Essential Reading in Gender and Sexual Diversity Therapy! Alexander, C

! ! ! Essential Reading in Gender and Sexual Diversity Therapy! Alexander, C. J. (1997) Growth and Intimacy for Gay Men: A Workbook. Binghamton NY: Harrington Park Press. Ali, T. (1996) We Are Family: Testimonies of Lesbian and Gay Parents. London: Cassell. Barker, M and Langdridge, D. (2010) Understanding Non-Monogamies. Abingdon: Routledge. Barker, M. (2013) Rewriting the Rules: An Integrative Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships. Routledge. Barrett, J. (2007) Transsexual and Other Disorders of Gender Identity: a practical guide to management. Oxford: Radcliffe Publishing. Baldwin, G. (1993) Ties that Bind the SM/Leather/Fetish Erotic Style: Issues, Commentaries and Advice. San Francisco: Daedalus Publishing Co. Beckerman, N.L. (2005) Couples of Mixed HIV Status: Clinical Issues and Interventions. Binghamton, NY: Haworth Press. Bereznai, S. (2006). Gay and Single… Forever? New York: Marlowe & Co. Besen, W. (2003) Anything But Straight: unmasking the scandals and lies behind the ex-gay myth. New York: Harrington Park Press. Benson, P. J. (2008) The Polyamory Handbook: A User’s Guide. Author House. Bettinger, M. (2001) It’s Your Hour: A Guide to Queer Afﬁrmative Psychotherapy. Los Angeles: Alyson Books Bigner, J. J. & Wetchler, J. L. (Eds.) (2004) Relationship Therapy with Same Sex Couples. Binghamton: Haworth Press Inc. Bigner, J. J. & Wetchler, J. L. (Eds.) (2012) Handbook of LGBT-Afﬁrmative Couple and Family Therapy. Routledge. Bohan, J. S. and Russell, G. M. (eds) Conversations about Psychology and Sexual Orientation. New York: New York University Press. Bornstein, K. (1998) My Gender Workbook. London: Routledge. Boswell, J (1981) Christianity, Social Tolerance and Homosexuality: Gay People in Western Europe from the Beginning of the Christian Era to the 14th Century. University of Chicago Press. Brent, B. (2002) The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men. San Francisco: Cleis Press. Burns, C. (2013) Pressing Matters: A Trans Activism Memoir (1990-97) Vol. 1. Kindle Edition Butler, C., O’Donovan, A and Shaw, E. (2010) Sex, Sexuality and Therapeutic Practice: A manual for therapists and trainers. Hove: Routledge. Carl, D. Counselling Same Sex Couples New York: WW Norton Carrol, L. (2010) Counselling Sexual and Gender Minorities. Upper Saddle River NJ: Merrill Clarke, V., Ellis S.J, Peel, E. and Riggs, D.W. Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Queer Psychology: An introduction. Cambridge: Cambridge University Press. Coyle, A. and Kitzinger, C. (eds.) (2002) Lesbian and Gay Psychology: New perspectives. BPS/Blackwell

Page 1 of 7 das Nair, R., and Butler, C. (eds.) (2012) Intersectionality, Sexuality and Psychological Therapies: Working with lesbian, gay and bisexual diversity. Oxford: BPS/Blackwell Davies, D and Neal, C. (eds.) (1996). Pink Therapy: a guide for counsellors and therapists working with lesbian, gay and bisexual clients. Buckingham: Open University Press. Davies, D and Neal, C. (eds.) (2000) Therapeutic Perspectives on Working with Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Clients. (Pink Therapy Vol. 2) Buckingham: Open University Press. D'Augelli, A. R. & Patterson, J. (Eds.) (1995). Lesbian, gay and bisexual identities over the lifespan: psychological perspectives. New York: Oxford University Press. Denman, C. (2004) Sexuality: A Biopsychosocial Approach. Basingstoke: Palgrave. Drescher, J. (1999) Psychoanalytic Therapy and The Gay Man. New York: Haworth Press Inc. Drescher, J, D’Ercole, A, Schoenberg, E. (eds.) (2003) Psychotherapy with Gay Men and Lesbians: Contemporary Dynamic Approaches. New York: Haworth Press Inc. Drescher, J. and Zucker, K (eds) (2006) Ex-Gay Research: Analyzing the Spitzer Study and Its Relation to Science, Religion, Politics and Culture. New York: Harrington Park Press. Easton, D & Hardy, J. (2009) The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships and Other Adventures. 2nd Edition Celestial Arts. Evosevich, J. M. & Avriette, M. (2000) The Gay and Lesbian Psychotherapy Treatment Planner. New York: John Wiley & Sons Feinberg, L. (1996) Transgender Warriors: Making history from Joan of Arc to Dennis Rodman. Boston: Beacon Press. Glassgold, J.M and Iasenza, S. (eds) (1995) Lesbians and Psychoanalysis: Revolutions in Theory and Practice. New York: The Free Press. Grahn, J. (1991) Another Mother Tongue: Gay words, gay worlds. Beacon Press. Greenan, D, and Tunnell, G. Couple Therapy with Gay Men New York: Guilford Press Greene, B. (ed) (1997) Ethnic and Cultural Diversity among Lesbians and Gay Men. Sage Publications. Guter, R and Killacky, J. R. (Eds.) (2004) Queer Crips: Disabled Gay Men and Their Stories. Binghamton: Harrington Park Press. Haule, J. R. (1996) The Love Cure: Therapy Erotic and Sexual. Spring Publications Heyward, C. (1995) When Boundaries Betray Us: Beyond illusions of what is ethical in therapy and life. San Francisco: HarperSanFrancisco. Houlbrook, M. (2005) Queer London: Perils and Pleasures in the Sexual Metropolis, 1918-1957. University of Chicago Press. Hutchins, L. & Kaahumanu, L. (Eds.) (1991). Bi any other name. Boston, MA: Alyson Publications. Isay, R. A. (1989) Being homosexual: Gay men and their development. New York: Avon Books. Israel, G.E. and Tarver, D.E. (1997) Transgender Care: Recommended Guidelines, Practical Information and Personal Accounts. Philadelphia: Temple University Press. Jacques, T. (1993) On the Safe Edge: A manual for SM play. Toronto: Whole SM Publishing Jivani, A. (1997). It's Not Unusual: A History of Lesbian and Gay Britain in the Twentieth Century. London: Michael O'Mara Books Ltd. Johnson, S. M. and O’Connor, E. (2001) For Lesbian Parents: Your Guide to Helping Your Child Grow Up Healthy, Happy and Proud. New York: Guilford Press. Page 2 of 7 Johnson, S. M. and O’Connor, E. (2002) The Gay Baby Boom: The Psychology of Gay Parenthood. New York: New York University Press. Kort, J. (2008) Gay Afﬁrmative Therapy for the Straight Clinician. New York: Norton. Kane-DeMaios, J. A. and Bullough, V.L. (2006) Crossing Sexual Boundaries: Transgender Journeys, Uncharted Paths. New York: Prometheus Books. Keane, H. (2002) What’s Wrong with Addiction? Melbourne: Melbourne University Press. Karasic, D. & Drescher, J. (Eds.) (2005) Sexual and Gender Diagnoses of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM): A Re-evaluation. Binghamton, NY: Haworth Press Inc. Kaufman, M., Silverberg, C., Odette, F. (2003) The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain and Illness. San Francisco: Cleis Press. Langdridge, D and Barker, M (eds) (2008) Safe, Sane and Consensual: Contemporary Perspectives on Sadomasochism. Basingstoke: Palgrave. Lee, J. A. (Ed.) (1991) Gay Midlife and Maturity. Binghamton, NY: Harrington Park Press Lev, A. I (2004) Transgender Emergence: Therapeutic guidelines for working with gender-variant people and their families. New York: Haworth Press Inc. Lev, A. I (2004) The Complete Lesbian and Gay Parenting Guide. Berkley Publishing. Ley, D. (2012) The Myth of Sex Addiction. Plymouth UK: Rowman & Littleﬁeld Lingiardi, V & Drescher, J. (Eds.) (2003) The Mental Health Professions and Homosexuality: International Perspectives. Binghamton: Haworth Medical Press. Makai, M. (2013) Domination and Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook. (via Amazon/Kindle) Mallon, G. P. (2004) Gay Men Choosing Parenthood. New York: Columbia State University Press. Malebranche, J. (2006) Androphilia: A manifesto rejecting the gay identity and reclaiming masculinity. Baltimore: Scapegoat Publishing. Martell, C. R, Safren, S. A, Prince, S. E. Cognitive-Behavioural Therapies with Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Clients. New York: Guilford Press. Mathy, R.M, and Kerr, S.K. (Eds.) (2003) Lesbian and Bisexual Women’s Mental Health. Binghamton: Haworth Press. Mason-John, V. & Khambatta, A. (1993). Lesbian talk: Making black waves. London: Scarlett Press. Merilee Clunis, D and Dorsey Green, G (1988) Lesbian Couples. Seattle: Seal Press. Merla, P. (Ed.) (1996). Boys like us: gay writers tell their coming out stories. New York: Avon Books Moon, L. (Ed.) (2008) Feeling Queer or Queer Feelings? Radical Approaches to Counselling Sex, Sexualities and Genders. London: Routledge. Moon, L. (Ed.) (2010) Counselling Ideologies: Queer challenges to heteronormativity. Farnham: Ashgate Moore, L. (Ed.) (1997). Does your mama know? An anthology of black lesbian coming out stories. Texas: Redbone Press Neal, C. and Davies, D. (eds.) (2000) Issues in Therapy with Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Clients. (Pink Therapy Vol. 3) Buckingham: Open University Press. Neal, C (2014) The Marrying Kind? Life stories from gay and bi men who married women. More Info: www.charles-neal.com Newman, F. (2004) The Whole Lesbian Sex Book San Francisco: Cleis Press.

Page 3 of 7 Orbach, S. (2000) The Impossibility of Sex: Stories of the intimate relationship between therapist and patient. Scribner Book Company. Ortmann, D.M and Sprott, R.A. (2013) Sexual Outsiders: Understanding BDSM Sexualities and Communities. Plymouth UK: Rowman & Littleﬁeld. Outland, O. (2000). Coming Out: a handbook for men. New York: Alyson Books Pepper, R. (2005). The Ultimate Guide to Pregnancy for Lesbians: How to Stay Sane and Care for Yourself from Preconception Through Birth. 2nd Edn. San Francisco: Cleis Press Pimental-Habib, R.L. Empowering the Tribe: A positive guide to gay and lesbian self-esteem. New York: Kensington Books. Pierce Buxton, A. (1994) The Other Side of the Closet: The Coming-Out Crisis for Straight Spouses and Families. New York: John Wiley & Sons. Pope, K.S., Sonne, J.L., Holroyd, J. (2005) Sexual Feelings in Psychotherapy: explorations for therapists and therapists-in-training. Washington DC: American Psychological Association. Purnell, A. (2004) Transsexed and Transgendered People: A Guide. London: Gendys. Ravenscroft, A. (2004) Polyamory: Roadmaps for the Clueless and Hopeful. Santa Fe: Fenris Bros Rashid, N. & Hoy, J. (Eds.) (2000). Girl 2 Girl: the lives and loves of young lesbian and bisexual women. London: Diva Books Richards, C and Barker, M. (2013) Sexuality and Gender for Mental Health Professionals: a practical guide. London: Sage Rose, S., Stevens, C., Parr, Z. et al. (Eds.) (1994). Bisexual Horizons London: Lawrence & Wishart. Schmitt, A. & Sofer, J. (Eds.) (1992) Sexuality and Eroticism Among Males in Moslem Societies. Binghamton, NY: Harrington Park Press. Shaw, L., Tacconelli, E., Watson, R. and Herbert, C. (2009) Living Conﬁdently with HIV. Gloucester: Oxford Development Centre. Shelley, C. (Ed.) (1998) Contemporary Perspectives on Psychotherapy and Homosexualities. London: Free Association Books Shernoff. M. (2006) Without Condoms: Unprotected sex, gay men and barebacking. Routledge. Shidlo, A, Schroeder, M, and Drescher, J. (eds.) (2002) Sexual Conversion Therapy: Ethical, clinical and research perspectives. New York: Haworth Medical Press. Smith, A. & Calvert, J. (2001). Opening Doors: Working with older lesbian and gay men. London: Age Concern. Stowe, J. R. (1999) Gay Spirit Warrior: An empowerment workbook for men who love men. Forres: Findhorn Press. Sweasey, P. (1997) From Queer to Eternity: Spirituality in the lives of lesbian, gay and bisexual people. London: Cassell. Sue, D.W. (2010) Microaggressions in Everyday Life: Race, gender and sexual orientation. Hoboken, NJ: Wiley. Taormino, T. (2008) Opening Up: A guide to creating and sustaining open relationships. San Francisco: Cleis Press. Trenchard, L. & Warren, H. (1984). Something to tell you ... The experiences and needs of young lesbians and gay men in London. London: London Gay Teenage Group

Page 4 of 7 Thompson, M. (1994) Gay Soul: Finding the heart of gay spirit and nature. San Francisco: HarperSanFrancisco. Thompson, M. (1997) Gay Body: a journey through shadow to self. New York: St Martin’s Press. Waugh, R. (Ed.) (2000). Dykes with baggage: the lighter side of lesbians in therapy. Los Angeles: Alyson Publications. Wilson, G and Rahman, Q (2005) Born Gay: The Psychobiology of Sex Orientation. London: Peter Owen Pubs. Whitman, L. (Ed.) (2010) Telling Tales about Dementia: Experiences of caring. London: Jessica Kingsley. ! Speciﬁc Sex Therapy texts! Brame, GG, Brame, WD, Jacobs B. (1993) Different Loving: an exploration of the world of sexual dominance and submission. NY: Villard Books. Brent, B. The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men. Carellas, B. (2012) Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide. Hay House. Chia, M and Abrams Aravea, D. (1996) The Multi-Orgasmic Man. London: Thorsons Green, S and Flemons, D. (2004) Quickies: the handbook of brief sex therapy. New York: W.W Norton Goldstone, S.E. (1999) The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex: A Medical Handbook for Men. Dell Publishing Hiller, J. Wood, H & Bolton, W. (2006) Sex, Mind & Emotion. London: Karnac Foley, S. Kope, S.A. Sugrue, D. (2012) Sex Matters for Women: A Complete to Taking Care of Your Sexual Self. Guilford Press. Laffy, C. (2013) Love Sex: An Integrative Model for Sexual Education. Karnac. Lieblum, S. R. and Rosen, R. C. (eds) (2000) Principles and Practice of Sex Therapy (3rd. Edition) New York: Guilford Press Lucas, M. (2012) Rewire Your Brain for Love: Creating Vibrant Relationships Using the Science of Mindfulness. Hay House. Khar, B. (2008) Sex and the Psyche: The Truth about Our most Secret Fantasies. Penguin Kitzinger, S. (1983) Woman’s Experience of Sex. London: Penguin. Kleinplatz, P. (ed) (2012) New Directions in Sex Therapy: Innovations and Alternatives. Routledge. Maltz, W. (2001) The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse. Harper Collins Milsten, R and Slownski, J (1999) The Sexual Male: Problems and Solutions. New York: W.W. Norton Morin, J. (1986) Anal Pleasure and Health. Yes Press. Pointer, M.D. (2001) Exploring the Hidden Power of Female Sexuality: A Workbook for Women. NY: Weiser. Schnarch, D. M. (1991) Constructing the Sexual Crucible: an integration of sexual and marital therapy. New York: W.W Norton Schnarch, D. M. (2003) Resurrecting Sex. New York: Quill (HarperCollins) Schnarch, D. M. (2009) Intimacy and Desire. New York: Sterling Productions Wiseman, J. (1996) SM 101: A Realistic Introduction. Greenery Press. !Winston, S. (2010) Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure. Mango Garden Press. Page 5 of 7 !

Cinetherapy Check these out on http://www.imdb.com A Bit of Lippy Glen or Glenda Sick: The life and death of A Single Man Glue Bob Flanagan Supermasochist After Stonewall Hedwig and the Angry Inch Shortbus All About My Mother Hit So Hard Stonewall Angels in America Hit and Miss (box set) Stud life Another Country If These Walls Could Talk Tales of the City (box set) Before Stonewall 1 & 2 TransAmerica Beginners Intersexxions The Birdcage Behind the Candelabra Jeffrey The Broken Hearts Club Better by Chocolate Kinky Boots The Color Purple Beautiful Thing Le Fate Ignoranti The Crying Game Better Than Chocolate Lip Service (box sets) The Guru Big Eden Longtime Companion The Hours Blue is the Warmest Colour Ma Vie en Rose Thelma and Louise Bound Maurice The Living End Boys Don't Cry Melting Away The L Word (box sets) Boys on the Side Milk The Killing of Sister George Brokeback Mountain My Beautiful Launderette The Naked Civil Servant Breakfast on Pluto My Own Private Idaho The Night Listener Break My Fall Nowhere The Normal Heart Brideshead Revisited Out in the Dark The Servant Broken Hearts Club Orange is the New Black (box set) The Wedding Banquet But I'm a Cheerleader Parting Glances Torch Song Trilogy By Hook or by Crook Peter’s Friends Totally F***ed Up Cloudburst Philadelphia To Wong Fu, Thanks for Desert Hearts Priscilla Queen of the Desert Everything Divine Trash Queer as Folk (box set) Trembling Before G_D Drifting Flowers Rent Victim Female Trouble Salo (Pasolini) Vito Gazon Maudit Sebastiane XXY Get Real ! Zero Patience Bibliotherapy (recommended self help books)

Page 6 of 7 See also the KNOWLEDGE section of www.pinktherapy.com for various topics of useful books for clients and web resources Wayne Besen’s website for Truth Wins Out the campaigning group telling the truth behind Reparative Therapy http://www.truthwinsout.com/

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