Letter from the Rectory by the Reverend Brendan Martin Church
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ISSUE 133 JANUARY / FEBRUARY 2021 FREE SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF FRANT, ERIDGE & BELLS YEW GREEN Hoar Frost, Frant Green; January 2021 IN THIS ISSUE… 3 4 8 10 12 16 Letter from Church Services, The Year That Wealden MP Nus Frant Bowls Club What’s on in the the Rectory by features & News Was: Round-up Ghani updates is 100! Can you Parish: events, the Reverend from the Pews of the Parish News on the latest identify some of useful contacts Brendan Martin events of 2020 COVID-19 news the past members? & dates ADVERTISEMENTS PARISH NEWS From the Rectory 2021: A Year of Community. has been on hold. Will you join us (when the I write to you from my study as we are again in time is right after covid) to make 2021 a Year of lockdown, praying that with the vaccine it will Community? be the last one. At this point we must encourage Restarting, rebuilding, reimagining each other to continue to stay at home and community is going to be our church vision only go out for essential reasons. The numbers for 2021, and we would love everyone to get of cases and deaths this week has shown the involved! terrible cost of this disease once again and It will require a lot of initial energy and effort, we must do all we can to help and protect our and right now we are planning and preparing community and in light of this our church for how we can help build community again as services will remain online. we look past covid. Community is something I hear a lot of people talk in terms of everyone can get involved in. individuals making choices to put themselves We will re-establish groups that were lost, we at risk of covid, but I think this disease has will innovate from what we had, and we will get shown us more than anything else that there is new groups established. no individualism when it comes to covid, our Not yet! For now, we stay at home. For now, choices help or hinder the whole community, we keep each other safe. For now, we prepare not only ourselves. It is strange that at a time for when we can come back together again. when international travel has been curtailed, And when we do… what a joy it will be, to be when movement has been reduced, when together in community again. people are isolating, we actually realise just I look forward to a time we can meet together, how truly connected we are. We realise how without restrictions. Having got to the end important meeting up with people is. of 2019 I have spent more time in Frant in As we see a way out of covid, through Lockdown than not, and I look forward to lockdown and then vaccines, it is right to be getting to know people better in 2021. hopeful about the future. That connection that If anyone needs any help for any reason, made covid spread so quickly and easily, can please contact our church office. be utilised again to build the community that —Rev Brendan — 2 — — 3 — PARISH NEWS PARISH NEWS News from the pews Crib service, which has always had an send them a gift of money which helps In a year when one would think that attendance of around 200 people, to be to buy the ladies and children some St Alban’s, Frant & Holy Trinity, Eridge not much can have happened due to held in the Paddock. special Christmas treats. The sending lockdowns, isolations, limits on travel Then on 19th December on account of shoe boxes to eastern Europe which Rector etc, it’s amazing when we look back at of the escalating number of virus we have done for many years had to be The Reverend Brendan Martin — 01892 752003; [email protected] what an awful lot did happened, not cases, we heard that Kent was now suspended this year, instead we were perhaps in the way that we’re used to, in tier 4 category and no one from asked to send money. The response was but in different ways which have been Kent was permitted to attend church as always good and we were able to send super creative and imaginative. in another area. This brought home £300 to enable families with very little All the online services have to us how many of our congregation to receive a little Christmas joy. been good, but in November, the including Imtiaz, our Curate, live ‘over Anyone who has been to the Stables Remembrance Sunday on line service the border’, so once again Brendan recently will have seen that we now in which so many members of our two had at short notice to do some quick have a new studio building in the churches ranging in age from 2 to 96 rethinking and reorganising. After grounds. This is to be the Church years participated, was very special and much thought the difficult decision Office which has been made possible by www.frantchurch.org www.eridgechurch.org was watched and appreciated by over was made to cancel the outside crib donations from generous individuals Churchwardens Services for Churchwardens 170 people. It was a moving moment service, and put it online. The result for which we are very grateful. It will Jane Emler—532233 Jonathan Lynn—864304 when a trumpeter, standing at the heart was a charming presentation of the make a huge difference to the smooth January/February 2021 Stephen Barnes—861302 of the community outside the Memorial Christmas story done outside by our running of the Parish. Hall, sounded the last post. children and young people which In November we heard the sad news The Sunday afternoon Festival was watched by 222 households. On that Roy Dicker, husband of Audrey Church services and Junior Church Christmas morning services were held and former member of our church Forest School which were held in the in both Churches, but I don’t think it family had died. Roy served in the Rectory paddock, continued to grow in would be an exaggeration to say that Royal Air Force ultimately as a Group popularity but had to stop during the for the first time in living memory Captain, then as a teacher in London, November lockdown when we had to go there was no midnight Communion and in later years as a Lay Reader. He back online. service in the Parish as most of the had been ill and frail for a long time, so In spite of the rain, another very advanced bookings were cancelled. As although we can give thanks for his life special event was the open air Carol Imtiaz, who was to have led morning and that he is now at peace, it is still a service, to which people came wrapped services on December 27th was unable very sad time for Audrey to whom he in many layers and carrying flasks of to ‘cross the border’, we were very was married for 60 years, and for his hot drinks. The paddock was divided grateful to Lesley Lynn who led a joint family. into ‘pens’ for groups of six, separated morning service in Eridge church. Our Then just before Christmas it by strings of lights and torches, there Ministry team met all these challenges was a great shock when our Lay were also two blazing fire pits which brilliantly, and in spite of everything Reader, Roy Goodship died suddenly gave the impression of warmth! Christmas was celebrated in both of our and unexpectedly. Roy who lived An excellent brass quintet playing churches. in Sevenoaks with his wife Gifty, arrangements of a good selection of Christmas is the time when most of had been a regular member of our well-known carols certainly lifted us enjoy a bit of self indulgence, but congregation for about 10 years. As a the spirits, and a scratch choir of it’s also the time when our thoughts Lay Reader, he gave us some very good nine provided some singing which and prayers are with those who for and well informed sermons and was a was encouraging after nine months whatever reason are in need. This year tremendous help and support during without live singing. We also heard the our Christmas giving supported The the 18 month period of interregnum. well-known Christmas Bible readings Diocese of Chichester Family Support Recently during lockdown he sent us and Rev Brendan gave three short Work, a charity which provides help to regular scriptural reflections online. A reflections on Christmas - the first all kinds of families in Sussex, those solicitor by profession, Roy worked as a Christmas when a child was born to of all faiths or none. Families which volunteer for the international charity Despite the restrictions during this present time, things are still happening behind the scenes. suffer, the traditional Christmas as we are struggling with issues such as The Gideons and he also led Sunday We want to let you know about these and keep in touch with you. have always known it, and then how poverty, ill health, learning difficulties, services in care homes in the Sevenoaks very different this Christmas would be bereavement, family break up and area. He was a scholarly man with a dry Please see our websites for the list of articles and to get up-to-date news and information. for everyone. domestic abuse. We were able to send sense of humour, who used his gifts and Videos of Services and Sermons on YouTube are also available via the websites.