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MARCH 21, 2016 | 11 ADAR 11 5776 ESTABLISHED 1937 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM | $2 ‘You’re all my brothers and sisters; I don’t know how to thank you enough’ Ziad and Fidaa Al Sahhar and their three children, the Syrian refugee family sponsored by Temple Israel, arrived in last month and are happily adjusting to their new life. Louise Rachlis reports.

he feelings of appreciation were Immigration Canada’s Joint Assistance as warm and strong as the Program, which partners with organiza- Turkish coffee, as the Al Sahhar tions to help settle refugees with special Tfamily spent a recent Sunday needs – a program the family qualifi ed afternoon in their new apartment for due to Sendos’ health condition. The visiting with Lori and Jordan Rosove of support through the program is for 12 the Temple Israel Social Action months. In combination with the Committee, an interpreter, and a reporter Temple-raised funds, the family will be from the Ottawa Jewish Bulletin. supported for about two years, explained Last fall, in just fi ve weeks, Temple Lori. Israel raised suffi cient funds to sponsor a Because of Sendos’ condition, a doctor Syrian refugee family to Ottawa. Since was on board the family’s fl ight from then, the committee has worked with Beirut to Montreal to care for her and for co-ordinating offi cials from Jewish four other patients with medical needs Family Services to ensure the family’s during the trip. transition to life in Canada has gone “He had been awake for 48 hours smoothly. straight,” said Jordan Rosove. “Despite It had been less than three weeks since this incredible demand on him, his care their arrival in Ottawa, and Lori Rosove for our family’s daughter Sendos was described it as “unbelievable.” exceptional.” “We have completed approximately 23 “We were amazed by how much people major tasks since that time and it feels cared about us, and were doing every- like they have been here much longer,” thing to make us happy,” said Ziad, who,

she said. with Fidaa, spoke to the Bulletin through LOUISE RACHLIS The Al Sahhar family, who are Muslim, Nada, a volunteer interpreter. Ziad Al Sahhar and his children, Tarek, Sendos and Mohammed, work on include parents Ziad and Fidaa, sons “We were worried and had so many a puzzle with Lori Rosove of the Temple Israel Social Action Committee. Tarek, 11, Mohammed, six, and daughter concerns about our life. But, when we got Sendos, who is almost seven. They came here, everything had been taken care of. A team of more than 30 Temple Israel the family’s initial settlement require- to Canada through the Citizenship and We can breathe properly,” he said. volunteers organized and collected all of See Family on page 2

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Continued from page 1 there – so we didn’t need an interpreter.” ments. Tasks were broken down into When they do have an interpreter, Lori categories like clothing, furniture, and her volunteers take advantage of that translators, education resources, lan- to chat with the family and ask them guage classes. Their goal – which was met about themselves and their experiences. – was to have the entire apartment set up “We’ve learned that they left their and stocked, so the family could go from home in Syria two years ago,” she said. airport to their new apartment on “They heard the fi ghting was coming Meadowlands Drive. close to their town and so they moved. “We like the furniture, everything!” Shortly after, their house was bombed.” said Ziad, enthusiastically. “We were Ziad, who had been a painter for 20 surprised that there was even food years, started to get painting work in prepared for us. We didn’t need to buy Lebanon and went back and forth to anything.” Syria every two weeks. When it got even Lori described for them how, before he more dangerous, the family moved to an passed away, a man in his 80s told his apartment in a town outside Beirut. Their executor he wanted his furniture to go to 11-year-old son had not been in school a family who needed it. “I know exactly since they left Syria. who we’re giving the furniture to,” his “They made a family decision to executor replied. emigrate,” she said, “and they were told The children were clustered around by the United Nations that they had to go the TV set watching cartoons, and there to Canada. They didn’t have a choice. were big smiles all around. Ziad told me that a few years earlier he “The children are very happy and had met someone who had travelled to adjusting very well,” said Fidaa. “The Canada and he told him it was a beautiful only challenge is language, and they are place ...When the UN offi cial said ‘you working on it. They are excited about can go to Canada,’ he broke down and everything.” said ‘this my dream!’ They are unbeliev- LOUISE RACHLIS The family is from a remote village, ably grateful; they are caring, affection- Ziad Al Sahhar holds his daughter Sendos, who has special needs, and spoke no English before arriving in ate, people and say ‘thank you’ many on a recent Sunday afternoon at the family’s new home in Ottawa. Canada. But they are all working very times a day.” hard on their English lessons. Imam Mohamad Jebara of the Cordova “The English teacher is very, very, Centre mosque recently held a service to good,” said Ziad. “Everything is very new which Temple Israel members were for me, but I’m starting to learn English.” invited. A Temple volunteer brought Ziad An illustrated Arabic/English diction- and, when he was introduced to Rabbi ary sits on the shelf in the living room, Rob Morais, Ziad said, “You’re all my ready for use. brothers and sisters. I don’t know how to “The English teacher takes her time thank you enough.” and is very supportive,” said Fidaa. “I feel Sue Potechin, principal of the Temple there is already a difference.” Israel Religious School, asked the pupils While Fidaa misses her sisters and to draw welcoming pictures for the brothers overseas, she said she feels she family. has family here: the people who have “The mother thanked us very much,” helped them. said Lori, “and said they were beautiful.” Earlier in the week, Temple volunteer The Al Sahhar family is happily Eva Lazar took Fidaa to register at OHIP planning their permanent life in Canada. and then picked up Ziad at his adult “We already feel this is our country, school and took him to OHIP. and I hope to be able to learn English well “Any time we do any major task, we and support my family,” said Ziad, who need an interpreter,” Lori said. “We have would like to resume house painting as an interpreter co-ordinator as one of our soon as he’s made suffi cient progress in volunteers, and she assembled a list of his language lessons. interpreters that we can call when Ziad said he and Fidaa want to thank needed. It has been working out very well everyone who helped them come to

... However, one Sunday, we took them to Canada. LOUISE RACHLIS a Jewish Family Services potluck and “They are a model of how everyone in It was “my dream” to come to Canada, says Ziad Al Sahhar, seen here there were many Arabic-speaking people the world should be,” he said. with six-year-old son Mohammaed in their new home in Ottawa.

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t has become a tradition of mine to write a column you were lucky enough to be invited to their compound, for the Ottawa Jewish Bulletin marking each year it came with an expectation that you would play and that I am privileged to serve as your CEO. If any- compete. President Kennedy’s inauguration challenge Ithing, my passion for the Jewish Federation of was a natural extension of his family’s philosophy Ottawa and our Jewish community has only increased ostensibly demanding that everyone get in the game. these past three years. President Kennedy’s brief time in offi ce affectionately Each year has been fi lled with different challenges, came to be known as Camelot. “Don’t let it be forgot wonderful opportunities, and passionate dialogue and that once there was a spot, for one brief shining debate. While a few less challenges might have been moment, that was known as Camelot.” appreciated, it has always been interesting and we True confession: as a teenager, I had posters of continue to move the needle on Jewish engagement president Kennedy and Robert Kennedy on my bed- PHOTO: HOWARD SANDLER and community building. room walls alongside Rob Lowe and John Stamos. “Actively promote Jewish programs and activities to your social network and encourage others to get Recently, I found myself re-reading speeches from the Clearly, when I was young, I bought into the notion of in the game,” says Federation President and all-too-brief political life of former U.S. president John F. Camelot, in part, owing to the glamour of the Kennedy CEO Andrea Freedman. Kennedy. His eloquence continues to resonate today as family. And, in part, because of the fervent optimism does his famous challenge to “ask not what your Camelot represented about a bright and promising country can do for you, ask what you can do for your future, and the understanding that shaping this passion. Outreach – be a person who attends a program country.” This is not merely wonderful prose, but an exciting new frontier, was a shared responsibility from or services and when there, helps create a welcoming exhortation to accept responsibility for our shared which nobody was exempt. environment. Actively promote Jewish programs and future. What does this mean for Jewish Ottawa in 2016? activities to your social network and encourage others Amongst other things, the Kennedy family is well If you care about the community, get involved. to get in the game. Give generously – funds to known for their raucous touch football games and if Volunteer your time for Jewish causes that ignite your See Freedman on page 11 4 March 21, 2016 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM

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NOMINATIONS NOW OPEN Newly Revised FOR THE 2016 COMMUNITY SERVICE AWARDS COMMUNITY SERVICE AWARDS • All Community Service Award Shem Tov Community Volunteer Award nominees must be members in good The Shem Tov Community Volunteer Award recognizes an outstanding volunteer for a lifetime of standing of the Jewish Federation of service dedicated to the betterment and enrichment of Jewish life in Ottawa. Ottawa (minimum gift to the Annual All nominees must have volunteered a minimum of 25 years in Ottawa’s Jewish community and Campaign) and cannot previously have continue to be active within the last three years. Only volunteer work within Ottawa’s Jewish received the award for which they community will be considered. Volunteer work can be with any one organization or across multiple organizations. are nominated.

“There are three crowns: the crown of Torah, the crown of priesthood, and the crown of kingship; To be considered, nominations must but the crown of a good name excels them all.” - Rabbi Shimon include 2 letters of support, including one from an organization. The nomination must specifically Freiman Family Young Leadership Award address all the outlined criteria.

The Freiman Family Young Leadership Award recognizes a member of the Ottawa Jewish community 40 and under, who has demonstrated proven leadership to the benefit of Ottawa’s Nominations for all awards will be Jewish community. considered for the year in which they All nominees must have volunteered in Ottawa’s Jewish community a minimum of are received and will be carried over 3 years and be currently involved. once. Awards are presented at Additional • Proven leadership, with further potential for growth and involvement. criteria for Federation’s Annual General Meeting • Demonstrates ability to motivate and inspire others. consideration held in June. • Positively impacts Ottawa’s Jewish community. includes:

This year’s deadline for nominations is April 8, 2016. Student Leadership Award “NEW” Please visit www.jewishottawa.com The Student Leadership Award recognizes a student currently pursuing a post-secondary degree for a complete listing of who demonstrates leadership and outstanding commitment to the Ottawa Jewish community. Community Service Awards. All nominees must have volunteered for a minimum of 3 years and be currently involved. • Proven leadership, with further potential for growth and involvement. Additional For information, please contact Alecia criteria for • Demonstrates ability to motivate and inspire others. consideration at 613-798-4696 x 236 or • Current involvement positively impacts Ottawa’s Jewish community. includes: [email protected] •

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issues, which directly affect the required Hillel Lodge needs level of individual care. While virtually every other long-term care facility in Ottawa has cut staffi ng levels in the past your help more than ever three years, the Lodge’s board of direc- tors only reluctantly began to make offi cial accreditation in 1987. It was then residents set by the government. reductions in part-time staffi ng shifts in the smallest home in Ontario to achieve Even though Hillel Lodge is a kosher 2016 to cope with the reduced funding. that designation. facility, which entails signifi cantly higher We are currently trying to fi nd ways to How Hillel Lodge has retained its long food costs than other facilities, the Lodge reinstate those staffi ng levels. We are standing for quality care and services is cannot increase its rate to residents. focussed on our mission to provide the explained by the dedicated team of Funding by the province provides no highest level of resident care, but this is professionals and care providers. The allowance for kosher food. extremely challenging under the current

FEDERATION REPORT average full-time staff person has been In recent years, the Ontario govern- funding model. STEPHEN SASLOVE with Hillel Lodge 11 years. Excellent ment has changed its funding methodol- The Lodge never could exist from year HILLEL LODGE leadership is paramount in building and ogy. This has resulted in decreased to year without the generosity of the retaining a great team. Elizabeth funding. The Lodge has seen its annual Ottawa Jewish community. The Lodge illel Lodge is a jewel in the Richard, a 37-year veteran, is Hillel funding decline by $450,000. When one receives assistance through the Ottawa Ottawa Jewish community. Lodge’s director of Environmental considers that nursing care and special- Jewish Community Foundation and the But, even after 60 years of Services and co-ordinator of Quality ized services and equipment costs are Jewish Federation of Ottawa’s Annual operation, there may be Management. Elizabeth has been the most signifi cant expenditures of Campaign. We are also grateful to the H Hillel Lodge Auxiliary for its annual aspects about the Lodge of which you responsible for guiding almost every operating a long-term care facility, we may not be aware. accreditation process since its onset. can understand how the rapid decline in telethon and tea. Biking for Bubbies, Hillel Lodge continues to be recog- Elizabeth will be retiring in the spring of funding has put extreme pressure on under the leadership of Seymour nized by Accreditation Canada as a home 2016. It is an understatement to say that maintaining the highest quality care for Mender and Adam Schacter, is also a that delivers quality care and services. Hillel Lodge will miss her. Elizabeth is which the Lodge is known. vital fundraiser. Endowment funds are Accreditation is a process that measures working with her fellow management This funding reduction came at a time growing, and we are extremely thankful the Lodge on a scale of standards with team to bring about an orderly when many new residents entering the to the endowment fund contributors. similar long-term care facilities in succession. facility are in a more vulnerable condi- They have made the decision to invest in Canada. Hillel Lodge gained its fi rst There is a uniform charge rate for all tion – with increasingly serious health the long-term future of the Lodge. Please think of Hillel Lodge. We need your assistance more than ever. Donations and endowments are made through the Hillel Lodge Long-Term Care Our people’s story Foundation at 613-728-3990. evolves with each Ottawa Jewish Bulletin VOLUME 80 | ISSUE 11 succeeding generation Ottawa Jewish Bulletin Publishing Co. Ltd. 21 Nadolny Sachs Private, Ottawa, K2A 1R9 Tel: 613 798-4696 | Fax: 613 798-4730 windows, in a neighbourhood fi lled with Another difference, though of a Email: [email protected] dazzling white buildings, was the base markedly different quality, is the state of Published 19 times per year. for my independent travels that summer, the occupation. This was not a feature of © Copyright 2016 which included trips to the southern and my awareness or of my preparations in PUBLISHER Andrea Freedman northern ends of the country, from the summer of 1973. What I did notice EDITOR FROM THE PULPIT Sharm el-Sheikh to Rosh HaNikra. was the separation between Jews of Michael Regenstreif RABBI ELIZABETH BOLTON. There were so many unfamiliar white Ashkenazi descent, like myself, PRODUCTION MANAGER OR HANESHAMAH landscapes and experiences on my and those of African and Middle Eastern Brenda Van Vliet origins, and between Jews and Arabs. journey: the wild heat while pushing an BUSINESS MANAGER ach spring the Torah reading Egged bus stuck in the desert sand; With my highly tuned and newly Jody Roodman cycle takes a detour in the seeing the names of my perished family emerging youthful political conscious- The Bulletin, established in 1937 as “a force Israelites’ ongoing journey saga. members etched in a memorial wall on ness, I was appalled by what I perceived for constructive communal consciousness,” communicates the messages of the Jewish Before the narrative of the my cousin’s kibbutz; the renowned as straight-up racism. Federation of Ottawa and its agencies and, as E the city’s only Jewish newspaper, welcomes a 40-year desert sojourn picks up in the (infamous?) jostling in non-queues at My son may have the opportunity to diversity of opinion as it strives to inform and Book of Numbers, there are lists to be bus stops – topped with ceaseless queries witness something entirely more enrich the community. Viewpoints expressed made – in this case, mainly about the about when I would make Aliyah! endemic and institutionalized. If we visit in these pages do not necessarily represent sacrifi cial and other holy practices led by One of many things that will be Bethlehem, for example, our entry will the policies and values of the Federation. the ancient priestly clan, as recounted in different for my son will be our visits to be through a checkpoint in the separa- The Bulletin cannot vouch for the of advertised products or establishments Vayikra, the Book of Leviticus. . Over the years, I have visited tion wall, and our exit experience will be unless they are certified by Ottawa Vaad Lehavdil, I’m making lists and plans, a wide range of traditional congrega- markedly different from Palestinians HaKashrut or a rabbinic authority recognized by OVH. and anticipating some new ritual tions, including settings quite unfamiliar with differently coloured identity cards. This journey, in today’s Israeli- $36 Local Subscription | $40 Canada experiences, for my fi rst ever Passover in to me, such as an Erev Shabbat service in $60 USA | $179 Overseas | $2 per issue Israel. In a few weeks, I’ll be travelling a Yeruham led and attended Palestinian landscape, will be so differ- We acknowledge the financial support of the there with my 17-year-old son, for his by Jews from Cochin, India. ent for my son than it was for me. We Government of Canada through the fi rst ever visit. This spring, we may be able to attend a can’t journey as far south at Sharm Canada Periodical Fund of the Department of Canadian Heritage. Like many in the Diaspora, we have lively Kabbalat Shabbat outdoors at the el-Sheikh. He knows far more than I did family in Israel. When I stepped off the renovated and repurposed First Railway at his age about the issues. As we prepare ISSN: 1196-1929 plane to be greeted by a relative for my Station in Jerusalem, complete with for our trip, and I prepare to teach about Publication Mail Agreement No. 40018822 fi rst trip at age 16, I was meeting a instruments and dancing in the streets, the ancient priestly rituals in Vayikra, it’s Return undeliverable Canadian addresses to: led by one of the many Shabbat com- good to remember that our people’s Ottawa Jewish Bulletin stranger. Stranger still were the vistas I 21 Nadolny Sachs Private, beheld. My cousins’ Tel Aviv apartment, munities that are part of the native story continues to evolve with each Ottawa ON K2A 1R9 with its trisim, metal blinds in place of Israeli Jewish renaissance. succeeding generation. March 21, 2016 7 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM

Semitism among the refugee community Our response to the – despite what may have been part of their culture in Syria. Helpful interactions and sincere friendships speak loudly. Syrian refugee crisis Zarecki points to Jewish Family Services’ track record in working closely groups in Ottawa, and across Canada – in driven from Arab and Muslim countries with the Somali community – who, like many cases groups of like-minded friends, after the establishment of the State of the Syrian refugees, are Muslim – and the neighbours or colleagues – which have Israel. collaborative ties and friendships that undertaken sponsorship of Syrian refugee And, as a community, we also remem- have developed as a result. families. Mark Zarecki, executive director ber those dark years when Canada of Jewish Family Services of Ottawa, disgracefully closed our borders to Jewish REMOVING OBERLANDER

FROM THE THE FROM EDITOR which has taken a leading role in guiding refugees fl eeing Nazi persecution and, Several groups – including the Centre MICHAEL REGENSTREIF and helping refugee sponsorship groups ultimately, the Holocaust. for Israel and Jewish Affairs, Canadian – including Temple Israel, the Shalom However, there are some in the Jewish Jewish Holocaust Survivors and Descend- ur front page story this issue is a Group and many private groups – told me community who have expressed concern ants and B’nai Brith Canada – have writ- feature about the Al Sahhar that members of the Jewish community about Syrian refugees because they come ten to Immigration, Refugees and Citizen- family who are among the have been among the most active in from a country that has been an enemy of ship Minister John McCallum urging him O25,000 refugees from the brutal helping this new refugee community. the State of Israel since the modern state to take urgent action to strip Helmut Ober- civil war in Syria who have, so far, found a That synagogue groups and members was founded in 1948, a country in which lander of his fraudulently obtained Cana- safe haven in Canada. of the Jewish community have stepped anti-Semitism has been part and parcel of dian citizenship and deport him from The family’s resettlement in Ottawa is forward to aid in the resettlement of the culture since at least that time. Canada. under the sponsorship of Temple Israel of Syrian refugees – a massive humanitarian Indeed, those concerns are not Oberlander, 92, was a member of one of Ottawa, and the Reform congregation is crisis involving millions of people – is not unfounded as there have been a few the Nazis’ Einsatzkommando death but one of many synagogue groups across a surprise considering the history of Jew- reports from Europe of anti-Semitic squads that operated during the Second Canada who have undertaken such ish immigration to these shores. Some of incidents involving Syrian refugees. World War murdering tens of thousands sponsorship projects in recent months. us are refugees ourselves – and many But the situation in Europe, where of people. He used forged documents to The Shalom Group, a joint effort of more of us are children, grandchildren hundreds of thousands of refugees have come to Canada in 1954 and obtain Ottawa’s three Conservative congrega- and great-grandchildren of refugees. The streamed directly with no or little screen- citizenship in 1960. tions – Agudath Israel, Beth Shalom and great wave of Jewish immigration to North ing, is very different from Canada where The government initiated efforts to Adath Shalom – is currently raising funds America in the late-19th and early-20th the arriving refugees are primarily strip Oberlander of his citizenship in 1995 so that it, too, can undertake sponsorship centuries was fuelled by many of our an- families that have been carefully screened. – an effort that has bounced between of a Syrian refugee family. cestors fl eeing anti-Semitic persecution According to Zarecki, the prominence Cabinet and the courts for 21 years. The I’m also aware of a number of Jewish and pogroms in Eastern Europe. Later of Jews and Jewish groups in the sponsor- process has dragged on for far too long. community members who are involved in waves of 20th century Jewish immigration ship of Syrian refugee resettlement in Ca- Visit www.cija.ca/justicedenied/ to add some of the many private sponsorship included Holocaust survivors and Jews nada will go a long way to combating anti- your name to the letter.

forcing those who can afford it to pay for When there’s no more more and more of their own health care. It is called private medicine, which already exists in many places across the money for health care country, even though our politicians pretend otherwise. Private medicine is the attending surgeon said Blandford government says a new doctor can like everyone’s dirty little secret. needed to be taken to the new only be hired when one retires. Can But, while it may be perfectly under- super-hospital – the McGill University you imagine how many older doctors standable to see an expansion of private Health Centre – instead. He died before are semi-retired? Is it any wonder health care services, we seem to be he made it to the operating room. Quebecers can’t fi nd family doctors. As culturally and fi nancially light years The surgeon followed new regulations for specialists – because they get paid away from private hospitals and private recently set by the government. more, new specialists’ prospects are emergency rooms. So, when you a need IDEAS AND IDEAS IMPRESSIONS The surgery Blandford needed was no even worse. emergency surgery, but are refused for JASON MOSCOVITZ longer to be done at St. Mary’s. It is called The young, hustling doctors are being administrative reasons, and you die, is “streamlining for effi ciency,” but this is told they are not wanted. So, while they there anyone listening? here is a soul-searching human not about cutting at the edges. Quebec is apply to other provinces and countries What Ontario can perhaps look drama in Montreal involving a revolutionizing the health care system to for employment, the system remains forward to is depressing. deceased person and his family. make affordable. unable to offer the level of care that is My father was recently hospitalized in TIt is a story about one individual Premier Philippe Couillard, who was a needed. It is a vicious circle: the reality of Montreal. On a Saturday night, he was and a health care system that might have neurosurgeon before entering politics, is the need, and the reality of no money to sitting on a chair next to his bed and killed him. I knew the individual from making a serious effort to curtail public pay for it. needed help to get up and into bed. He my early days at CBC, and his haunting spending because there is no more It is hard to tell if the Quebec govern- rang his bell for an hour-and-a-half, but story caught my attention. It should money – just more and more public ment should be applauded for fi scal no one came. catch everyone’s attention. debt. There is just no way to squeeze integrity or scorned for insensitivity. He reached for the phone and called Mark Blandford was a star producer more dollars for health care or, for that Here, on this side of the Ottawa River, my brother who went to the hospital and who made fi lms in French and English matter, anything else. we know Ontario’s situation is a heart- helped him. On his way out, he passed about politics in Quebec. He was so There are young doctors throughout beat away from Quebec’s. Looking at the the nursing station and politely asked smart, so accomplished, and for a pisher Quebec who will fi nish their residencies recent Ontario budget, you could argue how that could happen. He was told very like me in the ‘70s, the ground shook this year, but have no job prospects in Ontario is already broke, but the govern- few people were scheduled to work on when he walked by. He died suddenly in Quebec. Quebecers might need more ment won’t admit it. the fl oor on Saturday nights. November at 73. doctors for its aging population, but the Quebecers are asking themselves what The nurse told my brother he could do He went to the emergency room at St. system can’t afford to pay them. the end game is. Why, they ask, is the something to help them. “Please write Mary’s Hospital in Montreal with severe Doctors’ licences in Quebec are government killing the system? There Premier Couillard,” she said, “and tell abdominal pain. He needed surgery, but regulated by government, and the are those who suspect the government is him what happened.” 8 March 21, 2016 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM Mitch Miller appointed director of fundraising at Hillel Lodge

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BY PAMELA ROSENBERG was instrumental in bringing back the SOLOWAY JCC Jewish Men’s Hockey League. embers gathered at the For several years, Dave has been Soloway Jewish Community involved in the Soloway JCC’s fl agship Centre (JCC), February 25, fundraiser, the Ottawa Celebrity Sports Mfor the Soloway JCC Annual Dinner, serving as chair of the event since General Meeting and Awards night. 2014. His dedication and commitment The Grossman Klein Teen Leadership have played an instrumental role in the Award, recognizing outstanding dedica- event’s success. tion and service to the Jewish community “Dave has been great to work with. He and the community-at-large, was given to is passionate about the event and truly Jordan Geist. wants to make it the best it can be to A graduate of the Ottawa Jewish benefi t the Centre,” said Soloway JCC Community School, Jordan is currently in president and COO Barry Sohn. Grade 12 at Sir Robert Borden High President of Fitness Depot, Dave has School, where she has been president of been gracious in helping keep the the Jewish Culture Club for the past two Soloway JCC’s Fitness Centre equipment years, co-chair of the Relay for Life, up-to-date and running smoothly. Yearbook editor and student council The AGM saw several changes to the head of operations for this academic year. Soloway JCC Board. Kulik stepped Jordan took part in the March of the down as her second term came to an end; Living in 2014 and has planned several Dana Geber began her second term, and Holocaust education programs and (From left) Soloway JCC President and COO Barry Sohn; award recipients Dave Ross and Jordan new Board members Mike Aronson and organized a Holocaust assembly at her Geist; and Soloway JCC Board Chair Mitch Miller at the Soloway JCC AGM, February 25. Adam Dodek began their terms. school. As well, several Soloway JCC staff Jordan also volunteers with The programs. “I believe we have just seen outstanding volunteer service on behalf members were recognized for their years Friendship Circle, an organization the beginning of the wonderful things of the Soloway JCC, was given to Dave of service. Youth and Teen Program providing services and support for Jewish she will do in the future.” Ross. Director Gail Lieff for 25 years (see page children and teens with special needs. Barry Karp was on hand to present the Dave has been part of the Ottawa 15), Assistant Executive Director Maxine “Over the years that I have known Ben Karp Soloway JCC Volunteer Service Jewish community his entire life. Miska for 15 years, Ganon educator Mali Jordan, I have seen her grow into an Award established in honour of his Growing up, Dave played sports at the Atias for 10 years, and Marketing and Com- impressive leader,” said Gail Lieff, father, volunteer extraordinaire Ben Chapel Street JCC, was a team captain for munications Co-ordinator Pamela Soloway JCC director of youth and teen Karp. The award, recognizing continued the Jewish Men’s Softball League, and Rosenberg for fi ve years. March 21, 2016 15 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM Gail Lieff celebrates 25 years of service at JCC

BY PAMELA ROSENBERG the second mother of my kids, and I SOLOWAY JCC know I am not alone,” said Jackie nyone whose children have Luffman-Lyman. participated in an afterschool “As a working parent, it is extremely program at the Soloway Jewish comforting to know that your children ACommunity Centre (JCC), or in are well taken care of at the JCC, and she a JCC day camp, or BBYO, is familiar with always looks out for ‘her kids.’” Gail Lieff. When Gail took over as BBYO city An Ottawa native, Gail has dedicated a director six years ago, she took a fl ailing large portion of her life and her entire organization with only six teens involved career to the Jewish community and is and grew it to 30. Over the years, she has now celebrating a milestone 25 years of spent countless hours supervising BBYO service at the JCC. programs and travelling on teen-fi lled The writing was on the wall early in buses to conventions. When a BBYO Gail’s life when her fi rst JCC job fell into convention took place at the Soloway her lap. After a few weeks as a JCC day JCC, Gail actually slept in her offi ce for camp CIT (counsellor-in-training), the the night. camp director offered her a job. One of the things Gail most enjoys is “I was doing more than the counsel- creating new opportunities for kids in the lors, so they asked me if I wanted a job summer. As a result, she has successfully and started paying me,” said Gail expanded the roster of unique JCC laughing. specialty day camps from two to 19 over As a high school student, Gail worked the years. part-time at Geranim (now the Ganon And despite all the children who have Preschool). When the Soloway JCC come and gone through her programs opened on the new Jewish Community over the years, Gail never forgets any of Campus in 1998, she worked at the front Over many years, Gail Lieff has greatly expanded the after-school and summer programs for them. desk before becoming youth and teen children and teens at the Soloway JCC. “I feel like I am part of something program manager and camp program- bigger,” said Gail with a smile. “Some of ming director. planner, BBYO city director, specialty “Gail is an experienced, competent the kids that I’ve taught now have kids of Today, in addition to looking after camps co-ordinator, birthday party and caring person and brings a sense of their own coming to the JCC, and there is youth and teen programs, Gail is the organizer, Chanukah candle lighter, chief yiddishkeit to the children and teens at a connection. I feel like I am part of their Soloway JCC’s family holiday program sukkah decorator, and so much more. the Centre. I have often referred to Gail as family.”

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Israeli Wine and Canadian Cheese: Hillel Ottawa’s Israel Awareness Committee hosted its Seventh Annual Israeli Wine and Canadian Cheese party, February 23, at the Cube Gallery when students and community members came together to celebrate the strong bond and shared values between Canada and Israel. Speakers included three members of Parliament: Marco Mendicino of the Liberal Party, Michelle Rempel of the Conservative Party, and Randall Garrison of the New Democratic Party. (Back row, from left) Yoni Satov, Geoffrey Zalter, Marco Mendicino, Randall Garrison, Michael Aarenau, Brett Parnell, (front row) Sapir Fellus, Eleanor Millar, Rachael Ostroff, Alexandra Brenner, Kelly Bryant, Allyson Grant and Michelle Rempel.

Shabbat 200: Rabbi Chaim Boyarsky and Supreme Court Justice Michael Maldover share a moment prior to the Rohr Chabad Student Network’s annual Shabbat 200 dinner, February 26, at the Delta City Centre. Justice Maldover and Rabbi Reuven Bulka were featured speakers at the event.

Ski Day: Torah Academy of Ottawa students enjoy their annual ski and snow tubing day at the Edelweiss ski area near Wakefield, Quebec, February 17. 18 March 21, 2016 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM

Purim is not just for children carousing and revelry. At university, I was introduced to the writings of arly childhood memory: Purim at my Jewish Mikhail Bakhtin, a Russian philosopher and literary critic school in Frankfurt. “Chag Purim, Chag Purim, SARAH WAISVISZ known for his work on the “carnivalesque” in literature Chag gadol la Yehudim!” I am dressed up as a and culture. His book, “Rabelais and His World,” Etraditional Creole lady from Martinique, where DISPATCHES describes the Saturnalia celebrations of medieval Europe, my grandfather was from. I have a headscarf on, a FROM THE which were based in ancient pagan and Hellenistic rites cheerful-patterned skirt, and big clip-on earrings. In and were the occasion for medieval European societies to retrospect, I see the brilliance of this costume. What is DIASPORA fi nd release from social pressure. Saturnalia was the Purim if not the Jewish response to other spring-time chance to turn conventions upside down, to let the poor celebrations like in New Orleans to and the oppressed be kings and queens for the day, and to Carnival in Caribbean islands like Martinique to full of hamantaschen (my favourite is , if embrace the topsy-turvy. Saturnalia was a period of long-standing European Saturnalia celebrations in places anyone is taking notes). temporary freedom and liberation from the constraints of like, well, Germany? Good job on that costume, Maman! But Purim is not just for children. And it is not just for otherwise rigid societies. At Hillel Academy in Ottawa, Purim was a big deal too. hamantaschen either, although some might argue with The topsy-turviness and liberation that Purim, The gymnasium transformed into an old-timey carnival me. This is a holiday for adults. Saturnalia and Carnival encourages is what I love most with games, shows, treats and dozens of Queen Esthers, Purim is unusual. It is not a festival like Passover, about Purim. In fact, it is partly through my interest in Mordechais and Ninja Turtles running around. We made Sukkot or Shavuot, and it is not described in the Torah Purim that I have been able to break barriers in my own plates of mishloach manot for the kids in our class and but in Ketuvim. Megillat Esther tells a vicious tale of Jewish life. for the Ottawa Kosher Food Bank. We stuffed ourselves sexual exploitation, slavery, ethnic cleansing, deception, Cantillation, or chanting, always seemed inaccessible executions and revenge. Critics and scholars consider it to me: abstract, otherworldly and available to men alone satire and a parody narrative, but this was not clear to me – until I learned that there is an app for that! JOFA, the as a child. I just thought the story was suspenseful, Jewish Orthodox Feminist Alliance, has an app for iPhone violent and a little naughty. and Android that helps you to learn how to chant the In terms of customs, we are encouraged to drink until Megillat Esther. With women’s voices and a user-friendly we can’t tell the difference between the hero, Mordechai, interface developed by my friend Rabbi Charlie Schwarz, and the villain, . We wear costumes. We lampoon JOFA’s app helped me to learn how to chant the chapter 5 and mock with Purim spiels, and children dress up as of the as well as the blessings that come before kings and queens. These customs are in line with those of and after the reading. It also inspired me to learn Torah the period celebrated before : Carnival, cantillation, but that is another story (for Shavuot). , and . In France, This year, my iPhone will be pulled out again as I try to some rural villages still burn effi gies to symbolize letting improve my chanting of chapter 5. This chapter, like the go of a local confl ict, and Mardi Gras celebrations in New Megillah as a whole, is suspenseful, violent and a little Orleans and Venice are famous for their masquerades. naughty, and it is also a story of women’s empowerment. Especially in Latin America and the Caribbean, Carnival I didn’t see that when I was a child, but I see it now. means outrageous celebrations of singing, dancing, Chag Purim Sameach!

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The Board of Directors of the of their granddaughter, Lea Aviya by Sam and Our future is in your hands Ottawa Jewish Community Foun- Susan Firestone. dation acknowledges with thanks To make a donation contributions to the following funds ALAN FREED FAMILY FUND In Memory of: as of February 29, 2016. and/or send a tribute card, Clara Citrome by Alan and Sharon Freed. call the Foundation office MARY AND ISRAEL (AL) ALLICE ALFRED AND KAYSA FRIEDMAN (613-798-4696 ext. 274) MEMORIAL FUND ENDOWMENT FUND In Memory of: In Appreciation to: e-mail: [email protected] Shirley Barrett by Beverly and Irving Swedko. Bill James by Kaysa Friedman. Morley Goldfield by Beverly and Irving R’fuah Sh’leimah to: website: www.OJCF.ca Swedko. David Loeb by Alfred and Kaysa Friedman.

APPOTIVE FAMILY EVA, DIANE AND JACK GOLDFIELD ENDOWMENT FUND MEMORIAL FUND Join us in building our community In Memory of: In Memory of: Sandra Goldstein by David, Sharon and Morley Goldfield by Ian and Melissa Shabin- Brody Appotive. sky and family; by Chick Taylor; by Marilyn by supporting these local agencies and Daniel Kimmel; by Barry and Marcia Can- CLAIRE AND IRVING BERCOVITCH JEWISH FAMILY SERVICES JEWISH YOUTH LIBRARY tor; by Randi, Ian, Jonathan, Inna, Matthew and ENDOWMENT FUND Adam Sherman; and by Brenda and David Saxe. AGENCY FUND OF OTTAWA In Memory of: Birthday Wishes to: ENDOWMENT FUND Norman Swedko by Ruth Calof and David LAURA AND MILTON GREENBERG Nathan Haber by Sandra and Norman DAVID “THE BEAR” KARDASH Moskovic. Slover. CAMP B’NAI BRITH FAMILY FOUNDATION In Memory of: MEMORIAL FUND In Memory of: SAM AND ANN BROZOVSKY Morley Goldfield by Laura Greenberg. Clara Citrome by Sandra and Norman OTTAWA JEWISH CEMETERIES ENDOWMENT FUND Slover. ZICHARON FUND In Memory of: ZELDA AND JOHN GREENBERG Marsha Henault by Sandra and Norman OTTAWA JEWISH Pearl Brodie by Ann Brozovsky and family. ENDOWMENT FUND Slover. COMMUNITY SCHOOL In Observance of the Yahrzeit of: PARENT FUND TILLIE AND HARRY CHERM OTTAWA JEWISH COMMUNITY Zelda Greenberg, a dear mother by Margot MEMORIAL FUND ENDOWMENT FUND OTTAWA JEWISH Greenberg. In Memory of: Mazel Tov to: COMMUNITY SCHOOL Morley Goldfield by Donald Cherm and Lynn and Mark Shabinsky on the birth of CHILDREN OF THE BOOK GROSSMAN KLEIN FAMILIES FUND Robert Lebans. their grandson, Isaac by Susan Margles and AWARD FUND In Memory of: Michael Rapp. OTTAWA JEWISH Norman Swedko by Vera and Leslie Klein. COMMUNITY SCHOOL SANDI AND EDDY COOK SOLOWAY JEWISH COMMUNITY ENDOWMENT FUND ENDOWMENT FUND HY AND PAULINE HOCHBERG SUMMER CAMP SCHOLARSHIP FUND OTTAWA JEWISH In Memory of: ENDOWMENT FUND In Memory of: COMMUNITY SCHOOL FUND Edith Levine by Sandi and Eddy Cook and In Memory of: Clara Citrome by Roz and Stan Labow. IN MEMORY OF family. Morley Goldfield by Pauline Hochberg. Morley Goldfield by Roz and Stan Labow. EVA WINTROB OTTAWA JEWISH NATHAN AND REBA DIENER KERSHMAN FAMILY AJA 50+ ENDOWMENT FUND HISTORICAL SOCIETY FUND ENDOWMENT FUND ENDOWMENT FUND AJA 50+ DAVID SMITH In Memory of: OTTAWA LODGE B’NAI BRITH #885 In Memory of: OTTAWA JEWISH Morley Goldfield by John and Dayra Diener. PAST PRESIDENTS FUND Rela Koppel by Sylvia Kershman; and by COMMUNITY SCHOOL OTTAWA LODGE B’NAI BRITH #885 John Kershman. SCHOLARSHIP FUND DOLANSKY FAMILY FUND PRESIDENTS SCHOLARSHIP FUND AKIVA EVENING HIGH SCHOOL In Memory of: ARTHUR AND SARAH KIMMEL ENDOWMENT FUND OTTAWA MODERN Clara Citrome by Bernie and Donna Dolan- JEWISH SCHOOL FUND MEMORIAL FUND ADINA BEN PORAT MACHON SARAH sky. OTTAWA POST In Memory of: TORAH EDUCATION FUND Clara Citrome by Marilyn and Daniel Kimmel. SHIRLEY AND SHIER BERMAN FUND JEWISH WAR VETERANS FUND JOSEPH AND JEAN DOVER OTTAWA TORAH INSTITUTE FOR OTTAWA JEWISH ARCHIVES ENDOWMENT FUND MORRIS AND LILLIAN KIMMEL TORAH EDUCATION FUND DORIS BRONSTEIN TALMUD TORAH In Memory of: MEMORIAL FUND AFTERNOON SCHOOL FUND PINCHAS ZUKERMAN Morley Goldfield by Gerry and Madeleine Anniversary Wishes to: BARRY FISHMAN MUSIC EDUCATION FUND Dover. Norman and Sally Raicek by Janet and Steve OTTAWA JEWISH BULLETIN RAMBAM MAIMONIDES Kaiman; by Brenda and Nathan Levine; and by SCHOLARSHIP FUND JEWISH CONTINUITY FUND BARBARA AND LEN FARBER Steven and Shelli Kimmel. MARTIN GLATT SOLOWAY JEWISH ENDOWMENT FUND Mazel Tov to: PARLIAMENT LODGE B’NAI BRITH COMMUNITY CENTRE In Memory of: Steven and Shelli Kimmel on the birth of PAST PRESIDENTS’ FUND EARLY CHILDHOOD Morley Goldfield by Barbara and Len Farber. their granddaughter, Avie Danya Greene by Sol MENDEL AND VALERIE GOOD EDUCATION FUND and Zelaine Shinder; and by Ingrid Levitz and HOLOCAUST CONTINUING SOLOWAY JEWISH ELLEN AND RAHAMIM FATHI family. EDUCATION FUND COMMUNITY CENTRE ENDOWMENT FUND In Memory of: GREENBERG FAMILIES ENDOWMENT FUND KRANTZBERG KRANE FAMILY FUND Morley Goldfield by Ellen Fathi and family. LIBRARY FUND SOLOWAY JEWISH In Memory of: Mazel Tov to: FUND FOR THE NEXT GENERATION COMMUNITY CENTRE Victor Goldbloom by Julia Krane and Steven and Shelli Kimmel on the birth of HILLEL LODGE LEGACY FUND YOUTH SERVICES FUND family. their granddaughter, Avie Danya Greene by TAMIR ENDOWMENT FUND JEWISH COMMUNITY CEMETERY Tamara Fathi. HOLOCAUST MEMORIAL FUND TORAH ACADEMY OF OTTAWA ISSIE AND EDITH LANDAU ENDOWMENT FUND JEWISH MEN’S TORAH EDUCATION FUND SAM AND SUSAN FIRESTONE SOFTBALL LEAGUE FUND SARA AND ZEEV VERED In Memory of: ENDOWMENT FUND Morley Goldfield by Edie Landau. JEWISH STUDENTS ASSOCIATION - ISRAEL CULTURAL Mazel Tov to: HILLEL FUND PROGRAM FUND Cynthia and David Blumenthal on the birth Continued on page 20 20 March 21, 2016 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM

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y peers and I are at a time in our lives that is wonderful parents who taught me “not to judge pivotal in forming our identities and value Judaism by the Jew.” Many adapt their own practices systems. It is a very crucial period where the and traditions within the religion and prioritize what’s ARIELLE ELLIS Mexperiences we choose to take part in (or most important to them. They pick and choose which not take part in), the people we choose to date or CAMPUS LIFE rules apply to their lives and how they feel they could associate ourselves with, and the courses we take in best practise Judaism and keep it as an integral part of university hold an extraordinary infl uence on our their identities. present and future selves. At fi rst glance, I would defi nitely come across as a I believe that one’s university career and early young secular and very mainstream society person. There isn’t professional life carry the potential to make or break While, admittedly, I am much about the way I dress or the things I do that would one’s Jewish identity and pride. I witness it regularly in very much assimilated, I am also cause a stranger to assume that I am Jewish. I am an my circle of friends. Some from very secular, unaffi liated aware of my roots and heritage assimilated person in many aspects of my life. However, backgrounds with minimal Jewish education come to I also recognize that I was lucky enough to have been university, fi nd Jewish student organizations such as and what I must do to preserve my faith. born into this incredible faith, culture and nationality Hillel Ottawa or the Chabad Student Network that make So, no, I may not keep every Jewish law that is Judaism. them feel a part of something larger and important, and and I defi nitely march to the beat While, admittedly, I am very much assimilated, I am take Judaism to the extreme. of my own colourful Jewish drum, also aware of my roots and heritage and what I must do I have other friends who have been in the Jewish day to preserve my faith. So, no, I may not keep every Jewish school system their entire lives but are too embarrassed but I have managed to prioritize law and I defi nitely march to the beat of my own or stubborn to attend any Jewish student or young a few customs and laws colourful Jewish drum, but I have managed to prioritize professional events much less publicly showcase their into my daily life that I plan to keep. a few customs and laws into my daily life that I plan to attendance via a Facebook RSVP. God forbid someone keep. This column, for example, has contributed to my sees that you clicked to attend a Shabbat dinner. How Jewish day school system, attended Jewish summer Jewish identity, affording me the opportunity to refl ect uncomfortable would that be? camps, regularly celebrate Shabbat and , and write about what it means to me to be a Jewish I have friends who, unfortunately, have had less than many of us young Jews require a moment when things student on campus. Hillel Ottawa, the Chabad Student ideal experiences dating Jewish boys and now exclu- click for us and our Jewish identity suddenly becomes Network and the Emerging Generation division of the sively seek a partner who is not Jewish. But, of course, I important. This moment could stem from the March of Jewish Federation of Ottawa also contribute to keeping also have many like-minded friends with well-rounded the Living, going away for school to a city with few Jews, me grounded by hosting many cultural, religious and perceptions of Judaism who adopt their own methods in having an anti-Semitic professor, the list goes on. social events that strengthen my Jewish identity. preserving it in their daily lives. Though this column may at times suggest otherwise, To my fellow students: Take this time in your life to I continue to form my Jewish identity every day; my those who know me know that I am not some religious really refl ect on who you are and which values hold the friends and those around me constantly contributing to preacher constantly advocating to others to never stray highest importance to you. Write an article, attend an how I prioritize my faith. from the Jewish path. To me, Judaism is a very abstract event, date a Jewish boy or girl, or whatever else best Even though we may have been brought up in the concept. It’s not black and white. I have been raised by helps you connect! Internal dialogue can affect outcomes t’s spring! Woo hoo! We made it through snow- regularly move, challenge and strengthen your body in storms and unbearably cold temperatures, high an effort to keep it working as best as possible for as long winds, freezing rain, ice and slush. It’s time to strip GLORIA SCHWARTZ as possible, even if you have to convince yourself to get Ioff several layers of clothing and spend more time FOCUS ON up and get going? outdoors in the fresh air and sunshine. Do you dwell on regrets, could haves, should haves Soon the buds will be sprouting on the tree branches FITNESS and missed opportunities? Or do you focus on what you and birds will be chirping. Walkers, runners and cyclists can do now to improve your quality of life today and rejoice! improve your chances for a healthier, happier future? If you’ve been inactive or less active than usual in Do you mostly tell yourself “I can’t, I’m unwilling to recent months, now’s a good time to kick start your tions to help you begin to identify the pattern of your try, I’m too fearful” or “I can, I’m willing to try, I am spring fi tness program. If you’re already active, why not inner dialogue. fearless”? kick it up a notch? Set some new goals. Challenge Do you feel ashamed of your body shape or size, As you think about these questions, you may uncover yourself. sagging parts, varicose veins, stretch marks or scars? Or some painful truths about your inner dialogue. This is What you accomplish in the coming months may be do you accept that the “perfect body” is an unachievable just a starting point. Change takes effort and work. If determined more than anything by your inner dialogue. ideal and that life experiences – perhaps some of your your inner dialogue has patterns of negativity, it may Most obstacles can be overcome with the right attitude own choosing and others beyond your control – have take longer to modify it. and appropriate strategies. But, if you focus on negative left you with indelible marks worthy of a proud warrior? Perhaps you’ll discover that you have a positive thoughts much of the time, your internal dialogue Do you engage in self-criticism when you look in the attitude about your body and a sense of gratitude becomes self-defeating. mirror? Or do you model body gratitude for your regardless of your current health status, and that you You may not even be cognizant of the silent conversa- children by smiling sincerely at your refl ection? already take ownership of, and do your best to maxi- tions you’re having with yourself. One way to address Whenever someone asks you how you are, do you mize your fi tness and wellness. your internal dialogue is to practise improving it. launch into a soliloquy about how you feel tired, When it comes to internal dialogue, there’s always First, you need to become more self-aware. What constipated, bloated or headachy? Do you constantly room for improvement. kinds of messages are you telling yourself throughout feel anxious or tell others about ailments you previously Peel back the layers and refl ect on your choices, the day? What kinds of messages are you receiving from had, currently have, or fear having? Or do you typically attitude and issues from your past that may be holding others? Associating with Negative Nellies can have a feel positive and share with others a sense of gratitude you back from achieving your goals. detrimental impact on your inner dialogue. What kind because you can get out of bed, eat, walk, talk, go to the Stop and correct yourself when you catch yourself of messages are you sharing with others? When the bathroom and breath independently, knowing well engaged in negative self-talk or negative talk with thoughts in your head are negative, you need to stop there are many people for whom such basic functions others. them on the spot – perhaps with the snap of an elastic are not possible? Whether you want to become more fi t, lose weight band on your wrist – and rephrase them. Do you make excuses or justifi cations to yourself for or feel better, change will only begin to happen when Psychological processes and the factors that contrib- sitting at a desk or lazing on the couch for much of the you accept that the solution is not outside of you but ute to them are complex. I’ve put together some ques- day – day-in and day-out? Or do you remind yourself to within. 22 March 21, 2016 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM Jewish characters in early-20th century Iran are real and vital – and disturbing

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