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11132010_SHU_FairfieldCountyCatholic Purchase tickets through Edgerton Center at 203-371-7908 or online at edgertoncenter.org. Fairfield County Catholic Tickets are $35 each, and all proceeds will benefit the new Chapel of the Holy Spirit. Additional donations welcome. November 13, 2010 2 November 2010 Soundings “Beginning a New Liturgical Year”

bout a year from now, on the First Sunday of Advent 2011, parishes throughout the will begin using the re-translated Roman Missal, the large book that contains the A prayers used at . This translation has taken a long time. In fact, it was underway fifteen years ago, when I became a bishop. As a newly ordained bishop, I learned how difficult it was for nearly 300 U.S. bishops – let alone English-speaking bishops around the world – to agree on how to translate the prayers of the Mass from their original language, Latin, into English. The goal is lofty: good, comprehensible English that is faithful to what the original Latin texts say. One thing with which everyone seems to agree is that translating is more an art than a science.

Be that as it may, the new translations are being able online and in print. This committee will help par- been praying and proclaiming for some 33 years. Many readied for publication. And it is important for us as ishes to avail themselves of the best of these resources. of them I know by heart. So I realize in my own life as a diocesan family of faith to use the year ahead to If you are about my age or older, you may remember bishop and priest the need to prepare well to use the new prepare ourselves to receive and to use the new texts. the “liturgical changes” which took place nearly 40 years texts. But I also realize that this is not an insurmount- A great deal of this work is already underway. Some ago. Among those changes was the new Sacramentary able challenge. If I study the new texts, pray over them, time ago, I appointed a small committee of diocesan which Pope Paul VI authorized. practice them, and receive good priests to assist us all in the process of implementing Although this Sacramentary was new, coaching, it’s more likely that I will the new texts. This committee includes Msgr. Alan many of the prayers it contains are “Just because it is in proficiently pray and proclaim the Detscher, of St. Catherine of Siena Parish, very old and not easy to translate. new texts. Riverside and the former director of the Bishops’ For example, the original Latin of our native tongue There is something else with Committee on the Liturgy; Msgr. Andrew Varga, pas- the opening prayers or “collects” at which nearly everyone agrees. tor of St. Luke Parish, Westport, who is active with the the beginning of Mass are almost like doesn’t mean that we The year ahead is a wonderful Federation of Diocesan Liturgical Commissions; Father compact poetic compositions. opportunity for all of us to redis- Samuel Scott, the rector of St. John Fisher Seminary Laced throughout the Latin readily understand what cover the meaning of the liturgy. Residence; Father Robert Kinnally, director of voca- prayers are allusions to the Bible. Just because it is in our native tions for the Diocese of Bridgeport; and Father Joseph What’s more, the Church liturgi- the liturgy is all about.” tongue doesn’t mean that we read- Marcello, who is my priest-secretary and master of cal language contains references to ily understand what the liturgy ceremonies. the Church’s doctrinal teaching on is all about. In fact, I think that I am very grateful to this committee, which has the sacraments, the Eucharist, sin, and the workings of many people either never knew or have forgotten what already visited all five Vicariates in the diocese to listen God’s grace. It is important that this richness come more the liturgy really is. In the coming months, there will to concerns and questions which the priests and deacons to the fore so that we can appreciate the beauty of the be many efforts to catechize regarding the liturgy and I have regarding the new translations. This committee worship that the Church sets before us all. will do my part by using my column in the year ahead is preparing to return to the Vicariates in the very near None of which is meant to say that this change will to describe the parts of the Mass and their meaning. I’ll future to further this conversation and to introduce the be easy. It will most impact priests and deacons. I am try to keep these columns brief and simple while, at the new texts. After that, clergy study days, together with already aware of this because I have started “practicing” same time, offering a path to a deeper understanding a day of recollection on the liturgy itself, are being – doing dry runs by reciting the newly translated orations of the meaning of the Mass. In this way, all of us will planned. In addition, many fine resources for clergy and and Eucharistic prayers. Like many priests in the dio- be better equipped to share in the liturgy which is the parishioners have been developed and are readily avail- cese, I have gotten used to the current texts which I have “source and summit” of our life as Catholics. n

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New York Archbishop Tim Dolan visited the Bascilica of 3 A STIRRING WITNESS 13 A CALL TO LOVE 34 B&P St. John the Evangelist in Stamford recently to concelebrate the Catechetical Congress Cardinal Cordes Whats happening in November Inside this issue Red Mass, which seeks guidance for Catholic lawyers and legal 5 NEW PRESIDENT 22 ST. BERNADETTE FILM professionals. In his homily, he discussed Religious Freedom at Sacred Heart U. Young actors star 3 Catechetical Congress inspires Diocese and thanked the more than 1,000 worshippers for their won- 8 PURGATORY 32 COLUMN derful reception. PHOTO BY MICHELLE BABYAK Bishop Lori reflects Thomas Hicks

Handel’s 16 Meet St. Augustine Medal Receipients Messiah Pm (Photo top left) St. Pius X student Jane Capodanno Wednesday, December 16, 2009 · 7:00pm Chapel of theNew Holy Haven Spirit, Symphony Sacred Orchestra Heart University Please visit us on: William Boughton, Conductor 10, 2010 • 7:00 Special Guests: The Cathedraldecember of Saint Joseph Schola Cantorum (Dr. Jeffrey Douma, Conductor, Dr. Ezequiel Menendez, Music Director) HANDEL’S

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Latest news: www.sacredheart.edu Voices of the Cathedral of Saint Joseph Schola Cantorum bridgeportdiocese.com Seating is limited. Purchase tickets at www.Sacredheart.edu/meSSiah.cfm Tickets are $35 each and all proceeds will Chronicling the life and death of Jesus Christ, Messiah, is noted for its magnificent power, and brings audiences to their feet benefit the Chapel of the Holy Spirit. with its climactic Hallelujah chorus. Join the New Haven Symphony Orchestra, Music Director William Boughton, and the Additional donations welcome. voices of The Cathedral of Saint Joseph Choir in this performance of the Christmas portion of Handel’s epic masterpiece. bags for the poor children of Bridgeport. Additional donations welcome.

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11132010_SHU_FairfieldCountyCatholic Fairfield County Catholic November 13, 2010 3 November 2010 Local News Red Mass Celebrates a “Radiant Catholic View”

By BRIAN WALLACE the Church doesn’t impose politi- cal solutions, but that religious “There is a radiant Catholic expression makes an important view of the human person at the contribution to a healthy society. BISHOP LORI CONFERRED the Pro Ecclesia et Pontifice (For foundation of all civil law,” New The archbishop said he will Church and Pope) medal on Attorney Philip Lacovara and his wife York Archbishop Timothy M. never forget a trip he made to Madeline for their outstanding service to the Church. Dolan said at the annual Red Bethlehem University, which was Mass for lawyers and legal pro- surrounded by tanks and soldiers BASIC MORAL PRINCIPLES are “hard wired” into human reason, said New York Archbishop Timothy M. Dolan, speaking at the annu- fessionals held October 17 at the in a bombed-out war zone just al Red Mass for lawyers and legal professionals at the Basilica of St. Basilica of St. John the Evangelist outside of Jerusalem. A young John the Evangelist in Stamford. (Photos by Michelle Babyak) in downtown Stamford. Bishop Muslim student told the arch- William E. Lori and Msgr. bishop that he had made friends Stephen DiGiovanni, St. John’s with the Christians and Jews also of separation” between ment is not to marginalize faith pastor, joined Archbishop Dolan attending the university. “I am a religion and the state but to protect religious exercise to celebrate Mass for more than child of Allah who gave me life was not meant to wall as a bench mark of a “positive 1,000 worshippers in the stand- and calls me to obedience to him,” off religion from public secularism.” He added that the ing-room-only Basilica. the student said to the archbishop. life but was intended Founding Fathers understood Referring to the words of U.S. “Christians and Jews believe to “safeguard against a that religious freedom is the most Supreme Court Justice Anton this, too,” Archbishop Dolan said government that would fundamental right upon which all Scalia, Archbishop Dolan said in his homily. “How could we direct religious life,” and others hinge. “There is no Catholic school of treat ourselves and one another deny religious freedom. Professor Garnett said “real law, no Catholic tort reform or with anything less than dignity and legal system workers. Garnett tells his world disputes” ranging from the property law,” but the teachings and respect?” At the brunch held at the Notre Dame law students that use of God in Pledge of Allegiance of the and other “Let us pray that the better Knights of Columbus Hall fol- being a Catholic attorney doesn’t to the legality of death penalty religions are the basis for a civil angels of our sullied nature may lowing the Red Mass, University mean “checking your faith at the can rightfully be debated, but it’s society. He noted that basic moral prevail in making difficult moral of Notre Dame Professor of Law door,” but integrating what you important to understand that “reli- principles are “hard wired” into decisions in the law and govern- and Associate Dean Richard profess and cherish into the prac- gious freedom is not an aberration human reason and deepened by ment,” the archbishop said to the W. Garnett said that Thomas tice of law. in a secular state but the basis of the practice of faith. He added that gathering of 250 lawyers, judges Jefferson’s concept of the “wall He said the role of govern- ➤ continued on page 4 Catechetical Congress calls for renewed zeal

By PAT HENNESSY Mysteries of Light” was the the third Luminous Mystery. theme of the day-long convoca- Our secularized society, he “We need to teach tion that energized catechists, said, has reduced the seven vir- directors of religious education tues to one: “Be nice.” Because people how to pray. and adults interested in deepen- the message of faith in the death Faith without prayer ing their faith. and Resurrection of Jesus goes In addition to hearing into a world ignorant of it, “pass- is a contradiction” Cardinal O’Malley, participants ing on the faith requires intense Sean Cardinal O’Malley, were deeply moved by the testi- prayer. Our challenge is to help mony of Imaculée Ilibagiza, a our young people see the beauty Archbishop of Boston, survivor of the Rwandan holo- of God. To do that, we have to told the assembly. caust. Their talks were followed experience it ourselves in our by a series of afternoon work- own interior life.” The cardinal called the shops. Even more than educating nation’s catechists “unsung “What a joy it is for me to young people, the cardinal pin- heroes” in “training in a way of be here,” said Bishop William pointed adult faith formation as life that is increasingly alien,” E. Lori in his welcome to par- the greatest challenge facing the in his keynote address to the ticipants. Speaking in his role as Church. He pointed out three Diocesan Catechetical Congress, chief catechist of the diocese, he groups: active Catholics, the held at Sacred Heart University described the Congress as a “time unchurched and – the most dif- on November 6. of grace, a time for prayer, reflec- ficult group – inactive Catholics Speaking to almost 700 lay- tion, and mutual support in the who have stormed off or just OUR SECULARIZED SOCIETY has reduced the seven virtues to one: “Be men and women in the Edgerton work of handing on the faith.” drifted away. Nice,” said Sean Cardinal O’Malley, Archbishop of Boston, in his keynote address to the diocesan Catechetical Congress. “Our challenge is to help young Center auditorium, the cardinal Bishop Lori introduced “If our faith means anything people see the beauty of God.” (Photo by Michelle Babyak) called the nation’s catechists Cardinal O’Malley, whose to us, we must pass it on,” the “unsung heroes” in “training in address, “Passing on the cardinal concluded. “Our chal- a way of life that is increasingly Faith: Not an Option, but an lenge is to help people see the The saving power of God’s who survived the genocide in alien.” Imperative,” took a look at pro- beauty of God, the beauty that love was given a personal voice in Rwanda that took the lives of her “Catechizing Through the claiming the Kingdom of God: saves.” the witness of Imaculée Ilibagiza, ➤ continued on page 23 4 November 2010 Local News

Red Mass from page 3 Bishop’s Pastoral wins national praise human freedom.” urging all Catholics to reflect on exchange of letters between made available on the diocesan He said it’s not a time “to the issues of the day with respect Thomas Jefferson and a Baptist website (www.bridgeportdiocese. privatize ideals” or to “scrub to Catholic social teaching. Church in Danbury, . com) and through the diocesan religious expression from the The letter, which was printed The Baptists complained that the email network, which saw the public square,” but to inte- in English and Spanish, was dis- state granted them religious free- letter go viral as many read- grate personal conscience and tributed in all parishes throughout dom “only as a favor” rather than ers forwarded to their friends religious experience into the the Diocese of Bridgeport on the recogniz- throughout national debate on issue with weekend of October 23. Although ing it as an the nation, the full protection of the U.S. written and distributed before the inalienable prompting Constitution. recent midterm election, many of right. the report the thoughts and concepts devel- “Like the by CNS. oped by the Bishop have long- Danbury The term implications. Baptists of Knights of In an interview with Catholic old, one has Columbus News Service (CNS), the bishop the sense sent the said that the document was that the letter to BRIDGEPORT – “Let largely written over one weekend, freedom to its entire Freedom Ring,” Bishop Lori’s but it was more than two years go about Connecticut Pastoral Letter on Religious in the making as he reflected on our mis- member- Freedom, has earned national the attempts of the Connecticut sion...has ship, while attention for its original and legislature to interfere with the become many read- insightful look into the nature of Church and its institutions. a favor, a ers across religious freedom in an increas- The bishop said he wrote the ‘carve out’ the nation ingly secular society. Pastoral Letter not only because accorded encountered The Pastoral Letter explores the Church has every right to us by the the letter on the major themes of religious lib- “hold up its issues and teachings” State, rather the United erty as a God-given human right in the national political debate, than a God- States – not as a grant from the state – but also because he hoped to given right,” Bishop Lori wrote, Conference of Catholic Bishops and the understanding of religion spark an important conversation noting that religious expression (USCCB) website. as a social good and a contributor about the increasing marginaliza- is not something to be tolerated Praise for the document to a just and life-affirming social tion of religious thought in the but rather is a vital and necessary has come from people in par- order. public square. component in the democratic ishes throughout the Diocese Bishop Lori discusses recent One of the most talked about experiment. of Bridgeport and from groups During the breakfast, challenges to the Church in sections of the Pastoral Letter The bishop said he also hopes such as the Family Institute of Bishop Lori conferred the Connecticut, and concludes by is the revealing account of an that the letter will encourage Connecticut. Pro Ecclesia et Pontifice (For Catholics to make their voices “Though addressed specifi- Church and Pope) medal on heard and to become even more cally to the Catholics of Fairfield Attorney Philip Lacovara and Mass Cards from Holy Family active in political and civic life by County, the Family Institute his wife Madeline for their bringing Catholic social teaching of Connecticut strongly recom- outstanding service to the to the public square. mends that Bishop Lori’s letter Diocese of Bridgeport. “You and I are called to be be read by everyone of every Attorney Lacovara was W e have a beautiful singled out for his extensive assortment of Mass Cards of witnesses to truth by holiness of denomination in every corner of life, by personal integrity and by pro-bono legal services to all kinds - sympathy, get well, our state. It is the most compre- our readiness to defend the truth hensive statement on the histori- the diocese, while Madeline birthday, anniversary, holidays even when it is unpopular or cal roots and present threats to was recognized for her work or a special word of thanks. politically expedient,” he writes religious liberty in Connecticut as former president of the We have a collection of new in his conclusion. that we have ever seen,” wrote Cathedral School Cluster one-year and perpetual In March 2009, more than FIC President Peter Wolfgang on of Bridgeport inner-city ele- mentary schools. n remembrance folders from 4,500 Catholics rallied at the the Family Institute website. which to choose. State Capitol to protest an uncon- “Truly one of the better docu- stitutional attempt by the state ments that I have read linking legislature to internally reorganize natural law with the historical hristmas the Catholic Church. The out- development of religious freedom Mass Cards cry, which blew out the capitol and legislative imperatives,” switchboard, quickly became a wrote Louis Furlo of Wilton. now available. national news story. “Thank you, Thank you, C Bishop Lori said that the Thank you,” wrote Mary Calo of Give the gift of prayer to proposed legislative and the sub- Stamford, “I will forward this on someone you love! sequent attempt to define free to my family and friends.” speech as lobbying were part of (Print copies of Let Freedom a larger pattern that has targeted Ring, A Pastoral Letter on Religious Mass Card offi ce: 860.521.6709 the Catholic Church and its Freedom are availabe in English institutions with proposals such and Spanish through the office of HOLY FAMILY PASSIONIST RETREAT CENTER as Plan B or the removing of the Communications: 203.416.1464. 303 Tunxis Road • West Hartford, CT 06107 Statute of Limitations. To read the document online in both Attorney James Stapleton 860-521-0440 • [email protected] An electronic version of the chaired the event and introduced languages, visit the diocesan website the speakers at the breakfast. Order online: www.holyfamilyretreat.org/masscards. Pastoral Letter was immediately as www.bridgeportdiocese.com.) n 5 November 2010 Local News Two parishes hold golden jubilees

By LAURA HUCKINS Shehan), first bishop of the current principal, Sr. Mary John Diocese of Bridgeport. The fledg- O’Rourke, the school received Looking back to the expan- ling parish, under the energetic national recognition this year as a sion of the Diocese of Bridgeport leadership of its founding pastor, Blue Ribbon School. during its first decade under Fr. Dan Foley, met in Roxbury Over the past two years, mem- Bishop (later Cardinal) Lawrence Elementary School before build- bers of the parish have partici- Sheehan, two parishes celebrated ing in its current location on pated in activities to celebrate the their golden jubilees during the Roxbury Rd. The first Mass in anniversary, including pilgrim- month of October. the new church was celebrated on ages to the Holy Land and . On October 3, more than 300 October 5, 1961. Parish liturgies have been held to parishioners gathered for a Mass Fr. James D. Grosso, St. remember all those who contrib- celebrating the 50th Anniversary Leo’s current pastor, called the uted so much to the development of the founding of St. Leo Parish, Anniversary Mass “the most of the faith community. along with Bishop William E. important part of our year-long Fr. Angelo Arrando, St. Lori, Fr. James Grosso, St. Leo’s celebration of all the wonderful Gregory’s current pastor, is par- pastor, and 25 concelebrating things this parish does, including ticularly proud the parish’s ecu- priests. Many priests who have weekly support of New Covenant menical vision, joining with area served in St. Leo Parish over the House soup kitchen. This celebra- Jews, Muslims and Protestants. years returned for the celebration. tion helps us recall all the people “Long before September 11th Following the Anniversary Mass, who loved this place.” TWO PARISHES marked their golden jubilees in October. Bishop William E. occurred, we knew one another a reception was held in the parish St. Gregory the Great Parish Lori celebrated Mass on October 3 at St. Leo Parish in Stamford; St. Gregory as friends and were in a rela- the Great Parish in Danbury held its anniversary celebration a week later. Both hall, prepared by the parish ban- in Danbury celebrated its 50th parishes were founded in 1960. tionship with one another,” he quet committee. anniversary with a noon Mass points out. “With the events of St. Leo’s is located in the on October 10. An anniversary September 11th, our Muslim northern part of Stamford known gala was held during the follow- in a public school: the gym of building in a converted barn that sisters and brothers reached out as Roxbury, along the New ing week at the Amber Room in Hayestown Public School was the October. Guided by its first pastor, to us to provide escorts for their York border. It was established Danbury. site of the first Mass, celebrated on Msgr. John Wigh, the parish saw women, dressed in traditional as a parish in 1960 by Bishop St. Gregory’s also began its Pentecost Sunday, June 4, 1960. the opening of St. Gregory the garb, as they went out in public Lawrence Shehan (later Cardinal sacramental life worshipping The parish moved into its own Great School in 1962. Under its alone.” n Sacred Heart University names Interim President FAIRFIELD – Dr. John Bishop William E. Lori, Dr. John J. Petillo has to enhancing Newark’s quality MA in counseling from Seton J. Petillo has been appointed chairman of the board, said he served as dean of Sacred Heart of life; regional president of First Hall University; a professional interim president of Sacred was confident University’s Union Insurance Services; chief diploma in counselor education Heart University by the Board of Petillo would John Welch executive officer of The Tribus from Fordham University; an Trustees, following the resigna- continue the College of Companies; chairman, president MPA in public administration tion of Dr. Anthony J. Cernera. tradition of Business since and chief executive officer of from Rutgers; a master of divin- Dr. Petillo, who has been at excellence that March 2009, CareAdvantage, Inc.; president ity degree in pastoral theology the University since March 2009 has character- where he has and chief executive officer of Blue from the Darlington School of and previously served on the ized Sacred worked to Cross Blue Shield of New Jersey; Theology; and a Ph.D. in coun- Board of Trustees, is the former Heart since its revise the col- chancellor and chief executive seling and personnel services chancellor and CEO at Seton founding. lege’s master’s officer of Seton Hall University from Fordham. He received hon- Hall University and held several Vice program and and Immaculate Conception orary doctor of humane letters executive positions at companies Chairman develop plans Seminary; chancellor for admin- degrees from St. Peter’s College including BlueCross BlueShield James T. for new facili- istration for the Archdiocese of in New Jersey, Universidad Apec and the Newark Alliance in New Morley praised ties. Newark and deputy director of in the Dominican Republic, Jersey. Cernera for his Prior to Catholic Community Services. and South Korea’s Kyoung-Gi He was named interim 22 years of ded- that, he was In addition, Dr. Petillo has University. president on Thursday October ication to the president of been a consultant to several He chairs the finance com- 28 when Dr. Anthony J. Cernera University and the University healthcare-related initiatives, mittee of the Wachovia Regional informed the Board of Trustees all that he had of Medicine including the development of Foundation and is a member of that he was resigning to pursue accomplished and Dentistry free-standing medical facilities the board of Christ the King High his work as a professor and his and said the Board wished him of New Jersey, where he imple- and the creation of an insurance School in New York. leadership roles in national well for his efforts. mented a series of reforms relat- brokerage organization special- Dr. Petillo’s previous board and international Catholic The school continues to break ing to transparency and account- izing in administrative services. memberships include vice educational organizations. records for the number of applica- ability, including the adoption of He served a three-year stint as chairman of the St. Joseph’s “I look forward to working tions it receives each year, and Sarbanes-Oxley protocols for the a visiting professor at Rutgers Healthcare System; chairman of with the faculty in a collegial it welcomed its largest freshman university. University’s Graduate School of the New Newark Foundation manner,” Petillo said. “I believe class ever in 2010. More than Dr. Petillo’s other professional Public Administration, teaching and the Essex County College it’s vital for us to focus on the 6,000 undergraduates and gradu- experience includes serving as an executive program course on Foundation. quality of education we provide ate students make it the second- president and chief executive offi- leadership. Dr. Petillo is married and his and continue to strengthen Sacred largest Catholic university in cer of the Newark Alliance, a pri- Dr. Petillo holds a BA in wife is a board-certified internist. Heart as a Catholic university.” New England. vate-public partnership dedicated classical languages and an They have one daughter. n 6 November 2010 Catholic World Middle East issues call for peace VATICAN – Pope Benedict XVI opened the Synod of Bishops for the Middle East on October 11, entrusting the Synod to the protection of the Virgin Mary, Mother of God. The Middle East deserves special attention, he said in the homily of his opening Mass, because it is “the cradle of a universal design of salvation,” won by Jesus Christ and offered to all. There are 5.7 million Catholics among the 356 million people in the region. Catholics constitute about 1.6% of the overall popula- tion, and live as a minority in the region. Catholics are even a minority among the Christians of the region; most Christians are Orthodox. The challenge of maintain- ing an active Christian presence in the Middle East, despite an IRAQI CHRISTIANS MOURN the victims of the October 31 attack by Islamic militants on the Syrian Catholic cathedral in Baghdad during a memorial mass increasingly assertive Muslim at Saint Joseph Chaldean church in Baghdad on November 4. More than 40 Christians were killed in the attack. majority, emerged as a key theme during the first full day of discus- sions. of the East?” it is important to uphold the reli- national seminary opened in used laboratory-made versions of Armenian Catholic Coptic Catholic Patriarch gious freedom of Christians who Cuba in early November – the natural biological signals to con- Archbishop Boutros Marayati of Antonios Naguib, the relator gen- often face adverse circumstances. first new religious construction vert ordinary skin cells into cells Aleppo, Syria, posed the ques- eral of the Synod, spoke at length Emigration is a constant prob- permitted in the Communist that appear virtually identical to tion in dramatic fashion: “Are about the political pressures on lem for the Church, Patriarch nation in five decades. On embryonic stem cells. They can we waiting for the day when the Christian minorities, particularly Antonios continued. The November 3-6, a delegation of then coax these cells to change world – as a spectator amidst in countries like Iraq where they Christian community needs to the United States Conference into specific tissues that would be the indifference of the Western are, he said, “primary victims of find ways to encourage young of Catholic Bishops’ (USCCB) a match for transplantation into churches – will sit back and the war and its consequences.” In families to stay in the region, Subcommittee on the Church in patients. watch the death of the Christians the entire region, he continued, ensuring them of some secu- Latin America travelled to Cuba The new approach involves rity and hope for the future and to attend the opening of the new the use of messenger RNA empowering them to maintain National Seminary, which is (mRNA). The researchers found an active Christian witness in the located some 30 miles outside their method to be surprisingly Attention “Snowbirds”! land of the apostles. of Havana. The seminary is the fast and efficient at reprogram- Melkite Archbishop Elias first new religious construction in ming the cells. The cells were Chacour of Akka, Israel, issued Cuba in more than 50 years. converted in about 17 days, about Will you or your family members an impassioned call for help: “I In addition to the inauguration half the time of previous meth- be in Florida this winter? insistently invite you and plead of the seminary, the group visited ods. In other aspects the method with the Holy Father to give parishes and missions in Havana proved up to 100 times more effi- even more attention to the living supported by the Collection for cient than previous approaches. Bishop William E. Lori stones of the Holy Land.” the Church in Latin America. Tests indicated the cells were vir- In dealings with Muslims, The collection has supported tually identical to embryonic stem will attend receptions Patriarch Antonios said, the projects all over Cuba, includ- cells. The researchers success- in Naples, on February 6 Church’s work is complicated by ing the construction of the new fully coaxed the cells to become the fact that “Muslims, in gen- seminary. muscle cells. and in the Palm Beach eral, do not distinguish between Cuba currently has 87 semi- area on February 7-9. religion and politics, a situation narians, according to Vatican POPE NAMES 24 NEW resulting in Christians becoming statistics; 53% of the nation’s 12.7 CARDINALS More dates and details non-citizens.” The problem has million people are Catholic. VATICAN – Pope Benedict been aggravated, he added, by XVI has announced his plan to to follow. Please e-mail the growth of fundamentalism. NON-EMBRYONIC STEM elevate 24 new members to the Pat Hansen: The appropriate response, he sug- CELLS GENERATED at a consis- gested, might lie in “education BOSTON, MA – In what tory to be held on November [email protected] to peace, the elimination of all one expert calls a “major paper” 20. He named 20 who to join the invitation list. forms of prejudice from school published in October, researchers will become voting members of books.” reported new advances in creat- the College of Cardinals. Four ing efficient and safe alternatives others will receive a red hat in NEW SEMINARY OPENS to human embryonic stem cells. recognition of their long service IN CUBA A team led by Derrick J. Rossi of to the Church, but because they See you in the Sunshine State! HAVANNA, Cuba – A new the Children’s Hospital Boston are over the age of 80 they will 7 November 2010 Catholic World not be eligible to participate in and slave-like conditions. There vices in hotel conference rooms. been working to save the miners. could have caused rocks to slide papal election. Two Americans also is evidence that Haitian chil- Converting Muslims is a crime Drillers Supply International, or cave in – trapping the miners are among those to receive the dren are being trafficked into the in Saudi Arabia punishable by the company Hall co-owns with forever. “The path we had to fol- cardinals’ traditional red cap: Dominican Republic to work in death penalty, although such his wife, Angelica, has operated low came perilously close to old Archbishop of the agriculture, beg on the streets, or verdicts are rarely handed out. a Chilean branch for almost 25 mine shafts,” Hall explained in Diocese of Washington, DC, and perform domestic work. The world’s top oil exporter is years. It manufactures parts for an interview with Catholic News Archbishop Raymond Burke, “The United States and the home to several million expatri- drilling hundreds or thousands of Agency. The ground conditions the American-born prefect of the international community must ates, many of them non-Muslims. and the diameter shaft they were Apostolic Signatura. re-focus their attention on Haiti The Catholic Church has urged drilling made for technical dan- to help ensure that the Haitian Riyadh to lift the strict limitations gers. “The miners were trapped in PLIGHT OF HAITIAN people maintain hope and that on Christian worship. the first place due to a landslide. CHILDREN DIFFICULT the situation in Haiti does not Ibrahim al-Mugaiteb, head of There was a very, very real pos- WASHINGTON, DC – deteriorate,” Archbishop Thomas the independent Saudi Human sibility that … we could cause “The Displaced of Haiti: Long- Wenski said, emphasizing the Rights First Society, said the another slide.” Term Challenges and Needed need to see “that Haitian fami- overall situation for Christians Explaining how his faith con- Solutions” was released following lies are reunited and vulnerable had improved since King tinually “shaped this job,” Hall the United States Conference Haitians, such as children, receive Abdullah took office in 2005. recalled the day he left his parish of Catholic Bishops’ Mission to protection.” “The fact that they were only in Houston, Texas to travel to the Haiti. briefly detained shows a change,” mine. “Our priest called me up “Haiti is still in a fragile SAUDIS ARREST 13 FOR he said. on the altar ... we had probably state,” said Archbishop Thomas CELEBRATING MASS over a thousand people. He told Wenski of Miami, head of the RIYADH, Saudi Arabia – CHILEAN RESCUER them that I was leaving right after U.S. Bishops’ Special Task Force Saudi religious police stormed TO BECOME DEACON Mass to go to Chile, and what we on Haiti. “Nearly nine months a private Mass taking place in a SAN JOSE MINE, Chile – were going, and had them pray after the earthquake, 1.3 million Riyadh hotel in October, arrest- On October 13, the world held for us. persons remain homeless, living ing 12 Filipino organizers and its breath as 33 Chilean miners “And I can guarantee you, I in tent camps. Full assistance to a priest. Approximately 150 began to emerge through a nar- could feel that prayer while I was help the country rebuild has yet expatriates were in attendance row shaft, drilled half a mile on the drill site.” to be delivered, and displaced at the Mass. The 13 were taken below the earth. The extraordi- GREG HALL SHOWS a Sept. 17 Hall, who is the last semester Haitians, particularly vulnerable to a police station and charged nary man who helped save them note from the 33 trapped Chilean of the six-year formation program children, remain in dangerous with proselytizing; they were later Drillers Supply International miners. (Photo by James Nielsen/ for permanent deacons, said ouston hronicle) situations.” released on bail. co-owner Greg Hall, is train- H C the rescue operation’s success Children in Haiti are vulner- Saudi Arabia, home to Islam’s ing to become a deacon in the was not simply improbable, but able to exploitation, particularly holiest sites, applies an austere Archdiocese of Galveston- feet underground. miraculous. “I had a real experi- to the restavek system, a practice form of Sunni Islam that confines Houston next February. Hall volunteered his exper- ence of seeing God’s work among in which a child is sent to work any form of non-Muslim worship For more than two months of tise after initially hearing that a his people,” he reflected. “I know for another family in a life that to the privacy of non-Muslim sleepless nights, the rock-drilling rescue was unlikely. Even the there are miracles. But you know often leads to domestic servitude homes. Christians often hold ser- expert and deacon-in-training had smallest error or miscalculation what? Now everybody knows.” n

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Most Reverend William E. Lori I would like to propose another heaven. way of looking at our Masses On the Solemnity of All During the month of and prayers for the dead during Saints, the Gospel reading con- November we lovingly remem- November and throughout the sists of the Beatitudes. Found in ber those who have died. On year. Praying for the dead is an the Gospel of St. Matthew, the November 1 we celebrate the act of realism and hopefulness. Beatitudes describe the joy or Solemnity of All Saints, in which Indeed, prayers for the dead blessedness that is compatible we join with the redeemed are realistic when we stop to con- with heaven. In the event you in heaven in worshipping the sider our own faults and failings. don’t have a Bible at hand, allow Lord and in asking their inter- If we are honest, we recognize me to remind you of Jesus’ teach- cession. On November 2, and our own sinfulness. Similarly, ing on what constitutes true hap- indeed, throughout the month we also recognize that those who piness on earth and in heaven: of November, we pray for the have gone before us also had “Blessed are the poor in deceased who still may be in need their share in human weakness. spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of purification. The problem with sin, however, of heaven. Blessed are they who To some it may seem that is not merely that we’ve broken mourn, for they shall be com- November 1 is a day of joy the rules of right conduct. The forted. Blessed are the meek, for whereas November 2 and the rest ultimate problem with sin is that they will inherit the land. Blessed of the month is a somber time. it is incompatible with the joy of are they who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be satisfied. Blessed are the merci- ful, for they will be shown mercy. One Family In Mission Blessed are the clean of heart, for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God. Blessed are Where there is a Will, they who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness, for theirs there is a way… is the kingdom of heaven” a way to continue the (Mt. 5:3-10). what Jesus – God’s Son made to the particular judgment, when mission of Jesus. Admittedly this recipe for man – is like. So the true happi- after death, we have our defini- happiness is radically different ness of heaven begins to dawn in tive meeting with the Lord. A local Religious Community in from what the world proposes. our lives when “…the Father can I have often thanked God that We should meditate on the Zambia — the Handmaids of the see and love in us what He sees the particular judgment is not Beatitudes because they sum up and loves in Christ” (Preface VII merely a “pass-fail” affair. I, for Blessed Virgin Mary — manages what kind of people we should for Sundays). one, fear that I might not make HIV/AIDS programs, cares for orphans, and staffs be as followers of Christ and as The theological virtue of hope the grade: “Be perfect as your schools and parishes in Lusaka and Monze. members of the Church. In fact, set us on a life-long path of seek- heavenly Father is perfect!” Pope Benedict XVI points out ing to be one with Christ so as to (Mt. 5:48) Jesus taught. that the Beatitudes are Christ’s Yet we should look forward Your gift today helps support the work of these Sisters and so grow in the likeness of Christ. Yet self-portrait; they describe for us we often stumble along the way to this meeting with Christ in many more like them throughout the Missions. a spirit of hope. One reason for our hope is that the Church Remembering The Society for the Propagation of the Faith has looked deeply into the liv- in your Will will help provide for such life-giving and ing Word of God and realized that further purification from sin hope-filled service well into the future — your own legacy occurs even after death. What’s of love to the poor of the Missions. more, the Church also under- # stands from the Word of God that we, the living, can help those The Society for THE PROPAGATION OF THE FAITH have died in their process of final …a Pontifical Mission Society purification. Thus, over time, the Rev. Msgr. John E. Kozar, National Director Church’s teaching on Purgatory 70 West 36th Street, 8th Floor, NY NY 10018 developed, together with vivid Enclosed is my gift for the Missions today of $______imagery of what Purgatory might be like – one has only to think Please send me information about remembering The Society in my Will. ❐ of the immortal Dante’s Inferno. Name ______Perhaps, however, it is this very imagery that has prompted Address______even devout believers to place City______State______Zip______Purgatory on a shelf of forgotten ideas. www.givetothemissions.org www.onefamilyinmission.org Another approach to 9 November 2010 Special Column

Purgatory might help us, an the prayers of our fellow believ- him after death. In fact, he told approach suggested by Pope ers, including those of family me that if I did so, he’d haunt Benedict XVI and other theolo- and loved ones. Even then our me! His point that he wanted all gians. In his beautiful encyclical lives are intertwined in the com- of us who knew and loved him Lt. meets students on hope, Pope Benedict meditates munion of saints. Thus, Pope to pray for him after death, to On October 8, U.S. Army First Lieutenant Megan Dobbins, vis- on our meeting with Christ after Benedict tells us: “No one lives have the Eucharist offered for the ited Lauralton Hall (Academy of Our Lady of Mercy). First Lieut. death. In this meeting, the partic- alone. No one sins alone. No one happy repose of his soul, and thus Dobbins, a Lauralton graduate (Class of ’04) spoke to history stu- ular judgment, is saved alone” to be with him as Christ gazed dents about her recent experience in Afghanistan, making students Christ gazes at “The theological (Spe Salvi, into the very depths of his soul aware of the realities of that country and culture. n us with love, no. 48). with purifying love. a searing gaze virtue of hope set us That is November is thus a month that penetrates why we have of realism and hope as we hold to our very on a life-long path the Eucharist up our beloved dead, asking that depths, a gaze offered for they quickly enjoy the light and that reveals of seeking to be one our beloved life of heaven. May the Eucharist everything in us dead. In the we celebrate hasten their entrance that is false and with Christ so as to Eucharist into the great liturgy of heaven, unworthy of heaven and the assembly of the blessed! heaven’s perfect grow in the likeness earth are “Eternal rest grant unto them, love. joined. In O Lord, and let perpetual light Unless we of Christ. Yet we the power of shine upon them. May they rest BACK FROM A TOUR of duty in Afghanistan, Lauralton Hall graduate, arrive at the Christ’s sac- in peace. May their souls, and the Megan Dobbins ’04, a member of St Lawrence Parish in Shelton and a first particular judg- often stumble along rificial gift of souls of all the faithful departed, Lieutenant in the U.S. Army, recently spent a day at Lauralton speaking ment in a com- self, we can through the mercy of God rest in to students including seniors (l) Catherine Maher, of Sacred Heart Parish pletely sinless the way.” pray with and peace. Amen.” n in Georgetown and Christina Breisler of St. Jerome Parish in Norwalk. state, we may for those who well experience have died and the purifying gaze of Christ’s they can pray for us. love as painful as He burns away Years ago, my former boss ‘all that is not holy, all that and mentor, Cardinal James Saint Mary’s Church is not true.’ Yet in His look of Hickey of Washington, spoke to love there lies salvation and me about his death. The Cardinal “The Mother Church of Norwalk” ultimate joy. was a virtuous, prayerful man 669 West Avenue, Norwalk | Est. 1848 | www.stmarynorwalk.org | 203.866.5546 Furthermore, when we stand – as I observed in working with before the judgment seat of him on a daily basis over a span Pastor: Fr. Greg J. Markey Deacon Stephan Genovese Christ we are not alone; rather of eighteen years. His Eminence Parochial Vicar: Fr. Richard G. Cipolla Choirmaster: David J. Hughes we are helped and supported by warned me not to “canonize” In Residence: Fr. Paul N. Check, CEO of Courage

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By PETER T. FARRELLY, JR. second-year Spanish students. full time teacher this year. ing and challenging “One of our school goals is Beginning in her home coun- for students of every “Hola, Señora to have our middle school stu- try, Alvarado has been a teacher level. dents test into Spanish II going for more than 25 years. She The students’ lan- Alvarado!” into high school,” explains St. earned degrees to teach the early guage involvement Lawrence Principal Martha grades, then middle school, high begins with twice So it begins for students at Reitman. “When students do school and college. Along the a week classes in St. Lawrence School in Shelton, that, they have more flexibility in way, she also learned to teach Pre-K four and early from pre-K four to eighth grade, course choices their senior year.” deaf children sign language. grades, moving to who are all learning to speak “The high school teachers “We are truly blessed having three times a week Spanish. With the expanded say they can’t wait to get our her here,” Reitman says. With in the middle school. Spanish program established this students,” says Sandra Alvarado, Spanish as Alvarado’s native lan- Alvarado uses all year, many students are expected a native of Guatemala, St. guage, “she brings so much more her tricks to keep the to be able to skip Spanish I when Lawrence’s Spanish teacher. She to her classes.” And with her var- students interested they enter high school and begin had taught at St. Lawrence part ied background, she manages to and learning. From CLAIRE WOLF, now a sixth-grade student at St. their foreign language studies as time before coming onboard as a make learning Spanish fun, excit- the moment they Lawrence School in Shelton, reaches up to douse her enter her class, no Spanish teacher, Sandra Alvarado, with a shower English is spoken. of blessings in the school’s backyard. The pre-K-8 She speaks to them Spanish program at St. Lawrence includes expres- only in Spanish, sions of culture and faith to make learning exciting. (Photo by Peter Farrelly) greeting them with erhaps the greatest joy in retiring is a big smile, putting her hand to her subjects, including English, social P knowing you can live life to its fullest. head and turning it as if she was studies, and religion.” turning a key. This past April, for example, Maintaining your indepen- “Cambien a Español,” she says Alvarado brought the tradi- with a winning smile, using the tional Fiesta de Cascarones to dence and helping you enjoy sign language signal for “click.” St. Lawrence, a celebration of life is our only goal at Carmel The combination of sight and God’s blessings that usually takes Ridge and Teresian Towers. sound reinforces what she is place on Fat Tuesday before the teaching the students and “they prayerful season of Lent. Students Located on the grounds of are getting really, really good.” in pre-K through eighth grades St. Joseph’s Manor, our When she speaks to them took part in the Fiesta, with each unique retirement commu- in Spanish “they might not be student emptying, cleaning, and able to repeat what I said, but refilling 18 eggs with confetti. nity provides the support and they understand it and they can Then they decorated the eggs by security you may need to live answer in Spanish.” And that dyeing or painting them. In all, life to its fullest, including is one of the foundations of her there were 3,434 confetti-filled 24-hour medical and security teaching strategy. eggs and each of the classes took “First, we want to educate their turn on the school’s play- services, nursing staff, shopping their ear” to recognize the words ground after the colorful eggs were transportation, and optional in Spanish, then work on getting spread out Easter-bunny . meal plan. Day-to-day living is them to understand what they After a brief instruction on hear and, when they can answer the shower of blessings each enhanced by an on-site chapel, in Spanish, she works on pronun- broken egg imparts, the children library, recreation hall, crafts ciation. scrambled across the lawn to pick room, swimming pool, and Her classroom is set up like a few eggs to break over their a laboratory, with everything classmates’ heads. For a few min- nearby golfing. labeled in Spanish. Colorful post- utes, the field was a chaotic blur ers adorn every wall, bright col- of children, eggs, flying confetti, ored drawings of eggs or casca- delighted screams, laughs and We would like to help you rones hang from the ceiling, and giggles. Some even broke a few make the next years the finest even the floor has a rug showing Cascarones over their teacher’s the Spanish alphabet. Charts head before heading back into of your life. 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Professionally managed by Winn Residential. ture and the Catholic faith. Her they say ‘you always close with classes tie in with so many other the best.’ ” n 11 November 2010 Feature No time to step back from greatness FAIRFIELD – The United tive campaign gave voters a sense problems, he said he remains to support their local charities States has just gone through of what they are against, but not hopeful that this nation “built by and churches and to be inno- historic political turnover and it what they really voted for. dreamers and risk takers” will vative in the best sense of the faces unprecedented international Speaking as a Catholic rediscover a sense of purpose in American spirit. He also asked challenge at a time when citizens business leader and member personal responsibility and shared the business leaders in atten- have no confidence in its political of St. John Parish in Darien, sacrifice for the common good. dance “to hire someone” and and economic institutions, said Dilenschneider said that business Despite the challenges, he help boost the economy. author, commentator and interna- and government leaders must not believes that there are encourag- The talk was sponsored tional communications consultant check their faith at the door when ing signs in a slowly recovering by Fairfield University’s the Robert Dilenschneider at the making tough policy decisions. economy, higher rates of educa- Center for Faith and Public CAPP breakfast for business lead- “We cannot do business in a tion in community colleges and life and by CAPP, a lay-led ers at Fairfield University. moral vacuum. Issues like human vocational schools and the larger Vatican organization founded “Americans have just gone rights and poverty are central to American tradition of confronting by Pope John Paul II to foster through huge change. Are we the Christian message,” he said. problems making sacrifices. Catholic Social Teaching. ready?” he asked. “I am here He praised the laymen and He urged those in attendance For more information visit today to tell you that we in the women who are members of to speak out to their legislators, http://www.capp-usa.com. n United States are nearing a set of Centesimus Annus Pro Pontifice conditions that if not addressed (CAPP), for bringing Catholic will lead to our relinquishing the principles to the public square emetery ffices leadership we enjoy in the world.” without fear of criticism. C O Almost 200 business lead- Among the most crucial BRIDGEPORT-STRATFORD ers turned out for Mass said by problems faced by the U.S., St. Michael Cemetery Bishop William E. 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Lori told a total of 22 units of supportive dedication ceremony held on the cer of Catholic Charities, said the those who gathered for the open- housing on the Merton Center grounds of the new building at project was six years in the mak- ing of Thomas Merton Homes campus in the Hollow neighbor- 65 Madison Ave., Bridgeport, ing and thanked board member that “the nip in the air reminds us hood on the edge of downtown Mayor Bill Finch and state hous- Jeanie Tisdale of Fairfield as “the of why we did this.” Bridgeport. When fully occupied ing officials joined Bishop Lori in heart and soul of the project.” Referring to the new 16-unit they will provide housing for up celebrating the achievement that One of the new tenants, Esther building that will provide perma- to 70 adults and children. represents one of the most ambi- Ross, 35, told the gathering that nent housing for the homeless The $6.8 million develop- tious supportive housing efforts she had fallen on hard times alongside the state’s largest soup ment is the result of a private- in the greater Bridgeport area. until she was accepted into the kitchen, he said that Thomas public partnership, with Catholic The Mayor called Bishop Lori “a Catholic Charities housing pro- Merton Homes will help hard Charities of the Diocese of great friend of the city,” and said gram. Since moving into support- working people “by giving them Bridgeport and Mutual Housing that the Catholic Church is a wel- ive housing, the formerly home- a place where they can reclaim Association of Southwestern come “faith-based partner in the less mother of four children has their dignity.” Connecticut serving as the lead community” helping to support been reunited with her children, returned to college and restored her credit. St. Vincent’s Medical Center in Bridgeport, CT is a 473-bed community teaching and referral “The housing has been a bless- hospital with a Level II trauma center. As a local Catholic health ministry, sponsored by ing and an opportunity for myself Ascension Health, a national Catholic healthcare system, we are currently seeking the following: and my family,” said Ross, who hopes to do well enough one Catholic Chaplain day to “give something back and become an advocate to end Full-Time, Various Shifts and Hours, Day/Evening & Night Rotation The Catholic Chaplain will provide for the spiritual care of all of our patients, their families and our staff. Individual must be able to relate to the sick, suffering and dying and be attentive to their special needs. Should possess experience in crisis ministry, pastoral counseling and group dynamics. Must(Photos have byworking Amy M knowledgeortensen) and support of the Ethical and Religious Directives for Catholic Healthcare (ERDs). Responsibilities include addressing each of the Advanced Directive requests as sent by IS via the department computer each morning and evening and keep a tally of successful/ unsuccessful encounters; responding to all traumas and Codes; the day shift is 6:30AM to 2:30pm; when on evening (4pm-12:30am) and night (12:30am-6am) On Call, will note each response in the Log Book; and ability to provide a variety of Christian and Ecumenical services along with responding to other spiritual needs requested by patients, family and staff. Requirements: Bachelor’s Degree with additional graduate study relevant to pastoral care, or an equivalent combination of education and experience from which comparable knowledge and abilities can be acquired. Clinical Pastoral Education Training (CPE) with Board Certifi cation by NACC or ACPE, or in process to be certifi ed within 2 years is preferred. Ability to receive local ecclesiastical endorsement. Catholic Priest Chaplain Full-Time, Various Shifts and Hours, Day/Evening & Night Rotation AL BARBER, chief executive officer of Catholic Charities, points out that The Catholic Priest Chaplain will provide for the spiritual care of all of our patients, their families and the Merton Homes, alongside of the soup kitchen, reach out to the poor and our staff. Responsibilities include addressing each of the Advanced Directive requests as sent by IS strengthen this Bridgeport neighborhood. They will provide housing for up to via the department computer each morning and evening and keep a tally of successful/unsuccessful 70 adults and children when fully occupied. (Photos by Amy Mortensen) encounters; anointing all new Catholic patients each day and enter the anointing in the patient computer record and the Anointing Book; celebrating Mass each day and making announcements on the overhead address system 15 minutes before Mass; responding to all traumas and Codes; homelessness.” manent supportive housing for the day shift is 6:30am to 2:30pm; when on evening (4pm-12:30am) and night (12:30am-6am) On Call, will note each response in the Log Book; and providing for the Sacramental needs requested by After the ceremony, guests families that are homeless or at patients, family and staff. Requirements: Bachelor’s Degree with additional graduate study relevant were given a tour of the three- risk of homelessness, and those to pastoral care, or an equivalent combination of education and experience from which comparable story building, which includes that have a head of household knowledge and abilities can be acquired. Clinical Pastoral Education Training (CPE) with Board 16 two and three-bedroom apart- who is disabled. Each family will Certifi cation by NACC or ACPE is preferred. ments as well as a community pay 30 percent of their income room and other amenities. The toward rent. Please email your resume to [email protected], new apartments will provide per- ➤ continued on page 24 fax 203-576-6366 or apply online at www.stvincents.org LEARN ROSARY MAKING Call for catalog and introductory offer or visit www.rosaryparts.com

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STV 10-28 FFLDCC 1 10/28/10 4:25:12 PM 13 November 2010 Feature Catholic social teaching: a call to love and faith FAIRFIELD – “The Church XIII addressing the excesses the solution tation to think about litmus tests” is a teacher rather than a govern- and corruption of the so-called is “a radical that American Catholics apply to ing power. The Church has no “gilded age” with its growing change of their politics from the right and political program for a perfect gap between rich and poor. The behavior, a the left. society,” said Paul Josef Cardinal encyclical’s teachings were based conversion to With a series of rhetorical Cordes, speaking at Fairfield on philosophy and natural law a new mode questions, Cardinal Cordes paired University during a talk spon- and were applied to problems of existence opposing political viewpoints: sored by Centesimus Annus Pro such as living wages, work condi- revealed in Can we be pro-environment and Pontifice (CAPP/USA) and the tions and the role of the state. God’s salvific pro-life? Can we be anti-abortion Fairfield University Center for Cardinal Cordes told the gath- work.” and anti-death penalty? Can we Faith and Public Life on Sept. 29. ering that the cataclysms of the Pope be opposed to war and opposed to He added that Catholics have the 20th century brought the realiza- Benedict an anything-goes attitude toward individual responsibility to work tion that goodwill and reason furthered Bioethics? Can we be for free trade for social justice. are not enough to overcome the this thought and the rights of workers? Cardinal Cordes is a close advi- “obstruction of sin.” Likewise, by urging Cardinal Cordes said that sor of Pope Benedict on social many dreams of a new social Catholics to Catholic social teaching can unify issues and president of “Cor order – such as communism look beyond these viewpoints because it is Unum,” the Vatican agency that – paved the way for “manifes- the State and based on faith and begins with coordinates the international char- tos without soul” that became into their ings of Pope Benedict XVI chal- the understanding that “everyone itable activity of the Church. He destructive of human freedom own hearts for the charity and lenge both liberals and conserva- is called to raise his or her arms said that Catholic social teaching and dignity. love that animate social justice tives to rethink their politics with toward God in prayer. The time is not dogma but, rather, is evolv- Beginning with Pope John and help the poor. respect to Church teachings. He we give to God is not lost but is ing thought that addresses the dig- XXIII Pacem in Terris (Peace on In his encyclicals Deus Caritas said that ironically one of the best the moment when we are most nity of the human person within Earth) in 1963 and intensifying Est (God is love) and Caritas in appreciations of Benedict’s 2009 truly alive.” the context of the social order. with the encyclicals of both John Veritate (Charity in Truth), Pope encyclical was found in the New (Centesimus Annus Pro Pontifice Quoting Pope Benedict XVI, Paul II and Benedict, Catholic Benedict has emphasized the York Times, which has often been (“CAPP”), is a lay-led Vatican orga- he said Catholics must engage in social teaching entered a new importance of love and personal critical of the Catholic Church. nization founded by Pope John Paul questions of social and govern- “realm of thought rooted in theol- charity. The Times pointed out that the II. For more information visit ment policy because “building ogy and the truth of God’s revela- Cardinal Cordes said the writ- Pope’s writing served as “an invi- http://www.capp-usa.com) n a just social order is the task for tion,” he said. every new generation.” In his writings, John Paul II Modern Catholic social teach- taught that the causes of human ing began more than a hundred misery are not simply economic years ago with Rerum Novarum, but reside in our lack of faith St. Camillus the 1891 encyclical of Pope Leon and our sinful nature. He said Rehabilitation & Nursing Center

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EDITORIAL LETTERS TO THE EDITOR Pass it On Praise for Catholic Charities Understanding “We need to teach people how to pray. Faith without prayer is Dear Editor, and other assistance could help of Religious a contradiction,” Archbishop Sean O’Malley told the Catechetical I am a Senior Services with the rest, which opened up a Congress in early November. If that’s not an easy challenge for cat- Counselor at the New Milford door for this couple to continue Freedom Crucial echists, it’s even more challenging at home. Thanksgiving dinner, a Senior Center in New Milford, the immigration process. In this natural time for family prayer, can highlight the difficulty. and I have, on occasion, run into past year, Alex has been instru- “I’m thankful my book report isn’t due this weekend.” The teen- a situation where I find someone mental in filing all the required Dear Bishop Lori: ager’s answer draws laughs around the table. The adults then subtly who is undocumented. This hap- forms with the INS and even I had a chance to read your squirm, uneasy that they, too, might be called on to say what they pened last year when I began accompanied the couple to East pastoral letter this morning and were thankful for. Please pass the gravy, the turkey is delicious – leave working with a sweet couple who Hartford just last week, where the thought that it was terrific. Truly space for the pie. Just don’t ask me to express my thanks out loud. came to me seeking financial assis- women had her fingerprints and one of the better documents that I Especially here in New England where it started, gratitude is tance. While helping them apply picture taken. She is very close to have read linking natural law with acknowledged as the primary reason for Thanksgiving. Family, often for some programs, I was sur- becoming a permanent resident the historical development of reli- an extended gathering of family and close friends, is a close second. prised to find out that the wife was now and her face is beaming. She gious freedom and the legislative Praying out loud, expressing feelings of gratitude in the warm safety not a legal resident of the U.S.A. is so happy and proud and finally imperatives of our modern society. around a family table . . . some families can pull it off. Many don’t try They had been married for feels that she will have an iden- I look forward to paying closer – and don’t even think of trying. What’s going on? Why is it embarrass- eight years and were so happy tity in this country. I can’t say attention to the issues facing our ing? Why isn’t this as normal as picking up a fork or using a napkin? together. I asked why she had not enough about the wonderful ser- local church and being ready to do “If our faith means anything to us, we pass it on,” Cardinal been able to obtain residency in vice offered by Catholic Charities my part when called upon. O’Malley said. Do we do this by accepting the teenager’s lighthearted this country. They explained that and the caring people who make May God continue to bless offering? By asking for something more meaningful? By moving on to they did not have the financial dreams come true. your great work! one of the willing adults? There’s no set answer. Praying, even in our resources for her to do so. That’s own homes, isn’t as normal as using a napkin. Not anymore. when I called the International Lorraine Kelley, LCSW Louis Furlo “Be people of prayer,” urges the Cardinal. It can be awkward. But Institute who referred me to Alex New Milford Wilton we have a safe place to start, around a table, sharing a meal. Have a Arevalo at Catholic Charities in happy, prayer-filled, Thanksgiving. Bridgeport. Alex was able to waive the Religion small fee for Catholic Charities, Pastoral Letter in the Public Square much needed By now, most have read Bishop Lori’s timely reflection, “Let Freedom Ring,” a pastoral letter on religious freedom. Perhaps the Dear Editor, recent elections have cooled the fevered pitch of our political battles The Bishop’s Pastoral Letter on for a while, but much of what Bishop Lori identifies as areas of con- Religious Freedom is wonderful cern in his letter will not go away. His is one of the few voices that and so timely. Is Bishop Lori part have provided us a new and valued perspective on the larger role of of the newly-formed Black Robe religion in our society. Is it a nuisance to be tolerated by the state, or Regement? Thank you, thank a God given right and the basis of all human freedoms and a healthy you, thank you! I will forward civil society? The bishop asks compelling questions and gives citizens this on to my family & friends in of all faiths much to think about: “A great need exists for those who other diocese. “With a firm reli- understand how to bring the truths, virtues, and values that flow from ance on the protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to WILLIAM SCHEYD, pastor of St. Aloysius (right) is faith and reason into public life while respecting the legitimate free- assisted by Deacon Louis Howe as he blesses the Shrine of Our Lady of each other our Lives, our Fotunes dom of all citizens,” he writes. Bishop Lori also delivers an important the Miraculous Medal in a recent ceremony. A special grotto was built insight into the “doctrine” of separation of church and state: it was and our Sacred Honor.” for the statue that was donated by a parishioner. It has become a quiet not intended to wall out religion but to ensure that it thrived and that place for prayer and meditation for those in New Canaan who have a people of all faiths could bring their values to the public square. This is Mary Calo devotion to the Blessed Mother. a perspective well worth heeding as society continues to grapple with Stamford the most important moral and social issues of the day. Most Rev. William E. Lori Circulation Publisher Every registered Catholic household November Light Brian D. Wallace in Fairfield County is entitled Executive Editor [email protected] to a subscription. We’ve set the clocks back and sealed our fate. This is the season Office of Pat Hennessy To add or change an address, when we experience darkness and light in the most elemental way. 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fire. It took 22 years for Joe to works for war victims, in all coun- Pope, he founded a “House for win his case. But that didn’t save tries, getting them food, warm the Soldiers,” and worked to A Woman’s View his life. He died in 2004. clothing, and medical care; he search for soldiers unaccounted We need to honor our veterans insisted on help worldwide to ease for. Clearly, as he brought the By Antoinette Bosco because of what they suffer in all the pain and deprivations being love of Jesus to the soldiers, the our wars. Ninety-two years ago, endured by the innumerable wid- seeds were sown here for his on Nov. 11, 1918, World War I ows and orphaned children suffer- yearning that there would one Antoinette Bosco is a member ended, with an infamous tragedy. ing hunger and homelessness. day be “pacem in terris” – peace on of St. Marguerite Bourgeoys At 5 a.m. Germany signed an Pope Benedict, emphasizing earth, repeated as the title of an armistice with the Allies. But then, Christian love, proclaimed that encyclical when he was named Parish in Brookfield. someone got a brilliant idea. For Pope in 1958, choosing the name the sake of “historical drama,” We need to honor John XXIII. news of the armistice could be On this anniversary of the end or as long as I can Army man from 1954 to 1962, held until 11 a.m. Then the news our veterans because of the “Great War” we should remember – and I go back was one of the victims of the U.S. could be catchy, reporting that the remember with pride and grati- to World War II – the cry Army’s experimentation with armistice had taken effect on the of what they suffer... tude those two great churchmen, Fin our country has been chemicals when he was on active 11th hour of the 11th day of the who tried to bring Christ’s com- that we must “support the troops.” duty in Panama. When you sit at 11th month. In those six hours, “It is the duty of every person to passion and peace to the world. So why is it, then, that we hear the bedside of a once dynamic, many more soldiers on both sides run to help another human being Our Pope today, who chose the stories all too often that some vet- but now dying, loved one, you were killed – for the sake of a who is in danger of death.” name Benedict XVI, speaks also erans have to wait endlessly before ask a lot of questions. catchy headline! That war was to have a great as they did, pleading for the getting benefits? I have inter- Joe told us how he and some While the countries continued effect on another man of God, a end of hate and killing among viewed so many veterans over the of his buddies became deathly the killing from 1914 to 1918, young priest by the name of Don nations. decades, from Vietnam to the first sick after a 1958 “spraying” by what few Catholics know is that Angelo Roncalli, assigned to a The earlier Pope Benedict, in Persian Gulf War, too often hear- the U.S. Army. That’s when they Pope Benedict XV, who became medical unit, “primitive at best,” endlessly pursuing peace to end ing that their claims of becoming first learned of the devastation Pope within weeks of the start working in a military hospital and the horrible World War I, had ill from their military service were of Agent Orange. Battling illness of the war, poured out his love serving also on the horrific battle- argued that if a peace settlement endlessly put off. ever after, which was diagnosed during the war and its aftermath. fields. “The war was a time of was not built on Christian prin- For more than four decades, I later as “hairy cell leukemia,” my He established an “Office for intense suffering for Don Angelo, ciples of justice, and above all, followed the news stories of veter- brother went back to the VA to Prisoners” in the Vatican, making a time of testing and of learning charity, latent hostilities between ans made ill because of their ser- seek financial assistance. They it possible for prisoners of war, through sorrow,” wrote a biogra- peoples would rise again and there vice experience but put on hold rejected his claim and those of his and soldiers at the front on all pher, Alden Hatch. could be no real reconciliation by the U.S. Government. That’s similarly-affected buddies, saying sides, as far as possible, to main- Like Pope Benedict, the young and therefore no lasting peace. His because my late, much younger he had no proof because their tain contact with their families; priest called this war “a useless words have been, sadly, prophetic. brother, Joseph Oppedisano, an Army records had been lost in a he gave money to set up welfare massacre.” Influenced by the And war goes on. n Catholic Social Teaching relevant

By Robert A. Nalewajek Rerum Novarum, the Pope, and social teaching has a long and cal, economic and cultural issues world. It is now our privilege, the Church with him, confronted rich story. It is both old, in that and learn how we can apply and duty, to tell the story. “How, then, shall we live?” a society torn by dispute and it presents timeless values, and them. Knowledge of these prin- Now, as to why this is “The (Tolstoy, 1882) The world was in addressed it in pointed terms. new, as it constantly reflects the ciples, in combination with our Church’s Best Kept Secret:” trouble when Tolstoy asked that This is where our story begins. world around us – as it is. faith, will provide the foundation Most Catholics are largely question. Radical changes were We invite you to join us as we Following columns will for us to address current social unaware of Catholic social doc- taking place in politics, econom- unfold this wonderful patrimony answer the question posed by questions such as the reform of trine. Even if we attend Mass ics and society. The Industrial of Church teach- Tolstoy, “How, then, health care and immigration. regularly and are active in our Revolution was at its height. ing – Catholic Social shall we live our In fact, this Church teaching parishes we know little of this Major dislocations of pastoral Doctrine. “How, life?” We will learn is so important and comprehen- teaching. With the press of so people to squalid industrial cen- In a sense Leo’s that our Church has sive that in his 1999 letter to the many topics to teach our priests, ters disrupted the way of life mil- letter gave the Church then, shall done a lot of thinking Church in America, Pope John our Church’s social doctrine is lions had known for generations. “citizenship status.” and reflection on the Paul II called on lay Catholic often left out of seminary curri- Mass migrations from Europe The Church recog- we live?” macro issues: what leaders to form their consciences cula. With the simultaneous drop were splitting families. nized her right and form of government on the tenets of the Church’s in formal Catholic school educa- The writings of Karl Marx had duty to address the changing real- and economic system is best for social doctrine. tion it becomes awfully hard to be taken root in widespread com- ities of public life and to suggest promoting human freedom; why That is one reason why, in aware of the tenets of our social munist movements. A traditional genuine solutions. “In the face of must faith be part of the public 1993, John Paul II established doctrine. society was passing away and a conflict which set man against square; what are the pathologies us: Centesimus Annus Pro Pontifice Anticipating that some may another beginning to be formed man” Pope Leo, for the first destroying our culture and how (CAPP). As a lay-led organiza- wish to ask questions, learn more – one which brought the hope of time, both established and firmly do we fix them; how should we tion with offices in the Vatican or discuss the various topics as new freedoms but also the threat defended the Church’s moral address the issues of developing we are unique – possessing both they arise, we are creating a page of new forms of injustice and authority to promote justice in countries; what are the dangers of juridical standing in the Vatican at our web-site where we can con- servitude. public life and, by so doing, “cre- a welfare state? State and canonical standing in tinue the dialogue started here. It At the height of this clash ated a lasting paradigm for the As importantly, we will intro- our Church. John Paul created is at www.CAPP-USA.org. Pope Leo XIII intervened. In Church” duce the three key principles CAPP to spread the word of this (Robert A. Nalewajek is president his landmark encyclical of 1891, Like Tolstoy’s novels, Catholic underlying evaluation of all politi- great gift of the Church to the of the National Board of CAPP.) n 16 November 2010 2010 Saint Augustine Medal of Service Congratulations 2010 Saint Augustine Medal of Service recipients

BRIDGEPORT – “This is one of the hap- piest days of the entire year. My heart is filled with gratitude,” Bishop Lori said to the gath- ering of nearly 1,000 men and women who came to St. Augustine Cathedral on Saturday, October 30 for the conferral of St. Augustine Medal. Bishop Lori awarded 130 St. Augustine Medals to individuals and couples from every parish in the Diocese. Faith & Service It was a moment of great pride and joy for those who have given great service to their par- ishes and to the Church. Some planted gardens or made beautiful music. Others led prayer groups, reached out to the homebound, cooked for the poor and other parishioners, and helped to raise funds. Most recipients have been toiling away qui- etly for many years, avoiding the spotlight and offering up their sacrifices for the parish and the Church. In this issue, we’re more than pleased to shine a light on them and their goodness. “Your faith has led to service and the gift of self. It reflects the goodness of Christ,” Bishop Lori said in his homily. (Photos by Michelle Babyak)

Assumption Parish, Westport: Maria Onorato, Blessed Sacrament Parish, Bridgeport: Mr. Christ the King Parish, Trumbull: Mr. Holy Cross Parish, Fairfield: Mr. Frank Us – Esq. – “Maria is the wife of Attorney Fred Onorato Guillermo Carmona – “Bill is a ‘Jack-of-all- Liberato Ferrelli – “Liberato is a long time “In his many years of faithful service to Holy Cross and mother of four, who continues to provide Trades’ and freely shares his many gifts with the parishioner and volunteer at Christ the King Parish Parish – since his immigration from Solvenija, Assumption Parish with both legal and fiscal guid- parish on Sunday and throughout the week. He has who is very dedicated to his parish family. He Frank devoted many hours of selfless hands-on ance. She serves as Vice Chair of the Parish Finance a great spirit and love of the Eucharist.” is always willing to share his time and talent giving, volunteering and involvement in parish Council.” – Father Tom Thorne, Pastor – Father Reggie Norman, Administrator whenever needed.” – Father Bernard Dolan, Pastor life.” – Father Alfred Pecaric, Administrator

Holy Family Parish, Fairfield: Miss Eleanor Holy Name of Jesus Parish, Stamford: Mr. Holy Name of Jesus Parish, Stratford: Sister Holy Rosary Parish, Bridgeport: Mr. William Gonzalez – “Eleanor volunteers for many parish Peter Sebastian – “Peter supports and participates Gloria Marie Kascak, sssm – “Sister Gloria Schlenk – “Bill is always fully committed to Holy activities and cheerfully handles often tedious fully in the life of Holy Name of Jesus Parish. He Marie has long been a part of the parish family. Rosary Parish. He is hard working and dedicated administration work. She has coordinated schedul- donates his time as a volunteer, especially in his She taught for many years at Holy Name of Jesus and plays an integral role in many facets of parish ing of Lectors and Extraordinary Ministers of Holy service to the parish office.” School in addition to serving as a catechist.” life from the Seniors to the Legion of Mary.” Communion.” – Father Guido Montanaro, Pastor – Father Eugeniusz Kotlinski, cm, Pastor – Father Andrew Marus, Pastor – Deacon Don Foust, Administrator 17 November 2010 2010 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

Holy Spirit Parish, Stamford: Mr. Philip Holy Trinity Parish, Sherman: Mrs. Barbara Immaculate Heart of Mary, Danbury: Mr. Jose Notre Dame of Easton Parish, Easton: Mr. Borba – “Philip has been a parishioner for 22 Richardson – “Barbara is a church volunteer, Ferreira – “For the last 20 years, Joe has been a and Mrs. Walter Finick – “Pat is a long time years. He is a Trustee of Holy Spirit Parish, a ‘par excellence.’ Always reliable, she is a leader in great collaborator, Lector and volunteer, spending parishioner, who serves as a faithful Lector and Lector, and President of the Stamford Catholic the local Boy Scouts Program, a Lector at weekend many hours around the stove as the ‘chief cook’ in Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion. Schools Advisory Board.” Masses and organizer of many parish socials.” most of the parish’s celebrations.” – Father Antonio Walter has helped with weekly collection for years.” – Father Robert Hyl, Pastor – Father Paul Murphy, Administrator Carvalho De Azevedo, Administrator – Monsignor Thomas Driscoll, P.A., V.G., Pastor

Our Lady of the Assumption Parish, Fairfield: Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Bridgeport: Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Wilton: Our Lady of Good Counsel Parish, Mr. John Welch – “Jack has been a model Mrs. Maria Duque Ferreira – “Maria has been Mr. and Mrs. Frank Dunn – “Frank is Secretary Bridgeport: Mr. Walter Urriola – “Walter is a volunteer in every aspect of parish life. He is always taking care of Our Lady of Fatima Church for of our Parish Council and a Lector, while Claire very generous and devoted parishioner and Trustee. ready to help and inspires others to participate. He many years in so many ways, most notably by works with other ladies to clean the Altar Linens. Walter volunteers to help anyone in need and is the hardworking parishioner every pastor dreams placing the flowers on the altar every weekend.” They are also Extraordinary Ministers of Holy embodies the virtue of charity.” about!” – Monsignor Blase Gintoli, Pastor – Father José Alves, Pastor Communion.” – Father Michael Palmer, Pastor – Father Eugene Szantyr, Administrator

Our Lady of Good Counsel Parish, Bridgeport: Our Lady of Grace Parish, Stratford: Mr. and Our Lady of Guadalupe Parish, Danbury: Mr. Our Lady of Peace Parish, Stratford: Mr. Mr. William V. Rodgerson, Sr. – “Bill Mrs. Joseph Magnano – “Joseph and Eleanor and Mrs. Esteban Almonte – “Hand in hand Richard Yatsinko – “Richard has worked tirelessly Rodgerson was founding Trusteee of Our Lady have been faithful parishioners for many years. with first pastor, Fr. José Fernandez, Esteban and and selflessly to support Our Lady of Peace Parish of Good Counsel Parish. His leadership has helped Joe has served as Chairman of the Men’s Club Carmen have worked very hard for this parish for many years. His quiet commitment, hard work to build the rectory and guide the Church for and Eleanor is always ready to help the parish.” family for over 30 years.” and service have had a large impact within the many years.”– Father Eugene Szantyr, Administrator – Monsignor William Schultz, Pastor – Father Hector León, Administrator parish.” – Father Richard Murphy, Pastor

Our Lady Star of the Sea Parish, Stamford: Sacred Heart of Jesus Parish, Danbury: Mr. Sacred Heart Parish, Georgetown: Mr. and Sacred Heart Parish, Greenwich: Mr. and Mrs. Mr. Joseph Masone – “A daily Mass attendee and and Mrs. Dennis Fischer – “Dennis and Irene Mrs. James Ryan – “Jim and Diane have been Robert Hallock – “Over the years Anne and Bob volunteer, Joe tends to the flower gardens each day, faithfully proclaim the Word of God together members of the parish since 1987. For the past have demonstrated their faith and their love for replenishes the oil and looks after the sanctuary as Lectors at the Liturgy and coordinators of the 15 years, they’ve been directors of the Folk Choir God and the Church with a caring and generous candles and the Church. He is a true bright light ministry at the Dorothy Day Hospitality House.” and have served as team members of the Catholic spirit. They are always the first to reach out.” in the parish.” – Monsignor Edward Surwilo, Pastor – Father Dennis Mason, O.F.M. Conv., Pastor Engaged Encounter.” – Father David Leopold, Pastor – Father Bose Raja Selvaraj, Administrator

Sacred Heart Parish, Stamford: Mrs. Rose Saint Agnes Parish, Greenwich: Mr. and Mrs. Saint Aloysius Parish, New Canaan: Mr. and Saint Ambrose Parish, Bridgeport: Mr. Gary Pocograno – “Rose is a lifelong member of Sacred John Margenot – “John and Dolly are founding Mrs. Gino Buzzeo – “Gino uses his masonry Redder – “Gary helps with all the work needing Heart Parish, where for many years she has used parishioners of Saint Agnes Parish. John served as skills to help the parish. For 50 years he has set to be done around the parish as well as actively her God-given talents for others. She is a member Trusteee to the parish for two terms, while Dolly up the outside Christmas Nativity, while Loretta participating in Parish Bingo and the Knights of the Rosary Altar Society and an active has always pitched in.” has served as a Catechist and grade level leader.” of Columbus.” volunteer.” – Father Richard Futie, Pastor – Father William Carey, Pastor – Monsignor William Scheyd, P.A., V.G., Pastor – Father John Stronkowski, Pastor 18 November 2010 2010 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

Saint Andrew Parish, Bridgeport: Mrs. Betsey Saint Ann Parish, Bridgeport: Mrs. Jean Saint Anthony of Padua Parish, Fairfield: Mrs. Saint Augustine Cathedral Parish, Bridgeport: Meyer – “Betsey exemplifies ‘stewardship.’ She is Cooney – “A nurse by profession, Jean is an Una Redgate – “With enthusiasm, style, humility, Mr. Ernest Amaral – “Ernest has served the always willing to help whatever the occasion. She Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion, and grace, Una prayerfully serves the People Cathedral parish for more than 50 years. Currently has a true love for God and His people and the a Homebound Minister, a member of the Senior of God, and never forgets to keep her sense of the Chair of the Parish Finance Council, Ernie and Church. Betsey exhibits a passion to have the par- Rides Program, and a Secretary of the Parish humor while doing so! She is a gift to Saint his wife Evelyn have just celebrated their 50th wed- ish be its very best.” – Father Eugene Szantyr, Pastor Vision Group.” – Father Peter Towsley, Pastor Anthony Parish.” – Father John Baran, Pastor ding anniversary.” – Monsignor Kevin Wallin, Pastor

Saint Benedict-Our Lady of Montserrat Saint Bridget of Ireland Parish, Stamford: Mr. Saint Catherine of Siena Parish, Riverside: Mr. Saint Catherine of Siena Parish, Trumbull: Parish, Stamford: Mr. and Mrs. Julio Sánchez Lawrence Jordan and Mrs. Beth Wilson-Jordan and Mrs. Patrick Grasso – “Patrick is a valued Mrs. Mary Ellen Kovacs – “For the past 13 years, – “Julio and Liliana dedicate their time, their talent – “They are a great example of the modern family member of our Finance Council who helped lead Mary Ellen, a retired nurse, has been the Director and their treasure to the well being of the committed to each other and their Catholic faith the recent very successful capital campaign, and of Pastoral Care at Saint Catherine of Siena. She community where they serve with love and great as teachers, coaches, and Extraordinary Ministers Eileen always serves at his side.” is truly present to the suffering families of the unselfishness.” – Father Gustavo Falla, Pastor of Holy Communion.” – Father Gill Babeu, Pastor – Monsignor Alan Detscher, Pastor parish.” – Monsignor Richard Shea, Pastor

Saint Cecilia Parish, Stamford: Mrs. Lynn Rule Saint Charles Borromeo Parish, Bridgeport: Saint Clement of Rome Parish, Stamford: Mrs. Saints Cyril & Methodius Parish, Bridgeport: – “Lynn started and directs the Friends of Jesus Mr. and Mrs. Robert Metzger – “Bob and Sheila Samson – “Sheila is an outstanding Mr. Gregory Mikulka – “Gregory is long time Religious Education program for children with Janice have been loyal, generous and active parishioner who serves as an Extraordinary Minister parishioner who is a Lector and Altar Server as well special needs and is also an Extraordinary Minister members and volunteers of Saint Charles Parish of Holy Communion, Lector, adult Altar Server, as instructor for the Altar Boys for the Latin Mass. of Holy Communion.” for more than 50 years.” Religious Education teacher, prayer group leader, He assists at parish functions with much personal – Father David Riley, Pastor – Father Edicson Orozco, Administrator and volunteer.” – Father Joseph Malloy, Pastor kindness.” – Monsignor Joseph Pekar, Pastor

Saint Edward the Confessor Parish, New Saint Elizabeth Seton Parish, Ridgefield: Mr. Saint Emery Parish, Fairfield: Mr. Emery Ihasz Saint Francis of Assisi Parish, Weston: Mr. and Fairfield: Mr. and Mrs. Robert Pietrzkiewicz – and Mrs. Bartholomew Gannon – “They have – “Emery is a Lector at the Sunday morning Mrs. Ralph Palumbo – “Ralph and Carol have “This couple has chaired the Parish Annual Auction been coordinators of Dorothy Day Hospitality Hungarian Mass and coordinator of Hungarian truly given of themselves in service as Extraordinary and Wine Tasting, and also serve as Adult Choir House in Danbury, members of the Ministers of hymns sung during the Liturgy at Saint Emery Ministers of Holy Communion, event and dinner members and Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Mercy and Confirmation Class Coordinators in Church.” dance organizers, fundraisers, and volunteers.” Communion.” – Monsignor Martin Ryan, Pastor Religious Education.” – Father Joseph Prince, Pastor – Father Louis Pintye, O.F.M., Pastor – Father Michael Dunn, Pastor

Saint Gabriel Parish, Stamford: Mr. Thomas Saint George Parish, Bridgeport: Mr. and Mrs. Saint Gregory the Great Church, Danbury: Saint James Parish, Stratford: Ms. Barbara Friend – “Tom is a convert and a long time William Miranda – “William and Gloria have Mr. and Mrs. Eugene McNamara – “The parish Mariconda – “For the past 12 years, Barbara has parishioner of Saint Gabriel Parish. He has been always been willing to make sacrifices in support celebrates the lives and contribution of Gene and volunteered her time and considerable talent an invaluable help in the capital improvements of the parish. From Youth Ministry to Choir, Ann, who along with their son have spent hun- as Organist and Director of Saint James music made in recent years.” liturgical feast preparation and finance.” dreds of hours working on the parish history.” ministry. She is a musical and personal treasure.” – Father Cyprian LaPastina, Pastor – Father Julio Lopresti, I.V.E., Pastor – Father Angelo Arrando, Pastor – Father Thomas Lynch, Pastor 19 November 2010 2010 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

Saint Jerome Parish, Norwalk: Ms. Suzanne Saint John Parish, Darien: Mrs. Susan Byrne Calnon – “Suzanne is a gifted lay leader who – “Susan has inspired parishioners with her dedica- coordinates the Liturgy Committee, chairs the tion as she has worked tirelessly and with great joy annual Parish Festival and trains all Lectors. She as a Parish Council member to assure parish unity, is dedicated, enormously generous with her time charity, communication and deliciously prepared and fun.” – Father David Blanchfield, Pastor meals!” – Monsignor Frank McGrath, Pastor

Saint John the Evangelist Basilica, Stamford: Saint Joseph Parish, Brookfield: Mr. and Mrs. Mr. and Mrs. Antonio Marchetti – “Antonio J. William Font – “They put their faith into and Maria have been faithful parishioners of Saint action every day as Extraordinary Ministers of Holy John’s. They have helped make the Basilica of Saint Communion. Pat is Chair of the Martha-Mary John a great center of Catholic life in downtown Ministry, while Bill has served as chairman of the Stamford.” – Monsignor Stephen DiGiovanni, Pastor Finance Council.” – Father George O’Neill, Pastor

Saint Joseph Parish, Danbury: Mr. George Saint Joseph Parish, Norwalk: Mr. Pierre Godfrey, III – “George has served Saint Joseph’s Claude Philitas – “Pierre is a husband, father, beautifully as Chair of our Finance Committee, friend, and, committed member of Saint Joseph’s. Lector and volunteer at most parish celebrations. As a member of the Haitian Choir and the Parish His love for the parish and its people is inspiring.” Advisory Council, he is a pillar of the Haitian com- – Father Michael Dogali, Pastor munity.” – Father Gilbert D’Souza, Administrator

Saint Joseph Parish, Shelton: Mr. and Mrs. Saint Jude Parish, Monroe: Mr. and Mrs. Vito Saint Ladislaus Parish South, Norwalk: Mrs. Saint Lawrence Parish, Shelton: Ms. Mildred Ormond Sara – “Joan and Orm serve the parish Melfi – “Ellen is currently involved with the Quilt Irene S. Breault – “As a member of the Parish DeFeo – “From her service on the Parish Council, community as Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Ministry, Italian Festival, Christmas Fair and Finance Committee, Choir, Saint Ann Society, par- her leadership of the Women of Saint Lawrence, Communion who regularly bring Communion to Hospitality Group. Vito works with Hospitality, ish bakers, and the South Norwalk Columbiettes and her dedication as Extraordinary Minister of the sick and lead the Rosary at the area nursing Italian Festival, Offertory Counters, and Knights Auxiliary, Irene has given generously of her time.” Holy Communion, she is an exemplar of charity.” homes.” – Monsignor Christopher Walsh, Pastor of Columbus.” – Monsignor John Sabia, Pastor – Father Michael Bachman, Pastor – Father Michael Jones, Pastor

Saint Leo Parish, Stamford: Mrs. Anne Perna – Saint Luke Parish, Westport: Sister Dorothy Saint Margaret Mary Alacoque Parish, Shelton: Saint Marguerite Bourgeoys Parish, “Anne led the Parish Youth Group for many years Ann Choyce, rsm – “Sister Dorothy served as the Mr. John Kosturko – “A devout parishioner and Brookfield: Mr. and Mrs. Peter Gagne – “Peter and presently serves on the Parish Council. She is presence of Saint Luke Parish in her visits to the sick, faithful server at daily Mass, funeral Masses, and the is trustee and an electrical engineer who has helped an Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion, elderly and shut-in parishioners. Her gentle, cheerful Parish Novena, John vigilantly attends to the sick the parish with energy savings. Donna helps to and has been a very important part of the Annual presence is marked by holiness and the compassion and makes sure they receive the sacraments from the promote Perpetual Adoration and serves as parish Parish Fair.” – Father James Grosso, Pastor of Jesus.” – Monsignor Andrew Varga, Pastor priests of the parish.” – Bishop William E. Lori historian.” – Father George Sankoorikal, Pastor 20 November 2010 2010 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

Saint Mark Parish, Stratford: Mr. and Mrs. Saint Mary Parish, Bethel: Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Kavanaugh – “Ron and Eli have been Stephen DeMarco – “Kathleen and Steve are members of Saint Mark’s Church since 1977, where constant givers to our Saint Mary Parish and they have served as Lectors, Extraordinary Ministers School. They are a faith-filled family. Without of Holy Communion, and volunteers in theatre drawing attention to themselves, they do the work productions.” – Father Donald Guglielmi, Pastor of Christ.” – Father Corey Piccinino, Pastor

Saint Mary Parish, Bridgeport: Mr. and Mrs. Saint Mary Parish, Greenwich: Mr. and Mrs. Samuel Díaz – “Samuel has been providing a John Vecchiolla – “Sharon is currently the valuable service to the parish as a volunteer secu- President of the Saint Mary Parish Council and rity guard for many years, while Teresa has been has been involved in several ministries. John is an involved in varied parish ministries and fundraising Attorney who has provided pro-bono services to activities.” – Monsignor Matthew Bernelli, Pastor the needy.” – Monsignor Francis Wissel, Pastor

Saint Mary Parish, Norwalk: Mrs. Karen Saint Mary Parish, Ridgefield: Mr. Richard Saint Mary Parish, Stamford: Ms. Mary Saint Matthew Parish, Norwalk: Mr. Wilbur Levasseur – “On the Parish Board and former Camuso – “Dick has been both leader and servant. Catherine Herbert – “Mary Catherine has served Taylor – “Bill is an outstanding layman and a long Chair of the Finance Committee, Karen has done He is an Extraordinary Minister of Holy the parish as an Extraordinary Minister of Holy time member of the parish. A trustee for 38 years, some of the most important ‘behind the scenes’ Communion, Lector, and Midnight Run volun- Communion, Chair of the Rosary Society, member member of the Finance Committee, scholarship work for the parish over the last seven years.” teer. Most recently Dick chaired the Strategic Plan of the Pastoral Council, and Chair of the Liturgy and currency engineers, he also oversees the Tree of – Father Greg Markey, Pastor process.” – Monsignor Laurence Bronkiewicz, Pastor Committee.” – Father Arthur Mollenhauer, Pastor Life program.” – Monsignor Walter Orlowski, Pastor

Saint Maurice Parish, Stamford: Mr. James Saint Michael the Archangel Parish, Bridgeport: Saint Michael the Archangel Parish and Saint Saint Patrick Parish, Redding Ridge: Mr. Stuart – “Jimmy is a certified electrician and mas- Mrs. Ewa Kaminski – “A leader of social events, Timothy Chapel, Greenwich: Mr. and Mrs. Daniel Conlon – “Dan continues to be the ter of all trades. He is always available to help with Ewa has also been instrumental in developing the Joseph Tranfo – “Joseph and Linda have been ded- leading volunteer at Saint Patrick Church when any number of small projects as well as the annual Children’s Choir and organizing Polish School icated members of Saint Michael’s parish for many it comes to the upkeep of buildings and property. ‘Celebrate Saint Maurice!’ week of festivities.” classes. She is a valued member of the Parish.” years. Their toil is a labor of love for the parish.” He was the main architect in the building of the – Father Albert Pinciaro, Pastor – Father Stefan Morawski, O.F.M. Conv., Pastor – Monsignor J. Peter Cullen, P.A., V.G., Pastor new Church.” – Father Joseph Cervero, Pastor

Saint Paul Parish, Greenwich: Mrs. Debbie Saint Peter Parish, Bridgeport: Ms. Adele Saint Peter Parish, Bridgeport: Mrs. Angie Saint Peter Parish, Danbury: Mrs. Betty Cyr Parker – “Debbie schedules Extraordinary Grayeski – “‘Dolly’ is a life-long member of the Kman – “Angie is a Lector and Extraordinary – “For 25 years prior to retirement, Betty was an Ministers of Holy Communion, and along with parish, where she has served as a volunteer to help Minister of Holy Communion who brings Holy extraordinarily dedicated Catechist. She remains her husband, Ed, is always willing to fill in on coordinate parish records and perform many office Communion to elderly and homebound equally devoted to the ministry to the homebound weekends when the need arises. She is a true tasks. Though retired, she provides a remarkable parishioners. She also helps out in the office.” and elderly whom she continues to visit in her quiet and valued leader.” – Father Frank Winn, Pastor service.” – Monsignor Aniceto Villamide, Pastor – Monsignor Aniceto Villamide, Pastor and gentle manner.” – Father Gregg Mecca, Pastor 21 November 2010 2010 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

Saint Philip Parish, Norwalk: Mrs. Mary Saint Pius X Parish, Fairfield: Mr. and Mrs. Diocese of Bridgeport: Mr. and Mrs. Jean- Catholic Education: Mrs. Christine Herman Viscusi – “Mary is an exemplar of a dedicated Robert Cahill – “For over 24 years, Bob and Paul Musicco – “We are very grateful for the – “Chris is one of the founding board members volunteer service. Her knowledge of liturgy, from Eileen have worked together coordinating volunteer outstanding leadership, energy and commitment of Saint Catherine Academy, where she contin- vessels to vestments, is helpful and inspiring, Mary ‘chefs’ and raising the funds needed to provide of Gerrie and Jean-Paul as the Chair-Couple of ues to further the mission. She has also served as brings people together for faith-filled fun and a monthly home-cooked meal at Operation Hope the 2010 Annual Bishop’s Appeal.” the Chair of the annual dinner.”– Helen Burland, fellowship.” – Father Michael Boccaccio, Pastor in Fairfield.” – Monsignor Lawrence Carroll, Pastor – Bishop William E. Lori President, Saint Catherine Academy

Saint Raphael Parish/Saint Margaret Shrine, Saint Roch Parish, Greenwich: Ms. Yolanda Catholic Education: Mrs. Ann-Marie Klein Catholic Education: Mr. Joseph Marconi Bridgeport: Mr. Egidio Ferrante – “As president Cortese – “For many years Yolanda served as a – “Ann-Marie and her family have been involved – “As a former Principal, Coach and Advisory of the Italian Society, he has created a unity with the Parish Trustee and she still continues to give her at Saint Ann School for over five years. Her Board member, Joseph, a parishioner at Saint Italian members of the parish and all others. He and time to supporting the Annual Parish Feast. This efforts have been instrumental in assuring the Jude Parish, has been a leader for the school com- his wife, Marisa, are always bringing people is a woman of faith and good works.” long-term health of the school.” munity. He puts the children and his faith first.” together.” – Father Alfonso Picone, Administrator – Father Matthew Mauriello, Pastor – Theresa Tillinger, Principal, Saint Ann School – Linda Dunn, former Principal, Saint Jude School

Saint Rose of Lima Parish, Newtown: Mr. and Saint Stephen Parish, Trumbull: Mrs. Mary Catholic Education: Mr. Michael Mazzucco Catholic Charities: Ms. Bonnie Candee – Mrs. Kevin Donovan – “Enriqueta and Kevin Lyon – “Mary is a very active volunteer in Saint – “As a member of the “Bonnie joined the Merton Board in 2008 and are ‘prayer champions’ who have established a Stephen Parish. She helps the Women’s Guild, advisory board, Mike has been an expert technol- has co-chaired two Celebrity Breakfasts. She number of prayer groups for the parish. They are teaches as a Catechist and always pitches in with ogy and software advisor who rolls up his sleeves also volunteers her skills at the Thomas Merton also involved in the Parish Housing and Pro-Life all parish events.” to get the job done.” – Kathleen Casey, Family Center for mothers and children.” projects.” – Monsignor Robert Weiss, Pastor – Father Stephen Gleeson, Pastor President, Immaculate High School – Al Barber, President

atholic harities r arry outant Saint Theresa Parish, Trumbull: Mr. (posthu- Saint Thomas Aquinas Parish, Fairfield: Mrs. C C : M . B C Catholic Charities: Mrs. Janet Davis – – mously) and Mrs. Angelo Memoli – “Lucille and Bernadette Thottam – “Bernadette has been the “Barry has been volunteering at the New “Jane was one of the first Advisory Board Angelo volunteered generously at Saint Theresa for President of our Ladies Guild for a number of years Covenant House in Stamford for more than members of the Morning Glory breakfast over 54 years. Angelo passed away in January but and creator of the Parish Picnic. She has a great five years and has been an Advisory Board program in Danbury. She is a true friend was a parish leader until his final illness, while Lucille knack in getting new members to join and volun- member since 2007.” of the working poor and hungry.” continues to serve.” – Father Brian Gannon, Pastor teer their services.” – Father Victor Martin, Pastor – Al Barber, President – Al Barber, President

Catholic Charities: Mrs. Dolores Grossman Catholic Charities: Mr. Michael Rizzo Saint Thomas More Parish, Darien: Mr. and Saint Thomas the Apostle Parish, Norwalk: – “An employee of OdysseyRe in Stamford and – “Mike served as a member of the Danbury Mrs. Kevin Gallagher – “Kevin and Jeannine Mr. Robert Kenny, Sr. – “Bob is a gentle parishioner of Saint Cecilia Parish, Dolores has Catholic Charities Advisory Board for 20 years started and helped organize a Golf Tournament, individual who is ever so quiet but always there become an avid advocate and supporter of the and was instrumental in establishing the very which for over ten years now has raised funds to to volunteer in the many ministries and activities Catholic Charities Housing program.” successful Celebrity Breakfast to help families build homes in Appalachia, Kentucky, for needy at Saint Thomas the Apostle Parish.” – Al Barber, President in crisis.” – Al Barber, President families.” – Father J. Barry Furey, Pastor – Father Robert Crofut, Pastor

22 November 2010 Religious Ed Young actors star in St. Bernadette film

By KAREN KOVACS no previous acting training, she DYDZUHN expresses a strong desire to pursue a career as an actress. “I think it’s good to inspire kids to get into the Inspired by his deep media – acting, singing, movie faith and a commitment making – because we are the next to create films offering a generation,” she says. “We need to reclaim the arts for Christ.” holy, Catholic message, In the film, Our Lady is played Jim Morlino, a member by Stephanie Lamore, 18, who is now at college in San Diego, of St. Joseph Parish in and St. Bernadette’s mother is Danbury, wrote, direct- played by Alyssa Voccolo, 16, of Portland. Rebecca Voccola, 13, ed and produced “St. plays Genevieve’s sister. Bernadette of Lourdes.” Patti Ward, of Norwalk, says that when her four children – His choice of actors provides Katie, 15; Thomas, 12; Grace, the film with its distinctive twist. YOUNG ACTORS play every role, from St. Bernadette (Genevieve Morlino) to local officials and the parish priest in a 10, and Nicholas, 6, – learned newly-released film “St. Bernadette of Lourdes,” by Navis Pictures. The 75-minute film features 166 about the possibility of acting Connecticut children performing in Morlino’s film, they were all of the roles. peasant girl who encountered ping it up all nicely with a bow Working closely with the “ecstatic.” A former professional actor, Our Blessed Mother in a grotto in and handing it to Our Lady and children, Jim shared acting skills “Jim did a beautiful job of Jim and his wife, Fran, brought Lourdes, is poignantly portrayed our Lord.” and techniques that he honed casting, especially for Grace their dedication to education to by Genevieve Morlino, their eldest Filmed at shrines, convents for years working in film, televi- who is a child with Down’s syn- all the youngsters in the play, daughter. and parishes in the Diocese of sion, theater and commercials. drome,” Ward says. providing an education in the art They began each day in prayer. Bridgeport and the Hartford and To elicit the emotional responses Grace steals the show, as they of filmmaking as well as spiri- “On the first day of shooting, we New York archdioceses, the needed from Genevieve, Jim say, in a scene towards of the tuality during the 21-day shoot blessed each child with holy water entire project seemed to have spent time discussing with her end of the film when she hands last summer. Their goal was to that had come from Lourdes,” Jim been blessed. “Everywhere we how Bernadette might have felt ‘Bernadette’ a bouquet of flowers encourage careers in the arts but notes. “I wanted them to under- went, everyone was so gracious when she began to have visions after the townspeople acknowl- to also teach that “we create art stand that the purpose of art is to and generous,” Jim Morlino says. of Our Lady. edge that she had visions of Our for God.” glorify God and to recognize him “I really got the sense that Our Sometimes this was hard to Blessed Mother. “It was a grace- The leading part of Bernadette as the author of beauty. We were Lady was pleased with what we do. In the scene where her char- filled time for everyone who par- Soubirous, a poor, 14-year old making a pretty picture and wrap- were doing.” acter tells the authorities that ticipated.” Ward says. Our Lady revealed who she was, The outstanding original score Genevieve was having a difficult for “St. Bernadette of Lourdes” time getting the right amount of was composed by David Hughes, emotion to accompany the line, choral director of St. Mary’s “She told me her name!” Parish in Norwalk. “I felt like it wasn’t coming,” (“St. Bernadette of Lourdes” by BLUE RIBBON SCHOOL she explained. “We were doing Navis Pictures was recently made available by Ignatius Press in the O it over and over again but I just wasn’t able to be in the moment. United States. Copies are also sold at Finally, though, we got it. Dad the shrine in Lourdes of Litchfield. was so proud.” For more information, go to navispic- Although Genevieve had tures.com or call 203.512.4622.) n

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She saw that a The afternoon breakout ses- that matters most.” seed of hatred can grow into a sions provided ways for par- Bishop Lori concluded by say- rage consuming over a million ticipants to enrich their own ing, “May we go forth from this lives, and experienced firsthand understanding. They included Congress, with renewed zeal; to the power of love. “The Presence of the Kingdom of evangelize, to catechize, to bear When she started to pray the God in this World,” with Msgr. witness to that hope to which we Rosary in her cramped refuge, Lorenzo Albacete; Sr. Clare are called, that we might gather “PRAY FOR LOVE. Pray for peace,” Rwandan holocaust survivor Imaculée Ilibagiza told a rapt audience, including (left) Bishop Lori and Cardinal she skipped over the words “for- Matthiass, C.F.R., community one and all around the Luminous O’Malley. She and Cardinal O’Malley were the keynote speakers at the give us . . . as we forgive those vicar and postulant directress for Mystery, the banquet of Christ’s Catechetical Congress, held November 6 at Sacred Heart University. who trespass against us.” Months the Community of the Franciscan sacrifice.” n (Photos by Michelle Babyak) prayer in her hiding place, within Sisters of the Renewal, speak- earshot of the killers, persuaded ing on “Redeemed Feminism her that if Jesus could forgive his as a Cornerstone for a Renewed murders she must do the same. Culture;” and Dianne Traflet, “I could not hate the killers J.D., S.T.D., associate dean and anymore; I couldn’t be a hate- assistant professor of pastoral the- ful person.” She encouraged her ology at Immaculate Conception listeners, “Pray for love. 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A-III (R) for holiness helps us grow in our Christian Vocation.” Currently L – Limited Adult Audience own faith. It tells me that today I Dr. Kelly is on the faculty of O – Morally Offensive Saw 3-D ...... O (R) gave to go out and do something Holy Apostles College and The Calling ...... A-II (N/R) for Jesus. Even when I’m over- Seminary in Cromwell. She has 24 November 2010 Religious Ed DRE holds national office with NPCD Mickie Abatemarco, direc- cal arm of the National Catholic “Faith formation includes tor of faith formation and Education Association (NCEA). adults and parents as well as chil- social justice at St. Catherine Already serving as New England dren,” Abatemarco says, explain- of Siena Parish in Riverside is representative since 2008, she was ing her role in the life of the now the vice-president of the elected to her new position by the parish. The social justice aspect National Association of Parish organization’s executive commit- of her position includes both Catechetical Directors (NPCD). tee. She will continue to serve at St. assisting in the many charitable The association is the catecheti- Catherine’s in her new capacity. activities of St. Catherine in its local community, and encourag- ing an awareness of social justice for both children and adults. With Thanks & “Last year during Lent our pastor, Msgr. Detscher, encour- Blessings To Our aged families to give up soda and other beverages and drink only water,” she says by way of Entire Religious example. Families donated the savings from this sacrifice to a Education Team program to build a village well in Sudan. “We were not only able to build the well, we worked with SHOWN HERE with members of National Association of the Parish both religious education students Catechetical Directors (NPCD) executive committee at last year’s convocation, and adults in the parish to help director of faith formation and social justice at St. Catherine of Siena Parish in them understand what it meant Riverside, Mickie Abatemarco (center) has been elected vice-president of the for women who no longer had NPCD. Representing New England at that convention, she is shown with (l) MaryJo Wilt, Southwest representative.; and Carol Kruscamp, representative to walk miles each day for clean for the South. drinking water.” Understanding how their action affected families in another part of the world was a throughout the country. They will energy and talent,” Robert key element in the project. consider and implement ongoing Brancatelli, assistant execu- In addition to her cur- professional training programs for tive director wrote in a letter to rent duties at St. Catherine’s, catechists, and network to share Bishop William E. Lori. “I thank Abatemarco will correspond best practices in faith formation you for supporting Mickie and Our Lady of Fatima, Wilton with NPDC members to look at nationwide. her pastor, Msgr. Alan Detscher, the issues facing faith formation “This position requires time, in this ministry.” n Saint Mary Merton from page 12 THANK YOU The Merton Center campus Saint Elizabeth Seton Church also includes six townhouse Thanks & greatly appreciates “The Mother Church of Norwalk” units, opened in July, around the Parish corner from the soup kitchen at Kathryn LaRegina Ridgefield Saint Mary Church 235 Catherine Street. Director of Faith Formation would like to thank Barber said that the housing is wishes to thank Marj Cutler & Michelle Mitchell Jacqueline Juhasz, the final element in the Merton Coordinators of Faith Formation Sue Genovese Center campus concept that Marie Trebing includes the soup kitchen, food Beverly Steiger and all pantry, counseling, the Family Nazareth Program Coordinator Gigi Pekala the dedicated teachers Center (which serves 40 mothers Coordinators who give so much and their children) and healthcare Fr. Jeff Couture of themselves through St. Vincent’s Medical Director of Youth Ministry and all our Catechists, Center. to our parish. Carol Zinser Aides, and Volunteers He said the continuum Jr. Youth Ministry of services helps the poor in our “And this is and homeless “to move up the Caitlin Merritt, Religious Education eternal life, ladder of human dignity and stop the downward cycle of poverty.” Caitlin Mitchell, Program that they know thee Monica Mueller, Mutual Housing Association the only true God, is the owner of record for these and Renzo Ortega for their and newly-developed units, and sup- Sr. Youth Ministry Team continued commitment port services are being provided Jesus Christ to teach and share the Faith through Catholic Charities in a And our more than 120 dedicated whom thou collaborative and cooperative and lead our children toward Catechists & Volunteers who share in our mission hast sent.” relationship. The project also to be the living presence of Jesus Christ a life-long relationship involved state housing, mental (John 17:3) recognized through our love, prayer, & service. with Jesus the Lord! health, finance and social service agencies. n 25 November 2010 Religious Ed St. Rose Parish encourages Bible knowledge

By PAT HENNESSY to the filled room of students and sultant for Faith Formation at parents. “If I say, ‘I’m so hungry Loyola Press in Chicago. “The Bible is not a science I could eat a horse,’ it just means “Ongoing formation for cat- book. It’s a book of spiritual I’m very hungry,’” she told them, echists and directors of religious truth,” says Pam Arsenault, using common examples to drive education is offered through the director of religious education home her point. “If I say, ‘It’s Office for Pastoral Service of the at St. Rose of Lima Parish in raining cats and dogs,’ you don’t diocese,” explains Carol Pinard, Newtown. “Catholics need to look out the window to see ani- director of religious education learn how to understand God’s mals falling out of the sky. The programs for the diocese, who ENERGY FILLED the room, and shone on the faces of Chris Mok (l) and Evan Doering, as the sixth-grade classes at St. Rose of Lima Parish received word as it has been handed down Bible uses language in the same arranged for the presentation. to us in the Bible.” “The study of Scripture is their Bibles. “Catholics need to learn how to understand God’s word as it has way. You have to read it with been handed down to us in the Bible,” said Pam Arsenault, director of religious To judge from the enthusi- understanding.” essential in the faith development education, during the evening’s presentation on how to read the Bible. asm with which sixth-grade stu- The presentation at St. Rose ➤ continued on page 26 dents in St. Rose received their is part of a wider trend among Bibles for this year’s curriculum, Catholics worldwide. Emphasis Catholics are eager to understand on understanding of Scripture the Sacred Scriptures. received a new push following At the beginning of the aca- a World Synod of Bishops con- demic year, over 200 students voked by Pope Benedict XVI in from the religious education pro- 2008 to discuss the theme: “The gram and St. Rose School, along Word of God in the life and mis- with their parents, gathered for a sion of the Church.” The Synod Bible overview session and bless- advocated activities that could ing of the Bibles. Throughout the help foster greater understand- diocese the curriculum for both ing and love of the Scriptures religious education classes and among Catholics and encouraged Catholic schools is the same, with all Catholics to own, and use, a the sixth grade studying the roots Bible. of faith in the Old Testament Following the Synod’s recom- and the seventh moving on to mendations, the Catechetical the salvation through the suf- Leaders of the Diocese of fering, death and Resurrection Bridgeport sponsored an enrich- of Jesus proclaimed in the New ment session earlier this year Testament. Students will use their for catechetical leaders, “The new Bibles in class and for assign- Proclamation of the Word,” with ments. nationally known catechist and “The Bible uses figurative author Joe Paprocki, D.Min. language,” Arsenault explained Dr. Paprocki is the national con-

St. Pius X Parish…

Gratefully acknowledges all who teach and share the faith:

Diane Camillo, DRE, Cathy Coyle, Dina Inchoco, and Nancy Church, Rel. Ed. Staff, dedicated catechists, Joshua St. Onge, youth minister and Michele Modugno, volunteer assistant, and parents who are the first and primary educators of their children in the faith.

May God bless you all. St. Pius X Parish Family 26 November 2010 Religious Ed Young disciples called to act Bible knowledge from page 25 of our young,” adds Msgr. Robert Weiss, pastor at St. Rose. “They FAIRFIELD – Third grad- are at an age when they find the history and the accounts in the ers at St. Pius X Parish have Bible fascinating. The creation of Adam and Eve, Jonah and the been learning about Jesus and whale, the parting of the Red Sea and the miracle accounts of the his disciples. They earned that New Testament hold a fascination which encourages them to study the first disciples were Jesus’ and discuss the Scriptures. It piques and maintains their interest in friends; they loved him and further study of God’s word. Sharing the Bibles at the sixth-grade wanted to help him. The stu- level is especially valuable, as they begin their preparation for dents have learned that they, Confirmation. Their minds and hearts are open to the Lord and His too, have been called to be dis- ways – an attitude which we hope will continue to grow as they ciples of Jesus. But what does mature.” being a disciple mean to an At St. Rose, building on Dr. Paprocki’s presentation, Arsenault eight-year-old in 2010? Exactly and her team – Terry Tortora and Frank Middleton, sixth-grade what Jesus wanted it to teacher and coordinator, respectively, and parochial vicar Fr. mean: ACTION! Ignacio Ortigas, who blessed the Bibles – addressed parents as much The third grade disciples as the students, encouraging them to put a Bible on their nightstand invited a fifth grade class to and become familiar with it. join them in their first service “Some adults came to me afterward and said they hadn’t heard project. Halloween morning much about the Bible growing up,” Arsenault recounts. “It left them found the St. Pius kids decorat- hungry for more.” n ing and filling goodie bags and organizing their donations. They decorated and filled the bags with books, puzzles, markers, toothbrushes, tooth- paste and underwear for the children in Sr. Theresa Tremblay’s preschool in Bridgeport. On November 1, the students made their delivery of practical love and kindness. Every pre-schooler received a goodie bag, with the leftovers going to siblings or other chil- dren Sr. Theresa knows. n

We say hank you Frank Macari

Thank you & our entire Religious to all our EducationT Team for sharing Coordinators your faith with our children! Our Lady of the Assumption and Catechists Fairfield Saint for their Dedication Matthew to our Religious Thanks and blessings Parish Formation Program to kchs our entire Msgr. Walter C. Orlowski, , Religious Pastor especially Education 216 Scribner Avenue Mrs. Michele Scholl, Coordinator team! Norwalk, Connecticut 06850 203-838-3788 Mrs. Lori Palidino, Assistant St. Aloysius Mrs. Jean DesRochers, Confirmation Parish www.stmatthewnorwalk.com New Canaan 27 November 2010 Religious Ed Education informs St. Matthew’s parents

By JOE GROGAN our family,” says Betsy Durango, families taking an active part in who took part in the first pro- their faith, it has enhanced the The role of parents is vital to gram. “It brings meaning to what overall spirit of our parish com- their children’s development in our children are preparing for in munity. the Catholic faith. At Baptism, their Catholic lives.” The CPP program has been parents make a commitment to As part of the program, each more than effective in giving raise their child according to the participant took a pre- and post- adults a better sense of what it Catholic faith. However, in order program quiz about the sacra- means to be Catholic, and has led to bring up and support their chil- ments based on the curriculum to preparations for more parish dren through the process, parents for a fifth-grade religious educa- programs including regular Bible must understand that faith them- tion program. Of the 237 people study and lectures. selves and put it into practice in who took both quizzes, 95% Nelsy Urban-Gonzalez, their own lives. scored higher than they had on a participant in the program Unfortunately, many parents the pre-program test, showing whose son recently received his have skewed or downright wrong tremendous improvement and First Holy Communion, wrote understandings of the Church’s vouching for the effectiveness of to the parish, “My husband, teachings. In the hustle and bustle the course. Reben, and I truly enjoyed it of everyday life, parents often In addition to instilling a and learned some new things. forget the fundamentals of their more complete understanding We both grew up strongly in the faith and cannot find the time to of the faith, the program led to Catholic Church and somehow relearn them. A crowded sched- significantly increased week- lost our way. Since being part ule doesn’t relinquish a commit- to-week Mass attendance at of St. Matthew’s we have come ment to God, however, so it is St. Matthew’s. Children who back and we are excited to have important that parents raising MORE THAN 400 ADULTS took part in a program geared toward refreshing received the sacraments of First our children be a part of it.” parents understanding of the fundamentals of their faith. The program empha- their children in the Catholic faith sizes the importance of continuing education for parents and godparents who Eucharist and Confirmation this This fall, St. Matthew’s is seek out continuing education have made a commitment to raising their children in the Catholic faith. spring had a better grasp of the offering a three-part program within the Church. content of their faith, and were similar to “A Catechetical Two years ago, St. Matthew more involved in the life of the Program for Parents” that will Parish in Norwalk began tak- of 2009. Based on the baptismal at the Mass. It was a huge success parish. focus on reading and interpreting ing steps to address this issue. promises, it was targeted toward in its first year, drawing more Msgr. Walter Orlowski, St. Scripture. “Parents want to do Following an in-pew survey parents and godparents who have than 400 families. Matthew’s pastor, is pleased with the best for their children,” says revealing that the vast majority made a commitment to raising “The CPP program reminds the new energy in his parish. Fr. Thomas. “They try so hard of the parish’s community sup- their children in the Catholic us of our role as parents and “The feedback has been tremen- and these classes are what we as ported the idea of adult Catholic faith. strengthens our relationship with dous, and with so many of our a parish can do for them.” n education, Fr. Tomi Thomas The program, mandatory for began developing a religious edu- parents of children studying to cation program for the parish’s receive the sacraments of Holy adults. The program, named “A Communion and Confirmation, St. Michael the Archangel Church/ Catechetical Program for Parents included an introduction to the (CPP)”, was launched in autumn sacraments and an in-depth look St. Timothy Chapel of Greenwich

Rev. Victor T. Martin Pastor & the Parish Family of St. Thomas Aquinas

1719 Post Road We would like to express our gratitude to Fairfield, Connecticut 06824 Sister Celine Flynn, SSND, Director of Religious Education 203.255.1097 and all the Catechists and Assistants who work so hard and bring to life such a Sincerely thank great program of religious education. D.R.E., Sr. Monica Leonard, c.n.d. God Bless All of You! all the catechists and volunteers who share their faith www.stmichaelgreenwich.parishesonline.com with our parish children

28 November 2010 Obituaries Fr. Bernard Dolan dies at 69 Sr. Mary By PAT HENNESSY needed help. He would Permanent Diaconate Program Fidelis, 92 go out of his way to of the diocese. Fr. Bernard M. Dolan, pas- help people.” “His students loved him,” Sr. Mary Fidelis, SSND, died tor of Christ the King Parish Fr. Dolan’s first says Fr. Carew. “A number on October 27 at the Lourdes in Trumbull, died suddenly assignment was as of them continued to stay in Health Care Center in Wilton. the evening of November 6 in parochial vicar of St. touch with him through all She was 92. She was a professed the parish rectory. He was 69 Augustine’s. He served these years.” member of the School Sisters of years old. at St. Mary Parish in Fr. Dolan was appointed Notre Dame for 72 years. Born on December 13, Ridgefield, Holy Family co-pastor of St. Joseph Parish Lucy Wilder Ruwart was born 1940, in Hoboken, NJ, Fr. Parish in Fairfield and in Brookfield in 1981 and in 1918, in Jefferson City, MO., Dolan graduated from Seton St. Ambrose Parish in became pastor the following the fourth daughter in a family of Hall University in South Bridgeport. A gifted year. He was named pastor Orange, NJ, and completed instructor with a natu- of Christ the King on July 4, his theological studies at St. ral love of teaching, he 1986. Mary Seminary in , was a faculty member Fr. Dolan was received into MD. He was ordained in 1966 of Notre Dame High Christ the King Church on by Bishop Walter W. Curtis School in Fairfield November 10 for a vigil from in St. Augustine Cathedral in and Stamford Catholic 5-7 p.m. A parish Mass fol- Bridgeport. High School before lowed, celebrated by another “Msgr. Peter Dora, who joining the faculty longtime friend, Msgr. Robert was a newly ordained priest at of Immaculate High Watts, who also delivered the the time, introduced us while School in Danbury, homily. we were both still seminar- where he resided at St. A Mass of Christian Burial ians,” recalls Fr. Larry Carew, Rose of Lima Parish in was celebrated by Bishop parochial vicar of Christ the friend as a marvelous homilist Newtown. Fr. Dolan William E. Lori on November King. “We became close with a wonderful grasp of the later became Immaculate’s spiri- 11. Father Carew gave the 11 children. In August of 1935, friends, even sharing our Scriptures. More importantly, tual director. homily, and later officiated at she entered the congregation vacations together.” “He had a compassionate and Fr. Dolan also served as one the burial in the family plot in of the School Sisters of Notre Fr. Carew remembers his gentle way with people who of the first facilitators of the Arlington, NJ. n Dame, receiving the religious name Mary Fidelis. After teaching in Cambridge, MA, Sr. Fidelis was assigned to Puerto Rico, where she taught and served as administrator for WEDDING & DINING GUIDE almost 25 years. Sr. Fidelis was a graduate of the College of Sacred Heart in Santurce, Puerto Now accepting Thanksgiving and Christmas reservations! Rico, and earned a master’s Reserve your office party early! Regency degree in Spanish from Fordham University. She later received a Limousine master’s in religious education from Manhattan College. Inc. She returned to the U.S. in 1965, teaching Spanish at Your Home the former College of Notre Away From Dame in Wilton and Christ the King Preparatory Seminary in Home Door to Door Southport. She became a direc- tor of religious education at St. SUNDAY 24 Hours a day - THURSDAY Matthew Parish in Norwalk from All Airports, Piers, 1970-72. 6:00am to Midnight and Theatres In 1990, she returned to FRIDAY New York City - Wilton, where she became coor- - SATURDAY Corporate Accounts dinator of volunteers at the con- 6:00am to 3:00am Wedding & Special Occasions gregation’s motherhouse. Soon White Limousine, after, at age 72, she became a sec- 4241 Main Street retary to the Provincial Council Bridgeport Chauffeured Lincoln Connecticut Limousines in Wilton. She remained at the & Regency Town Car Sedans Provincialate, giving full-time or part-time secretarial assistance, 372-8398 until retirement at age 87 in 2005. Now Handicap Accessible Anytime, Anywhere A Mass of Christian burial 1-800-243-5606 was celebrated for Sr. Fidelis on We’re just 5 minutes www.regencylimousine.com October 30 at Villa Notre Dame. from the Catholic Center Licensed by CT D.O.T. Burial followed at St. Mary’s Cemetery in Bethel. n 29 November 2010 Nuestra Voz Del desconsuelo a la consolación

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De esa enseñan- razonar su muerte apoyándome reflexionar sobre las enseñanzas de asuntos externos y desarrollo de za llegué a amar sin celos a una en mi fe que Dios quiso darnos de Jesús que nos llevan a ver la negocios). niñita que mi madre me encargó, un regalo llevándose a Evelyn ese muerte como el principio de la Siempre fue costumbre en poniéndola en mis brazos dicién- día tan especial. vida eterna. mi casa celebrar el mes de los dome sabiamente “desde hoy las La devoción que Evelyn le No hay duda que la sepa- muertos con rezos y recuerdos de dos la vamos a cuidar”. Estas tenía a la Virgen de Guadalupe, ración de un ser querido nos los que en vida nos palabras no cuya imagen estaba con ella siem- entristece y pensamos que acompañaron. solamente se pre, me consoló por el momento no volveremos a sonreír. Sin Esta tradición “Las flores se grabaron en y pensé que la Virgencita se la embargo, si estamos atentos a los todavía existe en mi mente sino llevó a descansar del padecimiento últimos días u horas de una vida mi memoria y marchitan, las también en mi que la agobió por varios años. en transición, podremos notar aunque durante corazón. También me apoyé en Charlie, que ellos a veces muestran paz y años han sido lágrimas se Recuerdo Carlos Manuel Rodríguez, beato hasta una sonrisa porque ven el muchos los seres como si fuera de Puerto Rico, a quien Evelyn camino que los lleva a la casa del queridos que se ayer, cuando oraba incesantemente para que le Padre. Podemos ser fortalecidos evaporan, pero Rosa Correa han ido, nunca llegaron del diera paz. Durante los próximos por las palabras de Jesús (Jn. 14) había sentido la las oraciones hospital Papi y días después de su muerte, me que para consolar a sus discípulos tristeza que he Mami con mi hice cargo de organizar su funeral abrumados por el dolor y la les aseguró que se fue a preparar- experimentado van directamente hermanita en de poner todo en orden como ausencia del ser querido, pero nos un lugar y allá volveremos a recientemente sus brazos. Mi acostumbro hacer y todos en mi si creemos en la resurrección, reunirnos con ellos – yo espero en con la muerte de a Dios”. hermana Ana familia esperan de mi – recuerdo empezamos a mirar la vida con Dios y la Virgencita que cuando mi hermana más corrió hacia que todo salió bien. ¿Qué más otro lente, uno que ve luz y no se llegue mi hora ellos, con pequeña, Evelyn. Papi y abrazo puedo esperar? Todos los arreglos oscuridad. 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By MARIA O’BRIEN of Villa Notre Dame, which is on April 27, 1933, in Englewood, Her early years as a Sister home to 62 Sisters and serves as NJ, earned a bachelor’s degree in were spent teaching throughout Sr. Rita Goodman, local one of three regional centers of English from the College of Notre the Northeast before becoming a leader of the School Sisters of the SSND’s Atlantic-Midwest Dame in Baltimore, MD, in 1954 psychologist for the Archdiocese Notre Dame’s Villa Notre Dame Province. She had held that post and entered the School Sisters of of Newark, NJ, in 1979. In in Wilton, died on Oct. 13 at since August 2005. Before that Notre Dame later that year. She 1985, Sr. Rita was elected to Norwalk Hospital. She was 77 she had served as a psycholo- received the religious name Peter the Provincial Council of the assumed her post at Villa Notre and had been a professed member gist in private and archdiocesan Mary and made her first vows in Northeastern Province of the Dame in 2005. of the School Sisters of Notre practice, a member of the SSND July 1956. School Sisters of Notre Dame A Mass of Christian Burial Dame for 54 years. Provincial Council, an organi- Sr. Rita received a master’s and served on that governing Was celebrated on October 16 at As local leader, Sr. Rita zational consultant and a school degree in English and a Ph.D. in body at the Provincialate in the chapel at Villa Notre Dame. oversaw the day-to-day pasto- teacher and principal. counseling, both from St. John’s Wilton for eight years. After Burial followed at St. Mary ral and administrative needs Rita Mary Goodman was born University in Queens, NY. serving in private practice, she Cemetery in Bethel. n FUNERAL GUIDE

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outside. For them, November is many consolations. Notable grace before meals she spoke to hearth fire and apple cider and among them is the doctrine of them, asking them to continue to pumpkin pie. the Communion of Saints, per- guide and bless the family. She Potpourri For me, a personal gloominess sonified in the lived with the sets in in November. The world Feasts of All assurance that By Thomas H. Hicks seems stripped and wounded. I Saints and All “The Feasts of All all whom she sense how the aged year is has- Souls. Those had loved and tening to its end, and sense how wondrous Saints and All Souls lost were now Thomas Hicks is a member many of my days are ended and feasts whisper safe in heaven of St. Theresa Parish in Trumbull. gone, and my heart grows sad for the consol- whisper the consoling and their vanished hopes. The autumnal ing truth that bonds with entropy reminds me that I, like all there are no truth that there are us were close life, must inexorably age and be dead and that and enduring, ovember – the long of their unforgivable insults, the swallowed up with all the rest. the boundary no dead and that the they could still sleep of the earth has all-powerful sun goes south for “But here the Autumn between this somehow enter begun. One can hear part of each year, and the days melancholy dwells…who sits life and the boundary between into our delib- Nthe deepening quiet as become short and cold. and reckons up the dead and next is more erations and the days shorten and night falls I know people who are dark- gone” (Thomas Hood, “Ode to permeable this life and the next designs. suddenly without transition. ness lovers. They cherish the Autumn”). Indeed – November than we may At Among primitive people gradually increasing dark of is insistently a time of remember- think. is more permeable November’s there was a legend that the night November and the land beginning ing. The dead years revive, faces The door stand All spirit grew envious of the sun to tuck itself in for winter. They close in again, faces of those who boundary than we may think.” Saints and All and convinced the people that enjoy putting wood in the fire are dear to us and left us in the between the Souls Day. the sun was not such a great and place or wood stove, the warmth terrible mysteries of death, joined present and They serve to powerful being, since it was daily of an electric blanket, even a cold the majority, or, as someone put eternity began to dissolve for remind us that God keeps our driven across the sky. The people kitchen at six in the morning. it, outstripped us in the race for me. I have come to sense that loved ones for us, and when the taunted the sun for its lack of They love tucking themselves eternity. They were persons who we are still united with our dead, day comes He will restore them power. To remind people forever up in a long sleep with the cold governed the way we go about not by sentimental make-belief, to us. Probably they should also Christmas in Asia Ad 4X6 10/20/10 2:41 PM Page 1 life and who took our secrets with but in real solidarity. Experience remind us that all is on loan; we them to the grave. has taught me to believe that my are only on loan to each other Most of us have that unique dead are aware and concerned for a short time. We do not and irreplaceable one. When, for me. They are interested in want unsaid apologies, unstated as the Irish say, she died on me, me, and see what I am doing; affections. everything became quiet, a fright- they intercede for me, are inter- We all reach a time when ful emptiness surrounded me. I ested in my welfare and applaud life becomes more and more a struggled to be caught up again my efforts. I truly believe these life with the dead. Perhaps these in the tedium of life, the rhythm things. My dead were mine and words from St. John Chrysostom of everyday that goes on relent- shall ever be. will bring comfort: “They whom lessly. It all had to go on without My wife had an Irish Aunt we love and lose are no longer her – the absence and silence! Agnes who prayed for and to where they were before. They are The Catholic faith offers the dead. Indeed, when she said now wherever we are.” n

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The views of Eutyches were then seemed as though nothing could endorsed by his supporters. stop him. Civil leaders resigned The Communion When Pope Leo heard about themselves to destruction. of Saints the proceedings he condemned As Attila was advancing with the supposed Council, stating his hoard of soldiers to cross the By Fr. Greg J. Markey that the bishops had robbed the Mincio River in Northern Italy, Church of her teachings. Since he saw a procession coming then the Council of Ephesus of towards him. However, it was Fr. Markey is pastor of St. Mary 449 has come to be known as the not a military unit, but a religious Parish in Norwalk “Robber Council”. procession with priests in vest- The situation was finally ments and monks in habits, all resolved in the historic Council chanting hymns. In the center decided against it. of Chalcedon in 451 when over was an elderly man praying. There is the popular tradition here are only two popes cation of the doctrine of the incar- 350 bishops gathered to endorse The procession continued that in the midst of the discussion in the entire history nation. The 4th and 5th centuries the now famous Tome of Leo: opposite the river where Attila a vision of Saints Peter and Paul of the Church who by were the era of the Christological “Hence we follow the holy sat on horseback and when the in glory appeared above Pope Tpopular acclaim of the heresies, when the Church was Fathers and unanimously teach singing stopped Attila called Leo, which made such an impres- faithful have received the name still refining its understanding of that the Son, our Lord Jesus out, “What is your name?” The sion on Attila that he turned back “The Great”: Pope St. Gregory exactly who Jesus was. In 446, Christ, is one and the same. elderly man answered, “I am Leo in fear. In the end Rome was the Great and this other worthy Eutyches, an elderly abbot in The one and same is perfect in – the Pope.” It was the beginning saved from the greatest threat of Vicar of Christ, Pope St. Leo the Constantinople, attempted to rec- His divinity and perfect in His of a discussion between the two, their time. Great. oncile Christ’s divine and human humanity, true God and true and when it was all over Pope Pope St. Leo the Great was Leo was born in Tuscany and nature in one person, but ended man.” The Council concluded, Leo had accomplished the impos- a great teacher, but even more his family moved to Rome while up in the heretical Monophysite “Peter has spoken through Leo,” sible: Attila agreed to turn back. importantly, he was a living he was still young. He entered camp, stating that Christ only had showing the increasing prestige On their return, Pope Leo witness to the truths of Jesus the Roman clergy at a young age, one divine nature. Pope Leo was bringing to the turned to one of his priests and Christ. His life is a reminder and with his many gifts he was When his views were con- papacy. said, “Let us now give thanks that in the midst of crisis people given a great deal of responsibil- demned in a Council, Eutyches Perhaps nothing brought great- to God, for He has delivered respond more to a witness than ity. Leo had broad shoulders in appealed to his godchild, who er influence to the papacy during us from great danger.” While a to a teacher. The Lord raised the sense that with every chal- was an advisor to the Emperor. Pope Leo’s time than his encoun- tribute now needed to be paid up Pope St. Leo to be that great lenge handed to him he rose to The Emperor called another ter with Attila the Hun. Attila to Attila, no one knows exactly shepherd. May he intercede for the occasion. He had achieved Council in Ephesus in 449 and had made tremendous advances what took place in that conversa- the Church once again today to so many accolades that when his when Pope Leo’s legates arrived, and was moving into the south- tion and why Attila, who could bring about courageous witnesses predecessor, Pope Sixtus, died they were not permitted to speak. ern part of the Roman Empire. It have so easily sacked Rome, to the faith. n in 440 A.D. Leo was elected by popular acclaim, even though he was abroad at that time handling ecclesial affairs in France. BY ED WALDRON He lived during the period SAINTLYLIVES when the Roman Empire was beginning to disintegrate, and this had a disastrous potential for the Church. With the Empire’s endorsement of the Catholic faith in the early 4th century, the Church had become closely iden- tified with the establishment. This disintegration of the Empire had the potential to now threaten the stability of the Church. However, under Pope Leo’s leadership the Church was now able to assert both its independence and its strength, and he brought new prestige to the papacy. Historians tell us that he all the characteristics of a born lead- er: practical, organized, and firm. His steadfast calm in the midst a crisis radiated confidence to all of those around him. Yet he recog- nized that all he had received was a gift from God, and this genuine humility won him the affection of his followers. One of his most historic accomplishments was the clarifi- 34 November 2010 Bits & Pieces HOLIDAY FAIR will be held coffee gathering. On Sun., Nov. from several area restaurants Main Street. Screenings are for byob. $5 & a canned good at the at St. Leo Parish, Stamford, on 14, the group will meet for lunch will be held on Wed., Nov. 17, uninsured men with limited door plus $20 in quarters for the Sat., Nov. 13, from 10 a.m.-6 at 1 p.m. at Madonia Restaurant, from 6:30-9:30 p.m. at Aitoro’s access to a primary care doctor. auction. For more information, p.m. and Sun., Nov. 14, from 9 Long Ridge Rd., Stamford. For Showroom, 401 Westport Ave., Appointments necessary. Call go to standrewbridgeport.org and a.m.-1 p.m. Fair features a selec- more information, call Ann: Norwalk. Proceeds benefit the 203.576.6158 for appointments. click on (PTO), or call 203. tion of crafts, gift baskets, gour- 203.325.3128. Science and Energy Park at All “CHAPEL BELLS” will GREENWICH FORUM met kitchen items and preserves, FREE AND LOW-COST Saints Catholic School. Tickets: be held on Thurs., Nov. 18, young adult group welcomes Fr. and pet treats. For more informa- MAMMOGRAPHY will be $50 in advance; $65 at the door. at 7 p.m. in the Sacred Heart John Ringley, who will speak tion, call Margaret: 203.595.9297. offered for women age 35 and For more information or to pur- Academy, Hamden, chapel. The about the saints’ writings on the “A GRAND NIGHT FOR older on Mon., Nov. 15, from chase tickets, call 203.354.9381, “Chapel Bells” memorial Mass is Blessed Mother on Fri., Nov. SINGING” a musical review 12 noon-3 p.m. at St. John’s or e-mail [email protected]. held in remembrance of deceased 19, at 7:30 p.m. at St. Mary of composers Richard Rodgers Episcopal Church, 768 Fairfield CURSILLO ULTREYAS alumnae, relatives and members Parish, Greenwich. Cost: $5; and Oscar Hammerstein, will Ave., Bridgeport; Tues., Nov. are held at locations around the of the Sacred Heart Academy light refreshments provided. For be held at St. Francis of Assisi 16, from 9 a.m.-1 p.m. at the diocese: Wed., Nov. 17, at St. community. “Coffee and” recep- more information, contact Gene Parish, Weston, Sat.-Sun., Nov. University of Bridgeport, 126 Mary Parish “Barn”, Ridgefield, tion follows. For more informa- Casciari at: gene_casciari@sbc- 13-14. Sat.: doors open at 6 p.m.; Park Ave., Bridgeport,; and at 7:30 p.m.; Thurs., Nov. 18, at tion or if you plan to attend, con- global.net. Sun. matinee: doors open at 2 Wed., Nov. 17, from 9 am.-1 St. Mary Parish Hall, Bethel, at tact Sr. Mariette: alumnae@sha- “CALLING ALL SISTAS p.m. Cabaret-style table seating; p.m. at Bridgeport City Hall, 64 7:30 p.m.; and a Central Ultreya excelsior.org, or 203.288.2309, – An Evening of Divas, Drinks B.Y.O. everything. Tickets: Sat. Lyon Terrace. Appointments are on Tues., Dec. 7, at Our Lady of ext. 313. and Desserts,” a celebration & Sun., $35. 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Reservations a free seminar will be offered at [email protected]. n will be held on Sun., Nov. 28, ish chapel. For more informa- at 7:30 p.m. in the Cathedral of tion, contact Fr. Rolando Torres: Saint Augustine. The concert 203.869.9393, ext. 123, or rolan- features Scripture lessons tracing [email protected]. salvation history, culminating HOLY HOUR, Adoration with the birth of the Savior. Each and Compline will take place at reading is followed by a musi- Saint Pius X Parish, Fairfield, on cal selection. The concert is free Sun., Dec. 5, beginning at 6:30 and open to the public. For more p.m. with Eucharistic Adoration information, call 203.368.6777. and culminating with the office of ADVENT SERIES at Compline and Benediction chant- Nazareth Spiritual Life Center, ed by the Saint Pius Chamber Do you know that a nationally recognized Monroe, with Sr. Jude Carroll Choir. 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