Depart- seudat shlishit (approx. 8:15 ment at Yeshiva University Commemorate Rebbe’s Yahrzeit p.m.). The luncheon is $36 High Schools of Los Ange- per person for adults and Rabbi Yitzchak Etshalom les. He is the author of two n Monday, June 30th, Lubavitch on the Pal- Topic: “The Rebbe as a Father.” $25 per child. A $180 spon- volumes of Between the Oisades hosts Rabbi Aharon Dovid Gancz, Dinner will be served at 7:30 p.m. at 11 sorship includes two meals. Reserve on the Lines of the Bible, which incorporates a tra- nationally renowned educator and mentor, Harold Street in Tenafl y. Shomrei Emunah website, www.shomreie- ditional approach to the Torah text and in- in commemoration of the Lubavitcher Reb- The suggested donation is $18, Chai; $54 munahnj.org or mailto:chanieshomrei@ sights from a variety of academic fi elds such be’s 20th Yahrzeit (Memorial). Rabbi Gancz Patron; and $180 High Sponsorship. gmail.com. Babysitting will be available. as anthropology, archeology, philology, and currently serves on the staff of Yeshivas Tom- For more information, contact 201-871- Rabbi Etshalom will speak on: “Coax- literary analysis, to yield greater depth and chei Tmimim in Morristown, NJ. 1152. www.chabadlubavitch.org. ing Waters from the Rock: Re-examining Mei insight.
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Sam Heller of Teaneck Joins Temple Mount Advocate Daughters of Miriam Center Board Visits Englewood lifton—The Board of Trustees of Daugh- By Elizabeth Kratz Cters of Miriam Center/The Gallen Insti- tute announced the appointment of Sam nglewood—Aharon Pulver, executive di- Heller to the Board at their recent annual Erector of the Israel Independence Fund, trustees dinner. came to Englewood last week to discuss Heller brings valuable expertise to the the message of Haliba, one of the initiatives Board as a result of his position at the Vis- the fund supports. Pulver shared that Hali- iting Nurse Service of New York where he ba was begun about a year ago with a goal serves as the Senior Vice President and CFO. to make the Temple Mount, the Har HaBay- In his position, Heller is responsible for the it, a shared sacred space between Jews, Mus- fi nancial operations, materials manage- lims, and Christians. Haliba is an acronym ment, endowment, and real estate of this for L’Hofesh Yehudi Har Habayit (Freedom $2 billion home health care, long-term care, for Jews on the Temple Mount). and managed care company—the largest The site of the binding of Isaac, the fi rst non-profi t home health care company in and second Temples, and the place where the country. He provides overall direction God chose the divine presence to rest (Isai- and guidance for fi nancial operations, con- ah 8:18), is considered the most holy of all Aharon Pulver tract negotiations, third-party reimburse- Jewish sites. The Mount is widely consid- ment, cash management, mergers & acqui- ered the third holiest site in Islam. The Jews themselves should today not ascend sitions, portfolio management, budget and Sam Heller Dome of the Rock, completed in 629 CE, is to the Temple Mount at all, because today general accounting, and corporate risk. one of the oldest Islamic structures in the we don’t know the exact location where the Sam Heller has an MBA from Baruch A resident of Teaneck, Heller is married world. The Dome sits in the center of the Holy of Holies stood. He said that is a very College. He also serves on the board and to the former Shonnie Rothken. They have Temple Mount, where the Holy of Holies is Haredi viewpoint, and that most sources to- fi nance committee of the National Associ- fi ve children and two grandchildren. He is said to rest, where the Torah says the Tem- day feel confi dent that the perimeter of the ation for Home Care and Hospice, a non- a member of Congregation Netivot Shalom ple will be rebuilt. Dome of the Rock, where Jews customarily profi t organization that represents those in Teaneck, where he also serves on their According to Pulver, Jews are limited in visit, is not part of this area. who need or provide home health and board of trustees. their visits to the Temple Mount because Addressing the fact that this topic is con- hospice services. Heller regularly speaks at Learn more about Daughters of Miriam of the explosive nature of the Muslim ac- sidered one of Israel’s most polarizing is- conferences on fi nance, investment, and at www.daughtersofmiriamcenter.org or tivists there, who contest any Jewish pres- sues, Pulver discussed the concept that Hali- health care issues. call (973) 772-3700 ence at the site at all. Jews are allowed to ba’s goals are simple and direct. “A lot of the visit the Temple Mount through the Mu- people who have addressed the issue before grabi Gate, Sunday through Friday between have been considered insane. They kind of 7:30 and 9:30 a.m. and between 1:30 and 3:30 facilitated that opinion because they de- 20th Year Commemoration p.m. Jews are not allowed to pray and are manded things when it was not the right not allowed to bring religious articles. They time to demand. They didn’t really state the of the Rebbe’s Passing are, in fact, not allowed to stop moving as case as it is, and this is clearly a case of Jew- they walk the perimeter, or move their lips ish violation of civil and religious rights. ore than 500 Jews from across the Gar- er in unity is the best tribute to the Rebbe’s in prayer, Pulver said. Muslims, on the oth- Nothing more, nothing less,” he said. “We Mden State are expected to turn out on legacy.” er hand, may enter through one of 10 gates, want to make this a shared sacred space,” Monday, June 23, to commemorate the life The seventh leader of the Chabad- and are allowed to walk, sit, and pray freely, Pulver said. of the Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem M. Sch- Lubavitch movement, the Rebbe was born with religious articles. Religious Christians “Israel is a country, I am proud to say, neerson of righteous memory, who passed in 1902 in Nikolaev, Russia. He took over may enter through only two gates, and, like where umpteen times a day, if you’re driv- away 20 years ago this month. as the group’s spiritual leader in 1950 after Jews, are also not allowed to bring religious ing on the roads, you will see Muslim driv- articles. The area has been guarded by the ers pulling over to the side of the road, pull- Jerusalem Islamic Waqf police (Jordanians) ing out a prayer mat, and engaging in prayer. since 1967, in addition to a presence from Is- Gas stations, bus stops, in public parks—no raeli border guards. one’s heard of a Muslim being accosted in Is- Because the site is a focal point of the rael for being on his prayer mat in a public Arab-Israeli confl ict, the Israeli government place. Never! enforces the ban on prayer by non-Muslim “Muslim civil and religious rights in the visitors. Still, the Temple Mount frequently state of Israel are more protected than Jew- erupts in violence, including recently when ish civil and religious rights. I am proud to police used stun guns to subdue a group of live in a country where Muslim civil rights rioting Palestinians. Five arrests were made. are protected, but, as we respect their rights, The event’s host in Englewood, Elliot we are obligated to respect our own. You Auerbacher, told JLBC that he got involved can’t really respect someone else’s rights with the Haliba cause because he was hor- without respecting your own. You have to rifi ed by his own treatment upon visiting say, ‘I am a human being. I deserve the right the Temple Mount last erev Tisha B’av. “We to pray.’” got chased off by the police,” he said, be- Haliba’s funder, the Israel Independence cause his group asked to walk to the right, Fund, is a strategic philanthropic group not left, on Derech Aveilus (the path of the started in 2007 to support grass roots, solu- mourners). “The police started fi ghting with tion-oriented organizations that strengthen our group. The Arabs then saw that the cops the Jewish and Zionist core of Israel. Other The community-wide event will be held the passing of his father-in-law, the sixth were fi ghting with the Jews, and all of a sud- programs the funds supports are Regavim, at the Wilshire Grand Hotel in West Or- Lubavitch rebbe, Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak Sch- den they came in massive numbers and a land resources inspection monitoring ange at 7:30 p.m., and is being sponsored by neerson. The Rebbe suffered a severe stroke were screaming and throwing stuff at us,” group, Adir Ba’Maron, an IDF cooperative the Rabbinical College of America and the in 1992 and he passed away two years lat- Auerbacher said. organization that provides post-high school Chabad shluchim (emissaries) of New Jer- er, in 1994, on the Hebrew date of Gimmel “We are actually building on a consen- education and placement into the Israeli Air sey. Yeshiva University President Richard Tammuz, which this year falls out on Tues- sus that already exists,” said Pulver. “When Force for new immigrants, a yeshiva in Up- M. Joel, who has led the Modern Orthodox day, July 1. we fi rst started this, about a year ago, we per Nazareth, the Tavor Pre-Military Acade- institution for more than 10 years, will de- Throughout his life, the Rebbe focused paid for Israel’s fi rst professional public rela- my for Social Leadership and a scholarship liver the evening’s keynote address. on reaching out to Jews throughout the tions survey about the public’s position on program for Druze IDF veterans, among oth- “The Rebbe’s 20th yahrzeit is a time that world, regardless of their background or re- the Temple Mount. A whopping 69% of all ers. we can, and should, draw a lot of inspira- ligious practice. He stressed that every Jew Jews in Israel believe in the right of Jews to Haliba uses funds to subsidize buses of tion as we continue to carry out his teach- had a spark in his soul that was waiting to pray on the Temple Mount,” he said. visitors to the Temple Mount, as well as to ings and visions for a better world, “ says be rekindled. Pulver was asked about the interne- Rabbi Moshe Herson, dean of the Rabbin- For more information about the event, cine opinion of those who believe that CONTINUED ON P. 26 ical College of America. “Gathering togeth- call 973-267-9404 or email [email protected].
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and quiz us,” said Stavsky. Farewell: The Winklers to Make Aliyah “Over the years I’ve had an ex- tremely close relationship with my By Elizabeth Kratz to be serious about learning and students. I am teaching my ‘grands- I will make demands, but I want tudents’ now. It’s such a wonderful ort Lee—“I’m not going to teach them to remember the class as a feeling to have people run across Fand preach about aliyah any- pleasant time of the day. I want the street to see me; I used to run more. I’m actually going to do it,” them to have positive experienc- away from my teachers,” Winkler said Rabbi Neil Winkler, who has es in the classroom and remember said. been mara d’asra of Young Isra- the warmth of the relationship be- “I was profoundly fortunate to el of Fort Lee and a beloved Tan- cause I truly love these children,” have had Rabbi Winkler as a reb- ach teacher at the Moriah School he said. be during a formative time in my for almost four decades. He also Over his many years of teach- Torah education,” said Rabbi Dan- is currently serving as president of ing, Rabbi Winkler is proud to have iel Feldman, rabbi at Congrega- the Rabbinical Council of Bergen taught many excellent students, tion Ohr Saadya in Teaneck. “His County. some of whom have gone into the unique blend of humor, warmth, As he and Rebbetzin Andrea rabbinate, including several, like and broad knowledge made a tre- Winkler make plans for their de- Stavsky, who are community rab- mendous impact on all of us in the parture, they described to JLBC the love for Israel is passionate and ap- connection to the land, its people, beim today. class that endures as an inspiration emotional and bittersweet feelings parent to all,” said Rabbi Moshe and its destiny,” said Stavsky. “His students literally number decades later. Serving under him that are associated with leaving a Stavsky, a former student of Rab- As part of his work as coordina- in the thousands. I myself was for- this year as a member of the RCBC community they built, while mov- bi Winkler who now serves as rab- tor of Tanach studies at the Moriah tunate to be his student there and during his presidency, brings the ing on to the next chapter of their bi at the Beis Midrash of Bergen- School in Englewood, Rabbi Win- remember his classes well, which experience full circle and I wish lives: fulfi lling a lifelong dream of fi eld. “When we lived in Fort Lee, kler described how his major goal were full of excitement, warmth, him and his wonderful rebbetz- living in Jerusalem. my daughter would identify their with teaching his young students humor and his famous Rashi in only continued success in their The Winklers shared that ali- home by the Israeli fl ag outside. was to give them a positive experi- sheets. He made learning Torah en- new chapter in Eretz Yisrael,” said yah had been on their agenda for She would say, ‘Wow! They must ence with Tanach. joyable to us,” said Stavsky. Feldman. a long time. They’ve spent a month really love Israel.’ And how! Yet, “One of my many goals was “I credit Rabbi Winkler for Reminiscing about Rabbi Win- each summer in Jerusalem for the much more than the fl ags and the to share my passion for the beau- fueling my desire to compete in kler as a former paddleball partner past 19 years, and they spent a sab- unforgettable “Ha’am im Hagolan” ty of our culture and our tradition. the Chidon HaTanach and support- as well as a fellow RCBC rabbi, Rab- batical there in 2009, where Rab- banner outside their home, their More than the text, it’s the student- ing me throughout. I remember bi Yosef Adler said of his friend: “He bi Winkler took the opportunity speeches, shiurim, and conver- teacher relationship that young enjoying the Chidon club meet- is fi ercely devoted to Medinat Yis- to write most of his book, Bringing sations about Israel were always people remember. Some might say ings after school, either in his class- rael, having spent the last 15 sum- the Prophets to Life. glowing and inspirational, com- it’s foolish to have that goal, but it’s room or in the playground, where “Rabbi and Rebbetzin Winkler’s municating their strong emotional important. Certainly, I want them Rabbi Winkler would both teach CONTINUED ON P. 26 Yeshivat Maharat Ordains New Class
By Aliza Chasan York Presbyterian Hospital, and has done a variety of interfaith work. Sutton also n June 15, the second-ever class of works at Ohav Sholom in Merrick, NY. OManhigei Hilchatit Ruchanit Toranit, “It was exactly one year ago that I was were ordained in the Kraft Center, giving sitting, surrounded by hundreds of peo- women a greater representation among ple in Ramaz, eagerly awaiting the gradu- Orthodox leadership in the Jewish com- ation of my colleagues,” Sutton said. “At munity. Victoria Sutton and Rori Pick- that moment, I knew in my heart that I er Neiss joined Ruth Balinsky Friedman, was in the right place,” she added. Rachel Kohl Finegold, and Abby Brown Picker Neiss has spent the past year as Scheier as the fourth and fi fth Maharat Director of Programming, Education and ever ordained. After the ordinations of Engagement at Bnai Abraham in St. Lou- Sutton and Picker Neiss, in which they is, MO. In the past, she has worked with were each told that they had “been found Religions for Peace-USA, the Jewish Or- worthy and granted the authority to thodox Feminist Alliance, the American teach and determine halachic rulings for Jewish Committee, and the Internation- the Jewish community and [had] been al Jewish Committee for Interreligious ordained as a spiritual leader” by Rabbi Consultations. She is also currently on Jeffrey Fox and Rabbi Daniel Sperber, R’ the board of the Leadership Council of Sperber, a professor of Talmud at Bar-Ilan the International Council of Christians University, assured everyone that the ti- and Jews, a member of the Religions for tles were deserved. All currently ordained Maharat stood together alongside Rabba Sara Hurwitz through a Peace Global Youth Network, a CLAL Rab- “I want to assert very clearly, that rendition of Tov l’Hodot. (From l-r) Rori Picker Neiss, Victoria Brelow, Abby Brown Scheier, Ruth bis Without Borders student fellow, and I examined these women very rigor- Balinsky Friedman, Rachel Kohl Feingold, Rabba Sara Hurwitz. a co-editor of InterActive Faith: The Es- ously and found them highly motivat- sential Interreligious Community-Build- ed, extremely intelligent, very discern- two new Maharat, one of their teachers, leaders and yet we are here and here to ing Handbook. ing, and with a very capable knowledge Devorah Zlochower, was conferred with stay,” “It is because of you that our voice of of the sort of material that they need to the honorary title of Chachama. Eleven Zlochower said before addressing the Torah is coming to into the world. And have in order to fi ll the role as halach- years ago, Zlochower spoke at the Drisha two graduates directly. “The three of us not only our Torah, but the Torah of all ic and spiritual leaders,” he said. “Of late, graduation of Rabba Sara Hurwitz, Dean have in common that our seats in the the people who we teach, all of the people there’s been a resurgence of criticism on of Yeshivat Maharat; she then spoke beit midrash are not something any of us who see us and recognize that there are no the part of many renowned and respect- again at Hurwitz’s ordination six years take for granted. You have indeed earned barriers to Torah,” Picker Neiss said after able talmidei chachamim both in Israel, ago, just before Hurwitz founded the your spots in the beit midrash.” her ordination. England, and here in the United States… school with Rabbi Avraham Weiss. Prior to their studies at Yeshivat Ma- As per her address, everyone received The main argument was that these in- In accepting her honor, Zlochow- harat, Sutton attended Mechon Hadar a portion of Torah at Sinai and it is only novative directions constitute a breach er spoke of the challenges women who and Barnard while Picker Neiss attend- with the acceptance of women into the with tradition. I wish to state very clear- want to learn have faced and continue to ed the Macaulay Honors College at Hunt- world of learning that all those portions ly, that quite the contrary is true. Inno- face. er College and the Drisha Institute. Sut- of Torah can be revealed. vation is the hallmark of Jewish halachic “We still face signifi cant obstacles. ton has worked as an educational intern “The fi rst is the breakthrough; the 2nd tradition...Halacha comes from the route Many Batei Midrash are not open to at SAR high school and taught at the Dri- gives permanence to the breakthrough…,” halach, to move, to step forward, to pro- women. It is not a simple matter to fi nd sha High School and Women’s Collegiate Rabbi Weiss said in his closing remarks. gress. That is how halacha has to func- superb teachers of Torah and it is even Programs. In addition, she has worked as “Our second Smicha ceremony sends a tion.” harder to fi nd our own place as recog- co-chair of the BJ/SPSA homeless shelter, message that smicha for women, b’ezrat In addition to the ordination of the nized teachers of torah and religious as a Victim Intervention Advocate at New Hashem, is here to stay.”
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Winkler stressed that the job of a com- also shared how much time she and her hus- ty where she is so integral, “This is the right Farewell: The munity rabbi, especially when there is a band spent working to build the Fort Lee time for us to fulfi ll our lifelong dream and kashrus-certifying organization involved, re- community. be able to live in Jerusalem—when we can Winklers to quires an investment of much time and en- Rebbetzin Winkler explained that she enjoy it, when we can give a little of our- ergy. “What many people fail to understand established the synagogue’s sisterhood and selves to Jerusalem and enjoy what Jerusa- Make Aliyah is that this is all done voluntarily. The com- that many of its projects were developed un- lem has to offer us,” Rebbetzin Winkler said. munity rabbis are not paid for their work der her leadership. Bikur cholim, comforting “We had a wonderful taste of it when we CONTINUED FROM P. 25 with the RCBC. We do this for the commu- mourners, programming, holiday kiddushes, were there on sabbatical,” she said. nity,” he said. and special fund-raising events such as the During their sabbatical in 2009, Rebbetz- mers in Israel, and is a rav whose decisions The Winklers are not only leaving the Purim project, are only some of her many in Winkler volunteered in the Emunah Col- and leadership refl ect his sensitivity for the community, but also their children and contributions over the years. “I also creat- lege preparing young women for high school broader Jewish community,” Adler said. grandchildren, all of whom live nearby. Both ed the women’s Tehillim group in Fort Lee equivalency exams, something she hopes to Rabbi Benjamin Yudin also said that Rab- Rabbi and Rebbetzin Winkler discussed the which met for many years,” she said. do again. Rabbi Winkler, who was busy writ- bi and Rebbetzin Winkler are two of his and diffi culty of leaving all of their children and Furthermore, as Rabbi and Rebbitzin, ing his book and teaching during that sab- his wife’s closest friends. “There is no gener- grandchildren here in America. “We are try- their house has always been open, ready to batical, will be lecturing and developing cur- ation gap between himself and his students. ing not to think about what we are leaving, host people for Shabbos lunch and Yom Tov riculum in the fi eld of prophets, building on They adore him because of his sense of hu- but what we are going to,” Winkler said. meals. “We did everything as a team here to the work he presented in his book, he said. mor, his sincerity. He is genuine. This is how “My wife and I have been dreaming of al- make the community grow and to make it The Young Israel of Fort Lee is hosting he presents himself in everything. He has iyah for many years. It has been on the agen- the wonderful place to live in that it is to- a dinner in honor of the Winklers on June taught about the importance of the land of da. We didn’t do it earlier, when my children day,” Rebbetzin Winkler said. 22. For more information, please visit http:// Israel. It is an integral part of who he is. This were at crucial phases of their lives. But the While it is diffi cult to leave a communi- www.yiftlee.org/. is a life’s dream being fulfi lled, and these are idea of aliyah was always very clear. We have two very special people who we will miss very strong feelings about the state of Israel. very much,” said Yudin. It was a dream we hoped would come soon,” Temple Mount Folksbeine. He is also a trustee of CUNY. Rabbi and Rebbetzin Winkler are thor- he said. “The Temple Mount is not a religious is- oughly beloved and respected by the entire Rebbetzin Winkler also has strong feel- Advocate Visits sue,” Wiesenfeld told JLBC. “Some would Fort Lee community, which has grown from ings about leaving an organization she like to portray it as tzitzit-wagging settlers 20 families in 1978 when they arrived, to a helped found: Project S.A.R.A.H, an organiza- Englewood going up there and making a scene. but that thriving community today with three Ortho- tion that fi ghts domestic violence in the ob- is a caricature. This is simply the failure to dox synagogues, an eruv and a mikvah. servant community. “The Project S.A.R.A.H. CONTINUED FROM P. 25 provide equal access to Jews on the Tem- The rabbi, who currently serves as pres- work is important to me. It will be very dif- ple Mount. Jews have to have an appoint- ident of the RCBC for the second time, has fi cult to leave that. I hope to be able to con- raise awareness and other logistics of the ment to go to Har Habayit in groups of ten. been involved in the organization since its tinue involvement with that on some lev- campaign. If Muslims riot, the area is immediately inception. He described its growth over the el even though I won’t be able to attend Israel Independence Fund’s board of di- closed to Jews,” he said. “The Har Habayit is years: “We started it with four or fi ve rabbis, monthly meetings anymore,” she said. rectors include Stanley Rosenberg of En- the heart and soul of the Jewish people. It’s Rabbis Swift, Gordon, Yudin, Adler, and Fass, She also has worked at Ma’ayanot High glewood, and the organization’s founding a Vatican that Jews can’t even visit,” Wiesen- and only one store under supervision. Now, School for Girls as an administrative assis- president and current board chair Jeffrey S. feld added. we have about 25 rabbis and some 60-65 ca- tant, since before its offi cial founding in 1995. Wiesenfeld, a well-known philanthropist Those wishing to learn more about Hali- terers, stores, and restaurants under supervi- In addition to a full time day job and a who also serves as board chairman of the ba may visit http://www.fundisrael.org. sion.” full time volunteer job, Rebbetzin Winkler Referrals By: 201-791-1230 We Refer LLC [email protected] Gail Hochman • Nannies • Housekeepers • Babysitters • House Cleaners • Baby Nurses • Elder Care
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By Reva Bhalla/www.Stratfor.com prevent a jihadist mini-emirate from form- ready to fuel Kurdish secessionist tenden- under a central authority in Baghdad. Tehran ing, and beneath that common purpose lies cies. Much to Turkey’s dismay, Kurdish mili- was never wedded to al-Maliki in particular, vents in Iraq over the past week were ample room for intrigue. tants from the Kurdistan Workers’ Party and but it did need to maintain a strong enough Eperhaps best crystallized in a series of the People’s Protection Units are already re- foothold in Baghdad to manage Iraq’s nat- photos produced by the jihadist group Turkey Searches for a Strategy inforcing peshmerga positions in northern urally fractious Shiite landscape. Employ- the Islamic State in Iraq and the Levant. With the jihadist threat fanning out Iraq. At the same time, the Islamic State in ing Shiite militias enables Iran to reinforce Sensationally called The Destruction of Sykes- from Syria to Iraq, Turkey is struggling to in- Iraq and the Levant and its jihadist affi liates the Iraqi army in a time of urgent need but Picot, the pictures confi rmed the group’s in- sulate itself from the violence and to follow are holding 80 Turkish citizens hostage. risks undermining Iran’s long-term strategy tent to upend nearly a century of history in a strategic agenda in Iraqi Kurdistan. Turkey Turkey will thus enlarge its footprint to manage Iraq through a fi rm hand in Bagh- the Middle East. has forged an alliance with the Iraqi Kurd- in Mesopotamia, but not necessarily on its dad. The more empowered the militias and In a series of pictures set to a purring ji- ish leadership in a direct challenge to Bagh- own terms. Some 1,500 to 2,000 Turkish forc- the weaker Baghdad becomes, the harder hadist chant, the mouth of a bulldozer is dad’s authority. With the consent of Turkey’s es have maintained a quiet presence in Iraqi Iran will have to work to keep a lid on sepa- shown bursting through an earthen berm energy minister and to the outrage of Iraqi Kurdistan. That force will likely expand now ratist moves in Iraq’s Shiite south. forming Iraq’s northern border with Syr- Prime Minister Nouri al-Maliki, two tank- that Turkey has an array of threats to justify The militants rampaging through Iraq’s ia. Keffi yeh-wrapped rebels, drained by the ers carrying a few million barrels of Kurd- such a presence and a growing need to tem- core Sunni territories will embrace deeper hot sun, peer around the edges of the barri- ish crude left the Turkish port of Ceyhan in per Kurdish ambitions. Iraq’s Kurdish leader- Iranian involvement in the confl ict. There is er to observe the results of their work. The search of a buyer just as the Islamic State in ship will be reminded of their deep distrust no better motivation for Arab Sunni fi ghters breach they carved was just wide enough for Iraq and the Levant was ratcheting up its for Turkey but will also be overwhelmed by of various ideological stripes than a call to the U.S.-made, Iraqi army-owned and now ji- offensive. Upping the ante, Turkish Energy its own challenges, not least of which is Tur- arms against their historical Persian foes and hadist-purloined Humvees to pass through Minister Taner Yildiz announced June 16 key’s main regional competitor, Iran. their Arab Shiite allies. An outpouring of sec- in single fi le. While a charter outlining an that a third tanker would be loaded with- tarian blood feuds will also make it all the antiquated interpretation of Sharia was be- in the week. With al-Maliki now relying on Iran on the Defensive more diffi cult for Iraq’s Shiite government ing disseminated in Mosul, #SykesPicotOver Kurdish peshmerga support to fend off ji- Unnerved by Turkey’s increasingly as- to recruit enough allies among Iraq’s Sunni trended on jihadist Twitter feeds. From the hadists in the north, Ankara and Arbil have sertive Kurdish policy and possibly in an- population to fi ght against the jihadists. In- point of view of Iraq’s jihadist celebrities, the gained some leverage in their ongoing dis- ticipation of the expanding jihadist threat deed, the Islamic State in Iraq and the Levant 1916 borders drawn in secret by British and pute with Baghdad over the distribution of sweeping Iraq’s Sunni belt, Iran over the would not have been able to mount its light- French imperialists represented by Sir Mark energy revenue. But Turkey’s support for Ira- past several months has been expanding its ning surge across Iraq had it not been for the Sykes and Francois Georges-Picot to divide qi Kurds also has limits. military presence along its northern border substantial support it has received from lo- up Mesopotamia are not only irrelevant, Ankara had planned to use a tighter re- with Iraq. Tehran now fi nds itself in the un- cal Sunni tribes who in turn receive substan- they are destructible. lationship with the Kurdistan Regional Gov- comfortable position of having to reinforce tial support and guidance from sponsors in Today, the most ardent defenders of ernment to exploit northern Iraq’s energy re- its Shiite allies in Iraq militarily. Though Iran the Persian Gulf. Our attention thus turns to those colonial borders sit in Baghdad, Da- serves and to manage Kurdish unrest within has perhaps the most sophisticated and ex- the Saudi royals sitting quietly in Riyadh. mascus, Ankara, Tehran and Riyadh while its own boundaries. However, Turkey nev- tensive militant proxy network in the region the Europeans and Americans, already fa- er intended to underwrite Kurdish inde- to do the job, this strategy carries enormous Saudi Arabia Stirs the Pot tigued by a decade of war in this part of the pendence. And with Kirkuk now in Kurd- risks. This has not been a good year for the Sau- world, are desperately trying to sit this crisis ish hands as a result of the jihadist surge, Iran has spent recent years painstakingly out. The burden is on the regional players to the largest oil fi eld in northern Iraq stands trying to consolidate Shiite infl uence in Iraq CONTINUED ON P. 32
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201-371-3212 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBC.COM June 19, 2014 • 21 Sivan 5774 27 EDITORIAL THE JEWISH LINK OF BERGEN COUNTY Yellow Ribbon Round An Old Oak Tree so The Silence is Deafening Co-Founders/Co-Publishers that we wouldn’t forget the Vietnam POWs Moshe Kinderlehrer Millions of prayers have been uttered; mil- boys, condemning Hamas for their heinous and MIAs as well as the hostages being held Mark (Mendy) Schwartz lions of kapitlach of Tehillim have been terrorist act and asking the U.S. administra- in Iran. He happened to have been in Israel Editor-in-Chief recited since last Erev Shabbos, when three tion to do everything in its power to help the when the kidnapping happened, and some- Jeanette Friedman innocent boys were snatched out of their nor- Israelis fi nd those boys. He said more than how managed to meet the boys’ parents. In a Managing Editor mal, yeshiva lives and turned into pawns for did Senator Menendez, who as of Wednesday video that went viral, he gave an impromptu Adam Negnewitzky Hamas terrorists—whose hatred of the Jew- night, had yet to post a statement to his web- press conference and said he was going to ask Senior Editor ish people was nurtured within them from site; ditto Senator Cory Booker and Congress- everyone he meets to tie three yellow ribbons Elizabeth Kratz the moment they took their fi rst breaths on man Scott Garrett. But then, President and around their trees. That is very sweet, and Contributing Editors this earth. And once again, as our communi- Mrs. Obama, and Vice President Joe Biden, kind, and empathetic, but it doesn’t really do Nina Glick Phil Sieradski ty has done too many times before, we come also have not made any public statements re- anything….Unless, of course, it inspires eve- together to seek comfort in each other when garding the captured boys, although Secre- ry single one of us to sit down and compose Advertising Director Yaakov Serle our children become targets of political in- tary of State John Kerry did make strong state- an email, make a phone call, or send a letter, Assistant Editor sanity. We have lost too many to terrorism. ments during the course of the week. Still, it to the President of the United States and tell Aliza Chasan What is most interesting is the silence doesn’t feel quite right when our represent- him, “Enough! 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We hope that you will continue stating that the fi rst POLITICAL lesson of ing to gain a foothold wherever and when- Anne Senter to use us as a resource about both Jewish the Holocaust was to go and vote. After all, ever they can. Teaneck An Open Letter to the Government Representatives of the People of New Jersey From the Co-Publisher of JLBC, Te- dox Jewish High School graduation, over school in which these children studied. dents is becoming the new norm. With aneck Council Member, Mark Schwartz 250 of them are studying abroad in Israel. But yet the world remains quiet. The our students abroad and millions of stu- It is with great sadness that I read of post high school and “gap year” experience dents in our classrooms daily, we must Dear Honored County, State and Feder- the horrifi c kidnapping of three students, is a tradition that hundreds of thousands take a stand . And we must do so today. al Leaders: one of whom is an American citizen. I am of American students experience every I call on you, my leaders on the coun- I write you today as a Councilmember in shock of this new level of terrorism year. For decades. Four of my brothers ex- ty, state and federal level to use all in- representing the Township of Teaneck, a that we are waking up to again following perienced it and my mother experienced struments at your disposal, whether your multi-cultural diverse community of close the kidnapping of hundreds of Nigerian it in the generation before us. My grand- voice, pen or other constitutionally given to 40,000 residents. Many of you are famil- school girls. fathers “gap year” was his proud service power, to let our President and this world iar with Teaneck and I have had the hon- With hundreds of Teaneck students in the United States Army and my wife’s know that our students are sacred. or of meeting you either here in my home- in Israel every single year, this new found grandfather in the United States Navy, en- I look forward to an end to this tragic town or in your offi ces. method of terrorism scares me. It scares suring that continents aboard will remain occurrence and to the elimination of all Teaneck is a town that has thousands me as a father to four children and as a free as those of us stateside. forms of terror. of its residents abroad, either living tempo- friend to many parents whose children are But yet this way of life is now threat- It says in the Old Testament, in Genesis rarily in foreign nations or residing in oth- there now. ened. Peace, democracy and everything 37:16 “I am looking for my brothers, tell me er countries as they possess dual citizen- This just as easily could have been a Te- sacred to our society is being attacked al- please, where are they “ ship. Hundreds of these Teaneck citizens aneck resident, with many Teaneck chil- most daily in many corners of the world. Please help me and my residents fi nd are students. As is customary post Ortho- dren learning in schools not far from the It now appears as if kidnapping stu- this answer
28 June 19, 2014 • 21 Sivan 5774 201-371-3212 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBC.COM DVAR TORAH Two Jews, Three Opinions: Parshat Korach
Rabbi Dr. Tzvi fate of the aforementioned values? Have heaven,” then debate is not only tolerated An objection has been raised to the Hersh Weinreb people begun to believe that contentious- but it is considered valuable. If the motive criterion “for the sake of heaven” as a le- ness and argumentativeness, if not out- is ignoble, and certainly if it is merely con- gitimate motive for dispute. Surely men e all nod our right strife, are to be extolled? tentious, it is strongly condemned. have been motivated to commit horrible Wheads in agree- This week’s Torah portion, Parshat Ko- An example of such a harsh condemna- evil because they believed they were act- ment when we hear rach (Numbers 16:1-18:32), provides the oc- tion is to be found in the Midrash on this ing “for the sake of heaven.” One of the the phrase, “Two Jews, casion to refl ect on just such questions. week’s Torah portion. The Midrash points strongest arguments raised by freethink- three opinions.” We Korach is the biblical paradigm of the con- out how each of the letters comprising ers against religion is the fact that so much similarly chuckle when we hear the an- tentious individual. He is, to say the least, the word machloket represents a different blood has been spilled over the millennia ecdote about the Jew who was discov- dissatisfi ed with Moses’ leadership style vile trait. Thus, the fi rst letter, mem, stands by people who were convinced that they ered after years of living alone on a de- and calls into question the entire social for makkah, wound. The letter chet stands were performing God’s will. sert island. His rescuers noticed that he hierarchy with which he was confront- for charon, wrath. The letter lamed begins It is to counter such an objection that had built two huts aside from the one ed. According to the rabbis, he was even the word lakui, smitten. The letter kuf rep- the rabbis gave as an example of an ap- he lived in. He told the puzzled people skeptical of various rituals, not being able resents klala, curse. The fi nal letter tav propriate dispute: the machloket between who saved him that they were shuls, or to accept that a house full of holy books stands for tachlit, which is often translat- Hillel and Shammai. The disagreements synagogues. When asked why he need- required a mezuzah, or that a tallit made ed as goal or objective, but in this context between these two sages, and their disci- ed two shuls, he retorted, “One is the one entirely of blue colored wool required tz- means a fi nal tragic ending. ples down through the generations, were in which I pray, and the other is the one itzit with the blue colored fringe. He had But just as much as improperly motivat- characterized by tolerance and friend- into which I would never set foot.” no diffi culty fi nding contentious compan- ed disputes were condemned by our sag- ship, so much so that the Talmud records We have no trouble believing that ions, and he eventually organized them es, so did they fi nd value in disputes which more than one incident when Hillel came Jews tend to be contentious and have to into a band of rebels and fomented a full- had a constructive purpose. They particu- around to Shammai’s way of thinking, and express their disagreements with others, fl edged revolt against the authority of Mo- larly appreciated disputes which were mo- when Shammai conceded to Hillel. even when stranded alone on a desert is- ses and Aaron. tivated by the search for truth. Hence, hard- The disputes between Hillel and Sham- land. The question that must be asked is For the rabbis of the Talmud, Ko- ly a page in the thousands of pages of the mai endure to this very day. Although we whether or not this contentiousness is a rach epitomizes the negative trait of ma- Talmud does not record strong differences generally rule in accordance with the opin- good thing. chloket, strife and discord. A famous pas- of opinion between the rabbis. ion of the former, we carefully attended to Long ago, one could fi nd unanimi- sage in Ethics of the Fathers distinguishes It is noteworthy in this regard that eve- the arguments of the latter. I for one am ty among wise men about certain values. between legitimate disputes, those which ry single chapter of the work known as the convinced that we do so to perpetuate the Everyone consented that wisdom, dili- are “for the sake of heaven,” and those Mishnah, which is the core around which attitudes of attentiveness and harmony gence, and harmony were values worthy which are not so motivated. They add: the Talmud developed, contains a dispute which both Hillel and Shammai advocated of acclaim. Then a great philosopher, Er- “What is an example of a dispute for the between the rabbis on one point or anoth- and enacted. asmus, came along and wrote a book enti- sake of heaven? The dispute between Hil- er. The only exception to this is the fi fth Students of Torah must not only study tled In Praise of Folly. No longer could pro- lel and Shammai. What is an example of chapter of the tractate Zevachim, “Ayzahu the content of these ancient disputes, they ponents of wisdom pretend that everyone one not for the sake of heaven? The dis- mekoman,” which begins with the ques- must also learn to re-create the atmosphere agreed with them. pute of Korach and all his company.” The tion, “What is the location for the Temple which prevailed among the disputants, an More recently, the philosopher and former type of dispute has enduring value, sacrifi ces?” No dispute at all is recorded in atmosphere of civility and mutual respect mathematician Bertrand Russell wrote an the latter does not. this unique chapter. Yet this is the chap- and a willingness to concede one’s original essay entitled “In Praise of Idleness.” Gone From this passage it is apparent that ter chosen for inclusion in the daily prayer position in order to achieve the truth. from the list of universally held virtues our sages do not categorically oppose dis- book. It has been argued that it is precisely were diligence and hard work. pute, debate, and argument. Rather, eve- this chapter, devoid of even a trace of con- Rabbi Tzvi Hersh Weinreb is the Executive Vice Presi- What about concepts such as peace rything depends upon the motive. If the tentiousness, which merited its inclusion dent Emeritus of the Orthodox Union. and harmony? Have they also suffered the motive is a noble one, “for the sake of in our sacred liturgy. “RABBI’S MUSINGS (& AMUSINGS)” Darwinian Evolution Quality, Not Quantity By Dr. Josh Backon
By R’ Dani Staum time with each of his children peri- here are many who object to what is odically. During that time, there is Tcalled “Darwinian Evolution.” itch Albom is a best-selling author, nothing else except for the child with Why object? Mjournalist, and broadcaster. His books him. Many parents spend much more R. Yitzchak of Akko, a disciple of the have sold 30 million copies worldwide. His physical time with their children but, Ramban, wrote 750 years ago that the breakthrough book, Tuesdays with Morrie, because their attention is so divided, world was created 15 BILLION years ago propelled him into stardom, remaining on the child hardly gains from the expe- (to be exact: 15,340,500,000). The Mid- the New York Times Bestseller List for 205 rience. rash states that God created universes weeks, and selling 14 million copies. During the last few months in our and destroyed them. Albom had heard about an interview family we have established “Tues- The gemara in Chagiga 13b states with a sociology professor named Mor- day’s with Abba.” Each Tuesday, I have that there were 974 generations BEFORE rie Schwartz that had aired on The Today breakfast with one of our children. Adam. Show, in which Morrie spoke about living During that time, it’s just me and the There are many midrashim not- with ALS, a terminal disease he knew was child. S/he chooses the menu, we eat ing that the fi rst week of Creation last- killing him. Albom had been a student of and schmooze, and then I drive them ed eons (see: Anafi m, a commentary on Morrie during his years at Brandeis Univer- to school. It’s been a wonderful expe- Rabbi Yosef Albo’s Sefer Ikkarim 2:18, ex- sity and had been close with him. When Al- rience, and something each of them plaining Rabbenu Bachya’s comment on bom heard about the interview and about look forward to. For example, when the use of YOM ECHAD instead of YOM Morrie’s situation, he felt guilty for not hav- I once asked Rabbi Mordechai Finkelman I went to eat with Avi, our 4-year-old, the RISHON in Genesis 1:5; Breshit Rabba 9). ing stayed in touch. He decided to rekin- how he has time for his own family. Rabbi fi rst time, and I asked him about school, The biblical day is 1000 Divine years, dle their connection, and he began to visit Finkelman, whom I consider one of my fore- he shrugged, gave me a sly smile and said, which is equivalent to 365,200 earth Morrie every Tuesday. In 1997, Albom pub- most rabbeim and mentors in life, is not only “I’m not telling,” and continued to eat in si- years, and the Midrash indicates that the lished Tuesdays with Morrie in which he the Mashgiach of Ohr HaChaim in Queens, lence. I felt a bit funny, but he was very hap- world is 42,000 Divine years old. documented many of the poignant conver- but his sagacious advice is sought out con- py with that. The Midrash in Breshit Rabba 14 sations they had about life and death. stantly by myriads of people. He is invited to We can’t slow life down, but we can do mentions in the name of Rabbi Yehu- Almost any adult will agree that life the weddings and simchas of students and our best to create memories and enjoy the da that man was born with a tail. The seems to pass so quickly. Parents will agree friends on a nightly basis, and also gives many experience. Of course there is also the ben- Midrash Tanchuma Genesis 6 states that even more. “It seems like it was just yester- different lectures throughout the week. efi t that I have learned many important people born before the time of Noah day that…” is a common refrain. But our Rabbi Finkelman replied that when it things about my children and about what’s had webbed fi ngers. Breshit Rabba 23 daily schedules are so demanding and tir- comes to one’s children, quality is more going on in their lives. Most importantly, states that in the days of Enosh, the fac- ing that we just don’t know how to slow important than quantity. He said that he I learned that Shalom absolutely abhors es of men became APE LIKE. down the whirring daily merry-go-round. makes sure to set aside a certain chunk of when they put vegetables on his Hobo!
201-371-3212 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBC.COM June 19, 2014 • 21 Sivan 5774 29 MAGGID OF BERGENFIELD Korach: How Green Is My Mishkan
By Larry Stiefel Doris Shapiro raised her hand in an in- nah, the priesthood, from Aharon and his stant (teachers always raise their hands descendants. As a test, Moshe Rabeinu has he blue bins and when they want to be called on—would them take their machtot, their fi re pans, Tbuckets appeared you expect anything less?). She was a and offer incense to Hashem to see if God in the Nachmanides fourth grade English teacher at Nachma- accepts their sacrifi ce more than Aharon’s. School one June morn- nides and had been for ten years. Her per- Of course, the story goes badly, and the 250 ing as if they material- sonal authority both in the classroom and men offering the ketoret, the incense, were ized, well, out of the out made everyone consider Doris the un- consumed by a divine fl ame. blue. One day the students were throwing offi cial dean of the teaching staff. “After it’s all over, Hashem commands their garbage into the regular trash cans, “Yes Doris, what can I help you with?” Moshe to have Aharon’s son Elazar take the and the next day, there were recycling con- “Rabbi, where did this come from?” Do- fi re pans ve’asu otam riku’ei pachim tsipuy tainers everywhere. The lunchroom had ris asked in her deep, stentorian school lamizbeyach, let them be made into beaten separate containers for plastic, glass, and teacher voice. “Who created this recycling plates for a covering for the altar. aluminum. The library had bins for com- program? That’s what I’d like to know.” noff, the seventh grade limudei kodesh “At fi rst, the whole issue seems strange. puter paper and newspaper. The hallways “It was me,” Rabbi Rosenthal said. “I’m teacher said. “And we go back a long way.” As the Ramban points out, why should were lined with large, blue plastic buckets. responsible.” “Face it, Rabbi,” Doris said. “Al Gore those copper fi re pans be holy? They were It was a recycling revolution. Everyone gasped. you’re not.” used to offer up strange incense, foreign to Everyone thought it was an excellent “What’s the big deal?” Rabbi Rosenthal “Nu? Nobody’s perfect.” the Mishkan. In the end, the Ramban ex- idea. The main question was: Who did it? asked. “O.K., Reuven Rabinowitz said, “what plains, Hashem made the fi re pans holy to There had been no school board of direc- “First of all,” Doris said, “what you gives?” serve as a sign for the Jewish people to re- tors meeting to discuss a proposition for meant to say was ‘it was I.’” “I’m a new man,” Rabbi Rosenthal said. spect the validity of the kohanim.” creating an amendment to form a subcom- The groan was as loud as the former “You might say I’m—” “I don’t get it,” Doris said. “How does mittee in favor of the potential for a recy- gasp. “Renewed? Rejuvenated? Recycled?” that support a recycling program?” cling initiative. No staff meeting had oc- “Second of all,” Doris continued, “Rabbi, Doris Shapiro speculated. “God took an object of sin from an in- curred where analysis was recommended you’re not exactly the poster child for envi- “Doris, can’t I just fi nish my own sen- appropriate sacrifi ce and changed it into for the process to better augment an atmos- ronmental consciousness.” tences occasionally? I was going to say I’m something kadosh, holy, for all time. That phere for the educational objective of the “Why do you say that?” turning over a new leaf.” has to be the ultimate demonstration of re- ecological awareness for a greener school. “Well, you drive a 1997 Lincoln Con- Doris smiled sheepishly and stopped cycling. So if He can change something so It just happened. tinental,” Rabbi Reuven Rabinowitz, the talking. bad into something good, surely we can Rabbi Rosenthal, the principal of the sixth grade social studies teacher said, “Actually, I was inspired to recycle by change our plastic and our paper into a re- Nachmanides School, called an emergen- “which gets, what, ten gallons to the mile?” this week’s parsha,” Rabbi Rosenthal said. newable resource.” cy staff meeting to bring the educators up “You use styrofoam cups like they’re a All the teachers stared at Rabbi “I like it,” Adelle Barishansky said. “That to speed. All the teachers brought brown dime a dozen,” Adelle Barishansky, the jun- Rosenthal in anticipation of his explana- works for me.’ bag lunches to the staff lounge, preferably ior high school science teacher said. tion. But the Rabbi paused for a long time The staff murmured in general agreement. without styrofoam. “You run the air conditioning in your of- before he began speaking. Silence at one of “So Rabbi, does this mean you’ll be trad- “I’m glad you could all make it on such fi ce like you live on a glacier,” Mark Morri- his staff meetings was so rare, and he want- ing in your Lincoln for a hybrid car?” Mark short notice,” Rabbi Rosenthal said. “I real- son, the gym teacher said. ed to savor it. Finally, he began. Morrison asked. ize this is a bit sudden, but I think the recy- “I’ve never seen you shut off a light as “In this week’s parsha, Korach and his “One step at a time, Mark. One step at a cling program is a good idea for the school.” long as I’ve known you,” Rabbi Baruch Ara- rebellious group try to take over the kehu- time,” the Rabbi answered. FEATURE
That very afternoon Rebecca panicked derstands it. We all know that.” She tried to Read Carefully Before Using when she was summoned to her principal’s make her case. But it seemed that the student offi ce. with the highest grades in Judaic studies was By Estelle Glass tem and although Rebecca was to be Class At fi rst, she was relieved to discover that not as fl uent in Hebrew as Rebecca. Valedictorian, she was not on her teacher’s the visit wasn’t about her “creative” paper, but Mrs. Weiner, the principal, was adamant. ebecca was incensed. Every time Mrs. list of favorites. her relief quickly turned to dismay. It was “I’m sorry Rebecca, and I’m sure you’re mis- RKlein returned her students’ essays the Before she handed in her fi nal essay of much worse. taken. Certainly the audience listens to both grades were the same. A’s for the girls the the semester, Rebecca decided to test her the- “Rebecca, we would love it if you would speeches. In any case, I’ve already made my teacher liked and B’s and C’s for the others. ory. She opened her paper with the correct present your valedictory speech in Hebrew. decision.” There were never any comments or explana- information and then inserted several para- We realize that you were chosen to be Eng- Graduation day turned out to be sun- tions for the marks other than an excellent graphs of nonsense in the middle. Rebecca lish Valedictorian, but your command of the ny and bright. The excited crowd of parents scrawled in red near the A or a needs work then closed her essay with a strong ending. language is so wonderful that we are going to and relatives streamed into the school audi- with two strong lines underscoring the low- Sure enough, her work came back with the switch things around a bit. We know you will torium exchanging mazal-tov’s. They then er grades. Rebecca was certain that Mrs. Klein usual red-circled B emblazoned across the do an excellent job!” clapped in enthusiasm as their children fi led never bothered to read any of the papers. In- heading. She was right! Mrs. Klein never even Rebecca swallowed hard. “But no one lis- stead she had her own personal grading sys- looked at their papers, just at their names. tens to the Hebrew speech…No one really un- CONTINUED ON P. 40
30 June 19, 2014 • 21 Sivan 5774 201-371-3212 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBC.COM POLITICAL PONDERINGS
the delivery of fi nancial aid to the Pales- Giving The Palestinians Yet Another Pass tinian Authority in the event that there is a power-sharing government between the By N. Aaron Troodler, Esq. ernment, and then did an abrupt about-face, they continually get a pass from the United Palestinian Authority and Hamas, seems to thereby paving the way for the European Un- States after repeatedly taking steps that run inherently preclude the United States from iplomacy is a complex ion and the United Nations to also indicate a counter to Israel’s best interests? continuing to fund them with hundreds of Dexercise. Decisions willingness to accept the unity government. The decision by Abbas to embrace Ha- millions of dollars each year. made in the context of a How is it that the United States was mas is an affront not just to Israel, but to the And let us not forget for a moment diplomatic situation are fooled so easily? Although Palestinian Au- entire diplomatic community, and I believe where some of the American dollars fl ow- often fraught with challenges and the im- thority Chairman Mahmoud Abbas and that there must be consequences for having ing into the Palestinian Authority ultimate- plications of a determination that eventu- the Fatah leadership are quick to note made that choice. Once again, Mahmoud ly end up. It is inconceivable that the Unit- ally proves to be erroneous could be dire. that none of the initial members of the Abbas has thumbed his nose at the United ed States would keep sending hundreds One such diplomatic decision that very new government are part of Hamas, we all States and at the peace process, but the ram- of millions of dollars each year to the Pal- well may have lasting repercussions is the know who is pulling the strings in this pup- ifi cations do not appear to be forthcoming. estinian Authority so that it can continue United States’ perplexing pronouncement pet show. Moreover, when there are elec- It is time for Abbas to face the music perpetuating incitement through its hate- that it is willing to work with the new uni- tions for the new unity government, who for his actions. Even after Abbas defi ed based educational curriculum and provid- ty government that has been formed by the is to say that Hamas won’t step in and as- the United States’ wishes and unilaterally ing a safe haven for terrorists who it cele- Palestinian Authority and Hamas. sert its power in order to secure the govern- went to the United Nations in an effort to brates as heroes. Hamas and its terrorist tendencies are mental seats that it covets? achieve statehood, there was no diminu- The United States should reconsider its well known to the United States and to the Just as the world would certainly not tion in U.S. aid to the Palestinian Authori- decision to take a “wait and see” approach world. As a terrorist organization that open- recognize nor collaborate with a govern- ty. Following Abbas’ decision to walk away with the unity government, and instead is- ly calls for the obliteration of the State of ment that was established and openly sup- from the peace process, there were no con- sue a swift condemnation of this deadly Israel and relishes the opportunity to per- ported by a terrorist group such as Al Qae- sequences. Although Abbas has funneled union with a dangerous terrorist organiza- petrate deadly acts of terror against inno- da, so too the international community money received from the United States tion. With its track record of murder and cent civilians, Hamas’ involvement in a uni- should not accept a government in which and intended for foreign aid to the families mayhem, Hamas is not worthy of the Unit- ty government with Fatah is particularly Hamas plays a vital role. of terrorists who murdered Israelis, there ed States’ trust, nor does any government troubling. With its violent background and It is important to recognize that a ter- have been no penalties imposed on him. with which Hamas is associated deserve detestable views towards the Sate of Isra- rorist in a business suit is still a terrorist. Now that Abbas has embraced Ha- the United States’ backing. el and the Jewish nation, any government Members of Hamas will continue to harbor mas and empowered them, it is incom- I hope that the United States will see that includes Hamas as a partner should be extreme animosity towards Israel, regard- prehensible that the United States would through the façade that has been created shunned by the international community. less of whether they are part of a governing once again proceed without duly castigat- by Hamas and take the necessary steps to Yet, the United States somehow concluded body or building bombs in an explosives ing him. It is time for the United States to protect the people of Israel, and not the that it makes diplomatic sense to give Ha- factory. These are the same people that cel- stand up to Mahmoud Abbas and penalize people who want to destroy Israel. mas a chance. As Israel’s leaders rushed to ebrated the recent abduction of three Is- him accordingly. For example, if Congress decry the new unity government, the Unit- raeli students in a tasteless and appalling was to immediately defund the Palestin- N. Aaron Troodler is an attorney and principal of Paul ed States rushed to embrace it. display of callous indifference as the boys’ ian Authority, it would send a clear mes- Revere Public Relations, a public relations and political What makes the United States’ decision families and an entire nation were forced sage that embracing Hamas and endorsing consulting fi rm. Visit him on the Web at TroodlersTake. so much more disconcerting is that it re- to endure indescribable pain and anguish. their terrorist ways has grave ramifi cations. blogspot.com, www.PaulReverePR.com, or www.Jew- portedly informed Israel that it would take a And what about Mahmoud Abbas and In fact, the language in the United States’ ishWorldPR.com. You can also follow him on Twitter: @ “wait and see” approach with the unity gov- the Palestinian Authority? 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By Lee Fang (On Twitter, Brat has praised the conservative “Many lobbyists on K Street whose clients author Peter Schweizer, whose work on con- include major fi nancial institutions consid- “All of the investment banks, up in New gressional corruption forced lawmakers into er Cantor a go-to member in leadership on York and D.C., they should have gone to action on the STOCK Act.) policy debates, including overhauling the jail.” The STOCK Act, a bill to crack down mortgage fi nance market, extending the on insider trading, was signifi cantly wa- government backstop for terrorism insur- hat isn’t a quote from an Occupy Wall tered down by Cantor in early 2012. The ance, how Wall Street should be taxed, and TStreet protester or Senator Elizabeth lawmaker took out provisions that would fl ood insurance,” noted Politico following Warren. That’s a common campaign slogan have forced Wall Street “political intelli- Cantor’s loss… In 2011, Cantor was caught repeated by Dave Brat, the Virginia college gence” fi rms to register as traditional lob- on video promising a group of commodity professor who scored one of the biggest po- Primary Winner Dave Brat byists would, and removed a section of speculators that he would roll back regula- litical upsets in over a century by defeating the bill to empower prosecutors to go af- tions on their industry. Majority Leader Eric Cantor in the [recent] government: corruption and cronyism. ter public offi cials who illegally trade on in- There are many lessons to be learned Republican primary. Brat told Internet radio host Flint Engel- sider knowledge. And Brat may be right to from the Cantor-Brat race. For one, it’s The national media is buzzing about man that the “number one plank” in his charge that Cantor’s moves on the STOCK worth refl ecting on the fact that not only Brat’s victory, but for all of the wrong rea- campaign is “free markets.” Brat went on Act were motivated by self-interest. Cantor did Cantor easily outraise and outspend sons. Did the Tea Party swoop in and help to explain, “Eric Cantor and the Republican played a leading role in blocking legislation Brat by over $5 million to around $200,000 Brat, as many in the Democratic Party are leadership do not know what a free market to fi x the foreclosure crisis while his wife in campaign funds, but burned through a suggesting? Actually, the Wall Street Jour- is at all, and the clearest evidence of that and his stock portfolio were deeply invest- signifi cant amount on lavish travel and nal reports no major Tea Party or anti-estab- is the fi nancial crisis…When I say free mar- ed in mortgage banks. entertainment instead of election advoca- lishment GOP group spent funds to defeat kets, I mean no favoritism to K Street lob- Most self-described Tea Party Re- cy. Federal Election Commission records Cantor. Did Cantor, the only Jewish Repub- byists.” Banks like Goldman Sachs were not publicans, including Rand Paul and Ted show Cantor’s PAC spent at least $168,637 lican in Congress, lose because of his reli- fi ned for their role in the fi nancial crisis— Cruz, have railed against Washington in a on steakhouses, $116,668 on luxury hotels gion, as some have suggested? There’s no rather, they were rewarded with bailouts, general sense without calling out the pow- (including a $17,903 charge to the Beverly evidence so far of antisemitism during the Brat has said. erful—often Republican-leaning—groups Hills Hotel & Bungalows) and nearly a quar- campaign. Was Cantor caught fl atfooted? Brat, who has identifi ed with maver- that wield the most power. Not Brat. ter million on airfare (with about $140,000 Nope; Cantor’s campaign spent close to $1 ick GOP lawmakers like Representative Jus- “Eric is running on Chamber of Com- in chartered fl ights)—just in the last year million on the race and several outside ad- tin Amash of Michigan, spent much of the merce and Business Roundtable princi- and a half! vocacy groups, including the National Rifl e campaign slamming both parties for being ples,” Brat told a town hall audience, later But on the policy issues and political Association, the National Realtors Associa- in the pocket of “Wall Street crooks” and clarifying that he meant the U.S. Chamber ramifi cations of this race, it’s not easy to tion, and the American Chemistry Council D.C. insiders. The folks who caused the fi - of Commerce, the largest lobbying trade box Brat into a neat caricature of an anti-im- (a chemical industry lobbying association) nancial crisis, Brat says, “went onto Oba- group in the country. He also called out the migration zealot or Tea Party demagogue, came in and poured money into the district ma’s rolodex, the Republican leadership, American Chemistry Council for funding or, in TIME’s hasty reporting, a “shopworn to defeat Brat. The New York Times claims Eric’s rolodex.” ads in his race with Cantor, telling a radio conservative boilerplate.” If Brat ascends to that Brat focused his campaign primari- During several campaign appearances, host that his opponent had asked his “cro- Congress, which is quite likely given the Re- ly on immigration reform. Brat certain- Brat says what upset him the most about Can- ny capitalist friends to run more ads.” Brat publican-leaning district that he’ll run in as ly made immigration a visible topic in his tor was his role in gutting the last attempt at repeats his mantra: “I’m not against busi- the GOP nominee, he may actually contin- race, but Republic Report listened to several congressional ethics reform. “If you want to ness. I’m against big business in bed with ue taking on powerful elites in Washington. hours of Brat stump speeches and radio ap- fi nd out the smoking gun in this campaign,” big government.” See more at: http://www.republicre- pearances, and that issue came up far less Brat told Engelman, “just go Google and type Indeed, Cantor has been a close ally to port.org/2014/dave-brat-cantor/#sthash. than what Brat called the main problem in the STOCK Act and CNN and Eric Cantor.” top lobbyists and the fi nancial industry. syaL5V7j.dpuf
The Intrigue Saudis and the Islamic State in Iraq and the Revisiting a Mysterious time it has been anxiously trying to prove Levant. In fact, the Saudis have branded it a Meeting in Sochi to itself and everyone else that the United Lying Behind terrorist organization and have even uncov- Just days before the Islamic State in Iraq States has bigger issues to deal with in other ered cells of the group on Saudi soil plotting and the Levant-led offensive in Iraq, a qui- parts of the world, namely, in Russia’s back- Iraq’s Jihadist against the kingdom. et meeting took place at Russian President yard. Moreover, the United States and Tur- But the Islamic State in Iraq and the Le- Vladimir Putin’s vacation spot in Sochi on key are not of one mind on how to man- Uprising vant is also not the only group participat- June 3. Putin invited Saudi Foreign Minister age Iraq at a time when Washington needs ing in the current offensive. Former Ba- Saud al-Faisal to see him and Russian For- Ankara’s cooperation against Russia. If an CONTINUED FROM P. 27 athist fi ghters from the Naqshabandiyya eign Minister Sergei Lavrov, who cut short Iraq-sized distraction buys Moscow time to Way along with Jaish al-Mujahideen and an engagement in Moscow to get there on manage its own periphery with limited U.S. dis. A Persian-American rapprochement is a Jaish Ansar al-Sunnah are also playing a time. Details on the meeting are scarce. Our interference, all the better for Putin. Mean- living nightmare for the Sunni kingdom, substantial role in the fi ghting. Most of the attempt to obtain information about the while, if Saudi Arabia can weaken Iran and as is the prospect of the United States be- Sunni militias and the growing number of gathering from Russian and Saudi contacts test U.S.-Iranian cooperation, it might well coming more self-suffi cient in energy pro- Awakening Council (Sunni fi ghters recruit- resulted in scripted and strangely identical be worth the risk for Riyadh to try -- at least duction. Saudi Arabia has little means to di- ed by the United States to battle al Qaeda responses that claimed that Saudi Arabia for the time being. rectly sabotage U.S.-Iranian negotiations. In in Iraq) defectors joining these militias co- and Russia were discussing a power-sharing fact, as we anticipated, the Saudis have had ordinate directly with the Majlis Thuwar al resolution for Syria. The state-owned Sau- A Lesson from History to swallow a bitter pill and open up their Anbar (Anbar insurgents’ council), which in di Press Agency then reported June 10 that Whether by mere coincidence, strate- own dialogue with Iran. But the Saudis are turn coordinates with the Islamic State in Lavrov and al-Faisal had a follow-up phone gic design or a blend of the two, there are also not without options to make life more Iraq and the Levant on a selective basis. Sau- conversation to discuss a Syrian settlement. as many winners as there are losers in the diffi cult for Iran, and if Riyadh is going to di Arabia’s acting intelligence chief, Yousef Syria may well have been on the agenda, Iraq game. Russia knows this game well. be forced into a negotiation with Tehran, it bin Ali al Idrisis, is believed to be in direct and Russia has an interest in protecting its The United States, the heir to the Sykes-Pi- will try to enter talks on its own terms. communication with the Majlis Thuwar al infl uence in Damascus through a deal that cot map, will be forced to learn it fast. Syria and Lebanon always make for use- Anbar, affording Riyadh the opportunity to keeps Syrian President Bashar al Assad in When the French and British were col- ful proxy battlegrounds, though a Sunni infl uence the shape of the battlefi eld -- and power, but we suspect there was more to luding over the post-Ottoman map in 1916, rebellion has little chance of actually top- thereby to aggravate Iran in a highly sensi- these engagements. czarist Russia quietly acquiesced as Par- pling the Iranian-backed regime in Damas- tive spot. Both Saudi Arabia and Russia share two is and London divided up the territories. cus, and Lebanon is too fragmented for any As a bonus for Saudi Arabia, even as the key interests: undermining the U.S.-Iranian Just a year later, in 1917, the Soviets threw one regional player to claim a decisive ad- Sunni uprising is largely confi ned to Iraq’s negotiating track and ensuring oil prices re- a strategic spanner into the Western agen- vantage. The contest has thus shifted back Sunni belt and thus unlikely to seriously main at a comfortable level, i.e., above $100 da by publishing the Sykes-Picot agreement, to Mesopotamia, where Iran cannot afford upset Iraq’s production and exports from a barrel. There is little either can do to keep planting the seeds for Arab insurrection and to see its Shiite gains slip and where Saudi the Shiite south, the price of Brent crude Iran and the United States from negotiat- thus ensuring that Europe’s imperialist rule Arabia -- both the government and private has climbed to $113 a barrel for the fi rst time ing a settlement. In fact, the jihadist threat over the Middle East would be anything but citizens -- has maintained strong ties with this year. Saudi Arabia is not the only one in Iraq creates another layer of cooperation easy. The U.S. administration recognizes the many of the Sunni tribes in Anbar and Mo- that welcomes this bump in the price of oil; between Iran and the United States. That trap that has been laid. But more mindful of sul provinces that have facilitated the Sunni Russia is quite pleased with the outcome in said, Washington is now facing another ma- uprising. There is no love lost between the Iraq as well. jor Middle Eastern maelstrom at the same CONTINUED ON P. 51
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201-371-3212 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBC.COM June 19, 2014 • 21 Sivan 5774 33 TEEN PERSPECTIVES The School Year Takes Its Final Bow
By Oren Oppenheim Monday morning schedule at Ramaz Up- It’s exhausting just to write this all out, Take a deep breath; I know that was a per School, starting at 8:50 when the fi rst so I’m hoping you get a sense or can relate lot. It’s been, as I said, quite a whirlwind s I write this, I’m period begins. (I’ll leave out my whole to the whirlwind that is the school day. school year. But now it’s nearly over. So, Acurrently in the wakeup and commute routine for now, (Remember, that was only the fi rst half looking back at it, was it worth it? Do I middle of my fi nal ex- although that could be a whole story in of a Monday!) Still, that’s not everything. feel like I’ve gained from it? Was packing ams, which are just as itself.) The day starts with history, a class Throughout the year I’ve had to work on in so many classes and assignments and much fun as you can I enjoy—a great venue for practicing my a long historiography paper—instead of tests and clubs worth the struggle? Have I imagine. After being speed-typing skills, since I do my best to just talking about history, I got to study grown from all of it? tortured throughout the whole year year take notes on my laptop (and occasionally how other people talk about history and Ask almost anyone from ages 10 to 17, by sine graphs, obscure Tanach sourc- type out jokes to my sister, who sits next why. Quite a shift. And there are always at least, and they’ll probably tell you that es, enough Spanish vocabulary to fi ll a to me). Then there’s math, which I have essays, nightly math and chemistry home- they hate school. I wonder if I should feel dictionary, novels for English class (fi ne, a love-hate relationship with. On one work, tests every week to study/cram for, the same way. Wouldn’t I rather just hang I’ll admit that I like those, except when hand, I enjoy working out problems as if and the like. But wait. I’m not fi nished with friends all day and not be subject- the author goes on a tangent about fab- they’re little jigsaw puzzles; on the other just yet. I like telling people that tenth ed to a ton of schoolwork misery? May- rics and jewels—I’m looking at you, Os- hand… they’re problems, not puzzles, and grade has been one big scheduling con- be, but when I think about how busy the car Wilde), and chemistry formulas that all the fun gets sucked out of them once fl ict. In the beginning of the year, I was a school year can get, I fi nd myself relish- might stymie Isaac Newton, now I get to I get stuck. The day continues with Eng- part of the school musicals, which met on ing it in a way. The challenge of staying be tortured by those things in the space lish (get ye olde and new literature here, Sundays, Mondays, and Thursdays for a on top of everything, getting everything of just two weeks! I’m exaggerating, but if thou wishest); Tanach (which, interest- few months. Then I also studied hard for done, putting in as much effort as I can fi nals defi nitely are not a fun time. But ingly, often delves into the psychology of the Chidon HaTanach, which met week- into both clubs and classes… and then enough about fi nals—by the time this people; it’s never just dry text), and health ly at lunch. I joined the fi lm club, which looking back at it all and seeing how gets published, I’ll be fi nished and fi nal- (which sadly does not cover sleep depri- worked on a few shorts and met on Thurs- much I’ve done. It’s a crazy feeling. Just a ly beginning summer break, which is the vation, a chronic misfortune I often suf- days. I tested out my new camera in pho- year ago, could I have risen to this task? quintessential teenager light at the end of fer). At least there are elevators you can tography club on Tuesdays, did a writing I don’t think so—which means that I’ve the tunnel. (I can predict now that read- use to travel through the building… if they program on Wednesdays, and wrote for changed. I can feel like I’ve gained some- ing this once I’m on break will make me come on time. (Offi cial slogan of Ramaz a few school publications some nights. thing, the personal strength to perse- laugh hysterically.) elevators: So crowded that you might suf- There sometimes seemed to be no time vere. And that’s a great way to cap off the Looking back at my school year over- focate, but at least you might get to class left in the day, and I often found myself school year. all, I feel that the best word that I would quicker!) having a hard time fi tting everything in. (For the record, I never said I liked use to defi ne it would be… busy. Not a At this point, mercifully (12:50 p.m.), The natural solution, of course, was to cre- school too much. Just in case the NSA or particularly exciting word, I know, but it’s it’s time for lunch. Then comes the after- ate another day of the week. I’ve named it some of my friends are reading this.) the one I would choose nonetheless. This noon, with classes like Hebrew language Orenday, and submitted a thousand-word year has been packed with a thousand dif- and Talmud (I love working through the proposal to the governor’s offi ce to have Oren Oppenheim, age 16, lives in Fair Lawn, New Jer- ferent classes, assignments, essays, tests, arguments, but wish Rava could get along him review it. Just kidding. (The gover- sey and attends Ramaz Upper School in Manhattan. He events, clubs, and 45 different varieties of with everyone sometimes) and Spanish nor would be too busy dealing with the spends his free time writing and reading, and hopes joy and stress. and all of my other secular and Judaic bridge scandal to read any of my propos- to become a published novelist. You can email him at Let me take you through my typical classes… but I think you get my point. als anyway.) 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34 June 19, 2014 • 21 Sivan 5774 201-371-3212 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBC.COM CHESED United Hatzalah Races To Save Lives
li Beer, founder of United Hatzalah of Is- Erael, has been racing to help people and save others his whole life. Now, on a muggy early summer day in June on Manhattan’s Roosevelt Island he was racing for the same reason. Only this time, instead of racing to save heart attack or car accident victims, he was doing it with a 5K fi nish line in mind. This was the annual Race to Save Lives charity run United Hatzalah has been hold- ing each of the last four years. This year, some 425 people participated and raised more than $1 million for what is Israel’s largest not-for-profi t, volunteer EMS organization. The money will go to- ward buying some 60 “ambucycles,” adding to the 300 the organization already fi elds, The start of the 5K on Roosevelt Island. Arielle, 3 ½ years old, and her sister Keira Fleischman, 6 years old, from which are used to treat 211,000 people in Bergenfi eld, N.J. sitting atop the ambucycle that was on site. 2013, 47,000 of whom had life-threatening injuries. Jerusalem ambulance squads as a teen, unteers. They could be grocers, tailors, fi - Along with pal Alex Goldberg of Riverdale, If Beer can get that number to 600— but soon found he was losing patients be- nanciers, but they all have made a pledge the Bronx, the pair discovered United Hat- each “ambucycle” costs about $26,000—he cause of traffi c. The tipping point came to carry the app and drive an “ambucycle” zalah and the Race to Save Lives, held in Je- says he can reduce the organization’s aver- one afternoon when he was summoned everywhere they go. rusalem its fi rst two years. age response time from an already unprec- to the scene of a little boy choking on a An ambucycle is a souped-up motorcy- In 2013, Watson brought the race with edented three minutes to under 90 sec- hotdog. cle that includes everything that an ambu- Goldberg to Manhattan. About 400 people onds. And seconds—as he’ll tell you—may “When I arrived, the lights and sirens of lance has besides a stretcher. The volun- ran, raising $1 million. make for personal bests in 5Ks, but when my ambulance prompted a doctor to come teers hop on their bikes, navigate traffi c, “The thing that attracted me to United United Hatzalah is involved, they can also out of a nearby house,” says Beer. “He came and respond in an average of three minutes Hatzalah wasn’t just the great work they do make the difference in someone seeing his over as we were doing CPR on the boy and or less. They stabilize the patient and await and people whose lives they change,” said or her child again, or a child living to fulfi ll he told us it was too late. And I thought to traditional EMS. United Hatzalah charges Watson, “it was the return-on-investment. the promise of a young life. myself, ‘There has to be a better way. If only nothing for its services. The organization When I fi rst learned of U.H. the entire “This is a tremendous organization and that doctor had known a boy was choking sustains itself entirely with donations. budget was around $3.5 million and they it does more good work than you or I will such a short distance away, he could have The model has been implemented in had responded to 220,000 emergencies the ever know,” said Yoel Fuld, a 45-year-old Te- helped. If only my ambulance had gotten São Paolo, Brazil and Panama City, Panama. prior year. So, if you do the math, that’s $16 aneck man as he did some mild stretching there sooner…that little boy would still be Training is under way in the Ukraine. Fund- for every response call. That’s an astound- ahead of the race at the 5K start line. “I’m alive, today. He might have children. Who ing is in place in Lithuania. Areas in India ing fi gure showing how a small donation here because I want to save lives.” knows what he would have lived to do?’” are interested. It’s gaining traction, slowly. of less than $20 can do incredible good for Beer, 40, has been acting on the same Today, all of United Hatzalah 2,300-plus Aharon Watson, 22, is a Yeshiva Univer- society. The way I thought of it was that for motivation for much of his life, or since volunteers have a GPS app loaded onto sity fi nance major from Teaneck. But in the same cost as a movie ticket, I could po- witnessing on a Friday afternoon at the their smart phones. When a call comes 2011 he had recently graduated from Yeshi- tentially save someone’s life.” age of 5 a bus explode on a Jerusalem into the emergency system, GPS is used to va University High School for Boys in Man- To learn more about United Hatzalah of street during the Intifada. Beer joined the locate the nearest fi ve United Hatzalah vol- hattan and was taking a “gap year” in Israel. Israel, please visit www.israelrescue.org. Senior Volunteers Mobilize to Help Community and Each Other
By Maayan Jaffe/JNS.org said that seeing the volunteers in action, she is often unsure who gets more out of ge can be just a number. “Just because it, “the folks we are helping or our folks Asomeone is older or has limitations themselves…They often forget their own does not mean that [he or she] cannot con- concerns as they focus on someone else’s tinue to be valuable and make a difference needs.” for others,” said Carol Silver Elliott, presi- In the spring, Chesed Corps received dent and CEO of Cedar Village Retirement two national awards for its work, one from Community in Mason, Ohio. the Association of Jewish Aging Services It was with this in mind that Cedar Vil- and another from Partners in Senior Life. lage’s Chesed Corps was established in In northwest Baltimore, older residents 2009. Elliot said the group, the brainchild of of an entire neighborhood are giving back a former director of resident programming, through a supported community network, came when staffers realized that many of which was launched by Comprehensive the center’s 300 residents had been success- Housing Assistance, Inc. in March 2013. ful business people and engaged communi- According to program director Risyl ty volunteers before moving to Cedar Vil- Edelman, Northwest Neighbors Connect- lage, and that there was an opportunity to ing (NNC) is a grassroots, membership- harness their drive. “We felt there was no based model in which services are provid- reason for them to stop contributing to our “Chesed Corps” volunteers of the Cedar Village Retirement Community in Mason, Ohio, create ed to seniors by other senior members, general community just because they lived paper snowfl akes in January 2013 to send to Sandy Hook Elementary School students volunteers, and vetted vendors. It gives the in a retirement community,” Elliott said. in Connecticut. The snowfl akes helped to welcome the students back to school after the area’s aging population the practical means Since then, a sizeable cohort of resi- shootings. Credit: Cedar Village Retirement Community. and confi dence to live independently and dents has been making Shabbat baskets remain in their homes and community. each week, which are delivered to Jewish ship cookies for American troops. “It is just But I fought my way back down and had NNC was created after a 2010 Jewish patients at area hospitals. Monthly, they absolutely amazing,” said Elaine Dumes, an amazing and quick recovery—in part, it community study revealed the 85-years- participate in larger projects, such as serv- 88, who has been active with the Chesed was due to this, to wanting to get back to and-older population increased by 166% ing lunch at the Ronald McDonald House Corps since its inception. She said it makes the Chesed Corps.” since 1999, and that 40% of Baltimore Jew- or offering music and a meal to the res- her feel good to give back to the communi- Elliot said Cedar Village is careful to ish seniors over 65 who are living alone are idents of the Center for Respite Care, a ty, and that she tries not to miss a program. staff each volunteer opportunity appropri- in poor or fair health. shelter for homeless men with short-term “I fell in the beginning of Decem- ately to ensure the safety of the residents. Edelman said NNC members are inter- medical needs. Participants serve at soup ber in my apartment and I broke my fe- Not every person can take part in every pro- viewed to learn what skills they can “eas- kitchens, collect and sort school supplies mur,” Dumes explained. “I had to go up- ject; some volunteer in the building, while for underprivileged children, and bake and stairs to the healthcare unit for a month. others are more comfortable going out. She CONTINUED ON P. 37
201-371-3212 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBC.COM June 19, 2014 • 21 Sivan 5774 35 NEWS FEATURE 20 Years After the Rebbe’s Death, Jewish Movements Increasingly Emulate Chabad
By Maayan Jaffe/JNS.org than most the importance of building rela- thodox Union. “As the rabbi of a tionships,” Wernick said. city he can have much greater im- any questions surrounded the future Schneerson also understood the impor- pact than just being the rabbi for Mof the Chabad-Lubavitch branch of Ha- tance of sending his shlichim, emissaries, to those who pay dues,” Weil said. sidism after the death of its seventh and fi - where the people were—even the most re- Weil noted that an additional nal leader—“the Rebbe,” Rabbi Menachem mote of locations—and of teaching those upside presented by Chabad emis- Mendel Schneerson—on June 12, 1994. Sch- people Torah. Today, according to most re- saries is that when a Chabad cou- neerson had no children, and no succes- ports, there are more than 4,000 Chabad ple is sent to a community, the sor was named. But 20 years later, Chabad emissaries around the world. couple is “there for life.” is not only alive and well, but increasingly “We all have what to learn from their… “When you look at a lot of receiving the so-called highest form of fl at- going out into the trenches to bring people communities—Reform, Conserva- tery: imitation. in,” said Rabbi Pesach Lerner, executive vice tive, Orthodox—the rabbis come Against the backdrop of last fall’s president emeritus of the National Council for a period of time and their goal much-discussed Pew Research Center of Young Israel. “If you want to accomplish is to get a good job and then get a survey of American Jews, many Jewish stuff, you’ve got to leave the building …That bigger pulpit in a bigger city,” said leaders across the denominational spec- is something [about Chabad] that has to be Weil, explaining if over a 30- or 40- trum are turning to Chabad for ideas to respected and emulated.” year period, there are six or sev- strengthen their own movements. Those This concept of outreach is now also en community rabbis, one never Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson in Brooklyn who spoke to JNS.org to refl ect on the being exercised by the Conservative move- really becomes a part of the peo- in May 1987. Credit: Mordecai Baron via Wikimedia Rebbe’s 20th yahrzeit may not agree with ment, said Wernick, who explained that ple’s extended lives. Chabad emis- Commons. Chabad’s religious outlook or practices, there is a push to engage, train, and deploy saries “become a part of the fam- and a number of them cited internal chal- rabbis, cantors, and master educators to ily, there at every stage,” Weil explained. become heads of major yeshivas. In the lenges within the movement, but all said population centers where there are young “There much longer, they have a more sig- Chabad movement, the best men become that when it comes to outreach, engage- Jewish adults as a fi rst step in re-defi ning a nifi cant and deeper relationship,” he said. emissaries. And those emissaries make life ment, and Jewish leadership, Chabad is to sense of kehila (community) for the move- “If we (the Orthodox community) could set easier for all Jews. Since Chabad shlichim be emulated. ment. While outreach may not seem like a structure where one can be a rabbi in a are positioned across the world, Jews know Ron Wolfson, the Fingerhut Profes- a unique concept today, “at the time in smaller Jewish community and we can fa- they can travel anywhere and still get a sor of Education at American University which Chabad did it, this was a great chidu- cilitate that he doesn’t have to feel isolat- kosher meal or a place to pray, said Lern- in Washington, D.C., recently coined the sh (new idea),” Wernick said. ed, that he can feel respected and that he er. Chabad also feeds the Jewish future, term “relational Judaism”—using the pow- Creating communities without walls has impact nationally by staying there 30, according to Lerner, who said most Jews er of relationships to transform the Jewish has been a secret to Chabad’s success. The 40, or 50 years, then we could have a much that become Orthodox later in life “some- community. But such an idea is not new, Chabad emissary “does not view himself bigger impact.” where along the line had involvement said Rabbi Steven C. Wernick, executive as a rabbi of a congregation, as serving As Weil put it, in the Modern Ortho- with Chabad.” Those Jews likely stayed the vice president and CEO of the United Syna- members of a synagogue,” but rather as a dox community, the best and brightest in- course because of a combination of persis- gogue of Conservative Judaism. community rabbi, said Rabbi Steven Weil, dividuals become hedge fund managers. In “The Rebbe understood much earlier former executive vice president of the Or- the haredi community, those same men CONTINUED ON P. 37 THE OBSERVANT JEW You Have Much Keys
By Rabbi Jonathan Gewirtz my memory, as if it just hap- linked to parnasah, but you can pened. Perhaps he was look- try to help someone who needs e’ve probably all ing for a larger donation and a job. Maybe you can write ré- Wseen little tod- wanted to get on my good sumés and can give them some dlers playing with keys. side by mentioning that as pointers, or simply have them They could be real, jin- I took my keys out of my in mind in your prayers. gly metal keys, or large, pocket to open my door, I There are other keys, too, clackety, plastic keys, looked like an important with which we have been en- but they seem to like keys. As they grow up, fellow. Personally, I felt the trusted. These are the talents, some children still like keys. Often, boys of whole idea of having keys abilities, and gifts that HaShem a certain age, perhaps 10 or 11 years old, look making you important was has bestowed upon us to be at keys as a sign of greatness. Whether it’s a ridiculous and preposter- used for a purpose. We are not power, importance, control, responsibili- ous one. given greatness for personal ty, or trust, some kids love to walk around On a deeper level, gain, but to fulfi ll the Torah and with bunches of keys, often clipped onto though, it’s absolutely cor- mitzvos and be a productive their belts, and they have a key for every- rect. What does a key sym- member of society. thing from their house to their bike to the bolize? It declares that the The fellow was right. I have suitcase they used last summer when they holder of it is trustworthy “much” keys. I am important went to visit Zaydie. They feel very con- enough to guard something because only I can use the keys nected to their keys as if the keys were a that is so precious it needs entrusted to me. This is the piece of their identities. to be locked away. The more keys one has, ing children, rain, and reviving the dead. same importance that each of us has. We’ve I never realized just how much a part the more places he is trusted. If a person Though certain prophets had some of these each been given keys, and doors and locks of our culture this was until a Hasidic fel- is so trusted, he must be important to the “keys” at specifi c times, none were entrust- to which they go, in order to fulfi ll some low from Israel who was visiting to col- people who rely on him to keep their valu- ed with all of them all the time. However, mission in God’s Creation. lect money asked me, “Are you very impor- able items safe. when they WERE given these keys, they You are important, and you, too, have tant?” Seeing that I was taken aback by this Forget the aspect of having physical were to use them wisely, properly, and for “much” keys. So go out and see just how unusual question, he clarifi ed in his halt- keys. I recall some kids who would pick up the good of mankind. many doors you can open when you use ing, limited English, “You have much keys.” keys from the street or add multiple copies You may not be able to revive the dead the gifts HaShem has given you. My initial reaction was to respond that of the same key just to have more keys on (though getting your kids up for school I didn’t have many keys at all! I have my their ring. But we all have been entrusted some days may seem like it), but you can Jonathan Gewirtz is an inspirational writer and speaker house key and a car key on my ring, plus a with keys by God, and that’s what we need revive someone’s spirit by offering him/her whose work has appeared in publications around the few supermarket loyalty cards. Did I really to think about. a smile and a kind word. Maybe saying, “It’s world. For more information, or to sign up for or spon- have “much” keys? I assured him I wasn’t The Gemara in Taanis 2a-b relates that so nice to see you again!” to a fellow who sor the Migdal Ohr, his weekly PDF Dvar Torah in Eng- really important, gave him a donation, and there are three keys that HaShem does looks lonely qualifi es as your Techiyas Ha- lish, e-mail [email protected] and put that was that. Awkward situation avoided. not give to human beings for long, or at Maisim. Subscribe or Sponsor in the subject. © 2014 by Jona- This event has remained with me, in the same time. Those are the keys to bear- You may not control the rain, which is than Gewirtz. All rights reserved.
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Senior 20 Years After “We have to reach out to our fellow vision and he implemented it,” he added. Jews with unconditional love,” said Rab- “This is what Jewish leaders today need; Volunteers the Rebbe’s bi Lord Jonathan Sacks, the former chief they need to have a clearer sense of ulti- rabbi of the United Kingdom. “We don’t mately what they want to achieve.” Mobilize to Help Death, Jewish do enough of that and Chabad has taught A leader is known by his followers, us how.” according to Rabbi Mark S. Miller, rabbi Community and Movements Yet even with Chabad’s open arms, the emeritus of the Reform-affi liated Temple emissaries never compromise their Jewish Bat Yam in Newport Beach, Calif. Each Other Increasingly values. “The fact that the Rebbe has galva- “You’ll never see a Chabad guy doing nized and inspired countless followers to CONTINUED FROM P. 35 Emulate Chabad something wrong to accommodate some- bring to millions a greater level of obser- one else,” said Lerner, noting that the vance and a passion for Judaism…speaks ily and happily” share with others, and CONTINUED FROM P. 36 movement proudly promotes traditional volumes about his leadership,” Miller said. to determine any needs they have. “After Jewish culture in the public square. Members of the Chabad movement they sign up, we plug them in,” said Edel- tence, said Lerner, and the lack of judg- Malcolm Hoenlein, executive vice “see that even if it is just a little spark, man. “While our vision is to assist peo- ment or pressure placed on them, said chairman of the Conference of Presidents there is something that unites us all,” ex- ple to remain in their homes for as long Wernick. They may have been brought in of Major American Jewish Organizations, plained Miller. “We have seen what divi- as possible, our work is to get them out to the fold of religious life because the bar- knew Schneerson personally and recalled sions have done,” he said. “Unity—I think of their house as much as possible.” rier was low and accessible, perhaps even that while he and the Rebbe did not al- that is what the Rebbe taught us.” Currently, there are more than 170 through the Internet or social media, both ways agree, the Rebbe always treated him NNC members and another 70 people tools that many believe Chabad used earli- with respect and love. Maayan Jaff e is a freelance writer in Overland Park, involved with the initiative in some er—and better—than other Jewish move- “He took bold positions, he inspired,” Kan. Reach her maayanjaff [email protected] or follow way. The oldest volunteer is 92. Trans- ments. said Hoenlein. “The Rebbe clearly had a her on Twitter at @MaayanJaff e. portation and technology assistance are among the top volunteer services provid- ed. In Florida, older adults and baby boomer volunteers are trained to func- tion as liaisons, resource specialists, peer counselors, and agency envoys in their own gated communities through the Ferd and Gladys Alpert Jewish Fam- ily and Children Services (JFCS) agency. Called “Ambassadors,” the program cre- ates a trained network of seniors who can solve problems and support their frail neighbors. Create Some 13,000 elderly people live in West Palm Beach retirement commu- nities, and as many as 70% of the area’s over-65 community is Jewish. The Smile “This is civic engagement at the ba- sic level,” said Jenni Frumer, the incom- ing JFCS CEO. You’ve Always Frumer explained that ambassadors are trained by JFCS to identify neglect, listen and offer empathy in times of cri- sis, and offer personal planning advice to Wanted their peers. The volunteers created their own end-of-life planning guide, which they distribute throughout their retire- ment communities. They also write and act out skits at area synagogues, mah- Providing a comfortable and caring environment in a state of the art facility. jong tournaments, and other venues, ed- Complimentary cosmetic and implant consultations. Mention this ad ucating seniors about matters such as and receive the need to wear their hearing aids, to remember to put their emergency alert 50% off buttons on in the morning, and to im- prove dialogue with their adult children. Zoom Whitening “Our older adults can still teach us or 50% off first how to make the world a better place,” Ȉ Ȉ Ȉ new patient said Cedar Village’s Elliot. “Their exam- cleaning ple of commitment and volunteerism Ȉ Ȉ Ȉ speaks volumes about Jewish values and our obligation to help others.” Ȉ Ȉ Ȉ
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By Jon Emont/www.tabletmag.com operated effi ciently during plained to Haaretz about (edited for brevity. See full story at http:// Egypt’s recent turmoil, trade relying on a Chinese company www.tabletmag.com/jewish-news-and- strategists see advantages in to build the rail line. …“Katz’s politics/175373/red-med-link-china-israel) developing alternatives to the plan to put the railway-to- Egyptian sea route. Eilat project into the hands n 2003, when Benjamin Netanyahu was fi - In order for goods to be of the Chinese while bypass- Inance minister, he unveiled a bold propos- transited to Eilat, the govern- ing proper tender processes al to build a high-speed rail line connecting ment will have to develop an and importing thousands of Eilat, Israel’s Red Sea port, to Ashdod, Is- effi cient means of delivering Chinese workers.” She con- rael’s largest Mediterranean port. The rail products from Eilat to Isra- tinued, “There’s no question line, he said, would form an alternative to el’s center. …goods that arrive the Chinese would be deep- the Suez Canal, enabling Israel to leverage in Eilat are currently trans- ly grateful to Yisrael Katz, but its status as the most stable country in the ited by truck to central Isra- the government’s fi rst duty Middle East and host cargo traveling from el. For most products this is is toward its own citizens.” the Far East to Europe. Ultimately, howev- expensive and ineffi cient. … This May, Yachimovich wor- er, the plan to supplant age-old trade routes Israel’s semi-privatized Port ried that “Israel is selling it- came to nothing. Israel’s economy was reel- Authority has developed a self off” to China as more Chi- ing from the Second Intifada, and there corollary plan to develop the nese companies buy Israeli was little appetite for grand infrastructure Port of Eilat to accommodate companies. projects. Netanyahu resigned from the gov- [the] increased demand…. The Yediot Aharanot quot- ernment over Ariel Sharon’s pull-out from same memorandum of un- ed [Former Mossad Director Gaza, and the vision for a high-speed rail derstanding that had Beijing Efraim] Halevy’s strong oppo- line went with him. agreeing to build and help fi - sition to China’s involvement Almost a decade later, with Egypt unsta- nance the line also had the in the rail project. “China is ble and trade with Asia increasing, Netan- Chinese agreeing to further promoting major projects in yahu has revived the idea of the “Red-Med” develop Eilat’s port. our area intended to establish rail line. In May of 2012, Netanyahu’s cabi- …In a January speech delivered to Israel’s vice to Europe, so that Europe will value points of infl uence, via the sea and via the net unanimously approved the project. That Institute of Security Studies [Netanyahu] more its friendship to Israel.” Despite these ports, that could assist the enemies of Isra- July, Yisrael Katz, Israel’s minister of trans- spoke about developing Israel into an en- exaggerations, …the rail line would have el, among other things, to greatly increase portation, signed a memorandum of un- trepot—a stable country that would host a “very important impact on Israel’s econ- their capabilities against Israel.” … [And] derstanding with his Chinese counterpart trade traveling from Asia to Europe. In a dif- omy” because it will speed trade between that Chinese involvement in the rail pro- announcing China’s involvement in the ferent speech he suggested that the route Europe and Israel and … provide a modest ject could damage Israeli-U.S. relations. The rail line’s construction. Earlier this year the Ministry of Transport responded to these government voted to fast-track the project, charges by denying that the United States overruling an appeal by the environmental “China is promoting major projects in our area would be bothered. protection minister. The Transport intended to establish points of influence, via Oded Eran disagreed …that Chinese in- Ministry estimates that construction will fl uence on the line would be detrimental take fi ve years. The aggressiveness with the sea and via the ports, that could assist the to Israeli security, telling me, “My interpre- which the Netanyahu Administration is enemies of Israel, among other things, to greatly tation is the Chinese are looking for eco- pursuing the rail project highlights the pri- nomic ventures, they are not looking for ority the administration places on develop- increase their capabilities against Israel.” political adventures. And I think the gov- ing trade ties with East Asia, even as critics ernment of Israel is capable of stopping the of the plan worry that Israel is becoming Chinese from taking advantage of [what is] too dependent on China. would be a gift to Israel’s Asian and Euro- but growing benefi t for Israel’s East Asian purely an infrastructure project.” According to Israel’s Economy Ministry, pean allies. …In an interview with Mainichi and European trade partners. …[Will] Jordan … be involved in the 2014 is the first year that trade to Asia will Shimbun, a Japanese newspaper, he capped [How will the Egyptians react?] Egyptian project or not[?] Jordan’s Aqaba Port, sit- exceed trade to the United States. Export an answer to a question about Israel’s set- GDP is dependent on Suez Canal fares, and uated directly across the Red Sea from growth to Asia is increasing at three times tlement activity by mentioning the advan- so far reports have varied about whether or Eilat, has access to deeper waters than the rate that it is to the United States tages the Red-Med line would offer East not Egyptian officials are concerned that Eilat and has recently undergone reno- and Europe. While Israel’s largest trading Asian countries that trade with Europe. the rail line will divert trade from Egypt. Is- vation. Haaretz reported on a developing partner remains the European Union, Still, outside experts are skeptical that— raeli government ministers … also stress… partnership between the Ports of Eilat and tension between European governments barring calamity in Egypt—the rail line will that the project is not designed to compete Aqaba that began in May, with Port Au- and Israel has led Israel’s Finance Minister actually provide a substantial alternative to with Suez. …There is little reason to think thorities in Aqaba agreeing to accept Israel- Naftali Bennett, as well as other prominent the Suez Canal for Far East-Europe trade. Ac- that Suez Canal traffi c, or Egypt-Israel rela- bound cargo manufactured in the United ministers, to advocate quickly transition- cording to Peter Sand, BIMCO’s chief ship- tions, will be much affected. Arab Emirates, which does not trade with ing to an Asia-oriented economic program. ping analyst, [it] will prove an expensive al- Israel. If the rail line were extended to Aqa- ternative for freight destined for Europe. he rail line will represent the largest ba—which has a larger and better-devel- primary hurdle to Israel’s “Asia pivot” According to Sand, “The trend is for larger …Tjoint infrastructure project in Israe- oped port than Eilat—the amount of cargo Ais that Israel’s infrastructure is orient- and larger vessels to be deployed on the FE li-China history. For China, the rail project traveling the line from the Red Sea to the ed westward; it is designed to handle Med- [Far East]-Europe trade, limiting the trans- represents a small supplemental route for Mediterranean could increase dramatical- iterranean, not Red Sea, trade. Even though shipment to a minimum in order to opti- Europe-destined goods and would make ly. Jordan and Israel’s governments enjoy there are major advantages to shipping mize your network and cut cost.” (Trans- trade more effi cient between China and Is- good relations, and in May Netanyahu ac- goods from Asia to Eilat, underdeveloped shipment refers to the cost of transferring rael. Because the Red-Med line would di- knowledged the possibility that Jordan Red Sea infrastructure means that, aside containers from ships and back. Transship- versify China’s trade routes, it can be seen could be involved in the project. from a few niche products, shipping be- ment costs would increase for goods on the in the same light as China’s recently com- The rail line’s forward progress offers a tween Israel and Asia goes via Israel’s Medi- Asia-Europe line because they would have pleted Eurasian Land Bridge, a rail line that picture of the complex ways China’s involve- terranean ports. to be unloaded at Eilat, loaded into train freights goods from central China all the ment in the region will transform Israel’s In an interview, Oded Eron—a former cars and reloaded onto a ship before go- way to Germany, China’s recent upgrading trade, infrastructure, and regional relation- Israeli diplomat who has studied the rail ing to their port of destination.) He estimat- of Athen’s Piraeus Port, or any of the other ships, as well as provide new security chal- line at the Institute for National Securi- ed that a fully operational rail line, in 2025, infrastructure projects that China is devel- lenges and domestic debates. What seems ty Studies, a Tel Aviv think tank—said that would at most attract 3 percent to 4 percent oping in East Africa and elsewhere. …Chi- clear is that as Israel adapts its infrastruc- there would be numerous advantages to of Asia-Europe trade, assuming there are no nese government offi cials even suggested ture to increasing trade with a rising Asia, making the transition between ports. Ship- diffi culties with the Suez route. that fi nancing for the rail line might come the country’s landscape—political, econom- ping to Eilat would reduce the length of …Israel’s Port Authority, …stressed… from the China Industrial Development ic, and actual—will also be transformed. the shipping route to Asia and therefore re- that the Red-Med line “is not intended to Bank, a state-owned bank that fi nances Like this article? Sign up for our Daily Di- duce shipping costs. It would allow freight compete with the Suez Canal.” Uriel Lynn, Chinese infrastructure projects in East Af- gest to get Tablet Magazine’s new content in destined for Israel to avoid the Suez Canal, of the Federations of Israeli Chambers of rica and elsewhere. your inbox each morning. Jon Emont is the which exacts substantial toll and demur- Commerce, who is a staunch backer of the …Israel’s China skeptics have worried co-director of Extend, an NGO that provides rage fees. Ships are often delayed as they plan, acknowledged in an interview that that it will be bad for Israel’s economy young American Jews with free tours of the wait for convoys to make the crossing, add- Netanyahu, …“glorifi ed it a little”…because and security. In 2012, Shelly Yachimovich, West Bank. He splits his time between New ing to costs. And while the Suez Canal has he “sees it as being more of a strategic ser- then Israel’s leader of the opposition, com- York and Tel Aviv.
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If your child frequently comes home is best equipped to objectively convey what Does My Child Have Friends? from school reporting that s/he has no is going on in school. Although the school friends and doesn’t want to go to school an- year has come to an end, and the teacher By Sariva Sklar and said, “No one in particular; I played ymore, ask open-ended questions leading has given you progress reports throughout with a bunch of kids today.” These possi- to a clearer picture of his/her day, as s/he the year, s/he will certainly be willing to ere’s a pretty common scenario: Your bilities would have put a whole new spin sees it. “What are your favorite centers and answer any question you may have. After Hchild comes home from school. You on the situation. Without taking a breath activities in your classroom? Who are the learning about how your child functions ask him, “Who did you play with today?” and considering this, you may have freaked children you would like to play with? Did socially in school, ask the teacher what s/ The answer you often get is, “Nobody.” Be- out (just a little bit) from the news that you ask some friends if you may play with he would suggest. Often, the next step may fore you panic, thinking your child has no your child has no friends, and called your them? Did you ask a friend to join in what be planning a play date after school or on friends, and that the answer always seems parents, spouse, and friends to ask what you were doing? Did you ask your teacher the weekend. to be the same, take a step back, and think should be done about this awful situation. to help you?” Play dates are great opportunities to ob- about the following: Your child may need In retrospect, after evaluation the situation, As you know, your child’s teacher serve your child in a social setting. Involve a while to unwind after a long school day you would be comfortable in the knowl- spends more waking hours with your child your child in planning the play date. Get and may only be ready to have a conversa- edge that your child navigated socially, during the school week than you do, so some suggestions from your child about tion a little later. Another thought: If your through calm waters, happily playing with your next step would be to ask the teacher child were older, he may have clarifi ed, several friends, in pairs or groups. what s/he observes in the classroom. S/he CONTINUED ON P. 50
Uri Moche, father of Victor and Rosie, was BPY Walkathon the winner of the father’s race; Tova Kaplan and Sam Lehrer were the winners of the HUGE Success girl’s and boy’s races, respectively. BPY families view the Annual Scholar- CONTINUED FROM P. 1 ship Walkathon as more than a fund rais- er and morning of fun. It is a celebration challah and boureka sales, cupcake decorat- of the culmination of another successful ing—a donor contributed $25 to the school school year and a time when BPY families for each photo submitted by BPY parents can come together as a community one fi - of a child doing an act of chesed. The BPY nal time before they disperse for the sum- community rallied and parents posted over mer. 400 photos on the BPY Facebook page. This Sarit Perry, BPY parent comments, project brought the concept to life for the “The Walkathon is one of my favorite children, and to the forefront of the Walk- events because it brings our school com- athon. munity together to accomplish some- Naomi Nussbaum, BPY parent and kin- thrilled that the children are learning about only them, but the entire community to thing good for our fellow families. Eve- dergarten teacher, had her class participate chesed by actually doing acts of chesed, not perform acts of chesed.” ryone is motivated for the good of our in the photo submission project by post- just reading or hearing about chesed. The As part of the fun of the day, fathers and school. It is a win-win event that families ing photos of her students packing boxes experiences and photos will last a lifetime, students participated in running races with enjoy, mixing tzedaka, chesed, fun, and for Tomchei Shabbat of Fair Lawn. “I am and hopefully will continue to inspire not the cheering encouragement of the crowd. community.”
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at times you were not always able to speak without letting it all out.” And if you would ways remember those words because they Stepping In verbally with me, we often communicated have broken down and cried , I would have made a lasting impression on me. in other ways. thought you were merely just being hu- I stepped into your life, but you stepped By Debby Pfeiffer You had so very much to complain man. You could have told me that your life into mine more. I don’t know that I could about. As a young man of only 33, eating was unfair, that you did not deserve what ever be on your level. To look adversity Dear D, became diffi cult for you, speaking became was dealt to you and that you were angry face to face every day and continue to be I, Debby, a Chaplain- Intern, stepped painstaking, going to the bathroom on with God. I know you felt comfortable talk- as grateful as you were was truly extraordi- into your room on a Monday morning back your own eventually became impossible, ing to me. You knew you could have said nary for me to see. All I can say is that you in September of 2013. You didn’t know me walking became laborious, and using your those things and I never would have judged were a role model to me of an individual and I didn’t know the fi rst thing about you fi ngers for grasping, emailing, and texting you. The fact that you never did showed who possessed courage, determination, ac- or your condition. Little did I know that I became something of the past. You became me that you were on a different level—a ceptance of a situation with grace and un- would have the honor of being able to ac- familiar with too many fl oors in the hospi- completely different plane. When I would derstanding and, more importantly, one company you and your dedicated parents tal and met way to many doctors and nurs- ask you how you were feeling, you would who taught appreciation of life by exam- on your very long journey and be there es. You had procedure upon procedure ac- quickly respond with “I am alive.” I specifi - ple. Your memory will forever be etched in with you until you took your last breaths companied by many sleepless nights. And cally remembered one time when I entered my heart. of life. yet, over the eight months since I knew your room, when you were able to speak D, may your special soul fi nd the rest The cancer you had put you through you, never once did I hear you ever com- clearly, and you greeted me with a big that it deserves and fi nd its place right next so much. The days when you were not in plain about your problems. smile. I said to you, “Wow, D, such a nice to God. the hospital you were in rehab. But most Sometimes, I would enter your room smile from you.” Your response to me was, Yours truly, of your days over the past eight months and I would think, “Today is the day. Today “What’s there not to smile about?” I will al- Debby since I have known you have been in the he will let out all of his anger and frustra- hospital. I visited with you two to three tions and describe to me of how he is suf- times a week and I think that I got to know fering. Today he will break because there is Read Carefully to look around in bewilderment. They then you fairly well during this time. Although just so much that one person can handle darted nervous glances at the parents seat- Before Using ed behind them. No one else seemed con- fused or upset. The audience was fully fo- CONTINUED FROM P. 30 cused on a self-assured Rebecca. What no one else seemed to realize was in to “Pomp and Circumstance” and the fes- that the Class Valedictorian was now recit- tivities began: “The Star-Spangled Banner.” ing “Mary Had a Little Lamb,” in perfect, “Hatikvah.” The inevitable greetings from fl owing Hebrew and with great dramatic the principal after which came the wel- fl air. At the same time, her classmates were come from the school president. To lighten poking at each other in delight and giggling the mood, the girls performed a beautiful helplessly. Once again, Rebecca had success- choral rendition. Finally it was time…time fully proved her point. for the class stars. It goes without saying, that Rebecca’s Rebecca strolled confi dently to the valediction was a graduation speech that stage. In fl owing Hebrew she effortless- would be long remembered by her class- ly delivered her speech. The fi rst two rows mates and often spoken about at her high of the auditorium were fi lled with smiling school. Rebecca went on to become a suc- teachers and administrators. Proudly, they cessful lawyer. Mrs. Klein, on the other nodded along with beaming faces to Rebec- hand, switched schools. ca’s opening words on the parsha. Suddenly the nodding stopped and the smiles froze, Estelle Glass, a Teaneck resident, is a retired educator as the educators in the front seats started who is now happily writing her own essays.
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By Rabbi Dr. General guidelines: ER talk about your spouse in a derogatory from each other and help our marriages Mordechai Glick In these sessions, we raised some issues fashion, especially, never, ever, in front of grow and fl ourish. that many couples sometime struggle with others. Therefore, try to phrase the issue as Please write to me about things that ina and I have fre- and asked for ideas of what might be help- “our problem” rather than his or her prob- you have found helpful in solving prob- Nquently facilitated ful in dealing with those situations. Particu- lem. It is especially helpful for the one lems (possibly, even very painful problems) sessions in marriage larly helpful were things that have worked talking to take responsibility for the prob- in your marriage, even if the solution still enhancement for cou- even if the same problems came up again, lem, e.g., “I am very sensitive to criticism, leaves a lot of diffi culty. You don’t have ples with great or av- or many times. Life is, after all, an endless so when my husband/wife tries to make to identify yourself, and can be perfectly erage marriages who would benefi t from series of problems, and our job is to try to suggestions about improving my driving, open. In cases where anonymity is utmost sharing ideas with others. At one, an OU understand them (often VERY diffi cult), ac- I get very upset and just don’t talk. I (we) and you are more comfortable, please mail Marriage Enhancement Retreat, we en- cept and admit that we likely share at least have found that……...can help us get past them to me at 437 New Bridge Road, Ber- countered many couples who, at night or a little part of the cause (even MORE dif- the problem.” genfi eld 07621. I will look over the respons- during free time, spontaneously congregat- fi cult), admit to our part of the problem Nina and I have learned (and are still es and report back to the readers about ed to discuss some of the issues that had without saying “if you hadn’t done this, I learning) many things over our many years what people have come up with. Hopefully come up during sessions. Much of the dis- wouldn’t react that way” (EXTREMELY dif- of marriage that have helped us to general- it will be as good in written form as it has cussions centered around some of the strat- fi cult), and then try to come up with things ly overcome the obstacles that are a part of been live. egies that they found helpful in their mar- that might help. every marriage and have enabled us often riages. After one of those informal sessions, Since the purpose of this session was to avoid problems, delay problems, reduce Please feel free to contact me regarding this (or any) we realized how benefi cial it is for couples to help one another better deal with the problems, and solve problems in a way topic. You can do so anonymously by writing to morde- to do this. We therefore decided to facili- kinds of problems that virtually all cou- that has allowed us to build a close to fairy [email protected] Dr. Glick was a clinical psycholo- tate such a session and found that it was ples sometimes struggle with, the focus tale marriage, a marriage that many people gist in private practice for 35 years as well as the rab- very useful. After that OU retreat, we used was on what works or is helpful. This was only dream about. We are sure that every bi of Congregation Ahavat Yisrael in Montreal. If you that concept at many other marriage shab- NOT a gripe session. Obviously, you can’t one of you has likewise learned things that would like to submit a question, or contact him for an batonim and retreats that we participated discuss the solution without describing can really make a difference, and invite you appointment, he can be reached at mordechaiglick@ in, all producing many good ideas. the problem. However you should NEV- to share those things so that we can learn gmail.com or by calling him at 201-983-1532. The 21st-Century Bystander Effect Happens Every Day Online
By Vincent F. Hendricks
f you’re going to fall, injure yourself, and The 21st-century bystander Ineed help, where is a good place to do it? The simulation is a work in progress Should you choose a busy thoroughfare or but how the phenomenon plays out in a deserted backstreet? Statistics and exper- this context could have interesting impli- iments in social psychology will tell you cations for how we look at our online be- that if you need help, you should avoid havior. The bystander effect occurs because dropping on a busy street, even if hundreds people observe each other before assisting. of people are passing through. This is be- And the more people observing each oth- cause of a phenomenon known as the by- er, the stronger [is] the signal that help is stander effect. The more individuals gath- neither required nor appropriate. Once you ered in one place, the less chance there is take such public signals to social media in of one of them coming to the aid of a per- terms of, say, aggregated likes, you may just son in need. When an emergency situation reinforce bystander behavior even more. occurs, it’s more likely that someone will In the case of cyberbullying, by inno- come to the rescue if there are fewer or al- cently “liking” you may be part of move- most no witnesses. ment to establish a strong public signal And in the 21st century, when our thor- about what the correct collective response oughfares are online and on social net- is. You register your “like” with no obliga- works, millions of people are effectively tion to actually intervene and non-inter- passing each other by every minute. The Watch your step in Copenhagen – no one else will. vention may just become the norm. Thou- presence of other people has long been Photo credit: jacobchristensen, CC BY-NC-SA sands and even millions of people witness shown to give rise to confusion about re- terrible human behavior online every day, sponsibility. Since there are other peo- central Copenhagen—a young woman, a from intervening. If a young man falls hold- but how many of us actually do anything ple around, each individual is less pressed young man, and an elderly man. Each actor ing a can of beer, a clear public signal for about it? We may have a serious problem to take action, given that the responsibili- had two different outfi ts—a business suit others to walk on by might be sent because about the meaning and power of public sig- ty for taking action is assumed to be even- and a shabby-looking costume. It turns out of the social stigma attached to humans nals. These could severely infl uence ration- ly distributed amongst those present. One that the clothing alone elicited strong pub- with beer cans. If the beer can is removed, al deliberation, decision, and action, both may be tempted to think that when a sin- lic signals. help is offered much more quickly. online and offl ine. gle person realizes that the others aren’t If the young woman or man or the el- The information we gathered will now DISCLOSURE STATEMENT: acting on their responsibility, then the en- derly gentlemen were wearing business be fed into a computer simulation to test Vincent F. Hendricks does not work for, con- tire burden of responsibility falls to them. suits and fell, the time it took for someone out whether the bystander phenomenon sult to, own shares in, or receive funding from But if a situation is ambiguous and it’s not to intervene could be as short as a few sec- is robust over, say, thousands of runs. We any company or organization that would ben- clear whether help is needed or not, observ- onds. For the actors wearing shabby outfi ts, have isolated simple features like aware- efi t from this article, and has no relevant affi l- ers may take the inaction of other people as it could take up to around four minutes for ness vicinity, attention time, the passerby’s iations. The Conversation is funded by the fol- a sign that there is no reason to intervene. anyone to intervene, even though plenty of line of vision, and other characteristics lowing universities: Aberdeen, Birmingham, people witnessed the accident. More sur- enough to generate the bystander effect in Bradford, Bristol, Cardiff, City, Durham, Updating the research prising is that the presence of certain peo- virtual environments. Glasgow Caledonian, Goldsmiths, Lancaster, The bystander effect has been well re- ple transmitted such a powerful public sig- When an accident appears in the virtu- Leeds, Liverpool, Nottingham, The Open searched over the past 50 years, but most nal that entire groups would refrain from al environment, passersby have a “radar” University, Queen’s University Belfast, Sal- experiments have taken place in controlled intervening even though they all witnessed screen of awareness, an angle of vision, and ford, Sheffi eld, Surrey, UCL, and Warwick. situations and focused on small popula- the accident. When a tour guide passed by the option to devote a certain amount of It also receives funding from: Hefce, Hefcw, tions. My group at the University of Copen- without acting, for example, none of his time to the incident. Whether they choose SAGE, SFC, RCUK, The Nuffi eld Foundation, hagen has run a number of experiments in group did either. He sent a strong public to observe, intervene, or walk on turns out The Wellcome Trust, Esmée Fairbairn Foun- the center of the city to kick off a new ap- signal that there was no need to intervene to be acutely sensitive not only to the way dation, and The Alliance for Useful Evidence. proach to the problem. The experiments and his group followed like lemmings. in which the parameters are set, but also to involved getting three actors to take a tum- What’s more, objects can be used to whether or not others are in the immedi- Vincent F Hendricks is Professor of Formal Philosophy ble on one of the main thoroughfares in transmit public signals that deter people ate vicinity. at University of Copenhagen.
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My rules are actually quite logical, and I don’t make it up It Wasn’t Just the Parking as I go along. As a public service, I publish them here in the Link. They follow the secular calendar unless other- By George H. Friedman ing to Teaneck. As I wrote previously, they confi rmed to wise noted. Note that, as a general rule, I will not take the us that Teaneck had great parking and was an up-and- Bridge the afternoon before any Jewish holiday (well, may- n a previous column I related how coming Jewish community. But I now recall what real- be Tu b’Shvat): IEllen and I settled in Teaneck near- ly sold me on Teaneck. Ellen and I had this conversation: Event ...... Take the Bridge? ly 40 years ago because of the ample, ELLEN: Eddie and Barb think we would like Teaneck. Martin Luther King Day ...... Sure. Also includes any Sunday of a 3-day week- easy, and free parking here as com- It has a really nice Jewish community, a bus that goes to end pared to Queens. Actually, that was the City, and there’s a kosher pizza place. Presidents Day ...... Nope not the whole story. The recent dis- ME: What about the parking? Easter ...... Toss-up. Check the traffi c reports astrous traffi c nightmare on the George Washington ELLEN: They say there’s plenty of free street parking, Mother’s Day ...... Are you insane? Not happening Bridge (“the Bridge”) reminded me that there was an- and no meters. And they think they can get us into their Memorial Day ...... Yes. other motivating factor for our move to Teaneck: the apartment complex. Father’s Day...... Probably. Unless the Yankees are home Bridge. ME: What’s the town’s name again? July 4th ...... No, sir How so? Many, many years ago, probably in the ear- ELLEN: Teaneck. Puerto Rico Day Parade...... No, señor ly 1970s about six years B.C.* and two years B.M.** when ME: Isn’t that the place with the sign that says “If You Israel Day Parade ...... (sigh) Yes Ellen and I were dating, we visited friends at a bunga- Lived Here, You’d Be Home”? Labor Day ...... No, unless it’s an early in-and-out, hit-and-run low colony in the Catskills one fi ne summer Sunday. ELLEN: Yes. I think that’s the place. drive-by visit On the way back to our homes in Douglaston, Queens ME: Oh, then let’s settle there! I hate Bridge traffi c. Thanksgiving ...... What?? I would sooner host 25 people (which we and New Hyde Park, LI late that afternoon, we encoun- do every year) tered a monumental traffi c jam on Route 4 heading to- George’s Bridge Rules Christmas ...... Not eve; yes day ward the Bridge; I mean a total standstill backed up to Having lived in Teaneck for almost four decades, I Within 3 hours of a Yankee game...... No way. And I hope they lose Teaneck, just like what happened at Bridge-gate. Ellen am still obsessed by the Bridge. My life in many ways is Within 3 hours of a Mets game ...... Sure. What’s another 24 cars? and my kids will attest that I am impatient and easily structured around the Bridge and anticipated Bridge traf- Any of those bike tour events ...... Nope irritated in general, and with traffi c jams in particular. fi c. For example, for the last 15 years of my career, I com- So, there you have it, some simple rules to preserve Even my grandkids know. For example, just this week muted to work on Wall Street by ferry from Weehawken. your sanity. Maybe I’ll turn this into an app. Just enter my six-year-old granddaughter graduated kindergarten. I typically took Route 4 East toward the Bridge, exiting when you plan to travel and the app advises you what to After she ascertained that I would be showing up, she at the last exit before the Bridge in Fort Lee and then do, kind of like GPS with ESP…ESGPS anyone? And, keep asked “Will you be patient?” Really….I’m not making this taking local roads to Weehawken. I quickly learned that this in mind: if my rules don’t work because there is an un- up. Anyway, back to the story. As I munched on the leaving Teaneck after 6:30 in the morning was fraught expected traffi c mess, if you live in Teaneck you can turn steering wheel and fumed about the traffi c, I noticed a with potential Bridge traffi c peril. So I starting leaving around and be home! sign on the side of the road near Belle Avenue that said by 6, and usually arrived at work very early. One of my ------“If You Lived Here, You’d Be Home.” (By the way, I think new colleagues asked my executive assistant this ques- * Before Children ** Before Marriage the Township leadership should resurrect that sign after tion: “Why does Mr. Friedman get to work so early?” To the traffi c mess). which she responded “The Bridge.” George Friedman and his wife Ellen are members of Congregation Beth Aar- The sign didn’t register at the time, but a few years Over the years, I have developed rules on when I will on, and have lived in Teaneck for 37 years. He sits on the Board of Arbitration later when we were apartment hunting and were frus- head to the Bridge, and when I won’t. Ellen thinks I just Resolution Services, the world’s fi rst completely online dispute resolution fo- trated with the bad parking in Forest Hills, Ellen’s broth- invoke the “No Bridge Today” rules whenever I don’t rum, and has taught arbitration at Fordham Law School since 1996. 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called Hans Beauty Salon taller, smarter, funnier (un- Becoming Cinderella in Leonia. You can make an fortunately, still the same appointment, or you can be weight), but feeling great… By Banji Latkin Ganchrow ing picture perfect, as it always did. This, really obnoxious and walk like Cinderella (during the I would think to myself, might be some- in and cut the whole line (I ball). Then, of course, you hen I go on Facebook thing I could get used to. have only seen one specifi c get to where you are go- Wand see pictures of For those of you who know me, I am person do this, most of the ing and someone half your adorable little girls get- most comfortable in glasses and a TBO women are pretty friendly). size is wearing the same ting manicures, sever- sweatshirt, so when I have to go out in The women who work at dress. But it doesn’t mat- al thoughts go through my head. Many public where a different uniform is re- this magical place greet you ter because you are having of them cannot be written down, but the quired, one that requires makeup (yuck), as if you are a long lost friend and then, one great hair day and that makes you the one that is “column appropriate” is that stockings (double yuck), and some form the most amazing thing happens. You sit queen of the castle. my mom never went for manicures (she of shoe that doesn’t have a Nike symbol in a chair and 15–20 minutes later, and I So ladies, or random gentleman, treat always does her nails herself), her mom on it (yuck, yuck, yuck), oh, and a dress— don’t know how they do it, they transform yourself to what makes you feel beautiful never went for manicures, and her mom… we must not forget the dress, that would you into a princess. You hair looks radiant because you deserve it! (And I have yet to well, it’s not listed in the Ellis Island reg- be really bad—basically the whole thing and perfect…like you are about to star in hear the urban legend about the woman istry if my great-grandmother got off the makes me anxious. But about a year ago, a shampoo commercial. Your confi dence who went for a blow out and walked out boat from Poland with her nails done in someone told me about a magical place is at a new high. You rise from the chair with only half of her hair…) some trendy color, but I am assuming the answer is no. Due to the history of the no-mani- cure policy, my mom never took my sis- ter or myself to have our nails done (un- less she did and I just didn’t know about it, adding to all of the material that will be Bead, Stone, and Trim Wholesaler in my “neglected middle child” article). In fact, the fi rst and only manicure I ever re- ceived was the night before my wedding in the house of some woman, who came “highly recommended.” (How did that in- formation not make the New York Times?) New York City Bead & Trim Wholesaler moves to Englewood! You hear one urban myth about the wom- an whose fi ngers got so infected that they fell off and you never want to walk into a nail salon (yet, they are always crowded Supplying beaders, jewelry designers, costumers, and yes, my mom actually did develop an and craft lovers for over 90 years! infection from the one fateful manicure that we got together on August 19, 1995). Basically, I am the 1%—the 1% of women who don’t get their nails done on a week- ly basis and don’t have a smart phone. I am surprised that I haven’t been kicked off the island. The fact that I have all boys has not re- ally changed this situation. The fact that I have all boys and I am a terrible mom and don’t make them wash dishes (or do any- thing else, for that matter) just means that I no longer take the time to wear nail pol- ish at all, because it comes off after wash- ing all of the pots and pans and dishes and glasses, milking the cows and getting fresh eggs from our chicken coop (cue theatrical violin music here.) If I had three girls in- stead, would things be different? I doubt it, because I would probably still have the same husband who would ask me why I have to pay someone to do their nails when I could do them myself (again, ma- terial for another article). sSimulated PearlssDruzysFindingssRhinestone Bandings Now my paternal grandmother, the sPressed Glass BeadssRhinestone Rondelless one who kindly gave me her penchant sVintage BeadssResin BeadssCrystal Beadss for saying almost anything that is on my sHot Fix MotifssChainsCompression Moulded Stoness mind. 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