Jacob – A Very Human Being Veyetze

Breishit 28:20-22

וִַ ַר יַעֲקֹב , נֶדֶ ר ֵלאמֹר: ִאם- יִהְיֶה made a vow. “If G-d will be with אֱ ִ ק ים ִעָ ִדי , ְמָ ַרנִי ֶַרֶ ַ הֶה me,” he said, “if He will protect me on the אֲֶ ר ִנֹכי ֵהל, ַוְנָתן - ִלי לֶחֶ ם journey that I am taking, if He gives me לֶאֱכֹל , בֶגֶד ִללְֹ . ַוְ ִבְי bread to eat and clothing to wear, and if I בְָ לם , אֶל - ֵית ִבי; וְהָ יָה ה ' ִלי , return in peace to my father’s house, then ֵלא ִ ק ים . וְהָאֶבֶן ַ הֹאת , ראֲֶ - G-d will be my G-d. Let this stone that I ַ מְ ִי ַ מ ֵבָה -- יִהְיֶה, ֵית אֱ ִ ק ים; have set up as a pillar become a house of וְכֹל אֲֶ ר ִ ֶ ן- ִלי , ַ ע ֵר ַאֲעְרֶ G-d. Of all that You give me, I will set לָ. .aside a tenth to You

Breishit 32:10-14

וַֹאמֶ ר , יַעֲקֹב, אֱ ֵ ק י ִבי Jacob said: “Oh G-d of my father בְרָ הָ ם, וֵא ֵ קי ִבי יִצְחָ ק: ה ' and G-d of my father . You Yourself told ֵהָאֹמר ֵא ַלי, ב לְרְ צְ me ‘Return to the land where you were born ַלְמלדְְ -- ֵוְא ִיטיבָה ִעָ . and I will make things go well with you.’ I am קָ ִטֹנְי ִ מֹל ַ החֲסָ ִדים , ִמָל- unworthy of all the kindness and faith that You הָאֱמֶ ת , אֲֶ ר ִעָיתָ , אֶת- have shown me. When I left home, I crossed ַעבְֶ : ִי ַבְמקְ ִלי , ַעָברְ ִי אֶת- the Jordan with only my staff, and now I have ַ ה ַרְ ֵן ַ הֶה , ַוְעָ ה הָ יִ ִיתי , ִלְ נֵי ,enough for two camps. Rescue me, I pray ַ מחֲנת. ַ ה ִ ֵילנִי נָא ִ מ ַד ִחי , from the hands of my brother – from the hand ִ מ ַד ֵעָ ו: ִי- ֵיָרא ִנֹכי , אֹת -- of . I am afraid of him, for he can come ֶן - יָבא ִוְה ַנִי , ֵאם ַעל- .and kill us all – mothers and children alike ָנִים. ַוְאָ ה ַמרְָ , ֵה ֵיטב You once said, ‘I will make things go well with ֵא ִיטיב ִעָ ; ַוְמְ ִי אֶת- ַזרְ עֲ you, and make your descendants like the ְחל ַ הָם, אֲֶ ר א - יִָ ֵפר sand grains of the sea, which are too ֵ מרֹב. . ”’.numerous to count

How are the above prayers similar/different? Account for the differences. How do the quotes below help us understand the transformation Jacob went through?

Breishit 28:10

וֵַ ֵצא יַעֲקֹב, ִמ ְֵאר ָ ַבע; וֵַלֶ, Jacob left Beer-Sheva and headed חָרָ נָה. .toward Charan

Breishit 28:1-2

ַ ◌ִקְרָ א יִצְחָ ק אֶל - יַעֲקֹב, וַיְבָרֶ Isaac summoned Jacob and gave him a אֹת; וַ ַיְצ ֵה וַֹאמֶ ר ל, א - ִ ת ַח blessing and a charge. “Do not marry a ִאָ ה ִ מְנת ְַנָען. קם ֵל ֶַ נָה Canaanite girl,” he said. “Set out and go to

אֲרָ ם, ֵיתָ ה ֵבְתאל ִאֲבי ִאֶ ; Padan Aram, to the house of your maternal ַוְקח- לְ ִמָ ם ִאָ ה, ִמְנת לָבָ ן grandfather Bethuel. Marry a daughter of ִאֲחי ִאֶ . .your uncle

Breishit 29:11

וִַ ַק יַעֲקֹב, לְרָ ֵחל; וִַָ א אֶת - קֹל , וֵַבְְ. Jacob kissed and wept aloud.

Rashi Breishit 29:11

לפי שצפה ברוח הקודש Since he foresaw with the holy spirit that Rachel שאינה נכנסת עמו לקבורה . would not enter the grave with him. Another דבר אחר לפי שבא ביד ים explanation: Since he came empty-handed, he ריקניות , אמר אליעזר עבד said, “Eliezer, my grandfather’s servant, had אבי אבא היו בידיו נזמים nose rings, and bracelets and sweet fruits in his וצמידים ומגדנות , ואני אין possession, and I am coming with nothing in my בידי כלום. .hands

Breishit 29:18 וַ ֶַאֱהב יַעֲקֹב , אֶת- רָ ֵחל; וַ ֹ אמֶ ר , Jacob had fallen in love with Rachel. “I will אֶעֱבָדְ ֶ ַבע ָ נִים, ְרָ ֵחל ְִ , work for you seven years for Rachel, your ַ הְ ַטָה. .younger daughter.” he said

Breishit 29:20

וַ ַעֲבֹד יַעֲקֹב ְרָ ֵחל, ֶ ַבע ָ נִים; Jacob worked seven years for Rachel. But וִַהְי ֵבְעינָיו ְ ִיָמים אֲחָ ִדים , he loved her so much, it seemed like no ְהֲבָת אֹתָ . .more than a few days

Breishit 30:26

ְ נָה אֶת- ַנָי וְאֶת- ַיְלָדי , אֲֶ ר Let me have my wives and children, since I ַעָבדְ ִ י אֹתְ ֵָהן -- ֵוְא ֵלכָה: ִי have earned them by working for you, and I ַאָ ה ַיָדעְָ , אֶת - עֲבֹדָ ִתי אֲֶ ר will go. You are well aware of the service I ַעֲבדְ ִי. .have rendered you

Breishit 31:42

ֵללי אֱהקי ִבי אֱקי If the G-d of my fathers – the G-d of Abraham בְרָ הָ ם ַפ ַחד יִצְחָ ק , הָיָה ִלי- ,and the Dread of Isaac – had not been with me - ִי ַעָ ה, ֵריקָ ם ִ ַחְָ נִי; !you would have sent me away empty-handed אֶת- עָנְיִי וְאֶת- ִיְג ַיע ַ ַי , רָ ה But G-d saw my plight and the work of my ִאֱקים -- וַ ַכח מֶ . .hands. Last night He rendered judgment

Based on in Genesis:Beginning of Desire – Aviva Zornberg and “When Bad Things Happen to Good People” by Harold Kushner. Rabbi Levin-Kruss – [email protected]